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Parenting版 - what should I tell my son
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z**********i
发帖数: 88
1
Today my son's teacher told me that my son bites another boy, because that
boy pushed my son onto the floor and pushed his head. My son never bites,
this time I am sure he is too angry and can't move. I will tell him not to
bite. But just to think that boy bully my son, I feel heart broken.
What should I do to help him defend but not to bite?
Thanks
y***y
发帖数: 4957
2
多大的娃?受委屈拉,PAT PAT
z**********i
发帖数: 88
3
he is 5 year old. Very shy boy. he won't bite until he is desperately
hopeless.
d**k
发帖数: 797
4
tell him Good Job!

【在 z**********i 的大作中提到】
: he is 5 year old. Very shy boy. he won't bite until he is desperately
: hopeless.

s***n
发帖数: 2366
5
告诉他如有下次,用拳头和脚。

【在 z**********i 的大作中提到】
: Today my son's teacher told me that my son bites another boy, because that
: boy pushed my son onto the floor and pushed his head. My son never bites,
: this time I am sure he is too angry and can't move. I will tell him not to
: bite. But just to think that boy bully my son, I feel heart broken.
: What should I do to help him defend but not to bite?
: Thanks

s*y
发帖数: 18644
6
5岁咬人很严重啦,多带他去锻炼身体参加体育运动吧,最好是集体项目的。

【在 z**********i 的大作中提到】
: he is 5 year old. Very shy boy. he won't bite until he is desperately
: hopeless.

s******y
发帖数: 2361
7
5岁的娃会说话了 按规矩是一被人用力气了 就大喊 STOP 说自己不喜欢这样 声音
大的要能让老师听到吓一跳(在家跟娃多练习这个,很有用)
要是对方不住手 老师半天过不来 就对对方用力气到对方不能再继续伤害自己 坚决
不能让人就那么欺负了
反正嘴不能闲着 要嚷嚷 大声的
M********8
发帖数: 3837
8
没啥错的。你既然知道自己儿子是很害羞的,不到逼急了不动手,就不能处罚他,应该
教育他更好的防卫方式。
比如一路打回去一路说stop, 单单说stop没用的,一定要手嘴并用。咬人不能给对方造
成很大伤害,也未必能阻止人,不如正经去学点跆拳道,空手道。我认为男生一定要有
防卫并且攻击的力量,人不犯我,我不犯人,人若犯我,我必犯人。
m******e
发帖数: 536
9
这个难道不是正当防卫吗?我记得小的时候,和表姐打架,被咬了。还破皮了,哭滴滴
的。后来就不怎么敢招惹她了。
所以看来也不是什么坏事,只要不主动去攻击就好。要教育男孩子怎么保护自己就是了
w********t
发帖数: 18315
10
good job but not nice

【在 z**********i 的大作中提到】
: Today my son's teacher told me that my son bites another boy, because that
: boy pushed my son onto the floor and pushed his head. My son never bites,
: this time I am sure he is too angry and can't move. I will tell him not to
: bite. But just to think that boy bully my son, I feel heart broken.
: What should I do to help him defend but not to bite?
: Thanks

s*********e
发帖数: 4475
11
You should talk to the boy's parent, not your son.
You should ask the teacher whether she did anything to prevent this from
happening.

that
bites,
to

【在 z**********i 的大作中提到】
: Today my son's teacher told me that my son bites another boy, because that
: boy pushed my son onto the floor and pushed his head. My son never bites,
: this time I am sure he is too angry and can't move. I will tell him not to
: bite. But just to think that boy bully my son, I feel heart broken.
: What should I do to help him defend but not to bite?
: Thanks

z**********i
发帖数: 88
12
谢谢大家的建议,我跟他说了,下次遇到这种情况,使劲说stop,把对方推开,踢开,
但是别咬。我儿子说他没有咬他,是这个男孩把手指头放在我儿子嘴巴里,我儿子闭嘴
之前他还没有拿出手来。听得我一愣一愣的。原文是这样的:he put his figure into
my mouth and didn't get it back before I close my mouth.
晕倒。
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