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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 3 Pay no attention to the class clown. Jokers, or class clowns, devote their
time and energy to providing comic relief for the classroom. When you are in
the mood for the class clown’s antics, their jokes are hilarious; when you
are not in the mood, their attempts and humor can drive you mad.
Since class clowns thrive on the reaction of their “crowd,” the best way
to
ignore a joker is to have no physical or verbal reaction to their jokes.
Class clowns aim to please and are highly sensitive to criticism. If
you can not remain silent, a choice remark could put a temporary end to
their comedy bit.[5]
•If you get in trouble for something the class clown did, don’t
overreact. Remain calm and ask the teacher to speak with you after class.
When you are speaking one on one with the teacher, explain your side of the
story and apologize for any inconvenience you may have caused. Work with
your teacher to develop a plan on how to avoid situations like this in the
future.
【在 d****g 的大作中提到】
: http://www.wikihow.com/Ignore-Annoying-Classmates
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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 4 Limit your interactions with competitive students. Overly competitive
students thrive on the knowledge that they are better than others. Their
determination to prove themselves as superior students can leave others in
the class feeling unintelligent and overlooked.
If a competitive classmate asks you how you did on an assignment, they are
just looking for chance to brag about their score. When this happens, just
walk away.
If their pestering persists, tell them that you prefer to keep your grades
private.[6
] •For example, you may say: “Sorry, I like to keep that kind of
information to myself,” “You did really well on the test. Thanks for
sharing your score; I prefer to keep mine private,” or “Please stop asking
me. I am not comfortable sharing my grade with you.”
【在 d****g 的大作中提到】
: http://www.wikihow.com/Ignore-Annoying-Classmates
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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 5 这样的娃我见过。你球踢的再好，去抢别人的球，显摆自己很厉害，是超级ＲＵＤＥ。
好不好！
[6
asking
【在 d****g 的大作中提到】
: Limit your interactions with competitive students. Overly competitive
: students thrive on the knowledge that they are better than others. Their
: determination to prove themselves as superior students can leave others in
: the class feeling unintelligent and overlooked.
: If a competitive classmate asks you how you did on an assignment, they are
: just looking for chance to brag about their score. When this happens, just
: walk away.
: If their pestering persists, tell them that you prefer to keep your grades
: private.[6
: ] •For example, you may say: “Sorry, I like to keep that kind of
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d****g
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发帖数: 7460 | 7 这个写的一点都不靠谱。。老师都这么想可完蛋了。
【在 d****g 的大作中提到】
: http://www.educationworld.com/a_curr/shore/shore035.shtml
: Students Who "Bother" Classmates
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n****f
发帖数: 3580 | 8 只要不是比自己小孩大很多， 都该小孩自己解决。 父母管多了，小孩会不会失去自己
解决的欲望和能力？
那个小孩是不是认为你娃好欺负？
和我娃同龄的，或者个子差不多的， 我敢说没人敢欺负他。 |
M********s
发帖数: 24729 | 9 这个娃家庭有大问题，他把他的怒气向外释放，你娃越不会拒绝他越挑衅，因为他操控
了你娃他占了上风，你在适当的时候要出击让他滚，少来劲（以后有监狱等着他），放
心，他邪恶的心思会很快转移到下一个目标上的，他其实可怜，但你要保护你娃，并在
适当的时候告诉他为什么
【在 d****g 的大作中提到】
: 这个写的一点都不靠谱。。老师都这么想可完蛋了。
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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 10 更新一下。我去接娃时问了问。
我说 Is 某某某 Annoying? Does he bother you?
我大娃说，５０ ５０吧。50% of the time, he is crazy. 50% of the time, he is
OK. Does he bother he? No, I am fine with him.
我二娃说，Yes! He is super annoying. No one likes him. He is a chatter box.
blah. blah.. Sometimes I can't stand him, I just walk away.
所以这个超级凡人娃，他是Bully？还是被Bully？貌似都很难说了。家长还是应该关心
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k**n
发帖数: 6198 | 11 O,
stereotype or profiling?：）
【在 d****g 的大作中提到】
: 更新一下。我去接娃时问了问。
: 我说 Is 某某某 Annoying? Does he bother you?
: 我大娃说，５０ ５０吧。50% of the time, he is crazy. 50% of the time, he is
: OK. Does he bother he? No, I am fine with him.
: 我二娃说，Yes! He is super annoying. No one likes him. He is a chatter box.
: blah. blah.. Sometimes I can't stand him, I just walk away.
: 所以这个超级凡人娃，他是Bully？还是被Bully？貌似都很难说了。家长还是应该关心
: 下娃的social能力。
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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 12 这种负能量，说别人坏话的帖子，我一般不发。但最近这不是“因故”吗。我娃的好朋
友说某个同学老“闹”我娃。。。这不一下子就担心孩子被ＢＵＬＬＹ。所以研究了一
下。
而且，其实这些闹人行为，自己的娃也容易犯。好比过度的以骚扰为目的的臭显摆。引
以为戒。
【在 k**n 的大作中提到】
: O,
: stereotype or profiling?：）
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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 13 你太正确了。太有前瞻性了。
事实证明，娃和同学的接触过程中，自然的学会怎么处理这些问题。
【在 n****f 的大作中提到】
: 只要不是比自己小孩大很多， 都该小孩自己解决。 父母管多了，小孩会不会失去自己
: 解决的欲望和能力？
: 那个小孩是不是认为你娃好欺负？
: 和我娃同龄的，或者个子差不多的， 我敢说没人敢欺负他。
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k**n
发帖数: 6198 | 14 看看，招了吧。回到你的老帖子，自己娃怎么看看怎么好
貌似这分类对大人也适用，就是别人更耐受而已
【在 d****g 的大作中提到】
: 这种负能量，说别人坏话的帖子，我一般不发。但最近这不是“因故”吗。我娃的好朋
: 友说某个同学老“闹”我娃。。。这不一下子就担心孩子被ＢＵＬＬＹ。所以研究了一
: 下。
: 而且，其实这些闹人行为，自己的娃也容易犯。好比过度的以骚扰为目的的臭显摆。引
: 以为戒。
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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 15 不要老欺负扮猪吃老虎的。
【在 k**n 的大作中提到】
: 看看，招了吧。回到你的老帖子，自己娃怎么看看怎么好
: 貌似这分类对大人也适用，就是别人更耐受而已
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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 16 算了，我还是直面自己家的娃虽然不是一百步的猪，也是二十步的猪。
只有老美的娃是真正的manner 好，彬彬有礼。
【在 d****g 的大作中提到】
: 不要老欺负扮猪吃老虎的。
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