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发帖数: 2153 | 1 Homeless Youth: The Next Battle for LGBT Equality
NEW YORK - Iro Uikka clutches his throat as he describes the violent clash
that led to spending his nights sleeping in New York City subway cars.
"When I told my mother I was gay, she grabbed me by the neck and threw me
out," he says. "Then she threw my coat on top of me and shut the door."
That was five years ago when he was 18, still living at home in Florida.
Uikka is among tens of thousands of homeless youths across America who are
LGBT - lesbian, gay, bisexual or transgender. Most are on the streets
because they have nowhere else to go - outcasts who leave home after being
rejected by family members or flee shelters because residents bully or beat
them.
LGBT young people represent a dramatically high proportion of an estimated
600,000 or more homeless youths across the country - between 20 percent and
40 percent, according to the National Gay and Lesbian Task Force Policy
Institute. But only about 5 percent of youths identify themselves as lesbian
, gay or bisexual, according to the federal Centers for Disease Control and
Prevention.
"We’ve won battles for gay marriage and gays in the military," says Carl
Siciliano, founder and executive director of the New York-based Ali Forney
Center, the nation’s largest organization for LGBT youth. "This is the next
frontier, the next battle: helping these youths."
The White House has taken notice. Members of the Obama Administration are
hosting a national conference on housing and homelessness in America’s LGBT
communities on Friday in Detroit. They’ll discuss these issues with
advocates, community leaders and the public.
Detroit City Council President Charles Pugh, who is openly gay, is one of
the participants.
"I take this discussion personally because I know too many people who have
been kicked out of their homes because of their orientation," he told The
Associated Press. "To get this kind of attention from the White House is
exactly what we need to raise conscientiousness and to help parents find a
way to deal with their kids’ orientation."
Detroit has the only nonprofit agency in the Midwest that focuses on LGBT
youth - the Ruth Ellis Center, co-host of the Friday conference. But the
largely voiceless, powerless youth are fighting to survive from coast to
coast.
They live on streets, in subways and train stations, on river piers, in
parks and abandoned houses. They’re robbed, raped and assaulted. Some are
murdered.
And they’re invisible to most Americans.
Lesbian, gay and bisexual youth are about four times more likely to attempt
suicide than their straight peers, according to the CDC. And one in three is
thrown out by their parents, according to data collected from youth across
the country by the Family Acceptance Project at San Francisco State
University.
Some youth use "survival sex" to land in a warm bed, or they move from home
to home of friends and acquaintances.
In the past, Ryan Kennedy resorted to survival sex. He lists his education
on Facebook as "Urban Survivalism at University of NYC Streets." He adopted
a rebellious middle name for his page, calling himself "Ryan TransEquality
Kennedy."
"I wouldn’t be alive today if I didn’t get some help," says Kennedy, a
transgender youth whose Connecticut family threw him out at 15. He says he
was a girl who felt like a boy. He’s now transitioning to male.
After years living on the streets, Kennedy, now 22, has a bed thanks to The
Door, a New York nonprofit that offers shelter, food, counseling and job
training programs.
On any given day, there are almost 4,000 homeless youths in New York City,
and at least 1,000 are LGBT, according to a 2008 census released by the City
Council.
Meager government funds and private donations cover about 350 New York beds
for homeless youth. Hundreds more are on waiting lists, providers say.
For the past two years, the New York legislature has cut funding to support
homeless youth shelters in general by about 70 percent.
Somehow, these vulnerable Americans survive, without beds.
Each night, some fill tables at a fast-food shop off Manhattan’s Union
Square. One is a lively 19-year-old bisexual man from Virginia.
When he leaves in the late evening, Baresco Escobar goes to the far end of
Brooklyn to sleep in an abandoned house with dozens of homeless kids,
covering bare floors with blankets and cuddling for warmth.
"Home is where you’re supposed to have stability, unconditional love,
support, a foundation," he says. Instead, back in Virginia, "I was in a
place of dysfunction, with expectations that didn’t apply to me - full of
judgment, discrimination and hypocrisy."
Escobar goes to the Ali Forney drop-in center on Manhattan’s West Side,
which offers clothing, counseling, workshops in life skills, showers,
laundry facilities and HIV testing. A nurse is available for quick checkups,
sending clients for follow-ups with doctors.
Escobar couldn’t get into Ali Forney’s emergency housing units, which have
a total of 47 beds in Brooklyn and Queens assigned for a few months at a
time. The center also has limited transitional housing where residents get
coached on how to prepare for job or school interviews.
The Ali Forney Center opened in 2002. Siciliano named it after a transgender
youth who was kicked out of his home at 13. He was found shot to death on a
Harlem sidewalk in 1997, at 22. By then, he had become a counselor to his
homeless friends.
Siciliano knows of five other LGBT youths who were murdered in New York over
the years.
Despite the hardships, the city is a magnet for young people who grew up
with conservative traditions, whether among immigrants from Caribbean and
Asian countries or parts of the United States where residents are less
accepting of sexual diversity.
Gizmo Lopez, 19, comes from a staunchly Catholic family with Puerto Rican
roots. She now sleeps on the subway.
"I’m bisexual, and my stepfather didn’t approve; he said it’s wrong,"
said the teenager, whose mother died two years ago.
Her father moved to Puerto Rico with her two half-brothers, leaving her
behind - alone in the family’s apartment on Manhattan’s Lower East Side.
One day afternoon, when she came home from school, "I found a pink slip on
the door."
She was evicted.
"I took my stuff, cried and left," she says. "We’re nomads."
In the Midwest, the only nonprofit agency that focuses on LGBT youth is
Detroit’s Ruth Ellis Center, which offers meals and other basic services
and has 10 beds.
The support saved Demetrius Smith, an 18-year-old who left his great-
grandmother’s Michigan farm years ago because "she whipped me, and she beat
me with an umbrella because she thought I acted like a girl."
He bought food and other necessities by working as an escort. That ended
last August. An older friend is letting Smith stay with him and the teenager
is finishing high school.
Siciliano believes there’s a new reason for the rising number of LGBT
youths seeking shelter. As some states legalize gay marriage and the
military welcomes openly gay soldiers, "many kids think, ’Oh, I’m ready to
come out,’" he says.
As a result, the average age of young people declaring their sexuality - or
at least sharing their doubts - has dropped dramatically in recent years to
as young as the early teens, according to Family Acceptance Project.
Some families are not ready for them, nor are segments of society, he says.
Each rejection turns into a homeless youth looking for a bed. And there aren
’t enough.
"These kids are the collateral damage of our cultural wars," Siciliano says.
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发帖数: 2153 | 2 http://www.cceh.org/files/publications/New_Youth_and_LGBT_Homel
LGBT individuals are overrepresented among homeless youth. The National
Alliance to End Homelessness estimates that approximately 300,000 LGBT youth
each year experience at least one night of homelessness in
the United States.13
Two sub-populations of youth particularly vulnerable to housing instability
and homelessness are those
with criminal justice involvement and lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender
youth (LGBT). LGBT youth
comprise 6% of the homeless youth population according to the National
Network of Runaway and Youth
Services (other prevalence estimates range from 11% to 35%).14
Many young individuals have been removed from their homes after being denied
from their parents over their sexual
orientation. Countless resort to attempting suicide due to feelings of
hopelessness.15 “62% of homeless gay and
transgendered youth attempt suicide.”16 | m******8
发帖数: 2153 | 3 Would you ever adopt homeless gay teens/gay foster kids who were thrown out
of their house?
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080602130349AANDE
Obama Administration Seeks To Address Homeless Crisis Among Gay Teens
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2011/06/01/obama-administration-g
我和我的伴都有这想法,将来条件成熟了,可以考虑领个LES. 责任挺多的, 现在得多挣
钱呀. | m******1
发帖数: 19713 | 4 太可怜了，好像老美里的反同家长比老中里的狠多了啊。我还没见过或听过我朋友里有
被家长赶出家门的，不过也许是因为我朋友的家长都是受过点教育的人？ |
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