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n**b
发帖数: 13203
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原来在公司脾气差可以多挣18%!!!
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB1000142405311190482380457650276
Hey, You! Mean People Earn More, Study Finds
By RACHEL EMMA SILVERMAN
It may not pay to be nice in the workplace.
A new study finds that agreeable workers earn significantly lower incomes
than less agreeable ones. The gap is especially wide for men.
The researchers examined "agreeableness" using self-reported survey data and
found that men who measured below average on agreeableness earned about 18%
more—or $9,772... 阅读全帖
k***n
发帖数: 11247
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樓主可以去看看有關personality的分析,wiki上有,一項重要的人格特質就是
agreeable與否,有些人個性agreeable,容易順從別人,有些人不是,喜歡反駁別人。
。。。這種特質是基因決定的,很小就定型了,經過多年也不會變化。。。所以你自己
和你媽個性相像,很大部分是遺傳造成,不用太自責
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Big_Five_personality_traits
Agreeableness
Main article: Agreeableness
Agreeableness is a tendency to be compassionate and cooperative rather than
suspicious and antagonistic towards others. The trait reflects individual
differences in general concern for social harmony. Agreeable individuals
value getting along with... 阅读全帖
d**********i
发帖数: 524
3
来自主题: Military版 - 基因详情 参考文献
We did find a significant association between political conservatism and
rs10952668 (Table 5). This SNP lies in LOC642355, a pseudogene on chromosome
7. Not surprisingly, the SNP also showed an association with the highly
correlated trait of Democrat versus Republican (b=0.260, P<
.02). 
An interesting finding was that the SNP associated with political
conservatism, rs10952668, also showed marginal evidence for association with
the personality traits openness (b=0.142, P<.06) and
ag... 阅读全帖
d**********i
发帖数: 524
4
【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: dayuguanshui (大禹灌水), 信区: Military
标 题: 基因认为我是自由派 不是保守派
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Feb 3 09:53:44 2018, 美东)
We did find a significant association between political conservatism and
rs10952668 (Table 5). This SNP lies in LOC642355, a pseudogene on chromosome
7. Not surprisingly, the SNP also showed an association with the highly
correlated trait of Democrat versus Republican (b=0.260, P<
.02). 
An interesting finding was that the SNP associated with political
cons... 阅读全帖
J******s
发帖数: 7538
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来自主题: Wisdom版 - 正语经文辑要-zz
八正道
正语经文辑要
汤华俊 编辑翻译 2005年7月
英文原文网址:Right Speech
The definition
"And what is right speech? Abstaining from lying, from divisive speech, from
abusive speech, & from idle chatter: This is called right speech." — SN
XLV.8
定义:
诸比丘!云何为正语耶?诸比丘!离虚诳语、离离间语、离粗恶语、离杂秽语。诸比丘!此
名之为正语。
——《相应部*大篇*道相应*无明品*分别》
Five keys to right speech
"Monks, a statement endowed with five factors is well-spoken, not ill-spoken
. It is blameless & unfaulted by knowledgeable people. Which five?
"It is spoken at the right time. ... 阅读全帖

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来自主题: Military版 - @疮破又被耍了
Pelosi提了裤子就不认人了。现在告诉疮破STOU短期之内没戏。
我估计三星期内肯定没有STOU。
“The State of the Union is not planned now,” she said during a press
conference after President Trump announced the government would reopen for
three weeks without funding for his border wall. “What I’d said to the
President was when the government is opened we would discuss a mutually
agreeable date and I look forward to doing that and welcoming the President
to the House of Representatives for the State of the Union when we agree on
that mutua... 阅读全帖
g******t
发帖数: 18158
7

Union
想的美,Pelosi提了裤子就不认人了
蘑菇头和 Pelosi 相比,既不够强硬,也不够狡猾
“The State of the Union is not planned now,” she said during a press
conference after President Trump announced the government would reopen for
three weeks without funding for his border wall. “What I’d said to the
President was when the government is opened we would discuss a mutually
agreeable date and I look forward to doing that and welcoming the President
to the House of Representatives for the State of the Union when we agree on
that mu... 阅读全帖
j*e
发帖数: 1987
8
楼上的讽刺挖苦的都别太自命清高了,知之为知之,不知为不知。
知道为什么了,dealer要知道我的zip code,就是要看我是不是离他们够近,然后如果
我离他们够近,他就不给我网上报价,让我直接去店里谈。如果离得太远,他们才给你
网上报价。
我后来给了他们zip code,他们还是没给报价,回信(已经是他给我的第三封信了)说
“If the numbers are agreeable and affordable and we are the best price what
time today, if not tomorrow should we expect you?
Let me know, I am happy to have those number run up! ”
之前一封信说,
“Thank you for your email!
What zip code in Ma is the vehicle being registered in?
We will not know the rate for financing privatly or with the com... 阅读全帖
D******r
发帖数: 5237
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这个颜色瞅着像Sherwin Williams Agreeable Gray
http://www.houzz.com/Sherwin-Williams-Agreeable-Gray
c******e
发帖数: 263
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - Terrible2的小娃不听话 怎么管教啊
挺典型的,看下面的文章,希望有帮助。
http://www.cpnonline.org/CRS/CRS/pa_bnegativ_hhg.htm
Negative, Stubborn Toddler
Why is my child so negative?
Negativism is a normal phase most children go through between 18 months and
3 years of age. It begins when children discover they have the power to
refuse other people's requests. During this time, children respond
negatively to many requests, including pleasant ones. In general, they are
stubborn rather than cooperative. They delight in refusing a suggestion,
whether i... 阅读全帖
M********t
发帖数: 1718
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朋友发给我的网上的材料,挺有道理的:
Negative, Stubborn Toddler
Why is my child so negative?
Negativism is a normal phase most children go through between 18 months and
3 years of age. It begins when children discover they have the power to
refuse other people's requests. During this time, children respond
negatively to many requests, including pleasant ones. In general, they are
stubborn rather than cooperative. They delight in refusing a suggestion,
whether it's about getting dressed or taking off their clothes... 阅读全帖
l****s
发帖数: 113
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http://www.bullock.cn/blogs/tdtw1/archives/129284.aspx
自钓鱼岛撞船事件以来,最近网上又掀起了一股论证该岛“自古以来就是中国神圣而不
可分割的一部
分”的风潮。这钓鱼岛可能古代的时候还确实是中国的一部分,但是到43年之后还是不
是可就不好说
了。如果你看过台湾热血保钓男马英九在“钓鱼台列屿问题学术研讨会”上的发言《钓
鱼台问题简
析》,就会发现里面有一段看似轻描淡写、实则异常蛋疼的文字:
“二次大战后,罗斯福跟史达林想把琉球交给中国,但是中国觉得琉球当年是日本占领
的,所以希望琉
球独立。结果是先由美军先托管,以后再说。美军托管琉球时发布的第一号命令,就是
划出托管区,
而公布的托管区经纬度地图包含钓鱼台列屿,但是当时中华民国政府却没有反应。为何
会如此?有人
立委质询过后来的外交部政务次长沈剑虹先生,他说是为了区域的安全,所以没有表示
意见。”
不仅是马英九,在另一篇关于“钓鱼台列屿问题学术研讨会”的报导《争钓鱼台,国际
法不利台湾》
中,几位学者都提到问题的关键就在于蒋介石在二战时期主动放弃了琉球群岛的主权,
并且在未来的
二十... 阅读全帖
c****s
发帖数: 5892
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卑诗大学(UBC)研究证实,「以貌取人」确有其事。无论男女,仪表出众者比较容易在短时间内取得他人的注意及好感,甚至认为美貌者较外貌平庸者具有更好的人格特质,如组织力及慷慨等,但事实并非如此。
UBC心理系最新研究显示「以貌取人」确有其事,在与人短暂接触的过程中,外貌姣好,仪表出众者较容易取得对方的关注及好感,并对其人格特质产生高于实际的认同。
这份刊登于著名期刊「心理科学」(Psychological Science)的研究由UBC心理系教授毕善兹(Jeremy Biesanz)主持,将75名男女分成5到11人的小组,成员间各别进行三分钟的一对一谈话,接着各自为对方及自己打分数。
评分标准有「仪表吸引力」(physical attractiveness)及「心胸开放」、「有责任感」(conscientiousness)、「外向」(extraversion)、「讨人喜欢」(Agreeableness)与「神经质」(neuroticism)等五项人格特质。
透过分析及比较这些评分,研究人员即可获知参与者对每一个谈话对象的认知是否与对方自认为的人格特质相符。
研究结果发现人们只要认为某人长得... 阅读全帖
f**d
发帖数: 768
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很有趣的研究
ScienceDaily (May 2, 2011) — People who look at the past through
rose-tinted glasses are happier than those who focus on negative past
experiences and regrets, according to a new study published in the
journal Personality and Individual Differences. The study helps
explain why personality has such a strong influence on a person's
happiness. The findings suggest that persons with certain personality
traits are happier than others because of the way they think about their
past, present and ... 阅读全帖
w********9
发帖数: 8613
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来自主题: History版 - 1943年蒋介石拒收琉球群岛
连不上。补上相关内容。

“”“”“”“”“”“”“”
During a private dinner with the Chiangs on the evening of November 23,
President Roosevelt asked Chiang China's intentions regarding the Ryukyu
Islands. According to the memorandum written by the Chinese side (Roosevelt'
s special assistant Harry Hopkins was present but did not apparently take
notes), "The President referred to the question of the Ryukyu Islands and
enquired more than once whether China would want the Ryukyus." To this,
Chiang reportedly replied that... 阅读全帖
d******c
发帖数: 1069
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这人心里可能有点喜欢那种令人愉悦的忧伤(agreeable melancholy),这次碰到了红楼
梦这个悲剧结局的题材,估计是爽坏了.
t***m
发帖数: 459
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我擦!这都记得!
Parts of seventeenth-century Chinese pleasure gardens were not necessarily
intended to look_____; they were designed expressly to evoke the agreeable
melancholy resulting from a sense of the ______of natural beauty and human
glory.
(A) beautiful...immutability
(B) cheerful...transitoriness
(C) colorful...abstractness
(D) luxuriant...simplicity
(E) conventional...wildness
G****e
发帖数: 11198
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公民课第二课: 公民素质 - 政丅府丑闻
第一课:
http://mitbbs.com/pc/pccon_1027_140723.html
原始来源:http://www.bullogger.com/blogs/1bao/archives/368882.aspx
编辑说明:文章不短,大略可分成两个部分,不习惯看长文的话,就分两次看完吧;我
说一五一十好久没更新了……
公民课第二课:...原始来源:http://www.bullogger.com/blogs/1bao/archives/368882.aspx
编辑说明:文章不短,大略可分成两个部分,不习惯看长文的话,就分两次看完吧;我
说一五一十好久没更新了……
公民课第二课: 公民素质
翟明磊
公民课第二课终于出来了,来之不易。让我感动的:面对九万听众,一直播到周日凌晨
,朋友们坐了四个小时不肯散去。因腰疼我休息了两天,就在这随后两天, 众多朋友
完整地转播全堂课程。虽然因一五一十网站被端,我国内的博客平台暂时没有了。但是
,朋友们,是你们给了我继续上下去的希望。现在在网友西西弗斯帮 助下,讲稿整理
出来了,请看!
#没有广播电台##... 阅读全帖
w******i
发帖数: 736
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来自主题: Military版 - 欧洲大陆重燃战火!
AGREEABLY TO SEE THIS...
p******o
发帖数: 9007
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来自主题: Military版 - 是蒋介石拒绝接收琉球吗(zz)
这是弯弯在蒋介石拒收硫球岛问题上的考证。
http://forum.u-car.com.tw/thread.asp?forumid=202803
如果你看過台灣熱血保釣男馬英九在“釣魚台列嶼問題學術研討會”上的發言《釣魚台
問題簡析》,就會發現裡面有一段看似輕描淡寫、實則異常蛋疼的文字:
“二次大戰後,羅斯福跟史達林想把琉球交給中國,但是中國覺得琉球當年是日本占領
的,所以希望琉球獨立。結果是先由美軍先托管,以後再說。美軍托管琉球時發布的第
一號命令,就是劃出托管區,而公布的托管區經緯度地圖包含釣魚台列嶼,但是當時中
華民國政府卻沒有反應。為何會如此?有人立委質詢過後來的外交部政務次長沈劍虹先
生,他說是為了區域的安全,所以沒有表示意見。”
不僅是馬英九,在另一篇關於“釣魚台列嶼問題學術研討會”的報導《爭釣魚台,國際
法不利台灣》中,幾位學者都提到問題的關鍵就在於蔣介石在二戰時期主動放棄了琉球
群島的主權,並且在未來的二十多年裡從來沒有提出過任何異議。大陸這邊同樣有多篇
文章提到,在1943年開羅會議期間,蔣介石曾攜王寵惠與羅斯福單獨談話,席間羅斯福
詢問蔣介石是否想要索回琉球主權,蔣... 阅读全帖
r********1
发帖数: 7345
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The parents of a 16-year-old girl run over by San Francisco Fire Department
rigs after she was ejected during the 2013 Asiana Airlines crash dismissed
their wrongful death lawsuit against the city.
Ye Meng Yuan was thrown from the Boeing 777 as it crashed while landing at
San Francisco International Airport on July 6, 2013. She wound up on the
ground, where she was sprayed with flame-retardant foam and then run over by
two Fire Department rigs — one of which had earlier been directed around
her ... 阅读全帖
s*******1
发帖数: 16479
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真是太无耻了
World leaders at the G20 summit in Turkey have made fresh overtures to the
Russian president Vladimir Putin to reach a deal to unite against Isis and
end the Syrian civil war in the wake of terror attacks in Paris on Friday
and the recent downing of a Russian plane in Sinai.
In a bid to persuade Putin that Russia had a shared interest in ending the
Syrian civil war on mutually agreeable terms, President Obama held an
unscheduled 35-minute meeting on Sunday at the summit of the world’s 20
... 阅读全帖
c****x
发帖数: 6601
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b_d5kjFp3Sk&t=31m
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CQELHJx8Vf0&t=32m5s
The Soviet Union did.
The Central Asian Stans were very agreeable places to be when the Soviet
Union bust up.
They had the disgusting alcohol. They drank there.
Incredible. The world's most relaxed Muslims drinking this hooch
very pleasant company.
看看几个前苏联斯坦们过得日子,男人可以喝酒,女人可以读书上班,国家有苏联的工
业化援助,老百姓有工作。穆斯林都是世俗和真正温和的穆斯林。从来没听说什么吉尔
吉斯斯坦、塔吉克斯坦等国的穆斯林去参加圣战斩首的。
俄罗斯有20%的穆斯林,除了靠近土耳其的车臣穆斯林,基本上都还算世俗和平。这就
是为什么俄罗斯... 阅读全帖
t*******a
发帖数: 4055
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“剑桥分析”:西方不是不做群众工作,而是很会做
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一家名叫“剑桥分析”(Cambrige Analytica)的公司突然火了,英国电视四台通过一
系列的调查暗访,发现了这个据说在选举中无往不利的造势公司。它不但是5000万脸书
用户个人信息泄露的源头,而且据说还在特朗普的胜选和英国脱欧中立下了首功。
目前该公司的CEO亚历山大·尼克斯因为在暗访视频中大放厥词,声称可以用“金钱和
乌克兰美女”炮制丑闻构陷政敌,已经被公司停职并“划清界限”。然而在笔者——一
个就群众工作为题撰写过论文的研究僧看来:这恰恰说明“剑桥分析”的杀手锏并非是
喜闻乐见的“金钱与美女”。这家公司的本质是个负责“群众工作”的公司,而且是进
行“地下群众工作”的公司。他们依靠互联网和大数据“深入群众”进行调查,根据群
众不同的口味,“从群众中来,到群众中去”地开展工作,并且通过众多“马甲”,神
龙见首不见尾地畅游在互联网的“人民群众汪洋大海”之中。
中共在历史教训中总结出来的群... 阅读全帖
g********d
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来自主题: QueerNews版 - Optimism Expressed on Senate Vote Tonight
NY Leaders Tweaking Marriage Equality Amendments; Optimism Expressed on
Senate Vote Tonight
The latest report following a meeting of Governor Andrew Cuomo, Senate
Majority Leader Dean Skelos, and Assembly speaker Sheldon Silver from the
Times Union's Jimmy Vielkind:
Ny “We’re closing the few, outstanding, technical issues on rent
regulations,” said Skelos, R-Long Island. He predicted action on everything
“hopefully today but certainly by tomorrow.”
Skelos also hinted that his conference and Cuom... 阅读全帖
a***u
发帖数: 100
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来自主题: RuralChina版 - "Unintended Consequences"
by Deepak Lal
ISBN 0-262-12210-3
I have not finished it yet. There are some wonderful points,
though may not agreeable by lots of other people.
"Shame" and "guilty" are two distinct characters differentiating
eastern and western societies.
c**i
发帖数: 6973
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【 以下文字转载自 Japan 讨论区 】
发信人: choi (choi), 信区: Japan
标 题: US Peers into Japan and Sees Itself
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Oct 30 14:32:09 2010, 美东)
peer (vi): " to look searchingly at something difficult to discern"
All English definitions are from www.m-w.com.
Martin Fackler and Steve Lohr, U.S. Hears Echo of Japan’s Woes; Striking
Parrells Seen in Economic Slump. New York Times, Oct. 30, 2010.
http://www.nytimes.com/2010/10/30/world/asia/30japan.html?src=twrhp&scp=1&sq=fackler%20japan&st=cse
Window in t... 阅读全帖
l****z
发帖数: 29846
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By Andrew G. Bostom
Once again a mere flicker -- in this case burning a copy of the Koran in
Florida -- has ignited the inferno of deeply seated infidel-hatred that
pervades the contemporary Muslim world, precipitating violence, death, and
general mayhem amongst our Afghan " allies."
This eruption was hardly pastor Terry Jones' fault. The insane orgy of
murderous Muslim violence in Afghanistan was a direct result of Islamic
doctrine. Jones' simple non-violent act effectively administered a
diag... 阅读全帖
l****z
发帖数: 29846
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Panetta Book Bombshell: Challenges to Obama's Legitimacy Affected His
Presidency
By Jack Cashill
Largely lost in the hubbub over former Defense Secretary Leon Panetta’s new
book Worthy Fights is one intriguing revelation. As reported in the New
York Times, the accusations that Barack Obama was not what he appeared to be
, perhaps not even a natural-born citizen, caused him to become tentative on
the national stage. “Those challenges have encouraged the president’s
caution and defensiveness, whic... 阅读全帖
l****z
发帖数: 29846
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'Paedophilia is natural and normal for males'
How some university academics make the case for paedophiles at summer
conferences
By Andrew Gilligan
9:10PM BST 05 Jul 2014
"Paedophilic interest is natural and normal for human males,” said the
presentation. “At least a sizeable minority of normal males would like to
have sex with children … Normal males are aroused by children.”
Some yellowing tract from the Seventies or early Eighties, era of abusive
celebrities and the infamous PIE, the Paedophil... 阅读全帖
c****x
发帖数: 6601
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b_d5kjFp3Sk&t=31m
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CQELHJx8Vf0&t=32m5s
The Soviet Union did.
The Central Asian Stans were very agreeable places to be when the Soviet
Union bust up.
They had the disgusting alcohol. They drank there.
Incredible. The world's most relaxed Muslims drinking this hooch
very pleasant company.
看看几个前苏联斯坦们过得日子,男人可以喝酒,女人可以读书上班,国家有苏联的工
业化援助,老百姓有工作。穆斯林都是世俗和真正温和的穆斯林。从来没听说什么吉尔
吉斯斯坦、塔吉克斯坦等国的穆斯林去参加圣战斩首的。
俄罗斯有20%的穆斯林,除了靠近土耳其的车臣穆斯林,基本上都还算世俗和平。这就
是为什么俄罗斯... 阅读全帖
l****z
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It’s kind of funny that we call liberals “liberal”. They believe in a
certain kind of liberty, but it has little to do with the liberty enshrined
in our founding documents.
No, the liberty they’re interested in is liberty from any influence of
biblical morality. They’re all for unusual sex arrangements, abortion, the
sexualization of children, and public indecency. But when it comes to
liberty for Christians to simply practice their faith and decline to
participate in events that celebrate thing... 阅读全帖
u***n
发帖数: 21026
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违宪的毛,玩SM佩洛西可是老手了,都说了mutually agreeable date,先聊哪天吧,
聊着聊着三个礼拜过了,你关门不?你敢关门你就不用来了。
玩的Trump爽爽的
从关门时候用DACA来谈条件就是败招,就是示弱,宁可declare national emerency最
后被几个傻逼大法官给ban掉也不能认输,好歹雄了一把,基本盘可以保住
现在是狗熊,基本盘都跑光了,2020 GOP都不会出来选了,等着女Obama来开操吧
y***n
发帖数: 2318
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来自主题: Automobile版 - 德车为啥性能好?
Quite agreeable.
Max torque at low RPM is much more useful. Use the 2010 or earlier-year BMW
650i as an example, it generates 360lb of torque at merely 3400rpm - think
about the acceleration you get when the traffic light turns green.BTW, the
engine is neither turbo nor diesel.
Horse power decides the top speed, and way before you can use it up, a cop
most likely will show up with a ticket for you.
German automakers have so deep expertise in building top-notch engines, I
think it's fair to say J... 阅读全帖
W***n
发帖数: 11530
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来自主题: Automobile版 - 2017 Chrysler Pacifica
Full Expert Review: 2017 Chrysler Pacifica
What's New for 2017
The 2017 Chrysler Pacifica is an all-new minivan. In effect, though, it's
the replacement for the previous Town & Country minivan, which Chrysler has
discontinued.
Introduction
If you've either been a passenger in or owned a steady flow of Honda
Odysseys and Toyota Siennas throughout your life, you are forgiven for
thinking that Chrysler minivans have largely existed in a state of perpetual
rental fleet mediocrity. While Chrysler was... 阅读全帖
r*****q
发帖数: 74
36
他们这么做是如何骗钱的
Dear Friend
I'm interested to purchase this "。。。。。。" you had advertised at $ 。。
。。。 however i've blown my budget for this month.
Can i propose to pay you a deposit of $ 50.00 in advance via paypal and you
reserve the item for me. I'll be in touch with you towards the end of
january to complete the transaction failing which you may keep the deposit.
Do write back with your paypal registered email address if it's agreeable.
Geoff
另一封
Thanks so much for being sincere,I'm purchasing the ... 阅读全帖
D*******z
发帖数: 319
37
The logic is all receipt dated since 3/15/13 is worth at least 5% of the
before tax value. Either buyer can add to their account or sell for 5% + an
agreeable percentage.Convenience is also worth something.
The bottom line is the rate of receipt dated before 3/15 will be up or it is
easy to sell.
w******t
发帖数: 1422
38
来自主题: Faculty版 - collaboration with others in campus
about 2 month ago I met her to discuss the scope, focus, and involved people
wrt this project. She was agreeable. Today I further showed her outline of
the proposal, our approach, our online demo.
I feel I gave her adequate information wrt the project for her to decide if
to be part of it or not. Maybe I am wrong?
c*******u
发帖数: 231
39
来自主题: Faculty版 - 这算是口头offer吗
系主任打电话, 说让我开始negotiating process, 用excel做equipment list,
salary expectation 等等。 因为我在travel中,所以没办法细讲, 我说可不可以寄
給我一个unofficial offer, 他说offer 要等negotiation 达成共识后才能由
university来make.
这算是口头offer吗, 是不是权力已经转换, 我可以开始提出自己的要求了(和
research&teaching&salary 有关) ?还是还是要和interviewing process一样, 尽量
agreeable, low-key? 生怕对方改变主意?
这样根本就没给我一个基本的工资range, startup range等等就让我凭空开始
negotiate, 好像不是普遍流程?我的salary expectation应当定的和现在的已雇的新
AP一样(网上可以查到), 还是比这个range高一些, 留有一些余地呢?
第一次经历, 多谢!
b******h
发帖数: 2732
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来自主题: Faculty版 - 关于 spousal hiring
lz你好像并没认识到你跟你ld的错误,前面的帖里也很多人指出了,你们的问题不在于
你们试图negotiate spousal hire,而是你们negotiate的方式方法不对,太pushy太
aggressive。
你提供的两个link,如果是为版上的后来人造福,很好;但我看好像你想用这两个link
来justify你们的做法,那我要说你大错特错了。你提供的第二个link,audience是
universities,我就不多说了;你提供的第一个link那个blog,讲的也很清楚了:
“The spouse needs to be personable and agreeable, and should take every
opportunity to appear a potential asset to the institution. I speak from
personal experience here with my ex-husband, but a crabby, negative spouse
who resents being characterized a... 阅读全帖

发帖数: 1
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来自主题: Faculty版 - Jan's lab : 这里有弟子么?

Download pdf published by SfN (Chapter from 'The History of Neuroscience in
Autobiography, Volume 8' edited by Larry R. Squire)
Yuh-Nung Jan's CV
Lily Jan's CV
Yuh-Nung Jan and Lily Jan
Birth
Family History and Growing Up
National Taiwan University
The Hiking Trip to Shitou in the Spring of 1967
Graduate School Application
Graduate Study at Caltech (1968锟974)
Seymour Benzer Lab (1974锟977)
Steve Kuffler锟絪 Lab at H... 阅读全帖
a*o
发帖数: 25262
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【 以下文字转载自 NewYork 讨论区 】
发信人: auo (aeiou), 信区: NewYork
标 题: In a relationship, married or not… You should read this. (zz)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 21 11:18:49 2011, 美东)
“When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and
said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I
observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know what
I was thinking. I want a divorce. I raised the topic calmly. She didn’t
see... 阅读全帖
H*****1
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HM想要越早越好,我说我要六月毕业,然后休假一个月,七月中旬上班
但现在offer letter上没有写具体日期
只是说 start on a mutually agreeable date
这会成为问题么?另外申请OPT的时候需要starting date的证明么?
谢谢
R*******d
发帖数: 13640
44
来自主题: JobHunting版 - HR来信疑问,求解..
The Functional Interview
The functional interview should be used when you are looking for job
specific information, such as particular skill sets, how well the applicant
communicates, enthusiasm for the job, and the ability to interact with
others as a team player. You should expect traditional answers that can help
you evaluate how well this person will fit into your organization. One of
the drawbacks of functional interviewing, however, is that it stresses the
intended relationship that the in... 阅读全帖
p*u
发帖数: 2454
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来自主题: JobHunting版 - Google Inc. spins off Niantic Labs
It started:"
Google Inc (NASDAQ:GOOGL), (NASDAQ:GOOG) has restructured to become Alphabet
and Google Search is now a segment under the new parent firm. Google’s
change to Alphabet has been touted as a smart move to court Wall Street as
the firm puts an end to a habit of burning cash on stupid projects. The
first hacking-away of non-core projects hits the news as Google announced
the spin-off of its Niantic Labs (Ingress).
Niantic Labs is a startup within Google that launched Ingree, an augmented... 阅读全帖
m***y
发帖数: 14763
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Nod, if it's 3' or smaller, it's DIYable. Just talk to neighbors, and make
sure they don't tell on you. If you don't find theym agreeable, go get a
permit.
o****n
发帖数: 538
47
update一下情况:
我早晨又打了电话给保险公司。他们商量了一下,说没有maternity-related code就没有吧,只要让urologist那边提供一个medical note,指明这是maternity-related,我们就给你cover...
高兴还没到30分钟,打电话给urologist那边,前台一转昨天agreeable的口吻,说不是因为没看出什么问题吗,所以不知道是"maternity-related or not"。不能给出这样的medical note...
所以我现在的问题不是保险公司不付,而是urologist这儿别扭起来了。。。 。。。
这该怎么办呢,真是欲哭无泪阿。
c*****n
发帖数: 404
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来自主题: Parenting版 - A date with Mom - ZZ
很动人的一个故事,献给我的父母
After 21 years of marriage, my wife wanted me to take
 another woman out to dinner and a movie. She said, "I
love you, but I know this other woman loves you too,
and she would love to spend some time with you."
The other woman that my wife wanted me to visit was my MOTHER, who has been
a widow for 19 years, but the demands of my work and my three children had
made it possible to visit her only occasionally. That night I called to
invite her to go out for dinner and a movie.
... 阅读全帖
E*********r
发帖数: 4984
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呵呵,买入的时间为15:59:59.本以为买不到了,呵呵,不知道明天会不会跌。 看了
这一段觉得可能
WASHINGTON (AP) -- Urgent efforts to prevent an economy-tanking national
default rose and then retreated with astonishing swiftness on Thursday, as
House Republicans softened their long-standing demands and the White House
appeared agreeable to a compromise, only for Senate Democrats to declare it
unacceptable.
"Not going to happen," declared Majority Leader Harry Reid, standing outside
the White House after he and fellow Democrats met with Pres... 阅读全帖
s***m
发帖数: 6197
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来自主题: Stock版 - master shifu says all in GOMO
发信人: lookthere (just looking), 信区: Stock
标 题: Re: master shifu says all in GOMO
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon May 5 15:09:12 2014, 美东)
Another mobile techie? well, if you really want to replace
gogo with gomo, that's at least sounded about right. With
double Os snuggly fitted in the exact same positions and
mo sounding more like a raging bull, it would definitely
have universally agreeable space for wild imagination in
dreaming growth. If goom can't jump out of the screen to be another possible
candidat... 阅读全帖
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