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l*h
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来自主题: Medicine版 - 求助评估治疗方案,非常感谢!
curious, where was the chest X ray done? the report is in English with U.S.-
style format, but the English is kind of awkward and it lacks some analysis
you would expect to see for such comparison.
i am worried by the increased reticular grids, but as someone who is not a
lung specialist, and who knows not much about the clinical condition of the
patient, i cannot make a judgment whether interstitial pneumonitis was the
cause for this change.
was oxygenation checked? was arterial blood gas done ... 阅读全帖
j*******7
发帖数: 930
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could not agree more with your !
Still, I did strongly suggest people here should not either always trust
banking employees nor some random information from internet forum. Even
though mitbbs might be one of the most trustworthy forums online, we should
always do our own research.
Meanwhile, I was simply feeling awkward that my working hypothesis was
criticized groundlessly without specific cases pointing "how hard" could be
considered "hard pull".

bank.
m*****a
发帖数: 2609
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可以的,比如ebay seller, craiglist seller什么的,大家或多或少都做过。当然有
人感到这样算cheating,每个人的comfort zone不一样。
下面两篇是MMS给新人写的,针对chase biz card,但Amex biz大同小异:
http://millionmilesecrets.com/2014/10/18/10-small-businesses-or
http://millionmilesecrets.com/2012/12/12/chase-business-credit-
申请前自己得说服了自己;如果自己就觉得在“扯”,最好别申。因为一旦不是
instant approval,十有八九你就会要打电话,汇报你的“business”,比如收入,
最近几年经营状况之类,you may feel awkward if you are not prepared。
g*********r
发帖数: 9822
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 小宝发飙,怕怕【有录像有问题】
这走路的感觉,忒搞笑啊,能走是能走,又有点儿awkward,小宝宝最好玩的时候。。。
是不是难免有时候会希望宝宝能永远停留在这个可爱的阶段呢
s*y
发帖数: 18644
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - [bssd]老公这么做是不是太过分了?
because he doesn't want to face it. It's associated with some negative
feeling, guilty, awkward, or whatever....
t*********s
发帖数: 418
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 在读PHD,怀孕的话,怎么应对老板呢
这边跟导师相处不兴吃饭送礼这一套。
你要有什么开心事请客吃饭还行。要有求于他,吃顿饭送点礼就非常awkward。
j*****1
发帖数: 1107
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 倾家荡产求祝福 for my husband
He is a good husband and father, I hope he gets what he wants. He really
deserves it.
Will ask 伪币中心 代发包子 for me. Not much though. Probably about 23 包子.
Thank you everyone. I wish all of you good luck too.
Sorry for the awkward typing, no Chinese input now.
m******o
发帖数: 60
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One more point, please compare the size of Davinci Mini Emily Crib with the
one I bought. I found it is too small for a baby of 9 months old. Since the
baby of this age will rock and roll while sleeping. If the width is not wide
enough, it turns out that the baby settles in a very awkward body position
with head folding against the body. In a regular size bed, the baby can have
a comfortable position in any direction.
J**T
发帖数: 610
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 躺着喂奶的时候怎么换边?
娃还是侧着睡?不会awkward么?...
s******8
发帖数: 801
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我在厕所里泵的,姿势比较awkward,但是也凑合了。。。
r******i
发帖数: 2662
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 终于厚着脸皮贴小说了
damn right. i was also an awkward kid when i was 21...haha
it is just the way they lie in bed together and talk...so sensational....And
then, NOTHING happened! argh....
btw, really good work. want to see more.
b********i
发帖数: 27
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看了nc123的帖子,作为过来人,深感堵奶的痛苦,不回不快。为了方便标题关键字查
询,罗罗嗦嗦发个主题贴,大家多多包涵。
楼主你的情况很明显是堵奶了。我刚刚经历一波严重的堵奶,情况与你很相似。从宝宝
出生到大约7周大的时候,我90%的情况下是把奶泵出来放瓶子里让宝宝吃,很少胸喂,
产量也还不错。但我有点懒,一天只泵大约五次,因此很多情况下乳房涨的满满的,自
己也不以为意。直到有一天,大概两次泵奶之间的时间间隔长了点,两个乳房忽然都出
现硬块,而且越来越大,很快就占据了半个乳房,热敷,按摩,洗热水澡,吃黄花菜,
短时间内都没有什么效果,拼命的泵奶,每边每次也只能泵出个1-2oz,让宝宝吸,也
感觉到他吸不到什么奶,很快就不耐烦的大哭。那几天真是快令我崩溃了,每天就是不
停的上网搜索各种关于怎么治堵奶的方法,不断的尝试,不断的泵。因为很担心我的产
奶量就此下去,宝宝不够吃,心理上压力非常大。
这样的情况大约持续了一个礼拜,各种办法试尽,才感觉稍微有点好转。这个时候我去
了参加了一次我生产的医院的breastfeeding support group, 主要是想听听lactation
con... 阅读全帖
l*********e
发帖数: 5385
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 4个月的宝宝全面进入厌奶期
我当时也挺愁的,网上和宝宝版精化区看了很多方法,mm可以试试不要抱着宝宝喂,可
以把她放bouncer上或者有点坡度的地方喂,我还看见有人放crib里,开着mobile喂,
反正宝宝怎么喜欢,怎么舒服怎么来,目的都是一个:能喂进去点是一点。4个月是一
个挺有转折的阶段,大多宝宝开始好动,喜欢到处看到处玩,充满了好奇,对吃奶也不
安心了,看到网上一篇文章说是awkward 4 month old
w*****2
发帖数: 1458
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 男人真不是东西
还有更awkward的。这里的中国女人大多投民主党和呕巴麻的。跟男人却要谈什么责任?
不好意思,扯上政治了。不过人的心态很重要。男人是你自己挑的。别到时自己的孩子
还要别人去养。别人可没in pregnant 你。也没爽到。
F*******t
发帖数: 29
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非住家妈妈也忍不住说一句,LZ socially awkward, 不会做人,不会说话,来找抽的
l*********e
发帖数: 5385
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hedge2007 (Life2010) 于 (Sat Dec 8 21:57:44 2012, 美东) 提到:
大妈们不要对号入座,把个人情绪放在客观事实之上。我的意图是作为社会经济现象来
探讨。让事实,数据说话,相信对有些在犹豫继续工作还是呆家里照顾小孩的妈妈们起
个参考作用。
如果你有更多的统计报告,数据,也欢迎补充,但请标明出处。尤其欢迎统计方面的专
家。个例就免了。
http://www.census.gov/population/www/socdemo/hh-fam/p20-561.pdf
人口普查的结果:(与工作的职业女性妈妈(包括Single Mom)相比)
1。住家妈妈更年轻,孩子更小 (Stay-at-home mothers were younger and had
younger children than other mothers.)
2。住家妈妈受教育程度更低 (Stay-at-home mothers were less educated than
other m... 阅读全帖
s**********h
发帖数: 436
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 在美国可以给3岁男宝宝穿开裆裤吗?
I think it should be fine (though very awkward) if the boy wears pull-up
diapers.
m****s
发帖数: 8992
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 无麻超快轻度撕裂顺产产经
Always curious about...
7 指怎么量的。
Up to 5 seems straightforward.
好像不是太容易。。。
Kinda awkward....
r**e
发帖数: 714
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来自主题: Overseas版 - 杜克大学中国MM
It is all my personal opinion. Please list your reasons and conclusions if you
do not agree, but don't attack me, please.
After reading the petition and misconducts listed against her former advisor,
I really think that advisor is not a nice person, strongly biased against some
or Chinese people. The relationship between Tang and her may have started
awkward and become exacerbated as time goes by. On the other side, I suspect
all Tang's allegations would be officially admitted by the Duke Univer
w*******g
发帖数: 9932
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well, my other potty is safety first.
Compared to fisher price's potty, it is awkward and uncomfortable.
G*********r
发帖数: 538
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来自主题: Parenting版 - Two Choices
Two Choices
At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves children with learning
disabilities, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that
would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school
and its dedicated staff, he offered a question:
'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does,
is done with perfection.
Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do.He cannot
understand things as other children do.
Where is the nat... 阅读全帖
I********e
发帖数: 6130
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根本不性感...非常的awkward...连腰也没有...
i******e
发帖数: 1720
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We live in California Bay Area. My kids attended private school first, then
public school. But the way we're addressed are the same all these years.
My older child was in HS varsity team. Sometimes they have graduates who
already in college came back to help the current students. Those "adult
kids" also address me "Mrs. XXX".
I think it's a convenience for them. They don't have to ask my name, as
long as they know my child's last name, they always know, they know how to
address me and not... 阅读全帖
b***u
发帖数: 59
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其实我也没看见你儿子,就是觉得从来不挥手再见有点问题。其实评估一下没有坏处,
即使干预一下也不是label了什么,反正是免费服务,就是父母需要联系一下而已。我
女儿两岁的时候我们家里也没有人承认她自闭,我那个时候知识有限,就觉得有点奇怪
,和别的孩子相比。她的几个问题(看起来是没有联系的,其实都算是广泛性发育障碍
)是:gross motor比较晚,17个月才走路,2岁半了跑起来还有点awkward,不会双脚
跳,高一点的台阶不能不扶着就踩上去。会说话,但是语言功能性(pragmatics)差,不
会维持对话, 都是self-directed,自言自语,小的时候还说一些我们听不懂的话. 会
imaginative play,但是内容重复缺乏变化. 不会和小朋友互动的玩。circle time不能
follow,有的时候就走开了或者躺地上。line up的时候还在干自己的事情,总要老师
physical redirection. redirection很难,非常strong-willed,喜欢和你对着干,我
们要往东她就要往西。还要大小便训练也比较困难,从两岁半开始到三周岁才成功。她
也... 阅读全帖
k**n
发帖数: 6198
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 重视孩子教育的老美家长
She explained that to me, for certain age of course.Otherwise the kid will
feel awkward. She also explained that parent's interaction reduced after
certain grade( maybe 4th grade, I don't remember) but she tried to catch up
whatever she can do for her kid school. She won't go after 3rd grade. But
the kid really enjoined her accompany for lunch before that age.
i am not saying we should follow the examples here, I am just listing
something I observed and I never heard similar things from my Chine... 阅读全帖
l*********o
发帖数: 3091
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来自主题: Parenting版 - I'm sorry, my mom deserves the truth
小中男参军为何自杀?
临死前为何写下: my mom deserves the truth?
Why he is being repeated called racial slurs like "gook," “chink” and “
dragon lady"?
以下为Jeff Yang文章,后面美国人的讨论并没有多少同情。
-----------------------------------------------------
http://inamerica.blogs.cnn.com/2012/01/17/opinion-what-the-deat
-----------------------------------------------------
What the deaths of two soldiers say about anti-Asian bullying
by Jeff Yang
By Jeff Yang, Special to CNN
Two young soldiers, Private Danny Chen of Manhattan, New Yo... 阅读全帖
B******1
发帖数: 9094
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 由"叫起床"贴想到的扁豆趣事
Google Tranlate Product:
Lentils in this version, but famous, has boasted that people doctor "
obligation" to see the doctor.Huh, huh.Today there are still a paste special
fire, that from the eye - catching the "wake up call" stickers. This
reminds me of a fun thing.
We all know that my baby son slept late (midnight police story), got up too
late (often late for school, criticized the North Beach students. Shame).
Can be on the high school, lentils think late for school is disgraceful, he
earlie... 阅读全帖
i******e
发帖数: 1720
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 钢琴考级
The college application asks what the students achieve during high school.
It's very awkward if you put down the awards/achievement won in middle
school on the application.
There're too many students have leve10/panel certificate that it won't
standout at all. But if the student won regional award, perform in Carneige
Hall, then college admission officers will raise their eyebrows and view
him/her a talent, just as northbeach has pointed out earlier.
The student still should put down practicin... 阅读全帖
d*****1
发帖数: 8
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Sunday in the Park
Bel Kaufman
It was still warm in the late-afternoon sun, and the city noises came
muffled through the trees in the park. She put her book down on the bench,
removed her sunglasses, and sighed contentedly. Morton was reading the
Times Magazine section, one arm flung around her shoulder; their three-year-
old son, Larry, was playing in the sandbox: a faint breeze fanned her hair
softly against her cheek. It was five-thirty of a Sunday afternoon, and the
small playground, tuck... 阅读全帖
w**********2
发帖数: 332
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BTW, I don't think Hitler has asperger, -he had a lot of charisma so that he
had a lot of followers. A person with asperger is socially awkward and won
't be able to accomplish that.
x*****i
发帖数: 4035
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you might want to have him checked for Asperger's
social awkwardness as you described here is a big clue
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Asperger_syndrome
A lack of demonstrated empathy has a significant impact on aspects of
communal living for persons with Asperger syndrome.[2] Individuals with AS
experience difficulties in basic elements of social interaction, which may
include a failure to develop friendships or to seek shared enjoyments or
achievements with others (for example, showing others o... 阅读全帖
l*****f
发帖数: 13466
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太可怕了。读了这里的一些comments,这个学校很有问题。这个小男孩非常友好乐于助
人,但是经常被人take advantage.
http://www.10news.com/news/students-say-local-teen-was-bullied-
NedLündarr
Damn I'm not sure I want to send my kid to this high School anymore. The
kids in my neighborhood are telling me and my wife that bullying is very
prevalent at this High School. The administrators need to investigate
thoroughly before saying that bullying was not a factor. It is obvious from
his friends and other student accounts that bullying was the singl... 阅读全帖
o**********e
发帖数: 18403
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【 以下文字转载自 CivilSociety 讨论区 】
发信人: oskarlre (oskar), 信区: CivilSociety
标 题: O编辑总结: 关于华人如何融入美国人的圈子
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Dec 12 09:33:52 2013, 美东)
本身是11年老文,这里重发应答一下所谓的“融入主流社会思想”
昨天和腐败群的哥们姐们说周末聚会的事情,扯着扯着就说到了language partner的事
情。 作为一个管理过2年多 language partner 项目的筒子, 我对现在LP的情况并不
乐观,自然鼓动大家一起开吃,而不是去搞流于形式的LP。 这时候WHQ同学就放了个小
炸弹:“其实我还有一个想法就是能融进美国人的圈子”
Ok, 楼迅速歪了。。。
我提出了俩问题:1,什么是美国人?2,啥是圈子?或者扩展一点,什么是“主流社会”
?不搞清这俩问题,任何的“融入主流”其实都是在无意义的邯郸学步,弄不好被人家
欺负了还以为是融入圈子过程呢。。。
首先的问题就是啥是美国人?虽然理论上有米国国籍的同学都是米国人。不过从我个人
对国内不少人的观察来看... 阅读全帖
w****6
发帖数: 116
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来自主题: Parenting版 - updated - 求拍求建议
更新:
好吧,大家的建议我都虚心听取了。好吧,我包子了,我想下次见到他们,再主动一下
道歉示好,毕竟孩子在一个游泳班里。冤家宜解不宜结。如果人家不理我,以后就把他
们当空气吧。
至于帖子中途改写英文,是我写忘了,又懒的改。
其实是一件小事,主要我真心不愿和人公开冲突,没有经验,还要碰见他们,真心尴尬
不知如何处理最好。
我每星期天带两岁半的女儿和四岁半的儿子去上游泳课。每次一个约50岁的白男和一个
约40多的亚女也带着他们两个儿子在那。大儿子约7岁,小儿子约5岁,在我儿子的班。
我一般会和别的父母寒暄,但这个爸爸感觉不友好,我就妹和他们讲过话。
我们这上课的孩子和家庭很多,但只有两个family locker room. 每一个都有一个带锁
的里间,是shower, toilet and sink, 外间是change area with change table. 因为
孩子家庭多,我见到过父母share里外间。一家用完shower, 到外间来,让另一家用里
间。应为冬天小孩子穿湿泳衣都比较冷。
上星期天,这一家用完里间, 在外间帮孩子换衣,我要求用里间。 这个爸爸满脸的不
高兴,不... 阅读全帖
s***l
发帖数: 2236
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qingqingfeng (qingqingfeng) 于 (Fri Jan 18 15:39:56 2013, 美东) 提到:
儿子11了,4岁半来美,现在初中一年,去年8月刚搬家到新的学区。在新学校总是出现
问题,以前小学不这样的。刚开始不会打开locker之类的事,就是手忙脚乱也过来了。
有时会为了小事,他就急。
最大的问题是说话不合时宜,经常说出让人意外话。一次,他说他的钢琴老师,你
smell like a Burger,我立刻打住他,可是已经说了,我很尴尬,后来老师就不在教
他弹琴了。我们已经发现他这个问题,总是在教他,可是,这好像是天生的,他改不了
。在新学校,一次,他见几个孩子在闲聊,他问在旁边的老师,他们在说什么,老师忙
,就说not your business,他就很生气,追上老师说,你为什么这么rude,老师当然不
会高兴,把他教育了一顿。另一次,他在课上举手想回答问题,第二个问题,又举手,
最后老师叫他了,结果他站起来问老师问什么才叫他,老师就发飚了,儿子就哭了。
... 阅读全帖
d****g
发帖数: 7460
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展示是什么意思?展示本身就是对话,除了展示者,还有被展示者。展示者不去了解被
展示者,the conversation won't go on. 所以如果被展示者是一群六年纪的prats,
你是不是该展示点饺子的交流版?包点OREO在里面表示甜甜蜜蜜?少用点韭菜?或者用
韭菜但声明it is a acuquired taste, it is ok if you don't like it? 很基本的做
人道理。你比我懂。
但我们第一代移民对"被展示者"就是不太了解。这是个不大不小的事实,所以才会有
很多场合的social awkwardness. "豁出去我就这样"是一种confidence. 我和
Beida101
选择多去了解"被展示者",是另一种更开放的confidence。两种CONFIDENCE大家都在
努力做,贴子发出来,侧重不同而已。但是谁在老扣全盘西化,缺乏自信的帽子?
说回到AA,从前没细想过。今天突然有个想法。人文科AA是正常的。人文科的研究对象
是diversified,一个黑人的成绩可能不如你,但他对黑人文化的理解就是他的优势。自
然科学这一块,与其华人大喊不公... 阅读全帖
a******o
发帖数: 261
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 美国人的礼貌教育
for every rebellious american teenager you find, i can also find you another
chinese teenager who's spoiled rotten AND doesn't even have the minimal
social etiquette to be functional around his/her peer.
Besides, it doesn't have to be either/or - just b/c you are teaching your
kids basic manner now, does that mean you HAVE TO be hands off by the time
they are teenagers? what kind of logic is that?
it's fine if you don't want to teach it - but don't come complain one day
why other kids think you... 阅读全帖
o******e
发帖数: 1761
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昨天和腐败群的哥们姐们说周末聚会的事情,扯着扯着就说到了language partner的事
情。 作为一个管理过2年多 language partner 项目的筒子, 我对现在LP的情况并不
乐观,自然鼓动大家一起开吃,而不是去搞流于形式的LP。 这时候WHQ同学就放了个小
炸弹:“其实我还有一个想法就是能融进美国人的圈子”
Ok, 楼迅速歪了。。。
我提出了俩问题:1,什么是美国人?2,啥是圈子?或者扩展一点,什么是“主流社会”
?不搞清这俩问题,任何的“融入主流”其实都是在无意义的邯郸学步,弄不好被人家
欺负了还以为是融入圈子过程呢。。。
首先的问题就是啥是美国人?虽然理论上有米国国籍的同学都是米国人。不过从我个人
对国内不少人的观察来看,这些人的定义其实是:美国环境内长大的白人,或者行为举
止价值观等类似白人的有色人种。 (如奥巴马,骆家辉等)
这样其实是很悖论的,尤其对我这样的怪胎来说尤其如此:作为一个在美国生活的时间
和在中国生活时间等同的,国籍还是米籍的银来说,我肯定符合第一条。 但是和我接
触一下的朋友大多数第一反应是我价值观和对问题看法绝对不像白人,更重要的是,下
了... 阅读全帖
b*******s
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一同请教。
我家六岁小宝和你们家的一模一样,每天话不停。我管他的时候都没有自己的时间看书
,因为他会一直不停的问我问题。看到邻居大哥,俺家小宝就把手往裤兜里一插,说,
“John, 我们玩吧”
然后四年级的邻居大哥就开始和他一起玩了。他跟老师说话也是这个样子,我很郁闷,
正在教他跟老师说话一定要懂礼貌,不可以把手插兜里。
他的学校里各种肤色的
小朋友都有。我和孩子他爸的朋友都是中国人,所以他的几个playdates是中国国小朋
友。但是除此之外,没有觉得他交朋友跟肤色有关。他在学校里最要好的小朋友有
latino, 有土生土长的白人小孩,有法国人,有比利时人。哦,学校里有中国来的新
的小朋友,老师还让小宝做翻译来着。 没有炫耀的意思,我和孩子他爸都是
socially awkward,只知道死读书型。开着家长会,我和孩子爸爸都是往后躲,不愿跟
别人讲话。我家小宝,把他放到一堆小朋友里,不管他认不认识,他就冲上去玩了。
... 阅读全帖
g********g
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今天去接娃,一进门就看到她膝盖上一个大皮膏。老师凑过来说,她奔,老师叫停,她
继续奔,就摔了,还流了血。又说她老咬手,手背上有个地方咬出印子了,还拉娃的手
过来给我看,不怎么明显。我说没关系,小孩都磕磕碰碰的。
回到家,越想越不对,咬痕在手掌侧面,要放到自己嘴里的话角度很awkward。娃吃手
指但从不啃手掌,更从没咬过自己。于是问娃,你今天咬手了是不是?娃听懂了,手扭
过来看看自己的伤痕,突然喊出一个小朋友的名字来,我就追问是不是xxx咬你的,娃
点点头,做出很生气的表情,还大叫一声,好像在重现当时的情形。再问她有无哭,告
老师,她就开始confused,不回答了
就算咬了这个年纪,2岁,也很正常。但是老师为啥要说是自己咬的呢
怕我怪她们没看好,还是保护对方小孩?想不通,上来问问
联想到走的时候老师说blow a kiss,我娃不理她,一脸不高兴,我都开始怀疑膝盖伤会
不会和咬伤有关联。
打算下周和老师说,娃说了是xxx咬的,我叫她以后被咬要叫,告诉你们
如果她真的不知道就是让她知道,如果她撒谎了就是告诉她我也知道她撒谎了
大家觉得这么做妥当吗
i*******e
发帖数: 94
41
来自主题: Parenting版 - 大家都给小孩听什么歌呢
女儿上一年级,这几天听她随口哼哼的歌都是从radio里听来的,像是:
Hey I just met you
And this is crazy
But here's my number
So call me maybe
还唱的有模有样的。一开始我也觉得好玩,但听她模仿的都是这一类的,就开始觉得有
点awkward。这些歌大部分时候是她坐车的时候听radio学的,加上最近上summer camp
也听,估计脑子里都是这些旋律。
我们平常没有太在意每天在车里给她听什么歌,就是随便开着radio,里面放什么就听
什么,从很小就这么听过来的。现在想想,我觉得音乐和歌词对人还是有潜移默化的影
响的,是不是应该在车里多放些适合她这个年龄的歌呢。不知道大家有没有类似的担心
,是我想多了吗?你们有什么推荐的歌吗?
l*****g
发帖数: 556
42
来自主题: Parenting版 - 中国的高考
高考语文 should be canceled. Since all other tests are in Chinese already,
there is no need to test 语文 again.
作文 actually killed student's capability to write something meaningful:
you have to follow a unique writing style to get high score, but that style
can only be used in 高考.
If translate these 高考作文 into English, they all sounds awkward.
b***d
发帖数: 2695
43
来自主题: Parenting版 - 给老师的生日礼物
public school吗? 如果是,很多州,关于孩子给老师送礼物是有
规定的,一年不能超过多少金额,单次不能超过多少金额,至少我们州
是有的。
k的老师过生日,孩子送礼还是头次听说,一般也就daycare搞这个。
你如果不是很sure,最好发信问一下你们的pto或者room parent,
别最后是别的小朋友都没送,你家送了,这个也比较awkward,
万一break the rules,则更麻烦。
s*********e
发帖数: 5245
44
让他自己问别的同学,家长不要掺乎。我倾向于不去也不问,孩子发个贺卡,祝贺一下
就完了。NO BIG DEAL。
家长要陪着,又跟新浪新娘不熟,肯定有点AWKWARD。
s*********e
发帖数: 5245
45
让他自己问别的同学,家长不要掺乎。我倾向于不去也不问,孩子发个贺卡,祝贺一下
就完了。NO BIG DEAL。
家长要陪着,又跟新浪新娘不熟,肯定有点AWKWARD。
s***l
发帖数: 2236
46
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oskarlre (oskar) 于 (Tue Apr 8 13:00:34 2014, 美东) 提到:
昨天和腐败群的哥们姐们说周末聚会的事情,扯着扯着就说到了language partner的事
情。 作为一个管理过2年多 language partner 项目的筒子, 我对现在LP的情况并不
乐观,自然鼓动大家一起开吃,而不是去搞流于形式的LP。 这时候WHQ同学就放了个小
炸弹:“其实我还有一个想法就是能融进美国人的圈子”
Ok, 楼迅速歪了。。。
我提出了俩问题:1,什么是美国人?2,啥是圈子?或者扩展一点,什么是“主流社会”
?不搞清这俩问题,任何的“融入主流”其实都是在无意义的邯郸学步,弄不好被人家
欺负了还以为是融入圈子过程呢。。。
首先的问题就是啥是美国人?虽然理论上有米国国籍的同学都是米国人。不过从我个人
对国内不少人的观察来看,这些人的定义其实是:美国环境内长大的白人,或者行为举
止价值观等类似白人的有色人种。 (如奥巴马,骆家辉等)
这样其实是很悖论的,尤其对我这样的怪胎... 阅读全帖
h**w
发帖数: 4510
47
来自主题: Parenting版 - 给童子军做广告
social awkward
我不介意看别人摇,包括自己孩子,让我一起是万万不可的。
t*******r
发帖数: 22634
48
来自主题: Parenting版 - 给童子军做广告
其实我也是。。。其实主要也就是 social awkward。。。
k**n
发帖数: 6198
49
来自主题: Parenting版 - 城头变幻彩虹旗
“而且俺是出名的实用主义者。。。”还有 social awkward,所以反正不管是同性恋游
行还是异性恋游行,你家都是不会去的,都会很安全:))
z********e
发帖数: 789
50
来自主题: Parenting版 - 七夕包子
抢包子了。
女人们:别为了一个节日折腾了![Surprise]区区个七夕情人节算什么[Awkward],从
嫁人那天开始[CoolGuy],嫁什么样的男人注定过什么节![Tongue] 嫁对了人,天天
情人节 ;[Smile] 嫁个懒人,天天劳动节;[Sob] 嫁个有钱的人,天天过春节;[
Laugh] 嫁个花心的,天天光棍节; [Tormented]嫁个幼稚的,天天六一儿童节; [
Dizzy]嫁个骗子,天天愚人节![Smug]真理啊! 《婚姻有风险,结婚需谨慎》[
Whimper]七夕快乐
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