t*c
发帖数: 8291 | 1 我不给女儿买很多好东西，好多时候买东西，我都是让她也凑份子的，
哪怕只是个零头，或者只是付tax, 我就是想让孩子知道，任何东西
都不是呼之即来的，而是要自己付出才能得到。
我女儿有一些钱，除了压岁钱，tooth fairy钱，其他是自己挣的。
做家务不给钱，因为家务是应该做的。其他的劳动可以挣钱，
比如讲故事，babysitting, 挣了钱就是要花的。 想买好东西，
想去哪里玩，都要凑份子。 |
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b********o
发帖数: 1241 | 2 同意。两个大娃都自理了，还能babysit一下。 如果都是小娃三个孩子妈妈根本转不开。 |
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A******x
发帖数: 811 | 3 可以请娃幼儿园的老师babysitting, 就不会有娃不熟悉会闹的情况了 |
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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 4 if it doesnt work, something is wrong..
气头上容易shift blame, 所以你怪老大，而不怪自己。(我常犯这个错误)
冷静下来想，这事儿愿你，或者说是愿你的规矩。
动动脑筋，make it work..
比如让哥哥把自己锁屋子里玩游戏。
或者让兄弟互相憎恶彼此。。
或者把对弟弟的惩罚变成你回来后可以管的，比如刷题，罚行。
或者就别罚了。。
至于十二岁的孩子啥责任？包括babysit 和parenting吗？我娃小，我不懂。要不你
google一下？ |
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T**w
发帖数: 72 | 5 如果这个学习班是给四，五岁小孩办的，可能更像babysitting? |
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r*f
发帖数: 39119 | 6
你说的带孩子玩加做饭，本来就是父母的基本职责啊。自己没空可以雇佣专人。老美孩
子很多家教好的十三岁就开始babysitting啦。做饭和清洁也可以外包。
只想依赖老人和亲朋。归根结底，不同人的不同的生活方式。 |
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j*p
发帖数: 780 | 7 应该是找babysitter。很多高中生都愿意babysitting 再大点的小孩。
★ 发自iPhone App: ChineseWeb 1.0.3 |
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x**8
发帖数: 4844 | 8 课外活动有很多种。有骗人的babysitting性质的，有高难度、高难入选率的。家长这
方面给孩子把把关，提供一点儿guidance,对孩子很重要。 |
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j*****2
发帖数: 457 | 9 加油，楼主！
没有过不去的坎！娃既然能生，就能养。
临时的加班，看看能不能找babysit。 |
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A*********1
发帖数: 813 | 10 我觉得你需要live-in nanny。父母能来家住，当然是最好的了。
或者可以提供住宿给研究生或者博士后in exchange几个小时的babysitting。很多人这
么做的。 |
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M*********t
发帖数: 260 | 11 Different parents-in-law are different.
It does not matter American or Chinese.
My parents-in-law are American.
They did the best to help us, such as babysitting, cleaning the house,
cooking for us, etc. They bring their own lunch.
Then, they go home at night. They do not accept us giving them money or
anything.
They are the best parents-in-law. |
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b*******n
发帖数: 12321 | 12 别去要包子了,有那精力还是到版上保留区的文章.有一些别人写的经验可以学.
看你id很新,不知道你是认真想学deal,还是玩玩算了.
要是想学的话,不一定一开始就要加入Rite aid俱乐部.
去slickdeals.net,drugstore discussion哪一项,随便找一期Rite aid的讨论,学习一
下.
同时,熟读RA店里的coupon policy (google就能找到).
了解coupon policy既能保护自己,又能保护店家
真得应该作为rite aid俱乐部纳新的一项考核.
我本来觉得自己作为纯新人就能加入RA 俱乐部很幸运
现在觉得当时那种诚惶诚恐比很多一知半解的人自信满满的去abuse coupon还是好些.
RA俱乐部很有帮助,但在里面的也不全是deal高手.
自己要努力学习,才能获得别人的尊重,才有人愿意帮你.
慢慢我才明白,朋友的价值比信息重要的多.
自己不打好基础的话,即使加入俱乐部
里面也只是多了一位baby需要babysitting,包子再多也不会有人愿意帮你.
btw,用包子砸晕79我本来是认真建议的.但是看了他们的讨论,发现79他们好像不是... 阅读全帖 |
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d*b
发帖数: 21830 | 13 Z最大的设计问题是顶盖不是加强的，因为它的LCD是无框LCD，所以顶盖只是碳纤。
SONY说这个LCD抗压抗冲击，其实实际使用并没有X200那样touch. 结果是，a lot of
babysitting needed。
相比X200，你直接塞书包里就可以了。 |
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c*********7
发帖数: 7607 | 14
是的，能搞到这么一台还是很高兴的，虽然也花了比X220更高的价格。
thinkpad forum的 eric版主也会弄屏，上面还有几个人想出，就是不知道成色如何。
我前几天把机
器全部拆开看了给CPU上硅脂，发现都是全新的。没有一点灰，前任owner真是 babysit
了这台X61s |
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c******7
发帖数: 1081 | 15 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: buddyboy (hello), 信区: Military
标 题: 77元的廉租房的房主 人肉出来了(10张照片) (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Jan 1 12:39:40 2011, 美东)
发信人: babysiter (不是babysitter), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: 77元的廉租房的房主 人肉出来了(10张照片) (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Jan 1 12:07:42 2011, 美东)
发信人: hte (小步舞曲), 信区: ebiz
标 题: 77元的廉租房的房主 人肉出来了(10张照片) (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Jan 1 12:02:41 2011, 美东)
发信人: mind (mind), 信区: Joke
标 题: 77元的廉租房的房主 人肉出来了(10张照片) (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Jan 1 11:14:24 2011, 美东)
发信人: silentriver... 阅读全帖 |
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a*****e
发帖数: 16445 | 17 同学们也不要煽风点火了
我白天照顾公司晚上照顾臭臭，还有babysit各大牛，把我惹急了老子不干了。 |
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g**a
发帖数: 953 | 18 有没有两家结对子的，你帮我babysit两天，下次我帮你两天 |
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a*****e
发帖数: 16445 | 19 天下乱久必治，治久必乱。看看小臭，一天到晚在这里babysit实在没意思了。能人有
的是，我也要呼吸自由的空气。 |
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N****p
发帖数: 1691 | 20 为什么多数人长期都输给 Hold SPY？ 因为SP500的成分一直在更新 机构在帮你选股
转自stockcharts.com Gatis Roze 特别提到了Apple 我还是看好Apple的产品 但是
目前没有持仓
Can You Believe 90% of Fortune 500 Equities Have Vaporized?
August 14, 2015 at 03:00 PM | written by Gatis Roze
Be careful where you sit. I shared a table at Starbucks last week with two
investors who became very animated and energized when I disclosed that I was
a full-time stock investor. What a coincidence, they said, so were they.
They retired in 2004 and bought large positions ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 21 笑话！都是成年人，谁要你babysitting了？你也把自己看太大了。
MTBC |
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z****l
发帖数: 5282 | 22 find a neighbor/friend who is willing to do babysitting |
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f*****g
发帖数: 15860 | 23 以牙还牙，对老印坚决不能手软！
上次俺新去公司，一老印水平很烂，俺开始还BABYSIT它，心想跟你不是一个档次的，防
范之心还不强。
结果狗日的平时倒还毕恭毕敬的，俺大大小小的也帮它解决了不少问题，也不CARE什么
CREDIT。
后来两件事把俺惹火了。其一是有次它求俺帮它改几行CODE，它花了一周都没弄出来，俺
给他加了几行WORK了。个把月过去了，后来发现俺加的几行因为没有全面考虑，引发了另
外一个屁大的BUG，你猜这狗日的干什么？没问俺就直接给大头讲俺MESS UP了它的CODE。
我操，且不说俺帮了你N次忙，这次也就是ON THE SPOT的给你加几行，剩下的测试改进，
是你自己的事，俺也就是给你个IDEA而已。东西都还在天天改的阶段，就这么鸡毛蒜皮的
事，平时不敢坑声(水平烂)的阿三居然直接找大头告状！操，还好大头和俺不错，问清楚
了是什么回事。
打那以后，俺再也不帮这狗日的，而且每次也不给Y留面子了，直接问Y的这会不会，那会
不会，成心让他难看。
再后来一次，它回印度，没有给别人讲，除了大头，临到走前两天才说，俺说你走以前，
必需把你几周前就该干完的CODE写完，其实很简单 |
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o*z
发帖数: 1078 | 24 非常想让头出面！但俺的老板一个月也见不到一次，我给他打的报告几乎都没有反馈，
他几乎天天都和他的各个头开会，当然我有需要他几乎立刻都满足还比较supportive，
他一撒手，天高皇帝远，我是dev的lead,但我们要听architect team的，architect出
了两次重大设计失误，都是我指出错误，他们坚持不改，等他们意识到的时候deadline
早过，开会的时候要我负责，马上长途电话老板及写信给老板和PM manager，才算摆平
，按我的设计做结果成功。PM manager说我做的好，但是architect team之间的梁子就
结下了，每次deadline之前都无理取闹纠缠。跟老板说过，老板没反馈，反而在一次大
会上支持architect team让我听他们的，我们一切工作都要得到他们的支持才能通过。
但我们就惨了，babysit 他们的时间比工作时间多，为了他们的extra要求我们组几乎
天天工作十二三个小时还被骂，这种friction比工作本身带来的负担大多了 |
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a**G
发帖数: 71 | 25 【 以下文字转载自 NextGeneration 讨论区 】
发信人: akaG (call me G), 信区: NextGeneration
标 题: 问一个关于FSA-dependent care的问题
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Feb 19 20:00:58 2014, 美东)
我要换工作，在原先公司的FSA-dependent care账户要被关闭。公司HR说账户里的余额
不能取回。我的北鼻现在在国内，所以没有任何开销，例如day care, babysitting之
类的.请问大家我还有办法把里面的钱取出来或用掉吗？或者新公司的relocation
package可以cover这个损失吗？
多谢~ |
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s****e
发帖数: 334 | 26 Well, the same risk apply to my current company PERM application, since it
just started in Janurary, and my last 2011 I-140 application is denied with
current law firm and company. So I figure the risk of having the new company
start a new PERM application have just a marginal higher risk, they are a
smaller company, so I may have to babysit the process?
God bless me!
posting, |
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m**k
发帖数: 18660 | 27 美国maid都很少，别说我连babysiting都没请过，cheap啊 |
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m**k
发帖数: 18660 | 28 美国maid都很少，别说我连babysiting都没请过，cheap啊 |
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l***m
发帖数: 920 | 29 Agree but not with one thing: Prices in US are substantially lower than in
SG, cars, electronics, clothes etc; even true for food(from good quality
restaurants, to affordable food court type meals, or supermarkets) and
housing (HDB is cheaper option, but condo and house price in Singapore is
even higher than in Paris!)
The only arguably expensive thing in US is manpower, like babysitting etc.
US is a country with huge domestic consumption, so there is no way to have
goods prices high and unaffor... 阅读全帖 |
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l***m
发帖数: 920 | 30 Agree but not with one thing: Prices in US are substantially lower than in
SG, cars, electronics, clothes etc; even true for food(from good quality
restaurants, to affordable food court type meals, or supermarkets) and
housing (HDB is cheaper option, but condo and house price in Singapore is
even higher than in Paris!)
The only arguably expensive thing in US is manpower, like babysitting etc.
US is a country with huge domestic consumption, so there is no way to have
goods prices high and unaffor... 阅读全帖 |
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b*******n
发帖数: 473 | 31 According to National Society of the Prevention of Cruelty to Children in UK,
The law does not set a minimum age at which children can be left alone.
... For example, most parents would think it's OK to leave a 16-year-old
alone for the evening.
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http://www.nspcc.org.uk/help-and-advice/for-parents-and-carers/
home-alone/leaving-children-home-alone_wda72908.html
What the law says
The law does not set a minimum age at which children can be left alone.
However, it is an offence to leave a child... 阅读全帖 |
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b*******n
发帖数: 473 | 32 According to National Society of the Prevention of Cruelty to Children in UK,
The law does not set a minimum age at which children can be left alone.
... For example, most parents would think it's OK to leave a 16-year-old
alone for the evening.
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http://www.nspcc.org.uk/help-and-advice/for-parents-and-carers/
home-alone/leaving-children-home-alone_wda72908.html
What the law says
The law does not set a minimum age at which children can be left alone.
However, it is an offence to leave a child... 阅读全帖 |
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a****o
发帖数: 1786 | 33 我们收到很多志愿者的信件，都已经按照他们的意愿分组了（translation,
babysitting, shopping），各组的负责人可能下周会联系你的，现在事情很多，没有
及时回复请你原谅。如果你愿意，可以站内邮箱给我你的名字，我可以查一下你是否应
经在名单上了。谢谢你的支持！ |
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s**********n
发帖数: 291 | 34 second this. brookline is a rich town, but a lot of rentals too, it makes
the town fixed with local millionaires and students. Not much rich chinese
there, just students and post-docs. a lot of foreign scholars too.
malden, medford and qunicy also have high density of chinese population, but
would someone pay you the same amount of money they make and let you
babysit their kids? unless you expect lower pay.
To LZ's question, Lexington, concord, Acton, Weston and Newton maybe are the
better choic |
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a**v
发帖数: 406 | 35 This is the message from the organizer:
Please see No. 8; No walk in.
Dear Chinese Friends of Needham:
Snow is over and our party is ON!
Just a quick reminder of tomorrow's celebration:
1. Registration starts 4:45pm Saturday/tomorrow afternoon. Carter church is
on 800 Highland Avenue. Look for the side door with the sign of "Church
Office" also our balloons. Once inside the door, turn right immediately down
to the basement where you will hear and find our registration volunteers.
2. Proceed ord... 阅读全帖 |
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t****g
发帖数: 35582 | 36 nod。
那个殷尚荣托儿所不是在Arlington么？你可以去问问她愿不愿接临时的活。
当初我们给孩子找幼儿园的时候去看过，老太太人挺和蔼的。但是我们对她家的硬件设
施不满意。你如果只是暂时babysitting应该问题不大。 |
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b***b
发帖数: 13249 | 37 删啥了？ 没有呀？ 呵呵！
我儿子特别喜欢我唱的这首歌，小时候的babysitting 用的。 |
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d*******n
发帖数: 1566 | 38 带个小的下馆子的确是很辛苦，深有体会，找人babysit吧，偶尔周末抽个一天半天品
味新馆子，你这个舌头不经常用实在是浪费了啊。。。 |
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m****e
发帖数: 82 | 39 需要每周任意两个工作日babysit两个男孩，一个2岁半一个四岁，从下午5点到9点。我
住在brookline，在D line 附近。有意者请打电话 617 319 7807. 谢谢！ |
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c******y
发帖数: 39 | 41 替人发贴
周末照顾3岁女孩，Vernon Hill， 无需经验，工资面议 （～$60/天）。 请站内联系。 |
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j****a
发帖数: 5777 | 42 just sent u a message.
系。 |
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N********n
发帖数: 13236 | 43 教自己的孩子中文效率不高的话，你们几家中国人能否组织一下，相互教呢？
找个年龄差不多的，4~5家人，每周末到其中一家去集合，还可以相互babysitting，可
行么？ |
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c*******y
发帖数: 3008 | 44 If you really wanna hire a babysiter, the best way is to call Chinese
newspapers office in Chinatown to post your ads there for a week or 2, next
step is to talk with nanny candidates on the phone first, then schedule a
face to face interview at your place with nanny.
i got a perfect one in a week. |
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s****r
发帖数: 742 | 45 新年吃喝+滑雪+腐败+hottub+....组织的非常成功，还有你LD，任劳任怨， 又作厨师，又作清洁，还babysitting, 特此奖励！！ |
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i****w
发帖数: 19 | 46 我是嘉虹，今年31歲，台灣人，住Old Town Fort Collins。
尋找在Fort Collins 的保母工作，短期12月中到4月，全職住家或通勤，兼職也可商量。
相關工作經驗：
summer motel housekeeping in Estes Park 。
Occasional babysitting for two little boys. 2 and 3 in Estes Park
西雅圖，廚房幫工。
在台灣做過全職住家保母五歲和七歲的女生，
兼職通勤保母三歲男孩和五歲女孩。
電話：206-293-1067 |
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c*******k
发帖数: 76 | 47 I have a relatively unpredictable work hour and sometimes, I will say every
3 to 4 days I have to work late and can not pick up my 4-year old daughter
from day care. I wonder if any moms are in similar situation so that we can
form a group and help each other / exchange babysitting. I think it is also
great for Chinese kids to get together. Please let me know! I will be in
Norwalk this year and in New Haven the year after.
Jen |
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y*******o
发帖数: 133 | 48 I live in Norwalk, and have a 3-year old son. Most of the time, I am
available after 4:45 (I am in vacation now, and free for about 20 days since
today). I might be available to help you sometimes.
Even though we usually do not have the umpredictable work hour, we sometimes
do need back up babysitting, and hate to bring my son to a home which he is
not familar with.
Weiwei |
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v*******e
发帖数: 43 | 49 Hey everyone, I would like to join the mother group in Norwalk. I have a
daughter who is 16 months now. I think it is a good idea to help each other
/ exchange babysitting. Also, we can share child development experience and
knowledge. I currently stay in the Stamford area and plan to move to Norwalk
as soon as I find a place. Please let me know your contact if you are
interested. Thanks.
every
can
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