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g***e
发帖数: 1168
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来自主题: LeisureTime版 - Singlemind
《singlemind》是Nikolai Leskov故事集《The Enchanted Wonderer and Other
stories》中一篇。Leskov(下称小乐)何许人也?据说是十九世纪
下半叶甚至十月革命前俄国一位重要却常被忽视的小说家,又说其生平并不惊人--被左
右共嫌的遭遇,虽然不幸,却远不如同时人的冤屈来的精彩;为其不平叫屈者似乎发轫
于上世纪上半叶之西欧 (算上中部德语世界) ,包括Walter Benjamin (下称小本)。小
本在大俗作《Illuminations》中大谈小乐,令人印象深刻不下小乐晚辈的Kafka (下称
小卡) 与Baudelaire。小本本人经历稍似小乐,除了早夭外称不上精彩,而其早夭,除
了啼笑皆非我竟然寻不到更好形容,或者说啼笑皆非这感受本身就教我啼笑皆非。谈回
小本本人,死相如此,实在令他诸多昂昂论述打折,虽然如此,小本到底才短气高,品
味 (和推荐) 我是服气的,服气到到远超15美金,够我从马鬃上买来小乐这部故事集。
小乐据说自谓小说的意义在于教育世人,今人赞语却大相径庭,诸如『surreal,
gripping,violent... 阅读全帖
g***e
发帖数: 1168
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来自主题: WebRadio版 - Singlemind
《singlemind》是Nikolai Leskov故事集《The Enchanted Wonderer and Other
stories》中一篇。Leskov(下称小乐)何许人也?据说是十九世纪
下半叶甚至十月革命前俄国一位重要却常被忽视的小说家,又说其生平并不惊人--被左
右共嫌的遭遇,虽然不幸,却远不如同时人的冤屈来的精彩;为其不平叫屈者似乎发轫
于上世纪上半叶之西欧 (算上中部德语世界) ,包括Walter Benjamin (下称小本)。小
本在大俗作《Illuminations》中大谈小乐,令人印象深刻不下小乐晚辈的Kafka (下称
小卡) 与Baudelaire。小本本人经历稍似小乐,除了早夭外称不上精彩,而其早夭,除
了啼笑皆非我竟然寻不到更好形容,或者说啼笑皆非这感受本身就教我啼笑皆非。谈回
小本本人,死相如此,实在令他诸多昂昂论述打折,虽然如此,小本到底才短气高,品
味 (和推荐) 我是服气的,服气到到远超15美金,够我从马鬃上买来小乐这部故事集。
小乐据说自谓小说的意义在于教育世人,今人赞语却大相径庭,诸如『surreal,
gripping,violent... 阅读全帖
g***e
发帖数: 1168
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来自主题: WebRadio版 - Singlemind
《singlemind》是Nikolai Leskov故事集《The Enchanted Wonderer and Other
stories》中一篇。Leskov(下称小乐)何许人也?据说是十九世纪
下半叶甚至十月革命前俄国一位重要却常被忽视的小说家,又说其生平并不惊人--被左
右共嫌的遭遇,虽然不幸,却远不如同时人的冤屈来的精彩;为其不平叫屈者似乎发轫
于上世纪上半叶之西欧 (算上中部德语世界) ,包括Walter Benjamin (下称小本)。小
本在大俗作《Illuminations》中大谈小乐,令人印象深刻不下小乐晚辈的Kafka (下称
小卡) 与Baudelaire。小本本人经历稍似小乐,除了早夭外称不上精彩,而其早夭,除
了啼笑皆非我竟然寻不到更好形容,或者说啼笑皆非这感受本身就教我啼笑皆非。谈回
小本本人,死相如此,实在令他诸多昂昂论述打折,虽然如此,小本到底才短气高,品
味 (和推荐) 我是服气的,服气到到远超15美金,够我从马鬃上买来小乐这部故事集。
小乐据说自谓小说的意义在于教育世人,今人赞语却大相径庭,诸如『surreal,
gripping,violent... 阅读全帖
m*****5
发帖数: 23482
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来自主题: Military版 - 靠,伦敦就跟打仗了一样啊
London's Burning
(Strummer/Jones)
London's burning! London's burning!
All across the town, all across the night
Everybody's driving with full headlights
Black or white turn it on, face the new religion
Everybody's sitting 'round watching television!
London's burning with boredom now
London's burning dial 99999
I'm up and down the Westway, in an' out the lights
What a great traffic system - it's so bright
I can't think of a better way to spend the night
Then speeding around underneath the yellow ... 阅读全帖
f*****l
发帖数: 814
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【 以下文字转载自 Travel 讨论区 】
发信人: imTuFei (行走浆糊), 信区: Travel
标 题: 【小土匪横行坦桑尼亚】Arusha Town
关键字: Arusha,Tanzania
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jan 17 05:40:51 2012, 美东)
最后一天在Arusha是周六,太阳依旧晴朗得三十好几摄氏度。从乞力马扎罗下来之后就一心不想再走路,不想再爬坡,可这一天我还是跟着Daniel后面走了一个半小时。Daniel穿着一件格子衬衫,深色牛仔裤,一双白色的球鞋,我们从我的住地走到了市中心Clock Tower旁的Maasai Market,然后一路向北。路过了在Arusha见到的最大的建筑,Arusha会议中心。在下一个路口,Arusha Himo Rd和E African Community Blvd的路口,我第一次在这里看到了交通灯。Arusha的路全是两条道的,堵车总是堵得很严重,之前从来没有看到过交通灯,交通完全靠加塞,插队,超车,飙车以及环形roundabout来解决。这是个非常繁忙而且比较乱的十字路口,红绿灯挂在那儿显得... 阅读全帖
i*****i
发帖数: 70
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最后一天在Arusha是周六,太阳依旧晴朗得三十好几摄氏度。从乞力马扎罗下来之后就一心不想再走路,不想再爬坡,可这一天我还是跟着Daniel后面走了一个半小时。Daniel穿着一件格子衬衫,深色牛仔裤,一双白色的球鞋,我们从我的住地走到了市中心Clock Tower旁的Maasai Market,然后一路向北。路过了在Arusha见到的最大的建筑,Arusha会议中心。在下一个路口,Arusha Himo Rd和E African Community Blvd的路口,我第一次在这里看到了交通灯。Arusha的路全是两条道的,堵车总是堵得很严重,之前从来没有看到过交通灯,交通完全靠加塞,插队,超车,飙车以及环形roundabout来解决。这是个非常繁忙而且比较乱的十字路口,红绿灯挂在那儿显得特别单薄。
过了马路之后,Sanawari Rd是一条坑坑洼洼的黄土地的路,没有任何水泥,每次车子慢慢开过就掀起一阵尘土。感觉像是突然从镇里走进了非常破旧的农村一般,路得两边是破旧的平房,有小卖部,有卖肉的,卖药的,卖鞋的,也有路边撑着大阳伞卖菜的。不少坐在摩托车上的人直接对着我大声喊China, C... 阅读全帖
g****m
发帖数: 996
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Religion and Psychiatry
Irvin Yalom
宗教与精神病学
欧文亚隆

The American Psychiatric Association awarded Irvin Yalom the 2000 Oscar
Pfister prize (for important contributions to religion and psychiatry.) Here
is his acceptance speech delivered at the American Psychiatric Association
annual meeting in May 2000 at New Orleans. A version of this lecture has
been published in the American Journal of Psychotherapy (number three –
2002)
美国精神卫生协会将2000年奥斯卡菲斯特奖颁给欧文亚隆,奖励他在宗教与精神病学方
面做出的重要贡献。下面是他在2000年5月新奥尔良举行的美... 阅读全帖
z**********e
发帖数: 22064
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来自主题: Military2版 - 抗美援朝经验总结:美制步枪
二战中美国兵因为这个被打死的很多,美国兵对这个怨声载道。
还有,这个跟人多人少有关系吗?
其实,就是拉枪栓的声音,都不这么危险:至少它不告诉对方,我没子弹了。
查到了这个,在韩战中,美军采用“双枪制”:两人配合,一个打,一个压满子弹等着
;等到“砰”一声弹夹弹出,对方露头时,压满子弹的那个就正好开火。
http://thefiringline.com/forums/archive/index.php?t-106892.html
PDAView Full Version : Did the Garand`s "ping" get GIs killed?
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FatelvisMarch 28, 2002, 07:51 PM
I once heard, that in close-up fighting, (I believe in the South Pacific),
that in a stalemate cover situa... 阅读全帖
m****a
发帖数: 6567
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我决定收起我所有的心智,陪他们长大。?
发信人: platinum05 (Kym), 信区: NextGeneration
标 题: Re: 我对宝宝咋没啥感情呢
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Aug 22 12:45:43 2011, 美东)
我对宝宝们都没有什么感情。照顾他们只是我的习惯,每天要做的事,否则太闷了。我
也不会对哪个好点差点,他们对我来说都一样。
it's a little hard to differentiate btw truth and image, as here's a mother
supposedly loving home life to death and sacrificing everything for her
children (thus writing inane pro-life posts on the parenting board), and at
the same time declaring that she only loves herself (quite a few times),
having childr... 阅读全帖
m****a
发帖数: 6567
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我决定收起我所有的心智,陪他们长大。?
发信人: platinum05 (Kym), 信区: NextGeneration
标 题: Re: 我对宝宝咋没啥感情呢
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Aug 22 12:45:43 2011, 美东)
我对宝宝们都没有什么感情。照顾他们只是我的习惯,每天要做的事,否则太闷了。我
也不会对哪个好点差点,他们对我来说都一样。
it's a little hard to differentiate btw truth and image, as here's a mother
supposedly loving home life to death and sacrificing everything for her
children (thus writing inane pro-life posts on the parenting board), and at
the same time declaring that she only loves herself (quite a few times),
having childr... 阅读全帖
K****D
发帖数: 30533
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来自主题: Investment版 - YTD 12/26/08
Majorly because I am a believer that if I change my idea, it will
not improve my chance to beat index.
i.e., I am a believer that the vast majority of trading strageties would
lose to index in the long run.
The main reason that I trade instead of doing indexing is due to boredom.
I simply can't handle the boredom otherwise. I not necessarily want to
find a consistent way to beat index since I believe it is very hard.
W******e
发帖数: 3319
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1. Introduction
My interest in studying creativity was inspired by the frustrations that I
felt as a student, then as a professor. I wanted to know how I could
encourage creativity in myself, my students, and my colleagues.
Politicians, industrial managers, academic administrators, and other leaders
often say that innovation is critical to the future of civilization, our
country, their company, etc. But in practice, these same people often act as
if innovation is an evil that must be suppressed,... 阅读全帖
p******g
发帖数: 3908
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来自主题: WashingtonDC版 - 美丽的双子座!
Gemini’s have amazing brains. They store data like you wouldn’t believe.
Lots of people think they talk garbage but this is because their minds move
faster than their mouth. Gemini’s are generous, affectionate and impulsive
and hate hanging around. Boredom and relaxing frightens them. If they’re
not on the move they go mad. They are great with kids because they never
grow up themselves. If you have a Gemini friend, life will never be dull.
They love to be respected; this is pretty hard because t... 阅读全帖
p*****l
发帖数: 399
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来自主题: TexasHoldem版 - -3000
Sometimes I feel bored playing limit too. Although I don't play NL much(
almost all my NL experience comes from tournaments), I think boredom is not
less of a factor in NL. In limit, you get constant action, in NL, you wait
patiently for big action. I read somewhere someone described NL as "hours of
dull boredom followed by moments of sheer terror". I actually agree with
that.
Now I listen to music when playing, so don't feel as bored as before and my
result actually improves.

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j**n
发帖数: 13789
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来自主题: astrology版 - 白羊速配
Some explanation this guy offered
Aries and Virgo Compatibility scores
Aries and Virgo Compatibility High
Aries and Virgo Sexual chemistry High
Aries and Virgo Communication Medium
These scores show the averages for data collected from our clients over the
past 20 years. It's important to note however that individual relationships
vary enormously. This is a summarized picture, a real compatibillity reading
is needed to judge a real relationship. It's also worth noting that
Soulmates can... 阅读全帖
l*****l
发帖数: 5909
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来自主题: LeisureTime版 - 关于引用以及抄袭的一些杂想
前一阵讨论范玮琪版那些花儿抄袭,以及自己的故事里引用罗大佑歌词想到的。
所谓引用致敬,古代大概就叫用典,其实是很有意思很有趣味的事儿。不过很多时候引
用致敬和抄袭之间确实不一定有一条fine line。像即使是朴树原版的《那些花儿》,
作为灵感来源的pete seeger原作若非那么出名,还就真不好说了。
另外像学术文章引用都是要严格指明的。但是艺术作品就不一定了。将引用部分自然的
融入作品,本身就是一种艺术情趣。浅白的说,比如熟悉被引用的对象的人看到巧妙引
用的作品,也会感到亲切和有趣。
当然了,我也是认为,这种暗引尽量不要只单独,要不难免会瓜田李下。我的意思就是
说要引用就把引用对象和这个引用对象的来源都包含进来。这样比较稳妥,不容易造成
误会。
说几个音乐上的例子。不包括hiphop之类的sample手段。
一种是引用歌词,同时直接点名原作。这就相当于是直接告诉你这段词是引用了。比如
“妈妈教我一支歌,没有共产党就没有新中国”,或者“午夜里的旋律一直重复著那首
歌 Will you still love me tomorrow”
一种是引用音乐部分,同时提示歌名。比如K歌之王前奏... 阅读全帖
n*****w
发帖数: 1325
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iyiya (伊伊~为伊书) 于 (Fri Nov 16 01:33:22 2012, 美东) 提到:
《天龙八部》电视剧近日在河北天漠开机。小哇钟汉良一改日温雅清澈形象,挑
战“乔峰”,角色豪放不羁、义盖云天。造型粗犷、蓄须、混搭风。

对于“乔峰”一角,钟汉良表示:“我仔细研究过乔峰。我觉得以前大家都过多
强调他的耿直,而我反而更欣赏他做人做事的睿智。他会为大家而活,把每个人心里想
的事情,都在自己心里想一遍。我更希望在这个角色上多做一些人性探讨。”
1。影视造型及美术指导:
2012《天龙八部》制作费用过亿,主创阵容、制作水准、宣传水平均采用电影标
准。本剧聘请了影视造型师奚仲文倾情加盟,再有国内顶级美术指导和动作指导及其团
队全力加入。特效方面,追加制作成本,动画更加逼真、更具力度和美度,效果更加绚
丽。力求完美呈现中国古代历史上宋、辽、金、夏诸雄并峙、风云激荡的画卷。

2.音乐制作:
台湾著名“天王级”音乐制作人小虫继《... 阅读全帖
w********2
发帖数: 16371
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基本上苹果那边负责处理这件事情的人可以被开了。
http://www.businessinsider.com/apple-vs-proview-the-assignment-
There Are Several Holes In Apple's Trademark Contract In China
Stan Abrams, China Hearsay | 7 hours ago | 1,286 | 1
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China, Water & Development
What Have We Learned About China’s IP System? Answer: nothing
Apple Auditor: Worker Suicides ... 阅读全帖
p*****l
发帖数: 399
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来自主题: _TexasHoldem版 - -3000
Sometimes I feel bored playing limit too. Although I don't play NL much(
almost all my NL experience comes from tournaments), I think boredom is not
less of a factor in NL. In limit, you get constant action, in NL, you wait
patiently for big action. I read somewhere someone described NL as "hours of
dull boredom followed by moments of sheer terror". I actually agree with
that.
Now I listen to music when playing, so don't feel as bored as before and my
result actually improves.

of
ve
H****g
发帖数: 14447
20
什么叫闷?就是无聊呗,就是不够新奇,就是缺乏surprise。
为什么会这样呢?因为“闷”社会的特征就是一切都在安排之中,都在法律控制之下,
就好像一部已经剧透了的冗长电视剧。
比如说,在这样一个社会里,我们看到形形色色的人们,基本上就可以断定这些人的后
代,乃至前世是什么样的情况。看,剧透也就是这样子喽,你看了开头就知道结尾。
为什么会这样呢?因为社会就好像水流吧。如果川流不息,如果湍流激荡,就会有惊涛
拍岸卷起千堆雪,好看,精彩,瑰奇。如果换了一池死水呢?就是表面上看着很安静啊
,很和谐,看着貌似也干净的样子。但是如果吹来一阵风,这池子的平静就变皱巴巴了
,如果再伸来一根棍子搅一搅,哇,不得了了,泥沙俱起,马上水就混的不行了。
也就是说,当我们看到一条奔腾流淌的小溪流,很多水沫子,甚至看不清溪流里有什么
。但是这样的溪流,给人很欢快的样子。溪流里的每一个水珠,都有机会冒出头的。
但是如果在一池死水里,水底的水珠,就很难流动到水面。当然喽,水底很脏啊,泥巴
什么,其实很恶心的。特别是你如果一脚擦上去,哇,粘不溜丢,跟踩到一大坨鼻涕上
的感觉很类似。所以说,为了和谐,这个池塘是坚决要保... 阅读全帖
h******t
发帖数: 872
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http://www.businessinsider.com/chinas-end-gamethe-dark-side-of-
1. The frustrated and aggressive central bank
If one wants to know how bad the health of China's economy has gone, look no
further than the PBOC's composure, which seems rather frustrated and
aggressive as of late. On 5th July, the central bank cut benchmark interest
rates for the 2nd time in less than a month. This happened right after the
fact that in December 2011, PBOC cut the reserve requirement ratio(RRR) by a
50 bp to 21%, it... 阅读全帖
T****M
发帖数: 1913
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TempBM (Temp) 于 (Mon Dec 24 17:42:05 2012, 美东) 提到:
2012年就快过去了,祝福大家圣诞快乐!
活动规则:
内容与圣诞节有关,可以说说怎么庆祝,也可以送祝福,自由发挥,要求至少20字。
如果有贴自己拍的照片展示圣诞节,一张图额外奖励1个包子,奖励上限8个包子。
奖励说明:
每个参与ID奖励双黄
活动时间:
发帖之日起至美东时间Dec 26 23:59:59 2012
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greenspring (红唇吹彻梅花曲,我愿身为碧玉箫!) 于 (Mon Dec 24 17:48:51 2012, 美东) 提到:
祝大家圣诞快乐,末日后第一个圣诞。 在新的一年里万事如意心想事成!

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GIML (24/7) 于 (Mon Dec 24 19:03:23 2012, 美东) 提到:
Xmas... 阅读全帖
T****M
发帖数: 1913
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来自主题: Military版 - [合集] 贺新春,送祝福,奔年味
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TempBM (Temp) 于 (Fri Feb 8 17:34:49 2013, 美东) 提到:
新春佳节,祝福各位网友阖家辛福,心想事成!
照例发放包子,但是也有要求:不能少于20字,RE、DING不算,可以送祝福,也可以随
意说说和春节过年有关的事。每个不重复ID奖励2个大粽子。
如果有质量较高、或者奔照片(带有年味的,例如年夜饭等),额外再奖励1个。
活动截止时间:美东时间 2月11日 00:00:00前
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Acartia (深水鱼) 于 (Fri Feb 8 17:38:49 2013, 美东) 提到:
天公作美,大风雪暴留人在家,不用上班,东部今年过得美呀

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yyman (yy) 于 (Fri Feb 8 17:41:42 2013, 美东) 提到:
恭喜发财,身体健康,今天暴雪不用上班,在家炒股,小赚,... 阅读全帖
l*y
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【 以下文字转载自 LeisureTime 讨论区 】
发信人: ldy (大才001), 信区: LeisureTime
标 题: 一代资本主义失业青年的圣歌
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Feb 25 12:39:09 2014, 美东)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=s7w0eqUBp3c
Pet Shop Boys - Love is a bourgeois construct
I've been taking my time for a long time
Putting my feet up a lot
Speaking English as a foreign language
any words that I haven't forgot
I've been thinking how I can't be bothered
to wash the dishes or remake the bed
What's the point when I could doss instead?
I've been hanging out ... 阅读全帖
c*****g
发帖数: 21627
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来自主题: Military版 - THR是本版最大外F!
Protecting Children in Substance-Abusing Families
Characteristics of Parents at Risk
CASE VIGNETTE: Lisa had not seen her father since she was around 8 years of
age. Her mother was an unemployed recovering alcoholic who lived with her
boyfriend. Before her pregnancy Lisa had been a model for 3 years and
reported that she was introduced to illicit drugs by friends at work who in
the evenings. Through these friends, Lisa met Johnnie, the father of her
child. Johnnie was a photographer who used dru... 阅读全帖
z**********e
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http://www.wsj.com/articles/the-coming-chinese-crack-up-1425659
The Coming Chinese Crackup
By
David Shambaugh
March 6, 2015 11:26 a.m. ET
The endgame of communist rule in China has begun, and Xi Jinping's ruthless
measures are only bringing the country closer to a breaking point
Chinese President Xi Jinping, front center, and other Chinese leaders attend
the opening meeting on Thursday of the third session of the National People
's Congress at the Great Hall of the People in Beijing. Photo: Xinh... 阅读全帖

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http://www.ft.com/content/19d90308-6858-11ea-a3c9-1fe6fedcca75
Yuval Noah Harari: the world after coronavirus | Free to read
This storm will pass. But the choices we make now could change our lives for
years to come
Yuval Noah Harari MARCH 20 2020
Be the first to know about every new Coronavirus story
Humankind is now facing a global crisis. Perhaps the biggest crisis of our
generation. The decisions people and governments take in the next few weeks
will probably shape the world for years to com... 阅读全帖
l****z
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https://www.amazon.com/Stronger-Together-Hillary-Rodham-Clinton/dp/
1501161733
读这个书的书评真是一种享受, priceless, 写的都很好, 比如这个:
写书评的真的听了一半, 然后写了书评, 这个是最后一段.
I don't believe the authors can do all that they say they are going to do in
this book, and I don't want them to even try. Not one single progressive
proposal in this book is going to make you and me as fellow Americans, "
Stronger Together." If you decide to read the book yourself and manage to
get through it all, please read between the lines and ke... 阅读全帖
D**S
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Again,when it comes to fact, we do not have the luxury of diversity. After
all, I am not living in that famous "alternative" world. If you abhor the
boredom of cold facts being one and only, it is your loss.
t**x
发帖数: 20965
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Firefighter arson
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Firefighter arson is a persistent phenomenon involving a small minority of
firefighters who are also active arsonists.[1] Fire-fighting organizations
are aware of this problem. Some of the offenders seem to be motivated by
boredom, or by the prospect of receiving attention for responding to the
fires they have set.[2]
It has been reported that roughly 100 U.S. firefighters are convicted of
arson each year.[3][4]
Motives behind why a Firefig... 阅读全帖
y***m
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来自主题: Automobile版 - 这个现代车1w不到,怎样
http://www.hyundaiusa.com/vehicles/2010/accent-3-door/
The Hyundai Accent was designed to keep you moving and leave boredom behind.
Accent was named a Best Car Buy for 2009 by NADAguides.com among top Sub-
compacts under $15,000. Boasting an economical 35-miles-per-gallon EPA
highway rating, nimble handling and the most interior room for a three-door
in its class, the affordable, versatile Accent sport hatch is an easy-to-
drive car that gives your sensible side plenty to smile about.
thx!
W***n
发帖数: 11530
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来自主题: Automobile版 - Like my new tires, going 80 mph in heavy rain
life is a tradeoff of time, efficiency, fun, boredom, safety and risk
k*******8
发帖数: 1304
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skyglobal (纽约和记电讯) 于 (Fri Nov 16 21:51:24 2012, 美东) 提到:
纽约和记电讯对投票结果的正式表态。
1: Bcbill的Fedex取证没有改变我们对hams道德品性低劣的看法,
他就是如假包换的骗子韩。
2: Hams搞了这么多,动用上所有小弟ID包括 jiazi,lysf.... 无非想多讹6500刀,
我只说一次: 这招不灵。
3: 本次陪审团的成员劳心劳力,
不少版友对预防解决将来潜在的纠纷做了不少有意义的探讨。
为表感谢:
本人将捐出$6500給你们心仪的慈善组织。
在下周五以前,如果你们不确定要捐给那个慈善组织,
我将捐赠6500美金給美国红十字会。
到时我会把收据贴上来。
另外, 我们在Mitbbs只有也只会用一个ID做生意,就是SkyGlobal,
我对于这件事情的回应到此为止。
11/16/2012
SkyGlobal
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gluying (柏拉图) 于... 阅读全帖
l********s
发帖数: 395
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来自主题: Family版 - 想离婚
I was in similar shoes as you. You need a change in your life, out of the
boredom of current life style.
If you two still get along, and want to live on (with at least 50% chance),
try to have a kid together, or start some hobbies. This will help you to
switch focus on something new.You might bond better after the kids. I am
trying this approach. I found my husband is very caring and attentive, in
the midst of a lot of other characteristics I do not like (such as not
physically active, not socia... 阅读全帖
g*****g
发帖数: 34805
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来自主题: Investment版 - Does diversification work?
The loss will be small, usually < 10%, it will take years of pig market
to accumulate a big loss. And I can always combine other indicators to
reduce noise.
People see profit in bull market, opportunity in bear market, but only
boredom in pig market. A long lasting pig market is the last thing MM
wants to see.
B*****I
发帖数: 1378
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hopenicole (Nicole) 于 (Fri Nov 16 12:33:39 2012, 美东) 提到:
最近在parenting版面有很多关于special education的话题,有不少人讨论special
education funding是不是被abused了,是不是应该被cut一些,还有人甚至建议大家给
政府写信要求缩减这部分开支。之间也牵扯到ASD overdiagnosis的话题。我写了下面
这篇文章放在parenting版面。因为有很多科普内容,有网友建议我也贴到宝宝版。不
好意思,文章很长,在parenting版我是分成三贴,然后分段发的,在这里就group在一
起了。如果大家想要看的舒服些,原帖在这里。
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Parenting/32013295.html
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Parenting/32013315.html
http://www.mitbbs.com/... 阅读全帖
m****a
发帖数: 6567
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - [bssd]吐个槽,老公老是说娃胖
你不会说,你全身只长着一张嘴么?你受过教育能识字么?会用google么?唉,突然对
我老公爱如潮水了...........
http://www.parents.com/baby/development/problems/do-fat-babies-
Many parents wonder and worry about their baby's size and whether it is any
indication of how their child will look as an adult. Will a long, skinny
baby be tall for her age? And will a chubby baby be obese later in life?
In most cases, there's no correlation between the size of an infant under
age 2 and the size she'll be as an adult-with one exception. Extremely
overwei... 阅读全帖
h*d
发帖数: 19309
s*****r
发帖数: 1032
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 抱怨一下小提琴学习
Violin does have a longer initial "suffering" period than piano. If a kid
is pushed into this activity, the enjoyment she is rewarded might not be
sufficient to overcome the boredom those repetitive practices bring. IMO,
you probably don't want to get your kid into playing violin if she doesn't
want to, or at least wait till she is older when she is capable of handling
more repetition and delayed gratification.

much
o******y
发帖数: 743
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 关于是否晚上学的讨论
从这篇文章摘了一段。
http://www.education.com/magazine/article/Redshirting_Whats_All
SHORT TERM EFFECTS: As a group, redshirted kids do appear to have advantages in motor skills and size, and they are more confident than peers who began school young. However, when they are much bigger than classmates, they may feel somewhat alienated. Large spans in age and ability may also make it harder for teachers to manage a class.
GRADES 1-3: Redshirted children generally maintain their early gains, but one study h... 阅读全帖
L********r
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 关于是否晚上学的讨论
Just a marginal effect. I don't see how will that change one's growth
significantly. If parents need to worry the consequence of every decision
that they make for their children at each crossing road, they will be
overwhelmed. In fact, most of these decisions just divert the paths that
their children will walk on, but not the direction of their destination.

advantages in motor skills and size, and they are more confident than peers
who began school young. However, when they are much bigger than... 阅读全帖
w*********t
发帖数: 319
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 昨天儿子自信心受打击了。
those animal names doesn't matter. if the kid knows them, that is great,
that is a sign of good memory (good brain quality :-)), if he doesn't know
because he is not familiar with it, he or his parents shouldn't feel bad
about it
The most important thing is the way of thinking. how to research on a
subject, how to think critically/independently/creatively.
Also practicing piano is more about teaching kid patience and tolerance for
boredom, so he won't give up so quick. taste/gift is not acquired... 阅读全帖
J*******p
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11. But we, believing that the normal child has powers of mind which fit him
to deal with all knowledge proper to him, give him a full and generous
curriculum; taking care only that all knowledge offered him is vital, that
is, that facts are not presented without their informing ideas. Out of this
conception comes our principle that,--

Instead, we believe that childrens' minds are capable of digesting real
knowledge, so we provide a rich, generous curriculum that exposes children
to many int... 阅读全帖
J*******p
发帖数: 1129
44
11. But we, believing that the normal child has powers of mind which fit him
to deal with all knowledge proper to him, give him a full and generous
curriculum; taking care only that all knowledge offered him is vital, that
is, that facts are not presented without their informing ideas. Out of this
conception comes our principle that,--

Instead, we believe that childrens' minds are capable of digesting real
knowledge, so we provide a rich, generous curriculum that exposes children
to many int... 阅读全帖
z******2
发帖数: 1907
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来自主题: Parenting版 - Babysitter gives cartoon (转载)
what do you mean have toys ready to let her not watch cartoons?
Of course, there's toys in my home.
can this be an excuse for giveing her cartoons?
she did not show boredom and she did not request watching cartoons.
YOUR suggestion does not make any sense.

has
than
should
x*****i
发帖数: 4035
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最近读到一些关于培养孩子的"grit"的文章,挺有感触的,拿来和大家分享一下。
关心这个主要是因为我家七岁男孩怕难、怕输、怕吃苦,还听不得批评。从家里走到公
园只要七八分钟都不愿意,弹钢琴的手势不好,给他提个醒都生气。当然我和他爹也没
有做好榜样,我吃不得苦,她爹听不得批评。。。如果大家有这方面的经验教训,欢迎
分享。
“Grit” is defined as “perseverance and passion for long-term goals.” It
involves “working strenuously toward challenges, maintaining effort and
interest over years despite failures, adversity, and plateaus in progress.”
It’s one of a set of “noncognitive” skills — such as curiosity,
resilience, self-control — that researchers now reali... 阅读全帖
c*********h
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版里头痛的gt娃家长看来不少啊!我们来分享一下心得。我家娃4岁多某iq测试是99.9%
,超过ceiling的部分测不出来了;我们没当回事;自打开始上学就不停被老师骚扰,
今天上课插嘴,明天和别人说话,不胜其烦。我们真是十八般武艺全用尽了,老师的抱
怨还是不见减少。终于我们决定找儿童心理医生看看怎么对付这娃。结果人家又用老版
的某iq测试测了一遍,据说可以测出超过ceiling的那部分,结果又爆表了。。。就不
举别的栗子了,不是来bso的。
总之这个心理学家自己家有两个gt娃,都是homeschool的。她一开始极力想劝我们
homeschool,看我们实在负担不起也就作罢了。她举了很多数据和研究来教育我们娃一
方面先进,另一方肯定是有代价的! gt娃的exacutive function skill会一直不成熟
于正常同龄人,低龄2-4岁,同理,低智商娃也是这个情况。但这个exacutive
function skill会最终在青春期左右长上来,追成和正常智商儿童一样。这也是她觉得
我娃需要homeschool的原因,一方面学校上课上得太简单,他们没法忍受bored;另一
方面因为他... 阅读全帖
h**r
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大家看这个帖子
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Parenting/32499805.html
简单分析一下:
1,“心理学家认为,对于IQ奇高的天才娃,一方面先进,另一方肯定是有代价的! gt
娃的exacutive function skill会一直不成熟于正常同龄人,低龄2-4岁。这就是说,
那些真正的小神童,exacutive function skill一直不成熟于正常同龄人。”反而推之
,executive function skill发育正常的娃,不会是真正的神童。
2,“这个exacutive function skill会最终在青春期左右长上来,追成和正常智商儿
童一样。”根据前面说的,“一方面先进,另一方肯定是有代价的!”,等GT娃
executive function skill在青春期追上来时,他们的IQ就是付出代价的部分。
总结:
绝大部分小神童,是因为付出了executive function skill发展滞后为代价而来的。无
非就是普通孩子平衡发育,他们却先发育了IQ部分,后发育executive function ski... 阅读全帖
l****z
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By ANDREW JACOBS
BEIJING — Liu Yang, a coal miner’s daughter, arrived in the capital
this past summer with a freshly printed diploma from Datong University, $140
in her wallet and an air of invincibility.

北京— 刘扬是一位矿工的女儿,今年夏天怀揣大同大学新近颁发的毕业文凭和1000元
人民币来到北京时,眼前似乎没有战胜不了的困难。

Her first taste of reality came later the same day, as she lugged her
bags through a ramshackle neighborhood, not far from the Olympic Village,
where tens of thousands of other young strivers cram four to a room.

到达北... 阅读全帖
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