c******u
发帖数: 13 | 1 i think your opinion is right. Cherish current MR Right is the best way to
solve all of the troubles in marriage life. no principle problem and both
are nice, willing to change (or at least one). the marriage is ok. |
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c**p
发帖数: 204 | 2 Full understand your wife and support your wife.
她不奢求什么大富大贵，但求安安稳稳。What kind of wife you want? She dose not
expect too much from you!! What can you bring to her if you go back?
You just think your career is most important than everything...
Cherish your marrige, your wife, your kids. You will regret if you go back,
I believe.
是回还是不回，毕竟回国的目的，其实也是觉得 |
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C*******d
发帖数: 15836 | 3 Your GF sounds very inconsiderate and very irresponsible to me.
Make sure don't get married before you are 100% sure and 100% free from any
mental pain like this!
Since this is your first love, I am sure you don't know a lot. Just remember
should cherish yourself instead of wasting your precious time on someone
that doesn't deserve. |
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s*********y
发帖数: 387 | 4 very good points.
And best wishes to you two and your daughter.
My boss told me in my interview three and half years ago, "life is short",
please cherish what you have and make a better living.
BTW, the life you two are making here are not much difference from the
single income postdoc families.
life is not easy and life is short,
take care and my best wishes to you all... |
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m*********w
发帖数: 64 | 5 Communication is important. I totally disagree the divorce no matter what.
The level of happiness or unhappniess is the score from both of you, don't
blame one part, don't look outside, but inside.
Cherish from what you have now, it is really where you have to stand up,
build and move forward. Woman is woman, and man is man, should act
differently in a family. |
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s********y
发帖数: 200 | 6 Dr. Phil said:
The key to happy marriage ----
Men need to be admired, women need to be cherished. |
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o*****y
发帖数: 710 | 7 Life is short，cherish what you have，
because you never know what you have
until you lose it. |
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z****u
发帖数: 2629 | 8 估计很多女性长辈，说话看似是比较现实，也许也是年轻时候都曾以为自己超脱不俗气
，鄙视社会传统说法，吃亏以后才会看明白，只有让男人去努力，去奋斗，去provide
，去offer，去take care，去负责，才是真正的男人，一是可以刷去小白脸靠女人提供
某些方面的男人，二是可以让男人在努力provide的过程当中得到男人的满足感，和对
女人的cherish的能力。
这对于男女双方感情的维护，其实是至关重要的。否则男不像男，女不像女，各不司其
职，就会生出抱怨不满来。 |
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J***u
发帖数: 51 | 9 Self-Sacrificing Love
What is meant by self-sacrificing love ?
As I have written in one of my articles, love is the most sacred
sentiment of all human feelings and emotions. Love, in its narrow sense,
refers to intimate feelings and relationship between man and woman, but in
broad sense, there is motherly love for children, love for friends, family
members, for the weak and the old, for motherland ,and all in all love for
humanity. When love takes deep root... 阅读全帖 |
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m*********e
发帖数: 172 | 10 Talk with him openly, be calm and confident. Put all the cards on the table.
For the marriage to continue, both parties need to appreciate and both
should cherish the love you two once had, and both should be willing to take
responsibilities. Endurance is not the solution.
If you both still want the marriage, there gotta be a major change of course
. The current state of living obviously does not work.
If things cannot work out after the talk, then you can go divorce without
regret. Under your s... 阅读全帖 |
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l**********a
发帖数: 385 | 11 请重复结婚誓言
to have and to hold from this day forward, for better or for worse, for
richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health, to love and to cherish; from
this day forward until death do us part.
今天换你生病，不能生孩子， 等等，怎么样呢
有明确的目标，迅速做完。lg就是什么都不急，也什么都不当回事.因为这样，我快高
龄了也不能要孩子。
服药。我突然觉得有种天塌下来的感觉。收入低一点我不在乎，long distance终于有
结束的希望了。可是想到以后的几十年随时都要担心lg的身体，这几天越想越难过。我
的婚姻怎么了？为什么很难找到幸福感了呢？ |
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f******e
发帖数: 938 | 12 for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness and in health,
to love and to cherish, till death do us part |
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b***s
发帖数: 373 | 13 I might understand your feeling.
I have the similar experience before and felt that it's
the end of the world, it took time to recover for both of you.
If you really love your husband and cherish your marriage, your husband
is the one in need of support more than you. He is suffering lot of
pressure, too. He worries about his health and worries about you, too.
Travel might help, explore the nature might help, crying might help, too
. Seeing help from friends, family really make difference, ... 阅读全帖 |
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t******f
发帖数: 2109 | 14 What chizi said is very true.
The following may become a killer in your marriage, until he realizes that
he needs to take and cherish you as who you are, both of you will suffer.
Your only bet is he is still young and maybe he will mature as time goes on.
When a woman is in love and feel loved, she vents like 'koox'.
你们两人对生活的要求很不一样，一个要求不断求上进，一个喜欢看看八卦觉得有份过
得去的工作生活轻松就好了。这个才是根本，就凭这点，即使你们现在这件事过去了，
以后仍然会不断有矛盾。通常是求上进的那个人会对求轻松的那个不满。两个人都会觉
得很累。 |
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S*********3
发帖数: 142 | 15 100% percent supporting you! I've read your replies to some posts, including
mine. You are a graceful and peaceful lady I've always hoped myself to be
and I believe I could be..... given that I was in a nice family environment
like yours.
Best wishes to you and your family, cherish your family and those adorable
little ones! |
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w********o
发帖数: 155 | 16 通篇除了得意和炫耀 看不到appreciate和cherish 更看不到感情 为你老公不值 |
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g*******t
发帖数: 1039 | 17 I am with you my friend. However, I'll still want to say it's无病呻吟.
If you're still living in an apt, and worrying about how to put the food on
the table, you won't have this much to say.
Cherish and enjoy what you have - 一个大一轮儿的朋友 |
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y**s
发帖数: 563 | 18 近日，她在微博上发出长篇文章，详细讲述了婚后老公如何破产、药物成瘾、最终戒掉
的全过程，让人动容。
附刘涛长微博全文：
要做一名贤妻，底线是什么？不是挺老公，哄婆婆，斗小三，而是抱住妻子这职
称。男人没了，便做不成妻子，再贤也顶多是贤女，良母。而新婚燕尔的我，好景不长
，隔年便面临失守这条底线。福兮？祸兮！
0809年，全球金融危机，他的生意在国内外接连受创。那时候他只有29岁，掩不
住棱角的青春霸气，他一意孤行，最终面临全面溃败。一夜间他从众望所归到众矢之的
，这种打击是毁灭性的。兵败如山倒，树倒猢狲散，他不到30岁便发现人性中最丑恶的
一面，好友反目，亲信背叛。他想不通，陷入抑郁。而我当时身在美国，他每月往返多
次，面临巨大压力和时差，产生严重失眠和头痛。曾经五天睡不了觉，这是他便服用安
眠镇痛药，持续了半年多，那是他回北京就不分昼夜的吧自己关进漆黑的卧室，有时候
醒过来就想着吃什么药能再睡着，日复一日，痛苦不堪，而且他开始时常胡言乱语，脾
气暴躁，乱摔东西，甚至痛哭流涕，发生不快时有几次他疯了一般抓起桌子上的杯子就
砸在自己的头上，这时我才意识到事态严重，翻垃圾箱寻起他扔掉的... 阅读全帖 |
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w****a
发帖数: 2049 | 19 i think your parents are ok. As a father of two kids, I completely
understand your parents and how your attitude is hurting them.
just make the rule that you shall talk to them less than 10 min a day. Or
you can meet them online and chat with them from time to time during work.
my parents and I chat multiple times EVERYDAY using google chat. I just log
into gmail at work, and they pop in to say hi from time to time. My wife
video chat with her parents everyday.
Not to say your parents (or you) a... 阅读全帖 |
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S******4
发帖数: 2865 | 20 Having to chat everyday does NOT mean / prove they truly care about you...
it only means that they are mentally sick and dependent on you.
Plenty of parents will die for their kids but they don't have to hear them
everyday.
Time to find a Psychiatrist for LZ's parents.
just make the rule that you shall talk to them less than 10 min a day. Or
you can meet them online and chat with them from time to time during work.
my parents and I chat multiple times EVERYDAY using google chat. I just log
into... 阅读全帖 |
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w****a
发帖数: 2049 | 21 i think your parents are ok. As a father of two kids, I completely
understand your parents and how your attitude is hurting them.
just make the rule that you shall talk to them less than 10 min a day. Or
you can meet them online and chat with them from time to time during work.
my parents and I chat multiple times EVERYDAY using google chat. I just log
into gmail at work, and they pop in to say hi from time to time. My wife
video chat with her parents everyday.
Not to say your parents (or you) a... 阅读全帖 |
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S******4
发帖数: 2865 | 22 Having to chat everyday does NOT mean / prove they truly care about you...
it only means that they are mentally sick and dependent on you.
Plenty of parents will die for their kids but they don't have to hear them
everyday.
Time to find a Psychiatrist for LZ's parents.
just make the rule that you shall talk to them less than 10 min a day. Or
you can meet them online and chat with them from time to time during work.
my parents and I chat multiple times EVERYDAY using google chat. I just log
into... 阅读全帖 |
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s******u
发帖数: 23 | 23 看了楼主的帖和大家回帖， 本来都关机睡觉了还是说几句，大家轻拍：
1、我是男的， 也有娃。首先问楼主，你女人生孩子的时候你在产室么？娃刚出来时候
几磅大小还记得吗？翻看你老婆3rd trimester 大肚子照片看看吧。平时xx 都觉得紧
紧的地方蹭的挤出baby头 !想象下吧~！
一个女人都给你生孩子了，屁大个事儿就想着离婚，是男人么？你还“伤心了，哭了”
！----你是上海男人？
我说这事儿对你们只有屁大是因为你们至少有一个工作能维持家庭运转，你见过周围同
学两口靠一个人奖学金养娃的有多拮据么？（很多两口穷开心！）如果哪天为娃奶粉钱
发愁了，看你还有空上来叫嚷！
2. **你带过孩子爱孩子么？如果你深爱着那小淘气，就算你女人是天下人的敌人也不
会是
你的敌人！---她是孩子的妈啊。同样是孩子爹， 你估计没有这感觉， 因为你为自己
想得太多了！什么记恨什么卧薪尝胆，全扯淡。
**** 想结婚的状态是一个憧憬一种信仰/信念，维系婚姻/家庭就是在坚持你的信仰！
不管哪一方，一旦有离婚的念头赶紧扼杀掉，多检讨自己吧， 不然迟早要走到到一步
， 因为你的态度对方能觉察出来的。
两人在外，白手... 阅读全帖 |
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V****5
发帖数: 913 | 24 周末了，心情很好，很开心，献歌一首，祝大家也周末愉快！ 该干嘛就干嘛！
Oh my love, you hold my hand
Make me feel the beauty of the world
Shining stars in your eyes
Tell me what love is really like
Like a bird flying in the sky
Nothing is gonna make me cry
Like a fish swimming in the sea
Living every day in happy dreams
I really want to be a butterfly
Fly with you in my life
Every day and night
Every word you say
I try to cherish it all my life
I really want to be a butterfly
Fly with you in your life
When you have to go
We'll hav... 阅读全帖 |
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b***b
发帖数: 13249 | 25 【 以下文字转载自 Music 讨论区 】
发信人: bbppb (白白胖胖不), 信区: Music
标 题: 【星战5】bbppb - two butterflies
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Mar 1 00:00:30 2014, 美东)
参赛：音乐版全能星战 5
参赛曲目：外文歌曲 （选了英文歌曲）
ID: bbppb
歌曲介绍：
这首歌原中文歌曲是庞龙唱的《两只蝴蝶》，樊桐舟用同曲改编了英文版的《two
butterflies》. 由此带来了两只蝴蝶版权纠纷一案。
很喜欢这首英文歌。但是我慢歌唱的很吃力，就找了《两只蝴蝶》的舞曲版伴奏，改编
了一下，当作英文版的伴奏用了，效果我自己挺喜欢的。
歌词：
两只蝴蝶
原唱：庞龙/樊桐舟
改编：bbppb
翻唱: bbppb
Oh my love, you hold my hand
Make me feel the beauty of the world
Shining stars in your eyes
Tell me what love is really like
Like a bird flying in... 阅读全帖 |
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G***G
发帖数: 16778 | 26 Love and Life
-----gooog
-----7-3-1999
What is love?
It is like a plate of pickle
the more affection you put on it
the more taste it has
What is life?
It is like a bowl of rice soup
the more you cherish it
the more precious it is
爱情是什么
爱情是碟咸菜
你越有情
它越有味
生活是什么
生活是碗稀粥
你越珍惜
它越珍贵 |
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f*e
发帖数: 6992 | 27 我觉得，防小人不防君子，而不是倒过来。
大家可以踊跃自荐，：）我们谨慎审批，然后，欢迎大家匿名或者公开举报。像前一阵
虫虫所说，cherish ur credit。希望那是一个credit比较好的平台。 |
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q**********n
发帖数: 4160 | 28 情人节的早晨看了一段文字，如下：
“愛 其實可以很簡單，需要的只有包容，呼吸對方的空氣，感受彼此的溫柔...願 情
人們 知福惜福 幸福到 地久天長~~”
其实只要是有情感存在的人们就可以节日快乐！别管是爱情，友情，亲情......
简单的早餐，虾蒸蛋，一只鸡蛋，打匀，同等量的水，少加一点盐，沙网过滤，开锅后
5分钟，再把大虾放上去，这样不至于沉底，直熟就好。
Happy Valentine's Day to you, whether you have a love one or being single.
Cherish your love one the best you can. And for those who don't have anybody
at the moment, take it as a blessing....as life itself IS a blessing. |
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j***k
发帖数: 2719 | 29 一般提到艺术歌曲，大多数人想到的是舒伯特。舒伯特明显玩交响乐不行，弄了半天弄
出一个＂未完成＂。但在艺术歌曲的创作上舒伯特确实多产。
可是虽然多产，艺术歌曲我倒是更喜欢在他之前的海顿和之后的这个Reynaldo Hahn。
Reynaldo Hahn的艺术歌曲是典型的法式，用现在俗气一点的形容就是比较唯美的。他
的时代可以算是艺术歌曲的末代了，所有的技巧都已经非常成熟。Reynaldo Hahn的年
代也有了录音，他的音乐在当时传播得很广泛。可是不知道为什么，现在很多人还是对
他不了解。可能是因为他的东西虽然好听，虽然很优美，但是在创义上面他没有新的突
破。
可是有时候听音乐也是为了放松，为了享受。我就很喜欢他的东西。
有人在AMAZON的REVIEW里面这么说：
This is an album to cherish, to play when things in the world outside don't
make much sense. It is restorative!
他的艺术歌曲里我最喜欢的是SUSAN GRAHAM在SONY的录音。
http://www.amazo... 阅读全帖 |
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q**b
发帖数: 16 | 30 I do cherish this experience a lot. |
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m****g
发帖数: 25 | 31 "btw: 现在发现BASE PAY真的很重要，直接影响了你下一份工作的BASE PAY"
能不能展开讲一讲？
BTW: 如果第一家给的比第二家高就好办了
Mention to the second one that you really cherish the opportunity to work
for them. AND the first one offers a higher base salary. See if they can
match or do better. |
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G******l
发帖数: 63 | 32 Thank you so much! I remembered every word you said. Cherish people love me
and I love, don't hurt them just because of some trash people unimportant at
all. It is not worthy.
have |
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c*********8
发帖数: 137 | 33 【 以下文字转载自 SanFrancisco 讨论区 】
发信人: cherish0718 (cherish(我已经不混BBS好多年)), 信区: SanFrancisco
标 题: 也谈印度人，和在美华人的区别
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jan 3 23:37:17 2014, 美东)
主流的在美国作IT的印度人，和中国人是两个不同类别，不能单纯比较其竞争力如何如
何。
在美国的码工华人，多是天之骄子，拥有高学历PHD,至少MASTER,从学生时代起，就是
Academic突出的人，这部人中有很大部分智商过高，但是情商不高，甚至很多都是属于
social awkward的（绝对没有贬义），沟通交际能力强的并不多，因为学生时代靠分数
和智商取胜，对这些soft skill不是决定性的，这部分人来到了美国。但是中国人中不
乏，受过高等教育，智商情商均衡，人情练达之人，这些人大部分都没有来到美国，这
些人大多是美国这些天之骄子们当年的同学发小，当年无论如何都不可能qualify留学
美国这样艰苦非常人能够闯过的(GRE,奖学金申请)关卡，所以大多留在了国内，但是这
些人也... 阅读全帖 |
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l**********r
发帖数: 4612 | 34 【 以下文字转载自 SanFrancisco 讨论区 】
发信人: cherish0718 (cherish(我已经不混BBS好多年)), 信区: SanFrancisco
标 题: 也谈印度人，和在美华人的区别
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jan 3 23:37:17 2014, 美东)
主流的在美国作IT的印度人，和中国人是两个不同类别，不能单纯比较其竞争力如何如
何。
在美国的码工华人，多是天之骄子，拥有高学历PHD,至少MASTER,从学生时代起，就是
Academic突出的人，这部人中有很大部分智商过高，但是情商不高，甚至很多都是属于
social awkward的（绝对没有贬义），沟通交际能力强的并不多，因为学生时代靠分数
和智商取胜，对这些soft skill不是决定性的，这部分人来到了美国。但是中国人中不
乏，受过高等教育，智商情商均衡，人情练达之人，这些人大部分都没有来到美国，这
些人大多是美国这些天之骄子们当年的同学发小，当年无论如何都不可能qualify留学
美国这样艰苦非常人能够闯过的(GRE,奖学金申请)关卡，所以大多留在了国内，但是这
些人也... 阅读全帖 |
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s*******h
发帖数: 3219 | 35 【 以下文字转载自 Seattle 讨论区 】
发信人: cherish0718 (cherish(我已经不混BBS好多年)), 信区: Seattle
标 题: 微软的新CEO真的不行，大家还是赶紧各寻出路吧
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jul 17 10:10:53 2014, 美东)
我是局外人，只看过一个 recode conference最近对Sayta 长达90分钟的一个专访，和
最近这两封超长邮件。
这是我的感觉，说话啰嗦，绕来绕去，没有重点，套话空话连篇，主持人拼命想问的他
对微软未来发展的strategy，🕐没回答上来，典型的烙印思维，主持人是采访
国bill gates, steve jobs 多次的业界名记者，主持人有点失望。
Email 又臭又长，违反了email沟通最基本的原则，email最忌讳冗长，而且同样套话空
话连篇。
此人超嫉妒忌讳路奇，无论采访和第一封超长邮件，路奇名字都被唯一特别提到， 看似
尊敬，重视，实乃心腹大患，作为在微软成长起来22年，对外来高管心存提防，又是中
国人，是可以理解的。
微软已经病入膏肓，无人可救... 阅读全帖 |
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f*****u
发帖数: 729 | 36 【 以下文字转载自 BayAreaHomeLoan 俱乐部 】
发信人: frankfu (Frank-湾区房贷俱乐部), 信区: BayAreaHomeLoan
标 题: Bipartisan tax plan trims mortgage deduction
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jul 22 00:28:48 2011, 美东)
For example, current law allows homeowners to deduct the interest they pay on home mortgages of up to $1 million. One proposal would lower the limit to $500,000 and exclude mortgage interest on second homes.
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WASHINGTON (AP) — A new bipartisan plan to reduce government borrowing
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j*******0
发帖数: 347 | 37 just want to share some thoughts for your reference.
clients have rights to choose which one to use. If you tells someone you are
not supposed to use any Realtor, he is not supposed to hassle you. It is
hard to define the appropriate contact frequency. If you feel he cross the
line, you can let him know directly to shut down the door. On the other hard
, please try to be considerate of the work done by your Realtors. They are
working for living so good job should be appreciated.
Yes, you cannot ... 阅读全帖 |
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z***9
发帖数: 1052 | 38 they don't have to hassle you face to face. smash a dozen of eggs of on your
cherished stone lions one night, poo poo on your drive way another night.
do you have time to handle all these?
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t*****e
发帖数: 15794 | 39 ft，
只惦记钱的前提是第二个老婆。
你老婆从年轻时就跟着你，
现在也没嫌过，
土话说，就是你的人了。
洋话说，就是，
to have and to hold from this day forward,
for better or for worse, for richer, for poorer,
in sickness and in health,
to love and to cherish;
from this day forward until death do us part。 |
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p********5
发帖数: 7433 | 40 This is the situation we may face sometime during our life.
Bless you and your family.
Cherish the people you have now. |
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m**********r
发帖数: 2099 | 41 Sometimes you are just lucky to be alive and life will never be the same.
Cherish what you have and be happy to be alive another day. |
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l****g
发帖数: 476 | 42 文章不是希望自己的孩子会这样，是在说年轻的父母要enjoy and cherish those great moments while you can.
孩子长大成人，成家，有自己的生活和世界应该是每个父母希望的吧。我lg就说等到那
个时候，我们就两个人出去旅游重新过两人世界。但是想想那天真的来临的时候，心里
多少会有些惆怅吧。
我倒觉着文章写得很真实阿。 |
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e**********a
发帖数: 279 | 43 When you were "educated" by your parents during the childhood, you should
have also "educated" your parents at the same time, if you want your parents
to be your backup during your whole life. It is called "when enemy forward,
you step back, and verse vice". This is based on the natural "cheap"
personality of human being.
However, no one can have a perfect life, I can see that getting your husband
is kind of "compensation" of your whole life, which you should cherish, and
feel fair about it. |
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M****g
发帖数: 487 | 44 bless
I totally understand you. I have similar situation here. Just do whatever we
can! Cherish every moment with those that we love so much. |
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l******o
发帖数: 8344 | 45 a family is a family, parents' benefit is never seperatable with kids's
benefit, if something will beneift parents, it would benefit kids also,
my kid enjoy the good school district, good house, good car and cherish the
memory with grand parents, and he love us so much, always claimed we were
the best parents in the world, in addition, he also said that he had best
grandparents in the world.
so things can turn out to be a win win situation, as long as you have deep
love in your heart for your ki... 阅读全帖 |
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s*********e
发帖数: 6149 | 46 agree. but things change quickly. like masara and pepper were good
friends.
but now they are not getting along well as before. i guess.so cherish
people in your real life. that is what i mean.【 在 saec (期待)
的大作中提到: 】 |
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G******i
发帖数: 5226 | 47 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
smileinfire (爱谁谁) 于 (Sun May 6 12:18:46 2012, 美东) 提到:
上网发泄就要有接受正反两方意见的心理准备，都是成年人了别一颗玻璃心，p大点事
动辄就闹出走闹自杀id，让大家看笑话。网友不是自己爹娘，别撒娇耍横还觉得理所当
然，别人只要文明评论，mean不mean是人家的自由。人家说话客气是给你面子，但是别
想当然所有人都得对你客气。特别是别拿自己当版宠或者网霸，网路上大家捧你是因为
觉得你能给大家带来快乐，大家砸你是因为你给大家带来了不快。这么简单的道理要懂
。别拿蛮横当个性，别拿粗口当底气，版规那里放着呢，一视同仁。树立形象需要很长
时间，摧毁只须一旦。所以网路上说话也要过个脑子，公共论坛不是个人为所欲为的地
盘，实在想骂街出门左转去八区。
大家都别把网路太当回事，同情也好支持也罢鼓励也好，这些都是廉价的。女子本弱为
母则强，与其在网上哭诉啊愤怒啊争论啊，不如沉下心来思考下实际解决方案。要珍惜
身边的人，父母配偶孩子朋友同事，这些都比网路上一些陌生人... 阅读全帖 |
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q****a
发帖数: 334 | 48 哭了，怕被笑话，装作睡觉。因为妈妈在。我的小龙女也因为大出血而早产。整个怀孕
过程也没为宝宝特别照顾自己，也没得到太多别人的帮助。以前以为太坏的运不会到自
己身上，但这次让我回顾而知道，好运或无恙的生活也要cherish和take care的，要不
它们也会因为受到忽视而离开你的。当时Ob预告我最坏的可能是大出血，我当时想着不
会抡到我的，结果就是我。上手术台，OB预警我如果子不住血，我的子宫就要切掉。手
术完的第一句话就是子宫还在吗？万幸在！字后我一直在找原因，希望我能为以后的二
宝多做些，多准备。 |
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k****r
发帖数: 851 | 49 its not because they had the misconception that they are the parents of your
baby. They just love you too much. My parents refused to let me handle the
baby in the first month. but they are totally fine from the 3nd month onward.
you can breastfeed lying on bed, no need to pump, that's the best way for
bonding in the first month. and from my personal experience, baby will start
to remember things after 5 months, and only that time they will start to
interact with you.
take it easy! cherish your ... 阅读全帖 |
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p*******h
发帖数: 1542 | 50 给婆婆b2延期，得到版上很多的信息和帮助，还有热心的祝福，现在终于收到了批准的
信息，在此谢谢大家，以及分享一下个人的经验，也给正在办理b2延期的朋友一点信息。
07/18/2012：公公和婆婆第一次来美，给了180天，I-94 于01/17/2013过期；
10/16/2012：我在网上注册USCIS ELIS，给婆婆提交B2延期申请（婆婆原定01/06/2013
回中国）；所有的材料都是扫描然后转成PDF就可以了；因为我们声称提供婆婆延期期
间的花费，所以我们就填了i-134，然后扫描后转成PDF就可以了；
10/17/2012：公公按原定计划回中国；
12/31/2012：等到2个半月的处理时间还是没有消息，打了数次电话，但是各个接线员
的说辞多不一样，其间还转到上一级的officer问询，结果还是说起码得等3个月；理解
我们要提前该机票的消息，但是现在还是得等。。。郁闷了。还说如果i-94过期了，延
期pending的话，婆婆还是可以合法呆在美国。如果悲剧的话，邮件还得3天才寄到家，
婆婆还有足够的时间买机票回中国，只要不要故意呆在美国超过1个月，还ok。所以我
们只能改机票，... 阅读全帖 |
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