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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 2 我只举我家的例子，不见得放之四海而皆准。关键是：
１）先定规矩。
２）说到做到，不打空头支票。
３）把坏毛病掐死在摇篮里。
For example, when our cherub was 4 or 5 years old, he already developed the
habit of reading books. However, one problem he had was to leave a lot of
books scattered on the floor at the end of the day. After helping him clean
up the mess several times, her mom told James that enough is enough. The
next time when she saw books lying on the floor before midnight, the books
would be ripped and thrown in the trash can. The cherub reluc... 阅读全帖 |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 3 我只举我家的例子，不见得放之四海而皆准。关键是：
１）先定规矩。
２）说到做到，不打空头支票。
３）把坏毛病掐死在摇篮里。
For example, when our cherub was 4 or 5 years old, he already developed the
habit of reading books. However, one problem he had was to leave a lot of
books scattered on the floor at the end of the day. After helping him clean
up the mess several times, her mom told James that enough is enough. The
next time when she saw books lying on the floor before midnight, the books
would be ripped and thrown in the trash can. The cherub reluc... 阅读全帖 |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 4 Finally, after reading my posts today, you might understand the meaning of "
cherub", which most likely is a new word to you.
According to LZ's theory, you are supposed to learn this word NATURALLY. Although
you have fed, cleaned, kissed, scolded, bragged about and played with
your cherub for many years, you did not know you can call him or her cherub!
I am sorry. But you just learned the word today, thanks to a pushing Daddy
like me! |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 5 If you do not teach a kid where the river is, how could the cherub learn how
to fish?
If you do not tell a kid what a bait is, how could the cherub know how to
catch a fish?
If you do not show a kid what a fish pole is, how could the cherub SPONTANEOULY re
-invent a long, slender pole to which a line is attached for fishing?
If you wish a kid can 自发地学习 fishing, he or she probably jumps into the
water and is drowned! |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 6 Maybe you need to cook more, better tasting food for the cherub. At least
in our case, my wife's cooking helps to win her better grades. I am a
terrible cook . . . My cherub loves to eat. But he mostly loves his mom's
home-cooked dishes. We dine out on a weekly basis. But our cherub always
comments afterwards that his mom's cooking is the BEST. Who wouldn't! |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 7 In view of the evolution history, arts (including visual and aural arts) are
the hallmark of the intelligence of human in the backdrop of the wild world
. The practice and pursuit of fine arts should be encouraged among
youngsters when they show interests therein.
The language is another dimension of the intelligence of human, with which
the cherubs would communicate their thoughts. At a young age before the
development of their verbal skills, cherubs might rely on body movements or
pictures to... 阅读全帖 |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 8 如果过早地强调某方面的培养，孩子在其他方面的能力就多多少少会受到损害。
Wrong logic. All things are related in the world.
If a child understands one thing, such understanding might help the cherub
understand MANY other things.
If a child learns one skill, such a new skill might help the cherub learn
MANY other skills. |
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x*******a
发帖数: 247 | 9 这个"cherub" 似乎也是北大新学的词吧？到处卖弄！
"
Although
cherub!
like me! |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 10 耐心 might be the key. I am more patient with the cherub than his mom. I
am a better "painter" (not artist) than she is. But she is a much better
reader than I am. The cherub and she can talk hours about themes and
characters from books when I am watering on this board. So the end results
are pretty even between my wife and I.
I agree with you that kids know in their heart that their parents love them,
later if not now. Keeping the communication channel open and becoming part
of their lives wou... 阅读全帖 |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 11 True.
Given a chance, I would say most moms would prefer staying at home for a kid
at least during the first 2-5 years for the cherub since that is the most
vulnerable years for him/her.
As the cherub grows, there is less demand for the parent time and more
demand for the parenting quality.
Nonetheless, an ambitious person would put the family part on the back
burner and strike to beat others on the career ladder all the time.
There is a sacrifice to make. The only question is on whose ground a... 阅读全帖 |
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j**n
发帖数: 13789 | 12 发信人: Cherub (匿名天使), 信区: Cherub
标 题: 巨蟹男 orz
发信站: 珞珈山水BBS站 (Tue Aug 19 10:35:37 2008), 转信
巨蟹男是一个非常有魅力的群体，他们温柔细腻，而且很聪明，幽默风趣，还非常有风
度，所以很多女生对巨蟹男很痴迷，直至不能自拔，而我只想根据我本人对感情和爱情
的理解，来分析一下巨蟹男的感情思维。
1、总体来说，巨蟹男一般都是比较重感情的，外表很坚强，其实内心非常脆弱，而且
特容易感动和激动，还特别容易动情掉眼泪。
巨蟹座男的分析能力一般都比较强，他们能够通过一点蛛丝马迹，找到你犯罪的证据，
而且甚至能够把你的犯罪经过，一丝不差的分析出来，让你觉得好像他就是你肚子里的
蛔虫，你做的事情甚至连脑子里的想法都瞒不过他，因为巨蟹的直觉力很强，而且一般
直觉都比较正确。所以，千万不要对巨蟹男生撒谎，你会死得很惨。
2、巨蟹男一般都占有欲和控制欲很强，而且有点大男子主义。请注意，大男子主义和
温柔体贴是不矛盾的，巨蟹男非常喜欢女朋友依赖他，当然前提是他喜欢的女朋友，这
一点非常重要；如果不是他喜欢的女生，他会一点兴趣都没有... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 4447 | 14 Zepp Labs
http://www.zepp.com/
http://cn.technode.com/post/2014-08-01/zepplabs/
Robin Han是一位80后，本科就读于北京航空航天大学管理科学与工程系。2007年曾在
微软亚洲研究院读直博生，主修无线传感器网络和移动操作系统。其间，他意识到无线
传感器只能为Windows Mobile提供技术类支持，很难转化成产品。iPhone的兴起，另
Robin Han意识到自己所学的专业大有商机。遂于2009年退出学习。
Robin Han的第一次创业方向是游戏传感器。2011年，他进行二次创业，创办Zepp Labs
。2012年，随即推出了一款辅助高尔夫球训练、搭载3D传感系统的Golf Sense硬件产品
，并进入Apple Store，面向全球发售。随后，Zepp Labs还推出了针对网球、棒球运动
的新产品。
2013年底，Zepp Labs获得来自GGV、君联资本、贝塔斯曼、Cherubic Ventures等投资
的1500万美元B轮融资，融资总额达2000万美元。 |
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发帖数: 38600 | 15 Arne isn't going to let his little cherubs experience the hell that is a
public school now days. He knows better. So why should he expect anyone to
attend one of his dung heaps of his own making. Graduation rate means
nothing. Are they learning anything that will get them a job in the real
world? No, not leaving high school anymore. It's been dumbed down to raise
the graduation rates. Thank you Mr. Duncan for your liberal solution to the
problem of why Johnny can't read, write, think,....hold a ... 阅读全帖 |
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W*****B
发帖数: 4796 | 16 这个老妈不是善茬儿。有耐心仔细读一下。
11-Year-Old Has Spent Her Life in Jail, a Serial Killer as a Cellmate
JALALABAD, Afghanistan — Meena got chickenpox, measles and the mumps in
prison. She was born there, nursed there and weaned there. Now 11 years old,
she has spent her entire life in prison and will probably spend the rest of
her childhood there as well.
The girl has never committed a crime, but her mother, Shirin Gul, is a
convicted serial kil... 阅读全帖 |
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e****n
发帖数: 8 | 18 宝宝生病经常都要测体温，用腋下的每次都要5分多钟，宝宝不耐烦（6个月大的宝宝）
。特别是半夜想知道体温，他要包睡的，根本测不了，除非弄醒宝宝。
买了个CHERUB BABY的，简直是垃圾，还要40多刀。说可以2用，额头和耳朵的，但是无
论测额头还是耳朵都一点不准。38度的体温显示36度3. 可能这么小的宝宝耳朵洞很小
，所以用耳温枪不准？但是用额头也是超不准的说。
求一个好用的体温计（探热针），最好能几秒就知道体温，而且准的牌子。这样半夜就
不用担心宝宝，随时知道体温，随时有需要的就可以吃药。
非常感谢！！！ |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 19 That could happen, which is rather unfortunate for the cherub.
I believe that every kid is special in his or her own way. The parents need
to find those niche in their kids and figure out a way to take full
advantage of. |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 20 Man, I am an old tiger, who worried about my cherub's education when he was 2
or 3!
Isn't the definition of education too limited? Education is more than words
and numbers. It covers understanding of the world around us.
If that makes me a Tiger, so be it. At least I am better than Woods. |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 21 Hehe.
He was not a 神童, not even close.
He was a cherub, a teddy bear, who wanted to show off in front of a pretty
girl and did not understand the ABSTRACT meaning of relativity! |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 22 比如孩子过早学认字，其实是一个不当唤醒，此时的孩子往往就会忽略对具体事物和图
画的兴趣 . . .
Hehe, wrong logic. No data have been published to support the above
statement. If in doubt, look at my signature . . . or read articles wrote by
my cherub, James. |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 23 人类已经进化了几百万年，在时间的长河中，人类从最早的语言、绘画到象形文字、再
进化到文字，需要相当长的时间，这是人类发展的必然规律。孩子的学习，也是一样，
从他自发的涂鸦、绘画，再发展到学习文字和算术这些抽象的东西，也是需要一个过程
的。
Needless to say, the human race evolved over the time. Today's children
develop their learning skills MUCH quicker than their ancestors. Granted,
our children cannot climb on trees faster or ealier than our ancesor, but
their mental and intellectural levels are way ahead of them.
Why? One reason is that today's children USE their brains more than their
ancient counterparts. And... 阅读全帖 |
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m*****8
发帖数: 4059 | 24 哈哈哈，其实我是beida大叔的粉丝来着，我也基本同意你的观点（收藏了你的那个经
典五篇）
但是看您这么热衷于说wrong logic，我忍不住手痒来抬杠了……
“If in doubt, look at my signature . . . or read articles wrote by
my cherub, James.”
人家说的是，天鹅往往是白的~~
您说的是，错，如有怀疑，请看我家有只黑天鹅~~
哈哈，顶锅盖溜走~~~
by |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 25 Your cherub has the potential to become a greate lawyer! |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 26 If only I had read this post when my cherub were still a chubby kid! |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 27 Tai Niu Le. Both you and your cherub
honor |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 28 As to the writing part, at least in my cherub's case, no drastic change
(or quantum jump) until after the 4th grade . . .
Since you child loves soccer, maybe you can introduce some physics to her
subjects: acceleration, curve ball, inertia, momentum, torque, spin, etc . . .
Then she WILL use her brain to learn and practice both on paper and on the field! |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 29 Repeat, whenever the cherub likes or wants. |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 30 First choose the one your child loves the most. Then choose the one your
cherub prefers as the second best. Then . . . You get the idea.
Most likely Chinese would be picked last. But probably half of the parents
on this board would pick it as the first priority. |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 31 First of all, I NEVER said my kid is a 天才 or will be one.
Second, my beliefs in life and politics have nothing to do with what my
cherub was, is or will be.
Third, the white elephant in the room is that the basic tenor of 80-20 is
off-key since the hope of every Chinese singing from the same hymn sheet is
just an illusion except when helping the victims of an earthquake in China
is invovled. Even for that cause, some religious believers were not on board.
If you still do not get it, here is my a... 阅读全帖 |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 32 Pest control may use different chemical agents. You may want to research
each ingredient to have a full picture of its impact on a child. Most agent'
s effect will wear off over time. Hence, keep your cherub away from the
sprayed area for a day or two might be a solution to your problem.
You can spray your house right before going on a vacation!
enzyme |
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l****x
发帖数: 197 | 33 真是自古英雄出少年啊
http://nypost.com/2014/12/14/stuyvesant-hs-student-nets-72m-on-
High school student scores $72M playing the stock market
By Laura ItalianoDecember 14, 2014 | 4:52am
Modal Trigger

A 17-year-old Stuyvesant High School student has made millions trading
stocks on his lunch break.
He’s the teen wolf of Wall Street.
A kid from Queens has made tens of millions of dollars — by trading stocks
on his lunch breaks at Stuyvesant High School, New York magazine reports in
its Monday issue.... 阅读全帖 |
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f***n
发帖数: 781 | 34 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
cherub (北医SSGG,哎,我说中国老板呀...) 于 (Sat Jun 24 14:03:16 2006) 提到:
请问在德国的朋友这个学校如何阿？经济，工商类的专业？
FACHHOCHSCHULE FUER OEKONOMIE UND MANAGEMENT ESSEN
谢谢
☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
Teller (bomsica) 于 (Sat Jun 24 14:30:17 2006) 提到:
FH吗？
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d**********r
发帖数: 24123 | 35 【 以下文字转载自 NewYork 讨论区 】
发信人: gogopanda (), 信区: NewYork
标 题: 章子怡靠男友跻身美国上流社会 升值266倍zz (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jan 10 16:13:02 2012, 美东)
发信人: cherub (北医SSGG,鲁能出击,打败美帝野心狼...), 信区: Joke
标 题: Re: 章子怡靠男友跻身美国上流社会 升值266倍zz (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Mar 4 00:38:07 2007)
发信人: bluejacket (はじめまして), 信区: Movie
标 题: Re: 章子怡靠男友跻身美国上流社会 升值266倍zz
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Mar 2 03:55:56 2007)
没劲，这电影跟白开水一般，没暴力没色情没悬念，没有票房的。
应该这样：
你在国内做WSN讲师的时候，新婚，老婆巩利是大学同学。你去洗头按摩，认识了小章
。一开始你们很纯洁，直到你发现小章脸上脖上奇怪的伤痕，才知道原来小章被她男友
家庭暴力，于是你怜... 阅读全帖 |
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g*******a
发帖数: 31586 | 36 【 以下文字转载自 Joke 讨论区 】
发信人: cherub (北医SSGG,鲁能出击,打败美帝野心狼...), 信区: Joke
标 题: Re: 章子怡靠男友跻身美国上流社会 升值266倍zz (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Mar 4 00:38:07 2007)
发信人: bluejacket (はじめまして), 信区: Movie
标 题: Re: 章子怡靠男友跻身美国上流社会 升值266倍zz
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Mar 2 03:55:56 2007)
没劲，这电影跟白开水一般，没暴力没色情没悬念，没有票房的。
应该这样：
你在国内做WSN讲师的时候，新婚，老婆巩利是大学同学。你去洗头按摩，认识了小章
。一开始你们很纯洁，直到你发现小章脸上脖上奇怪的伤痕，才知道原来小章被她男友
家庭暴力，于是你怜香惜玉，就势也发现了小章身上的伤痕......不用多说，巩利与小
章，你很难抉择，于是你选择了出国做WSNF1来逃避，就学高能物理，托卡马克吧。
小巩在国内似乎出了轨，但是你不知道她的神秘情人是谁。小章告诉你她看不到你们的
未来所... 阅读全帖 |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 38 Well said.
Most men are far less sensitive than women. A misnomer is that a man only
shows his true emotion on the bed or in his dreams. What this single parent
family shows was that a father could sense something was wrong but he just
could not put his finger on the cause. That is frustrating, to say the
least. They have to click somehow.
Forming a bond with your child(ren) is important. For example, I can make
my son laugh simply by making a face and saying "笑一笑." It never fails!
Also I kno... 阅读全帖 |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 40 Congratulations!
I knew a dentist who had her first child very early in her career (right
after graduation from college). Then she decided to attend school of
dentistry. She brought her young child to lectures almost everyday. Finally
she became a dentist, and opened a clinic herself. Her child became a
smart student in her class since she was trained at a very young age to sit
and listen to lectures!
It is a private decision for the pregnant woman to make whether to keep
the child or not. IMH... 阅读全帖 |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 41 In theory,two most important tasks for a pushing mom are
1) Recognizing talents in a child
2) Motivating the child to self-pushing
Very simple.
The most important time period to work on the above two tasks is between 1.5
years-old and 6 years-old of the child. Once the cherub forms a good
studying habit and becomes interested in academic around kindergarten time,
it is like pushing the first Domino chip of a beauiful design -- the rest
is almost as automatic as a natural sequence without much ... 阅读全帖 |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 42 Very reasonable.
That's part of the reason why I posted so many articles on how to educate a
cherub CORRECTLY since an early age. Know the right method and apply it
according to the talent of your kid. Every kid is special. Parent's job is
to find and nurture such talents. |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 43 Something like what you said.
I have to earn more money if my cherub get into one of the top schools. Most
Chinese families do not qualify for financial aid from Ivy League schools.
For financial reasons, going to UVa is not a bad choice. |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 44 For public school, the F1 visa for an exchange student in a U.S. school is
only for 1 year. After that, the kid either goes back to China or figures
out how to extend the visa LEGALLY.
This is part of the reason why so many expecting mothers from China give
birth in the States: no need for the F1 when their cherubs become old
enought to attend a U.S. school. |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 45 Here is a true story for LZ to take a look.
- - - -
Jane graduated from a Chinese second tier university with a BS degree in
science. Then she went to Canada for a MS degree in biology, married to a
Chinese gentleman Beida101, then moved to California. At first, Jane worked
as a research associate at biology labs but became tired of killing mice on
a weekly basis to harvest their cells and working on some stupid hunches of
the PI's who, in Jane's opinion, designed one meaningless experiment aft... 阅读全帖 |
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h*****r
发帖数: 65 | 46 头十三份新年红包发放完毕。名单如下：
cherub
AUTiger
hillgrass
beegeintar
shimmer
ReadAll
yester
warriorfa
feilian
jyhcn
devilaq
flymole
windspeeder
还有七个名额，大家加油阿。
谢谢各位对flashgame的支持，新年快乐！ |
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l*******1
发帖数: 866 | 47 猪大家新年快乐!
头十三份新年红包发放完毕。名单如下：
cherub
AUTiger
hillgrass
beegeintar
shimmer
ReadAll
yester
warriorfa
feilian
jyhcn
devilaq
flymole
windspeeder
还有七个名额，大家加油阿。
谢谢各位对flashgame的支持，新年快乐！ |
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h*********n
发帖数: 11319 | 50 真是偏听偏信得可以。很难了解在美国唱衰中国到底有什么快感。
国内的人说自己粗放是因为已经上了新项目，有了后招。所以自我批评一下，纵向比较
才有政绩。不是给你当万能论据用的
环境？比80年代不知道好多少。淮河不臭了，冬天煤烟没有了，三峡之后连长江下游含
沙量都大幅下降，以至于河床下降造成洞庭湖缺水，居然成了三峡的罪证。对了中国还
是世界上唯一一个森林覆盖率逐年提高的国家。我中学时候森林覆盖率才17点几,现在
居然超过20%了。
房地产？中国的房价还要再涨7-10年。出生率和一二线城市的容量摆在那。城市化才完
成了一半
产业升级？我都懒得说你。我就不说振华港机，三一重工这些跟华为这些“夕阳产业”
了。自己去了解一下以下的消费电子民营品牌：
DJI
heep://dji.com
基本占领了利用无人机进行个人娱乐/商业表演拍摄/业余摄影的市场，有了一整套配件
厂商和协议标准
Zepp Labs
http://www.zepp.com/
http://cn.technode.com/post/2014-08-01/zepplabs/
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