N********e
发帖数: 3048 | 1 发信人: MTAS (买买提头号人体艺术大湿), 信区: LeisureTime
标 题: Re: 版面中文名就应该改成“吃饱撑的没事儿闲的”
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Nov 4 11:12:18 2015, 美东)
“Leisure, or free time, is time spent away from business, work, job hunting
, domestic chores and education. It also excludes time spent on necessary
activities such as eating and sleeping.”
— wikipedia |
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M**S
发帖数: 3483 | 2 “Leisure, or free time, is time spent away from business, work, job hunting
, domestic chores and education. It also excludes time spent on necessary
activities such as eating and sleeping.”
— wikipedia |
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M**S
发帖数: 3483 | 3 “Leisure, or free time, is time spent away from business, work, job hunting
, domestic chores and education. It also excludes time spent on necessary
activities such as eating and sleeping.”
— wikipedia |
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a***e
发帖数: 2427 | 4 你的英文歌很棒的，翻吧。我是彻底不敢上英文歌了，作老爸的亚历山大。
我儿子好动，坐不住，别的小朋友都钢琴小提琴的，他到现在都没有开始，我也不逼他
。唱歌就是一兴趣，咱亚裔在美国也没什么希望当名星，没必要搞得家里鸡飞狗跳的。
Vocal不准备上了，觉得没什么意思，那些chore都搞得孩子唱歌不太正常的。
他还喜欢跳舞的，我们每年都看 so you think you can dance. 已经上了一年的hip
hop 课了，youtube 里有他去年的录像。 |
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h*******g
发帖数: 10585 | 5 【 以下文字转载自 Shanghai 讨论区 】
发信人: henryjing (little13), 信区: Shanghai
标 题: CNN 上对上海男人的看法
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Dec 15 20:18:17 2011, 美东)
China surpasses the world in yet another category: Quality husbands
Shanghainese husbands are renowned as the best in China, and maybe the world
. Here are five reasons why
By Helen He 25 February, 2011
new Shanghainese husband after his wedding photos? The kitchen to make
dinner.
Lung Ying-tai once published an essay called, “Oh, Shanghainese men.”
The Taiwanese wri... 阅读全帖 |
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g*****n
发帖数: 21539 | 6 我来猥琐一下This is hardly a new method, and is not without possible risks.
Just thought I'd put this method up here. A Kindle is required for this.
My team and I have gotten hundreds of books using this method and several
Amazon accounts, not one has been banned yet. We'd really just get the books
we wanted and that we got requests for, but have long since stopped because
releasing them was becoming a huge chore and they were not being released
as widespread as we wanted them to be. I personally rele... 阅读全帖 |
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k****t
发帖数: 12697 | 7 累. 头两次还觉得FUN, 以后变成CHORE 就没劲推.
还是买个SELF PROPEL, DISCHARGE/BAG/MULCH 三合一
没啥好维护的, 每年换次油, 两年换个SPARK PLUG, 磨次刀(挫刀挫搓几分钟). 皮带挺
结实好像LIFE TIME 不用换. |
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h***i
发帖数: 148 | 8 I like the name 水牛
no i have no band.....it is only part of the day dream. actually I barely
have time for day dreaming. life is short and full of chores that does not
really worth my time. but whatever |
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A*******6
发帖数: 4256 | 9 A woman accompanied her husband to the doctor's office.
After his checkup, the doctor called the wife into his office alone.
He said, "Your husband is suffering from a very severe stress
disorder. If you don't follow my instructions carefully, your husband
will surely die.
"Each morning, fix him a healthy breakfast. Be pleasant at all times.
For lunch make him a nutritious meal. For dinner prepare an especially
nice meal for him.
"Don't burden him with chores. Don't discuss your problems with hi |
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D********r
发帖数: 522 | 10 you just never see when she does house chores. You never know how their
marriage is. So your statement here is not valid unless you are the one who
marry such female and has the experience to share here. |
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s**********n
发帖数: 432 | 11 官本位思想。manager要做的工作是phd训练中没有的，有phd的做专业工作，做的开心
的肯定不愿意做administrative chores.不同的职业路径。 |
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s*********y
发帖数: 1189 | 12 I will add some cold water.
Think about future, in 10-20 years. Without good social status and solid
income, family is pretty hard to be very happy. You can be happy now because
you two are still young. If your husband is like this, caring too much
about family chores and not caring about his study, he can't do well in his
career. I will not be happy if my husband stayed in hospital with me every
day for 2 weeks. As a man, he should develop career and earn good amount of
money.
Very happy about ... 阅读全帖 |
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S*********g
发帖数: 24893 | 13 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: StephenKing (金博士), 信区: USANews
标 题: A two-year-old boy shot himself dead
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri May 10 10:22:01 2013, 美东)
A two-year-old boy in the US southern state of Texas has died after he was
able to get his hands on his father’s handgun, and shot himself in the head.
The shooting took place at around 8:46 p.m. local time on Wednesday (0246
GMT on Thursday) in Corsicana.
Police said the young victim, identified as Kinsler Allen Davis, found the
gun and fired it w... 阅读全帖 |
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S*******e
发帖数: 186 | 14 Yes, i sympathize with your friend.
But one question, it sounds like your friend very smart lady, why when
dating, even long distance, that have not found out about her husband's
critical weakness, i.e. not able to find/hold a job, like a king in the
family, does nothing as to household chores...etc... |
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N****f
发帖数: 25759 | 15 A brief theological discussion with a six-year-old guru, which
occurred during the thought-inspiringly dizzy hours of the early
morning, in a comfy, toasty bed, the best place for such
sophisticated intellectual exchange:
Me: How do you think Santa gets into people’s chimneys, since
he’s so big?
Guru: You know, you can suck your belly in and hold your breath
—like this—and become a lot skinnier.
Me: Can you get into the chimney while doing that?
Guru: I’m not Santa! Santa is not an ordi... 阅读全帖 |
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L**********s
发帖数: 12988 | 16 前几天在本地的中文电台，听到有关这本书的介绍，想到很多。
我们家弟弟上幼儿园时，有次在家长会和他的老师有过相关的对话。我的关心话题是，
如何不宠溺孩子？老师给我讲了下面一个故事：
她是一个单亲妈妈，一手拉扯大两个孩子。她儿子19岁那年，自己买了辆车。首付是用
自己打工赚来的，贷款需要妈妈共贷。办好手续，母子俩走出贷款办公室时，儿子对她
讲了一句话，我听了顿时眼眶发热：
妈妈，感谢你，感谢我们有贫穷的生活。
因为是单亲，家庭条件不好，妈妈一直努力工作（她真的是一位非常敬业非常好的老师
，嗯。）而孩子们也从小就很独立，打工挣钱养家。
书里谈到很多不同的家庭，清贫的，优裕的，家长是如何教育孩子，看待金钱，如何计
划，如何。。。。
好像是作者本身吧，小时候爸爸曾经去银行，把他一个月的收入，兑成一块钱，几麻袋
的钱，浩浩荡荡地拿回家，把孩子们瞬间秒杀。然后哗啦啦，把给山姆大叔的税钱，给
划拉走。然后，一步步告诉孩子，这些钱是房子贷款，这些是饭钱，这些是保险。三下
五除二，一堆钱已经所剩无几。这个画面到现在还在他的脑海里
即使是有钱人家，不用上班，整天休假，父母也同样可以教育孩子，要节俭。可以告诉... 阅读全帖 |
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f****r
发帖数: 311 | 17 【 以下文字转载自 Poetry 讨论区 】
【 原文由 buff 所发表 】
Have you ever watched kids on a merry-go-round
Or listened to the rain slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight
Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?
You better slow down, don't dance so fast
Time is short, the music won't last
Do you run through each day on the fly
When you ask "How are you?", do you hear the reply?
When the day is done, do you lie in your bed
With the next hundred chores running through your head?
You'd bet |
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s********k
发帖数: 212 | 18 IBM Plans Computer to Work at Speed of Life
" target="_blank" class="a2">http://www.nytimes.com/library/tech/99/12/biztech/articles/06blue.html
The goal of the new supercomputer, to be called Blue
Gene, is to simulate one of the most common routines in
natural biology -- the process by which amino acids
intricately fold themselves into full-fledged proteins,
the body's molecular work force whose chores range
from metabolizing food to fighting disea |
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Y*********e
发帖数: 4847 | 19 The Reader...炒的太多了。幼童被老女人引诱，一辈子无法释怀：被抛弃；知道真相
后被愚弄的感觉；以及重新审视历史后良心上的觉醒，让一个男人在爱恨边缘挣扎：爱
，遗忘，想忘记，又想报复，可是依旧渴望爱。最后女人死了，他才觉得真正可以敞开
心扉就此解脱。设想一个人身上背负这许多东西，日子一定不好过。正是这样沉重的枷
锁，让片子的政治色彩模糊了，至少我认为被distracted了。
再说汉娜吧：一个心地纯正的女人，一个不识字的女人，一个喜欢听别人诵读，听到教
会chores会流眼泪的女人，恪守着自己认为所谓正确的原则。她用自己的道德准绳评价
自己；历史却不能够承认--因为道德和法律的基本是维护人生命的尊严。想在这里面默
默叽叽下点料，只会招人反感。
我被touched，但稍微觉得别扭。
Twilight--高中生型男美女早恋+永远不会衰老的话题吸血鬼。
前半部有点让人忍受不了的put on airs...后面开始唯美：两个17岁的小p孩，站在参
天的松树顶上，俯瞰华盛顿州一条我不知名的大河蜿蜒流过，苍松翠柏，浓云滚滚，山
峦叠嶂。可惜最后还是要俗回Prom.
女孩愿意成为immor |
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s*******i
发帖数: 741 | 20 It seems fine with me if your husband has no objection. I make $150000 per
year and I hire one babysitter and one home-keeper. But sometimes I still do
some chores esp for my son since I do not trust the babysitter can take
good care of my son. |
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b********p
发帖数: 875 | 21 这个还是很有意义的,
that means all our chores can be taken care of by robot |
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s*l
发帖数: 9421 | 22 再看下面这个叫John老美的评论很有意思，从孩子的教育谈到了他朋友如何从民主党到
共和党的转变。
This is why China and Asia will win the economic war with education and then
using that educated work force to rev up their economic engine with
manufacturing and services.
Right now China is just knocking off stuff. Who can blame them. Their
population was educated by the western counties along a lot of intellectual
property theft. They are playing the long game. The Chinese government has a
long term plan for the future. No joke. Our government ... 阅读全帖 |
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h********a
发帖数: 2663 | 23 http://www.businessweek.com/magazine/content/09_51/b4160092992355.htm
Reduce TV watching. It's stimulating but doesn't increase overall satisfacti
on with life—at work or home.
Cut back on surfing the Web for non-professional reasons. It's negatively co
rrelated with the experience of both happiness and meaning.
Do as few chores as you can (whatever that word means to you).
Spend time exercising and with people you love (respondents who did this had
more satisfaction with life at work and at hom |
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c*****e
发帖数: 2073 | 24 Firstly I don't quite get ur question. Are you asking why less stay-at-home
women nowadays or why your partner doesn't approve you staying at home? For
the second one, I suggest you to just ask her directly, COMMUNICATION.
let's put it this way about stay at home moms VS working moms, shall we?
Traditionally (or gender norms expression through daily duties), men bring
the dough and women nourish babies at home. I mean it's fine as long as they
agree with that. Yet things change. If you think all... 阅读全帖 |
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T*********n
发帖数: 1361 | 25 歌词我觉得是为了叫的时候，咬字发音用的，
我觉得chores后面那段飚高音的旋律很赞。。。 |
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 26 Everything needs passion and interests for it to be easy. I think it is the
same for sex, music practice, cooking and doing scientific experiment. If
you have passion, then you would feel it so enjoyable even it is lots of
work.
Sex is a lot of work. It can be so great but it can also be a tedious chore
. |
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f*****3
发帖数: 831 | 27 That is so true!
the
If
chore |
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s********n
发帖数: 4346 | 28 Everything needs passion and interests for it to be easy. I think it is the
same for sex, music practice, cooking and doing scientific experiment. If
you have passion, then you would feel it so enjoyable even it is lots of
work.
Sex is a lot of work. It can be so great but it can also be a tedious chore
. |
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f*****3
发帖数: 831 | 29 That is so true!
the
If
chore |
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w**********u
发帖数: 132 | 30 I was not suggesting a hedonist should never get married: I meant he should NOT dive into wedlock before he feels ready to sacrifice and compromise.
A man is more willing to do so when he doesn't bother to explore other women's hearts, when knowledge is no mysterious to him, and then day-to-day chores can be a source of pleasure, and taking care of a family will be a joy insead of an affiliction.
Even I will have to stay single for the rest of my life. Is it that bad? Not really! The proportion ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1938 | 31 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
woshixiaogou (woshixiaogou) 于 (Wed Nov 10 09:30:54 2010, 美东) 提到:
有家庭后，就不再是为自己一个人活了，不可能再沉溺于自己喜欢做的事情中了。——
自私的、喜欢享受生活的人要先为自己活，腻了，准备settle down了，才应该结婚，
不然会觉得很亏，心理一旦不平衡，对自己对他人都不好。
主要难关有三点：
1. 父母的压力：我是这样处理的，多和他们沟通，告诉他们，婚姻并非会给每个人都
带来幸福。举一些身边真实的亲戚朋友的反面例子：最后如果离婚，还不如单身会经历
那么多伤害。多向他们展示自己现在快乐的生活！
2. 孤单：想通过婚姻来逃避孤单本身就是错误的！研究显示男人在结婚后更孤单（具
体数据我懒得找了），如果你是个loner，结婚后一样还是个loner。真正解决孤单的方
法是多交朋友，培养健康的心态。我忘了哪本心理学教材有专门一章讲孤单的。
3. 性：这个可以通过找男女朋友解决——但是一开始就要告诉对方，自己不想settle
down，这... 阅读全帖 |
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r******a
发帖数: 18 | 32 that is exactly what i thought. the difference is simple: she does not love
me any more. any little intimacy like this became some kind of chore that
she has to work on. for me it is exactly the opposite. i feel it so natural
to stroke her hair or just kiss the back of her neck.
i guess i have known this all along. but it is still too painful to accept.
i like this board by the way. thanks guys. |
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n****m
发帖数: 1283 | 34 How many fathers did do that? While there are a few of father who would do
the work.
Chinese father who does no house chore seldom find themselves scolded by the
in laws?
How many Chinese mother would be scolded or resented by the spouse or the in
laws?
How much does a mother do vs. how much does a father do on everyday base? |
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w*******g
发帖数: 9932 | 35 other replies missed the point you are asking
if you ask about sex after children, you should relax because you would be
too tired to want any. It becomes a chore like washing laundry
You do it not because you want it but because you don't want your wife to be
mad |
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i*********s
发帖数: 8706 | 36 全楼看完。。。
你的1.2.3.我也没啥发言权，而且大家说的挺好。。。
我们家没娃，有猫有狗，还有一个从来没有养过动物的LD提着行李搬进来。。。
他最开始也是不习惯猫毛，也讨厌狗半夜挤在我们床上睡觉。。。
不过人都是有感情的。。。
有时候这些chore做着做着就习惯了。。。
不做还惦记呢。
狗小的时候每天是我带狗出门，凌晨2点最后一次，早上6点第一次。。。
现在他从来没有让我早起过一天。
家里老猫最近去世。。。
我觉得我们能共同经历，会是一辈子的回忆。
如果当初因为他讨厌猫就把猫送走，这些宝贵的家庭回忆就不会有了。。。
所以你爱人和妈妈会说所谓的“可以避免”。。。
夫妻俩不就是因为会共同走过很多本可以避免的事情。。。
才更珍惜彼此么？
也没有必要说威胁你丈夫之类的。。。
他如果不喜欢猫，清理猫屎确实是个头疼的事情。
但是他要把猫送走，你也会心疼。
清理猫屎的头疼是暂时的。。。
送走猫的心疼是永久的。。。
夫妻，母女，朋友之间。。。
有些事情就是不能做。。。
一旦跨过那条线，就是一辈子的伤，没有回头。
把猫送走，对我个人来说，就是这样的事情。
我妈妈做过一次。
我在美国努力读书找工作，满... 阅读全帖 |
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i*****e
发帖数: 1694 | 37 虽然我对乐坛的接触最多只能够说是断断续续，但是杨千嬅我一直都时不时有留意，因
为她的歌，真的是和我同步成长，能唱出每一个年龄段的心事，都能对我strike a
chore。某个程度上，她的歌是我唯一从中学习恋爱应该有什么感觉的渠道。
先介绍她N年后重回华星的第一首歌。我听到这首歌很感触，因为是刚刚失恋时听的。
我恋爱时是绝对的重色轻友，和朋友的来往都少了很多，甚至和家人相处也没有那么用
心，但在我最不开心的时候，他们是我最好的support。我很感激，某个程度他们就是
我的“源”。 |
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q*c
发帖数: 17993 | 38 转载， 不代表我个人观点。
http://www.boston.com/lifestyle/relationships/articles/2012/05/
Trophy wives no more
As women's learning and earning powers have increased, marital motivations
have shifted.
Aristotle and Jackie Onassis on their wedding day in 1968. “I can’t very
well marry a dentist from New Jersey!” the former first lady told Truman
Capote. (Associated Press/File)
By Tina Cassidy
Globe Correspondent / May 10, 2012
When Jacqueline Kennedy married shipping magnate Aristotle Onassis in 1968
on his p... 阅读全帖 |
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