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a*******o
发帖数: 699 | 3 来自主题: WaterWorld版 - water How to SUCCESSFULLY teach a baby to sleep - 3rd ed.
Group Owner
BabeGirlMom · Pass a Note!
Posted 02/11/2009
http://community.babycenter.com/post/a5417415/how_to_successful
1) WHY?
Sleep training is NOT a fix-all-solution to all sleep problems. If your baby
is not sleeping well, there are usually good reasons why.
The most common reasons are:
1) Overtiredness. All sleep problems are at least partly due to
overtiredness. Some problems my have been initiated by illness, teething, or
phases; but be... 阅读全帖 |
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o******t
发帖数: 4384 | 4 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
crystalwould (Differential Equation) 于 (Sun Jun 12 23:08:52 2011, 美东) 提到:
他是好多人种的混血儿，看上去是黑人。从他爷爷奶奶那辈就都是在美国长大的。我们
在一个网站上认识的，他给我发了好多message像写文章似的，大篇幅的。我在网站上
著名我在找serious relationship,他也告诉我他也想找serious relationship，还告
诉我他想结婚。刚开始的时候，我正在准备考试，我告诉他两个礼拜之后再跟他联系（
这时还没有见面，只是在网站上聊）。他就一直等到两个礼拜之后，还告诉我他一直在
等我，考试一结束，他第二天就约我见面，我当时正在打工呢。我就说明天吧。他就又
给我发了好多message。结果第二天我们学校有毕业典礼，我都没打算参加毕业典礼，
是我朋友非让我去的。我就把见面的事给忘了。然后他还问我哪一天行，非常直接，非
常认真，我就又说了一个不久的日子。然后说要请我吃饭，问我哪家好吃，他请。我说
第一次见... 阅读全帖 |
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 5 supports archaeology, that a single-origin domestication 8 to 9,000 years
years ago at Yangtze Valley (of China) and spread to India, rather than the
competing proposition that Ganges in India independently accomplished the
feat.
研究显示:中国是驯化水稻的原产地. VOA Chinese, May 3, 2011.
http://www.voanews.com/chinese/news
/international/20110503-RICE-ORIGIN-121155584.html
, which cites
Molina J et al, . Proceeding of National Academy Science (PNAS), published
online before print May 2, 2011, doi: 10.1073/pna... 阅读全帖 |
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g******o
发帖数: 4042 | 6 Never sleep with a virgin
Global Times | 2013-5-12 19:43:01
By Amulet Mok
You ever have that very moment when every single cell of your body was
aroused and your body was open for anything? And all of a sudden, the guy
just stopped right then and there because he found you lying there like a
starfish?
Me too. I had to beg the guy to continue to take my virginity. I wish the
ground could open and swallow me up. I was 23 and thought I was too old to
be a virgin.
In a country where the majority of ... 阅读全帖 |
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M*********t
发帖数: 250 | 7 说实在话，每次看到有关“宝宝哭，到底要不要去管“的说法的时候，我都会觉得纳闷
，那些告诉家长
不要理会，不要给给很多attention,否则宝宝就会变得controlling and clingy的观点
是从
哪里来的。基本上80%的研究表明这样的相关不存在。而且哭在婴儿期是小孩和周围，
尤其是抚养者
沟通的方式。他哭，可能是因为周围太吵，光线太强，他饿了，或者想和大人们玩一玩
，关注一下没
什么不好。这样的关注是宝宝跟父母依恋形成的重要环节。。。倒是如果是因为
discipline的原
因，小孩不能得到想要的东西而大哭的话，不给予关注才是有好处的。 |
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P*****g
发帖数: 2639 | 8 那些人简直是有病，没有母爱的本能。
不过美国就这样，纽约那女孩被奸杀了不是都没有旁观者报警吗？
美国就是一个违反人的本性的地方。
闷，那些告诉家长不要理会，不要给给很多attention,否则宝宝就会变得controlling
and clingy的观点是从哪里来的。 |
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d*******0
发帖数: 22 | 9 Every time she is rubbing her eyes or clingy when I put her down. She is
also awake longer than 2 hours before I put her down. Not sleepy enough? |
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c*******z
发帖数: 604 | 10 哦我们家也是5，6个月时候开始闹，会翻身后老是会醒过来，试了下sleep training,
哭了半个小时，第二天很clingy，后悔。哭2个小时不正常。5个月还小。你又回去工作
，他坑定很想你回来多抱一会。
等到9个月才train的,几天就好多了。 |
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l*****r
发帖数: 7130 | 11 我也觉得你说的有道理啊。
照lz的说法，那我们这些把娃娃大哭的娃drop off在幼儿园的孩子都有可能会造成孩子
的心理阴影啊。但是事实上，娃虽然会在一开始一段时间比较clingy，过了那阵子也就
好了。
不好说娃冷漠啥的跟留在国内有直接关系，让lz guilty这倒是肯定的。 |
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a****l
发帖数: 6431 | 12 how is his personality?
Outgoing, adventurous? or shy, clingy?
summer |
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a******o
发帖数: 261 | 13 well said.
our 2 year old has been sleep-trained since she was 6 month old, but lately
she's been very clingy to me partially due to the fact that my wife has been
busy with our 2nd child. it used to be as easy as dropping her in her bed,
say good night, leave, and i don't need to be back to her room until the
2nd morning. but recently it was a struggle every night - i dislike
sneaking out but each time i announce i am leaving she would whine and cry...
that is until my wife taught me a trick ... 阅读全帖 |
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y**********9
发帖数: 547 | 14 你对，你老公不对。 男孩子3岁，安全感还没有完全建立好， 所以才会有clingy. 还
需要妈妈关爱。 游泳这种push,stress带到潜意识里面， 以后永远都不enjoy了。
你老公需要大大的提高情商。叫他多看看育儿书，尤其是怎么关爱婴幼儿的书。 |
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s****y
发帖数: 1574 | 15 All of us at Kidpower, in each of our Centers around the world, join
countless others in mourning the loss of the children and adults in Friday's
shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary. We are asking hard questions that have
complex answers.
And we are holding the children in our lives even more closely right now,
cherishing them, and longing to give them a safer world in which to live.
While you may have had the conversation about what happened at Sandy Hook
Elementary with the children you care a... 阅读全帖 |
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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 16 既然大家都开始拆－－－儿子和女儿的共同点就是这个超CLINGY的妈。 |
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a******o
发帖数: 261 | 17 Part of it is definitely your LP, part of it is your daughter's personality,
but part of it is also you.
It's normal for kids to be clingy to the mom, and most kids do go through
separation anxiety stage at that age - however, that doesn't mean there's
nothing you can do as a dad to change that.
When we had our first daughter M, I was traveling full time for work. On
top of that, my wife is also a very patient mom as she attended to all her
needs. How bad was it at one point? Well one Friday ... 阅读全帖 |
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w*******7
发帖数: 412 | 18 知道会被拍，还是希望得到些建议
婆婆一直帮着照顾孩子，也不知道天生就如此，还是被宠坏了，孩子特别clingy，不管
在中文还是英文环境里都特别reserved, 在家也是，一有点不开心就哭着喊着要奶奶抱。
我和孩子爸爸一年也见不了几次，自己工作忙得象狗，但有空的时候都尽量带孩子出去
social或者在家教她.每次set limits的时候常和婆婆搞得不开心，按理说她老远来帮
我，她也很辛苦，所以都尽量让着她，结果就是孩子总是没有办法教。两代人想法观点
不一样，我也常被她说的很不高兴。
很郁闷，心情总是很gray. |
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t*******y
发帖数: 11968 | 19 http://shanghaishiok.com/2011/01/14/why-chinese-girlfriends-are
By Shanghai Shiok!
A lot of foreign girlfriends I meet wonder how Chinese girlfriends have such
doting boyfriends. They wonder about the dynamics of these relationships
that produce boyfriends who are attentive, adoring, and even willing to do
all household chores. Often, these foreign girlfriends wonder whether they
will be able to have such boyfriends too. Well, I can tell you that anyone
can be a Chinese girlfriend, if you are ab... 阅读全帖 |
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Y*****2
发帖数: 38613 | 20 还是看孩子吧
如果是个内向的孩子还是晚送，法拉盛的daycare的老师都怎么样？如果老师不好对孩
子也没好处
你儿子外向的那种早送没关系
Best age for kids to start daycare?
Where I live there is some social pressure to start one's child/toddler at a
daycare/preschool at the age of 2. The preschool/daycare we selected is
considered one of the best and has been around for 30 years, so I know he
will be in good hands. They have a special program, routine set up that
includes independent play, group play, outdoor play and a group meal.
My dilemma: what do you think ... 阅读全帖 |
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f******a
发帖数: 211 | 21 女儿刚升junior room，有些担心她不适应，因为她是班里体型最小，又是很clingy 的孩子。上午她们在playground玩时，我推着小女儿过去看她，老师有些担心她会哭。她有些讶异，但高高兴兴地跑过来，问我为什么在这，我告诉她我只是来看看你怎么样就回去，下午再来接你。她爽快地说：好呀！我就走到另外一边，暗暗地看她。在回教室的时候，她居然当起老师的assistant, 跑去叫拉下的孩子归队。
刹那间，我觉得我女儿真的长大了。她一直很缠人，固执很情绪化。从小到大，只要妈妈，爸爸都不怎么理。只要我在，换尿片，吃饭，读书，玩游戏，玩，睡觉等等都依赖妈妈，甚至撞到哪里，再痛也要绕一个大圈子找妈妈要kiss。从小起，我带她去很多地方，她只是静静观察，很少像别的孩子那么放得开，更不用说social。更多的时候，是像小树熊紧紧地抱着我，一刻不离。当妈妈的心里有时候会想，我的孩子怎么了？为什么不像别的小孩那样，活泼，大方，健壮，会不会是自己的养育方法有问题？。
很多人说她胆小，害羞，连我妈都说她差劲（大概意思），被别的孩子抢玩具，不会抢回来；不和别的孩子玩等等。我一直都不这样认为，因为当她真正感 |
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h***o
发帖数: 2321 | 22 中了前三个，有木有？！
tnnd
HOPE SINKS
We all have them on our teams - that trendy sleeper who's just not getting
it done (Tavon Austin) or the proven real-game performer who's taking a step
back (Eli Manning).
Can't be too clingy in fantasy when you need to make way for emerging
players deserving of a shot or at least some bench speculation. Here are
some guys to consider dropping, with the usual caveat that you should factor
in your format (keepers? roster size?) and scoring system.
QB: Colin Kaepernick,... 阅读全帖 |
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j**n
发帖数: 13789 | 23 just for fun:
Leo–It’s all about them
Cancer — clingy
Gemini – deceitful
Aries–hot-headed
Libra — Wishy washy commitment phobes who are decisionally challenged.
Sagittarius–They secretly don’t like marriage. They want to be free.
Virgo–too much of a perfectionist
Aquarius–blame it on the alcohol at all the parties
Pisces – they need all this artificial (and illegal) stimulation all the
time.
Capricorn–hypersensitive workaholic
Scorpio –a sex fiend who can never be satisfied
Taurus–stubborn mofo ... 阅读全帖 |
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j*******s
发帖数: 498 | 24 star哥很clingy啊，是不是两把大钳子的缘故？？
back to th@ question, 因为斑竹就是偶新增的麻麻蜜蚜~~
scorpios |
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f*********e
发帖数: 3037 | 25 可能是你帅又不clingy，长了一张二爷脸，人见人爱花见花开。
要求奔pp，没图没真相。 |
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c*******r
发帖数: 527 | 26 Kudos to you. I don't see why girls have to be married to be happy. However,
I don't agree with you that girls got played because they were after the
greencard or the money. Some girls are just emotionally clingy with low self
-esteem. That guy might not fool you, but there are a lot of weaker ones out
there. |
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n*******1
发帖数: 1339 | 27 Almost all the guys I met make shameless lies (big or small) and pretense
just to get the girl. It is almost inevitable to get fooled sooner or later.
The crucial thing is that clingy girls hang on to those destructive
relationships, while confident and secure girls have the guts to opt out any
time.
However,
self
out |
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p*********l
发帖数: 26270 | 28 don't be possessive / clingy / pushy, it's a big turn-off.
go with the flow
bless you! |
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i*******y
发帖数: 1255 | 29 见坑就跳。
俺对外F不外F没什么意见。就是觉得这个老美比较面，有些过度敏感。像他这么CLINGY
的男人是很难泡到美国女孩的。人看起来倒像是好人，像是真想找老婆，你要是只想练
练口语什么的还是不要折腾人家了。 |
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c**********d
发帖数: 659 | 30 我哪有时间练口语啊？我现在年轻气茂的时候，当然想找个老实人有个归宿啦。
CLINGY |
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T******g
发帖数: 21328 | 31 don't be so weak. you are so clingy because you invested way more than her
in your relationship. so basically you don't want to lose your investment.
but you should face the reality. she left you for china. and she dumped you
one month later no matter how much you begged her to stay.
the lesson learned here is that don't invest too much into a woman
emotionally and financially until she proves herself worthwhile.
wake up! |
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T******g
发帖数: 21328 | 32 not necessarily. you can try one more time but don't be too needy and clingy.
at least you will know he likes you or not for sure |
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j********6
发帖数: 191 | 33 怎么再TRY一次啊？
可不可以向他请教学习啥的，复习考试？此人成绩很好。
但是我估计他也会礼貌性的回复的，因为他比较懂礼貌。
然后还是不知道。。。
clingy. |
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P******2
发帖数: 2312 | 34 赞唐！
大多数狗狗刚从shelter接回家都会表现得比一般情况更clingy。可能是因为缺乏安全
感，和害怕又被送回shelter的恐慌。要给他时间适应。同时建立discipline和
boundary。 |
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r*****a
发帖数: 27155 | 35 哎，我现在怀疑是不是公猫公狗都更贴心
以前Hammie在我家的时候，我因为他要被带走了坐在沙发上哭，他就突然站起来，过来
把头放在我腿上看着我，我赶紧说没事没事，我没事，他才晃悠着回去趴着了
我决定要Misty之前问breeder，是不是公狗更sweet更clingy一些，breeder说她觉得没
错，她说打个比方，比如你在蹲马桶，女狗是跑过来看你一眼确定你在厕所，就跑开干
别的去了，男狗是一直守在厕所里确定你不会被冲走。。。 |
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r*****a
发帖数: 27155 | 36 不同意啊。。。。感觉母狗更independent，公狗比较clingy。。。至少greyhound是这样 |
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 37 supports archaeology, that a single-origin domestication 8 to 9,000 years
years ago at Yangtze Valley (of China) and spread to India, rather than the
competing proposition that Ganges in India independently accomplished the
feat.
研究显示:中国是驯化水稻的原产地. VOA Chinese, May 3, 2011.
http://www.voanews.com/chinese/news
/international/20110503-RICE-ORIGIN-121155584.html
, which cites
Molina J et al, . Proceeding of National Academy Science (PNAS), published
online before print May 2, 2011, doi: 10.1073/pna... 阅读全帖 |
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