s********e
发帖数: 398 | 1 Hi, sorry to make somebody sad too.
This is my fifth year in US. I haven't got chance to visit my parents for so
long. tonight, I saw my father's picture that he just took and I was crying
. my father is so old now with hair white, lots of "zhouwen" on his face,
while when I was leaving home five years ago, everything is fine and my
father looked not like today.
Thus, I cried, and was blaming myself why I am so friendless to my parents,
why I am so selfless, never go home to say hi to my parents... 阅读全帖 |
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S****h
发帖数: 558 | 2 My son cried every morning for about 10 days when we sent him to day care
when he was about 2.5 years old. The first time, he cried all the time
until my wife picked him up. Kids will get over it emotionally. |
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M*****c
发帖数: 3306 | 3 看了一下，说colic是
Colic is often defined as crying more than three hours a day, three days a
week for more than three weeks in an otherwise well-fed, healthy baby. What
is most important for the diagnosis is sustained crying in an otherwise
healthy baby for a regular period of the day lasting for several weeks.
似乎没到这个程度呢 |
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w*****2
发帖数: 81 | 4 Update! The first day in preschool, he cried for whole day and didn't eat
any food. When I went to pick him up, he is crazy for water and cookie. I
feel horriable.
The second day in preschool, he cried few times during the day. But he had a
little milk and water, he also had some food I brought for him. So the
second day is much better than the first day.
Today is the third day. He didn't cry for too long when my husband dropped
him off.
So, kids can adjust very fast. I am proud of him. |
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i******e
发帖数: 1277 | 5 我觉得你家娃可以sleep train. controlled crying和cio都可以, 如果当爸妈的心软,
可以先从controlled crying尝试, 就是放下不哄, 出来关上门; 隔3分钟进去, 拍拍(
不抱起来), 然后不管娃哭不哭, 都再出来关门, 然后隔5分钟, 之后10分钟, 15分钟,
20分钟... 不过最好不要超过1个小时. 晚上半夜醒也是哄睡太多造成的. sleep train
以后这些也会改善.
另外娃哭得时候一定注意不要穿得过多overheat, 不然一身汗的哭, 想想也很不舒服. |
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发帖数: 1984 | 6 先培养生物钟，otherwise, she will be crying too much in order to get tired
and fall asleep.
This might take weeks or even months. The more regular her sleep schedule is
, the easier she will be trained and less cry will be involved. If she
sleeps at 2am, that means her naps are not regularized, you need to work on
the naps as well.
Crying will be involved in any circumstances if you want to change. But try
to limit it by doing it step by step if you are not a working mom and if you
are not too sleep-de... 阅读全帖 |
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M*****y
发帖数: 2223 | 7 哼哼的话要狠下心来不理她，用我儿医今天跟我说的话就是，crying is good for him
. crying is a kind of exercise. |
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发帖数: 76 | 8 Thank you for the comments.
My families are also talking about the possibility of 肠套叠, it seems that
the frequency and intensity of the crying are not so high. That's one thing.
The other thing is that, this symptom did not show up until he was 6 months
old. 肠套叠 should be an inborn problem if I am right.
Please correct if I am wrong with it.
My families don't want to take him to the clinic and check, because he got
very scared and cried extremely hard at a strange place... |
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n***a
发帖数: 1373 | 9 My daughter who is 2, was crying every night around 12 to 1 for 1 week or 2
. Pediatrician told us it was because she was growing molar teeth.
Anyway, she is not crying anymore. |
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l*********e
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familytree (汉堡妈妈) 于 (Thu Mar 21 21:27:21 2013, 美东) 提到:
LZ的话：LZ开帖的原因是由于看到很多童鞋们对睡眠训练存在误解，我相信你们在认真
看完这个帖子以后，会对睡眠训练有所改观。同时，我也希望大家能够认真审视/了解
一下自己的宝宝是否有不好的睡眠习惯，加以引导改变，从而让宝宝更加快乐。让宝宝
在成长过程中更加健康。帖子里面大部分是我翻译摘抄一本叫做Healthy sleep habits
，happy child （亚马逊1590个review，四颗星）的书。书里解释了为什么睡眠质量不
好的孩子会性格脾气特别急躁，同时也解释了慢性睡眠不足是如何影响孩子们在学校的
学习和生活。这本书一共500页，其中有34页是参考文献。比较科学。而很多其他关于
讲睡眠的书，包括著名的CLB，no cry sleep solution都是作者的经验总结，相对来说
不是特别科学。
这本书的作者是Dr. Marc Weissbluth, 他曾研究过上千个分别具有健康和... 阅读全帖 |
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m**********g
发帖数: 981 | 11 看看这些
Cognitive Milestones
By one:
follows moving object with eyes
recognizes differences among people; responds to strangers by crying or
staring
responds to and imitates facial expressions of others
responds to very simple directions
imitates gestures and actions
puts small objects in and out of container with intention
Between one and two:
imitates actions and words of adults
understands and follows simple, familiar directions
responds to words or co... 阅读全帖 |
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H****g
发帖数: 2273 | 12 你要补理论，原帖中说的那样cry it out是基本不管，你这个帖子说的你老公那样拍而
不抱的是controlled crying or Ferber method，这两种是通常说的sleep training。
另外还有哭了抱醒着放叫PUPD，以及no cry sleep solution 和其中的gentle removal
plan. 你要原帖中说是controlled crying估计骂你老公没爱心的会少很多。
虽然各种理论说的不一样，但可以帮助你少走弯路。你家现在的做法中，上述四法都认
为不妥的有，临睡出门散步，让宝宝在大人怀中入睡等。
你要重点训练晚上入睡那次，其次是白天小睡，这些入睡都是靠大人抱，却要求孩子晚
上醒来能不抱就自己睡是非常困难的。
加油
首先感谢很多人回帖给建议，还有很多人给我发私信，很多很多，我还没来得及一一回
复。谢谢你们. 一条条说吧。1. |
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wahaha2013 (娃哈哈啊) 于 (Sun Jul 14 00:29:12 2013, 美东) 提到:
我家宝宝刚满一周岁。不会用手指指东西，不会挥手再见，不会show东西给我看，不会
传东西给我。
请问如何教会啊，我天天教，就是不会啊。我教别的，比如谢谢，挠痒等，很快就会。
就是不会这几样。而这又是最重要的。用什么方法呢？我和儿医说出了我的顾虑，是不
是autism啊？儿医说等18个月再看。
我都等不急了。
真诚请教，怎么教会宝宝啊？急啊急。
拜谢各位！！！
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wahaha2013 (娃哈哈啊) 于 (Sun Jul 14 22:54:04 2013, 美东) 提到:
顶顶啊，没人回复我啊
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snowshine (snowshine) 于 (Sun Jul 14 23:13:25 2013, 美东) 提到:
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F***Q
发帖数: 6599 | 14
try a pacifier.
based on books, you should only go picking him up when he stops crying,
giving him a message that only stop crying can give him what he wants. |
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p*****y
发帖数: 1579 | 15 "giving him a message that only stop crying can give him what he wants"
This makes no sense to 2 weeks old, not even to 6 mo old. How does a baby
suppose to tell you he has a need besides crying. |
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g*****y
发帖数: 6325 | 16 you should feed as much as baby wants. However, when baby cry, it doesn't
mean he/she is hungry. he might use eating has a comfort method even if he
is not hungry. Try not to feed whenever he cries. If baby is hungry,
he/she has signs such as sucking fingers, tongue has sucking motion, cries
with "nah..." sound.
Baby has higher metabolic rate than adults, try not to cover baby too much.
During summer night, a one piece pajama is good enough, you may also add a
one layer breathable cotton sleepi... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 811 | 17 to start the training 30 min later then his regular bedtime is for your and
your child benefit. with 30 min delay, he is tired already. as a consequence
, it will be sooner, therefore less crying, before finally sleepness takes
over crying. it's easier for everyone.
one thing you should trust is: sleeping is necessary for every human,
regardless of age.
at the beginning, your child may want to go back to the old sleeping habit,
this desire may dominate him for a bit, but, eventually, sleepness w... 阅读全帖 |
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m**********a
发帖数: 638 | 18 宝宝8.5个月的时候开始上Daycare,现在已经7周了，状态很好。 想起当时没上之前自
己的忐忑，当时也在班上求经验 也看到不少新妈妈对daycare有和我一样这样那样的顾
虑，， 写点我们的经历回报宝宝版吧。
Background:宝宝从两个月的时候就由一个阿姨带， 我在家工作。 阿姨带的很好，宝
宝的作息比较规律。 但nap很短(30--40min)，而且要哄的比较费劲才能入睡。 可能因
为短的原因， 现在10个月来还要睡三个naps.。而且吃奶很容易distracted,吃两口就
要争着去玩， 所以她吃奶的时候都得准备她喜欢的一本书或一个玩具，拿在手里让她
玩， 她才能把奶吃完。 所以我那时后非常担心她上Daycare吃不好睡不好。 当然更担
心生病，特别是因为我一个人带她，没有任何帮手（爸爸在车程8小时之外）。
结果没想到宝宝适应的很快很好。具体如下：
１. 生病：从一月中旬开始上Daycare到现在7周， 没有生过病， 除了经常流鼻涕鼻
塞之外。 鼻塞鼻涕这段时间我也这样， 怀疑跟空气太干有关系。 现在天慢慢暖和起
来了， 希望更不容易生病了。 这点是最叫我惊喜的地方。（不... 阅读全帖 |
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q********y
发帖数: 615 | 20 pat pat. I had thought my son would have the longest adjustment ever (the
teacher told me "I have seen babies having a hard time to adjust, but not
this hard", but it turned out it only took him 2 weeks.
now after 4 weeks, he no longer cries when LD drops him off (still cries
when I drop off him, hehe). and he is having a good time there.
seriously, if my son can adjust (he really had the most serious version of
separation anxiety), yours can too!
just give him some time. letting him take some f |
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s******m
发帖数: 940 | 21 老师好像对此很漠然，好像我们都不存在一样 is definitely not a good sign.
my daughter started daycare at 20 months, her sepearation anxiety was quite
severe at that time, crying a lot at dropoff. but her teacher was very nice
and helpful, always offering to hold and hug her so I could leave. finally
my daughter got used to the routine and stopped crying. |
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r******l
发帖数: 240 | 22 Not exact. It is not "giving up", it is judged as "giving up".
In addition, Hemei' mother cried in the court, and her crying is evaluated
as "hysterious" and as "emotionally instable". It is also used as an
evidence that she may not serve the best interest of Hemei. It is clear
that the subjective judgement plays a role. Nobody have a control over this
kind of subjective evaluation. |
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b********a
发帖数: 270 | 23 My son is 1 month to 2 years old too.
Sned him to daycare just for trail for 20 minutes this morning. And he cries
like crazy. On the way back home, he fall asleep.
I am not a strong person, too. I almost cry out in the daycare. Now in the
office I almost fall asleep.
Hard way to go for me.........Cannot bear his crying.
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w********9
发帖数: 8613 | 25 对不很politically correct的biting back approach，我除了为说明问题用，还没
take a stand。出于那种很显然的考虑，一般的“专家”/专家也不会鼓励这种方法。
在态度和看法上，这和让大很多的小孩参加boot camp只有一定的类似性。
不过，就像和读那本书一样，有不少成功的例子。效果和反咬回去的程度应该有一定关
联。
还有：任何一个良药，不会对所有人100%有效。
http://www.babycenter.com/404_my-toddler-bites-should-i-bite-her-back_14057.bc
I have never personally experienced the biting problem until now, and my son
is only one year barely, so I am not planning on biting him but I do agree
that biting them back works as my good friend was a biter as a ... 阅读全帖 |
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D*****n
发帖数: 235 | 26 It is hard on the nanny if you ask her to sleep with a baby who is used to
prior routines such as sleeping with mommy. My one year old often is fussy
when sleeping with his grandma, who is a very capable person and has been
living together with half since my baby was six months old.
There are great nannies. But it is difficult for them to beat mommies. I don
't know how much you pay the nanny. It must be a great price (over 2000
dollars in net as my estimate) to ask her to do both the day and ni... 阅读全帖 |
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x******l
发帖数: 37 | 27 My 3 yr old boy has the exceterly same problems as LZ's boy.
I am already out of my mind about him, when he get unsatisfied requests, he
will start rolling around floor and yelling, crying, screming.....
Now my husband dealing with him every night, but it looks not any improvment
at all, he almost cried and screming every night before sleep. ask for food
after brush his teeth, ask go outside after he already agreed to go to bed
or he already been bed.
THE BIG PROBLEM is HE NEVER LISTEN TO US, HE... 阅读全帖 |
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z***a
发帖数: 138 | 28 I do think this daycare staff was not doing her duty professionally. The
incident is bad, but I hope you can find bright thing from it. When you send
your kid to school, to the community and to the society, you want your kid
to learn not only the good things, but also learn to cope with bad things
about this society. One of the bad thing that exists universally is that
there is always mean people around you. Teach your kid both to be nice and
stand tough and strong against mean people.
As to you... 阅读全帖 |
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j***e
发帖数: 708 | 29 my 6 year old is fighting for attention with her 1 year old baby brother all
the time. the little one stops crying, the big one will start another round
of crying, and back and force... |
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b**o
发帖数: 5769 | 30 We have exactly the same situation before as yours. Just remember, you are the boss, you can change everything if you can stand their crying.
You have to keep telling them they have to share. There is only one mom and
only one daddy in this world!
Our 姐姐was the same as yours, now she is much better. However, her
personality still leads her to be bossy all the time. We just let her cry
till she stop by herself. We don't even look at her unless she stops crying
first. |
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h******r
发帖数: 279 | 31 GOOD POINT。 对老大是要硬一些了看来。 但我们老大还有个问题， 一哭厉害了就吐
。 所以外婆奶奶都见不得老大哭， 更怕她吐。 我曾经咨询过我的儿医为啥老大这么
容易吐， 别是什么神经性质的。 儿医也说不出个所以然。 所以家里都比较迁就老大
尽量不让她哭， 就是怕她吐～～～
the boss, you can change everything if you can stand their crying.
and
crying |
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c**********d
发帖数: 389 | 32 My older girl was sent to an earlier childhood ed center at the same
age. At that time she was in complete Chinese speaking environment and
very spoiled. She cried a full three weeks, 5 days a week, 7 hours a
day (2 hours nap to get back her energy to continue crying). I had to
leave her there for at least 9 - 10 hours a day. I was so sorry for the
teacher - but I did trust her and the director.
She became a legend in that school. But everyone loved her in the
following three years she was t... 阅读全帖 |
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g********l
发帖数: 506 | 33 my son is almost three but cried every time when seeing any show especially
shamu because of loud music. How can I do? maybe like his dad suggested go
to see those shows once a month until not crying? |
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n****m
发帖数: 1283 | 34 Actually, Crying might not be a bad thing.
Mine did not cry and we had no idea whether the place is good or not.
She does not like crying. |
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c******y
发帖数: 547 | 35 hold on there~~~ it's hard especially on the parents. But in the end, all
kids at this age will love daycare.
We sent our daughter to daycare last summer when she was 1&half. Exact
similar things happened to her, the first week she cried whole day long
until her voice was hoarse. She protested without eating, napping and even
drinking, so we had to pick up her early in the afternoon in case of
dehydration. After 1-2 months, she was better and now she is totally in love
with her teachers and frie... 阅读全帖 |
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M******n
发帖数: 978 | 36 宝宝上Daycare快一年了， 在最初适应期也没这么哭过。最近幼儿园来了两个临时的老
师，原来的leading teacher是印度人，回国渡假去了。新的那个leading teacher是个
白人老太，每天的报告上宝宝心情那一栏时常出现teary，有时说他哭了一上午， 这在
以前印度老师在的时候是从来没有过的。昨天老公把宝宝接回家，很紧张地和我说“你
看他好象不对劲”我一看吓了一跳，早上送去好好的，回来脸也肿了，但没有明显的淤
痕，满脸的小红点点（哭的时候摒出来的），问了他半天，也问不出来什么。头皮上埋
在头发里的还有三四个红色的印子，不象是撞的，也不知道是怎么弄出来的。洗澡时还
发现肚皮上有好几道特别长的浅浅的指甲划痕。老师的报告上说他"he is frustrated
today, cried a lot and would not let us comfort him. his face is a little
broken from crying." 我今天本来想送宝宝，顺便问问老师到底怎么回事，但是家里
还有一个6周大的小宝，出门很不方便，最后还是老公送的。我让老公去问，问... 阅读全帖 |
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g***e
发帖数: 1256 | 37 Do not bit him. It is useless. When you take him back, on the way home you
can give him a bottle of milk, or some fruit, or some snacks.
Talk to his daycare teachers to find if there any other reasons there. If no
, just ignore the crying. For 2 year old boy, he cannot really express what
he need. Let him cry or give him hugs or hold him for a while.
Just crying, it is not bad. Hold your own temper. Or you can time out
yourself. |
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d*****0
发帖数: 9 | 38 From my experience, small kids seem to be immune to others crying. My daught
is never waken up no matter how loud her brother cries. I do not think you
need to worry about the sister if you decide to train your son. |
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x***r
发帖数: 1523 | 39 孩子总会在学校磕磕碰碰，有冲突有矛盾的。
但是，什么时候家长要给孩子撑腰， 什么时候应该放手让孩子自己处理呢？
这个问题，我始终不知道怎么回答.
昨天, 我回到家, 10岁的儿子就告诉我, 他在学校和同学吵架了.老师将会通知家长.
(到底是因为老师告诉家长他才告诉我, 还是他本来就会告诉我呢? 无从探寻.)
总之我让他复述了一遍事情的经过. 大概是同班一个一直欺负他的女生昨天又tease他，
老师当时不在， 所以他就写了个条子准备告诉老师，结果有好事者告诉了该女生，以
至于该女生冲过来嚷嚷他mean, teacher's pet....他也嚷嚷回去了...这是老师进来了
, 看到他们在吵,就批评了儿子. 儿子觉得特别不公平。
后妈我是从来没有去给孩子撑过腰。一般出现这种情况，包括上次我看到另外一个女生
不停地打儿子， 然后儿子还手， 一直都是觉得应该先批评自己的孩子的。
但是看到版上大家讨论过一定要给孩子撑腰。 我就决定给老师发封信问一下，表示关
注。
结果刚打开信箱,就发现老师的email已经到了：
Today was a difficult day at school for 儿子... 阅读全帖 |
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l******2
发帖数: 2994 | 40 Correct. Let them knock the wall several times, and then they will know to
avoid it. Stay firm to do your things; no response to her emotions or
behaviors before she calms down.
My son use crying to attract our attention, but I can tell he changes the
tones during crying to test which tone can really bring mommy back. |
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w******p
发帖数: 197 | 41 go to a kindergarten which has neighbors' kids, and invite those kids
to your home, mingle with other parents and kids after school, go to every
birthday party, invite others to his birthday.
a little tougher to him will help.
just leave him there, regardless. don't make his crying a big deal,
he will stop crying. |
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e********t
发帖数: 144 | 42 我家女宝宝快四岁了。十多天前在day care 出了点意外。那天小朋友比较少，老师就
把大班和小班的娃娃集中在一起带。结果一个比宝宝小一些的男孩Jack突然抱住宝宝在
她的胖脸上咬一了口。宝宝当时就疼得大哭了。老师赶紧把Jack拉到一边去，还好，宝
宝的脸蛋子没出血，消毒敷冰块处理后，又通知了我们家长。可怜的小闺女，牙印子到
晚上睡觉前还能看见。唉，也不能责怪谁，可能小男孩想表达喜欢的感情吧。方式欠妥
当，哈哈。
后来过了几天，宝宝回来说，小男孩上午围着另一个女娃转悠，Day care的老师问，
Jack，你要干啥？ Jack 回答：“I want bite her!”吓得那个女娃赶紧跑到一边去了。
前天是超级大雪后第一天，小朋友很少，老师又把大班和小班的小朋友集中在一起。下
面就是宝宝回来说的当天发生的事。
Jack又跑到宝宝跟前来疑似要咬她。宝宝说当Jack把手伸到她胸前的时候，她害怕极了
，觉得心里像结冰了一样，特别凉。她闭上眼睛，心里数着一二三四。。。，突然，她
想起了妈妈和姥姥说的话， 她睁开了眼睛用尽全力把Jack推到了墙边上。
推完了人的那时候，她觉得心里的冰一下子都融化... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1019 | 43 我家小娃两岁多，有时发脾气，不过还算好。我觉得第一大人不能妥协，要让他／她知
道consequence。
比如说到了超市不坐cart上，就对她说不坐我们就回家。在家不愿意洗手，告之不洗手
就没东西吃。看电视每天只能一集，看完让小娃帮忙关机。时间长了她知道大人说话都
算数，闹也没用，就会听话点。要是哭了就让步，那只能越哭越厉害。有些合理的要求
，比如说再来点西瓜，如果是哭着要，首先说"crying won't get you anything. if
you stop crying, mommy will give you"，等哭停了再给。几次以后小娃会有意识地
停哭来用讲话来要求东西。
高深的道理多讲小娃也听不懂。实在哭得厉害就冷处理，大人走开。我家小娃再大人走
开后很快就会停止哭闹。几次她哭倒在地上，大概是在幼儿园学的，我们就看看不说话
，她意识到没用就不哭了。 |
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发帖数: 19242 | 44 /////类似的事又出现了。在被说迟到事件之后的一段时间里，娃隔几天回家会跟我说B
说这个那个的，反正娃感到烦的那种。比如说B是世界上最漂亮的公主，而我家娃的漂
亮发饰很难看；全班同学都说娃带去的某个小玩意很CUTE很新奇，而B说不好玩；在图
书馆只能说英语不能说中文教中文（我和娃每周义务 去图书馆教中文）；要我给B买唇
膏，因为B妈不知道怎么买； 只有crying girl才能在 她的TEAM玩（她的TEAM就她们仨
，每次都B是BOSS，C和我家娃没有当过BOSS）；还有让 我家娃给带某样东西给她。。
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1.迟到的事，我会跟娃说，我们没有迟到，一般比他们去的晚一些；如果迟到了，学校
会发tardy ticket的。This is none of her business. 只不过她自己喜欢这么说，给
自己找好感觉，it is her problem. it is not worth our time and energy, let it
go.
真正的朋友，会在相处的时候让你感到舒服温暖；她的这个做法不是好朋友的做法
2.B想要什么，是她跟她父... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1105 | 45 i am so curious what the pilot can do even if that id finally bring him to
that crying baby. It is in an airplane. The pilot cannot do anything to stop
a baby crying. Of course, they can change a seat for that id if there is
one. lol.
in new york, i know if you call 911, the dispatcher will tell u that the
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发帖数: 115 | 46 I write it 3 months ago. I DIDN'T POST IT OUT.
i CAN'T HOLD , i AM BLUE.
再次紧急求助！（很受伤，慎入）
不知放哪儿让我感觉舒服点儿，借人气暂且放这儿吧。
孩子被带走3个多月，从冬天到夏天。。。他们都是无辜的天真活波可爱的孩子。没用
的妈妈不是那种只生不养，no responsibility 的妈妈，而是双方家人没有人能帮忙，
自己又太爱孩子，总想让这些孩子有个体面的生活，自己天资不足，又不能同时handle
很多事，压力太大，一时判断失误，做了件现在想来是件stupid的事情，(其实孩子进
家里，妈妈粗心，心急立马去学校找，5 minutes回家发现孩子,在警察到学校之前, 警
察作了记录这事结束了)2小时后DCF带走了所有的孩子（第二次）。
请那些天赋很强，上帝又赐予您多方面能力的人能够出谋划策，Bring kids back to
home。能感觉孩子们在精神上像我一样在崩溃的边缘，我已3次因心脏问题进emergency
room 。相信每一位做妈妈的都会像我一样，心也跟着碎了。。。我不敢想象我的孩子
们是怎... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 4651 | 47 The same thing happens to my younger daughter when she was 3. She is a very
happy girl. It depends how long she cried each day I think. My daughter
usually cries for a few minutes and quickly stop after I left, so I was not
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发帖数: 6276 | 48 看看费舍尔的前辈怎么说：
Plenty of people, some more qualified than Fisher, are rejected from
universities for a myriad of reasons every year, and they don’t cry about
it, let alone sue anybody. They recognize that they may not have had what it
takes for that particular institution and realize that it wasn’t the place
for them after all. Trust me, I know.
I applied to the University of Texas at Austin years before Fisher did. As
you already know, I’m from Illinois, but my mother was born and raised in
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发帖数: 7460 | 49 "Im exactly in your position before (this question was 2012 and now its 2014
). Anyway, I feel really sad right now that Im even crying while typing this
. I just heard from one of my coaches (shes really not the one who decides
who made the team) but still! Shes a coach in my sport. She said that im
gonna be in JV. Im a junior and what she said really hurt me so bad :'( I
cant even stop from crying today. I feel like im such a loser for not making
it into Varsity. All my junior friends are gonn... 阅读全帖 |
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