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b********s
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【 以下文字转载自 CanadaNews 讨论区 】
发信人: blueforpus (Little Bo), 信区: CanadaNews
标 题: Former Youngest member of Mensa just turned 3
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon May 7 17:59:41 2012, 美东)
At just 15 months old, Emmelyn Roettger was able to recognize letters. By
age two she was writing them.
In March, just before turning 3, Emme was admitted into Mensa with an IQ of
135, making her the youngest member of the prestigious high-IQ society in
the U.S.
Ironically, when Emme was an infant, her doctors thought she was slo... 阅读全帖
y********a
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - LG总是批评我
lz老公跟我家大叔很像 他没事就只会取笑我 刚开始我还会当回事 现在连argue的心情
都没有了
1. 我不爱看书 知识量没法跟他比 他嘲笑我没有文化--我就当玩笑了!这是事实,偶
也无法辩驳。
2. 朋友说我英语好 (以前在国内 需不时帮媒体做一些交传) 他反诘到,“你英语还
好? OMG!”我承认 一些生活俚语不如他知道得多 (我的底子主要还是国内的积累 他
已在此水生火热了20年),但此言一出,的确很伤人!我又不是没有自知之明,自以为
是的人
3. 我让他陪我练车,他说“夫妻间不能教”,“为减少conflict,回国练比较好”。
一来,他不用费心教我,二来,他的车也没有什么risk。不过他倒是放心我一个人开出
去练,呵呵。--我想不通,说他自私,他当即反驳;我也不想再就此纠缠。
4. 他嫌我不pp 谈起朋友的lp 动辄就是xxx的是美女,xxx的也很漂亮的。美女帅哥谁
都喜欢,我并不介意他给别人的generous comments,但是为什么对我却要这么mean呢
;我长的真的有这么难看吗(跟陈乔恩,姚晨一个档次)?大叔还经常半开玩笑半认真
地说我一无是处,腿短又粗 (他比我高1... 阅读全帖
c********e
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妹妹的情况和我很相似。只是我没有双胞胎。我也时常有一样的感触。有了二宝就少了
时间陪大宝。四岁正是淘气,而四个月的二宝又离不开大人。
转篇文章共享吧。
Loving Two
I walk along holding your 2-year-old hand, basking in the glow of our
magical relationship. Suddenly I feel a kick from within, as if to remind me
that our time alone is limited. And I wonder: how could I ever love another
child as I love you?
Then she is born, and I watch you. I watch the pain you feel at having to
share me as youve never shared me before.
I hear you telling me in your own way, Please love on... 阅读全帖
a*****g
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反对 PARCC考试的大潮——PARCC Refusal Campaign
High school students in Bloomington and Normal, Illinois, have organized a
student union, called the Blono Student Union, to oppose PARCC. it is called
the Blono Student Union.
Students in Bloomington and Normal, Illinois, Join to Oppose PARCC Tests
Refusing the PARCC
An effective way to resist standardized testing is to simply not participate
in it; refusing state tests is a common, legal strategy used all over the
nation. Students and parents around the co... 阅读全帖
s*********5
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r******l
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来自主题: Parenting版 - Am I over reacting or grandma is abnormal?
1. Grandma loves to touch my son, always try to hold him in her arms.
If the grandma is a chinese, it is very normal. That is the way a chinese
grandma expresses her love.
when she heard my son need to poop and stay there watch him poop, that was
in the mid of our lunch.
If the grandma is a chinese, it is very normal. Her watching your son
poop is not out of curiosity. It is out of concerns and care -- to make
sure your son is ok.
my son, pull up pants, send food into his mouth.
If the
B******1
发帖数: 9094
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 听说,一个六岁男孩子
Curiosity or instinct. Talk to the teacher and/or his parent.
x***r
发帖数: 1523
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我当即趁热打铁, 说:how about we do it now? You and I each write a
paragraph asking people to vote for you or me to be the president.
儿子很兴奋地立马去写了。开天辟地第一回儿,没有上厕所,就写完了下面一段。 (
真实复述。拼写错误全是他的原版,我没做任何改动。)
Hello, my name is Justin. I want you to vote for me as presedent. I wil help
the poor, and help oder and younger people. I'd try to help states to
recover from tornadoes, typhoons, and huracanes. I'll give huge presents for
the best educational public school. I would also help stop bed bug invasion
. I'll sto... 阅读全帖
b*********d
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Agree. If she is more than 10, I would think it's 猥亵. For a 5-year-old, I
think it's either curiosity, or 模仿. Maybe she got 猥亵 from other people,
or 模仿 what's being showed in TVs.
I think first, stop sending your daughter to that family daycare. Secondly,
talk with her mother seriously, and from 被人猥亵 or 模仿 point of view to
be less affensitve. But need to be very clear and serious.
i**e
发帖数: 19242
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只不过是N个思路之一嘛
看样子,刚开始对报警以及后果也不是很清楚
后来的帖子看,现在不这么想了么
看到的communication norms,抄一下,共勉 :)
.assume positive intent
.approach with an attitude of curiosity, not judgment
.address the person about the problem directly
.aim for mutual understanding and resolution
B******1
发帖数: 9094
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 孩子的自白(给老师的一封信)
Dear Teacher,
Well, the school year certainly seems to have gone off with a bang! Though
summer had its ups and downs, after a while it simmered off with a whimper.
In comparison, my 7th grade year seems to be a frenzy of colors, nervousness
, and curiosity. It may be true someday I’ll also grow tired of school life
, but it certainly doesn’t seem likely. I truly hope that I will assimilate
into this environment soon, but I’ve never really been good at changing my
colors. (Nor at opening my poor... 阅读全帖
B******1
发帖数: 9094
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 跳级好还是不好?
It depends more on the maturity of the student than on his or her
academic performance. In James' case, skipping a grade (1 semester K and 1
semester 1st grade during his first year of school) is a good thing. He mingles
well with his classmates and leads a happy and productive life. He never brags
about himself in private or in public. He is genuinely happy when his friends are
getting better grades than his.
If you ask what else is important for him to become what he is, I would say
READING. J... 阅读全帖
a****t
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 你的孩子有赚钱的命吗?
龙生龙,凤生凤。老鼠的孩子会打洞。
凭什么,犹太人,温州人,北印度的阿三这么会做生意。
大家有什么好办法,让家里的Teenager不光只会读书。
Curiosity-->Creativity-->Cash
http://video.foxbusiness.com/v/3889415/secrets-of-the-richest-k
http://astore.amazon.com/xiaoxiaoshuwu-20/detail/0981970907
http://www.entrepreneur.com/tsu
http://www.inc.com/30under30/2011/index.html
L********r
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 求建议,怎样管教学龄小孩?
Regarding the extraordinary "No" reply in that gathering, I would rather
show more interest and curiosity than judgment to her. It seems like a good
opportunity to let her open up. Maybe she has some special thoughts, or
maybe she does not care at all. Either way, you need to find it out not shut
it off.
And even if it turns out to be an attitude problem (let's say for example
you get "I don't care" that kind of punk response), it probably won't be
useful for her to change her attitude if you ju... 阅读全帖
l*******a
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来自主题: Parenting版 - Where are you from---困惑中
A nice article:
http://articles.cnn.com/2010-04-05/opinion/bayoumi.who.am.i_1_q
'Where are you from?' is not the right question
April 05, 2010|By Moustafa Bayoumi, Special to CNN
We all have things that we can't stand but must routinely put up with. Here
are a few of mine: slow elevators, outrageous bank fees and being asked the
question, "Where are you from?"
Everybody hates the first two, but why am I so opposed to the last one?
For starters, I know the impatient looks that will follow when I ... 阅读全帖
b*********n
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来自主题: Parenting版 - Where are you from---困惑中
实际上这是个很普遍的问题,在中国, 也就是在咱们这儿, 也是常有人好奇问这个问题
象这样的就很不容易回答,后来我就琢磨了个办法, 尽量找一个最容易让对方满足好奇
心的
答案,虽然这个答案不一定准确,呵呵

A nice article:
http://articles.cnn.com/2010-04-05/opinion/bayoumi.who.am.i_1_q
'Where are you from?' is not the right question
April 05, 2010|By Moustafa Bayoumi, Special to CNN
We all have things that we can't stand but must routinely put up with. Here
are a few of mine: slow elevators, outrageous bank fees and being asked the
question, "Where are you from?"
Everybody hates the first two, but... 阅读全帖
s*********5
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有人质疑什么是有爱心而又更公义的录取原则。这所San Diego地区的公立高中提供了一个很好的答案。
在我们这里大家常觉得Carmel Valley这个精英荟萃的地方的Torrey Pine High School(US Newsweek Ranking #125)是最好的学校。TPHS去年有6个哈佛录取的,十几个斯坦福录取的。然而在US Newsweek的排名上,她远远掉在了另一个名不见经传的小学校后。谁说美国人不知道怎么样用social economic background来衡量学生了。
这所小学校叫Preuss School UCSD (US Newsweek Ranking #17).我朋友帮哈佛校友面试时,这个学校的申请生录取率最高。他连续两年面试了两个从这个学校出来后来被哈佛录取的越南孩子。他告诉我那几个孩子的故事真的很感人。他们这得是overcome a lot of hardship to arrive where they are.例如有个孩子为了能上这个学校,每天5点就起来去朋友家里等车。这样求学上进的孩子是我们愿意帮助的。
我衷心地希望美国有更多这样的高中。我觉... 阅读全帖
h********u
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看大家有讨论天才,俺来给添点儿料. 俺们这里有一个preschool,说是面向“天才”
娃儿的,创办人学的专业就是研究gifted kids, gifted program。给天才加个引号是
人家原文用的词叫“highly capable”。下面这段是从她家网站上抄来的:
A gifted child (0-3 years old) may demonstrate:
* Unusual alertness and activity
* Requiring less sleep during infancy than average babies
* Intense reactions to sensory input
* Needing seemingly constant stimulation and interaction
* Early developmental skills, speech and/or reading.
A gifted child between the ages of 3 and 5 may demonstrat... 阅读全帖
d********m
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 7岁儿子被学校停课1.5天
i think someday a young kid sets fire on the debris on your lawn and lays
waste to your house, of course, just for curiosity. you will definitely get
the very meaning of "spare the rod, spoil the child".

magnifying
b*****b
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来自主题: Parenting版 - gifted 小屁孩的特征
推爸研究了一下我们这的elp网站贴的gifted小p孩的特征如下:
13分满分。
1:Displays advanced thinking skills
2:Demonstrates knowledge of many different things
3:Quickly sees why things happen and what causes them to happen
4: Understands new ideas or subjects with little effort
5 Shows a great deal of curiosity
6 Sees and creates patterns in areas such as speech, art, music, numbers,
and nature
7 Continues to work on a project regardless of time or space limitations
8 Obsesses in an interest area
9 Insists on perfection
10 Rec... 阅读全帖
m**k
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来自主题: Parenting版 - SAP副总裁Target偷LEGO被抓 (转载)
【 以下文字转载自 Lego 俱乐部 】
发信人: mark (花生,微爷远爷的爸爸), 信区: Lego
标 题: SAP副总裁Target偷LEGO被抓
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu May 24 15:21:41 2012, 美东)
花生解毒:
1) 这个也是个AFOL.玩家
Wylie said Langenbach had many assembled LEGO sets in his home, and "drawers
and drawers of LEGO bricks separated out by color."
2) 玩LEGO有风险,要谨慎啊。
3) 是硅谷生活压力比较大么?
4) 居然有46盒 Magma Monster ..这个我怀疑不是在target.
这个LEGO.com 有一阵很便宜,2块钱左右的样子
5) 有媒体说279的Millennium Falcon.这个一定有错误。
因为Millennium Falcon UCS版本, 要500块钱。
而现在的版本才100多。
279.98的应该是 LEGO MINDSTORM NXT.
He ... 阅读全帖
b*********n
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来自主题: Parenting版 - SAP副总裁Target偷LEGO被抓 (转载)
saw the news yesterday, LEGO is good, hehe

【 以下文字转载自 Lego 俱乐部 】
发信人: mark (花生,微爷远爷的爸爸), 信区: Lego
标 题: SAP副总裁Target偷LEGO被抓
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu May 24 15:21:41 2012, 美东)
花生解毒:
1) 这个也是个AFOL.
Wylie said Langenbach had many assembled LEGO sets in his home, and "drawers
and drawers of LEGO bricks separated out by color."
2) 玩LEGO有风险,要谨慎啊。
3) 是硅谷生活压力比较大么?
4) 居然有46盒 Magma Monster ..这个我怀疑不是在target.
这个LEGO.com 有一阵很便宜,2块钱左右的样子
5) 有媒体说279的Millennium Falcon.这个一定有错误。
因为Millennium Falcon UCS版本, 要500块钱。
而现在的版... 阅读全帖
t*******r
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big bang 对八岁多点小孩貌似还是有理解的困难。主要是太抽象了,不容易建立
兴趣。我试过并且观察了大约五分钟左右。当然,每个小孩不一样。
对八岁的小孩,exposure 天文方面的东西,我个人觉得,土星光环之类,这种比较
形象,又比较漂亮的,比较容易建立兴趣。另外最近热门的火星车 Curiosity 也相
对容易有兴趣。小孩跟大人也差不多,更容易对当前热门时尚的话题有兴趣。。。
t*******r
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这个 。。。 也不用上来就直接人体结构嘛 。。。 而且物理学和生物学也是医学的
基础。。。医学方面,我觉得娃更容易有兴趣。。。比如有个 topic 是“what is
dream”,里面讲到 REM sleep vs Non-REM sleep,dream at the REM sleep
vs dream at Non-REM sleep,and the function difference。REM sleep
vs depression 。。。 各种各样的动物实验,还是临床观察。。。等等等等。。。
娃看起来比看 Curiosity Rover,Hubble telescope 更有兴趣。看完后要看家里
各个人睡觉的时候在 REM 还是在 Non-REM 阶段。。。但是娃半夜爬不起来,要求俺
爬起来拍录像。。。但是俺也半夜爬不起来。。。 lol
另外最近另一个 topic 是有关环境方面的,海豹被某类海藻的毒素影响,中了毒。
有病例海豹的脑子只长了半个(给海豹做 CT Scan,也蛮有趣的),另外还有病例
生物学家也没搞清楚为啥,看起来脑子也没缺一块。。。有看卫星海图探讨是不是
此... 阅读全帖
t*******r
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筷子只是一个例子,其实人的手(包括控制手的大脑小脑),是一个无比高级
的玩意儿。最新火星车 curiosity 上面的无比高级的机械臂,外加地面科
学家工程师团体的努力,也就只能搞到那个程度。如果那个机械臂能达到人脑
控制的人手的自主智慧程度。。。唉,大家也就只能YY。。。太空修哈勃望
远镜还是真人上手的。。。
t*******r
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(1)父母的首要任务是 exposure,帮助 establish interest,还有概念
上的答疑解惑,而不是教授那些公式。教授那些公式主要是学校老师的任务。。。
(2)PBS NOVA 2003 年的 “The Elegant Universe” 的确在说超弦理论。
当然,其目的主要是给大家 layout 一个 picture,一种 critical
thinking 的方式,而不是放段公式。
(3)NASA 2003 年测绘 WMAP,2006 年发射了 “New Horizons”,IBM
2011 年搬出 Watson,前两月 Curiosity Rover 从火星发回照片。。。
如果只知道均匀的宇宙背景辐射,如果只知道 Voyager 1/2,如果只知道深蓝,
如果只知道 Spirit Rover。。。这些都还是传统领域,Gene/Medical
Research 更不用说。。。另外 non-fiction 还包括历史人文等等。。。
如果觉得近十年来的发展都是空白。。。不知道谁是空白。。。
(4)最重要的不是以上几点。其实这是个不需要回答的问题,这个帖子
表明的是一个态... 阅读全帖
m*********7
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LZ, you really should not worry about your son's speech and language. Rather
, you should worry about his COMMUNICATION SKILLS. Before a child learns to
speak, he should be able to communicate non-verbally, using facial
expressions, gestures, pointing, sigh language, pictures, etc. He may also
bring you an item to show interest or curiosity. If he lacks such skills, he
will have increased frustration, leading to a lot of crying and tantrums.
Other parents have comforted you, saying that their ch... 阅读全帖
w********e
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 被吓了一大跳
really? what happened?
just out of curiosity.
f**r
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(1)
During the Middle Ages there were all kinds of crazy ideas, such as
that a piece of rhinoceros horn would increase potency. Then a
method was discovered for separating the ideas--which was to try
one to see if it worked, and if it didn't work, to eliminate it. This
method became organized, of course, into science. And it
developed very well, so that we are now in the scientific age. It is
such a scientific age, in fact that we have difficulty in
understanding how witch doctors could ever ha... 阅读全帖
l******2
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 中式教育对西式教育的优势
听过她( LIN LI) 本人的WORKSHOP那对中国的传统文化在教育上的优势是很自豪的。没
时间翻译了,大家凑着看吧。她有个感想我是比较赞同的,就是人容易把政治和文化混
在一起,失去真正的分辨力。
她有个PAPER 对比文化对早期教育的影响: 到高中的时候西方教育所谓的兴趣不再
WORK了,学生辍学率开始上升,中式教育开始有优势,学生把学习当成挑战坚持下来了
升学率高。有时间给大家翻出来。
不知道我儿子以后会怎样的怪胎: 在学校老师强调激发兴趣,在家不学习几个汉字不
能睡觉不讲故事。
Why Do Eastern and Western Kids Learn Differently?
By Jana Burns
February 4, 2013— Picture this: In a cozy U.S. classroom, preschoolers
listen attentively as their teacher tells a story about a young bear
struggling to catch fish. “How do you imagine... 阅读全帖
f**r
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来自主题: Parenting版 - [灌水] 贴非美女帅锅
罗斯福夫人(Eleanor Roosevelt)如果她的内在能够表现在容貌上的话绝对
是女神级别的... 不过真实的她有点龅牙,影响了观感。
她说:I think, at a child's birth, if a mother could ask a fairy
godmother to endow it with the most useful gift, that gift should
be curiosity.
我先想到的是运气,聪明那些,不过后来慢慢领会到她是对的。:-)
J*******p
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11. But we, believing that the normal child has powers of mind which fit him
to deal with all knowledge proper to him, give him a full and generous
curriculum; taking care only that all knowledge offered him is vital, that
is, that facts are not presented without their informing ideas. Out of this
conception comes our principle that,--

Instead, we believe that childrens' minds are capable of digesting real
knowledge, so we provide a rich, generous curriculum that exposes children
to many int... 阅读全帖
J*******p
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11. But we, believing that the normal child has powers of mind which fit him
to deal with all knowledge proper to him, give him a full and generous
curriculum; taking care only that all knowledge offered him is vital, that
is, that facts are not presented without their informing ideas. Out of this
conception comes our principle that,--

Instead, we believe that childrens' minds are capable of digesting real
knowledge, so we provide a rich, generous curriculum that exposes children
to many int... 阅读全帖
i**e
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感谢分享,稍稍有点矫枉过正了,偶认为
对培养性格品质有兴趣的同学们
有空可以翻翻 How Children Succeed
http://www.amazon.com/How-Children-Succeed-Curiosity-Character/
p***k
发帖数: 250
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来自主题: Parenting版 - BSO一下,儿子的中文和英文。
Your son seems a talented kid among his peers.
Just out of curiosity,maybe you had a typo? Your son won the 2nd grade
spelling bee, not 3rd grade? I remember "Turquoise" is a must-know word for
my son's class, who is a 2nd grader. Of course, my son's English level is
really low. He is not even qualified to compete in the spelling bee contest
in his school.
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最近读到一些关于培养孩子的"grit"的文章,挺有感触的,拿来和大家分享一下。
关心这个主要是因为我家七岁男孩怕难、怕输、怕吃苦,还听不得批评。从家里走到公
园只要七八分钟都不愿意,弹钢琴的手势不好,给他提个醒都生气。当然我和他爹也没
有做好榜样,我吃不得苦,她爹听不得批评。。。如果大家有这方面的经验教训,欢迎
分享。
“Grit” is defined as “perseverance and passion for long-term goals.” It
involves “working strenuously toward challenges, maintaining effort and
interest over years despite failures, adversity, and plateaus in progress.”
It’s one of a set of “noncognitive” skills — such as curiosity,
resilience, self-control — that researchers now reali... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 看"我是不是对女儿太严厉"有感
http://www.amazon.com/Great-Kids-Essential-Qualities-Lawrence/d
就是这本书。Great Kids: Helping Your Baby and Child Develop the Ten
Essential Qualities for a Healthy, Happy Life (A Merloyd Lawrence Book) [
Hardcover]
Stanley I Greenspan (Author)
包括:engagement, empathy, curiosity, communication, emotional range, self
awareness, internal discipline, creativity, and logical thinking.
说句实话,管的太严不利于以上任何一项。
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 看"我是不是对女儿太严厉"有感
A:
孩子:妈妈,我想吃巧克力。
妈妈:不行,咱家的规矩是不吃糖。吃糖对牙不好。
孩子:^&%^&%
B:
孩子:妈妈,我想吃巧克力。
妈妈:拿去,这里有一袋子。要吃就吃最贵的这种。咱们有钱随便吃。
孩子很高兴。
C:
孩子:妈妈,我想吃巧克力。
妈妈:快吃饭了。吃完饭再吃。只能吃一块。多的存起来。
孩子:How about two?
妈妈:两块也行。那你得出去跑一圈。
你是哪一种?哪一种培养孩子的engagement, empathy, curiosity, communication,
emotional range, self
awareness, internal discipline, creativity, and logical thinking.?
d****g
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 看"我是不是对女儿太严厉"有感
A:
孩子:妈妈,我想玩IPAD。
妈妈:不行,咱家的规矩是不许玩IPAD。IPAD对眼睛不好。
孩子:^&%^&%
B:
孩子:妈妈,我想玩IPAD。
妈妈:拿去,正好我可以清静一会儿。
孩子很高兴。玩了一上午。
C:
孩子:妈妈,我想玩IPAD。
妈妈:IPAD对眼睛不好。但你可以周末早上玩儿。正好我补会儿觉。妈妈醒了就不许玩
了。
孩子很高兴。盼望周末。
D:
孩子:妈妈,我想玩IPAD。
妈妈:IPAD对眼睛不好。你可以玩一小会儿。正好有个舞蹈很搞笑。咱俩一起看,一起
跳。
孩子很高兴。父子蹦蹦跳跳。
你是哪一种?哪一种培养孩子的engagement, empathy, curiosity, communication,
emotional range, self
awareness, internal discipline, creativity, and logical thinking.?我们家是C
和D。
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 看"我是不是对女儿太严厉"有感
A:
孩子:妈妈,我想抽大麻
妈妈:不行,咱家的规矩是不许洗大麻,大麻对身体不好。
孩子:^&%^&%
B:
孩子:妈妈,我想抽大麻。
妈妈:拿去,正好我可以清静一会儿。
孩子很高兴。抽了一上午。
C:
孩子:妈妈,我想抽大麻。
妈妈:大麻对身体不好。但你可以周末早上抽。正好我补会儿觉。妈妈醒了就不许抽了
了。
孩子很高兴。盼望周末。
D:
孩子:妈妈,我想抽大麻。
妈妈:大麻对身体不好。你可以玩一小会儿。不过现在大麻在很多州都和合法,我们可
以一起抽一会儿。然后父子俩高高兴兴抽了一会儿。
你是哪一种?哪一种培养孩子的engagement, empathy, curiosity, communication,
emotional range, self
awareness, internal discipline, creativity, and logical thinking.?我们家是C
和D。
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发在那个贴子的八楼了。其实这种书也挺多的,那一本也有他的毛病,比较重复。不过
还是推荐去图书馆借来看看。
我还大言不惭的在那个贴子的76楼推荐了本书。Price of privillege. 最近看的。
更适合大孩子多些。是讲"OverParenting"的。经常看的我倒吸凉气。
http://www.amazon.com/Great-Kids-Essential-Qualities-Lawrence/d
就是这本书。Great Kids: Helping Your Baby and Child Develop the Ten
Essential Qualities for a Healthy, Happy Life (A Merloyd Lawrence Book) [
Hardcover]
Stanley I Greenspan (Author)
包括:engagement, empathy, curiosity, communication, emotional range, self
awareness, internal discipline, creativity, and... 阅读全帖
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呵呵看贴要仔细,
"尽量避免“ ”过多接触“,
还有另外那贴里面有人提出的a,b, c 选项,
a不给,说对牙不好;
b,給随便吃,
c, 不影响吃饭的情况下给吃一个,小孩要求再一个,提个相关要求,deal。问你是哪
一种?哪一种培养孩子的engagement, empathy, curiosity, communication,
emotional range, self awareness, internal discipline, creativity, and
logical thinking.?
我的回复:
好贴, 我家两岁前是 偏重 a 但提供另外一个健康的选项,从来没有过,b以后也不会,
两岁到现在快四岁是c 的前半段,目标是,五岁以后才c后半段目标, 再以后,完全不用我
说,
他自己知道吃零食甜食节制
这是一个过程,不是一开始就一步到位的,目标是自制和基于因果关系的是非判断能力,
根据不同年龄特点要做调整,
Pad那个同理,但是操作起来难度大一些。
确实迟早会接触,就像你说的,度是问题。
就像我说的,最终能不能自己自制是问题。
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 看来hedge fund还是秒杀FLG阿 (转载)
即使上了藤校,没有诚信,就这下场。
【 以下文字转载自 JobHunting 讨论区 】
发信人: qquuaanntt (况特), 信区: JobHunting
标 题: 看来hedge fund还是秒杀FLG阿
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Feb 19 20:20:06 2014, 美东)
一个3年工作经验的小本,在Hedge fund作IT,年package 55万。。。
Total comp $547,000 as a computer system analyst with 3 year working
experience? Two sigma is so generous
http://www.forbes.com/sites/nathanvardi/2014/02/19/analyst-char
Kang Gao, a 28-year-old who until recently worked as a quantitative analyst
at Two Sigma Investments, was arrested last week and cha... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 看来hedge fund还是秒杀FLG阿 (转载)
即使上了藤校,没有诚信,就这下场。
【 以下文字转载自 JobHunting 讨论区 】
发信人: qquuaanntt (况特), 信区: JobHunting
标 题: 看来hedge fund还是秒杀FLG阿
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Feb 19 20:20:06 2014, 美东)
一个3年工作经验的小本,在Hedge fund作IT,年package 55万。。。
Total comp $547,000 as a computer system analyst with 3 year working
experience? Two sigma is so generous
http://www.forbes.com/sites/nathanvardi/2014/02/19/analyst-char
Kang Gao, a 28-year-old who until recently worked as a quantitative analyst
at Two Sigma Investments, was arrested last week and cha... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 谈谈homeschool吧
School, homeschool, unschooling,Classical Education 等等 我对任何一种方式都
无所谓. 随便哪一种只要教出来的符合我的要求. 我的要求是什么,这本书写的最清楚
.BRUNER提了一大堆问题, BRUNER也找不到办法.
The Process of Education by Jerome S. Bruner 97pages
Chap 2: The important of structure
Chap 3: The readiness of learning
Chap 4: Intuitive and analytic thinking
Chap 5: Motives for learning
Chap 6: Aids to teaching
这是我看过的我认为最好的教育理论的书 其他教育实践的书
Finnish Lessons: What Can the World Learn from Educational Change in Finland
?
Homeschooling in America: Capturing and ... 阅读全帖
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这里有多少小朋友是先会读书(英文), 再学phonics的?
我家的就是这样。他是听我读书的过程里学会读的。 那个时候也学点简单的phonics,
26个字母的发音, 和基本的rules, silent e, two vowels are walking, the
first does the talking之类, 所以用phonics 读简单的词汇大致没问题。 但是到
现在5岁了, 复杂的词汇, 他还是看形状猜, 而不是试图decode 音节来读。 比如好
些恐龙的名词, 他看到前几个字母和后几个字母, 就能准确猜出来是哪个词。 但让
他写是绝对写不出来的(我也写不出)。 还有很多的词, 是因为他以前读过/我读过
, 他看了就认识, 比如 atmosphere, curiosity, invertebrate, salutations。
但如果是个生词, 让他自己解读, 他一看这么长就不愿意试。

因为他没有用phonics 读的习惯,而且性子急, 读书连蒙带猜读得飞快,扫一眼就读
。他还没有开始学习语法, 经常漏读复数的结尾, 现在进行时, 过去时和一般现在
时的结尾都不... 阅读全帖
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语言表达是表。肚子里的东西是实。表达不出来有内秀更有人格魅力。肚子里没货还胡
说成老美了。所以你的问题应该是怎样培养emotional range. Intellectual
curiosity, etc..
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我们家还真是死规矩很少,反而养出的孩子很规矩。
规矩不等于power struggle.
而且规矩是为了啥呢?为了让孩子守规矩?我以为肓儿要培养的是孩子的empathy,
intellectual curiosity, self esteem, emotional range... “守规矩“对三岁小孩
儿陪养的是啥?
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