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发帖数: 3199 | 2 一直对拜伦同学不感冒，也没怎么读过伊的作品，但还是好奇，弄了一部全集看。而后
不出意外，未闻其诗，先见八卦，取其中两则罗列于下：
1. the manuscripts destroyed
在与妻子分居声名日蹙后，1817-1820挥别英伦，开始游居意大利，大部分时间在
Venice。其中的1819年，拜伦曾短期追随情人--20岁上的Madame Guiccioli--及其4年
前喜结连理的丈夫的脚步来到中部Ravenna。由Ravenna返回Venice后，拜伦与来访的同
侪Moore（，the poet）会面，并向后者全权送交了自己的a large manuscript volume
, entitled, "My Life and Adventures."，除了必须身后版行，如果Moore有意出版的
话。
Moore谨遵指教，起初将这份手稿以2k镑售出，意在拜伦身后行世；但很快又将这分手
稿转交给拜伦层一度共居london---在拜伦与妻子分居期间---的阿姐---Lady Byron，
啊，不，此时的Mrs. Leigh。这最终导致手稿在Mrs.Leigh和拜伦best frie... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 5818 | 3 CIA Director William Casey’s deathbed scene
Woodward claimed in his book “Veil: The Secret Wars of the CIA 1981-1987”
that Casey admitted on his deathbed that he had known about the diversion of
Iran arms sale money to the Contras.
But Casey’s daughter, Bernadette Casey Smith, claimed that Woodward “never
got the deathbed confession,” according to the Houston Chronicle. In
addition, Kevin Shipp, a member of Casey’s security detail, asserted in a
self-published memoir that none of the agents stan... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 33825 | 4 最近有一篇文章在Facebook, twitter上频频被转，Nurse reveals the top 5 regrets
people make on their deathbed，它的原文是一名叫Bronnie Ware的护士写的。Bron
nie Ware专门照顾那些临终病人，所以有机会听到很多人临终前说出他们一生里最后悔
的事。她作了一个概括，有5件事是大多数人最后悔的。
很好奇为什么这么多人转载它，也许，因为这是一种你永远无法提前经历的事吧。你不
会时常面对别人的死亡，你更不怎么时常有机会听到一个临终前的人告诉你他最后悔的
事是什么。而即便你听到，你又会觉得自己来日方长。我们似乎永远无法感同身受；也
许，只有我们自己的生命到了尽头时，我们才会意识到自己究竟错过了什么，最后悔什
么。
1. 我希望当初我有勇气过自己真正想要的生活，而不是别人希望我过的生活。
这是所有后悔的事中最常听到的。
心理学上有个理论，较之那些我们做过的事，人们后悔的往往是那些没做的事。所以当
人们在生命尽头往回看时，往往会发现有好多梦想应该实现，却没有实现。你的生活方
式、你的工作、你的感情、你的伴侣，... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 5175 | 5 Her struggles with illness and death are believed to have affected his
poetry and prose, where dying young women appear as a frequent motif, as in
"Annabel Lee", "The Raven", and "Ligeia".
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Virginia_Eliza_Clemm_Poe
Virginia Eliza Clemm Poe (née Clemm; August 15, 1822 – January 30, 1847)
was the wife of American writer Edgar Allan Poe. The couple were first
cousins and married when Virginia Clemm was 13 and Poe was 27. Some
biographers have suggested that the couple's ... 阅读全帖 |
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c**m
发帖数: 1632 | 6 For outsiders, some might say I am a good fellow, some might say I am a
nasty person. But these words don't resonate in me and I don't really care.
One's life has to be lived by himself, how he lives it depends on how he
wants it to be lived. If one wants to earn money, he should just take the
path of earning money; if one wants to work hard on science, he should work
really hard on it; if one wants to love another person, he really should try
his best to love her. Maybe he will change and what ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 42149 | 7 北京时间7月13日，在入院过半月后，罹患晚期肝癌的诺贝尔奖获得者刘晓波因器官衰竭，终于不治。伴随着以《纽约时报》为首的主流媒体第一时间发出通讯稿。这位民主运动家或异见人士的最后一天就迎来了一场轰轰烈烈的结末。
沉默的西方媒体
事实上，相对于半个月前的保外就医，西方各主流媒体面对突然去世的刘晓波并不能马上表现出更多的情感。就像刘晓波的生命一样，他所代表的意识形态的前景在中国大陆正走向低潮，以至于在中文社交网络上，用相对隐晦的方式点蜡烛为其致哀者并不多见。
斯人已逝，口号终究难成现实（图源：AFP）
必须承认，从6月26日开始，伴随着外界得知刘晓波的病情已经危笃，其症状甚至难以手术、化疗及放疗。这使得媒体人士已经提前做好了很多篇等他一过世就发布的福寿稿。在北京已经允许美、德两国医生为其诊病后，新闻界就难免嗅到一丝读秒的气息。
在这些媒体当中，英国《卫报》最先沉不住气，在刘晓波确认去世前七小时就发表了一篇题为《刘晓波步入最后时刻》（Liu Xiaobo entering final hours）的通讯稿。这篇报道提醒外界，这位生命垂危（on his deathbed）的癌症患者恐怕难以活过7... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 61690 | 8 President Barack Obama may have reiterated Martin Luther King Jr.’s praise
of India as “Gandhi’s land,” a place that provided inspiration for the
American civil rights leader, but a sapling the president planted at the
Mahatma’s memorial during a recent trip to India has reportedly withered in
only 10 days.
The baby tree, a ficus religiosa adjacent to a still-thriving tree planted
by President Bill Clinton in 2000, has lost all of its leaves and is on its
deathbed. The plant’s demise ultimately ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 3770 | 9 The myth he built — a difficult man whose genius made him so and justified
any personal failings — has finally been leveled.
“Small Fry,” the new memoir by his daughter Lisa Brennan-Jobs, depicts a
sadistic man and a horrible father: sexually inappropriate, verbally and
psychologically abusive, pitiless and cheap — with his time, money,
emotions, attention.
This was a man who liked to make little girls cry.
Brennan-Jobs, now 40, opens her book with a deathbed scene unlike any other.
There is her... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 122 | 10 谁有 Judge James Shadid 讲话的英文版全文的？
－－
http://www.takungpao.com/news/232111/2019/0720/323016.html
陪审团向你显示的怜悯是他们人性的证明，而不是因为你的原因。
被告也以自己的罪行伤害了他的家庭。尽管你在庭审中指责你的家人犯下的过错，你这
样的辩护策略将使他们永远活在罪疚的阴影中。
在整个庭审的过程中，当你的律师试图将你描绘成对自己所行感到抱歉的时候，所有人
都清楚地认识到，你完全没有悔意。
从始至终，你没有对被害者家人说过一句道歉的话，即使在今天，最后的时刻，你可以
说出任何你想说的内容，无论是长还是短。然而在今天，直到莹颖被你杀害后的第769
天后，你依然无法说出一句简单的“对不起”。
无论你有着怎样自我中心的想法，当你今天被带离这里，将在孤独、隔绝和冷酷的监狱
中度过余生，也许，只是也许，你可以拿起纸和笔，给章莹颖的父母写下：“对不起”。
"You could have said whatever you wanted to say (at this hearing)," Shadid
sai... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 456 | 11 补充一部，Handsome Harry
Handsome Harry is the story of Harry Sweeney’s journey to find forgiveness
from an old Navy friend. One day Harry (Jamey Sheridan) gets a call from an
old Navy buddy, Kelly (Steve Buscemi), who is on his deathbed. At first
Harry wants nothing to do with Kelly, but soon memories and guilt overcome
him and he goes on a journey to confront his old friends. First he goes to
meet Kelly in a Philadelphia hospital. Kelly asks Harry to seek forgiveness
from David on his behalf. Kelly... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 234 | 12 (CNN)Flat wages, shrinking bank accounts, declining living standards -- we'
ve been thinking these were mystifyingly complex problems that resisted
clear solutions. Turns out there's a simple way to make more money all along
The answer? Just work more hours. In other words: "Jebify" your life.
That's right. In an interview with the New Hampshire newspaper The Union
Leader, Bush said, "People need to work longer hours" to achieve 4% growth
in our nation's economy.
Hillary Clinton responded by poi... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 24123 | 14 NJ 法律规定必须要专业人员加油
这个法律的起源在于几十年前，有一家油站开了个便宜的自助加油把周围的油站生意都
抢走了。于是周围的油站团结起来找到议员，快速的通过法律禁止自己加油。
http://www.nj.com/opinion/index.ssf/2014/02/the_real_reason_sel
"It was Irving Reingold who created the crisis that led to the law banning
self-serve gasoline. Reingold, a workaholic who took time out only to fly
his collection of World War II fighter planes, started the crisis by doing
something gas station owners hated: He lowered prices. Fifty-one years ago,
gas was selling at 21.9 cents a gallon. The p... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1329 | 15 【 以下文字转载自 LeisureTime 讨论区 】
发信人: xinzhai (abao), 信区: LeisureTime
标 题: 一段碑文 [zz]
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Apr 4 12:40:23 2015, 美东)
在伦敦闻名世界的威斯敏斯特大教堂地下室的墓碑林中，有一块名扬世界的墓碑。与
周围的墓碑相比，它显得微不足道，它没有姓名，没有生卒年月，甚至上面连墓主的介
绍文字也没有。
就是这样一块无名氏墓碑，却成为名扬全球的著名墓碑。每一个到过威斯特敏斯特
大教堂的人，都被这块墓碑深深地震撼着。因为在这块墓碑上，刻着这样的一段话：
当我年轻的时候，我的想象力从没有受到过限制，我梦想改变这个世界。
当我成熟以后，我发现我不能改变这个世界，我将目光缩短了些，决定只改变我的
国家。
当我进入暮年后，我发现我不能改变我的国家，我的最后愿望仅仅是改变一下我的
家庭。但是，这也不可能。
当我躺在床上，行将就木时，我突然意识到：如果一开始我仅仅去改变我自己，然
后作为一个榜样，我可能改变我的家庭；在家人的帮助和鼓励下，我可能... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1250 | 16 The Gift Tax
Updated for Tax Year: 2013
If you give people a lot of money, you might have to pay a federal gift tax.
But the IRS also allows you to give up to $14,000 in 2013 to any number of
people without facing any gift taxes, and without the recipient owing any in
come tax on the gifts.Why it pays to understand the federal gift tax law
If you give people a lot of money or property, you might have to pay a feder
al gift tax. But most gifts are not subject to the gift tax. For instance, y
ou c... 阅读全帖 |
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x*****i
发帖数: 1329 | 17 【 以下文字转载自 LeisureTime 讨论区 】
发信人: xinzhai (abao), 信区: LeisureTime
标 题: 一段碑文 [zz]
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Apr 4 12:40:23 2015, 美东)
在伦敦闻名世界的威斯敏斯特大教堂地下室的墓碑林中，有一块名扬世界的墓碑。与
周围的墓碑相比，它显得微不足道，它没有姓名，没有生卒年月，甚至上面连墓主的介
绍文字也没有。
就是这样一块无名氏墓碑，却成为名扬全球的著名墓碑。每一个到过威斯特敏斯特
大教堂的人，都被这块墓碑深深地震撼着。因为在这块墓碑上，刻着这样的一段话：
当我年轻的时候，我的想象力从没有受到过限制，我梦想改变这个世界。
当我成熟以后，我发现我不能改变这个世界，我将目光缩短了些，决定只改变我的
国家。
当我进入暮年后，我发现我不能改变我的国家，我的最后愿望仅仅是改变一下我的
家庭。但是，这也不可能。
当我躺在床上，行将就木时，我突然意识到：如果一开始我仅仅去改变我自己，然
后作为一个榜样，我可能改变我的家庭；在家人的帮助和鼓励下，我可能... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 3030 | 18 Even if some kind of consensus can be reached, there is no way of enforcing
anything. What you want is some kind of honor code among fake IDs on a dying
website that appears to be on deathbed and couldn't find the right medicine
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t**n
发帖数: 4365 | 19 1603 - death of Elizabeth I, Queen of England and Ireland.
I will that a king succeed me, and who but my kinsman the king of Scots.
[Elizabeth I, on her deathbed, names James VI of Scotland as her successor:
the two crowns were duly united when he succeeded to the English throne on
24 March 1603.]
1103年，中国南宋杰出的军事将领岳飞出生 |
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w********c
发帖数: 2632 | 20 最近有一篇文章在Facebook, twitter上频频被转，Nurse reveals the top 5 regrets
people make on their deathbed，它的原文是一名叫Bronnie Ware的护士写的。
Bronnie Ware专门照顾那些临终病人，所以有机会听到很多人临终前说出他们一生里最
后悔的事。她作了一个概括，有5件事是大多数人最后悔的。
很好奇为什么这么多人转载它，也许，因为这是一种你永远无法提前经历的事吧。你不
会时常面对别人的死亡，你更不怎么时常有机会听到一个临终前的人告诉你他最后悔的
事是什么。而即便你听到，你又会觉得自己来日方长。我们似乎永远无法感同身受；也
许，只有我们自己的生命到了尽头时，我们才会意识到自己究竟错过了什么，最后悔什
么。
1. 我希望当初我有勇气过自己真正想要的生活，而不是别人希望我过的生活。
这是所有后悔的事中最常听到的。
心理学上有个理论，较之那些我们做过的事，人们后悔的往往是那些没做的事。所以当
人们在生命尽头往回看时，往往会发现有好多梦想应该实现，却没有实现。你的生活方
式、你的工作、你的感情、你的伴侣，... 阅读全帖 |
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p*********n
发帖数: 7788 | 21 • 2013圣地亚哥动漫展时间节目表 Comic-Con 2013 Schedule
Wednesday, July 17
Ballroom 20
• 6:00pm • Special Sneak Peek Pilot Screenings
=======================
Thursday, July 18 (Opening)
Ballroom 20
• 10:00am • Intelligence
• 11:00am • Star-Crossed
• 12:00pm • Beauty And The Beast
• 1:00pm • USA Network's Psych
• 2:15pm • Sherlock
• 3:30pm • TV Guide Magazine Celebrates The X-Files' 20th
Annivers... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1650 | 23 Wow.
If it ends up that only one school (say Wake Forest or BC) remains in ACC,
will that school get to keep all the exit fees? It would be huge amount of
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x*****i
发帖数: 1329 | 24 在伦敦闻名世界的威斯敏斯特大教堂地下室的墓碑林中，有一块名扬世界的墓碑。与
周围的墓碑相比，它显得微不足道，它没有姓名，没有生卒年月，甚至上面连墓主的介
绍文字也没有。
就是这样一块无名氏墓碑，却成为名扬全球的著名墓碑。每一个到过威斯特敏斯特
大教堂的人，都被这块墓碑深深地震撼着。因为在这块墓碑上，刻着这样的一段话：
当我年轻的时候，我的想象力从没有受到过限制，我梦想改变这个世界。
当我成熟以后，我发现我不能改变这个世界，我将目光缩短了些，决定只改变我的
国家。
当我进入暮年后，我发现我不能改变我的国家，我的最后愿望仅仅是改变一下我的
家庭。但是，这也不可能。
当我躺在床上，行将就木时，我突然意识到：如果一开始我仅仅去改变我自己，然
后作为一个榜样，我可能改变我的家庭；在家人的帮助和鼓励下，我可能为国家做一些
事情。然后谁知道呢？我甚至可能改变这个世界。
据说，许多世界政要和名人看到这块碑文时都感慨不已。有人说这是一篇人生的教
义，有人说这是灵魂的一种自省。
附原文：
When I was young and free and m... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 3184 | 25 The last temptation不是恶搞基督教的
automatically makes it abhorrent to Christian audiences.
就有很多
基督徒抗议。
that bores the audience into a stupor before the ending’s big twist.
seeks to comfort the elderly as compensation for her absence from her
father’s deathbed. She moves in with Violet and Ben Devereaux, looking
after him after his stroke. The Devereaux home is an hour outside New
Orleans, in the swampland, which is steeped in spooky voodoo lore.
the large house, but there is a tiny door in the attic |
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s****z
发帖数: 1665 | 26 ID:
Smoltz
歌名:
Like a Stone
翻唱说明:
作者singer-songwriter Chris Cornell对于本曲的解释，来自wiki
"It's a song about concentrating on the afterlife you would hope for, rather
than the normal monotheistic approach: You work really hard all your life to
be a good person and a moral persona and fair and generous, and then you go
to hell anyway."
唱的很吃力。献丑。。。
歌曲链接:
https://app.box.com/s/7mluibbyyndv4xcfy91n4j0duddv9nz4
曲作者:
Audioslave
词作者:
Chris Cornell
原唱:
Chris Cornell
歌词:
On a cob web afternoon,In a room full of ... 阅读全帖 |
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k***n
发帖数: 11247 | 27 he was not beside his grandmother's deathbed, and he always feels guilty for
that reason. |
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f******k
发帖数: 5329 | 28 凡是用了passed away的都不对，美国人看了会完全不知道李雷到底为啥伤心。
on one's deathbed 是对的，或者close to her time. |
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N****n
发帖数: 6571 | 29 实话说，康妈的那篇，也看得我震骇莫名。
康妈1998年丧父，当时大约是三十左右的年纪吧，这份丧失至亲之痛，应该足以让
她看到生活的真实，不可能再有继续得公主病的自由。在这个经历之上，在能预计
到自己将失去什么时，普通人会是怎样的恐惧和悲痛。 而康妈，她居然在其夫的
deathbed前，
能如此冷静地说出，这个实在出乎我的理解能力。--------当然，这
个是我现在的想法，因为我当时在阅读这个时，并不知道她曾经经历过
丧父之痛。
我当时的想法就是：一个人在痛失至亲时，居然选择向陌生无关的人倾诉。
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发帖数: 4329 | 31 大家来学习以下
真的超有内涵的
As the poet said, 'Only God can make a tree,' probably because it's so hard
to figure out how to get the bark on.
Woody Allen
Basically my wife was immature. I'd be at home in the bath and she'd come in
and sink my boats.
Woody Allen
Bisexuality immediately doubles your chances for a date on Saturday night.
Woody Allen
Comedy just pokes at problems, rarely confronts them squarely. Drama is like
a plate of meat and potatoes, comedy is rather the dessert, a bit like
meringue.
Woody... 阅读全帖 |
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b*****d
发帖数: 61690 | 32 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: brihand (brihand), 信区: Military
标 题: 巴马在印度种的树快要死了
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Feb 18 19:51:30 2015, 美东)
President Barack Obama may have reiterated Martin Luther King Jr.’s praise
of India as “Gandhi’s land,” a place that provided inspiration for the
American civil rights leader, but a sapling the president planted at the
Mahatma’s memorial during a recent trip to India has reportedly withered in
only 10 days.
The baby tree, a ficus religiosa adjacent to a still-thriving tr... 阅读全帖 |
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c**l
发帖数: 76 | 33 Do not want to discuss what is science any more? OK.
Presumably you have read the link that I posted.
你可以自由选择你的信仰，因为信仰是不需要证据的。
However, If you play in science area, follow its rule.
About Lady Hope, she cannot provide any evidence that Darwin was converted at
his deathbed. And her self-claimed statement is quite interesting. (see my
previous post, in JHQ now)
And considering Darwin was well known agnostic, that is why I call her liar.
Hope's statement as Darwin said.
"I was a young man with unf |
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s****y
发帖数: 1574 | 34 Q. Did Joseph Smith Father Any Children from His Polygamous Wives?
A: Yes. 其中有些来自摩门教自己的资料，见下。
- Stake President Angus Cannon also testified:
"I will now refer you to one case where it was said by the girl's
grandmother that your father [Joseph Smith] has a daughter born of a plural
wife. The girl's grandmother was Mother Sessions . . . She was the grand-
daughter of Mother Sessions. That girl, I believe, is living today, in
Bountiful, north of this city. I heard prest. Young, a short time before... 阅读全帖 |
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F*******y
发帖数: 885 | 35 谢八卦。那时候我挺喜欢小拜拜的。看了他的长篇就自己也开写，不知所终。 |
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c****t
发帖数: 19049 | 36 LETTERS FROM ZEDELGHEM
CHATEAU ZEDELGHEM,
NEERBEKE,
WEST VLAANDEREN
29TH-VI-1993
Sixsmith,
Dreamt I stood in a china shop so crowded from floor to far-off ceiling with
shelves of
porcelain antiquities etc. that moving a muscle would cause several to fall
and smash to bits.
Exactly what happened, but instead of a crashing noise, an august chord rang
out, half-cello,
half-celeste, D major (?), held for four beats. My wrist knocked a Ming vase
affair off its
pedestal—E-flat, whole string section, g... 阅读全帖 |
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D*****r
发帖数: 6791 | 37 Letters from the Earth
When the Creator had finished thinking, He said, "I have thought. Behold!"
He lifted His hand, and from it burst a fountain-spray of fire, a million
stupendous suns, which clove the blackness and soared, away and away and
away, diminishing in magnitude and intensity as they pierced the far
frontiers of Space, until at last they were but as diamond nailheads
sparkling under the domed vast roof of the universe.
At the end of an hour the Grand Council was dismissed.
They left... 阅读全帖 |
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h*****h
发帖数: 1392 | 38 听说月月鸟信佛了，他在佛前念经的时候，心里没有一丝愧疚吗？
看着佛菩萨慈祥的眼睛，他觉得自己配吗？
我曾对六四以后在校园就排队争取入党的同学们说，你们是狗，还没有那个坦克手有良
心！你们在deathbed上拉着我的手求我原谅你们，我也不会！（这其中还有二次叛变移
民加拿大的，丫就更是狗了；可是丫后来还回国了，还狗习惯了，呵呵。） |
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x*r
发帖数: 11073 | 39 http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=131161208
"My mother [taught] me a very fundamental lesson of humor, which is that if
you slip on a banana peel, people laugh at you, but if you tell people you
slipped on a banana peel, it's your joke," explains Ephron. "And you're the
hero of the joke because you're telling the story."
"But [my friend] Judy was dying of throat cancer, and she said, 'I can't
even have my last meal.' And that's what you have to know is, if you're
serious about... 阅读全帖 |
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g*****g
发帖数: 34805 | 40 You don't have much but UI in a mobile app. The only supported cross-
platform UI library is html/js in mobile platforms. C++ may be supported by
all platforms. But making 4 if checks for every API call is hardly a cross
platform solutions.
Plus BB is in grave, WP is in deathbed. Only 2 platforms need to be
supported. |
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F*Q
发帖数: 3259 | 41 LinkedIn上的一个文章，觉得写得不错，抄录如下：
Pretending to be something you’re not.
Maybe you’re pretending to be a sports fan to impress your boss, or you’re
keeping your mouth shut about something to keep the peace. Maybe you’re
pretending that you’re an expert in something that’s really not your cup
of tea. But continuously pretending to be something you’re not is not being
true to yourself and will keep you feeling empty.
Making decisions based only on money.
Whether we’re talking about your personal salary ... 阅读全帖 |
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A******y
发帖数: 2041 | 42 Watson got into a car accident. He is on his deathbed... |
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b*******r
发帖数: 12 | 43 最近有一篇文章在Facebook, twitter上频频被转，Nurse reveals the top 5 regrets
people make on their deathbed，它的原文是一名叫Bronnie Ware的护士写的。
Bronnie Ware专门照顾那些临终病人，所以有机会听到很多人临终前说出他们一生里最
后悔的事。她作了一个概括，有5件事是大多数人最后悔的。
很好奇为什么这么多人转载它，也许，因为这是一种你永远无法提前经历的事吧。你不
会时常面对别人的死亡，你更不怎么时常有机会听到一个临终前的人告诉你他最后悔的
事是什么。而即便你听到，你又会觉得自己来日方长。我们似乎永远无法感同身受；也
许，只有我们自己的生命到了尽头时，我们才会意识到自己究竟错过了什么，最后悔什
么。
1. 我希望当初我有勇气过自己真正想要的生活，而不是别人希望我过的生活。
这是所有后悔的事中最常听到的。
心理学上有个理论，较之那些我们做过的事，人们后悔的往往是那些没做的事。所以当
人们在生命尽头往回看时，往往会发现有好多梦想应该实现，却没有实现。你的生活方
式、你的工作、你的感情、你的伴侣，... 阅读全帖 |
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b*******r
发帖数: 12 | 44 最近有一篇文章在Facebook, twitter上频频被转，Nurse reveals the top 5 regrets
people make on their deathbed，它的原文是一名叫Bronnie Ware的护士写的。
Bronnie Ware专门照顾那些临终病人，所以有机会听到很多人临终前说出他们一生里最
后悔的事。她作了一个概括，有5件事是大多数人最后悔的。
很好奇为什么这么多人转载它，也许，因为这是一种你永远无法提前经历的事吧。你不
会时常面对别人的死亡，你更不怎么时常有机会听到一个临终前的人告诉你他最后悔的
事是什么。而即便你听到，你又会觉得自己来日方长。我们似乎永远无法感同身受；也
许，只有我们自己的生命到了尽头时，我们才会意识到自己究竟错过了什么，最后悔什
么。
1. 我希望当初我有勇气过自己真正想要的生活，而不是别人希望我过的生活。
这是所有后悔的事中最常听到的。
心理学上有个理论，较之那些我们做过的事，人们后悔的往往是那些没做的事。所以当
人们在生命尽头往回看时，往往会发现有好多梦想应该实现，却没有实现。你的生活方
式、你的工作、你的感情、你的伴侣，... 阅读全帖 |
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s********s
发帖数: 772 | 45 【 以下文字转载自 Medicalpractice 讨论区 】
发信人: biomaster (oo), 信区: Medicalpractice
标 题: [转载] 一名护士告诉你：临终病人最后悔的5件事
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jun 14 16:37:15 2011, 美东)
最近有一篇文章在Facebook, twitter上频频被转，Nurse reveals the top 5 regrets
people make on their deathbed，它的原文是一名叫Bronnie Ware的护士写的。
Bronnie Ware专门照顾那些临终病人，所以有机会听到很多人临终前说出他们一生里最
后悔的事。她作了一个概括，有5件事是大多数人最后悔的。
很好奇为什么这么多人转载它，也许，因为这是一种你永远无法提前经历的事吧。你不
会时常面对别人的死亡，你更不怎么时常有机会听到一个临终前的人告诉你他最后悔的
事是什么。而即便你听到，你又会觉得自己来日方长。我们似乎永远无法感同身受；也
许，只有我们自己的生命到了尽头时，我们才会意识到自己究竟错过了什么，最后悔什
么... 阅读全帖 |
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