d***y
发帖数: 431 | 1 Obviously she has much more to offer than you.
HK legal market is very slow right now so she must be doing extremely well
to land such a position.
Don't be jealous though coz she will be sleep-deprived, will be yelled at by
partners and will be on call 24/7. You won't be able to take it.
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g*******y
发帖数: 2783 | 2 Found it in Florida's Constitution, Article I, Section 2:
"Basic rights.—All natural persons, female and male alike, are equal before
the law and have inalienable rights, among which are the right to enjoy and
defend life and liberty, to pursue happiness, to be rewarded for industry,
and to acquire, possess and protect property;
except that the ownership, inheritance, disposition and possession of real
property by aliens ineligible for citizenship may be regulated or prohibited
by law. No person... 阅读全帖 |
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p****a
发帖数: 20 | 3 我之前住的地方是个家族租赁公司的apt，我楼上住了一对极品情侣，天天晚上1点能听
到live show。他们楼上的邻居也被吵得不行，甚至能闻到他们半夜抽大麻(marijuana
restrictly forbidden state)。这对情侣有一个3岁左右的女儿，他们当着女儿的面抽
大麻，骂脏话，放音乐。和房东complain过，房东左耳进右耳出，反正他们只要有钱收
；和警察打过几次电话，不知道为啥警察没有逮捕他们。但是这对情侣在一次警察造访
之后气急败坏，猜是谁叫的警察，结果不知道为啥觉得是我，马上冲到我家狂敲门。我
正好那晚躲朋友家了，他们扑了空，但是扬言下次看到我要beat 我 ass out。我邻居
赶紧发短信告诉我暂时不要回家，之后我找同事陪伴下分几次搬了出来去朋友家住，房
东也知道理亏没有收我lease breaking penalty，但是借口我家里卫生做不好扣了我很
多deposit。反正能逃出来就好了，钱也不计较了。
楼主有leasing office的话或许管理会好一点吧，宁可花点钱早点搬走，也不要委屈自
己deprived of sleeping，而且你邻居啥背景... 阅读全帖 |
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g*****j
发帖数: 1211 | 4 This is likely primary insomnia. However, it is still worthwhile to get a
thorough work up to rule out potential organic causes or lifestyle issues.
There are many highly effective sleeping pills from several classes that one
can choose from. In real practice, there is no consensus about the
appropriate use of these medications. Some doctors are liberal in their use
, believing that chronic sleep deprivation is worse than the adverse effects
from chronic use of these meds. Other doctors beli |
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r********n
发帖数: 48 | 6 试试behavioral therapy and sleep deprivation.
用每天起床的时间减6个小时作为你上床的时间。上床后如果20分钟不能入睡就起来做
一些容易让你产生困倦的事情。在床上除了睡觉和sex不要做任何其他事情。按时起床
，白天no nap。按这个schedule直到你可以很快入睡以后，把上床时间提前半个小时，
如果仍然可以就再提前半小时入睡，直到达到你平时需要的睡眠时间。这个方法很有效
，虽然一开始白天可能比较辛苦。
睡前用一张纸把你心中担心的事情列出来，上床以后就尽量不要想了。如果白天焦虑，
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h*****3
发帖数: 91 | 7 小外甥女聪明可爱，患有先天性白内障导致的形觉剥夺性弱势，国内top 2 眼科治疗无
用，求各位看看有无更好的办法，非常感谢！！
病情： 女孩，1岁9个月时发现患有右眼先天性白内障（congenital cataract）
1岁10个月进行手术植入人工晶体。之后，右眼患有近视性的形觉剥夺性弱势（form
deprivation amblyopia）,右眼视力4.0左右，散光度数较高。
目前国内治疗方案：1）配镜
2）遮盖疗法：每天遮盖健康的左眼8小时，一周遮盖6天。
3）精细目训练：每天遮盖健康的左眼后穿针60根。
治疗时间：12个月
治疗效果：右眼视力无明显提高。左眼视力有近视趋势。目前小孩是3周岁。
恳请大家看看，先天性白内障导致的形觉剥夺性弱势有无更先进的疗法。谢谢！ |
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l*h
发帖数: 4124 | 8 not signing documents for your family can shed your financial burden in some
instances, but will also deprive your access to any of his/her health info
except that defined by law by default if s/he becomes unable to clearly
communicate.
also be aware you are under legal obligation to provide all expense for your
family's visit to the US when you sign the paper for them to visit (it's a
contract you have with the federal government). there are many instances big
medical bills are accumulated resu... 阅读全帖 |
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p****x
发帖数: 4260 | 9 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
tryonsome (等待) 于 (Wed Nov 19 12:48:16 2008) 提到:
It has closed one of my card with unredeemed rewards dollars on it.
Some of my friends also have this issue.
If you still have rewards, use them or they will just close the account and
deprive the money from you!!!
So cheap!!
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intelbot (WORM) 于 (Wed Nov 19 12:51:32 2008) 提到:
难道不是所有的公司都这样吗？
and
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az
发帖数: 16686 | 10 http://www.whattoexpect.com/photo-gallery/car-seat-safety-tips.aspx
1. Car-Seat Safety Tips
Of course you already know you're supposed to put your baby in her car seat
no matter how short the drive. But if you're like most moms, you probably
have a million questions. How do you make sure you're installing it
correctly? (Those manuals weren't exactly written with sleep-deprived
parents in mind!) Can you let your 20-pound ten-month-old face forward? (
Short answer: no.) How can you protect your ne |
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C*******d
发帖数: 15836 | 11 In my opinion, it is a horrible mistake to try to prevent a person to see
the last eye of his/her mother. I think your mother-in-law's family were
very kind not to disturb you guys. But on the other hand, they are also very
cruel because they deprived the right of a extremely loving daughter to see
her mother away for the last time.
I had a similar problem not long ago. My parents were helping us. My family
in China luckily told me the bad news that my grandma was seriously ill as
soon as they k |
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l**********9
发帖数: 716 | 12 能睡整觉还有啥好训的呢。我觉得训练是因为娃睡不好，有sleeping deprivation才有
必要，co-sleep无所谓。 |
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m*********7
发帖数: 5207 | 13 Pat, pat, you are obviously sleep deprived.
Do you feel nervous or anxious?
Trying eating food rich in vitamin B2, such as wheat or whole grain, for
dinner.
I am taking vitamin B supplement and it helps with my sleep problems. |
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m*********7
发帖数: 5207 | 14 C-section, 8 weeks.
I thought that's more than enough for me at that time, but after working
really hard for a month, all stress and sleep deprivation started to take a
toll on me. Nowadays I still suffer from anxiety disorder and insomnia from
time to time.
My advice is to take as much time off as you can, or to ease the transition,
try to reduce your workload the first few weeks after you go back to work. |
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M********t
发帖数: 1718 | 15 二、理论学习
看书之后发现了之前的几个重要误区。
sleep training和cry it out是完全不同的两个概念。四个月正是小人开始形成规律睡
眠的时候。闺女越来越利害的哭闹其实是overtired的表现。而训练的核心应该是让小
人可以在（1）正确的时间（2）自己睡一个（3）有长度（4）有质量的整觉。总结起来
就是right timing，self soothing，sleep duration and sleep consolidation。Cry
it out是解决self soothing的有效方法。但是更重要的，也是我们一开始没做到的，
是知道小人应该睡多少，应该什么时候睡，她的drowsy signs是什么，什么时候她已经
overtired了。
overtired是个很重要的问题。一旦过度疲劳，小人就会分泌激素自我激励，看起来可
能反而更精神了，但是会有如脾气暴躁（irritable)、注意力下降、凶（aggressive）
，爱哭闹等诸般恶行。更重要的是，长此以往，fatigue可以积累，会有种种长期不良
影响。训练的第一步就是按照时间表，让小人充分休息，slee... 阅读全帖 |
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x*l
发帖数: 178 | 16 还没有生，看了一些母乳喂养的书，做了些笔记摘要，和大家分享。
Signs of a Good Latch
• Baby’s lips curled outward and firmly applied to your breast.
• If you pull slightly on your baby’s lower lip while he is
suckling, you should see that his tongue is curled up on each side and
cupped around your breast, forming a trough to the back of his mouth. A
large area of his tongue should be in direct contact with the underside of
your breast, massaging it in a wavelike motion that brings the milk into his
mouth with... 阅读全帖 |
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w****m
发帖数: 1245 | 17 V．Formula:
就是婴儿配方奶粉了. 因为一直决定母乳喂养，这个research作得最少. 只知道好几种
畅销品牌，比如similac，Enfamil，nestle，gerber，etc. 其实各种牌子，差别应该
不大，都是按指标配出来的么. 每种牌子还有不同的细类. 可能还分不同的stage，给
年龄不一的小宝吃.
奶粉先不买呢. 去它们厂家的网站注册，会收到样品. 医院应该也有样品. 够用一阵子
了. Research我以后用得着再作吧. 现在能懒一点是一点拉.
不过记得从哪儿看来过一条有用信息，说是一个宝宝本来喝similac的，后来便秘拉，
换Enfamil就好了. 所以我暂时倾向Enfamil现在.
VI．Diapers and related:
1．Diapers:
纸尿裤是也. 不同大小的宝宝用不同size的尿裤: newborn，1，1-2，3，4,…每种尿裤
都标明了适用于多重的宝宝. Newborn的是给刚出生的宝宝用的,比别的size都贵.一般
医院会送一些.然后看不同宝宝的长势需要几十到100多片不等. 尽管1号的也可以给新
生宝宝用，但据说腰比较高，容易... 阅读全帖 |
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w****m
发帖数: 1245 | 18 http://www.mitbbs.com/pc/pccon_3509_t1018_160585.html
ZT: 新生儿必备
1．Bottle: 1 pack of 3 9oz Avent bottle. (Dr. Brown).
About the baby bottle, don't buy more than one bottles of the same kind (
brand), because you don't know which one you baby will like. Also, I prefer
the disposable bottle (I use
the Avent one), there is less gas for the baby. But more important, you don'
t have to sterilize them. After each use, throw away the liner, rinse the
bottle, you are done.
2．Carseat & stroller: Graco Quo... 阅读全帖 |
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i******t
发帖数: 60 | 19 今天发现老公在去年注册了未名交友，想想当时孩子还很小，自己每天晚上照顾孩子，
很严重的sleep deprivation，而他居然有心思去交友网站，心里真是非常难受。我心
里藏不住东西，今天晚上见到他，不知道该怎么面对。请大家支招。也请指点这个注册
交友网站到底算什么？ |
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l********k
发帖数: 903 | 20 confront him
I think he might be sex deprived.
But still, he has to learn to be mature and responsible! |
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L******i
发帖数: 124 | 21 小儿弱视其实发病率挺高的，一般占人群的3-4%。 之前有个帖子提到，国内现在
的诊断标准不统一，不过在美国这边是有一套完整的诊断标准的。 这里简单普及一下。
首先要诊断弱视，必须要做排除法，也就是要排除一切器质性病变，包括一切视网
膜、视神经及视觉中枢的问题，然后才能考虑弱视。
要诊断弱视还必须要做包容法，也就是说必须要找到一个可以导致弱视的因素 （
amblyogenic factor）。 这个导致弱视的因素包括以下的一点或多点：1）斜视（
strabismus）； 2）眼睛度数过高 (high refractive error)； 3）阻碍性 （form
deprivation）。 第三种很少见，一般是由于先天性白内障、角膜大伤痕 （large
corneal scar）或先天性睑下垂（ptosis）等引起的， 就不多说了。详细说说1和2。
斜视有两个高发时段，一是6-9个月 （infantile），一是2-4岁 （childhood）。
所以建议在这两个时段带孩子做一下眼睛全面检查，这不是一般的小儿科医生做的。
不过诊断主要还是靠父母平时的仔细观察... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 158 | 22 I am not a doctor here. I learned medicine in China. I work as an assistant
in a big cancer center focusing on pt with prostate cancer for clinical
trials. I know some basic knowledge of the advancement in this area.
Basically if there is already bone metastasis, then secondary hormonal
therapy, chemotherapy. Recently abiraterone is approved for advanced
prostate cancer. There is one new chemotherapy approved last year as well.
We wrote a review recently. I can send to you.
If no bone metastasis... 阅读全帖 |
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s*****7
发帖数: 1142 | 23 And you need to tell you husband,
It's not only within 1 month that post-partum mom will have chance to be
depressed, actually your hormone will be stablized when your baby is about
10 months or so.
If he does not want to see any dramatic/drastic/ or even tragic/horrible
scenes that happened in your family, he should make sure you are treated
well and at least fairly. His mom is the last person you would like to see
at this time. Make her go away.
You don't need any further pressure/stress from ... 阅读全帖 |
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l**p
发帖数: 887 | 24 When the baby sleep, you sleep. Even the American doctors and nurses say so.
The sleep deprivation is pretty bad.
Do not read any books, go to internet and watch TV. You won't get enough
rest and it is very bad for your eyes. |
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D********r
发帖数: 522 | 25 This is not a request by a baby only. This is an issue of respect. Smokers
need to have a place to smoke freely, the preassumption is that this right
shall not deprive the right of other non-smokers, including babies. I don't
see a problem of someone smoking outsite the house. How he or she wants to
smoke by either stand straight or squade down, that is their own preference
. They can do whatever they want to make themselves pleased of what they are
doing.
As an honorable senior of the house, h... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 54 | 27 http://kidjacked.com/legal/spanking_law.asp
Alabama
[The Code of Alabama 1975]
Parent/guardian/person responsible for care and supervision of a minor/
teacher or other person responsible for care and supervision of a minor for
a special purpose may use reasonable and appropriate physical force when and
to the extent he reasonably believes it necessary and appropriate to
maintain discipline or promote welfare of the child.
§ 13A-3-24. [Criminal Code]
[See also: Endangering welfare of child. Secti... 阅读全帖 |
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q********n
发帖数: 3248 | 28 我也同意。
新爸sleep deprived很正常，不用心疼。 |
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g******t
发帖数: 230 | 29 两篇对照着看，一个让人笑，一个让人笑着叹气。
50 reasons to have a baby:
1. Eating for two.
2. Maternity jeans.
3. Baby kicks.
4. The fun of being able to say "I'm not expecting" when asked how far
along you are.
5. Justified naps.
6. Not worrying about birth control.
7. Hearing the heartbeat for the first time.
8. Parking in "Expectant Mother" parking spaces.
9. Boobs!
10. Not having to suck in your gut.
11. The fact that nobody picks a fight with the pregnant woman.
12. Having an excu... 阅读全帖 |
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t***h
发帖数: 40 | 30 IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA
SECOND APPELATE DISTRICT
DIVISION TWO
Wan (aka Winnie) Tin ) Case #: B222712
)
Plaintiff and Respondent, ) (Sup. Ct. No. CK71139)
v. )
Los Angeles County Superior Court )
)
In re Joshua Tin )
)
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APPELLANT’S... 阅读全帖 |
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w***1
发帖数: 9 | 31 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: yecao (野草), 信区: Military
标 题: 看一看美国的司法腐败， 法官是怎样把一个无故孩子从妈妈身
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Nov 23 20:28:00 2012, 美东)
这是真人真事， 请大家舆论支持。
IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA
SECOND APPELATE DISTRICT
DIVISION TWO
Wan (aka Winnie) Tin ) Case #: B222712
)
Plaintiff and Respondent, ) (Sup. Ct. No. CK71139)
v. )
Los Angeles County Superior Court )
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p*i
发帖数: 1328 | 32 从网上考贝了一些，我觉得可能有帮助。所有小孩都撒谎，家长慢慢教育就好，孩子
还小，不必太紧张。
Lies come out of children's mouths for a variety of reasons:
Fear. When kids are scared of the consequences of their actions, they
often lie to cover up. (Are the rules too strict? Are the limits too tight?
Does your child feel free to talk with you?)
To protect somebody else.
Because she is imaginative and the truth is boring.
To avoid an unpleasant task. (“Did you brush your teeth?” “Yes, Dad!
”)
By mistake. Sometimes lies see... 阅读全帖 |
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B*****I
发帖数: 1378 | 33 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
tshch (大丈夫) 于 (Mon Nov 19 03:35:51 2012, 美东) 提到:
IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA
SECOND APPELATE DISTRICT
DIVISION TWO
Wan (aka Winnie) Tin ) Case #: B222712
)
Plaintiff and Respondent, ) (Sup. Ct. No. CK71139)
v. )
Los Angeles County Superior Court )
)
In re Joshua Tin )
... 阅读全帖 |
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l*********e
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photogears (5D3) 于 (Sun Dec 2 22:27:40 2012, 美东) 提到:
今年8月小孩开始上public school,发现开始说谎话,而且很有逻辑,面不红心不跳啊,请
问如何是好
我小孩挺老实的,一直很信任他
前2天去参加学校活动,老师个我们说小孩今天犯错了,在lunch time打别人的牛奶拿了
个sad note
在带小孩的回家路上,小孩都说no problem.打开他的书包找sad note,找不到,他还坚持
说没有犯错. 最后要把老师原话说出来,他才承认. 但是对sad note一直说不知道在哪
里,最后吓他你再不说实话,就让警察问你算了,他才说把sad note特意拿出书包,没有带
回来给我们看,所以才那么坚定不移的说no problem. 教育了他很久,好像他也知道说谎
不好,以为事情就结束了.
今天突然想起来他几个星期前中文考试,也没有把试卷带回来,回来只说考的很好,只是
错一个. 碰巧老师就是邻居,见到就问一下,发现错超过一个了.回家又苦口婆心让... 阅读全帖 |
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s*******e
发帖数: 264 | 35 as an adult you let go or are deprived of so many opportunities for self-
improvement. yet you do not care even still experience fulfillment and
happiness which however are purely gained from the process of reproduction.
this is nothing but animal psychology shaped by natural selection. (actually
imho it is one of the reasons why the future of human race is so gloomy at
this stage of history.) |
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l*********e
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alvdena (晕乎乎) 于 (Mon Jan 28 14:43:21 2013, 美东) 提到:
20岁的时候，我老妈说有孩子生活才有意思，没孩子生活没奔头，我就觉得我老妈太缺
乏生活动力，太没奔劲儿了。
现在有两个娃的我，居然跟我老妈有了一样一样的想法，如果现在把我两个娃拿走，我
真会觉得生活一片空虚，毫无意义了。很多时候，孩子们给我很大的生活和工作的动力
。没有娃们，我估摸只能浑浑噩噩的活着了，多没意思。
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crysknife (Alia) 于 (Mon Jan 28 14:44:59 2013, 美东) 提到:
生物本能太强大了。正是这种本能让我们人类独霸了地球
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newage123 (newage123) 于 (Mon Jan 28 14:55:42 2013, 美东) 提到:
好妈妈才会说这种话。赞一个。
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f********e
发帖数: 1984 | 37 先培养生物钟，otherwise, she will be crying too much in order to get tired
and fall asleep.
This might take weeks or even months. The more regular her sleep schedule is
, the easier she will be trained and less cry will be involved. If she
sleeps at 2am, that means her naps are not regularized, you need to work on
the naps as well.
Crying will be involved in any circumstances if you want to change. But try
to limit it by doing it step by step if you are not a working mom and if you
are not too sleep-de... 阅读全帖 |
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M*****y
发帖数: 2223 | 38 先说我是怎么走上cosleep的不归路吧。我娃3周的时候开始睡觉不安稳，哼哼唧唧，相
信很多新妈也有这个问题。当时我妈就让我跟我娃一起睡，娃睡觉安稳了很多。我担心
cosleep不好，以后戒不掉了，我妈振振有词，国内孩子都是跟大人一起睡得。再加上
我发现cosleep让我晚上胸喂起来很方便，娃一哼几就抓过来躺下喂，喂完大人小孩一
起睡得昏天黑地的。
结果后来发展成为白天nap也要co，不co自己就不睡的习惯。3个月的时候试图train他
一个人睡觉，结果哭得吐奶了。于是放弃。
那段时间我的作息就是，晚上6点到家，吃晚饭，给娃洗澡，7点半上床陪睡！！而且不
能走开，真的躺在那里陪睡！！那段时间里我天天睡眠10个小时，白天神采奕奕的，别
人都说，人家新妈都sleep deprived，为什么你这么精神呢...我就狂汗。
眼看肚腩越来越大了（每天吃了晚饭就睡觉），我决心开始train他一个人睡。
第一天晚上，洗完澡，喂奶，然后放到crib里面，打开小海马。他开始烦躁，大声抗议
，不是哭，就是发出“哎，哎”的声音。我关灯走人。他从“哎，哎”的抗议到带哭腔
的大叫，我都没理他。后来我担心他吐奶被... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 5385 | 39 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
familytree (汉堡妈妈) 于 (Thu Mar 21 21:27:21 2013, 美东) 提到:
LZ的话：LZ开帖的原因是由于看到很多童鞋们对睡眠训练存在误解，我相信你们在认真
看完这个帖子以后，会对睡眠训练有所改观。同时，我也希望大家能够认真审视/了解
一下自己的宝宝是否有不好的睡眠习惯，加以引导改变，从而让宝宝更加快乐。让宝宝
在成长过程中更加健康。帖子里面大部分是我翻译摘抄一本叫做Healthy sleep habits
，happy child （亚马逊1590个review，四颗星）的书。书里解释了为什么睡眠质量不
好的孩子会性格脾气特别急躁，同时也解释了慢性睡眠不足是如何影响孩子们在学校的
学习和生活。这本书一共500页，其中有34页是参考文献。比较科学。而很多其他关于
讲睡眠的书，包括著名的CLB，no cry sleep solution都是作者的经验总结，相对来说
不是特别科学。
这本书的作者是Dr. Marc Weissbluth, 他曾研究过上千个分别具有健康和... 阅读全帖 |
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Q**Q
发帖数: 624 | 40 来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 新妈求教 1.baby acne很正常，好多baby都会长，
不要overtreat了，过几个星期就会消掉的
实在看着闹心的话，可以用软布沾温水擦擦
蓝后擦点保湿的lotion
另外不要让baby热到了
貌似越热越明显
2.swaddle可以改善扭曲的现象
这摸小小的baby还是多抱抱吧
现阶段抱得久还称不上是毛病
3.feed on demand
做好伤得起的准备
如果在养孩子之余不需要从事众脑力劳动
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C*****a
发帖数: 1025 | 41 I lost ~24 lb. during the first 3 months since I came home from hospital, I
am also breastfeeding and eat a lot. I think sleep deprivation is the main
reason for me.
Don't eat too much junk food, my ob said that whatever you eat, your baby
gets a bite of it......
在 coconutmilkc (小汤团) 的大作中提到: 】 |
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m******t
发帖数: 184 | 42 孩子的的大夫是Tribeca， 他们有一本书叫The Bew Basics
刚看到一个部分是关于训练孩子睡眠的。
简单说
一般是从四个月开始，但他们发现其实从两个月开始更加有效。这时间训练孩子独立睡
眠只需要三天。
晚上喂饱孩子时候把孩子扔床上，然后离开不要再打搅孩子，第二天早上再来看孩子。
孩子大概第一天和第二天会哭的比较厉害，第三天第四天就没事了。
具体文章参见下面。因为我对这便不熟悉，觉得有点夸张。他们说的是否真的这么简单
有效。当然，我逻辑上同意他们的说法，越早训练，孩子依赖性越容易摆脱，有可能事
半功倍。但不知道大家看法如何？
The First Couple of Months
This period is your best opportunity to make your baby a night sleeper. Here
’s how.
After a couple of weeks, anna is sleeping more at night than during the day.
Each waking period ends with a feeding,... 阅读全帖 |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 43 LZ raised a good question: How to maintain a productive, intimate, and
loving relationship with your spouse after a child birth?
Previously you and your partner are enjoying your world of two. Now it
becomes Three, hence, the new problems. New baby demands constant attention
and care, which deprives you of the time for sleep, work, your hubby, and even
yourself. After a long and stressful day, even talking with your loved one
seems to be a torture! A baby is cute, but sometimes the baby could |
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w******e
发帖数: 357 | 44 the best is to change to another blunt end pen....
but now i just ignore that, if the pen is not so sharp and my baby is not
running. She began to "draw" on paper from 10 months old so I could not
deprive her pleasure... |
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r******l
发帖数: 240 | 45 You are right that I am not 100% sure that the mother will be deprived of
custodian rights as well. But before you can make sure that the mother has
the ability to support the child (according to the standard of middle-class
Americans, both objective and subjective standard) and have legitimate
status in U.S., it is irresponsible to report to the authority. It is just
highly possible that both parents will lose custodian rights.
As to evaluate the mother's ability, it has many subjective evalu |
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c****r
发帖数: 815 | 46 虽然都是老生常谈了。。。
TOPIC:: Help! My Child Doesn't Listen. Positive Discipline Ideas.
How can we help our children behave? Each child needs to experiment and test
his own behavior within clearly defined limits. In other words, our
children are supposed to act out, talk back, and not listen – at least once
and most likely many times. That’s how they learn. Think about learning to
skate or ride a bike – you fall. Even after you’ve mastered skating and
biking, if you’re tired, you’re more likely to fall... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 5309 | 47 My wife was brought up by her illiterate granny before went to school.
Because there was no one to talk to her, she learnt to speak rather late (at
the age between 3 and 4). But she was able to figure out things by herself
at a rather young age. She surprised everyone at the age of 5 by being able
to read words in news papers without anyone teaching her. She is also
excellent at math and abstract things. Probably she had developed these
abilities by observing things and think about them when oth... 阅读全帖 |
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s******r
发帖数: 5309 | 48 My wife was brought up by her illiterate granny before went to school.
Because there was no one to talk to her, she learnt to speak rather late (at
the age between 3 and 4). But she was able to figure out things by herself
at a rather young age. She surprised everyone at the age of 5 by being able
to read words in news papers without anyone teaching her. She is also
excellent at math and abstract things. Probably she had developed these
abilities by observing things and think about them when oth... 阅读全帖 |
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s*******a
发帖数: 348 | 49 California may not have transitional kindergarten if Governor Brown kills
this funding
http://www.sacbee.com/2012/01/07/4169051/jerry-browns-budget-pr
Jerry Brown's budget proposes killing transitional kindergarten funds
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By Kevin Yamamura
k*******[email protected]
Published: Saturday, Jan. 7, 2012 - 12:00 am | Page 4A
As California moves toward an earlier cutoff age for kindergarten, Gov.
Jerry Brown has proposed axing funds for a transitional program aimed at
children newly shut out of tho... 阅读全帖 |
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f*****e
发帖数: 1889 | 50 宝宝才2岁半, 晚上平均睡8小时左右 (10:30 - 6:30). 在DAYCARE 12:00 - 2:00睡觉,
睡了多少不清楚.
不知道是孩子本身和别的孩子不一样, 磕睡少, 还是Sleep Deprived的之后变的Hyper
了. 反正看起来尽力充沛, 没有精神不好的样子. 不知道怎么回事, 当妈的都快急死了
. 早上如果她没主动醒来, 我都尽量让她多睡, 结果我经常上班迟到.
我认为问题的根源在CO-SLEEP.
我不睡的话, 她也不睡. 我每天甚至比她先睡着. 有时候很早给她洗澡, 让她先睡, 她
可以一直睁着眼睛等妈妈, 直到我上床和她一起睡. 或者干脆她自己跑下床玩.我个成
年人不可能每天陪她9:00就睡觉. 让她睡自己的房间, 她说怕大灰狼.
求指点. 求推荐PARENTING的书. |
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