p********i
发帖数: 12365 | 1 师兄早起啊
这年头不占别人空间只能算是个etiquette，连规定都算不上别说法律的高度了。事实
是如果你上飞机的时候发现四周都被别人登机箱占了的话，那就只能自认倒霉。机组人
员是不会帮你的，因为没有法规说别人不能放你上头也没有优先权一说，所以放了你也
没辙，顶多别人有小包衣服可能还能替你协商下。 |
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w***s
发帖数: 7132 | 2 【 以下文字转载自 Business 讨论区 】
发信人: walks (踏实做事，诚恳做人), 信区: Business
标 题: 转载------------三十多个国家和地区的Business Culture
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri May 20 21:02:55 2011, 美东)
三十多个国家和地区的Business Culture
2011-04-08 11:26:57 来自: Seraph(中庸之道)
在Leadershp In Organiztion这门课里面，有一章是探讨cuture，每个人都需要写三条
给外国人在自己国家做生意的建议，老师最后搜集整理了发给了大家。因为是写给同学
的，所以大多数都相当真实。非常有意思，也很revealing! 多读几个国家，you'll be
amazed by the the similarity and difference among different cultures!
Tips for Doing Business in my Country
London Business School
Class of... 阅读全帖 |
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H******e
发帖数: 4682 | 3 I do not think 我对中国人和对外国人区别对待.
If the Chinese male and female are in USA, go to blind dating, this
circumstance fits into the western AA norm, totally fine for them to go to
AA, better for the female to suggest AA and the male accept it.
If the Chinese male and female are going blind dating in China, they are not
visiting China from some western Country, this circumstance fits in the
Chinese norm. If the male does not align with the local Chinese culture, do
not pay bill for both, worst, even le... 阅读全帖 |
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H******e
发帖数: 4682 | 4 Yeah, 更多是Etiquette manner, can be learned from family, or school, or
society, etc. |
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H******e
发帖数: 4682 | 5 Appreciate all the etiquette/consideration, wonderful.
Were I you, for those formal party, will just invite to restaurant. Only
those very very important people can "bother" me like that. :)
掉。 |
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H******e
发帖数: 4682 | 6 No matter young woman or old woman, always to be called as young lady, it is
the same etiquette. :) |
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H******e
发帖数: 4682 | 7 Thanks.
不仅是敏感。成长时痴迷于诗歌, 缺乏常识, 缺乏etiquette, 别人对自己的伤害, 自
己对别人的伤害, 都重。现在我有重的强迫症(for example, go back to check oven
multiple times before leaving home, frequently do web surfing at working
hours), 是不是和成长时受的伤害重有关? |
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H******e
发帖数: 4682 | 8 谢谢各位回馈, 很热心。
木有敏感, 木有看书难以自拔。 成长时痴迷于诗歌, 缺乏常识, 缺乏etiquette, 性格
又叛逆激烈, 别人对自己的伤害, 自己对别人的伤害, 都是一个普通青少年无法承受的
重。 |
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r**m
发帖数: 1825 | 10 http://www.yinwang.org/blog-cn/2015/03/03/how-to-respect-a-prog
怎样尊重一个程序员
得知一位久违的同学来到了旧金山湾区，然而我见到他时，这人正处于一生中最痛苦的
时期。他告诉我，自己任职的公司在他加入之前和之后，判若两人。录取的时候公司对
他说，我们对你在实习期间的表现和学术背景非常满意，你不用面试，甚至不用毕业拿
学位，直接就可以加入我们公司成为正式员工。然而短短一年后的今天，这位同学已经
完全感觉不到公司对自己技能的尊重。Manager让他做一些乱七八糟没技术含量的事情
，还抱怨说他做事太慢，并且在他的evaluation上很是写了一笔。在人格尊严和工作安
全感的双重打击之下，这位同学压力非常大，周末经常偷偷地加班，仍然无法让
manager满意。
我很了解这位同学的能力，在任何一流公司任职，肯定是绰绰有余了。他的名字我当然
保密，然而他所任职的公司因为太过嚣张，我不得不直接指出来——这就是被很多人向
往得像天堂一样的地方，Google。这位同学所描述的遭遇，跟我几年前在Google的实习
经历如出一辙。我仍然记得，G... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 509 | 11 我们学校的career center那会儿组织过一次活动，专门讲business etiquette, 请了
专人讲解怎么穿衣服和餐桌礼仪，还是挺有用处的。还每人都上了一盘cream base的
spaghetti，然后示范我们怎么吃比较得体又不会弄得到处都是。还别说，挺麻烦的，
用叉子卷一小团面同时用勺子兜着，塞嘴里一定要小口，否则把cream蹭嘴边儿用cloth
napkin擦其实是不对的。那napkin就不是给你擦嘴用的。喝汤用勺子舀的时候要从里
往外，左手叉右手刀切肉切完吃的时候不该把刀放下把叉换到右手叉着吃，等等。其实
现实中没那么教条，不过吃面条是比较麻烦，所以很多时候即使点pasta我也是要penne
的，还不能要tomato base的，否则一不小心溅一点儿到上衣上下午继续面试的时候不
太好看。 |
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t**********e
发帖数: 55 | 12 背景：文理学院大四，金融会计双学位，外加两个minor.
申了四大中的一家，本周三面试，周四早上收到offer.
在本版潜水1年多，受益匪浅，niggy前辈的帖子读了很多遍。希望大家找到心仪的工作。
顺便请教各位前辈：听说本科毕业申请H1B要抽签，抽中概率50%-60%。如果抽不中怎么
办？本来想直接F1转H1B，保险起见，先申请OPT是不是好一点？
谢谢。 ：）
PS: sharing some of my interview experience with xdjms who are going through
the recruiting process.
For the auditing practice, they focus A LOT on testing your abilities to
work on teams. So make sure you prepare several examples of being a team
player or leader.
For the self-introduction part, demonstrate your co... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 5516 | 13 http://sciencecareers.sciencemag.org/career_magazine/previous_i
Taken for Granted
The not-quite-stated, awful truth
By
Beryl Lieff Benderly
January 08, 2015
For all but a small percentage of aspiring researchers, doing a postdoc at a
university is a lousy idea because it will neither result in an academic
job nor otherwise advance one’s career.
My dictionary defines “gaffe” as an embarrassing social blunder. In
Washington, D.C., gaffe means something a little different: It’s when a
political fig... 阅读全帖 |
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w***s
发帖数: 7132 | 14 三十多个国家和地区的Business Culture
2011-04-08 11:26:57 来自: Seraph(中庸之道)
在Leadershp In Organiztion这门课里面，有一章是探讨cuture，每个人都需要写三条
给外国人在自己国家做生意的建议，老师最后搜集整理了发给了大家。因为是写给同学
的，所以大多数都相当真实。非常有意思，也很revealing! 多读几个国家，you'll be
amazed by the the similarity and difference among different cultures!
Tips for Doing Business in my Country
London Business School
Class of Master in Management 2011 students
Austria
Punctuality is important
It is very important to address Austrian business people with their title e.
g. Dr. an... 阅读全帖 |
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q****e
发帖数: 3660 | 15 Don't Take the Last Donut: New Rules of Business Etiquette
Judith Bowman (Author)
Thanks! |
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m***n
发帖数: 17 | 16 A Chinese faculty was on the admission committee this year
and was shocked by the conducts of some Chinese applicants. The professor
eventually wrote up a guideline for basic etiquette in application process. I
think this should be useful -- |
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c**b
发帖数: 474 | 17 一篇文章能不能发表运气的成分不少。碰上的editor和referee是不是喜欢你的idea，
为人是不是nice就是你的运气了。Akerlof的lemon model paper也是第四投才中的。在
我们刚刚开始职业生涯，没有强力扶持自己的大牛的情况下，一定要习惯拒绝。像你提
到的情况，我觉得最佳办法就是换家journal再投。
关于怎么投稿怎么处理据信我觉得以下两篇文章很有教育意义。
Choi，2002. http://www.econ.ucla.edu/doepke/teaching/how_to_choi.pdf
Hamermesh，1992. The Young Economist's Guide to Professional Etiquette。The
Journal of Economic Perspectives, Vol. 6, No. 1, (Winter, 1992), pp. 169-179
祝我们大家下一篇文章都有好运气。 |
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f*******2
发帖数: 656 | 18 Thanks for sharing, such a great post.
I am quite interested in your experience with Mary Mitchell and the
discussion on Etiquette. would you like to say more about it?
do |
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u*****0
发帖数: 156 | 19 People should watch for social etiquette. No questions about it and no
excuses about it. I am just saying whining wont do any good. Use your
brains to smooth out the kinks. There might be better ways. Like automatic
reconfirmation 48hrs prior to the meeting date, etc. And committee完全是义
务付出. So beat it.
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k**e
发帖数: 2728 | 20 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
zbbh (麦地哲别) 于 (Tue Jan 4 22:49:09 2011, 美东) 提到:
有赖众多兄弟姐妹的支持，ACAP SRF自成立以来已经组织了不少次的活动，尽管疏漏不
少，但是还是受到了兄弟姐妹以及ACAP board members的肯定。但是由于我们这个群体
的特殊性（一句话概括是咱们贡献不多，要求不少，详见后续ACAP SRF小史），还是有
必要对咱们活动中暴露出的问题给大家提个醒。
在12月18号刚刚结束的ACAP年终晚会后，有不少Board members对CMG流露出失望和抱怨
的情绪，觉得我们对他们的付出不够尊重。主要原因是有好几个兄弟姐妹报了名但是没
来，也没有通知ACAP，有一个是报了一家4口，结果都没来。另外有几个人没有报名就
去参加，让ACAP Administrator Alex很被动。今年是ACAP和另一个华人医生组织CAMS
合办的晚会，有近一千人参加，组织工作量很大，花得力气、金钱都不少。ACAP也一直
希望节省开支，但是只要你报了名没cancel，座... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 12932 | 21 etiquette is important, but i doubt this is the reason he failed. |
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h***y
发帖数: 834 | 22 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
CrazMo (sunset hudson) 于 (Mon Mar 21 21:33:06 2011, 美东) 提到:
我的一个好友今年match没有成功，尽管package非常的好，triple 99。如果推荐信没
有大问题的话，以我对他的了解本次失利很可能和面试中的交流有关。我们在语言和交
流技巧上的劣势难以避免。老祖宗给的语言基因里就没有英格丽是的extron。幸运的是
我们可以从点滴做起，头戴假发、身披洋装也能扮作洋鬼子糊弄人。这里我和大家分享
一片老文章 《中国人说英语为什么听起来没有礼貌？》，希望能有点用。
中国人的英语(论坛)以Chinglish或Chenglish闻名于世；中国人最大的英语发音问题就
是没有连读，但这都不是最主要的语言问题。老外们时常议论，很多中国人在说英语时
，听起来没有礼貌；并不是这些中国人本身没礼貌，而是他们还没有习惯英语的礼貌表
达方式。
比如，中国人在餐厅或咖啡厅，会说：“我想要一个汉堡包”或者“我想要一杯咖啡”
。但是，如果直接把这些话翻译成英语“I w... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 3319 | 24 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
pathodream (天涯饱看山) 于 (Wed Nov 23 01:00:59 2011, 美东) 提到:
『前言』
与澜静初识于5/22/2011 纽约 ACAP 会议。
当时的自己还没有从Match失败的打击中回过神来。 前路渺茫，无所适从，几近放弃。
第一次参加CME的活动，老刀的“you are not old; you are experienced" 给了我观
念上的改变，Dr.Eng 的面试讲解让我茅塞顿开。会后的闲聊中站在身边的澜静得知我
也申请病理，主动提出“let me have a mock interview with you" . 15分钟里，他
就我的“tell me about myself" 回答提出的批评和建议，对我犹如当头棒喝， 让我
第一次认识到我精心准备的面试答案是多么的不成熟， 第一次意识到我失败的根源，
也第一次发现了战胜自己“learned helplessness" 的武器。
会后给澜静写了感谢邮件， 澜静很是鼓励我， 也一再表示如我有需要，他... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 625 | 25 wow, I was just about to post my version. Yours covered more than I have.
大家的都贴全了，不嫌弃我的蹩脚英语，就随便看看，我记英文好像比中文快：
Aquifina:
Background: 08 start to prepare, step1, step2 cs(KAPLAN), CK.
2010: 1st attempt, no connection, commercial externship. LOR 2 from china. IV # not bad but interview skill not good. YOG<5yrs. Social skill not good, so she didn’t get matched for the first attempt. Lesson: English and interview skill.
2011: try to apply multiple specialties. No preference in localization. Try to d... 阅读全帖 |
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a**e
发帖数: 5094 | 26 我觉得每个人都有自己的学习计划，习惯和安排。另外一半不应该做过多干涉，毕竟
match的是她不是你。我还真没见过有谁能够坚持每天学习16个小时不间断的。其间的
时候干什么？看英文电影算休息还是算学习？去church social算放松还是学习social
skill？去西餐厅吃饭算败家还是算学习etiquette?
这些也算whole package里面的一部分啊。football, basketball, baseball没看过，
不知道大小八卦，你拿什么和别人聊天呢？FMG最怕面试坐哪里一声不吭,每次看到这样
的我都发愁。
Externship |
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M****a
发帖数: 577 | 27 你不是在搞笑吧？
作为最基本的office etiquette, 全大写=贴着别人的脸大嗓门。Note是给别的医务人
员看的，全大写一般只有真正紧急的情况才用 （暴力事件，trauma等等）。
评试卷的要是nice，或许网开一面；要是不nice，看到全大写的note，直接fail，一点
辙都没有。
全小写都比全大写强。 |
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发帖数: 12276 | 29 My name is Shubham and I'm an IT recruiter at Pyramid Consulting, Inc. Our
records show that you are an experienced IT professional with experience
relevant to one of my current contract openings.
The job is located in Pleasanton, San Ramon, Bishop Branch, CA with one of
our Fortune 500 direct client. They are looking for a Full-time permanent or
contractor opportunities for Senior Biostatistician @ Pleasanton, San Ramon
, and the following is a more detailed description of the job.
RoleSenior B... 阅读全帖 |
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d**l
发帖数: 73 | 30 Good idea.
We do need to a detailed code of conduct to avoid the similiar result of
current military board.
Here is a incomplete list of issues that need to be taken care of:
1. Net etiquette and posting ethic
2. Range of topics
3. Piracy and fair use
4. Privacy |
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D*******i
发帖数: 55 | 31 Cardiff Road trip also, Tianxiaweigong; pull wood Colonial, but
Shangxian can. Core this small holy water tankers
Since the days of the British Huadu Xiu. Criminal law and etiquette
with the operation, all martial arts were much Wende. Love all of its
As yourself, Ren Zhao Shu worried. De Xuan only, work all
creation. Community were the only cross-flow, anti-
Shengmin of being trampled. Fu left leaning institutions under the
Sichuan death into life-saving. Nine Renewal Ji, even four-dimensional
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l**********t
发帖数: 5754 | 32
Good or bad really depends on the perspective. If "trustinjesus" is intended
to be a platform for Christians & faith-seekers, spending lot of time
bashing Christians are bad.
On the other hand, I'll fully support Dramaer to run the "Belief" board. He
is way better (in terms of knowledge & etiquette ) than any of these incumbents who do nothing but spamming the "
TrustInJesus" board. |
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l****e
发帖数: 476 | 33 【 以下文字转载自 BM_Union 讨论区 】
【 原文由 loggie 所发表 】
记得以前看网络新闻，有所学校，在教新生网络技术课的头一节课中，除了必要的
技术讲授，还有一个Internet Etiquette 的session，教人如何在网络交往中尊重
他人的价值取向，如何在这个匿名的环境中保持礼貌和自重。
偶建议，某些在买卖提颇为活跃的小将老虫，是否也应该去上上这节课，“已所不
欲，勿施于人”，老祖宗的教诲，做个中国人，做个在中国受过教育的人，是不是
也应该想一想，这种口无遮拦，为所欲为的匿名压抑快感，是不是真的是一种很痛
快的事情？
在这个所谓版主工会的地方，扩言之，是不是应该提一提职业道德？“初级网虫是
匿名的乐趣，中级网虫是参与的乐趣，高级网虫是反馈的乐趣”，如果触网已久，
以至到了以版主的职责为乐的地步，是不是还应该象从前一样？偶坚信，做网虫到
了这个地步，网上的言行，实际上和现实生活中的言行不会相差太远，固然可以暂
别bbs 回到现实中忘掉这一切，但是泥在网上的所作所为，却会让人了解到泥的为
人处事之原则，在现实生活中是如何对待朋友，社会和与自己意见不合的人。更能 |
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m****i
发帖数: 302 | 34 给家版版主上上课，凡是用"外F"一词来表示轻蔑的，都是人身（群体）攻击
见
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fuck
“The highly profane term remains a taboo word to many people in English-
speaking countries, while others feel the word remains inappropriate in
social etiquette when used by a male in the presence of women. ” |
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f*******y
发帖数: 8358 | 35 我觉得nc也是pa。
给家版版主上上课，凡是用"外F"一词来表示轻蔑的，都是人身（群体）攻击
见
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fuck
“The highly profane term remains a taboo word to many people in English-
speaking countries, while others feel the word remains inappropriate in
social etiquette when used by a male in the presence of women. ” |
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D****r
发帖数: 162 | 36 watch BBS etiquette. BZ said stop it.
Humor me again with ur 真想拍死你。 I am thinking of returning ur humor. |
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d*****o
发帖数: 2868 | 37 10. OCEF出版物 pg45
OCEF Publication Rural Children
Most of the students that assisted by the OCEF are from the remote and
impoverished western countryside of China, family income is way below the
local average, cannot afford to buy outside reading material. Not only the
local school is lack of outside reading material, moreover, books that can
show the mountain landscape, pass the pulse of times and connect with the
students are even more difficult to find. The purpose of the Rural Children
is t... 阅读全帖 |
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w*******y
发帖数: 60932 | 39 I've expanded upon this deal here: http://slickdeals.net/forums/show...=313 4550
I decided to repost instead of update that thread in order to set off people
's deal alerts. This is my first post, please let me know if this was poor
etiquette, just trying to save people some money.
Here's how to do it.
1. Get Store Manager or Supervisor to price match with Walmat at $89.99
2. Apply 20% in store coupon to bring it to $72
3. Apple 25% back in staples reward to save another $18
4. Total should be ... 阅读全帖 |
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w*******y
发帖数: 60932 | 41 I don't know the etiquette on this - whether to start a new thread or just
reply to the original deal - but I'm so excited I decided to create a new
thread... so much to the original OP and I've been stalking target.com each
day for these to come back in stock...
Link:
http://www.target.com/s?searchTerm=Lalaloopsy&category=0|All|ma categories
Tippy Thumbellina and Crumbs Sugar are back in stock!
Original price $25 on sale $18
Apply code TGTXT5XQ for $5 off
Total $12.99 Free Shipping
Yay!
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I**A
发帖数: 2345 | 43 谁能看下去我对谁膜拜～～～～先开个头探探水
The Mountain in the Mist
Prologue
Far, far away sat a mountain that was entirely shrouded in mist. No one knew
that what may lay far back in the mountain. Legends told the tale of
fairies that live there. The answer was not far off. A fairy queen sat
watching her subjects making the castle polished and clean, for she knew her
time was almost up. The new fairy queen was yet to be found, in the human
world. Out of three girls only one may be the queen. And that one could
choo... 阅读全帖 |
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s*******0
发帖数: 506 | 44 找人参加Golf group lesson, 一共6-7个人。已经有4个人参加了，还有两个名额。 如
果有兴趣。尽快PM我
地点：Oak Marr Golf Complex @ Fairfax, VA.
This class covers all of the basic skills one needs to play golf. Grip,
stance, full swing, putting, chipping, and pitching are covered, as well as
etiquette and rules. Lesson package consists of six 55 minute sessions on
six consecutive weeks. Fee: $125, plus range balls; includes text and free
loaner clubs. |
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