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发帖数: 4174 | 1 Posted on Advocate.com September 30, 2011 05:50:27 PM ET
Fatherhood for Congressman Jared Polis
By Andrew Harmon
JARED POLIS WASHINGTON DC X390 (GETTY) | ADVOCATE.COM
Rep. Jared Polis (D-Colo.)
Congress has its first openly gay dad.
On Friday, Colorado Democrat Rep. Jared Polis and his partner, Marlon Reis,
welcomed into the world their newborn son, Caspian Julius, weighing 8 lbs,
12 oz.
"Baby and parents are doing well, baby has learned to cry already! No gifts
please, just nice thoughts for Ca... 阅读全帖 |
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y***o
发帖数: 145 | 2 Doncorleone,
你不认为这个法官应该组做这个孩子的父亲， 你忍为这个法官不应该养育这个孩子，
请问在你的见解， 出拉妈妈之外， 还有谁应该样育这个孩子呢？？？ HERE I AM
COPY SOME LEGAL CASE FOR YOU TO UNDERSTAND ABOUT AMERICAN LAW:
The California Supreme Court's Recent Holding:
A "Presumed" Father Has Greater Rights Than a Biological One
By JOANNA GROSSMAN
l****[email protected]
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Tuesday, Mar. 09, 2004
On March 1, in its fractured 4-3 decision in the case of In re Jesusa V.,
the California Supreme Court awarded greater rights to a child's "presumed"
father than t... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 3 Fathers disappear from households across America
Big increase in single mothers
By Luke Rosiak
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The Washington Times
Tuesday, December 25, 2012
Nicole Hawkins' three daughters have matching glittery boots, but none has
the same father. Each has uniquely colored ties in her hair, but none has a
dad present in her life.
As another single mother on Sumner Road decked her row-house stoop with
Christmas lights and a plastic Santa, Ms. Hawkins recalled that her middle
child's father has never spent a... 阅读全帖 |
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D*X
发帖数: 364 | 4 IF we take age as Y-axis and mutation ratio as X-axis, it is a curve never
go flat or down. So is that to say, the younger the better to be father?
http://www.nature.com/nature/journal/v488/n7412/full/nature1139
The article samples the Icelandic people, which has generally much less
sunlight in year. We know natural sunlight has a big influence to the mood
of human, further as a consequence of mental problem such as schizophrenia,
autism, etc. So I think the geographic location may have weighted... 阅读全帖 |
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b****l
发帖数: 23606 | 5 贵版都是这种素质的人群么？
2009 back to school 才是教育问题好不好？
2008 fatherhood是讲父亲责任的。
你拿篇批评fatherhood的来否定我说的保守派对奥巴马的教育方面的攻击，
你这样有劲吗？还满嘴脏话。你家庭成员知道你在网上是这个形象吗？ |
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t*******r
发帖数: 22634 | 6 照看小小孩的 Fatherhood 是要 training 的，你也别太不放心。当然，安全
总是要首要的。
可以看一点社会学有关 Gender Role 方面的研究。
其实 training 照看小小孩的 Fatherhood，比 training 照看大小孩的
Motherhood，还是要容易不少的。前者只是对应一个家庭，后者是对应一个
社会。而统计上， male 的思考行为方式总体上更适应社会。隔壁版看过来，
做推妈貌似要比做 role model leading 的拉爸要困难些。 |
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R*o
发帖数: 3781 | 7 4:15 In 4:15 Paul gives another reason why Abraham and his descendents will
not become heirs by obedience to the law. It is because the law brings wrath
(oJ gaVr novmo" ojrghVn katergavzetai, ho gar nomos orgen katergazetai). Th
e only thing the law can do is to reveal sin. It cannot help a person overco
me sin and thus avoid the wrath of God.
Paul makes it clear that the law of God incites the wrath of God. But he con
tinues on in this verse to say that where there is no law, there is no trans
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t***s
发帖数: 4666 | 9 你倒底懂不懂英文啊，你的律师也没给你解释这个presumed fatherhood? 还冒出个
conclusive presumption. conclusive 了就不叫presumption 了。
TEST
ALL, |
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T******t
发帖数: 458 | 10 此人在FB上揭了警察局这些乱七八糟的黑幕，又是个黑人。留他活口肯定是重要不安定
因素。此人被和谐几率超高。
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/07/christopher-dorner-wri
他说的也还挺实在的：拉丁警察对拉丁移民也粗暴。亚裔警察就在旁边看着，这群废物
果然不出所料。
From: Christopher Jordan Dorner /7648
To: America
Subj: Last resort
Regarding CF# 07-004281
I know most of you who personally know me are in disbelief to hear from
media reports that I am suspected of committing such horrendous murders and
have taken drastic and shocking actions in the last couple of days. You are
saying to yourself ... 阅读全帖 |
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S*********g
发帖数: 24893 | 11 From: Christopher Jordan Dorner /7648
To: America
Subj: Last resort
Regarding CF# 07-004281
I know most of you who personally know me are in disbelief to hear from
media reports that I am suspected of committing such horrendous murders and
have taken drastic and shocking actions in the last couple of days. You are
saying to yourself that this is completely out of character of the man you
knew who always wore a smile wherever he was seen. I know I will be vilified
by the LAPD and the media. Unfor... 阅读全帖 |
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g******t
发帖数: 18158 | 12 "这个“谣言“德文英文都没几条"，这个你想当然了
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Helene_Demuth
英文：
On June 23, 1851 Helene Demuth gave birth to a boy believed by most scholars
to have been sired by Karl Marx.[2] Presumably in an effort to preserve the
Marxes' marriage, Karl Marx's closest personal friend, Frederick Engels, a
bachelor living in Manchester, claimed fatherhood of the boy, who was given
his name.[2] The baby, Frederick Lewis Demuth (1851−1929), was placed
in a working class foster home in London shortly... 阅读全帖 |
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b****l
发帖数: 23606 | 13 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: bushel (失乐园), 信区: USANews
标 题: 反智教育不能怪到奥巴马头上
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Jun 19 23:50:26 2016, 美东)
用这个来反奥巴马的，基本上2008年，2009年的时候还不在美国吧？
08年，09年的时候，奥巴马发表了几个 speech, 一个是讲fatherhood的，一个
是09年back to school。如果2008年，2009年已经开始在美国关心政治的，应
该都还记得当时奥巴马因为这几个speech，是怎么被保守派围殴的吧？围殴了
几回之后，奥巴马估计受不了了，人家也有老婆孩子要养，真被殴死了谁帮他
养家阿？
所以说，反智教育，是左派和右派共同的选择。美帝，就是doomed了。不能怪
某一个人。没有人有这个胆量冒天下之大不韪来给美国进行真正有益的教改的。 |
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t**x
发帖数: 20965 | 14 From: Christopher Jordan Dorner /7648
To: America
Subj: Last resort
Regarding CF# 07-004281
I know most of you who personally know me are in disbelief to hear from
media reports that I am suspected of committing such horrendous murders and
have taken drastic and shocking actions in the last couple of days. You are
saying to yourself that this is completely out of character of the man you
knew who always wore a smile wherever he was seen. I know I will be vilified
by the LAPD and the media. Unfor... 阅读全帖 |
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L*******e
发帖数: 2202 | 15 http://www.ok.co.uk/posts/view/31132/Sir-Elton-John-and-David-F
present-baby-son-Zachary-in
老先生也生小孩了
Proud parents Sir Elton John and David Furnish invite you into their
LA home to meet their new arrival, baby Zachary Jackson Levon.
The 63-year-old music legend and his partner, film director and
producer, David explain their joy following the Christmas Day birth
and the heartbreak after trying to adopt two Ukranian orphans.
Speaking about holding Zachary for the first time, Elton says: "I've
nev... 阅读全帖 |
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g********d
发帖数: 4174 | 16 The founder of the antigay National Organization for Marriage, Maggie
Gallagher, wrote her last syndicated advice column on Wednesday and
announced she was giving up optimism.
Gallager's column has run in various publications for 17 years, where she
espoused her conservative, and often antigay, beliefs. Gallagher has long
been the face of the anti-marriage equality movement, appearing on talk
shows and news programs. In her final column, Gallagher admits much of her
work has proved fruitless. "O... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 18 Why Demographic Shifts on Religion and Marriage Could Doom the Democratic
Party
Nov 22, 2011 4:45 AM EST
The party of Obama is increasingly unmarried and irreligious, a shift that
could help the GOP build a new majority.
If demography is destiny, the Democratic Party could be facing big trouble.
A growing contrast between the two major parties centers more and more on
stark differences in marital status and religious involvement—distinctions
that should give substantial advantages to Republicans... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 19 更新时间 2012年12月23日, 格林尼治标准时间17:09
研究显示，生养子女之后，一个英国父亲一般薪酬会增加，而母亲的事业和收入都将受
到负面影响。
人们一般都容易理解职业女性生儿育女后事业、薪水都可能受负面影响的道理。不过，
一项最新英国智库调研结果却另有新发现：成家立业、养育儿女的男性，竟会比无子女
男性平均收入高出近19%。
这项由英国公共政策研究所（IPPR）从事的社会调研发现，全职者为人父之后一般会得
到一个所谓的“爸爸奖金”（fatherhood bonus）。而全职女性为人母之后则会遭遇所
谓的“妈妈罚款”（motherhood penalty）。
研究显示，对于40岁出头的全职父母来说，父亲薪酬平均比母亲的高出26%；10年前，
这一差距还要大，一度达到32%。
剖因解析
公共政策研究所的人士对调查结果解释时认为，之所以存在“爸爸奖金”现象，很可能
基于两大原因：其一、男人一旦有了子女，一般都会更加努力地在职场打拚，对争取和
申请升迁机会更执著；其二、同样一般有子女的公司上司在考虑雇员升迁问题时，很可
能会对当父亲者更怀同情感。
在“妈妈罚款”方面，研究者也发现，... 阅读全帖 |
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S*********g
发帖数: 24893 | 20 From: Christopher Jordan Dorner /7648
To: America
Subj: Last resort
Regarding CF# 07-004281
I know most of you who personally know me are in disbelief to hear from
media reports that I am suspected of committing such horrendous murders and
have taken drastic and shocking actions in the last couple of days. You are
saying to yourself that this is completely out of character of the man you
knew who always wore a smile wherever he was seen. I know I will be vilified
by the LAPD and the media. Unfor... 阅读全帖 |
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b****l
发帖数: 23606 | 21 用这个来反奥巴马的，基本上2008年，2009年的时候还不在美国吧？
08年，09年的时候，奥巴马发表了几个 speech, 一个是讲fatherhood的，一个
是09年back to school。如果2008年，2009年已经开始在美国关心政治的，应
该都还记得当时奥巴马因为这几个speech，是怎么被保守派围殴的吧？围殴了
几回之后，奥巴马估计受不了了，人家也有老婆孩子要养，真被殴死了谁帮他
养家阿？
所以说，反智教育，是左派和右派共同的选择。美帝，就是doomed了。不能怪
某一个人。没有人有这个胆量冒天下之大不韪来给美国进行真正有益的教改的。 |
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b****l
发帖数: 23606 | 22 你这个连接跟我说的事情有半毛钱关系吗？
我讲的是2008 父亲节 speech，和2009 back to school speech。
你贴的这个连接是2013年的父亲节speech，而且也跟教育没有关系
你肯定2008年的时候还不关心美国政治。要不就是你不太懂英文，
只会搜索 obama fatherhood speech。 |
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V*****8
发帖数: 33122 | 25 maybe he's not ready for the baby? forced into fatherhood? |
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m****e
发帖数: 19 | 26 lz
如果不是挖坑的话，给你一些建议
女方父母这么强势，如果你老婆站在她父母这便，我劝你离婚。
抚养权争过来，就算争不过来，也可以写下来对方不可以该孩子姓。对方想改孩子的姓，
只要你不同意，对方是改不了的，法官也不会同意。而且，我可以清楚地提醒你一点，
如果对方把因为孩子的姓作为离婚的原因，你拿到孩子的抚养权希望很大。对方明显
put their interest before the child了。
记住，把对方要求改孩子姓的所有记录全都document起来，email阿，电话最好能录
个音。如果你能证明对方离婚的intention是要把孩子的姓改了，将来真的打官司，
对方基本没戏拿到孩子抚养权。第1，对方put their interest before the child,
第2，对方有parental alienation的倾向，disrespect fatherhood。
光这两条，在美国大部分的州，就足于把抚养权判给父亲。
另外，你老婆跟的是她妈妈姓么？？ |
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m****e
发帖数: 19 | 27 lz
如果不是挖坑的话，给你一些建议
女方父母这么强势，如果你老婆站在她父母这便，我劝你离婚。
抚养权争过来，就算争不过来，也可以写下来对方不可以该孩子姓。对方想改孩子的姓，
只要你不同意，对方是改不了的，法官也不会同意。而且，我可以清楚地提醒你一点，
如果对方把因为孩子的姓作为离婚的原因，你拿到孩子的抚养权希望很大。对方明显
put their interest before the child了。
记住，把对方要求改孩子姓的所有记录全都document起来，email阿，电话最好能录
个音。如果你能证明对方离婚的intention是要把孩子的姓改了，将来真的打官司，
对方基本没戏拿到孩子抚养权。第1，对方put their interest before the child,
第2，对方有parental alienation的倾向，disrespect fatherhood。
光这两条，在美国大部分的州，就足于把抚养权判给父亲。
另外，你老婆跟的是她妈妈姓么？？ |
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l**h
发帖数: 7994 | 28 追捕进行时，现在LA附近草木皆兵。
愚蠢可耻的LAPD.
From: Christopher Jordan Dorner /7648
To: America
Subj: Last resort
Regarding CF# 07-004281
I know most of you who personally know me are in disbelief to hear from
media reports that I am suspected of committing such horrendous murders and
have taken drastic and shocking actions in the last couple of days. You are
saying to yourself that this is completely out of character of the man you
knew who always wore a smile wherever he was seen. I know I will be vilified
by ... 阅读全帖 |
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n*******c
发帖数: 23 | 29 late fatherhood is one of the possible reasons. |
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c*******u
发帖数: 12899 | 30 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
jiajia1982 (小样) 于 (Fri Feb 25 23:30:36 2011, 美东) 提到:
刚刚做完neurophychological test，结果是自闭症。
我的儿子3岁4个月，还只会说单音字，而且就说那么几个。和别人交流很困难，不爱看
电视，也不爱跟别的小孩玩。各方面的发展都严重delay。
医生推荐做 (Applied Behavior Analysis)ABA therapy，说这是目前治疗儿童自闭症
的最好的方法。可气的是公司的mental health insurance还不cover 这个ABA
therapy。可这个治疗要长期做，非常昂贵，自己很难负担。该怎么办？
真的要崩溃了。
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mitbbser1 (mitbbser) 于 (Fri Feb 25 23:33:14 2011, 美东) 提到:
你可以和学区联系, 学龄前儿童也都有免费的治疗.
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m*********7
发帖数: 5207 | 32 By the time a man realizes that his dad might be right, he usually has a son
who thinks he is wrong. That's the irony of fatherhood. |
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t*******r
发帖数: 22634 | 33 在基因方面的问题，特别是真正的 autistic 那种，有人猜
late fatherhood （高龄产男）是不是更重要的原因，
sperm has more chance to mutate。
在环境方面的问题，不知道该不该怀疑 non-native-speaker
老人带娃，另外是保姆带娃没人监督保姆。。。 |
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t*******r
发帖数: 22634 | 34 小家庭化跟真正的 Autistic 肯定没关系，那个跟 late fatherhood 可能
有些关系。
不过对于 ASD 边缘的那些，有基因和环境共同影响的，我觉得也不一定好说。
主要不是每个父母都是喜欢跟娃玩的。。。如果在加上父母工作压力比较大的
话。。。 |
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l*****a
发帖数: 14598 | 35 你那个late fatherhood的根据在哪里？发在CNS吗？
基因变异是极小规模事件，而你说的这个 Autistic不是说概率已经很高了吗？ |
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m*********h
发帖数: 5449 | 37 以道德规范的强制执行为基础的共济会，深度控制了美国的权力机构。道德规范和团结
组合在一起，可以产生如此强大的组织。
Freemasons have a set of basic principles that they all live by. Masonic
lodge members promise never to bring anything offensive or defensive into
the lodge with them — both weapons and words. The object of the lodge is to
create a place where those divisions are left outside, so Masons can engage
in activities that unite them instead of separating them:
A moral code: Freemasons believe in honor and that a man has a
responsibility to ... 阅读全帖 |
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n***s
发帖数: 10056 | 38 This made me sad (from that A3 link):
Sometime back we were discussing about being locked up here without India
visits , But my friend , whom i am referring above , didn't get a chance to
meet her father for 13 years. Her father was a exchange student when she was
born in China , came here and locked up in the process of immigration . She
, now a college student, had mixed emotions about meeting her father , when
she came to US. In her opinion , her father lost his fatherhood fulfilling
his drea... 阅读全帖 |
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n***s
发帖数: 10056 | 39 This made me sad (from that A3 link):
Sometime back we were discussing about being locked up here without India
visits , But my friend , whom i am referring above , didn't get a chance to
meet her father for 13 years. Her father was a exchange student when she was
born in China , came here and locked up in the process of immigration . She
, now a college student, had mixed emotions about meeting her father , when
she came to US. In her opinion , her father lost his fatherhood fulfilling
his drea... 阅读全帖 |
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c****r
发帖数: 969 | 40 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
friskpipi (蹦蹦跳跳) 于 (Fri Jul 15 11:16:45 2011, 美东) 提到:
给Openheim发信，问过了07大潮如何定排期，同时建议他短期内排期大步前进 to
build up inventory。 他说：
1. 一旦排期过了08/15/2007，需要将排期推进来允许交485.
2. 他会和USCIS一同协商。看有多少Pending EB2 I-140 和他认为FY-2012的可用名额
来决定排期前进多少。（看来全C是不可能的）。
还没有给他回信，大家提建议如何回信吧。
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friskpipi (蹦蹦跳跳) 于 (Fri Jul 15 11:18:31 2011, 美东) 提到:
嗯？大家不感兴趣？
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KRISWANG (KRIS) 于 (Fri Jul 15 11:19:41 2011, 美东... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 24893 | 41 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: StephenKing (金博士), 信区: Military
标 题: 真正的美国新闻：让美国蒙羞的新闻
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Feb 7 23:47:31 2013, 美东)
From: Christopher Jordan Dorner /7648
To: America
Subj: Last resort
Regarding CF# 07-004281
I know most of you who personally know me are in disbelief to hear from
media reports that I am suspected of committing such horrendous murders and
have taken drastic and shocking actions in the last couple of days. You are
saying to yourself that this is completely out of cha... 阅读全帖 |
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d******8
发帖数: 3017 | 42 MANIFESTO - scrubbed by mainstream media outlets
From: Christopher Jordan Dorner /7648
To: America
Subj: Last resort
Regarding CF# 07-004281
I know most of you who personally know me are in disbelief to hear from
media reports that I am suspected of committing such horrendous murders and
have taken drastic and shocking actions in the last couple of days. You are
saying to yourself that this is completely out of character of the man you
knew who always wore a smile wherever he was seen. I know I ... 阅读全帖 |
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p**********u
发帖数: 15479 | 43 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: Tashkent (SiempreAqui), 信区: Military
标 题: LA屁地估计是要当场击毙这个前警察
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Feb 7 21:48:39 2013, 美东)
此人在FB上揭了警察局这些乱七八糟的黑幕，又是个黑人。留他活口肯定是重要不安定
因素。此人被和谐几率超高。
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/07/christopher-dorner-wri
他说的也还挺实在的：拉丁警察对拉丁移民也粗暴。亚裔警察就在旁边看着，这群废物
果然不出所料。
From: Christopher Jordan Dorner /7648
To: America
Subj: Last resort
Regarding CF# 07-004281
I know most of you who personally know me are in disbelief to hear from
media reports that I am suspected ... 阅读全帖 |
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t**********g
发帖数: 3388 | 44 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: Tashkent (SiempreAqui), 信区: Military
标 题: LA屁地估计是要当场击毙这个前警察
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Feb 7 21:48:39 2013, 美东)
此人在FB上揭了警察局这些乱七八糟的黑幕，又是个黑人。留他活口肯定是重要不安定
因素。此人被和谐几率超高。
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/07/christopher-dorner-wri
他说的也还挺实在的：拉丁警察对拉丁移民也粗暴。亚裔警察就在旁边看着，这群废物
果然不出所料。
From: Christopher Jordan Dorner /7648
To: America
Subj: Last resort
Regarding CF# 07-004281
I know most of you who personally know me are in disbelief to hear from
media reports that I am suspected ... 阅读全帖 |
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m*********h
发帖数: 5449 | 45 【 以下文字转载自 Stock 讨论区 】
发信人: marketwatch (市场观察), 信区: Stock
标 题: 共济会基本原则是给出了一个moral code
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Oct 28 22:01:14 2014, 美东)
以道德规范的强制执行为基础的共济会，深度控制了美国的权力机构。道德规范和团结
组合在一起，可以产生如此强大的组织。
Freemasons have a set of basic principles that they all live by. Masonic
lodge members promise never to bring anything offensive or defensive into
the lodge with them — both weapons and words. The object of the lodge is to
create a place where those divisions are left outside, so Masons can engage
in activit... 阅读全帖 |
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f*****s
发帖数: 1589 | 46 【 以下文字转载自 Stock 讨论区 】
发信人: marketwatch (市场观察), 信区: Stock
标 题: 共济会基本原则是给出了一个moral code
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Oct 28 22:01:14 2014, 美东)
以道德规范的强制执行为基础的共济会，深度控制了美国的权力机构。道德规范和团结
组合在一起，可以产生如此强大的组织。
Freemasons have a set of basic principles that they all live by. Masonic
lodge members promise never to bring anything offensive or defensive into
the lodge with them — both weapons and words. The object of the lodge is to
create a place where those divisions are left outside, so Masons can engage
in activit... 阅读全帖 |
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B*****y
发帖数: 497 | 47 搞不好碰上8马啊
奥巴马总统13日未事先宣布就熘出白宫，跑到国会附近一家烤肉餐馆提早过父亲节，与
四名也是「爹字辈」的人一起享用午餐。
白宫说，奥巴马配合宣扬父亲角色的联邦计画，与两名现役军人和两名当地理髮师一起
庆祝父亲节。
他们在华府东北区的肯尼烧烤店(kenny's smokehouse)，一边享用牛肋骨、蔬菜、黑眼
豆和玉米松糕，一边闲聊当父亲的感想和理髮。
第一夫人米雪儿偶尔会外出与朋友一起到热门餐馆用晚餐，可是奥巴马很少熘出白宫上
馆子，以免造成交通混乱。
与奥巴马一起用餐的是两个在h街分别工作了51年和45年的理髮师，以及获得2012年军
中父亲奖的陆军中尉william edwards和另一名陆军士官。
由卫生福利部发起的「父亲热潮」计画(fatherhood buzz)，努力透过理髮店散播「积
极信息」，向为人之父的男性宣扬理财协助、就业训练和其他资源。
奥巴马说：「理髮店是很多男性都会去的地方，而我们希望与理髮店合作，加强向父亲
传达他们可以获得的各种资源。」
奥巴马强调父亲积极参与子女生活的重要性。他说，父亲能造成很大的不同，有父亲照
顾的孩子比较不会使用毒品，女... 阅读全帖 |
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B******Z
发帖数: 9193 | 48 good fatherhood!
another option is let him dribble, good for eye-hand coordination, balance
and pretty much everything, lol, actually anything father-son does together
is all good |
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b****u
发帖数: 2771 | 49 赞 模范
Fatherhood and fantasy
睡不太安稳。 |
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