G***a
发帖数: 27294 | 1 也就是不fidgeting的人咯？
。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。。
我总是fidget，，，，我妈管那个叫“没有一个姑娘样”
example,
cetera |
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p********l
发帖数: 2032 | 2 其他相关贴：
http://www.mitbbs.com/mitbbs_search_result.php?cx=partner-pub-9
【 以下文字转载自 Xibei 讨论区 】
发信人: oxhorn (天使湉), 信区: Xibei
标 题: 说说抑郁症
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Apr 25 20:43:22 2012, 美东)
那个自杀的少年班爸爸，估计是抑郁症
最近在上mood disorder，现学现卖了，说得不对的地方专家们指出哈：）
统计显示有50%的抑郁症患者从来没看过医生，要不不知道自己患病，或知道因为没保
险而不去看
那些被诊断为抑郁症的，只有25%的人吃非处方药、参加therapy或看心理医生
抑郁症的病因不明，有基因的因素，有环境的因素，也有其它因素，也有可能什么
trigger也没有，人就抑郁了。
别的版灌水的很多人说是那个自杀的同胞的老板太mean了，太严了，等等造成那人自杀
，不一定，抑郁症和头疼感冒拉肚子一样，都是身体的某个环节不好好工作了，如果一
个人的身体功能是健全的，就能有足够的能力去处理这些压力，就像身体通常情况可以
抵抗... 阅读全帖 |
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k****k
发帖数: 3322 | 3 这个俄罗斯总统普京真是个人才。对付美国太有手段了。
斯诺登事件把美国耍得团团转，丢尽了脸。天朝是把斯诺登当祸，避之唯恐不及；俄罗
斯则变废为宝，与美国巧妙周旋。
昨天气冲冲的奥巴马决定取消俄美首脑会谈，俄罗斯外交部淡淡地表示遗憾，并宣布
俄罗斯对美国会谈的门永远敞开。美国做了坏事还怪别人，别人还那么大度，孰优孰劣
，谁站在道德的制高点，世人一目了然。俄罗斯在国际上搞了个Home run，普京在国内
也加分不少。
今天奥巴马在谈话中骂普京有冷战思维，人家马上发个电报给小布什祝其心脏手术早日
康复，告诉奥巴马连布什这样的总统俄罗斯都可以打交道，何况是你？小样儿！以柔克
刚，机制灵活，普京的太极拳打的太好了。
这些大国间斗智斗勇的真正博弈，中国领导人什么时候学的会啊？
In wishing Bush well, Putin has message for Obama
MOSCOW (Reuters) - Russian President Vladimir Putin sent a telegram on
Thursday to his old sparring partner, forme... 阅读全帖 |
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w**z
发帖数: 8232 | 4 http://www.businessinsider.com/tips-for-negotiating-the-salary-
Negotiating your salary can be awkward and challenging — and actually
getting the pay you want often seems impossible.
But it isn't.
"A job interview can be stressful, especially when it comes time to talk
about money," says etiquette expert and "Poised for Success" author
Jacqueline Whitmore. "However, you can get what you want and deserve — most
job seekers just aren't sure when and how to ask for it."
To master the delicate dance... 阅读全帖 |
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s*********5
发帖数: 5637 | 5 另外上次看Mary Sheedy Kuicinka写的“Kids, Parents, and Power Struggles". 她
提到我们人的性格可以分为以下7个层面：坚持性，敏感性，适应性，感情丰富性，规
律性，能量高低，和对新事物的接受能力。当父母的这些性格和孩子不太一样时。父母
要特别注意怎样和孩子交流更好。
•Persistence: If you are involved in a task and your child interrupts
or asks for your help, do you find it frustrating and difficult to stop? If
your child tells you no, do you want to push harder for compliance? If you
are persistent, allow yourself to finish something every day.
•Sensitivity: how aware are you of sights,... 阅读全帖 |
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A********e
发帖数: 535 | 6 不是，不用担心。
给您看看那个典型的ADHD的症状描述：
Be easily distracted, miss details, forget things, and frequently switch
from one activity to another
Have difficulty maintaining focus on one task
Become bored with a task after only a few minutes, unless doing something
enjoyable
Have difficulty focusing attention on organizing and completing a task or
learning something new
Have trouble completing or turning in homework assignments, often losing
things (e.g., pencils, toys, assignments) needed to complete tasks or... 阅读全帖 |
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f*******2
发帖数: 656 | 8 Although the game hasn’t formally get started (based on my estimate, the
EB1 petition probably hasn’t been filed yet), already, I feel I can make
myself a diagnosis of major depressive disorder. |
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b*********r
发帖数: 7139 | 9 pat. pat. 听草原歌曲吧。“我和草原有个约定”，听了这首歌人的心里会很敞亮：） |
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n****y
发帖数: 968 | 10 我等了12个月（这是极限了），差不多有些结果了（还有待确认）。我很理解等待的焦
灼。
我的建议：如果不是急等着用绿卡，如果自己的case不是很强，等着！就当是对自己的
一种锻炼了，不要搞不搞就把自己的血汗钱扔给贪婪的狗。 |
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f*******2
发帖数: 656 | 11 Thanks for the comfort, and i am already googling it. |
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f*******2
发帖数: 656 | 13 I will need the i140 receipt for my h1 transfer, since the time to deadline
is ticking, i become more and more anxious.
You are probably right about PP, i understand it perfectly well, but
emotionally i don't know whether i can take/stand it...
by the way, i admire your patience... |
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t****r
发帖数: 661 | 14 非常理解lz，我也差不多在此状态中，有时想想自己做好自己该做的事，剩下的交给上
帝去处理。大不了回国，绿卡不是人生最重要的事情，美国的情况10年之后还真不知道
怎么样，看看非法移民和政治避难的几个月拿到绿卡就知道
还有用工作或其他事情来平衡吧，我现在生活基本就是绿卡申请和工作，申请想多了就
想工作
祝大家都顺顺利利的 |
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l*b
发帖数: 4369 | 15 你退一步想想绿卡到底有多重要，就不这么着急了。
我就想，如果绿卡下来了，我会怎么样呢？
答案就是，大笑三声，然后继续在暗无天日的地下室里干千老。
绿卡这东西，真的也就那么回事。 |
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s*******t
发帖数: 7746 | 16 why do you need I140 for h1 transfer??
deadline |
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b*********r
发帖数: 7139 | 17 嗯，日子依旧。不过有身份了，精神压力会小很多。换好工作可能还是不容易，虽然机
会多了。 |
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f*******2
发帖数: 656 | 18 i got you, but at least i want to be informed. in addition, i will need i140
filed badly at the moment. |
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f*******2
发帖数: 656 | 19 both my husband and i are facing job switch. having that damn card can be
really helpful. |
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f*******2
发帖数: 656 | 20 it is a long story, it has something to do with job switch, future contract,
h1 extension and etc. |
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s*******t
发帖数: 7746 | 21 Go for pp then.
Both my hubby's and my H1b need to be renewed in this September. I decided
to go for 140+pp even though my case is pretty week.
contract, |
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f*******2
发帖数: 656 | 22 bless! thanks for sharing your information with me. what are your lawyer's
comments on PP, if you have one?
i hope i can hear from my lawyer soon, last time i heard from him was 1 week
ago. although i have assaulted him pretty badly by sending emails and
leaving messages ever since, still have no idea of his progress. |
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t********o
发帖数: 369 | 23 I would suggest you to go for pp especially in your present situation. My
situation is pretty bad and complicated, and my case is pretty weak as well
(see my post for detail). However, I would rather get a quick result (good
or bad) than wait and be tortured. Best luck! |
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s*******t
发帖数: 7746 | 24 He has no comments on pp.I had bad experience with my lawyer too. Although
he promised to file my case in 2 weeks after he received my materials, He
didn't file my case until >1 month even I keep pushing them :(
Bless you too!
week |
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l*b
发帖数: 4369 | 25 当然还会有不同啦。不过既然还没拿到，就使劲儿想拿了也没用，你就不那么郁闷了。
我要往好处想的话，我周围一大堆要我这个专业的大国防企业，很多都是绿卡也能进的
。我又有些connection。拿了卡之后搞个钱多事少离家近的位置比干千老好多了。
但我要这么想的话，那在等待阶段心情肯定很不爽，因为期望值太高。特别是如果有点
不顺利啥的，得郁闷死。所以我就给自己洗脑，天天跟自己说绿卡屁用没有，说着说着
心情就宁静了，就该干啥干啥了。
我的两分钱啦。 |
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g****x
发帖数: 3862 | 26 Come on, are you kidding me? depressed by worried about talking to your
lawyer about your normal petition. YOU haven't had any taste of how really
stressful the life can be.
Just be grateful that you are eligible to apply for Eb1 and very likely you
will get it smoothly. Think about people have to wait for years for the
priority date become current. And other people in more miserable life. |
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f*******2
发帖数: 656 | 27 your case is not too bad -- it is about average i think. plus you are able
to file EB1B, which, by definition, is much safer than EB1A. once i confirm
with my lawyer regarding the filing status (hope that will happen soon), i
will then decide whether or not PP (most likely yes). i may need to consult with
you about the process then...
well |
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f*******2
发帖数: 656 | 28 you know what, my lawyer had promised me the same thing (actually he said
one to two weeks), and i was very happy about it. anyway i worked very hard
to collect the supporting documents as fast as i can, in order to give him
enough time for petition letter and filing, due to the contingency of my h1
transfer. after he received the document, i asked him how he thought about my case and whether he was able to file the petition in 2 week. he then
demanded over a hundred dollars for "express filing ... 阅读全帖 |
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f*******2
发帖数: 656 | 29 i am very much worried about h1 transfer, which is rather demanding and
urgent at the point.
i am not sure whether you are talking about your own situation. if yes, and
i happen to succeed in my EB1 petition, i can introduce my lawyer to you. i
decided to work with him only because nobody else thought i stood a chance
in EB1 (so you can image my case is quite problematic as well). if he can
help me, he will very likely help you as well.
good luck to you!
you |
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g****x
发帖数: 3862 | 30 Just wanna make you feel better that there are situations way more
complicated than yours. Eb1 h 1 b are just small cases which is always in
your hand.
i am very much worried about h1 transfer, which is rather demanding and
urgent at the po........
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f*******2
发帖数: 656 | 31 i hear you. thanks for the comfort, and i guess this is the whole point to
whine a little in a public forum -- people will help you feel better.
thanks for your response. |
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f*******2
发帖数: 656 | 32 you've got a good attitude -- sounds a very smart and happy person who knows
how to live in a everyday life joyfully. thanks for sharing. |
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f*********t
发帖数: 1151 | 33 The sister of a high-ranking Chinese diplomat was busted for alleged
shoplifting from the Herald Square Macy’s — and her well-connected family
caused a huge scene trying to get her out of police custody, The Post has
learned.
Guo Wang, 37 — whose brother Bangfu Wang is a section chief in the Chinese
Ministry of Foreign Affairs — walked into the Macy’s flagship store
Thursday before noon, picked up several shirts and two dresses and took them
to the fitting room, sources said.
After a few minutes... 阅读全帖 |
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s*******w
发帖数: 2257 | 34 Tsarnaev guilty in Boston bombing
smilhaNew 快速回复 快速引用
Boston (CNN)[Breaking news update, posted at 2:19 p.m.]
So far, jurors have found Dzhokhar Tsarnaev guilty of 10 of 30 counts. The
verdict still is being read.
[Breaking news update, posted at 2:13 p.m.]
Jurors in the Boston Marathon bombing trial have found Dzhokhar Tsarnaev
guilty of using a weapon of mass destruction resulting in death, and aiding
and abetting, a charge that carries a possible penalty of death.
[Breaking news update, p... 阅读全帖 |
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d******1
发帖数: 349 | 35 I have never seen Steve Mollenkopf being so nervous and fidgeting so much
during all hands meeting. His voice was breaking on a couple of occasions
and he was almost stuttering in the beginning of the meeting.
George’s presentation is also a joke. “The second half is about the second
half” kind of reminds me of “I voted for it before I voted against it”
statement by a famous politician.
None of these clowns give me a high confidence level in the future of this
company. |
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d******1
发帖数: 349 | 36 I have never seen Steve Mollenkopf being so nervous and fidgeting so much
during all hands meeting. His voice was breaking on a couple of occasions
and he was almost stuttering in the beginning of the meeting.
George’s presentation is also a joke. “The second half is about the second
half” kind of reminds me of “I voted for it before I voted against it”
statement by a famous politician.
None of these clowns give me a high confidence level in the future of this
company. |
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d**n
发帖数: 3172 | 37 老印其实在英国和新加坡也发展得很好 我举东亚的例子是想说东亚人的管理水平是不
弱的
但在美国不行 是有很深的文化的原因的 亨廷顿所谓文明的冲突 印度俄国这些都被认
为是亚层次的
主要的只有东亚 西方和伊斯兰 这些文化本身是有很多冲突的
即使在美国的第二代也留下深深烙印 下面是一本书上摘下的
写Lynbrook的毕业生面临东西文化的冲击
作者
Hazel Rose Markus, Ph.D., is the Davis-Brack Professor in the Behavioral
Sciences at Stanford University.
Alana Conner, Ph.D., is a Stanford-trained cultural psychologist and science
communicator based in San Francisco.
Excerpt.
Chapter 1
Hearts and Minds, East and West
"Heejung?”
Hazel cold-called the graduate student at the ... 阅读全帖 |
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c*h
发帖数: 33018 | 38 【 以下文字转载自 Xibei 讨论区 】
发信人: oxhorn (天使湉), 信区: Xibei
标 题: 说说抑郁症
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Apr 25 20:43:22 2012, 美东)
那个自杀的少年班爸爸，估计是抑郁症
最近在上mood disorder，现学现卖了，说得不对的地方专家们指出哈：）
统计显示有50%的抑郁症患者从来没看过医生，要不不知道自己患病，或知道因为没保
险而不去看
那些被诊断为抑郁症的，只有25%的人吃非处方药、参加therapy或看心理医生
抑郁症的病因不明，有基因的因素，有环境的因素，也有其它因素，也有可能什么
trigger也没有，人就抑郁了。
别的版灌水的很多人说是那个自杀的同胞的老板太mean了，太严了，等等造成那人自杀
，不一定，抑郁症和头疼感冒拉肚子一样，都是身体的某个环节不好好工作了，如果一
个人的身体功能是健全的，就能有足够的能力去处理这些压力，就像身体通常情况可以
抵抗感冒病毒。一旦这些功能出了问题，遇到压力或其它诱因时才会诱发抑郁。治疗抑
郁症唯一的办法是吃药，其它都是辅助治疗，不吃药，其它任何治疗都没用。... 阅读全帖 |
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m*******r
发帖数: 13263 | 39 Like many, Michael Mosley want to get fitter and healthier but can't face
hours on the treadmill or trips to the gym. Help may be at hand.
He uncovers the surprising new research which suggests many of us could
benefit from just three minutes of high intensity exercise a week.
He discovers the hidden power of simple activities like walking and
fidgeting, and finds out why some of us don't respond to exercise at all
Using himself as a guinea pig, Michael uncovers the surprising new research
about... 阅读全帖 |
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p*********l
发帖数: 26270 | 40 【 以下文字转载自 Tri 讨论区 】
发信人: pecanlover (SheRox), 信区: Tri
标 题: 冒着会被群殴的危险发这个
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Sep 26 16:07:27 2012, 美东)
For Skinny Athletes: How to Gain Weight Healthfully
http://www.beginnertriathlete.com/cms/article-detail.asp?articl
Five tips for boosting calories
Although you cannot change your genetics and your tendency to fidget, you
can boost your calorie intake. Here are five tips to help you bulk-up
healthfully.
1. Eat consistently. Do NOT skip meals; doing so means you'll miss out on
im... 阅读全帖 |
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g*2
发帖数: 658 | 41 Crank your calorie-blasting way up with these quick tricks.
1. Linger in the dairy aisle - Women burned more fat and calories when they
ate 1,000 to 1,400 milligrams of calcium per day, according to findings
published in the American Journal of Clinical Nutrition. That’s three to
four servings of dairy.
2. Eat more meat...and eggs and beans - People who got 40% of their daily
calories from protein lost significantly more body fat than those whose
diets had only 15% protein, even though they cons... 阅读全帖 |
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y**s
发帖数: 6809 | 42 yeah, fidgeting... that's the word that's been missing me... |
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wh
发帖数: 141625 | 43 不是连续的，就是每年房租到期之前fidget一下，到处看一眼。然后发现还是租房最省
事，就又缩回来了。哈哈。 |
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wh
发帖数: 141625 | 45 这几句心有戚戚：
An office is a minefield of meandering meetings and pop-up calendar invites.
...that's their job. Mine is to come to the office, manage that day’s
crisis, and fidget my way through way too many meetings.
Because a restaurant's job is not only to feed you but to transport you.
That's something that anyone who labors his or her day away in an office can
appreciate.
...do yourself a favor—escape. Treat yourself to lunch and a glass of wine.
Right smack in the middle of the workday, exactly... 阅读全帖 |
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g**o
发帖数: 3033 | 46 呵呵，我给你来个科学的，
Those who fidget more by shaking their leg, repositioning themselves, standi
ng up and walking around, and so forth can burn 350 more calories per day th
an their more sedentary counterparts, according to Levine at U.S. News & Wor
ld Report.
http://www.livestrong.com/article/320945-the-calories-burned-sh |
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sr
发帖数: 86 | 47 We danced until the music started up again. It was a fast sleigh song and
I thought Ben would let go of me, but he held me close and danced even slower
than before. I could feel the strength in his arms, the roughness of his jaw
and neck against my check.
I saw Tim fidgeting, then he rose and left. The realization that I was this
close and alone with Ben did strange things to me. My heart started skipping
creazily, like the sleigh bell music, but we moved together so slowly now
that we'd alm |
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O******e
发帖数: 734 | 48 Who is Sue C.? I know a Sue C., in her forties, can't stop fidgeting
with her hair, and I don't mean in the flirtatious manner, not that I
would ever want to see her flirting with anyone; it would make me
shudder.
may |
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f******e
发帖数: 1459 | 49 来自主题: ChineseClassics版 - 随缘 哈哈，暂时不会，还在fidget 中， 今中午做完了，被人叫去吃饭，结果啥也没吃，只
有一个bagel 垫肚。 |
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w**m
发帖数: 140 | 50 Flower 4？
Facetious 4?
Facile 4?
Factotum 4?
Faculty 4?
Fad 4?
Falsehood 4?
Farce 4?
Fatuity 4?
Faultfinder 4?
Fawn 4?
Feigned 4?
Felon 4?
Feminist 4?
Fertilize 4?
Fetus 4?
Fidget 4?
Filly 4?
Flamboyant 4?
Flatcar 4?
Flirt 4?
Folk 4?
Forager 4?
Forger 4?
Frenzy 4?
Friable 4?
Frugal 4?
Fulminate 4?
Fume 4?
Functionary 4?
Futility 4! |
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