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D*****r
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这句显然是针对基督徒常喊的一个口号而写在剧本里的,没有幽默感……
The General's office in a military station on the east front in Beotia.
An office table with a telephone, writing materials, official papers, etc.,
is set across the room. At the end of the table, a comfortable chair for the
General. Behind the chair, a window. Facing it at the other end of the
table, a plain wooden bench. At the side of the table, with its back to the
door, acommon chair, with a typewriter before it. Beside the door, which is
opposite the e... 阅读全帖
w*******e
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发信人: whiterose (抱抱熊和胖胖鱼), 信区: BibleStudy
标 题: Re: 【一年精读圣经】7/5 箴言 第5章
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jul 5 11:05:45 2011, 美东)
Proverbs 5
Warning Against Adultery
1 My son, pay attention to my wisdom,
turn your ear to my words of insight,
2 that you may maintain discretion
and your lips may preserve knowledge.
3 For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey,
and her speech is smoother than oil;
4 but in the end she is bitter as gall,
sharp as a double-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death;... 阅读全帖
w*******e
发帖数: 6802
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发信人: whiterose (抱抱熊和胖胖鱼), 信区: BibleStudy
标 题: Re: 【一年精读圣经】7/6 箴言 第6章
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Jul 6 13:51:49 2011, 美东)
Proverbs 6
Warnings Against Folly
1 My son, if you have put up security for your neighbor,
if you have shaken hands in pledge for a stranger,
2 you have been trapped by what you said,
ensnared by the words of your mouth.
3 So do this, my son, to free yourself,
since you have fallen into your neighbor’s hands:
Go—to the point of exhaustion—[a]
and give your neighbor no r... 阅读全帖
D*****r
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - For the Liberty of Unlicenc'd Printing
A SPEECH OF Mr. JOHN MILTON
For the Liberty of VNLICENC'D PRINTING,
To the PARLAMENT of ENGLAND.
______________________________________________________________
This is true Liberty when free born men
Having to advise the public may speak free,
Which he who can, and will, deserv's high praise,
Who neither can nor will, may hold his peace;
What can be juster in a State then this?
... 阅读全帖
R*o
发帖数: 3781
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - Study and Exposition of Romans 1:18-32
E. Exposition Proper
The section 1:18-32 is part of the larger section of material in 1:18-3:20 (
cf. the teaching outline at the front of the book). The function of this mat
erial, as the for in 1:18 indicates, is to confirm that faith alone is the o
nly means of attaining the righteousness offered in the gospel in 1:17.
This is so because all men are depraved and cannot earn God’s salvation by
their own works or merit. The point of 1:18-32 is to show that the Gentiles
(primarily, though not ex... 阅读全帖
R*o
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - Study and Exposition of Romans 1:18-32
E. Exposition Proper
The section 1:18-32 is part of the larger section of material in 1:18-3:20 (
cf. the teaching outline at the front of the book). The function of this mat
erial, as the for in 1:18 indicates, is to confirm that faith alone is the o
nly means of attaining the righteousness offered in the gospel in 1:17.
This is so because all men are depraved and cannot earn God’s salvation by
their own works or merit. The point of 1:18-32 is to show that the Gentiles
(primarily, though not ex... 阅读全帖
R*o
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - Study and Exposition of Romans 3:9-20
3:15-17 Paul moves on in vv. 15-17 with a citation dependent for the most pa
rt on Isaiah 59:7-8 (cf. Prov 1:16). He leaves the sins involving the mouth
and moves forward to enumerate sins involving the imagery of feet. People ar
e swift (ojxei'", oxeis) to shed blood, to commit acts of violence against o
thers. Indeed, ruin and misery are in their paths (oJdoi'", hodois); the lan
dscape behind them is littered with the remains of their violence. Everywher
e they go people suffer. They have not ... 阅读全帖
R*o
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - Study and Exposition of Romans 3:9-20
3:15-17 Paul moves on in vv. 15-17 with a citation dependent for the most pa
rt on Isaiah 59:7-8 (cf. Prov 1:16). He leaves the sins involving the mouth
and moves forward to enumerate sins involving the imagery of feet. People ar
e swift (ojxei'", oxeis) to shed blood, to commit acts of violence against o
thers. Indeed, ruin and misery are in their paths (oJdoi'", hodois); the lan
dscape behind them is littered with the remains of their violence. Everywher
e they go people suffer. They have not ... 阅读全帖
w*******e
发帖数: 6802
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 【7月查经---续】箴言 第17章 (转载)
发信人: whiterose (抱抱熊和胖胖鱼), 信区: BibleStudy
标 题: Re: 【7月查经---续】箴言 第17章
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Oct 13 18:38:02 2011, 美东)
Proverbs 17
1 Better a dry crust with peace and quiet
than a house full of feasting, with strife.
2 A prudent servant will rule over a disgraceful son
and will share the inheritance as one of the family.
3 The crucible for silver and the furnace for gold,
but the LORD tests the heart.
4 A wicked person listens to deceitful lips;
a liar pays attention to a destructive ton... 阅读全帖
w*******e
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 【7月查经---续】箴言 第18章 (转载)
Proverbs 18
1 An unfriendly person pursues selfish ends
and against all sound judgment starts quarrels.
2 Fools find no pleasure in understanding
but delight in airing their own opinions.
3 When wickedness comes, so does contempt,
and with shame comes reproach.
4 The words of the mouth are deep waters,
but the fountain of wisdom is a rushing stream.
5 It is not good to be partial to the wicked
and so deprive the innocent of justice.
6 The lips of fools bring them strife,
and th... 阅读全帖
w*******e
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 【7月查经---续】箴言 第19章 (转载)
发信人: whiterose (抱抱熊和胖胖鱼), 信区: BibleStudy
标 题: Re: 【7月查经---续】箴言 第19章
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Oct 25 15:15:16 2011, 美东)
Proverbs 19
1 Better the poor whose walk is blameless
than a fool whose lips are perverse.
2 Desire without knowledge is not good—
how much more will hasty feet miss the way!
3 A person’s own folly leads to their ruin,
yet their heart rages against the LORD.
4 Wealth attracts many friends,
but even the closest friend of the poor person deserts them.
5 A false witness wil... 阅读全帖
l**********t
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 【福音派版本】 罗马书1:8-17

".....Two things are to be here considered —
that the gospel is by a heavenly mandate destined and offered to the wise,
in order that the Lord may subject to himself all the wisdom of this world,
and make all variety of talents, and every kind of science, and the
loftiness of all arts, to give way to the simplicity of his doctrine;
and what is more, they are to be reduced to the same rank with the unlearned
, and to be made so meek, as to be able to bear those to be their fellow-
disciples unde... 阅读全帖
l**********t
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 【基要派版本】罗马书2:17-29

称赞不是从人来的,乃是从神来的。
29. But he is a Jew, which is one inwardly; and circumcision is that of the
heart, in the spirit, and not in the letter; whose praise is not of men, but
of God.
"29. What he then adds, in the spirit, not in the letter, understand thus:
He calls the outward rite, without piety, the letter, and the spiritual
design of this rite, the spirit; for the whole importance of signs and rites
depends on what is designed; when the end in view is not regarded, the
letter alone remains, whic... 阅读全帖
E******u
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 这句经文如何理解?
【箴二十六4、5】回答愚昧人;这两句类似的话若不是并列在一起,必然会招来批评,
被指责为不协调(即使是并列在一起,仍是招致一些拉比的责难,他们因此而质疑本书
的正典地位);但是并列在一起出现,却说明了那些想要与不可理喻之人讲理的人进退
维谷的困境。参哥林多后書十二11,以及把话题转入这一点的十一16,保罗在那里发现
自己有如一个愚昧人一样的说话(参这里的4b节),然而却知道若拒绝使用他们的术语
,必然会使他这愚昧的羊坚持己见(参这里的5b节)。——《丁道尔圣经注释》
Barnes' Notes on the Bible
Two sides of a truth. To "answer a fool according to his folly" is in
Proverbs 26:4 to bandy words with him, to descend to his level of coarse
anger and vile abuse; in Proverbs 26:5 it is to say the right word at the
right time, to expos... 阅读全帖
G*******s
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 箴言 26:4-5
應對蠢人、勿循其蠢、恐爾同乎其人、應對蠢人、當循其蠢、免彼自視為智
Do not answer a fool according to his folly, Or you will also be like him.
Answer a fool as his follydeserves, That he not be wise in his own eyes.

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CUVS
C****i
发帖数: 1776
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 你要保守你心,胜过保守一切
箴 26:4 不要照愚昧人的愚妄话回答他,恐怕你与他一样。 (CUVS)
Prov 26:4 Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest thou also be like u
nto him. (KJV)
C****i
发帖数: 1776
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 你要保守你心,胜过保守一切
箴 26:5 要照愚昧人的愚妄话回答他,免得他自以为有智慧。 (CUVS)
Prov 26:5 Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his own c
onceit. (KJV)

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T**********s
发帖数: 340
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箴 26:4 不要照愚昧人的愚妄话回答他,恐怕你与他一样。 (CUVS)
Prov 26:4 Answer not a fool according to his folly, lest thou also be like u
nto him. (KJV)
T**********s
发帖数: 340
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箴 26:5 要照愚昧人的愚妄话回答他,免得他自以为有智慧。 (CUVS)
Prov 26:5 Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his own c
onceit. (KJV)

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m****r
发帖数: 1904
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出埃及记的”harden”一词小考
出埃及记多次提到了这个”harden”,比如出埃及记4:21;7:3;9:12;10:1,
20,27;11:10;14:4,8,17大多数的圣经版本翻译都和King James的
版本一样。如果有兴趣对比更多版本的话,可以访问这个网站http://
www.biblegateway.com ,下面仅以New King James Version为例。
Exodus4:21And the LORD said to Moses, “When you go back to Egypt, see that
you do all those wonders before Pharaoh which I have put in your hand. But I
will harden his heart, so that he will not let the people go.
Exodus7:3 “And I will harden Pharaoh’s heart, and multiply My signs and My
wonders in the ... 阅读全帖
J*******g
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看大家讨论的很好,我只能把网上NET bible上的解说贴过来。里面把Jephthah的女儿
的两种可能结果都做了总结,大家可以自己参考。
之前我不知道的是,对上帝许了愿,是可以收回的Leviticus 27:1-8,不过似乎
Jephthah不知道。
https://net.bible.org/#!bible/Judges+11:32
Jephthah’s vow and victory 11:29-33
God’s Spirit then clothed Jephthah giving the promise of divine enablement
and victory in the approaching encounter with the Ammonite army (v. 29; cf.
3:10; 6:34; 14:6, 19; 1 Sam. 10:10).
“The spirit may be an effective power; but it seems that it is not
automatically effective, at least not i... 阅读全帖
J*******g
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https://net.bible.org/?ref=nbt#!bible/Genesis+3
Who was the tempter? Among evangelicals there are two major views regarding
the identity of the serpent.
1. It was a literal snake.
a. Moses called it a beast of the field (v. 1).
b. Though snakes do not speak, Satan could have spoken through a snake. He
did this through demoniacs in Jesus’ day. Also, a spirit being spoke
through Balaam’s donkey (Num. 22:21-30).
c. God judged a snake in this case (v. 14).[186]
2. It was Satan himself described here... 阅读全帖
J*******g
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https://net.bible.org/?ref=nbt#!bible/Genesis+3
Who was the tempter? Among evangelicals there are two major views regarding
the identity of the serpent.
1. It was a literal snake.
a. Moses called it a beast of the field (v. 1).
b. Though snakes do not speak, Satan could have spoken through a snake. He
did this through demoniacs in Jesus’ day. Also, a spirit being spoke
through Balaam’s donkey (Num. 22:21-30).
c. God judged a snake in this case (v. 14).[186]
2. It was Satan himself described here... 阅读全帖
J*******g
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请参考study bible的解释。
https://net.bible.org/#!bible/Judges+11:28
Jephthah’s vow and victory 11:29-33
God’s Spirit then clothed Jephthah giving the promise of divine enablement
and victory in the approaching encounter with the Ammonite army (v. 29; cf.
3:10; 6:34; 14:6, 19; 1 Sam. 10:10).
“The spirit may be an effective power; but it seems that it is not
automatically effective, at least not in terms of effecting deliverance. The
spirit comes upon or possesses human beings; therefore, it must be emb... 阅读全帖
J*******g
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Nathan Ketsdever, lifelong theological questioner just like you. avid
theology, cultural, & philosophical thinker & reader.
New atheist authors (Dawkins, Harris, Hitchens, et al) and the people who
repeat their arguments (ad infinitum). My problem with these authors, their
followers, and their ideology mostly gets to 3 issues which spread from
those books:
Scientism. The worldview that science explains everything--that the
arts and philosophy don't matter. The Folly of Scientism (Alvin P... 阅读全帖
s*******w
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 《约伯记》
下面开始第四章的学习:
4:1 [hgb] 提 幔 人 以 利 法 回 答 说 ,
[kjv] Then Eliphaz the Temanite answered and said,
[bbe] And Eliphaz the Temanite made answer and said,
4:2 [hgb] 人 若 想 与 你 说 话 , 你 就 厌 烦 吗 ? 但 谁 能 忍 住 不
说 呢 ?
[kjv] If we assay to commune with thee, wilt thou be grieved? but
who can withhold himself from speaking?
[bbe] If one says a word, will it be a weariness to you? but who
is able to keep from saying what is in his mind?
4:3 [hgb] 你 素... 阅读全帖
s******t
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - R.E.M. - Losing My Religion
Lord, do not forsake me;
do not be far from me, my God.
Come quickly to help me,
my Lord and my Savior.
=================================================
PSALM 38
Lord, do not rebuke me in your anger
or discipline me in your wrath.
Your arrows have pierced me,
and your hand has come down on me.
Because of your wrath there is no health in my body;
there is no soundness in my bones because of my sin.
My guilt has overwhelmed me
like a burden too heavy to bear.
My wounds fes... 阅读全帖
J*******g
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 奥古斯丁《忏悔录》10

天主、我的天主,这时我经受了多少忧患、多少欺骗!当时对童年的我提示出正当生活
是在乎听从教诲,为了日后能出人头地,为了擅长于为人间荣华富贵服务的词令。因此
,我被送进学校去读书,那时我还不识读书的用处,但如果读得懈怠,便受责打。大人
们都赞成这种办法,并且以前已有许多人过着这样的生活,为我们准备了艰涩的道路,
强迫我们去走,增加了亚当子孙的辛劳与痛苦。
但是,主,我们也碰到了向你祷告的人,从他们那里,我们也尽可能地学习到、从而意
识到你是一个伟大人物,你虽则未尝呈现在我们面前,却能倾听我们、帮助我们。因为
我在童年时已开始祈求你,作为我的救援和避难所,我是滔滔不绝地向你呼吁,我年龄
虽小却怀着很大的热情,求你保佑我在学校中不受夏楚。每逢你为了我的好没有听从我
时,大人们、甚至决不愿我吃苦的父母们都笑受扑责:这在当时是我重大的患难。
主啊,是否有人怀着如此伟大的精神,以无比的热情依恋着你,我说,是否有人——因
为有时由于愚昧无知也能到此地步——虔诚依恋着你,抱着宏伟的毅力,身受世界上谁
都惊怖战栗、趋避惟恐不及的木马刑、铁爪刑等楚毒的刑罚,而竟处之泰然,甚至还热
爱着战慑失色的人们,... 阅读全帖
J*******g
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 奥古斯丁《忏悔录》18
十七
我的天主,请许我一谈你所赐与我的聪慧和我滥用聪明而做出的傻事。有人给我一项使
我灵魂不安的功课,做得好可得荣誉,不好则失颜面,并以鞭挞威吓我。这课文是叫我
写朱诺女神因不能“阻止特洛伊人的国王进入意大利”[32]愤怒痛心而说的话。我知道
朱诺并未说这类话,但我们不得不想入非非,追随着神话诗歌的踪迹,把原是用韵的诗
,另用散文敷演。谁能体会角色的身份,用最适当的词句描摹出哀愤的情绪,这人便算
高才。
我朗诵时,听到极盛的喝采声,胜过其他许多同学和竞赛者。唉,我真正的生命、我的
天主,这为我有什么用处?这一切不是烟云吗?为训练我的聪明和口才,没有其他方法
吗?主,对你的赞颂,圣经中对你的赞颂之辞,本该支撑我心苗所长的枝叶,不至于被
浮华所攫去,为飞鸟所啄食;因为祭祀叛逆之神不仅限于一种方式。
[32] 引味吉尔《埃涅依斯》卷一,38句。
CHAPTER XVII
27. Bear with me, O my God, while I speak a little of those talents, thy
gifts, and of the follies on which I wa... 阅读全帖
h*********3
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来自主题: ECUST版 - 有做股票投资的校友吗?
Why Are Americans Avoiding Stocks? Ask a Shrink
Sun, Mar 11, 2012 12:18 PM EDT
The headlines say the financial crisis is behind us. The Dow is back to pre-
financial crisis levels. Layoffs are the slowest since the financial crisis,
and car sales the highest since the financial crisis.
So why are Americans still too scared to get back in the stock market?
Because all they hear is "financial crisis."
Every comparison to 2008, even a comparison that's supposedly good, stirs
memories of 2008. For s... 阅读全帖
c****o
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hello, I was not talking to you, if you haven't figured it out. I was
replying to the other guy who's saying "pro" and "semi-pro" video cameras
don't have auto focus, and somehow that fact makes the lack of it a plus,
even for everyday use.
As to control, I was not taking about the control mechanisms on the camera.
I was talking about the tester's folly of doing camera comparos without
basic control of exposure levels between the two samples. Usually, people
will pick a picture that's brighter a... 阅读全帖
N******K
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来自主题: Programming版 - c++11有了shared_ptr,可以当java用了
array of object reference 我说的是这种
Matrix A, B, C, D;
std::vector RefList;
RefList.resize(4);
Reflist[0].ref(A);
Reflist[1].ref(B);
Reflist[2].ref(C);
Reflist[3].ref(D);
你说的这个显然不可以

folly/
p*u
发帖数: 2454
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来自主题: Programming版 - 狗家又open source一个底层C++ library
号称要成为狗家所有的projects的底层,什么Tensorflow,protobuf之类全要换上。不
过它家的code base看着太费劲,不同种类的methods起名的format还不同,蛋疼。
市面上现在有Boost,POCO,EA家的EASTL,F家的Folly,Bloomberg的BDE,大家对STL
有这么不满意吗?C++的底层轮子已经太多了吧,谁来搞点上面的?

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剛才看了看goroutine的評論,發現Csharp的fiber和Java的loom都很有競爭力,Cpp也
有Facebook的Folly庫支持fiber,看來狗家go確實沒有軟家Csharp語言能力強。

发帖数: 1
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剛才看了看goroutine的評論,發現Csharp的fiber和Java的loom都很有競爭力,Cpp也
有Facebook的Folly庫支持fiber,看來狗家go確實沒有軟家Csharp語言能力強。

发帖数: 1
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我上一個貼提到了golang兩大問題:GOGC和goroutine調度,今天開會同事又發現很多
其他性能問題。
1. encryption(對稱或非對稱):golang非常慢,比openssl慢10倍不止,因為openssl
寫了很多assembly,尤其在非x86上面特別明顯。
2. string vectorization:libc有很多手寫SSE/AVX優化,對應的golang根本全靠編譯
器,在x86和非x86上表現都很差,也是10倍不止。
3. 沒有標準threadlocal,這個Cpp14也有很多優化,多核性能差距明顯。
4. golang周邊庫不如cpp穩健,尤其和folly、abseil比較
5. golang不支持硬件加速,因為目前很多硬件廠商都倒向LLVM,它彌補了部分GCC、
ICC的弊病,留給golang的市場空間變小了
結論:
a. 嚴肅項目(尤其跟性能相關的後台項目)還是cpp天下
b. 深度學習應該使用python和cpp
c. 刷題最好用cpp或java,未來cpp/java都會有fiber,比goroutine強
總之golang看起來很好,但是實際性... 阅读全帖

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(如果你不用第三方库)-> 這個才是重點好嗎。
一個語言不是拼自己的標準庫,是拼社區,三方庫,這方面cpp和java完爆golang。
我結論的前提是:當FB和G、M開放他們自己的庫後,cpp競爭力明顯上升。再加上無縫
兼容LLVM,硬件加速未來也沒有問題。有機會去研究一下我提到的folly和abseil再說
吧,golang的三方庫就是開玩笑。

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我上一個貼提到了golang兩大問題:GOGC和goroutine調度,今天開會同事又發現很多
其他性能問題。
1. encryption(對稱或非對稱):golang非常慢,比openssl慢10倍不止,因為openssl
寫了很多assembly,尤其在非x86上面特別明顯。
2. string vectorization:libc有很多手寫SSE/AVX優化,對應的golang根本全靠編譯
器,在x86和非x86上表現都很差,也是10倍不止。
3. 沒有標準threadlocal,這個Cpp14也有很多優化,多核性能差距明顯。
4. golang周邊庫不如cpp穩健,尤其和folly、abseil比較
5. golang不支持硬件加速,因為目前很多硬件廠商都倒向LLVM,它彌補了部分GCC、
ICC的弊病,留給golang的市場空間變小了
結論:
a. 嚴肅項目(尤其跟性能相關的後台項目)還是cpp天下
b. 深度學習應該使用python和cpp
c. 刷題最好用cpp或java,未來cpp/java都會有fiber,比goroutine強
總之golang看起來很好,但是實際性... 阅读全帖

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(如果你不用第三方库)-> 這個才是重點好嗎。
一個語言不是拼自己的標準庫,是拼社區,三方庫,這方面cpp和java完爆golang。
我結論的前提是:當FB和G、M開放他們自己的庫後,cpp競爭力明顯上升。再加上無縫
兼容LLVM,硬件加速未來也沒有問題。有機會去研究一下我提到的folly和abseil再說
吧,golang的三方庫就是開玩笑。
d******e
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来自主题: AnthroLing版 - 求教
1,Justin Rosenberg,The Follies of Globalization Theory.
2, Michael Hardt&Antonio Negri, Empire
3.Thomas Friedman, The Lexus and the Olive Tree
4. Joseph Stiglitz,Globalization and Its Discontents
5. John Gray, False Dawn: The Delusions of Global Capitalism
Some of the basic readings,hope these helpful for you.
p*****m
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http://www.sciencemag.org/content/331/6019/834.full
每个人给2300万刀?一年10个?这帮人没睡醒吧。。。
High-Priced Recruiting of Talent Abroad Raises Hackles
1. Hao Xin
How much would it take to get you to relocate to China? Would 150 million yu
an ($23 million) do the trick? If so, pack your bags—if you are a Nobel lau
reate, that is. Science has learned that the Chinese government will soon an
nounce a new initiative to lure up to 10 winners of prestigious inter nation
al science prizes—including the Nobel Prize—... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: Psychology版 - 对自己说谎有益健康
对自己说谎──按照心理学术语来说就是“自我欺骗”──其实并不一定不好。而且,
采用新实验技术进行的大量研究也表明,几乎所有人都对自己说过谎。
英属哥伦比亚大学(University of British Columbia)心理学教授德尔·保卢斯(Del
Paulhus)表示,自欺并非仅仅是说谎或假装那么简单,而是有更深层次和更为复杂的含
意。他说,我们不愿承认有关自己的某个危险的事实,是受到强大的心理因素的驱动。
保卢斯制定的用于评估自欺倾向的标准已经被广泛采用。
罗格斯大学(Rutgers University)人类学教授罗伯特·特里弗斯(Robert Trivers)表示
,相信自己比实际更有天分或者更聪明,能让我们感染甚至说服他人。特里弗斯在2011
年出版了《愚人愚道》(The Folly of Fools)一书,着重探讨了这个问题。一名高管如
果成功让自己相信自己具有出色的公开演讲能力,也许在演讲时他不仅不再紧张,还会
有出色发挥。特里弗斯说,“他越是装出一副信心十足的样子,人们就越容易相信他真
的很棒。”
研究人员还没有基于大样本人群对自欺比率或者男性女性之间的不同进行比较... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: _Countryside版 - 祝各位版友感恩节快乐!
Sonnet 66
Tired with all these, for restful death I cry,
As to behold desert a beggar born,
And needy nothing trimm'd in jollity,
And purest faith unhappily forsworn,
And gilded honour shamefully misplac'd,
And maiden virtue rudely strumpeted,
And right perfection wrongfully disgrac'd,
And strength by limping sway disabled
And art made tongue-tied by authority,
And folly, doctor-like, controlling skill,
And simple truth miscall'd simplicity,
And captive good attending captain ill:
Tir'd with all
R*******e
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来自主题: _LoTaYu版 - Dirge
没找见原唱,只看到Erik Truffaz的翻唱
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-9ADWqoVYdI
I hate myself for lovin’ you and the weakness that it showed
You were just a painted face on a trip down Suicide Road
The stage was set, the lights went out all around the old hotel
I hate myself for lovin’ you and I’m glad the curtain fell
I hate that foolish game we played and the need that was expressed
And the mercy that you showed to me, who ever would have guessed?
I went out on Lower Broadway and I felt that place within
... 阅读全帖
j**n
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陈雪梅的濒死体验(摘录):
8 年前的一次“灵魂之旅”令我刻骨铭心,并且彻底改变了我。自幼父教甚严,马克思
主义的学说根深蒂固。在大学里就积极入党,工作以后也有很大的企图心,一心想做又
红又专的接班人。所以对唯心主义的东西一直排斥,任何宗教迷信的东西从不沾边。然
而令人难以置信的事,却真真切切地发生在我这个死硬的无神论者身上了。躺在病床上
,护士为我打上了点滴,就出去外间招呼别的病人了。约莫半分钟左右,伴随一阵刺耳
的火车一般的耳鸣声,我忽然坠入一个黑暗的隧道,并向前猛冲。巨大的恐惧袭来,我
怎么了?刚才还好好的,怎么一下这样了?想停停不住,想回回不去,想喊喊不出,试
图挣扎却做不到。我感觉自己是某种物质微粒,在一个永无止境的循环轨道里猛冲着。
尽管我的身躯躺在刚才的世界,我却进入了一个与之隔离的空间。而我很清醒地意识到
,我不是做梦,是吊针出了问题!青霉素过敏!意识到这一点已经太迟了,我已经身不
由己。我吓坏了!惊惶、无可奈何、绝望地在似乎永无止境的隧道里漂浮着。我明明知
道我的躯体依旧躺在病床上,而我已经回不去了。这便是死亡么?如果是,那么我为什
么这么清醒?只是与刚才的世界隔绝,... 阅读全帖
j**n
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陈雪梅的濒死体验(摘录):
8 年前的一次“灵魂之旅”令我刻骨铭心,并且彻底改变了我。自幼父教甚严,马克思
主义的学说根深蒂固。在大学里就积极入党,工作以后也有很大的企图心,一心想做又
红又专的接班人。所以对唯心主义的东西一直排斥,任何宗教迷信的东西从不沾边。然
而令人难以置信的事,却真真切切地发生在我这个死硬的无神论者身上了。躺在病床上
,护士为我打上了点滴,就出去外间招呼别的病人了。约莫半分钟左右,伴随一阵刺耳
的火车一般的耳鸣声,我忽然坠入一个黑暗的隧道,并向前猛冲。巨大的恐惧袭来,我
怎么了?刚才还好好的,怎么一下这样了?想停停不住,想回回不去,想喊喊不出,试
图挣扎却做不到。我感觉自己是某种物质微粒,在一个永无止境的循环轨道里猛冲着。
尽管我的身躯躺在刚才的世界,我却进入了一个与之隔离的空间。而我很清醒地意识到
,我不是做梦,是吊针出了问题!青霉素过敏!意识到这一点已经太迟了,我已经身不
由己。我吓坏了!惊惶、无可奈何、绝望地在似乎永无止境的隧道里漂浮着。我明明知
道我的躯体依旧躺在病床上,而我已经回不去了。这便是死亡么?如果是,那么我为什
么这么清醒?只是与刚才的世界隔绝,... 阅读全帖
s****a
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我怎么一开始是 lupron 呀。我看护士给我的药单子里没有你说的 folli什么的。我现
在简直糊涂死了。
w*******y
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Best Buy will be selling Red Dead Redemption Game of the Year Edition for $
29.99 this Saturday!
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of Red Dead Redemption comes packed with additional bonus content,
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