c*t
发帖数: 238 | 1 How to raise kids is absolutely a personal choice. you do not have the right
to point finger at others just because they do things diffirently.
Another (non-tranditional) aspect to the spending every precious moment with
the kid issue:
For some grand parents, it is too brutal to not be able to see grandkids for
years. In some senses, we are selfish enough to stay in the USA and leave
the family behind. If grand parent does want to keep the kids for a short
period of time, bite the bullet.
If par... 阅读全帖 |
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s*******l
发帖数: 2093 | 2 貌似很有道理的样子。
我也许有一天也被迫要送宝宝回国，可以用你这些点来安慰自己一下，虽然我认为这些
其实只是借
口。如果宝宝会开口说话，你就知道他到底想怎样了。有些人是急得恨不得一生出来就
扔回国养呢。
right
moment with
grandkids for
leave
short
greatly
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j*******e
发帖数: 154 | 3 I asked myself the same question "损人不利己。难道就为了让好好的夫妻两离婚么
?为了让自
things for many years. One possible answer is she only loves herself - not
her son, not her grandkids. :) |
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f******g
发帖数: 70 | 4 Hate to say this, but you really have to grow up and take your own
responsibility. YOU are the mom, not grandparents. We have all been there,
done that. Kids grow fast, pretty soon, you will regret that you did not
spend time to take care of them and bond with them at night.
Honestly, grandparents don't have the obligation to tend to grandkids. You
are lucky enough to have their help. Think about the other jms who did not
have grandparents to help out... |
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d**********2
发帖数: 26 | 5 2.
I was raised by my grandmother. Only lived with my parents on and off for
about 7 years total. I was the only child. My mother is the queen of the
house. She always get the best of everything including food. She picks first
, then the remaining belongs to me and my father. She thinks I got spoiled
by grandma and she wanted to correct that.
As a mother, I still think my mother put herself first before everything
else. I tried not to ask her for help because I will get rejected. I got a
nanny ... 阅读全帖 |
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s**********h
发帖数: 436 | 6 The problem is "从小这个孩子就不喜欢把东西放在嘴里", "她会拿
起来试着给大人". A grandkid of one of my colleagues has a similar yet more
severe problem. The boy is 14(?) months old and the doctor is suspicious
that he has some reflux problems.
How's your baby's weight gain? The boy was only 17 pounds at 1 year simply
because he had no interest in eating/drinking. |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 7 傻着喽
那多半也是因为心疼自己的儿子/grandkid吧
人的天性，俺不太相信爱儿媳超越爱自己闺女的，更不要说超越爱儿子了....
各家情况不同，媳妇做任何决定自有伊自己的定夺，不好下结论说媳妇的不是哎 |
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i**e
发帖数: 19242 | 10 所以我说她阅历浅看人不透呗
她父母的为人，到这边来的可能的言行，这个妹妹自己心里应该有个底的
有了底，就不会有不那么切合实际的想法了
期望和现实没有太大的落差，就不会有失意和抱怨了
感情上的事，我只看得出来这位妹妹有怨言
//以前父母跟子女的感情关系，以及是否公平，我看不清不妄言
我看的是facts
只要下面这些事是真实的
不是这位妹妹编造的，其他的事，对我来说都是小枝小节
1.父母主动找闺女要钱，且说这点钱啥也干不了
2.头次见面的grandkids,没有任何表示
人这一辈子，天天得跟钱打交道
即便是跟自己的子女，也会有金钱上的”来往“
我个人认为，一个人对金钱的态度方式，还是挺说明问题的
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S****h
发帖数: 558 | 11 We talk with our parents daily via skype/QQ. They want to see our their
grandkids. Our old webcam is a old Creative and not very good. The
bandwidth to them is not that great anyway, so we certainly do not need a
super high-def one. What would be a good one for (~$20) for skype/qq with
China? Thanks. |
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A**********o
发帖数: 996 | 12 这个韩国烂女人很无耻啊
外发了一个老爷爷（two grandkids) |
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m*****1
发帖数: 500 | 13 Agree!
Steve Johnson said:
Get a brain. First, there have been at least 532 deaths by taser since 2001
so just because she did not die does not make it right, or not dangerous.
Second, THEY HAD HER DOWN ON THE GROUND. IT WAS EXCESSIVE FORCE, and while
there may have been no permanent injury, it inflicted a lot of unnecessary
pain. I don't care who you have heard from, just look at the video. What she
did prior to being put on the ground has NOTHING to do with how they
treated her once she was al... 阅读全帖 |
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m****s
发帖数: 8992 | 14 I'm glad I'll get to tell my grandkids, Grandpa saw Brett Favre play!
什么？ 山里有湖？ 那TM不是爽死了？
有缘相聚又何必常相欺，到无缘时分离，又何必常相忆。
Oh, say! can you see by the dawn's early light
What so proudly we hailed at the twilight's last gleaming;
Whose broad stripes and bright stars, through the perilous fight,
O'er the ramparts we watched were so gallantly streaming?
And the rocket's red glare, the bombs bursting in air,
Gave proof through the night that our flag was still there:
Oh, say! does that star-spangled... 阅读全帖 |
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m****s
发帖数: 8992 | 15 I'm glad I'll get to tell my grandkids, Grandpa saw Brett Favre play!
什么？ 山里有湖？ 那TM不是爽死了？
有缘相聚又何必常相欺，到无缘时分离，又何必常相忆。
Oh, say! can you see by the dawn's early light
What so proudly we hailed at the twilight's last gleaming;
Whose broad stripes and bright stars, through the perilous fight,
O'er the ramparts we watched were so gallantly streaming?
And the rocket's red glare, the bombs bursting in air,
Gave proof through the night that our flag was still there:
Oh, say! does that star-spangled... 阅读全帖 |
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m****s
发帖数: 8992 | 16 I'm glad I'll get to tell my grandkids, Grandpa saw Brett Favre play!
什么？ 山里有湖？ 那TM不是爽死了？
有缘相聚又何必常相欺，到无缘时分离，又何必常相忆。
Oh, say! can you see by the dawn's early light
What so proudly we hailed at the twilight's last gleaming;
Whose broad stripes and bright stars, through the perilous fight,
O'er the ramparts we watched were so gallantly streaming?
And the rocket's red glare, the bombs bursting in air,
Gave proof through the night that our flag was still there:
Oh, say! does that star-spangled... 阅读全帖 |
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j*a
发帖数: 14423 | 17 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
fuerdai (fu) 于 (Wed Nov 10 14:19:49 2010, 美东) 提到:
上周末在CHERRY HILL那里的COACH里购物,看到一个自己很喜欢的样式的包，美中不足
的是颜色有点老气，于是问店员有没有别的颜色，店员说她可以去后面STOCK ROOM里看看。我在等她
时突然看到另外一个颜色同一款式的包在门口橱窗DISPLAY里。于是就走过去看，不小心越过了那个
距离店门口几尺的防盗系统，而且手里还拎着原来的那个包，于是防盗系统突然发出报警声，我解释说
是去看那个DISPLAY的包，店员坚持说我故意偷盗，不让我走。警察来了后，我被捕拘留，说以为
包的价格昂贵，我是GRAND THEFT，被警车送到警局按手印，照片，被拘留了一晚，第二天保释。 警
察说下月要出庭审讯。大家说我该怎么办啊？我现在又急又气。
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s****2
发帖数: 4569 | 18 great great... grandkid!? |
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d******o
发帖数: 147 | 19 OK to go to other states.
If your kids can't use up all the 529, you can pass it to anyone for example
grandkids. |
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k****m
发帖数: 4670 | 20 if you don't do something now, what will happen to your grandchildren. If
you think it is hard for your kids, it will be even tougher for your
grandkids
唉，是的 |
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s*****g
发帖数: 939 | 22 Looking for a nanny to take care of an easy-going 11 month boy starting from
mid-May. Can live in or commute daily. Preferably elderly parents who have
experience taking care of grandkids and live in or near Silver Spring, MD.
Negotiable pay. |
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s****r
发帖数: 5546 | 23 I absolutely can't figure out their thoughts. Cruz had a great
opportunity that most other players dream of: making a great catch to
end a WS. His grandkids could watch him in ESPN classic . Yet he'll
be on ESPN classic in a different way. |
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s****r
发帖数: 5546 | 24 I absolutely can't figure out their thoughts. Cruz had a great
opportunity that most other players dream of: making a great catch to
end a WS. His grandkids could watch him in ESPN classic . Yet he'll
be on ESPN classic in a different way. |
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A*****a
发帖数: 52743 | 25 Grandkids, .... 20-30 years from now |
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m******r
发帖数: 9604 | 26 40 years from today, when my grandkids ask me 'grandpa, what made you decide
to become from a jogger to a runner?', my answer will be 'a marathon report
by a guy named baiji'. |
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o*******r
发帖数: 4921 | 27 unfortunately, he will. because he will not understand why his kids get much
better life but can't work as hard as him. He will repeat his stories over
and over again with his grandkids because his kids don't want to listen to
him any more.
That's just the life.
a |
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i*********5
发帖数: 19210 | 28 Just watched it myself. Laughing my ass off.
"What's a pub?"
"What's a girlfriend?"
"I won't have any grandkids. My sperm count is lower than my resting heart
rate."
And I definitely agree with you, Baiji. 100km ultra run is tougher than a
full ironman. LT100 is simply "beyond category".
But in my opinion, Ironman would be more fun to train and race than ultra.
(I'm still laughing ...)
"Ironman is harder to start because you need to be earning a 6-figures just
to be able to afford the stupid bik... 阅读全帖 |
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d******d
发帖数: 16 | 29 LMAO!
You are the most balanced dude I've ever run into... would love to meet you
in person one day! Let me know if you swim around NOLA area.
Might be good time to buy AAPL again... compare to those who bought at
opening price, you are WAY ahead! Keep it up and double down! If you live
long enough, you might get to see grandkids of those lobsters! LOL
(lurker back down) |
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d******e
发帖数: 292 | 30 算了半天,jelimy游记里面把我要说的基本都说完了,但是好不容易出游一次,不写个总结
又怕将来自己记成一笔糊涂帐(现在看看冰山们的照片就有点搞不清楚是哪一个了).
决定把写的重点放在休闲上吧,一般说来,懒人随着年岁的增长,对于旅行意义的看法越来
越朝休闲的方向shift,本次旅行见到好多银发苍苍的老人带着grandkids游玩,好生羡慕!
6/27 "右边的游客看mt mckinley,左边的游客看prince william sound"
UA居然没有怎么晚点,早上7点的飞机,当地时间1点多到了,和中部三个小时时差.
受riemann和not的启发,我们带了很多中国店零食,还做了荞麦面的便当当飞机上的中饭.
饭吃的香,精神就越发的好.飞机快到anchorage的时候,右边的云层上面出现一个巨大的银
色山峰和一群银色的黑色的小山峰,飞机一条大船,在礁石中航行.所有人都特别兴奋,去拿
相机拍照,只有我吓的要死,虽然知道有导航系统,但是还是觉得飞机会撞到山.这时候飞机
乘务员让右边的旅客仔细欣赏,因为这就是著名的mckinley了,他又补充,左边的旅客也不
要着急,呆会儿你们将会在空中 |
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d*********o
发帖数: 6388 | 31 http://www.washingtonpost.com/local/a-hotel-room-of-her-own--ev
Joy Bricker certainly tested the limits of the “extended stay” hotel. Ten
years ago — on Aug. 4, 2001 — she checked into the TownePlace Suites by
Marriott in Falls Church. Only now is she finally checking out.
No electricity bill. No cable bill. No hassle. Plus, complimentary
continental breakfast. (She negotiated a rate lower than the $139-a-night
price for a two-bedroom suite.)
She’s outlasted six different managers and, in the pr... 阅读全帖 |
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s******M
发帖数: 3435 | 33 but I guess after seeing her grandkid, safe/pretty/precious/HEALTHY
I think you may be fine
but just seperate the kid and rabbit a little bit
when your mom is here
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b********e
发帖数: 757 | 34 Xie xie tongzi men~~!!
I think my mom thinks the grandkids are Zui Da...:( |
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x********u
发帖数: 15396 | 35 IF I DIDN'T HAVE MY DOGS OR CATS:
I could walk around the yard barefoot in safety
My house could be carpeted instead of tiled and laminated
All flat surfaces, clothing, furniture and cars would be free of hair
When the doorbell rings, it wouldn't sound like a kennel
When the doorbell rings, I could get to the door without wading through
fuzzy bodies who got there before me
I could sit on the couch and bed the way I wanted without taking into
consideration how much space several fur bodies would ... 阅读全帖 |
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F******7
发帖数: 4765 | 36 Skippy lived to be 26
We had Skippy from kittenhood, he lived to train many litters of cats to the
rules of the house. He also trained Sparky, our dog, that cats ruled the
house.
He looked pretty good until his last year. Somehow he would make it up on
to the breakfast bar every day and meow, meow, meow every time anyone walked
by.
Then he lost one of his fangs...giving him a really odd look as he meowed
all day.
No one could believe how old he was. I think, if he had lasted another year
, he... 阅读全帖 |
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p******e
发帖数: 17163 | 37 I'm ok. like I say, my grandmom has around 15 grand kids. and she certainly
did not put most time on me.
that said, I have to say, I am relatively better connected to her than other
grandkids. at least I listen to her.
I didn't done much for her, maybe I shld say I've done nothing for her. and
I can't do anything for her.
I know I'm bad, but I know I'm no worse than the other 14 cuz at least I
listen to what she's gotta say..well, at least sometime. |
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l*****a
发帖数: 38403 | 38 作者这样自言自语很正常，有幻听就不太正常了
跑到amazon就正好看到三个review
0 of 2 people found the following review helpful:
1.0 out of 5 stars Not for this Christian, February 26, 2011
By R. Whiten - See all my reviews
(REAL NAME)
Amazon Verified Purchase(What's this?)
This review is from: Conversations With God : An Uncommon Dialogue (Book 1)
(Hardcover)
A friend talked me into reading all 3, it had me confused for a while, she
honestly went nuts after reading them. I had
to end our friendship and I gave a... 阅读全帖 |
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m*****a
发帖数: 629 | 39 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
Summerslim (夏纤) 于 (Mon Feb 26 21:14:42 2007) 提到:
今天会了一个老美朋友，信教的，非常非常nice的一个人，认识了有两三年了，有节日
或非节日family活动的时候会叫上我，所以认识了她的全家人，上至90岁老父母，下至
哥哥妹妹and in-laws,以及女儿，外甥，外甥女，甚至几岁的grandkids....做这番描
述是想说，她跟我交往并不是为了传教，我也很enjoy getting together with her.
所以今天她跟我说起Jesus的时候，我并没有什么被劝信教的反感，所以就认真地听了
，不像以前去Bible study，左耳进右耳出。
然后她提到了把control交给God。你pray，然后按神的指引去做，然后就把一切交给
God，什么都不用管。
这种论调也不是第一次听到了，可是今天听着的时候忽然觉得这样的生活是那么的有吸
引力，不必担心，没有焦虑，只有relief的感觉和mind的peacefulness.......
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l**********t
发帖数: 5754 | 40
it is so wrong to equal faith to science because they serve different
purpose and answer (for human) different questions. But they share common
ground (call it faith/belief/ or assumption).
where you were 2000 years ago, your faith isn't going ANYWHERE
OK, I cherish things that are eternal and of absolute truth and I can share
with my kids and grandkids, and you appreciate things that are ever
changning, temporal and of relative truth and changes every decade (as far
as the biological text book... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****e
发帖数: 1345 | 41 看streamy mm写兰色理想，偶也造次一篇。而偶的，多半是不能实现的梦想罢了。
翻偶的衣柜，满满的灰灰的tshirt,jeans，几乎找不到亮色，seems those not my type.
可那一个梦想却是橙色的：
偶想开一家幼儿园，成天看cucu的娃娃们满地跑，看他们灿烂的笑。
老后悔怎么当初没当个幼儿园老师什么的，比起现在这个冷冰冰的实验室要幸福多了吧。
虽然尚是梦想，广告还是要打的。那个phd的娃，还有前些日子嚷嚷着要女儿的，adhere?
报名报名来啊，偶guarantee是个顶好顶好的笑眯眯阿姨 :))
怕的是，等偶的幼儿园真的能开张了，都成笑眯眯奶奶了，笑的满脸褶子 :))))
welcome you guys' grandkids.
hiahiahia |
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g***j
发帖数: 40861 | 42 【 以下文字转载自 Family 讨论区 】
发信人: delia1542 (月棠), 信区: Family
标 题: 美国各州一句话概括！
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Dec 28 22:48:48 2011, 美东)
Alabama: Yes, We Have Electricity
阿拉巴马州：是的，我们有电！(是美国最穷的地方，也被美国认为是最土的地方~)
Alaska: 11,623 Eskimos Can't Be Wrong!
阿拉斯加州：一万一千六百二十三名爱斯基摩人是不会错的！
Arizona: But It's A Dry Heat
亚利桑那州：可是，这里的热是燥热呀！（据说很多女生到外头上身都几乎不穿~）
Arkansas: Literacy Ain't Everything
阿肯色州：有文化并不能代表一切！（虽然没啥文化，Clinton可是那里出来的哦）
California: By 30, Our Women Have More Plastic Than Your Honda
加利福尼亚州：到30岁的时候，我们的妇女使用的整形塑胶的数量将会超过本... 阅读全帖 |
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Y******u
发帖数: 1912 | 43 u never gonna become a winner if you approach things like this.
as a general observation, IT people usually think things from their own
perspective instead of from mainstream customers: "I think acronis is better
than mac built in recovery tools"
Maybe it is true, but majority of customer base of any consumer products don
't know anything about "acronis" or want to spend time and efforts to learn
it.
Give you an example, my mom had many cellphone (she always lose phone).
Everytime she lose all t... 阅读全帖 |
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S****h
发帖数: 558 | 44 【 以下文字转载自 shopping 讨论区 】
发信人: Shiloh (Shiloh), 信区: shopping
标 题: Recommend a good webcam for skype/qq with China
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Oct 4 01:12:10 2011, 美东)
We talk with our parents daily via skype/QQ. They want to see our their
grandkids. Our old webcam is a old Creative and not very good. The
bandwidth to them is not that great anyway, so we certainly do not need a
super high-def one. What would be a good one for (~$20) for skype/qq with
China? Thanks. |
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t*d
发帖数: 1290 | 45 【 以下文字转载自 History 讨论区 】
发信人: sgld (sgld), 信区: History
标 题: Re: 时间是绝对的吗？
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Sep 3 17:51:42 2011, 美东)
转一篇文章。
Ten Things Everyone Should Know About Time
by Sean
“Time” is the most used noun in the English language, yet it remains a
mystery. We’ve just completed an amazingly intense and rewarding
multidisciplinary conference on the nature of time, and my brain is swimming
with ideas and new questions. Rather than trying a summary (the talks will
be online soon), here’s my stab at ... 阅读全帖 |
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e****0
发帖数: 678 | 46 支持LZ
建议lz改一下TITLE， FAILURERS 改为2012 COURAGEOUS MATCH GROUP.
people who did not match are not failurers!
We all are human, and it is normal to get frustrated after such a big loss
especially we have been through a lot. I believe that we all will stand up
again with our heads held high and tails up because we are all strong tigers
. Maybe it will not happen right away because we have to mourn our loss,
yet it will happen soon and I AM SURE THAT WE WILL ALL FIGHT BACK!
It doesnot matter whether we... 阅读全帖 |
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e****0
发帖数: 678 | 47 觉得有必要单开一帖，闭关之前不得不说啊！
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建议lz改一下TITLE， FAILURERS 改为2012 COURAGEOUS MATCH GROUP.
people who did not match are not failurers!
We all are human, and it is normal to get frustrated after such a big loss
especially we have been through a lot. I believe that we all will stand up
again with our heads held high and tails up because we are all strong tigers.
Maybe it will not happen right away because we have to mourn our loss,
yet it will happen soon and I AM SURE THAT WE... 阅读全帖 |
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w*******y
发帖数: 60932 | 48 My grand kids love playing with magnets on the fridge and filing cabinet so
I was enticed to buy this:
Life Montage Animal Magnet Set:
http://store.discovery.com/detail.php?p=264622&v=discovery
Says it was $20, Now $2
I signed another email up bringing it to to 1.79. 10% off order:
http://store.discovery.com/register.php
Total Order: 3 Magnet Sets Shipped: $10.32
I also bought 3 to compensate for $4.95 shipping which is aggravating and I
could not get around so will give 2 to visiting grandkid... 阅读全帖 |
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b******k
发帖数: 1773 | 49 haha, 我对她的最大要求，是给我生2个 grandkids
其它的，都好商量 :) |
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g****n
发帖数: 1786 | 50 最近作的课题，接触到很多能源的信息。
地球的储油，2125年就用光了。
我不禁想，will my grandkids suffer from that? |
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