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J*******g
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 如果my1 是真基督徒
Matthew 7
New International Version (NIV)
Judging Others
7 “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. 2 For in the same way you judge
others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be
measured to you.
3 “Why do you look at the speck of sawdust in your brother’s eye and pay
no attention to the plank in your own eye? 4 How can you say to your brother
, ‘Let me take the speck out of your eye,’ when all the time there is a
plank in your own eye? 5 You hypocrite, first take the plan... 阅读全帖
s*******w
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - Billy Graham
Jan 14
Nehemiah 8 (New International Version)
10 Nehemiah said, "Go and enjoy choice food and sweet drinks, and send some
to those who have nothing prepared. This day is sacred to our Lord. Do not
grieve, for the joy of the LORD is your strength."
========================================================
Like happiness, joy cannot be pursued. It comes from within. It is a state
of being. It does not depend on circumstances, but triumphs over
circumstances. It produces a gentleness of spirit and a... 阅读全帖
C*******r
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Warren的儿子也常常在Warren的教会服侍,大家都替他祷告,他怎么到头来还是开枪自
尽了呢?
Rick Warren's Son Dies: Matthew Warren's Death Sparks Outpouring of Prayers
From Christians, Leaders
News of the death of Rick Warren's son, Matthew Warren, has generated a
massive outpouring of sympathy and tributes from Christian leaders as well
as thousands of others on social media sites Facebook and Twitter, with many
offering their prayers for the Saddleback Church pastor and his family.
The 27-year-old son of Pastor Rick Warren is said to ... 阅读全帖
s*******w
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 《约伯记》
下面开始第四章的学习:
4:1 [hgb] 提 幔 人 以 利 法 回 答 说 ,
[kjv] Then Eliphaz the Temanite answered and said,
[bbe] And Eliphaz the Temanite made answer and said,
4:2 [hgb] 人 若 想 与 你 说 话 , 你 就 厌 烦 吗 ? 但 谁 能 忍 住 不
说 呢 ?
[kjv] If we assay to commune with thee, wilt thou be grieved? but
who can withhold himself from speaking?
[bbe] If one says a word, will it be a weariness to you? but who
is able to keep from saying what is in his mind?
4:3 [hgb] 你 素... 阅读全帖
J*******g
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http://news.yahoo.com/arkansas-tornado-victims-message-of-hope-
“She is in a tremendous amount of emotional pain,” Sowards said. “But she
is not in despair. There's a difference, and the difference is Christ.”
Before leaving, Sowards asked Smith, 28, if she wanted her to take her photo
in case she someday wanted to go public with how she persevered. The
grieving mother agreed with one stipulation.
“Show them now,” Smith said from her hospital bed. “Show them what my God
can overcome. Show them n... 阅读全帖
l**********d
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 上帝为何改变主意了
神會「後悔」嗎?
周永健
聖經曾多次提到耶和華「後悔」。難道全能的神會因做錯決定而「後悔」嗎?
不改變的神
聖經所啟示的,是一位昔在、今在、永在、永不改變的神。這位神說:「我──耶
和華是不改變的」(瑪三6);「在祂並沒有改變,也沒有轉動的影兒」(雅一17)。
神的不變是指祂的屬性,如聖潔、慈愛、良善、公義、憐憫,以及祂的旨意等,都是不
改變的,「因為祂不能背乎自己」(提後二13)。從這方面來看,神是不會改變、不會
後悔的。「神的恩賜和選召是沒有後悔的。」(羅一一29)巴蘭的預言也為此作見證:
「神非人,必不致說謊,也非人子,必不致後悔。祂說話豈不照著行呢?祂發言豈不要
成就呢?」(民二三19)
神在何事上「後悔」?
不過,聖經的確有些地方提到神「後悔」了。最早的有關經文說到神「後悔」造人
。「耶和華見人在地上罪惡很大,終日所思想的盡都是惡,耶和華就後悔造人在地上,
心中憂傷。耶和華說:『我要將所造的人……都從地上除滅,因為我造他們後悔了。』
」(創六5-7)我們又讀到神「後悔」立了掃羅作以色列王。「耶和華的話臨到撒母耳
說:『我立掃羅為王,我後悔了;因為他轉去不跟從我,不遵守我的命令... 阅读全帖
S*******h
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【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: StanMarsh (ojo), 信区: USANews
标 题: 川普恭贺伊拉克收复摩苏尔∶IS已时日无多
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Jul 11 16:01:46 2017, 美东)
White House full statement:
Today, Iraqi Security Forces, supported by the United States and the Global
Coalition, liberated the city of Mosul from its long nightmare under the
rule of ISIS. We congratulate Prime Minister Haider al-Abadi, the Iraqi
Security Forces, and all Iraqis for their victory over terrorists who are
the enemies of all civilized people.
We mourn ... 阅读全帖
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"The Gospel of John reminds us that there is no greater love than to lay
down one's life for a friend. The memory of those who displayed the ultimate
expression of love in the midst of an unimaginable act of hate will never
fade. Their examples will serve as an eternal reminder that the American
spirit cannot and will not ever be broken. In the days ahead, we will grieve
as a nation, we will honor the memory of those lost as a nation, and we
will come together, united as one nation, under God, a... 阅读全帖
j****i
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来自主题: Wisdom版 - Life After Death
I'm reading Deepak Chopra's book in grieving my father, a frequent surfer of
this board, who passed away recently. It's interesting to hear an Indian
interpretation of many concepts of Buddhism, e.g. karma, enlightenment,
incarcenation, etc. The book offers so much comfort by helping me
understand his form of existence now and feel his spirits around me. The
book is so beautifully written --
The afterlife is a place of newfound clarity.
The afterlife isn't static. We continue to evolve and g
T*******y
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I know how horrible cancer is, as I have friends and extended family members
who had those. I have lost friends at young age, so I know how unexpected
death can leave people grieving for a long time. I am not talking about the
cancers or poisons that are out of our control, that's indeed more sad.
I am talking about us, right now, in a relatively safe environment, with
enough resources, etc. That's perhaps more relevant to us.
Are you working for those people in the cancer center? Perhaps you co... 阅读全帖
T*******y
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Thank you so much for sharing such a personal story! I think that your grandma might have felt relieved, although also sad, to have accompanied your grandpa till the last.
My own grandpa was more into IChing, and he knew when was his time to go. The first time he got very sick, he knew that if he got over it, he would be fine for many years; the next time he got sick though, he knew that it was his time to go. With acceptance, death is not fearful, although grieving takes time anyway.
And, yes, ... 阅读全帖
Y**u
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oh...you are very welcome..
en.. Speaking of that, the 意识 is like a hand with five fingers. The
indivuals like you and me are just like the indivual finger. There is only
one existence of hand,but finger, made of 意识, turns out to be too smart to
think they are not connected as a whole, and they are on their own. But
nomatter what they do, there is one hand afterall..
the same metephor can goes to the different parts of the body, and the love
is simple when the hand help scrathing the itching bac... 阅读全帖
Y**u
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TrueStory (不是幸福的坑不挖) 于 (Wed Nov 23 14:09:26 2011, 美东) 提到:
Carl Jung published a lot after this NDE, and this was one of his two major "creative" illnesses he experienced (suffered or blessed). The other one was the deep depression he experienced after his break-up with Freud (several of Freud's former disci
committed suicide after such break-ups.)
Update: I found a link with the same content, but perhaps it's easier to read than the pure text below:
h... 阅读全帖
n*****a
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来自主题: Wisdom版 - 开贴扯 '大乘佛化人生' 了
Translation by Bhikkhuni Uppalavanna
1. I heard thus. At one time, the Blessed One was living in the
squirrels' sanctuary, in the bamboo grove in Rajagaha.
2. At that time venerable Godhika was living on the Black Rock on the
side of Isigili.
3. Venerable Godhika while abiding diligent to dispel touched the
release of mind in concentration. Then venerable Godhika fell away
from that release of mind in concentration.
4. For the second time venerable Godhika while abiding diligent to
dispel touche... 阅读全帖
S**U
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Dhammapada verses 206-208
It's good to see Noble Ones.
Happy their company ─ always.
Through not seeing fools constantly,
constantly one would be happy.
For, living with a fool,
one grieves a long time.
Painful is communion with fools,
as with an enemy ─ always.
Happy is communion with the enlightened,
as with a gathering of kin.
So: the enlightened man ─ discerning, learned,
enduring, dutiful, noble, intelligent, a man of integrity:
follow him
─ one of this sort ─
as the moon, the path of the z... 阅读全帖
B**T
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少女时代受老爸影响而学的米国歌,多是天才音乐人斯蒂芬·福斯特(Stephen C. Foster,
1826-1864)的杰作。 福斯特一生有约200首作品,而且几乎一手包办作曲填词。
1846年福斯特刚满20岁,便以《噢!苏珊娜》(Oh! Susanna)趁早成名,年轻有为。
两年后美西发现金矿,引各地淘金客竞折腰,争先恐后,蜂拥而至加利福尼亚金山。
《噢!苏珊娜》顿成西进序曲,一时英雄莫问出处,均踊跃自报家门是阿拉巴马人,
目的地是路易斯安那州的纽奥尔良:
I come from Alabama with my banjo on my knee, 我从阿拉巴马来呀,班卓琴不离身,
I'm going to Louisiana, my true love for to see.
为了寻找我的真爱,正奔路易斯安纳去。
It rained all night the day I left,the weather it was dry.
... 阅读全帖
R****n
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来自主题: Biology版 - 第一作者自杀
rest in peace. Too sad! Seem like that he got a position in Taiwan already.
**August 8, 2012** It is with great sadness that we acknowledge and grieve
the untimely death of our friend and former colleague Dr. Yu-yi Lin. Yu-yi
was a Johns Hopkins BCMB graduate student and post-doctoral fellow in Jef
Boeke’s lab. He was an outstanding and very productive scientist, who
pioneered much of this TCNP’s work on genetic and protein microarray
approaches to defining lysine acetyltransferase and deacety... 阅读全帖
L*D
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来自主题: ChineseMed版 - Clare Hanrahan: Mugwort 艾草
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_g2603/is_0005/ai_26030005
Encyclopedia of Alternative Medicine
Mugwort
by Clare Hanrahan
Apr 06, 2001
Mugwort (Artemisia vulgaris) also known as common artemisia, felon herb, St.
John's herb, chrysanthemum weed, sailor's tobacco, and moxa is a perennial
member of the Compositae family, and a close relative of wormwood (Artemisia
absinthium L.). Mugwort's generic name is from that of the Greek moon
goddess Artemis, a patron of women. Mugwort has long been con... 阅读全帖
F*******I
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来自主题: MedicalCareer版 - 主诉
I love you!
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zhAcDzH_HGo&list=PLnab4pCP1MZp_
xuEiLqZ3oQwXFwrywdCC&index=17
"I Love You"
SARAH MCLACHLAN
I have a smile
stretched from ear to ear
to see you walking down the road
we meet at the lights
I stare for a while
the world around us disappears
just you and me
on my island of hope
a breath between us could be miles
let me surround you
my sea to your shore
let me be the calm you seek
oh and every time I'm close to you
there's too much I can't say
and you just ... 阅读全帖
t*****r
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我在cuny的hunter的RN-BSN,suny和cuny学费一样,
留学生是415一个学分,绿卡减半,下学期好像又要涨一点,
suny是州立系统,cuny是市立系统,
我一个同学BMCC毕业的在我们program,
他BMCC用的paper都可以拿过来接着交,
每次只要挖挖以前的paper拿来交就行了,
说明ASN和BSN很多课其实都差不多的,
就是听说suny downstate学校那边很多黑人,
你实地跑一次去看看,但是他们有自己的medical center,
我选hunter因为地铁方便,在曼哈顿,大部分都是白人和亚裔,部分黑人,
SUNY他们那个program prefer有绿卡的学生,要申请要尽量早点。
RN-BSN Nursing的课都是每学期几个paper APA format,
老师都会提前告诉你要写什么,
最多就是有个期中考,有些没有期中考,
期末一般没有考试,平时就是听老师讲课,
看看老师给的文章,做几个online的certificate考试,
最多一个paper,然后期末就是group presentation。
这种都是给边上班边工作的护士设立的,
很简... 阅读全帖
c****b
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lz的心情有点像grief的第二阶段。抑郁症那么顽固,不是简单的关心就能解决的。lz
节哀啊,千万不要再出现二次伤害。你还有家人,孩子和妈妈。
http://www.cancersurvivors.org/Coping/end%20term/stages.htm
Five Stages Of Grief
1. Denial and Isolation.
At first, we tend to deny the loss has taken place, and may withdraw from
our usual social contacts. This stage may last a few moments, or longer.
2. Anger.
The grieving person may then be furious at the person who inflicted the hurt
(even if she's dead), or at the world, for letting it happen. He may be
angry with himse
o**********e
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来自主题: CivilSociety版 - 迈阿密华童被杀
Aftermath. I find it hard to even finish reading without crying:
http://miami.cbslocal.com/2013/11/29/mother-grieves-10-year-old
z*******n
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来自主题: MobileDevelopment版 - [Other]大西雅图人才济济
26-year-old Seattle woman charged with rape of man
POSTED 6:25 PM, SEPTEMBER 12, 2014, BY Q13 FOX NEWS STAFF
TWITTER20FACEBOOK1K+GOOGLEPINTERESTLINKEDINEMAIL
Chantae Gilman. (Photo: Seattle Police Dept.)
SEATTLE — The King County prosecutor has charged a 26-year-old Seattle
woman with second-degree rape of a man who allegedly awoke from a deep sleep
to find her on top of him.
Chantae M. Gilman was being held in the King County Jail on $100,000 bail.
According to the Seattle Police Department’s i... 阅读全帖
k********y
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来自主题: _Vegetarianism版 - 癌症与素食
I recently did a lecture and cooking class series for Cole Haan about the
important link between food and health. The idea was to help people move in
a healthier direction.
In the first class, I briefly shared my own cancer recovery story. Shortly
after that first session, I got an email from one of the company's managers,
Scott Gill, thanking me for coming and saying he was inspired because he,
too, is a cancer survivor. I was surprised to learn that he had survived
stage four colon cancer by f... 阅读全帖
w*******y
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来自主题: _DealGroup版 - 【$】Amazon FREE Video On Demand for Family
Attention SD mamas and papas!
Amazon has FREE VOD titles for your kids.
I will paste the links for each of the first episode.
You will find the rest of the episodes for the title/season at the bottom of
the window.
Use "1-click" function to get them all!
Enjoy!
Learn Along with Sesame Season 1 ENGLISH VERSION (Total of 8 episodes)
Learn Along with Sesame Season 1 SPANISH VERSION (Total of 8 episodes)
Ep. 1 "A is for Asthma" (16 minutes)
Ep. 2 "Get Healthy Now Show" (25 minutes)
Ep. 3 "Happy;H... 阅读全帖
E*********e
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来自主题: _K12版 - 发一个无关主题的贴
一直喜欢看侦探推理的,大概是大学熬夜读阿加沙留下的后遗症。
最近在追cm,有点走火入魔了,被ld责骂了不少,才追到第4季。
嗯,发个花痴贴吧。
跟lie to me, mentalist,bones不同,那些我还能看出一个蛛丝马迹还可以跟着推测一
下谁是坏蛋。cm没给我这个机会,我就一直晕乎乎的看下去了,看得series killers太
多,以至对情节都不重要了。CM在这个推理方面没有啥互动的,但对TEAM里头的每个成
员形象刻画得很饱满,整个剧情人性很重。
我说说我最喜欢的DR. REID吧。这个REID基本是要被塑造成IQ超级高EQ超级低的形象。
一出场的时候,他就让人哑口无言。 I don't believe the intelligence could be
accurately quantified, but I do have an IQ of 187 and 3 Phds and can read 20
,000 words every minute. 然后对方继续石化的时候说,ok, I am a genius.他平素
说话貌似与人无法沟通,或者说too compli... 阅读全帖
o******e
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来自主题: _BibleStudy版 - 小故事 Take My Son
分享一个小故事。有趣的结尾。。。
Take my Son
A wealthy man and his son loved to collect rare works of art. They had
everything in their collection, from Picasso to Raphael. They would often
sit together and admire the great works of art.
When the Vietnam conflict broke out, the son went to war. He was very
courageous and died in battle while rescuing another soldier. The father was
notified and grieved deeply for his only son.
About a month later, just before Christmas, there was a knock at the door. A
young ma
G**B
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来自主题: _BibleStudy版 - 【每日灵修】每天更新~
【今日默想禱讀經文】徒 9:32-35
彼得周流四方的時候,也到了居住呂大的聖徒那裡;遇見一個人,名叫以尼雅,得
了癱瘓,在褥子上躺臥八年。
彼得對他說:以尼雅,耶穌基督醫好你了;起來!收拾你的褥子。他就立刻起來了。
凡住呂大和沙崙的人都看見了他,就歸服主。
【今日信息】耶穌基督醫好你了 By Rev. Andrew Tsai
如果你是這個癱瘓的人,在褥子上躺臥了八年,每天過著毫無盼望的生活,只能
等著別人來餵他食物,生活上完全倚賴別人的幫助,你會做何感想?
當耶穌還在世的時候,我們不知道這個癱子是否聽過耶穌的名字和事蹟。照理說,
他應該聽過,因為耶穌醫好了那麼多的人,如果有人稍稍地關心這個人,一定會有人告
訴他這件事。我們也不知道他是否曾經想要讓耶穌醫治他過,也有可能他想過,卻沒有
機會,或者是沒有經費可以前往讓耶穌醫治他。
總之,他就是錯失了耶穌在世時的醫治機會。但是神並沒有忘記他,從神來的愛,
讓彼得今天來到這人的跟前。但是彼得可以嗎?這一個三次不認主,軟弱不堪的門徒可
以行醫治嗎?聖靈會聽他的嗎?
這是我們所會問的許多問題,當醫治機會來臨... 阅读全帖
G**B
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来自主题: _BibleStudy版 - 每日灵修
我给补上~~
很多时候,我们都是三次不认主的彼得,不愿意在众人面前传神的福音。
【全年讀經進度】使徒行傳9
【今日默想禱讀經文】徒 9:32-35
彼得周流四方的時候,也到了居住呂大的聖徒那裡;遇見一個人,名叫以尼雅,得
了癱瘓,在褥子上躺臥八年。
彼得對他說:以尼雅,耶穌基督醫好你了;起來!收拾你的褥子。他就立刻起來了。
凡住呂大和沙崙的人都看見了他,就歸服主。
【今日信息】耶穌基督醫好你了 By Rev. Andrew Tsai
如果你是這個癱瘓的人,在褥子上躺臥了八年,每天過著毫無盼望的生活,只能
等著別人來餵他食物,生活上完全倚賴別人的幫助,你會做何感想?
當耶穌還在世的時候,我們不知道這個癱子是否聽過耶穌的名字和事蹟。照理說,
他應該聽過,因為耶穌醫好了那麼多的人,如果有人稍稍地關心這個人,一定會有人告
訴他這件事。我們也不知道他是否曾經想要讓耶穌醫治他過,也有可能他想過,卻沒有
機會,或者是沒有經費可以前往讓耶穌醫治他。
總之,他就是錯失了耶穌在世時的醫治機會。但是神並沒有忘記他,從神來的愛,
讓彼得今天來到這人的跟前。但是彼得可以嗎... 阅读全帖
S*********L
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来自主题: _BibleStudy版 - Huckabee: Where was God?
当那些反神长期以来不遗余力地把一切对神敬拜的行为赶出校园等公共场所以后,一旦
发生这样的惨案,他们又会不知羞耻地倒打一耙,问神在哪里,质疑神为什么不管。下
面这个讲话在一定程度上对这个种恶因结恶果的现象予以揭示,供弟兄姊妹参考。估计
那些盘踞在完全变了性质的基督信仰版的极端反基朋友也一定不放过这个机会的,我们
也可以预期他们会万变不离其宗地故技重演。
http://video.foxnews.com/v/2038135300001/huckabee-where-was-god
NEW YORK (BP) -- Former Arkansas Gov. Mike Huckabee took to his Saturday
show on Fox News to answer the question of where God was during Friday's
massacre at Sandy Hook Elementary School in Newtown, Ct.
Huckabee mostly was responding to backlash over comments... 阅读全帖
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http://www.komonews.com/news/local/Rescue-teams-try-to-reach-fa
MOUNT HOOD, Ore. - An experienced climber died after falling 1,000 feet on
Mount Hood on Thursday morning.
Clackamas County Sheriff's Office spokesman Sgt. Adam Phillips said rescue
crews found Mark Cartier, 56, around the 10,000 foot mark on the mountain.
He was descending from the summit when he fell.
Cartier was an experienced climber, rescuers said. He was from Portland.
"Mark helped establish numerous routes at Smith Rock a... 阅读全帖
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http://www.komonews.com/news/local/Rescue-teams-try-to-reach-fa
MOUNT HOOD, Ore. - An experienced climber died after falling 1,000 feet on
Mount Hood on Thursday morning.
Clackamas County Sheriff's Office spokesman Sgt. Adam Phillips said rescue
crews found Mark Cartier, 56, around the 10,000 foot mark on the mountain.
He was descending from the summit when he fell.
Cartier was an experienced climber, rescuers said. He was from Portland.
"Mark helped establish numerous routes at Smith Rock a... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: _ZST版 - A. Scarlatti: Son tutta duolo
A. Scarlatti: Son tutta duolo
Son tutta duolo, I grieve
non ho che affanni and have nothing but anguish.
e mi da` morte A cruel agony
pena crudel: is killing me.
e per me solo For me the stars,
sono tiranni fate, the gods and heaven
gli astri, la sorte, are nothing
i numi, il ciel. but tyrants.
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来自主题: _Exile版 - 习作
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By flatteries we prevail on womankind,
As hollow banks by streams are undermin'd:
Tell her her face is fair, her eyes are sweet;
Her taper fingers praise, and little feet.
Such praises e'en the chaste are pleas'd to hear;
Both maids and matrons hold their beauty dear.
Once naked Pallas with Jove's queen appear'd,
And still they grieve that Venus was preferr'd.
Praise the proud peacock, and lie spreads his train:
Be silent, and lie pulls it in again.
Pleas'd is the courser in his rapid race;
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