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d*******n
发帖数: 216
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来自主题: Faculty版 - 学期当中生孩子
还有这样的好事! 你说甚至第一年不叫课是指延迟一年入职吗? 我查了我将去的学
校的HR policy, 第一年生孩子,连paid maternity leave都没有, 要从第二年才开始
有一学期的假。 但我现在不担心学校的政策, 我担心的是在我生孩子时和之后要找人
替我教课是个多大的headache to the department chair. 因为我只有2年的clock, 所
以比较担心系里人对我的看法。

发帖数: 1
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来自主题: Faculty版 - 老板对我说得最多的话就是
以前组里有个非常NB的印度学生,博学多才,问啥都门清,做东西又快又好,他paper
还获奖了,这么好的弟子,他毕业以后,有一个project没做完就急忙工作了,回头我
导师就说他留下的这半块大饼,怎么接手的问题,导师就说了一句,he messed it up,
so headache now.
这个mess up一般是指这个project难以让其他人在短期内迅速理清了,是针对这个
project,不是针对你这个人, 你想哪儿去了。
事实难道不就是messed up了? 你毕业了,东西没做完,别人又看不懂,你又已经写了
一半了,那别人从哪为起点呢?是研究你的思路还是重新写? 事儿b本来就是mess up
这么回事,还能夸你没做完是个good job?
这有什么可受不了的?
s*****0
发帖数: 163
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来自主题: Faculty版 - 大家一天看多少电脑?
10 hours on computer and cellphone,
While working, I wear Gunnar prescription amber color glass for progranmmer
and professional gamer. It filtered out harmful blue light and glare and
reduce dry eye and headache. It is covered by most vision plan.
I used clear focus app which reminds me to do 5 min relax between each 25
min work session. I do eye massage and body stretch during the break.
Take nutrition supplies for eye health.
j*****r
发帖数: 48
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来自主题: Faculty版 - 急问导师去世了申请怎么办
There are many ways to do this, but I think it may be useful to ask the
department chair or another very senior colleague to write one short
paragraph explaining the situation in his/her reference letter.
The reason is to eliminate any uncertainty or doubt about the situation. The
situation is unfortunate but there is nothing to hide, so I think it's good
to be explicit. This way your search committee / interviewers know what's
going on and do not have to guess.
And I think you should try as muc... 阅读全帖
q********e
发帖数: 1255
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omg, your attached pic gives me a headache
t****8
发帖数: 178
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Nan Ma's Divorce will become a fact
There maybe unknowns in Xiao Li's case, depends on how little ma handles
this, love means nothing to a man in his age, so after having such a big
headache, he may go back to his own marriage, but that needs little ma's
cooperation.
i********d
发帖数: 5
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来自主题: Family版 - 关于外婆让外孙叫奶奶的
You are right, although it's a girl, I'd better change her last name to mine
to avoid confusion, but it's a headache to take care of both girl and boy
in case of divorcement.
f*******3
发帖数: 1371
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来自主题: Family版 - 心里很难过
记得曾经看过一篇文章觉得里面的一句话很有道理, 很多人从婚姻里找的是安全感,
其实真的安全感只有你自己才能给自己;很多人觉得对方爱自己不够,其实自己给对方
的也不是爱而是依赖。
所谓做任何事都全力以赴就是禅,认真的吃饭,认真的睡觉,认真的做每件事,但多数
人做不到。 建议你暂时不要想那些不愉快的事,好好规划自己的生活,努力把手边的
每件事做好,做出兴趣来,或者你就装作你已经离婚了自己过,看看应该怎么样,该如
何规划。 等你心情好了,再回头看现在,客观分析下你们之间的是是非非,记得夫妻
无对错,多体谅关心对方,应该不会过不去的。 毕竟有孩子,也是多年的夫妻了,不
要仓促在心里下断言比如对方不关心我之类。
婚姻也不保证爱情,记得结了婚也不是安全了,多从自己找原因。你们相处的时候他快
乐吗?如果每次交流都是一种headache, 那么彼此心寒也就很正常了。多分享快乐,显
示自己的能力和好的一面,少抱怨,少给对方出难题才能长久。 正常人,都愿意和能
帮助自己,自己欣赏的人相处而不是永远扮演救火员。

福,好像我从婚姻里没有得到女人想要的东西,很是伤心,想散伙算了,想想孩子心里
有些舍不得
了,... 阅读全帖
c*******n
发帖数: 86
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来自主题: Family版 - 媳妇强势不如媳妇自立
wanna ask MM or JJ, what if popo tells you straightforwards that she wanna
stay 3months or longer?? :'( u cant say No, can you??? headache.....
L*1
发帖数: 11537
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来自主题: Family版 - 女生请进:苦恼中
You may try P.M.T. Support Formula:
http://www.ynpstore.com/supplements/PMTsupport/
It does not work for everyone, but helps a lot of people.
Premenstrual tension (PMT), also called premenstrual syndrome, is a
condition that affects many menstruating women one to two weeks before they
begin menstruation. Symptoms may include abdominal bloating, cramping,
breast tenderness and swelling, fatigue, irritability, anxiety, headache,
and more.
Research suggests that nutrition may play a major role in t... 阅读全帖
s**p
发帖数: 702
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http://www.23andMe.com/a/ff1/y1v8a
Offer Expires: Dec. 27th, 2011
这个折扣好久没有了,上次还是2010年的DNA day,那次是99元,那次原本说全天打折
,可是到了下午4点多就提前结束了。
这次只要79!!!大家快去抢啊!
可以测出以下疾病的得病概率
Abdominal Aortic Aneurysm
Age-related Macular Degeneration
Alcohol Dependence
Alopecia Areata
Ankylosing Spondylitis
Asthma
Atopic Dermatitis
Atrial Fibrillation
Atrial Fibrillation: Preliminary Research
Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder
Back Pain
Basal Cell Carcinoma
Behçet's Disease
Bipolar Disorder
Bipolar Disorder: Preli... 阅读全帖
F********r
发帖数: 878
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来自主题: Family版 - 放生功德最為第一 (转载)
headache
t**d
发帖数: 6474
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来自主题: Family版 - 对老婆的称呼
中文叫糟糠,英文叫headache
b***b
发帖数: 13249
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非常感谢您感兴趣!
我早上跟儿说了,有个阿姨准备要你。儿摇头,说不去。我问为什么不去,他说“”我
喜欢你“。
好了,这个Headache 我赶不走了。呵呵呵!我马上跟进:”那你以后要听话呀“
m***x
发帖数: 788
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http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/abusiverelationships/p/effec

Negative Effects of Domestic Violence
By Cathy Meyer, About.com Guide
Effectives of Domestic Violence:
I think it is understood that domestic violence has a negative effect on the
victim. The longer the abuse continues the more negative the effects. It is
crucial to the physical, psychological, social well fare of the victim that
they recognize abuse and remove themselves from the situation quickly.
Below is a list of the negati... 阅读全帖
h******x
发帖数: 10156
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My friend went back to china and can't access here any more. Is there any
way to access mitbbs?
It's really a headache.
P**********6
发帖数: 523
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来自主题: FleaMarket版 - Party rock~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Tonight~~~~
I may need some ibuprophono..or aspring now ...
headache...
I have worked too much... need some rest now..
thanks.
w**w
发帖数: 11
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来自主题: Gowest版 - Transfer question: PhD to MS
Got a headache question on my application and hope GGJJ can share with me your
comments or suggestions.
I'm applying to a school's MS program. I'm now in a PhD program (same major
field). For me, two major motivations for me to transfer:
1) that school is a top school in this field, much better than my current
school;
2) my LG is in that school. Living apart makes our family life so difficult.
However, I missed the PhD application deadline (also their PhD program is very
competitive and I'm n
c***y
发帖数: 31
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if the paper is related to my research, i'd not feel headache... if you just
read articles randomly, it is a pain.
o***t
发帖数: 32
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来自主题: HouseRental版 - urgent: question about sublease
As long as your landlord agreed you rent that room to your friend,then you
can be a sub-landlord.
The problem is you have to take the responsibility for your friend's rent.
In case your friend can't pay the rent for any reason, then you'll have a
big headache!
BE CAREFUL !!!
j*****g
发帖数: 463
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来自主题: HouseRental版 - 房东签约month to month怎么理解
Month-to-Month 和 annual lease 对房客房东都各有利弊。
有些房东,特别是自己出租的房东,怕碰到难缠的,乱糟蹋房子的主儿,好随时可以让房客
走人,所以要求 Month-to-Month. 我当年 month-to-month 一气租了 5 年。
问清楚房东到底为什么 month-to-month,只要不是有个上大学的儿子会随时回来赶你走
就没有问题。一般碰到好房客,房东不会轻易涨价的,更不会无故赶人的。租房,目的就是
为了赚钱不是?!
月租金涨 $100,房子空一个月的话,租金就白涨了。而且还不知道能不能找到下一个房客。
就算找到啦,还不知道下一个房客会是什么主儿。你自己出租一次房子,就知道找个房客
有多麻烦啦。老美的说法是:Finding a tenant is just the beginning
of headache.
同样,和房东住一起也有利有弊。好处是房东就在楼下,坏处也是房东就在楼下。
处得好是好事儿,处不好是个坏事儿。事在人为,就看楼主您啦。。。
张老大
b****e
发帖数: 460
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来自主题: Investment版 - 有人知道IUL吗?
Well, normally, the fee term of a mutual fund is hundred page long, and it's
a headache even for a CPA to figure out the actual fee. The IUL term is
similar or worse.
I mean if insurance companies set up such a trap, there is no way to play
and win it.
S******n
发帖数: 617
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来自主题: Investment版 - Ben's 1st back-to-back purchase
good point.
I guess the healthy funding of the Federal GOV is #1 important on the list.
Based on the huge T amount, the GOV will have big headache to serve the debt
(pay interests) if yields are out of control.
Indeed Fed can "print" to buy more Ts. But once Fed buys, more will
sell to Fed on the artificially high prices that Ben offers.
So the prices down yields up again. Then Ben buys again? hoho
Down this rabbit hole Fed will own most or all of floating Ts. This
cuts off the EXTERNAL funding
s***w
发帖数: 521
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来自主题: Investment版 - 急问FSA
i know. just spent time for these headache stuff for the next year
enrollment.
no one answers my side question?
A side question, let us assume for public schools, at what age and what
stage (kindergarden, preschool, or what), will have free education? just for
some money planning.
t*m
发帖数: 4414
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you are certain right. but maintaining a rental property means a lot
overhead (time/labor/headache) than
buying/holding index MF or ETF.

过去的一个DECADE 是BOND 的牛市, 在未来的几年, 恐怕很难再指望BOND 每年将近
10%的收益了。
内,都很难说是很好的 INFLATION HEDGE。(参考资料: STOCKS FOR THE LONG RUN)不
过, 因为拥有STCOK 也是拥有对上司公司拥有的一部分HARD ASSET的CLAIM, 长期看
, STOCK是比BOND 更好的 INFLATI:
购买 RENTAL PROPERTY 出租。首先我们现在还处于美国房市很多年的一个低谷,房子
的按揭贷款利率也仍然相对较低。 其次, 统计资料, 很多美国人失去自己的HOUSE
以后, 转为租房居住, 因此全国
%的首付。这笔钱和一些必要的TRANSACTION FEE是你需要付出的头期投资。 然后除去
每月需要付的按揭以外,... 阅读全帖
d*****r
发帖数: 273
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来自主题: Investment版 - DBA is a good choice
Keep in mind that you will receive a K-1 form if you trade DBA and it is
headache at tax time.

dollars.
b*****r
发帖数: 199
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来自主题: Investment版 - 从投资的角度:该卖这个房子吗?
if you can sell it at the price you paid for the house 3 years ago, it is
very good news. I would sell it without any hesitation.
being a landlord is not easy, especially for long distance landlord. 1.5
hours drive may not be that bad, but your tenants may call you to come for
very tiny things such as changing a light bulb, switch a circuit breaker,
etc.
if the tenants do not pay your rent on time, you have to come to collect it.
you may even end up with filing an eviction at court to kick them ... 阅读全帖
C****n
发帖数: 2324
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来自主题: Investment版 - 如何投资美国房地产
美国房地产应该在今年低或者未来3年内触底 (个人的判断). 这个时候进行一些长期的
投资, 起码资产能随着房价的上升而升值, 应该是比较不错的投资方向.
购买房产是最直接的投资方法, 但是很多HEADACHE.
有什么比较简单的投资美国房地产的方法?
s********z
发帖数: 5411
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来自主题: Investment版 - Property management agent
i think you should just lower the price and try to sell.
it will be a lot of headache if you rent
p********r
发帖数: 1980
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来自主题: Investment版 - 把房子付清有哪些坏处?
I think it depends. Emergency cash is most important, after that...
If the house is worth $500K and you have 10 millions. I would recommend
paying off the house because it is such a small portion of your asset. If
you only have $500K, no way you want to pay off your house (i.e. you reject
a government subsidized loan and put all your money into an asset that is
very slow in appreciation.)
It is also OK to pay off the house, if you want to use the credit line to
buy a bigger house. Having a small... 阅读全帖
M********r
发帖数: 278
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i thought, correct me if I am wrong, both are bond funds and seek absolute
returns and can go anywhere and buy anything. Their current portfolios are
different not because of their investment mandates, but because of the
choices made by the managers. PTTRX seems to be comfortable with treasuries,
agency bonds and mortgage backed secutities, but MXLMX largely shun these
and is heavy in corporate bonds. Both Gross and Fuss are great managers.
Gross has been experiencing bad publicity right now a... 阅读全帖
M********r
发帖数: 278
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i thought, correct me if I am wrong, both are bond funds and seek absolute
returns and can go anywhere and buy anything. Their current portfolios are
different not because of their investment mandates, but because of the
choices made by the managers. PTTRX seems to be comfortable with treasuries,
agency bonds and mortgage backed secutities, but MXLMX largely shun these
and is heavy in corporate bonds. Both Gross and Fuss are great managers.
Gross has been experiencing bad publicity right now a... 阅读全帖
S**C
发帖数: 2964
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来自主题: Investment版 - 401K一定能“省税”吗?
Retirement income is higher than working income? I guess #1 I may retire
earlier, and #2, I would like to have that good headache and I am not sure I
worry about it at all.

convert
b****w
发帖数: 692
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来自主题: Investment版 - 401K一定能“省税”吗?
赫赫,那当然是good headache,但是还是想弄明白啊。而且假设平均5%回报,每年两
个人都max contribution, 按现在的35K算,30年后就是2.5M ;取30年,余额还在账户
里按5%增长,那能够每年取140K,也不少了,税率也不低啊。万一return比5%高呢:)
何况很大可能tax rate会涨。

I
S**C
发帖数: 2964
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You have good plans, a little better than ours, mainly on the bond side, we
have VBMPX, but I do not want to be in treasury at this time so I use IRA to
carry the bond load. We also lack a dedicated EM fund in our 401k, since we
want to overweight EM and especially Asian EM, so the lack of it in 401k
creates a headache for us.
VTI has 0.05% ER if you want Total US market, PTTRX can be bought for $25K
in VG brokerage and $1K at Wells Fargo IRA, VWNAX is admiral class, $50K,
but I can go with VDIG... 阅读全帖
S**C
发帖数: 2964
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It can be a headache if you end up with excessive contribution.
S**C
发帖数: 2964
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来自主题: Investment版 - 理性看待IUL
PIMCO StocksPLUS series acutally do just that: invest in S&P 500 Index
derivatives, backed by a portfolio of Fixed Income Instruments. I am not
aware any other fund companies do similar things.
Navigate PIMCO funds is really a big headache.

,
and
risk
w***n
发帖数: 1519
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You don't have to open a new account in another brokerage firm. You just
need a different type of account. Say, you can have one individual account
for yourself, one for your hubby, one for joint, plus a few IRAs, all in
Fidelity and still get full coverage of 500K for each of these account. If
you have two individual accounts for yourself though, they will be
considered one combined when it comes to SIPC coverage.
But of course, you could still go well over the limit even if you do all
these. T... 阅读全帖
r****m
发帖数: 1204
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来自主题: Investment版 - 买过投资房的请进
It's possible and I have done it for all my rental properties for many years
, it saved me lots of headaches.
But I have learned my lesson too - I once prepaid a 3-year contract for a
home warranty company because it's dirty cheap, but it filed bankruptcy
after half year.
Currently I use AHS (google it), it's more expensive, but it rarely declines
any claim and always dispatches service calls promptly. Of course, like
any home warranty firm, you will find tons of negative reviews online, but I
... 阅读全帖
j***1
发帖数: 158
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来自主题: Investment版 - 该不该买这个投资房?
from the your P&L, most likely this is a master metered property, generally
speaking you want to stay away from that.
rule of thumb to small MF complex.
(gross rent - master metered utilities) * .65 x 10 - any deferred
maintenance.
so in your case
(128000-19000)*.65x10 = 700k less any deferred maintenance.
but if you never had any rental experiences, start with SFH first, you don't
want 19 headaches all at once.
c********1
发帖数: 5269
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I have a friend work for apple.
He said he has big headache when he think about owning a house.
I don't like high cost city.
I like relax life style. One OF plans
Have homes at phoenix, and flagstaff. Live at flagstaff AZ during summer
time. The temperature is not high during summer time at flagstaff AZ.

people
r****m
发帖数: 1204
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来自主题: Investment版 - 湾区这个时候买投资房还合适吗?
买房不过是投资的一种, 怎么好像成了唯一的一种?
有正现金流的房子不也一样有风险嘛? 而且不谈管理房子需要的extra work and
headaches.
s***t
发帖数: 113
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来自主题: Investment版 - 问下班上的地主,
I would try to stay away from condos. Special assessment and HOA restriction
with regard to rental could be big headache.
j***1
发帖数: 158
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Generally speaking, set up a LLC is a risk management strategy, some people
misunderstood that it can save you on taxes, the truth is it can not,
especially single member LLC, is a pass thru entity, does not offer any tax
saving strategies.
A LLC can save you some headaches when major lawsuits arise, most liability
insurance policies only offer only 1-2 mil worth of liability coverage, so
you want to form a LLC for every 1-2 mil dollar worth of properties.
pros: shield from liability claims.
con... 阅读全帖
T******T
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Actually, now I think about it again, I might not hire either one of them.
There're way too many engineers out there to warrant any type of compromise.
Hire someone that's a good fit will save the group a lot of headache.
a***c
发帖数: 2443
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来自主题: JobHunting版 - 这是被算计了吗?
if it's less than 100 you should just suck it up and save yourself a
headache.
h******8
发帖数: 55
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从这里看到的,没看到好的solution. 大家讨论一下?
* 把一个字符串转换成32bit的整数
* 一个range的序列(链表或数组),如[1,3], [2,6], [8,10],[15,18]
写程序合并有重叠的range,比如上面的序列合并为[1,6], [8,10], [15,18]
如果这个序列不是静态的,而是一个数据流,如何 处理?
Ppl mentioned interval tree, but I do not think it would work here.
* implement the merge of two int arrays A and B, using the similar way as
merge-sort
Further question:
if A's size is over the max possible value of the int array, how do u
handlethat? suppose you have enough memory (do some math here, e.g. 2^ 30, 2
^ 40...... 阅读全帖
u******u
发帖数: 595
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来自主题: JobHunting版 - 微软ONSITE一周了, 有必要打电话吗?
They all probably busy on Monday to discuss some more important issues, like
how to make a better wireless phone to compete with Droid phone.
Therefore, no body care about you at this moment.
let them solve their headache in the beginning of the week, then call them
Wednesday if still no answer. Or, wait till Friday.
Don't bee too hurry.
To hurry will reduce your power when you negotiate the salary.
Good Luck!
Come join my Wednesday night's FREE tele-conference call discuss about job
hunting.
S**I
发帖数: 15689
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☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
gzou (gzou) 于 (Thu May 12 02:26:35 2011, 美东) 提到:
马上就要G on site了,
求祝福。
下面是从本版收集到的Google的试题,便于大家查询。
申明:有的附带有解释说明的,也来自于本版或者网络,大家自己看, 不保证真确
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t1/JobHunting/31847453_0_1.html
本人ECE fresh PhD,背景是电路/EDA,跟G业务基本没什么关系
同学内部推荐的,很简单的一次电面就给了onsite
题都不难,但是自己没把握好机会,出了一些小bug。
总的感觉,出错就是硬伤,宁可从最简单的算法写起,也不能出错。
电面:
1,Skip list, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skip_list
写code实现struct skip_list * find(struct skip_list *head, int value)
2,sorted array... 阅读全帖
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gzou (gzou) 于 (Thu May 12 02:26:35 2011, 美东) 提到:
马上就要G on site了,
求祝福。
下面是从本版收集到的Google的试题,便于大家查询。
申明:有的附带有解释说明的,也来自于本版或者网络,大家自己看, 不保证真确
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t1/JobHunting/31847453_0_1.html
本人ECE fresh PhD,背景是电路/EDA,跟G业务基本没什么关系
同学内部推荐的,很简单的一次电面就给了onsite
题都不难,但是自己没把握好机会,出了一些小bug。
总的感觉,出错就是硬伤,宁可从最简单的算法写起,也不能出错。
电面:
1,Skip list, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Skip_list
写code实现struct skip_list * find(struct skip_list *head, int value)
2,sorted array... 阅读全帖
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