j******a
发帖数: 1582 | 1 原文链接
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/worldnews/europe/9572187/Couple
这文章里面还提到了另一个研究
但国男们就不会把这个研究贴出来
The survey appeared to contradict another recent one across seven countries
including Britain that found that men who shouldered a bigger share of
domestic responsibilities had a better sense of wellbeing and enjoyed a
better work-life balance.
The researchers expected to find that where men shouldered more of the
burden, women’s happiness levels were higher. In fact they found that it
was the men... 阅读全帖 |
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s***t
发帖数: 197 | 2 macho: super masculine / masculine to an extreme (in appearance and
behavior).
"Her husband would never agree to help with the housework;
he's too macho to do that."
make a mountain out of a molehill: make something seem much more important
than it really is.
"Calm down. There's really nothing to worry about.
You're making a mountain out of a molehill."
make up one's mind: decide what to do.
A: Where are you going on your vacation?
B: Maybe Canada, maybe Mexico. I c |
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o********l
发帖数: 12430 | 3 a.. Age is a very high price to pay for maturity.
b.. Going to church doesn't make you a Christian any more than going to
a garage makes you a mechanic.
c.. Artificial intelligence is no match for natural stupidity.
d.. A clear conscience is usually the sign of a bad memory.
e.. A closed mouth gathers no feet.
f.. If you must choose between two evils, pick the one you've never
tried before.
g.. My idea of housework is to sweep the room with a glance.
h.. Not one shred of evidence supports the no |
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s**d
发帖数: 787 | 4 I guess you do a lot of housework yourself. |
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v******s
发帖数: 6949 | 5 My second article contains more vitriolic vituperations against Asian
parenthood and some disgraceful characters in the Asian camp.
As mentioned in the previous critique, traditional Asian parents are
fucking up our generation. I have arrived at the conclusion that these
parents have no idea what they're trying to do but want to force their
philosophies down our throats anyway. Allow me to provide you with some
puzzling paradoxes:
1. Asian parents try to assimilate into the mainstream society bu... 阅读全帖 |
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c******1
发帖数: 1443 | 6 her husband is a phd student as well, and much busier and stressful than her
. she should share the housework with her husband. |
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l*****o
发帖数: 214 | 7 what if i am lazy but instead I hire ppl taking care of some housework? Will
it be too bad? |
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w********r
发帖数: 14958 | 8 adverb tə-ˈmär-(ˌ)ō, -ˈmȯr-
Examples of TOMORROW
I'll finish the housework tomorrow.
Is it supposed to rain tomorrow?
He has an interview tomorrow.
tomorrow |
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m******1
发帖数: 19713 | 9 还不知道你有这个爱好，下次你到我们家来满足爱好吧，我有一大堆housework----后
院的水龙头该换了，前院的杂草该除了，卧室里的墙壁需要刷漆，有精力的话还打算种
点丝瓜。。。你随便挑几样做吧。我可以管顿盒饭。
耗，还累个半死，却不产生任何社会经济效益，也不象户外活动一样能赏心悦目。于是
想找个能流汗又不需要长期 commitment 的事情做做，于是便看中了 Habitat for
Humanity。
男家属）聚集在一起，做 fundraising 和 advocacy，当然还有一起盖房子。参加者每
人发一件 T 恤和一个粉色工地安全盔。Habitat for Humanity 的工地，位于世界色情
片制作中心附近的一个低收入社区里。这些崭新的二层四房双车位车库 Duplex，在周
围破旧的公寓楼里特别显眼。这个社区有围墙，几十栋房子，有的已经有人入住，有的
还在建造中。我们的任务，便是去各个未完工的房子里，接着干余下的工程。
栅栏油漆、外墙油漆、儿童室卧室油漆、草地平整铺草皮、木工、框架等等。我挑了木
工，里面又分成储藏室橱柜、门、baseboard 等几个小组。我与另外两个... 阅读全帖 |
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c*****e
发帖数: 2073 | 10 It's not about being a housewife or not. It's about doing a job with proper
respects. Housewife is a 24/7 job. Women are still lack of self-awareness of
our rights, a lot of us are old school thinking women should be followers
and pleasing
their husband, obedient like a tamed kitten. If not, we would be lack of
scents of women. WTF. That's why I think the role reversals would bring back
some respect of a "housewife", no matter who's doing the housework. |
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j****m
发帖数: 3137 | 11 Set a time every week (eg, one weekend morning) as your couple's
communication time, to exchange ideas about arrangement of kids activities,
housework, finance etc?
As long as you both are in the same page or agree on sth in the middle
ground, you both will know what to 放弃，what to 撒手，then you will be able
to 享受剩余的生活 together. |
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s*****d
发帖数: 2451 | 12 1. They’re patient. Their furry patients can be stubborn and aggressive.
Vets respond to chaos with patience, gentleness and a calming demeanor.
Just don’t expect your date to extend you the same patience when she’s
just finished a 14hour shift being lacerated by angry cats and trying to
convince her clients that 5+ years of training means she probably knows
better than the 16 year old sales clerk in Pets at Home.
2. Veterinarians are passionate about their work. They don’t choose the
career for... 阅读全帖 |
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w*****s
发帖数: 4116 | 13 2 for sure. Hire a nanny for all housework and spend as much as his time
with family. |
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w*******r
发帖数: 2792 | 14 That is hard to say. If we just talk about the number, the bottom line is $
70K/year. Of course, most Chinese with $70K income won't hire a person to do
housework. |
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c*******r
发帖数: 527 | 15 It is true to the core of problems in dating in Chinese. Those guys always
complain about the girls. But when you are looking for cute young girls with
good family background and willing to take all the housework, they forgot
that thtey have to match their credentials to this standard too. |
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l*********e
发帖数: 5483 | 16 除此之外，地里的农活也得干。都是替妈妈做她平日里做的。什么收割豆角，土豆，玉
米，古物等。其他的还好，最为壮观的是俺一个人用簸箕簸谷物，好几亩啊，一座小山
似地，妈妈在旁边口授，俺在实践。不知不觉小山也夷为平地了，俺还是很开心，因为
有妈妈在旁边陪着。
每年全家7口人的被褥要大拆洗，全家人的棉衣棉裤要拆洗，这些也全都是俺一个人缝
制，妈妈在旁边指导。缝棉衣是很有技术含量的，俺姐姐也不会，俺的刚入门的嫂嫂们
也不会。所有这些housework，俺都觉得没啥，只要俺妈妈在。 |
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b**********8
发帖数: 37 | 17 性别: 男
★出生年份: 1977
★所在地(至少明确state): MD (can relocate)
★职业情况(学生还是工作): 工作
★
简单的物理参数(身高/体重): 177cm/70kg
★
属相，血型、星座: 蛇
当前婚姻状态(从没结过婚/曾婚/丧偶): 从没结过婚
★
联系方式(email/IM/站内): l************[email protected]
★提供本人照片/要求应征者照片（可以提供，肯定提供，不提供/不需要，必
须，无所
谓）：可以提供
I am looking for a girl with a nice personality to establish a serious
relationship. I am a 34-year old matured man with an easy-going temper. I
went through graduate school and postdoc training in United States. I had
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b**********8
发帖数: 37 | 18 性别: 男
★出生年份: 1977
★所在地(至少明确state): MD／DC (can relocate)
★职业情况(学生还是工作): 工作
★
简单的物理参数(身高/体重): 177cm/70kg
★
属相，血型、星座: 蛇
当前婚姻状态(从没结过婚/曾婚/丧偶): 从没结过婚
★
联系方式(email/IM/站内): l************[email protected]
★提供本人照片/要求应征者照片 肯定提供/最好提供
I am looking for a girl with a nice personality to establish a serious
relationship. I am a 34-year old matured man with an easy-going temper. I
went through graduate school and postdoc training in United States. I had
two relationships in my li... 阅读全帖 |
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d******0
发帖数: 1598 | 19 话说那天晚上，我们有意大利面，我们有烤羊腿，我们有香槟，我们还有她流利的英语。
酒至半酣，她的脸不免有些红了。
Look, Simone, here is the plan. I’m gonna divorce that guy. And I will
marry you. You can have the things you want, and I can have the things I
want. How does it sound like?
Not bad. But question is what do you want?
The green card.
What card?
Green card, eternal residence right in the States.
Eternal Residence Right in the States? What the hell’s that?
It means you can live in the fucking States forever.
You really can’t without it?
Yes.
I... 阅读全帖 |
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s*********1
发帖数: 191 | 20 常言道：「清官難斷家務事。」在現實生活中，無論人生活在什麼階層下，無
論是窮還是富，都擺脫不了生活瑣事的糾紛，為此很多人對於家庭的瑣事都感到無奈。
而我也曾因家庭瑣事而感到無奈與痛苦，直到神的末世作工臨到了我，才使我的生活充
滿了喜樂。
我叫丁霞，結婚後生活在農村，丈夫在外打工掙錢，我在家邊種地邊照顧兩個孩子上學
，一家人過著清貧的日子，但是一家人相處得還算不錯，然而公公的離世卻打破了這一
切。
公公去世後，婆婆沒人照顧需要贍養，家裡的長輩們便聚在一起商量婆婆由誰來照顧的
問題。在徵求婆婆的意見時，婆婆沒有猶豫地說了聲：「我要跟老大。」最終在長輩的
安排下老人住在我們家，老二家每年給老人300斤米，每月給200元生活費，10斤油。聽
後，我們都覺得這樣公平合理，也都答應了。
剛開始的幾個月裡，老二還每個月給婆婆200元錢的生活費，到後來老二家乾脆什麼都
不給了，而且一家人搬到了縣城，家裡的事不聞不問。我心想：我們的生活本來就不富
裕，婆婆的身體也不好，每月買藥錢就需要很多，老二家卻一分錢也不出，那我們的生
活壓力不就更大了嗎？我越想越覺得憋屈，就想和丈夫訴訴苦，又覺得丈... 阅读全帖 |
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or
发帖数: 720 | 21 the audiobooks i listened to can be counted by fingers...very few ah.
i usually listen to the radio when doing simple & repetitive things such as
housework...
Sayers的处女作，一边包馄饨一边听，很容易就miss掉
肯定
较慢
，朗
发生
得了
老太
义工
默，
。。
后我
二号
大仇
去了 |
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J***u
发帖数: 51 | 22 How God’s Spirit Has Brought Remarkable Changes To My
Life
Part One: Witness to God’s Love For Me
While my husband was suffering from Pakinson disease, from the summer
of 2005 to the summer of 2010, I was exhausted physically and mentally,
attending to his need and seeing his illness worsening day after day. I had
some symptoms of depression and worry without knowing it, unable to fall
asleep at night. I saw my future was full of darkness. Negative feelings
t... 阅读全帖 |
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l********l
发帖数: 1416 | 23 haha,
talk about my LG ba
very nice, gentle, careful and considerate
always cares about me
always do the heaviest housework
the best husband i can tell
we are both from shanghai
人
迹 |
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h*****t
发帖数: 395 | 24 haha, maybe it's Mrs. radium who's doing all the housework,
blah, blah, blah... hehe...
Anyway, no way for me to do the job.:)
If radium doesn't want to get up to the position, it's fine
since we got yanan showing up here again.
Mission's done.
haha... |
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i********s
发帖数: 34 | 25 sigh, you're right.
i cannot bear to see my lovely grass ironing and doing unnecessary housework. |
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g*******d
发帖数: 1467 | 26 kaka,就是啊，你来带我走吧。
housework. |
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x******l
发帖数: 104 | 27 I want to take CPA test,but my husband 100% disagrees with my decision. He
said I have MBA degree. If I know the accounting knowledge well and show my
best part in interview, I would get better jobs. Many people find good jobs
and work well without CPA. I have one kid and full-time worker. I know if I
prepare the test. My husband has to take care of housework. My heart is
wrestling with these staff. I don't think I want to work in public
accounting. I just want to find a better job and future. |
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c******k
发帖数: 237 | 28 拿什么感谢我的爱人
感谢我的妻子，因为一直在忙碌，时常忘了身边这个一直关心自己，照顾着全家的人。
也许只是一些极小的事，所以容易被自己忽视。我们在羡慕别人幸福的时候，有时却忘
记了自己也是其中一员。有些夫妻在一起时间长了，有时吵吵，有时闹闹，其实只要看
看她是对自己的好，我就知道自己应该懂得感谢。
感谢我的爱人，最基本的，这么多年她一直陪在我的身边，起早摸黑，相夫教子，任劳
少怨。也许激情不在，生活平淡了，但是我们已经是对方生活的一部分。
今天请让我怀着感恩的心，以此小文，送给我爱的和爱我的太太——祝她生活更幸福，
housework更顺利，越来越年轻漂亮。。。。。。 |
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