h*i
发帖数: 3446 | 1 听到JGrace走了，我觉得很不安。虽然我不认识JGrace，只是在这个版上注意到她总是
很热心的解答问题，对心理学充满热情。也依稀好像记得她对我在这儿发的一些帖子有
些不满。比如我对CY的"诊断"。刚才我又搜索了一下她的帖子，看到了下面这个对话。
发信人: JGrace (奕儿), 信区: Psychology
标 题: Re: 我也来开始个话题吧。大家为什么会选择学心理学
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Sep 23 17:23:49 2007)
"He who has a strong enough why can bear almost any how." - Friedrich
Nietzsche
Plus I will hope for everyone there are times of happiness now and then,
even during the process of getting a Ph.D.
现在出了这个事，我不知道该说什么好。这个世界也许的确是残酷的，但人们也许不应该
总是热衷于把残酷的真相揭示出来... Less cynicis |
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y******g
发帖数: 317 | 2 an old post from JGrace.
one
whatever
or
myself
But
in
for
came
pretty
I
standing
As
in
IS
you
get
Best |
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n****o
发帖数: 211 | 4 JGrace已经走了一年了, 我和她有幸在行业协会的年会上见过, 她是一个很不错的MM.
只可惜我当时在外州的某校修课并做Intern, 和她见面的机会不多.
从她的论文和经历来看, 她做事喜欢追求完美, 而且对他人也很热心.
我对她的逝去很难过, 我也理解她--她爱面子, 面对挫折没有很有效的应对方式.
在美国的华人愿意看counselor的相对其他种族来说更少, 而且往往等问题很严重了
才去咨询. Generally 来说, 解决很多问题是需要时间, 精力和钱财的. 而且病人的配
合也很重要. 有些问题不可能在短时间内解决, 那么如果病人的期望很高,
又在短期内得不到满足, 难免有人不满意. 说医生是骗子. 而且咨询
心理学本身也不是个很赚钱的专业, 所以就业前景就不太乐观了.
人活着不怕穷, 就怕没有希望. 我调查过, 很少有人可以靠开业看华人
病人来养活自己的.
回顾过去, 让我万分感慨... |
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r******s
发帖数: 2155 | 5 如果不是ape，还不知道吴娟就是JGrace。
虽然素未谋面，在BBS上交流也感到很亲切，仿佛已经是老朋友了一般。
听说这个噩耗，回头去看了一下Grace在本版所发的帖子。
再一次体会一下Grace的热心和专业。
兄弟姐妹们，保重！！ |
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n****o
发帖数: 211 | 6 就象我在上课的时候学到的,如果不能照顾好自己,就很难为病人服务了.
同时VCU对国际学生的支持实在不咋的. 约counseling让你等3个月也不奇怪.
可怜的JGrace! 估计她不到山穷水尽是不会走这条路的. |
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r******s
发帖数: 2155 | 7 建议大家不要猜了。
如果有知情人愿意讲一讲当然欢迎，也许对别人有一些借鉴作用。
据我所知，JGrace有depression。
对这个不了解的可以看看她以前的帖子以及别人关于这个问题的发文。 |
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m********t
发帖数: 121 | 8 这也是我最欣赏的一句话。我想可能JGrace自己也是一直在努力寻找Why，但可能找得
不那么顺利。我想她选择这样的结束方式的时候一定是很痛苦的。现在她父母在
Richmond处理她的后事，白发人送黑发人的这种痛苦，恐怕也是他们经历的最大的痛苦
了。//sigh
J-Juan
Grace-Community of Grace Church |
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m********t
发帖数: 121 | 9 翻看彼时和JGrace的通信，难以相信这样一个善解人意，博学多才的网友会以这样
的方式结束自己的生命。心里无限叹惋。在我开始关注心理版的时候，JGrace正在当版
主。从生物专业转到心理专业是一个漫长的过程。在这个过程里，她给了我不少鼓励和
支持。最初的几封信已经找不到了，但我还记得她说，她自己也是从生物转过来的，也
花了很多精力。但是她觉得很值得，因为她很喜欢现在的专业。后来我也当过短时的版
主，她也时有光顾。记得有一次是我考完心理专项不久，在版面上出了十道心理考题，
结果很快她就把答案写上了，而且一题都没错，令人钦佩。我们就这样断断续续的来往
，彼此传递简单的问候。因为选择了同样一条梦想的道路，也有同样的困难和憧憬。后
来因为健康原因，我也不太上心理版了。直到前两天，我的大学同学给我电话告诉我吴
娟自杀了，又直到noriko告诉我吴娟就是JGrace。对我来说，好像是走了两个人。一个
是亭亭袅袅、爱笑的留着长发的吴娟，另一个是恬然的乐于助人的JGrace。如果我知道
她是她，她知道我是我，如果我们走的再近一点，如果我在她最需要倾诉的时候聆听，
也许悲剧不会上演。可是想这么多 |
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m********t
发帖数: 121 | 10 【 以下文字转载自 Psychology 讨论区 】
发信人: mochascent (Life Is Beautiful), 信区: Psychology
标 题: Google Group for Chinese Psychology Community， In Memory
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Apr 8 20:59:42 2008)
翻看彼时和JGrace的通信，难以相信这样一个善解人意，博学多才的网友会以这样
的方式结束自己的生命。心里无限叹惋。在我开始关注心理版的时候，JGrace正在当版
主。从生物专业转到心理专业是一个漫长的过程。在这个过程里，她给了我不少鼓励和
支持。最初的几封信已经找不到了，但我还记得她说，她自己也是从生物转过来的，也
花了很多精力。但是她觉得很值得，因为她很喜欢现在的专业。后来我也当过短时的版
主，她也时有光顾。记得有一次是我考完心理专项不久，在版面上出了十道心理考题，
结果很快她就把答案写上了，而且一题都没错，令人钦佩。我们就这样断断续续的来往
，彼此传递简单的问候。因为选择了同样一条梦想的道路，也有同样的困难和憧 |
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j****e
发帖数: 245 | 11 【 以下文字转载自 Psychology 讨论区,原文如下 】
发信人: JGrace (奕儿), 信区: Psychology
标 题: Therapy Styles&Theoretical Orientation
发信站: Unknown Space - 未名空间 (Sun Nov 21 18:54:27 2004) WWW-POST
http://www.findingstone.com/services/typesoftherapy.htm
Adlerian/Individual Psychology
Based on the belief that all human behavior has a purpose and is
goal-oriented, that we strive for social connectedness, and that we suffer our
emotional difficulties due to feelings of inferiority and not having a sense
of community. Founde |
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j****e
发帖数: 245 | 12 【 以下文字转载自 Psychology 讨论区,原文如下 】
发信人: JGrace (奕儿), 信区: Psychology
标 题: (ZZ) Dysthymic Disorder
发信站: Unknown Space - 未名空间 (Tue Dec 7 17:29:37 2004) WWW-POST
Please refer to the end for the diagnosis criteria.
Dysthymic Disorder (Diagnostic Criteria)
http://www.allaboutdepression.com/dia_04.html
People with dysthymia generally experience little or no joy in their lives.
Instead things are rather gloomy most of the time. If you have dysthymia you
may be unable to remember a time when you felt happ |
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j****e
发帖数: 245 | 13 【 以下文字转载自 Psychology 讨论区,原文如下 】
发信人: JGrace (奕儿), 信区: Psychology
标 题: (ZZ) Major Depressive Disorder
发信站: Unknown Space - 未名空间 (Tue Dec 7 17:28:23 2004) WWW-POST
Please refer to the end for the diagnostic criteria.
Major Depressive Disorder (Diagnostic Criteria)
http://www.allaboutdepression.com/dia_03.html
Major depressive disorder is also known as major depression, clinical
depression, or unipolar depression. The term unipolar refers to the presence
of one pole, or one extreme of mood- depre |
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j****e
发帖数: 245 | 14 【 以下文字转载自 Psychology 讨论区 】
发信人: JGrace (奕儿), 信区: Psychology
标 题: Stress - Coping With Everyday Problems
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Sep 26 17:55:30 2005)
http://www.nmha.org/infoctr/factsheets/41.cfm
Stress is a natural part of life. The expressions are familiar to us, “I’m
stressed out,” “I’m under too much stress,” or “Work is one big stress.
”
Stress is hard to define because it means different things to different people
; however, it’s clear that most stress is a negative feeling rather than a
pos |
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j****e
发帖数: 245 | 15 【 以下文字转载自 Psychology 讨论区 】
发信人: JGrace (奕儿), 信区: Psychology
标 题: Objectives of psychotherapy
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Apr 20 17:23:25 2007)
There is a little paragraph on objectives of psychotherapy from the
psychodynamic approach in Nancy McWilliams'book, Psychoanalytic Case
Formulation. I think it might be helpful to post it here. :-)
Enjoy the spring!
Objectives of therapy: the disappearance or mitigation of symptoms of
psychopathology, the development of insight, an increase in one’s sense of
ag |
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j****e
发帖数: 245 | 16 There are many helpful resources at www.coping.org.
For example, there is the Thought Stopping Technique.
Take care,
JGrace
Directions for Thought Stopping
a. Use the relaxation training and breathing exercises in Stress
Reduction to get yourself relaxed. It is important to be relaxed to stop a
recurring thought.
b. On a tape recorder, record the word "stop'' on alternating 1, 2, and 3
minute intervals for a 30 minute tape. Call yourself into a relaxed state
before using the ``Stop'' tape. |
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j****e
发帖数: 245 | 18 【 以下文字转载自 Psychology 讨论区 】
发信人: JGrace (奕儿), 信区: Psychology
标 题: APA Stress Tip Sheet
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Oct 28 00:00:43 2007)
http://apahelpcenter.mediaroom.com/index.php?s=pageA&item=42
Stress Tip Sheet
In today’s fast-paced and ever-connected world, stress has become a fact of
life. Stress can cause people to feel overwhelmed or pushed to the limit.
The American Psychological Association’s 2007 “Stress in America” poll
found that one-third of people in the U.S. report experiencing extreme
l |
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j****e
发帖数: 245 | 19 【 以下文字转载自 Psychology 讨论区,原文如下 】
发信人: JGrace (奕儿), 信区: Psychology
标 题: Personal Website
发信站: Unknown Space - 未名空间 (Mon Oct 4 15:23:52 2004) WWW-POST
From Psychology Today:
Truth Online - by Viviana Mazza
What can you learn from a personal website? More than if you met the person
for a few minutes and about as much as from a glance around their bedroom,
according to a University of Texas, Austin study. Subjects who rated the
personalities of 89 strangers via personal web pages more a |
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r********r
发帖数: 6 | 21 很想问你一个问题啊，你是奋斗了几年才拿到心理学的录取的呢？是现在美国学生物，然
后一边学生物一边兼修心理的课程，然后拿到心理学的录取的么？
我还没有最后下决心，风险确实很大。
我不知道我是应该先直播，然后一边兼修心理学的课程，一边准备申请，还是应该，明年
毕业，现在就开始想办法修心理学的课程，然后开始申请？
希望能得到你的指点。
这真的是一条很少有人走过又充满风险的路，。。 |
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j****e
发帖数: 245 | 22 Hi, Redfeather:
I think I can somehow relate to the stage you are in now. You will be the one
to make the call, the decision, since you are the one who will take whatever
comes out of it. But I will be always available to offer any kind of help or
support I can offer. And so is my best wishes for you in whatever you do.
As for myself, it happened that I had to make a transition in one way or
another. So in a sense, I was pushed a little to take the risk and give myself
a chance, since, if I fail |
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r********r
发帖数: 6 | 23 谢谢奕儿
很喜欢看你的建议，在最初来这个版的时候，很难想象会得到这样好的建议和意见，因为
以前去过很多版，但是很少会有人如此耐心的回答我的很多可能有些幼稚的问题。
看了你的建议和意见，也看了一些你给我的连接，我慢慢的可以给自己理出一些头绪。我
不喜欢做research，尤其是我现在进行的这种动物试验，还是更喜欢和人打交道。从高中
的时候，自己对心理的领域曾经很感兴趣，但是后来学了临床，也就渐渐淡忘了。现在看
了你的建议和意见，我突然又有了重新一试的决心。
就像你说的一样，如果是自己的兴趣所在，那么即使艰苦但是总是感觉舒服。我知道如果
想像你一样最后可以进入这个领域，我不得不做很多事情，要考gre,要考gre sub，要抽
时间去兼修心理的课程，。。。。。
希望自己可以坚持下去。。
也祝你一切顺利
谢谢奕儿
雪儿
one
myself
for
came
pretty
in
get
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明 |
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发帖数: 245 | 24 Hi, 雪儿:
You are very welcome. Glad to know my posts can be of some help to you. Glad
to know that you have had some serious thinking done. What you said seems to
make a lot of sense. You have my encouragment to go ahead after your dream.
And as I said before, you will always have my support and help if needed.
Thank you for your encouragement and wonderful wishes. The new semester just
started and the classes start tomorrow. Getting in is the first step. There
are still more challenges lying on |
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m********t
发帖数: 121 | 25 看到了越发难过。本来想写一篇纪念她的文章，但不知道怎么落笔。等能写的时候再写
了。希望她在另一个世界平安。 |
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t*****1
发帖数: 58 | 26 天堂之所以美好，因为那里聚集的都是好人。我很难接受这么耐心的妹妹离我们而去。
one
whatever
or
myself
But |
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d*******n
发帖数: 216 | 27 Thanks, Jgrace. Surely I will come to this board more often later on.
a
an
pay
find
self-prophecy
expert
I
give
do
I
at
But
I |
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j****e
发帖数: 245 | 28 Hi,橄榄树:
Thank you for sharing the information. Keep it up! Thanks!
Regards,
JGrace
Studies) |
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r******s
发帖数: 2155 | 29 Talk to doctors again. Let them know all your concerns and ask for detailed
information about their examination. Be careful about taking advice from
layman like me. ^_^
JGrace should know more about it though. |
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r******s
发帖数: 2155 | 30 同赞！
jGrace will make a very good consellor
glad
your
think
counselor
brings
the
situation.
medical
clinic
for
the
released
also
two
do
will
considering
suggestion of
去的
来了
说， |
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j****e
发帖数: 245 | 31 Glad you are here! Welcome back~
JGrace |
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j****e
发帖数: 245 | 32 【 以下文字转载自 PsychoAnalysis 讨论区,原文如下 】
发信人: JGrace (奕儿), 信区: PsychoAnalysis
标 题: Re: 请教the difference
发信站: Unknown Space - 未名空间 (Tue Nov 2 17:20:42 2004) WWW-POST
Obsession generally refers to irrational, intrusive thoughts, while compulsion
irrational, uncontrollable behavior.
Below is more information about OCPD (Obsessive-Compulsive Personality
Disorder) and OCD (Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder)
OCPD - Obsessive-Compulsive Personality Disorder
Diagnosis Criteria
http://www.mentalhealth.com/dis1/ |
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t*****l
发帖数: 266 | 33 Happy Thanksgiving! Special thanks to you, dear JGrace, you are the best! |
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j****e
发帖数: 245 | 34 I have been the BM here since last August. Thank you all for your support,
help and encouragement. I have learned much from all of you. Thank you.
Due to the tight schedule I am having in the new semester, I am afraid that I
will no longer be able to serve all of you as a BM. I do encourage you to
apply for the BM position, if you love this board.
I will try to organize as much as I can for 精华区 at the same time.
Endless thanks to all of you!
【 以下文字转载自 board 讨论区,原文如下 】
发信人: JGrace (奕儿), 信区: board |
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j****e
发帖数: 245 | 35 Hi, Julio:
Thank you. However, this post is actually a part of the post I sent to the
PsychoAnalysis board.
Please feel free to forward posting and promote communication between the
Psychology board and PsychoAnalysis board. I think that is great. However, I
also want you to know that I have been trying to do it for my postings anyway.
We may also want to avoid repetiveness.
Thanks. Have a nice day!
JGrace
Clinical/Counseling
in
patients |
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j****e
发帖数: 245 | 36 【 以下文字转载自 PsychoAnalysis 讨论区,原文如下 】
发信人: JGrace (奕儿), 信区: PsychoAnalysis
标 题: re: 男性心理健康
发信站: Unknown Space - 未名空间 (Thu Jun 9 01:21:40 2005) WWW-POST
看大家讲得热闹，我也插两句吧。这期的Monitor on Psycholgy封面主题就是"Helping
men ... to help themselves...". 心理学界正在提高对男性心理健康的重视，并希望提
高公众意识。本期Monitor刊登了四篇关于男性心理学及心理健康的文章，感兴趣的朋友
可以在网上看到全文（http://www.apa.org/monitor/). 另外今年8月的美国心理学年会
(APA)设有一个专题论坛“Men and Depression: New perspectives in practice,
health-care promotion and research”.
Below are some points extracted from the |
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发帖数: 40 | 37 Since I have been extremely busy recently, I decide to resign from the forum
monitor position. So we need look for a new board master now.
It has been such a wonderful experience for me to work with you all. The
psychology board is like a living plant. Ape planted the seed. Restless and
JGrace water :) it with enthusiasm. And many other friends have also
contributed their efforts. So it has become a small and pretty tree. It's
small because we only have a small number of posts.
I feel so gratefu |
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m********t
发帖数: 121 | 38 刚学会怎么发钱,让大家久等了.我把工资的一部分转到版面上,以用做给大家的奖励.第
一回我就独裁一把,奖励三位我觉得给版面作出很大贡献的人:
Youxiang: 100 最近发文章质量数量双优.
JGrace & Restless: 50 一如既往的关心版面,丰富版面信息量.
如果我有什么疏漏的,请见谅,推荐人选,更欢迎自荐.
欢迎灌水发贴.积极的水虫和书虫都有奖励机会:) |
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r******s
发帖数: 2155 | 39 thanks.
it's a honor to be side by side with JGrace. ^_^ |
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m********t
发帖数: 121 | 40 I think what Jgrace said makes more sense. Twin and adoption studies are
probably the most practical ways to understand the relationship between
heredity and intelligence. They are not without question, though. For
example, monozogytic twins may share more similiar environment than
dizogytic twins. |
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a*e
发帖数: 431 | 41 刚看到这个消息，非常难过，我从来没有和她见过面，但如果没有意外的话，我想，她
应该就是在Psychology版做过版主的JGrace，老一点的网友们应该记得。
希望她在天堂安息。
有网友愿意捐款的，可以按USTC版这篇帖子的办法寄支票。 |
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y******g
发帖数: 317 | 42 天哪，真的么？JGrace为这个版做了很多贡献。 |
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r******s
发帖数: 2155 | 43 JGrace???
你确定么？
这个太意外了。 |
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a*e
发帖数: 431 | 44 Yes, I am pretty sure JGrace was her ID..
May she rest in peace. |
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y******g
发帖数: 317 | 46 太意外了。
奕儿是一个引人注目的ID，她的帖子内容丰富，态度热忱。最后一篇发于去年10月底。
有谁知道事情究竟是怎么样的么？ |
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t*i
发帖数: 7 | 50 心里好难受，怎么才能看到吴娟在本版的老帖子呢？ |
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