a*******n
发帖数: 64 | 1 on-site是刚好一周前
然后今天发信问on-site见到的公司的recruiter有无update
回信说"we are still waiting for one more feedback before making any decision.
we'll let you know as soon as we decide. sorry for the delay"
一周了还在等人feedback，这个是托辞吧？是不是基本希望不大了
感觉现在市场上找工作的人很多，让公司满意简直需要technical, soft skills,
likability每样都要好才能拿到offer啊。。。
鼓励一下自己，也祝在找工作的同学们都最终有满意的结果把 |
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x****d
发帖数: 1766 | 2 grandpa 2, i understand where you come from.
However, design is art, not science, right?
For example, One piece of GoF advice was “favor aggregation over
inheritance.” it means, don’t inherit. Instead, delegate from one object
to another. But it also says, use inheritance to
hide variation, not to achieve reuse of code.
So, you see it is very subtle, you can give a lot of blah blah blah to the
interviewer, as long as you can make yourself likable, you will get the
offer. Some questions' intentio... 阅读全帖 |
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c******a
发帖数: 789 | 3 放松自然就好了，英文不好也可以让人感觉自然，likable啊。 |
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c***z
发帖数: 6348 | 4 LZ is doing very well on this, what else do you expect?
My experience, we need you to be: trainable, likable. |
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T********n
发帖数: 528 | 5 我觉得开场白还是用widely applicable current/local events 最自然。
假如没办法随机应变那我建议背两个开场白，为了面试官准时和不准时。可是不要死背
，化成自己自然讲话的风格。
On time （0-～3分钟）:
HM: "blah blah blah how are you"
You: "I'm doing good. I want to start by thanking you for being punctual. I
can imagine how busy you are and I really appreciate it."
Not on time
HM: "blah blah blah I'm so sorry for running late"
You: ", don't even worry about it. I'm not proud of
it, but I do know what it's like"
大部分时候面试官都是running late。基本上让他们笑一笑放松... 阅读全帖 |
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T********n
发帖数: 528 | 6 我觉得开场白还是用widely applicable current/local events 最自然。
假如没办法随机应变那我建议背两个开场白，为了面试官准时和不准时。可是不要死背
，化成自己自然讲话的风格。
On time （0-～3分钟）:
HM: "blah blah blah how are you"
You: "I'm doing good. I want to start by thanking you for being punctual. I
can imagine how busy you are and I really appreciate it."
Not on time
HM: "blah blah blah I'm so sorry for running late"
You: ", don't even worry about it. I'm not proud of
it, but I do know what it's like"
大部分时候面试官都是running late。基本上让他们笑一笑放松... 阅读全帖 |
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s*********a
发帖数: 2623 | 7 不一定吧。。。聊家常能聊出你的性格啊什么的。如果他觉得你没什么passion或者不
怎么likable的话，就可以不招你咯 |
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s*******e
发帖数: 140 | 8 You are too logic to be a likable person. |
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n*****g
发帖数: 25 | 9 Some direction of how to become a good graduate student.
To some these are jokes, to some these are life or death.
The New York Times Magazine. November 29, 1998, Sunday
(the quality considered good for a graduate student:)
He was exactly the kind of student Harvard and every other top-notch
science department looks for: bright, outgoing, likably confident,
intellectually mature, and with an inner reserve of self-reliance that is
indispensable to any researcher working on the cutting edge.
(The |
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J*******p
发帖数: 1129 | 10 从 Dr Sear 那儿看来的。我觉得让孩子能专心地听父母说话真的挺难的。正在学习中
，愿意和各位分享。
25 Ways to Talk So Children Will Listen
A major part of discipline is learning how to talk with children. The way
you talk to your child teaches him how to talk to others. Here are some
talking tips we have learned with our children:
1. Connect Before You Direct
Before giving your child directions, squat to your child's eye level and
engage your child in eye-to-eye contact to get his attention. Teach him how
to focus: "Mary, I need your eyes."... 阅读全帖 |
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s**********1
发帖数: 4651 | 11 Thanks for this post, I learned something too.
My elder daughter had the similar issue, much better now but still has a lot
of room to improve
my younger one is also very sweet and likable, at home and school. |
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t**i
发帖数: 3283 | 12 嗯。我在学校的时候有教授在她的学生里做过种族的研究，发现大多数男生，无论种族
，认为亚裔女孩likable，但认为亚裔男生boring。我觉得生存的艰难主要是文化背景
上的差异在男生能不能被接受上影响比较大 |
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t**i
发帖数: 3283 | 13 嗯。我在学校的时候有教授在她的学生里做过种族的研究，发现大多数男生，无论种族
，认为亚裔女孩likable，但认为亚裔男生boring。我觉得生存的艰难主要是文化背景
上的差异在男生能不能被接受上影响比较大 |
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k****r
发帖数: 851 | 14 讲了很多，基本现象是，女性刚入职时和男性已渐趋平等，但在职场上升每一个阶段，
都和男性拉开越来越多的距离。
为什么呢? 作者是Facebook coo,是个女的，毕业于upenn,她从自身经历，身边朋友同
事的经历，自己阅读的书籍来剖析了这一切。
有很多原因啦，我也没时间一个一个讲，比如说这个network就是一个问题，男的的
network大多是男的，女的的network都是女的，在男性普遍比女性成功的社会里，这种
network会增大男女事业成功的差距。再比如，你要取得领导的赏识，让他多给你有
visibility的活，工作外私人时间的接触是要有的，比如说一起出去吃饭啊什么的。但
是对女的来说比较和男上司一起约吃饭啊什么的还是多有不便，很多女的会抵触或者不
会去追求这种接触。这和那些会和上司social的男的比，就吃了很多闷亏。
但是我觉得这本书最令我震撼的一章，叫做success and likability. 就是说，如果一
个女的self promoting,说自己多厉害多厉害，无论是男的或是女的，都会讨厌她，如
果一个男的这样，大家就觉得很自然，因为传统中男的就是provi... 阅读全帖 |
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c**********n
发帖数: 29 | 15 要是在美国，people skill 在哪里都很重要。
至少你要 likable, 当然在学术上面也要 motivated. |
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k********8
发帖数: 7948 | 16 http://dealbook.nytimes.com/2012/06/25/a-con-man-who-lives-betw
Former hedge fund manager Samuel Israel III after a hearing in 2008 in
Massachusetts, ordering him to return to New York.
BUTNER, N.C. — “I’m a proven liar. Don’t believe anything I say.”
That was what Samuel Israel III told me last week. He is the hedge fund
manager convicted of running a $450 million Ponzi scheme who faked his own
suicide in the summer of 2008 to avoid his prison sentence before turning
himself in after a worldwid... 阅读全帖 |
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k******e
发帖数: 10 | 17 Amiable:
Friendly and agreeable in disposition;
good-natured and likable. |
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l*****e
发帖数: 22 | 19 我2月22日要开车从波士顿前往纽约JFK机场接人，本人的车为SUV，空车出发。出发时
间约为早8点,大约4个半小时到达。现找carpool的车友，大家可以split油费以及过桥
费。如有意愿，请email给我和我联系。谢谢。我的email：l*********[email protected] |
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m****s
发帖数: 7397 | 20 Is Romney Gutsy Enough to Pick Chris Christie?
By Jeffrey Goldberg - Jul 9, 2012 (BLOOMBERG)
Here is a fact causing Republicans to wonder why Mitt Romney isn’t the
runaway favorite in his campaign to unseat Barack Obama: No U.S. president
since Franklin Roosevelt has won re-election when the unemployment rate was
more than 7.4 percent.
So why isn’t Romney the clear favorite? Because Obama remains more popular
personally than one would otherwise expect. Because the Obama campaign has
been more e... 阅读全帖 |
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M****s
发帖数: 825 | 21 that's right.
basically if you were caught speeding, and the cop Bu Shuang , he will throw
this in addition to your main offense.
but if the cop notices you are a likable fella like I ALWAYS am, he will
throw this charge in ONLY, in lieu of your real offense.
They almost never stop you for this alone. Although your final ticket might
appear so. |
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p****x
发帖数: 980 | 22 You are cute and likable, I think |
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L******k
发帖数: 33825 | 23 代理发个帖子，有兴趣的女生朋友们加一下。
请在纽约的女人踊跃加入，founder想定期组织各种活动来丰富大家的工作和生活
小组链接：
http://www.facebook.com/groups/chinesegirlsnyc
小组介绍：
这是我一个朋友发展的club。她的目的是想团结 ，帮助纽约的中国女生在事业上，生
活上更上一层楼。她说，“做女人难，做中国女人更难，做纽约的中国女人难上加难。”
请在纽约的女生踊跃加入。她将来会定期组织活动来丰富大家的生活。
一下是她group description.
I was looking at a powerful video talking about women leadership in work
force, the speaker COO of facebook Sheryl Sandberg says, "the likability
and
success are positively correlated for men and negatively correlated for
women." Unfortunately,... 阅读全帖 |
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m****s
发帖数: 7397 | 24 Is Romney Gutsy Enough to Pick Chris Christie?
By Jeffrey Goldberg - Jul 9, 2012 (BLOOMBERG)
Here is a fact causing Republicans to wonder why Mitt Romney isn’t the
runaway favorite in his campaign to unseat Barack Obama: No U.S. president
since Franklin Roosevelt has won re-election when the unemployment rate was
more than 7.4 percent.
So why isn’t Romney the clear favorite? Because Obama remains more popular
personally than one would otherwise expect. Because the Obama campaign has
been more ef... 阅读全帖 |
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e****k
发帖数: 218 | 25 起码规则要知道，什么时候该CHEER什么时候该BOOO,HOME TEAM和VISITING TEAM的区别
。 篮球本身你要补习也太晚了也没那个功夫， 但是最起码的一些篮球的知识或者是看
球时的ETIQUETTE要知道。TEE加JEAN是可以的，如果你再穿个KNICKS的球衣(可以买7号
ANTHONY的）或者戴个他们的帽子就更加分了。
dont' try too hard to impress socially, boys will be boys and you just do
you. just don't be shy and most importantly you need to enjoy the game, you
will be much more likable. |
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f**********l
发帖数: 1191 | 26 don't be defensive. I didn't say chinese community react bad, but did you
see anybody would stand up on media to say wu was a good father, likable,
nice or so like what Allman's friends did? I would think wu is just like you
and me other than the shooting, a hardworking, respectful engineer. however
the chinese community was just quiet. I hope we would be united, and can
help each other when one is in extremely hard situation (even hard like this
scenario), not attacking. |
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h******p
发帖数: 23 | 28 In Lake City. Close to FredMeyer and QFC, and to a main bus stop with
multiple routes to campus and downtown. Has an indoor parking spot. Fully
furnished with a big corner desk and a queen bed. Good natural lighting.
Ideal for Chinese grad students who don't want to be too close to the
commotion of U District or who are in Seattle for summer internship. Rent $
540 (If you're a clean and likable person, the rent is negotiable) excluding
utilities. From mid-June to end of August (dates negotiable) |
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r*******u
发帖数: 8732 | 30 【 以下文字转载自 Vancouver 讨论区 】
发信人: rainbowwu (Ms.Wu :)), 信区: Vancouver
标 题: 新华社促罗姆尼停棒打中国
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Aug 30 18:51:34 2012, 美东)
美国共和党全国代表大会昨正式提名罗姆尼伙拍瑞安，作為正副总统候选人。大会重头
戏是今天由罗姆尼发表演说，正式接受总统提名。但在罗姆尼正式提名前，新华社昨发
表英语评论文章，警告罗姆尼应立即停止「棒打中国的游戏」及在台湾问题上挑战中国
核心利益。
文章批评，罗姆尼近日提出对台售武的政策犹如踩钢线，因其牴触了中国的核心利益。
文章又不满罗姆尼矢言只要入主白宫，就会即时将中国标籤為「匯率操纵国」，试图令
中国成為所谓「中美贸易不平衡」及美国就业市场疲弱的替罪羊，在美国人面前蒙蔽自
2005年以来人民币已升值逾三成的事实。
文章直指，罗姆尼本身是资深商人，理应清楚知道人民币非中美贸易问题的关键。
文章又指出，美政客把自己的问题归咎中国实在太方便，他们应了解这些言行只会毒害
中美关系，日后无论谁入主白宫，都要花时间修补两国已受损的关系。... 阅读全帖 |
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r*******u
发帖数: 8732 | 31 美国共和党全国代表大会昨正式提名罗姆尼伙拍瑞安，作為正副总统候选人。大会重头
戏是今天由罗姆尼发表演说，正式接受总统提名。但在罗姆尼正式提名前，新华社昨发
表英语评论文章，警告罗姆尼应立即停止「棒打中国的游戏」及在台湾问题上挑战中国
核心利益。
文章批评，罗姆尼近日提出对台售武的政策犹如踩钢线，因其牴触了中国的核心利益。
文章又不满罗姆尼矢言只要入主白宫，就会即时将中国标籤為「匯率操纵国」，试图令
中国成為所谓「中美贸易不平衡」及美国就业市场疲弱的替罪羊，在美国人面前蒙蔽自
2005年以来人民币已升值逾三成的事实。
文章直指，罗姆尼本身是资深商人，理应清楚知道人民币非中美贸易问题的关键。
文章又指出，美政客把自己的问题归咎中国实在太方便，他们应了解这些言行只会毒害
中美关系，日后无论谁入主白宫，都要花时间修补两国已受损的关系。
文章道﹕「罗姆尼在准备发表接受提名的演说时，应被提醒是时候停止过去多月来指摘
中国的游戏。」
亲撰讲稿 妻子谈爱改形象
罗姆尼幕僚昨称，罗姆尼的接受提名演说会谈论外交，但未透露会否大打「中国牌」。
作為政治生涯最重要的40分鐘演说，罗姆尼虽有諮询妻子及资深策略顾... 阅读全帖 |
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m*********a
发帖数: 2000 | 32 http://money.cnn.com/2013/06/21/news/companies/lebron-james-endorsements/index.html?source=cnn_bin
James has $39 million in annual endorsements, more than any other active
athlete, according to the Fortunate 50 rankings compiled by Sports
Illustrated and Fortune magazines. But Michael Jordan is still bringing in a
whopping $80 million in endorsement deals a year - even though he hasn't
set foot on a court in a decade.
Many fans simply don't like James. He was heavily criticized when he moved
to ... 阅读全帖 |
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p******e
发帖数: 897 | 33 After cooling down considerably from the Linsanity fever of 2012, the
Jeremy Lin craze is picking up steam again.
The Houston Rockets guard is creeping back onto the national radar, and his
scoring resurgence has prompted another occurrence of racially tinged
commentary by an ESPN employee.
The most recent incident involves ESPN anchor Jorge Andres, who was
anchoring the 9 p.m. EST edition of SportsCenter on Thursday when he dropped
a one-liner about Lin “cooking with peanut oil.”
The remark was... 阅读全帖 |
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f**********1
发帖数: 52 | 34 well, not first time, same thing with Sean Payton and he had this butt
patting incident with Lion's coach during regular season game.
pretty arrogant guy, rookie coach, didn't follow some of the protocols for a
pre-season game against Saints..
not likable, but did do a great job turning 49ers around this season
such |
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A**d
发帖数: 13310 | 35 Thanks to the pre-civilization glory, 40whiners fans
are very annoying. From the same area, SF Giants fans
are much more likable, even though 40whiners can be
qualified as crap compared to Giants for the last decade.
Yes, Jim Harbaugh is also very annoying. John has much
better personality. I suppose as the CK gamble falls apart,
Jim will also be shown the door. |
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y*******5
发帖数: 5023 | 36 I really don't like Sherman! He is so NOT likable! |
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q*n
发帖数: 1203 | 37 likable job != dream job
i agree dream job is a luxury few can enjoy, and it usually takes a lot luck
and hard work, i have pretty much
given up on it now. |
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r******e
发帖数: 146 | 38 Even if what Roger said is correct, that's just not something he should say,
the same way as saying Rafa one dimensional. You don't say those things, no
matter how good or GOAT you're. It's personality, or you can argue
candidness? But that makes one not likable. That's all. |
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u*********e
发帖数: 9616 | 39 Just realize how much I like big Delpo. Such a sincere and likable person.
Those pics warm my heart.
Good luck to you, big man. |
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n***e
发帖数: 461 | 40 nice. sharapova out. does her justice. she is just a eye sore (and ear sore
too). not sure why but her personality is just annoying and off-putting.
look at this girl who just won. she speaks her mind, looks natural and easy
on the eye, and is very likable. |
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w******n
发帖数: 13172 | 41 最近开始有点likable了，球打的好看了不少，人好像也苗条了一些 |
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C*****r
发帖数: 8380 | 42 IGN评分很客观。 顺便上张被勾引的图 lol
Graphics
3.0
The graphics are unacceptable, boring and very ugly.
Sound
8.0
A very good musical score with some okay voice acting.
Gameplay
5.0
Combat is so-so but it gets old very fast. Side quests are tedious. Boss
battles are very good.
Story
8.0
An interesting story with likable characters but horrible dialogue.
Replay Value
2.0
There is nothing that makes me even want to revisit the game ever again.
OVERALL
5.0
Nier tries to do a lot but it fails at doing anything ab... 阅读全帖 |
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l******n
发帖数: 11737 | 43 gamespot 8.0 great
The Good
Ellie is immediately likable and exhibits poignant growth
Tense combat encounters with plenty of flexibility
Crafting system demands environmental investigation
Slow-paced, rewarding competitive multiplayer
Excellent sound design and moving score.
The Bad
Supporting characters are rarely sympathetic
Combat contains too many immersion-breaking exploits. |
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m*******e
发帖数: 1280 | 44 Some thoughts:
Important for being likable. Other stuffs, such as being good looking,
upbeating, sincere, creative, etc, are all part of it.
Troy would be my final pick.
Among the men, David, Bowie, Kwame, Jason, and Nick have no personalities,
while Sam has too much. Bill is not a team player, he would be the person
to kill you from the back.
Among women, only Amy has the whole package. Feel bad for the Asian girl
Tammy, she is very talented as shown in making the private jet
commercial, but pe |
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j********y
发帖数: 278 | 45 haha, I know he's likable, but come on, he was playing THE hottest man in
the room. It took me only 1 minute to flip the channel. I do have a bad
feeling about castle... heard of firefly but never got into it. By the way,
I used to think he is the lead guy in Arrested development, they look so
much alike. |
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y**y
发帖数: 186 | 46 he is not as good or unique as adam
but he is likable |
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y**y
发帖数: 186 | 47 I like kris.
at this stage of competetion, one needs more than good vocal to win. Kris is
likable, and I feel comfortable when I listen to him. People always vote for
thoes with good personality,not for thoes showing only good vocal.
Danny has wonderful music ability and Lil has great gift but I feel nothing
about them, I can say they are good singers but I just can't feel closed to
them.
best |
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i*********r
发帖数: 5101 | 48 no wonder why Kris won the competition, he is so likable, he probably got
more gay votes than Adam...
I am wondering why Adam is so sure Kris is 100% straight? Did he approach
him and get rejected? |
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x*****i
发帖数: 4035 | 49 there's a thing called satire... another called exageration
for me, each one in the office (except for pam maybe, and oscar?) represents
some kind of flaw in all of us, and they stretch it to the fullest extent (
and beyond, for dwight)
the interaction of these exagerated flaws makes the show funny, but at the
same time, each one of them is likable at certain moments(except for creed?)
. there's the time when dwight hugs pam in the staircase, when stanley and
mike share a laugh with a "that's wh |
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b*w
发帖数: 2062 | 50 they do have great chemistry together. JLo is very very likable. No. 1 and 2
show once again, pretty amazing. |
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