w**********p
发帖数: 559 | 1 great thinking is useless...
loneliness weakens them all. The more sensitive you are, the more lonely
you will be.
张爱
independent |
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p******h
发帖数: 233 | 2 An old man dies, an episode ends
fractions float in memories, body decompose
I lived a rebellious youth, to know the destine
In loneliness I found content and despair
"Now you have eternity," echos the Death
I say, go back to hell, I have nothing to do with you
Neither has I any business in the heaven
A ghost with no fleshy bounds, is trivial as vapor and air
As trivial as when I were alive |
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X*G
发帖数: 187 | 3 Happy Birthday!
Still remember your post on this board before. Liked them.
Never be shy again to celebrate your birthday, especially after you have
your own family. Things can become a habit. Your husband will get used to
your big celebration for him, but never remember to celebrate for you if you
keep going on like this. Your kid will not remember to celebrate for you
when you get old and they grow up.
So, start to form a new habit now :-) Have a big celebration every time and
make your family ... 阅读全帖 |
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l**d
发帖数: 99 | 4 Everyone wants love and does not think he/she gets enough. And everyone
is afraid of loneliness. But there is difference between being alone
and being lonely, right? Withdrawl from the world is a natural reaction
to discomfort. So your behavior is totally understandable. But if you
are not happy with the way you are. Maybe you just change it a little bit
at a time and be the person you want to be. hehe, good luck.
Just find out this board a few days ago. Like here. Everyong seems so
friendly. |
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M***O
发帖数: 3718 | 5 Like deities and tax law, your beloved pet works in mysterious ways. Science
can't explain the power of the pooch or the Karma of the kitty, but numerous
studies have shown that furry companions—just by their presence—can help
lower blood pressure and cholesterol levels, raise chances of survival after a
heart attack, reduce loneliness and depression and spread all-round good
cheer.
Any owner will tell you how much joy a pet brings. For some, a critter
provides more comfort than a spouse. A 2002 |
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p****y
发帖数: 23737 | 6 divorce is the only way I will do, if I were you. I cannot stand someone ar
ound me who has bad temper, not to mention that person has psychological pro
blem and often gets mad easily.
I would rather be single forever, living with loneliness than having a noisy
/lousy marriage. |
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D**N
发帖数: 1440 | 7 there is nothing wrong with aloneness, it's how you relate to solitude
creating feelings of loneliness. |
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D**N
发帖数: 1440 | 8 it's not aloneness creating the problem, it's how you relate yourself to
aloneness creating the panic. craving for uncontrollable items in your life
leads to the feeling of loneliness. it's good to have friends around, but it
's not good to always want friends around. it's fine to have parental love
and attention, but it will be an issue if you cannot live without that. to
die alone is not bad at all (at least your family can save some money :)),
there is nothing to feel guilty of. what's the di |
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t*******n
发帖数: 4445 | 9 being alone and feeling lonely
are different things.
even in the closest relationship
one is still alone in dream and sleep
p.s. do you have an imaginary friend (e.g. from childhood) to talk to? |
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D**N
发帖数: 1440 | 10 hehe......this ID has been doing this for quite a while......writing some
poem-like broken sentences in English with mistakes here and there, and not
wanting to communicate. I guess he/she just uses this board as a semi-
private notebook. Every one has his/her own way to letting out the pressure,
hope this works for him/her. |
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j******n
发帖数: 64 | 11 that's really in my mind, feel lonely..
and i really want suggestion.......
not
pressure, |
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i*****a
发帖数: 7272 | 13 good post!
none of the points applied to me personally, but i cannot agree with this
more:
"it taught me how to handle loneliness,
and that's very important." |
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h*******o
发帖数: 189 | 14 1. part of your grandma's behavior may be related to geriatric psychological issues, e.g., older adults become controlling and manipulative due to fear of loneliness/abandonment/death/illness, some other elderly do this too (比如每天坐在机关大院门口，可怜巴巴的样子，让全世界都觉得我妈没有抽时间陪她) to make their children feel guilty to get the attention and care they want.
she may also have some early symptoms of alzheimer's disease (老年痴呆症). 20% of older adults above 80-y-o are diagnosed with alzheimer's and 50% above 85-y-o have |
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t*******n
发帖数: 4445 | 15 按说新秀作家一炮而红难，第二本写好更难。眼看Jhumpa Lahiri
的《The Namesake》就开始滑坡了。Aslam同学第二本小说居然
这么好看，估计是水平也是慢工出细活（写了11年）的结果。
书是以某英国小镇，巴基斯坦为主的移民社区为场景。小镇的正经
英国名没提，南亚移民们给取名叫Dasht-e-Tanhaii (Desert of
Loneliness)。镇名概括了移民们在陌生国度的心态。人们一方面依
赖共生,一方面百般怀疑戒备着英国的白人社会、巴基斯坦的老家和
镇上的的亲朋邻里。人们为着逃离老家的陋俗贫困而飘洋过海，来
后的精神寄托往往还是原来的宗教道德，时不时有人的名声甚至生
命毁在镇上的流言蜚语中。
贯串全书的故事是一起风俗杀人案。案子表面的过程：镇上的一对
情人，在女方没找到前夫宗教离婚之前公开同居。女方的两个哥哥
为家庭的名誉，手刃了两个无耻男女。按说这个背景和情节最常见
于伤痕文学和谴责小说之类。特别是9/11之后的世界大环境和出版
小环境下，这两类书一万本没有，一百本也是有的。
该书特别的就在于没有落入这两个俗套。作者以男死者长兄Shamas
一家五口人的生 |
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wh
发帖数: 141625 | 16 呵呵，是。我本科论文写sherwood anderson的winesburg, ohio，写一群grotesque的
小镇人的孤独心理。我老师说硕士论文应该把它扩写，写中外文学中的loneliness，像
前不见古人后不见来者那样的。可惜我handle不了，题目太大了，没想出什么突破口。 |
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s******l
发帖数: 278 | 17 CHAPTER 25
The voyage of the Out of Band II had begun in catastrophe,
where life and death were a difference of hours or minutes.
In the first weeks there had been terror and loneliness and
the resurrection of Pham. The OOB had fallen quickly toward
the galactic plane, away from Relay. Day by day the whorl of
stars tilted up to meet them, till it was the single band of
light, the Milky Way as seen from the perspective of Nyjora
and Old Earth -- and from most all the habitable planets of
the Gal |
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t*******n
发帖数: 4445 | 18 loneliness, 前两个字母中间加进 (a leaf falls)
ariesbeida 那个一字是应该加上的，不过现在没有时间拼音输入偏旁乐。 |
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j*******e
发帖数: 2168 | 19 执着
词曲：许巍
每个夜晚来临的时候 孤独总在我左右
每个黄昏心跳的等候 是我无限的温柔
每次面对你时候 不敢看你的双眸
在我温柔的笑容背后 有多少泪水哀愁
不管时空怎么转变 世界怎么改变
你的爱总在我心间 你是否明白
我想超越这平凡的生活 注定现在暂时漂泊
无法停止我内心的狂热 对未来的执著
拥抱着你OH MY BABY 你看到我在流泪
是否爱你让我伤悲 让我心碎
拥抱着你OH MY BABY 可你知道我无法后退
纵然使我苍白憔悴 伤痕累累
Insistence
Every time the night falls,
loneliness catches me around.
Every dusk the pounding heart awaits,
my tenderness with no bound.
Every time I face you,
I dare not look into your eyes.
Behind the tender smiles,
my tear and sorrow lies.
No matter how time and space trans |
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k***l
发帖数: 2396 | 20 loneliness主题听起来就很有趣啊，你有没有贴出来过？你的专业真让人羡慕。有一点
孤独悲伤让人思考，太多了也不好，而且因人而异，有人的孤独悲伤就能成就好作品，
有的就不行。李煜算好的；李清照后期的词却未必比早期的好吧？曹雪芹如果他家一直
过得好，他也不会写出红楼梦，不过他中间的部分也写得很欢乐热闹，不是一味悲伤，
而且我喜欢看热闹的那部分，不过的确不长久，可能如果只写那些就没意思了。我无聊
的时候就是到处瞎逛，浪费时间。 |
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w*****9
发帖数: 2193 | 21 【 以下文字转载自 ChineseClassics 讨论区 】
发信人: chinabbsdad (张果老他爹), 信区: ChineseClassics
标 题: 胡笳十八拍英译
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Sep 3 11:28:58 2015, 美东)
发表于 2015 年 09 月 01 日 由 方壶斋
The Eighteen Songs of Cai Wenji
我生之初尚無為，我生之後漢祚衰。天不仁兮降亂離，地不仁兮使我逢此時。干戈日尋
兮道路危，民卒流亡兮共哀悲。煙塵蔽野兮胡虜盛，志意乖兮節義虧。對殊俗兮非我宜
，遭惡辱兮當告誰？笳一會兮琴一拍，心憤怨兮無人知。’
When I was born the country was in peace
When I grew up she was like broken cheese
Chaos came down from an unkind heaven
From the unkind earth came this ill fortune
Spears and swords clang on the da... 阅读全帖 |
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P***8
发帖数: 116 | 22 求1860年地址气象数据的总数据量和2011年地址气象数据数据量的对比~~
commonly experienced aftereffects of cult involvement are:
depression;
loneliness and a sense of alienation;
low self-esteem and low self-confidence;
difficulty explaining how they could have joined such a group;
phobic-like constriction of social contacts;
fear of joining groups or making a commitment;
apprehension about their own idealism and altruism (which the cult had
manipulated);
distrust of professional services and distrust of self in making good
ch... 阅读全帖 |
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D*****r
发帖数: 6791 | 23 http://www.gutenberg.org/files/37726/37726-h/37726-h.htm
IN GOD'S WAY
SCHOOL-DAYS
I.
In the melting snow on the hill-side by the sea, in the last rays of the
evening sun, stood a boy of fourteen, awestruck. He looked toward the west,
out across the sea; he looked toward the east, over town and shore and the
broad hills; in the background still higher peaks rose far away in the clear
sky.
The storm had lasted a long time; it had been more terrible, too, than any
the old people could remember. In ... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****a
发帖数: 38403 | 24 这还需要科普么？随手一找，
"My feelings as a Christian points me to my Lord and Savior as a fighter. It
points me to the man who once in loneliness, surrounded by a few followers,
recognized these Jews for what they were and summoned men to fight against
them and who, God's truth! was greatest not as a sufferer but as a fighter.
In boundless love as a Christian and as a man I read through the passage
which tells us how the Lord at last rose in His might and seized the scourge
to drive out of the Temple the b... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****a
发帖数: 38403 | 25 没关系，只要你对你自己抱信心就成了，lol
另外，means that He is steadfast in His superiority [over other
deities] and exacts retribution upon those who forsake Him.
The common experience of jealousy for many people may involve:
Fear of loss
Suspicion of or anger about a perceived betrayal
Low self-esteem and sadness over perceived loss
Uncertainty and loneliness
Fear of losing an important person to another
Distrust
这奏是由独占欲带来的吃果果的嫉妒，和随着嫉妒而来的要“报仇”的狂怒，通常就是
要把"背叛"的对象消灭掉， 这个所谓神的心理和暴力情杀犯是很符合滴，有着极其强
烈的妒嫉心独占欲和暴力倾向。不过暴力情杀犯通常... 阅读全帖 |
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E*****m
发帖数: 25615 | 26 http://udn.com/NEWS/OPINION/X1/8373770.shtml
從多元家庭論戰 看「邪惡的平庸」
【聯合新聞網╱台北訊】
2013.12.23 04:08 pm
本文選自異外之聲‧同志熱線電子報
猶太大屠殺的歷史教訓：邪惡的平庸
2013女性影展播映電影「漢娜‧鄂蘭：真理無懼」，讓人印象深刻。以人文與社
會科學為專業的學生，大多聽過這位現代重要的女性思想家，特別是常被人引用的「邪
惡的平庸」（the banality of evil）。
電影集中描述，漢娜‧鄂蘭（以下簡稱鄂蘭）參加德國納粹的頭號戰犯阿道夫&#
8226;艾希曼，在耶路撒冷大審的四年經過。曾是納粹軍官的艾希曼，在戰爭期間將上
百萬的猶太人送入毒氣室，造成種族屠殺的大規模死亡。流亡他國的艾希曼被猶太特務
綁架，並將之引渡到以色列大審，可想而知舉國對他的仇恨。
但鄂蘭作為一名猶太人，年輕時也參加過猶太復國主義活動，卻在參加大審期間，警醒
到仇恨作為遮蔽正義實踐的危險，也導致當她提出「邪惡的平庸」論點時，遭致眾多的
不諒解與圍剿，因為艾希曼作為頭號戰犯，不正是最邪惡... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****a
发帖数: 38403 | 27 数据网上很多，自己找呗, 至于希特勒是基督徒的证据就更多了，给大师摘几段他自己
的话，请大师自己慢慢欣赏， 我奏先不奉陪了
“The anti-Semitism of the new movement (Christian Social movement)
was based on religious ideas instead of racial knowledge.”
[Adolf Hitler, "Mein Kampf", Vol. 1, Chapter 3]
“I believe today that I am acting in the sense of the Almighty
Creator. By warding off the Jews I am fighting for the Lord’s work.”
[Adolph Hitler, Speech, Reichstag, 1936]
“I have followed [the Church] in giving our party program the
character of unalterable fina... 阅读全帖 |
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D*****r
发帖数: 6791 | 28 另一篇2010年时候的采访
Cacau – striker for Germany’s national team – is telc’s newest
Ambassador for Multilingualism and Integration
June 2010 | Frankfurt am Main
http://www.telc.net/en/about-telc/current-news/cacau-striker-fo
Multilingualism and integration are the great challenges of our time. To
those who have mastered Europe’s languages, the portals to her future stand
wide open. Equally important is the will to integration – especially for
those people whose roots lie outside those countries in whic... 阅读全帖 |
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S**U
发帖数: 7025 | 29 尼采说过失去盲目的信仰之后，如何挣扎找到自己相信的美好。
Nietzsche's "Three Metamorphoses"
by Jason Francois
In the section of Thus Spoke Zarathustra entitled, "Of the Three
Metamorphoses,” Zarathustra describes a process of human transformation.
This transformation will become Zarathustra's answer to the fears and
anxieties created by the "death of God".
Nietzsche begins: "I name you three metamorphoses of the spirit: how the
spirit shall become a camel, and the camel a lion, and the lion at last a
child".
These metaphors... 阅读全帖 |
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w*********r
发帖数: 2192 | 30 赛斯名言精选
文：赛斯 来源：新时代网 时间：2005-1-30 13:45:28 点击：541
001.Conciousness is Like a Flower with many Petals.
--Seth's first message to this world. Seth, "Seth Material".
意识就象一朵有着许多花瓣的花朵。——赛斯带给这个世界的第一个讯息
002.I come here because it is fun. I have fun when I come here. I do not
come here because I feel that I have any great responsibility for your
beings or welfare. Who am I to set myself against the innate wisdom of your
own individual being, or to take upon my invisible shoulders the great
privileg... 阅读全帖 |
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w*********r
发帖数: 2192 | 31 赛斯名言精选
文：赛斯 来源：新时代网 时间：2005-1-30 13:45:28 点击：541
001.Conciousness is Like a Flower with many Petals.
--Seth's first message to this world. Seth, "Seth Material".
意识就象一朵有着许多花瓣的花朵。——赛斯带给这个世界的第一个讯息
002.I come here because it is fun. I have fun when I come here. I do not
come here because I feel that I have any great responsibility for your
beings or welfare. Who am I to set myself against the innate wisdom of your
own individual being, or to take upon my invisible shoulders the great
privileg... 阅读全帖 |
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Y**u
发帖数: 5466 | 32 I hope you can all hear me, can you? Is it quite audible? Right. This is the
last talk. During the last three times that we have met here we have been
talking about the chaos in the world, the misery, the suffering, and the
desire for entertainment and the avoidance of fear. We went into several
things concerning our daily life. During all these talks it must have been
very clear that we are concerned with the human transformation
psychologically, for that alone can bring about a change in the s... 阅读全帖 |
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J******s
发帖数: 7538 | 33 And here is a nice poem from him.
- I have no parents. I make heaven and earth my parents.
- I have no home. I make mindfulness my home.
- I have no life and death. I make the tides of breathing
my life and death.
- I have no divine power. I make honesty my divine power.
- I have no friends. I make my mind my friend.
- I have no enemy. I make carelessness my enemy.
- I have no sword. I make absence of self my sword.
"To overcome loneliness, first learn to meditate,
to live in the moment. Living ... 阅读全帖 |
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w*******w
发帖数: 2051 | 34 http://dharmatreasure.com/question-answer/practice-in-ones-dail
Question: how does one bring one’s practice to bear, 100% effectively, 100%
of the time, with no lapses in attention, poise, tranquility, and natural
confidence, in daily waking life? If this is not happening, what does one do
about it?
Answer:
Thank you for introducing this topic, because it is a very important one.
You have already received some good suggestions and I hope there will be
more to come. Here is what I have to offer, ... 阅读全帖 |
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g*****n
发帖数: 547 | 35 But it's better than drinking alone |
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h*****w
发帖数: 244 | 37 //comfort
same la :-)
everyone in here is perhaps lonelier than in BNU. i still
remember my roommates and i used to sit on the lawn and take
pictures and read books.
in here it's hard to find people to talk to everyday --
that's why there's BBS, hehe :) |
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a********e
发帖数: 3771 | 38 LOL
non-wsn should foreign F too!
BTW, r u going to leave from loneliness, raccoon? |
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H********o
发帖数: 316 | 39 loneliness is 高贵 yah keke |
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e**t
发帖数: 83 | 40 I'm going to study at BC now. I'm also in Boston.【 在 loneliness (lonely) 的大作中提到: 】 |
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r***a
发帖数: 58 | 41 that is a very common feeling when you first got here, actually,
you might feel more and more lonely later on. However, there is
a lot to experience, you might have to experience it yourself,
still it is something new. So, cheer up! |
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R*s
发帖数: 2041 | 42 Man! take it easy. Life goes on anyway!
我想正是当你尝受了这种孤独，度过了这种孤独的时侯，
你才实现了来米国的真正意义。
这大概也是人生最宝贵的一种经历吧。
说起来，孤独算不了什么，偶刚来那阵儿，自杀的心都有呢。 |
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c***d
发帖数: 102 | 43 分特。。。听起来真是挺后怕的
幸好ras足够坚强呵呵
也许是啊算是一种很宝贵的经历吧
sigh
大家都觉得我的生活很好
事实上连我自己都觉得是很好
可是心里的感觉，怎么形容？
不踏实
笑得不踏实，哭得不踏实
在国内那些张狂挥洒的岁月总是瞅着空儿浮上心来
我的水还是在那里，我是一条离开水的鲨鱼
//hand ras, let's go back and I will treat you a meal in China. |
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m***y
发帖数: 20 | 44 很多人和你有同感，包括偶
那又怎么样呢？
你可以举一百条这儿的不好
可是你还是更愿意留在这里
尽管寂寞，尽管孤独
因为我们贪啊
有了物质就开始要求精神
这是偶们活着的动力啊
呵 呵
别报怨了
尽量快乐一些吧 |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 45 Gone with the wind.
Returned with the rain.
Lost in the altercation.
Awaken in the meditation.
Saddened in the shadow of loneliness.
Blessed in the circle of friends. |
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i********a
发帖数: 186 | 46 Suddenly I want to find out how many IDs
have the word 'lonely' included..
查询谁: lonel
=============================== 所有使用者列表 ==============================
lonelycat
lonelyfish
lonelyguy
lonelyman
lonelywolf
loneliness
lonelymoon
lonely
lonely_jack
lonelyheart
lonelyghost
lonelytoo
lonelybamboo
LONELYRYAN
lonelymm
Sigh~~~,Lonely is not only our BM,but our life... |
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m******r
发帖数: 1686 | 47 It took me so life a time to adjust to american life.
After changing address and major, I suddenly feel better than ever.
The loneliness and idleness were gone because of the buzy studing.
I think all the persons water here are poor person because they must feel lonely.
Otherwise, who will water here if they have party to take part in?
Hope everyone here be happy.........
Go back to sleep lah.....
Sigh, to perpare for the XXXXing midterm, I am almost mad now.......... |
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a*********7
发帖数: 30080 | 48 【 以下文字转载自 LosAngeles 讨论区 】
发信人: airdragon77 (仍然自由自我永远高唱我歌), 信区: LosAngeles
标 题: 为湖南农村的留守儿童捐图书
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Feb 5 14:36:54 2013, 美东)
http://tinyurl.com/abe7yxx
捐款方法：点上面的链接，然后点Donate，就可以用信用卡捐款了。捐完款后会收到免
税凭据，而且有些公司可以凭收据再以一定比例MATCH你的捐款；所以请大家去自己的
公司打听一下，如果可能的话，资本主义的墙角不挖白不挖啊！
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In China's rural areas, there are many so-called "Left-behind kids". The
kids' parents have to go to cities, which could be hundreds or thousands of
miles away, to earn a livi... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 30080 | 49 【 以下文字转载自 LosAngeles 讨论区 】
发信人: airdragon77 (仍然自由自我永远高唱我歌), 信区: LosAngeles
标 题: 为湖南农村的留守儿童捐图书
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Feb 5 14:36:54 2013, 美东)
http://tinyurl.com/abe7yxx
捐款方法：点上面的链接，然后点Donate，就可以用信用卡捐款了。捐完款后会收到免
税凭据，而且有些公司可以凭收据再以一定比例MATCH你的捐款；所以请大家去自己的
公司打听一下，如果可能的话，资本主义的墙角不挖白不挖啊！
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In China's rural areas, there are many so-called "Left-behind kids". The
kids' parents have to go to cities, which could be hundreds or thousands of
miles away, to earn a livi... 阅读全帖 |
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z*****i
发帖数: 941 | 50 I wrote a unpublished manuscript about Kafka, out of a casual writing dialogue
with a friend who is a fan of Kafka. I am not. And, to be honest, I don’t
really like him. Anyway, this piece could be interesting to someone who is
thinking about or experiencing loneliness.
Warning: (just like the warning on the cigarette box) Although this manuscript
is relatively short, I don’t think most people will enjoy finishing it. The
subject and content is boring or irrelevant to some, and I got no problem |
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