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发帖数: 4651 | 1 table manners。我们小时候说实话哪里管什么table manners |
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s***n
发帖数: 1280 | 2 基本赞同潮水北滩的看法。补充几点。
1,我觉得你儿子的一些行为问题不是情商或社交问题，也和智商高低不搭界。你描述的
一些行为问题更象是manner的问题。要通过严格的管教来解决。
2，半开玩笑地说，对gifted孩子的行为问题，最有效的办法是打屁股。如果打了几次
屁股还改不掉，就说明孩子不是真gifted... Time Out 和体罚等传统惩罚手段对
gifted娃是有效的，特别是小娃。
3，解决好了manner问题，再来看情商和社交情况。如果还是有问题，那就要打持久战
了。
4，Gifted的孩子有个体差异。没有很普适的教育法，家长要看碟下菜。前面潮水北滩
有些不错的建议，我不赘诉了。
5，五六岁的孩子应该开拓他们的视野，多学习多尝试不同的东西。多参加打酱油级别
的文体琴棋书画班。在这过程观察孩子的兴趣和天分。 |
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m******4
发帖数: 503 | 3 mean girls
high school music
the secret life of an american teenager
glee
never been kissed
等等，等等，有很多。。。。
下面是在孩子还没进入teenage阶段时给她买的一些书的一部分，供参考。我不会刻意
去要求她看这些书，一般我都是装作我在读这些书，有意无意地把书扔在一些她能看得
到的地方，出于好奇，有时或者是无聊，孩子一般会拿起书来看。我也不会主动去和她
讨论这些书，如果她自己来讨论，我一般是多听少说，多鼓励她的想法。
A Smart Girl's Guide to Manners (American Girl) (American Girl Library)
A Little Book of Manners: Courtesy & Kindness for Young Ladies
Success Through A Positive Mental Attitude
Breaking Night: A Memoir of Forgiveness, Survival, and My Journ... 阅读全帖 |
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m******4
发帖数: 503 | 4 mean girls
high school music
the secret life of an american teenager
glee
never been kissed
等等，等等，有很多。。。。
下面是在孩子还没进入teenage阶段时给她买的一些书的一部分，供参考。我不会刻意
去要求她看这些书，一般我都是装作我在读这些书，有意无意地把书扔在一些她能看得
到的地方，出于好奇，有时或者是无聊，孩子一般会拿起书来看。我也不会主动去和她
讨论这些书，如果她自己来讨论，我一般是多听少说，多鼓励她的想法。
A Smart Girl's Guide to Manners (American Girl) (American Girl Library)
A Little Book of Manners: Courtesy & Kindness for Young Ladies
Success Through A Positive Mental Attitude
Breaking Night: A Memoir of Forgiveness, Survival, and My Journ... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1718 | 5 我家男宝三岁半了，以前都是放羊，让孩子随天性发展。我们没太特意给他约play
date，约的几次有玩得还行的，有没玩起来的。
我注意观察了一下，他去play ground玩比较喜欢找白女孩子玩，通常比他小的可以玩
起来，比他大的会不理他。他对亚洲人和男孩子态度差一些。在学校最好的朋友以前是
一个白女孩，现在是一个亚洲男孩。
我属于比较紧张的妈妈，有点玻璃心。纠结的几方面--
一，不知道他是否有种族意识，我总觉得他对中国孩子爱理不睬的，两岁多的时候有一
次看见肤色暗一点的孩子就主动跟人家说西班牙语。我希望他能神经大条一点，不要觉
得自己是黑头发有什么不同或不对，但另一方面又希望他在知道自己是chinese的情况
下能够很自豪。好象是有点自相矛盾。昨天带他去买东西，看见很多漂亮的餐具我就说
是中国制造，现在很多好东西都是中国制造出来的。他就问为什么，我说因为中国有很
多好的工厂，他追问为什么有很多工厂，我说上次妈妈带你去中国了，你看见有好多人
了对不对？很多人所以可以建很多工厂。昨天另外一次他很认真地说我们永远都是中国
人，估计是孩子爸教的。我附和说对。不知道这样的话题对三岁多的孩子会不会... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 537 | 6 Please keep your manner! Have some sense of humor. Do not curse and say
dirty words here. If you are a Chinese, please do not lose face for all of
the Chinese. I could imagine this kind of behaviors are the ones that a lot
of people do not want to deal with when they go back to China. Fortunately,
most of Chinese have civilized manners. |
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q*d
发帖数: 22178 | 7 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
swjtuer (swjtuer) 于 (Tue Mar 30 23:56:30 2010, 美东) 提到:
星期一
早餐 牛奶，煮鸡蛋，玉米馒头，榨菜
早点 芦柑
午餐 中大：绿豆饭，木须肉，海米冬瓜，棒骨菠菜汤
小婴：绿豆饭，三叶瓜炒肉，海米冬瓜，棒骨菠菜汤
午点 冰糖山楂水，蔬菜饼
晚餐 棒骨冬苋菜瘦肉粥，卤肉秋叶夹馍
星期二
早餐 牛奶，蒸鸡蛋，枣泥糕
早点 香蕉
午餐 中大：胡萝卜饭，芹菜炒牛肉，珊瑚豆腐，棒骨凤尾汤
小婴：胡萝卜饭，芹菜炒肉，珊瑚豆腐，棒骨凤尾汤
午点 果汁，卤猪肝
晚餐 豌豆肉末焖饭，番茄虾皮紫菜汤
星期三
早餐 南瓜粥，卤蛋，如意肉卷
早点 脐橙
午餐 中大：金银饭，咸烧白，海米儿菜，棒骨冬苋菜汤
小婴：金银饭，樱桃肉，海米儿菜，棒骨冬苋菜汤
午点 牛奶，蛋卷
晚餐 米饭，蒜苔炒肉，芙蓉蒸蛋，棒骨海带萝卜汤
星期四
早餐 牛奶，蒸鸡蛋，奶香馒头
早点 苹果
午餐 中大：南瓜饭，什锦鱼丸，韭菜炒豆干，番茄菌类鱼汤
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p********a
发帖数: 6437 | 8 SB, you think that you are better than a 民科?
you are son of 孟山都, a fucking loser.
your brain must be fucked up by some ZJU guys, i mean, literally.
what kind of hatred you have against ZJU? and why?
what dumb school u come from?
孟山都 retarded elementary?
look, biased retarded, for asshole like you kind, you attack in a soft and
mean manner
but i attack in a harsh manner |
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发帖数: 7948 | 9 Guest Post: Plaza Accord 2.0: Is it Coming? Is it Here?
October 15th, 2010 by Michael Krieger
If we desire respect for the law, we must first make the law respectable.
The greatest dangers to liberty lurk in insidious encroachment by men of
zeal, well-meaning but without understanding.
Experience teaches us to be most on our guard to protect liberty when the
government’s purposes are beneficent.
Fear of serious injury alone cannot justify oppression of free speech and
assembly. Men feared witch... 阅读全帖 |
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N********n
发帖数: 8363 | 10 通货紧缩 is exactly what economy needs. Backing the money with hard
commodities expands the supply in the split manner, which is legitimate.
Backing it with none expands it in the dilution manner, which is a scam. |
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发帖数: 7948 | 11 http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2142866/JPMorgan-Chase-
Revealed: London trader known as 'Voldemort' who is suspected of blowing
bank's staggering $2billion lossFrench-born, British-based Bruno Michel
Iksil believed to be responsible
Dubbed the 'London Whale', be bragged 'he could walk on water'
Believed to be part of Chief Investment Office at heart of bank's losses
Ina Drew, boss of CIO, was paid $14million last year
Shares in British banks fall: Barclays, RBS and Lloyds all hit
By Dai... 阅读全帖 |
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w******t
发帖数: 1929 | 12 Hype-炒作，也叫pump股票， 在free chat room（古板也是其一）是一种常见现象。
摘录这篇文章希望和偶一样的小散善于分辨股票和人，自己FA/TA，进出心中有数。
有看不懂英文的或者看英文觉得累的说一声， 可以google全文翻译。。。
HYPE
I spend a lot of time discussing the topic of hype in this chapter because
I have seen literally hundreds of traders lose their entire portfolios due
to it and I want to ensure that you fully understand what can and is hap-
pening out there. One of the main complaints I hear about online services
is that a lot of hype and misinformation tends to be given. This occur... 阅读全帖 |
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a*******m
发帖数: 14194 | 13 周末，我把这个文件读完了。
这个文件将会有六个语言的版本出来， 肯定会晚一点出来，现在只有英文版本。
文件的下载地址：
巴黎气候大会的协议
http://unfccc.int/resource/docs/2015/cop21/eng/l09.pdf
读完了之后，我再补充一下，前面读了一半的部分没有cover的东西
1. 这个协议版本的问题， 6种语言版本。
Article 29
The original of this Agreement, of which the Arabic, Chinese, English,
French, Russian and Spanish texts are equally authentic, shall be deposited
with the Secretary-General of the United Nations.
2. 什么时候生效的问题
跟《京都议定书》1997年签署，但是真正生效是俄罗斯为了加入WTO，2005年才签字，
满足生效条件一样。 这个《巴黎气候大会协议》生效的前提是， 至少55个国家或者地
区，
至少55%的比... 阅读全帖 |
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p**o
发帖数: 380 | 14 B is really rude, lack of basic manner and education, i
just do not understand why so many ppl on this board said
white guys are well educated in manners.
that is bullshit, i saw many rude and under educated white
trashes. |
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a**********t
发帖数: 9684 | 15 Sorry cannot type Chinese now - agree with you overall, just add one point - most college
kids, spoiled by their parents at home and having little social
communication in real life (no working experience), of course their manners
tend to be more rude and less considerate. That's why professors are seldom
rude, but many kids are. Unless they had very strict family education. Most
will only improve their manners after graduation and getting a job. |
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b********o
发帖数: 1157 | 16 Yes, I know some college kids are not well educated, but most of those I saw
are very polite with good manners. Actually as long as you respect others,
you'll get respect in return.
We were all educated to respect teachers/older people since we were very
young in China. However, who will respect the kids/students? Every one is
equal. As a teacher, we should respect our students as well.
- most college
manners
seldom
Most |
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s****n
发帖数: 77 | 17 内推QA Active Directory 背景 可以考虑H1
如果有Active Directory 的背景， 我们可以考虑办理H1 公司在新泽西， 可以
WFH.
Purpose of Position:
Software QA Engineers are responsible for all facets of the manual QA
process across multiple software solutions with the end goal of releasing
high quality software. We expect QA Engineers to develop and execute test
cases (in a manner that lend themselves to subsequent automation), carry out
the actual product testing, as well as diagnose and document problems that
are discovered and docu... 阅读全帖 |
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s****n
发帖数: 77 | 18 我这里有2名QA Engineer的需求，公司总部在NJ central， 基本的job description
如下。 基本上面试为2-3轮， 我会第一轮面试（技术）， 后面的都不是技术面试。
如果你们有兴趣的联系我。
公司的福利：
1. 15天的PTO
2. Work from Home
3. 401K Matching
4. Great Health benefit, 300 per pay month for the entire family. 250
Deducible
5. Home office Expenses.
6. Profit Sharing Bonus Plan, been paid out each year.
Software QA Engineers are responsible for all facets of the manual QA
process across multiple software solutions with the end goal of releasing
high quality software. We exp... 阅读全帖 |
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b****n
发帖数: 8 | 19 Address:
Email:
Cell phone:
Work phone:
Oct 28, 2013
Department of Homeland Security
USCIS Nebraska Service Center
P.O. Box 87103
Lincoln, NE 68501-7103
I-140 Immigration Visa Petition Under First Preference EB-1
Petitioner/Beneficiary: XX Z., Ph.D.
Category of Petition: Alien of Extraordinary Ability
Classification Sought: 203(b)(1)(A)
Nature of Submission: Original Submission
Dear Immigration Officer,
This letter is respectfully submitted in s... 阅读全帖 |
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b****n
发帖数: 8 | 20 Address:
Email:
Cell phone:
Work phone:
Oct 28, 2013
Department of Homeland Security
USCIS Nebraska Service Center
P.O. Box 87103
Lincoln, NE 68501-7103
I-140 Immigration Visa Petition Under First Preference EB-1
Petitioner/Beneficiary: XX Z., Ph.D.
Category of Petition: Alien of Extraordinary Ability
Classification Sought: 203(b)(1)(A)
Nature of Submission: Original Submission
Dear Immigration Officer,
This letter is respectfully submitted in s... 阅读全帖 |
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j********1
发帖数: 762 | 21 每年年底进行选举。这是继初始理事会后的第一次选举结果，在2010年4月举行的。2010年底又进行了一次选举。
NIU bylaw http://www.niunational.org/aboutus/by-laws.html
ARTICLE V: BOARD OF DIRECTORS
Section 5.1 Governance. The Corporation shall be managed by the Board of
Directors, which may exercise all such power of the Corporation and do such
acts and things as may be permitted by law to be done by a New York not-for-
profit corporation.
Section 5.2 Eligibility. All Directors must be members of the Corporation.
No person who is a paid employee o... 阅读全帖 |
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L*****g
发帖数: 646 | 22
A bill to amend the Immigration and Nationality Act to eliminate
discrimination in the immigration laws by permitting permanent partners of
United States citizens and lawful permanent residents to obtain lawful
permanent resident status in the same manner as spouses of citizens and
lawful permanent residents and to penalize immigration fraud in connection
with permanent partnerships.
"in the same manner as spouses of citizens and lawful permanent residents“
- 如果你track一下这个法案，你会发现这个法案其实专门给bi-nati... 阅读全帖 |
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r********n
发帖数: 1162 | 23 An Indian Guru said:
Nice summary SKpanda. I think #2 is more likely. #1 is next & #3 is least
likely.
The reason being USCIS and DOS do not have such fine operations to move
dates in a fine manner such as #3. So that leaves #1 & #2. #1 is a bit
extreme. So #2 is more likely.
Originally Posted by skpanda
There is no precedent for this kind of situation. Many people including me
are waiting for what steps DOS/USCIS will take to build the pipeline once
their Demand Data shows '0' for EB2IC. A pos... 阅读全帖 |
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a****t
发帖数: 191 | 24 背景：
H1: 没有用过AP/EAD卡，还是原来的H1，H1 797过期是11/31/2013。
H4: 拿到AP/EAD回国了，中间持H4签证回美一次，年前准备持AP/EAD combo返美，
Combo 3月过期。
1.请教入境时除了带AP/EAD combo卡外还需要带什么？797表？
2.入境时移民官会让呆到那个日期？
3.765表疑问：
（1）H1: No.14 Manner of Last Entry 以前填的是Temporary worker,现在是不是
还是这么填？ No.15 current immigration status 填啥？
（2）H1: No.11 那个日期date填最近申请EAD的那个日期吗？以哪个日期为主？（以
前OPT申请过EAD，哪个就不要了吧？）
（3）H4: No.14 Manner of Last Entry与No. 15 current immigration status 怎
么填？
4. H1/H4 一起renew是不是将材料放入两个信封然后一起邮寄走就可以了？还需要
cover letter之类的吗？
谢谢。 |
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z**k
发帖数: 945 | 25 USCIS Reviewing Social Media Accounts of Applicants
May 2, 2016
Representatives from the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS)
recently revealed to members of the American Immigration Lawyers Association
(AILA) that USCIS adjudicators have been "… testing social media review in
adjudications." They further indicated that the agency is reviewing social
media as part of pilot programs in order to "… develop standard operating
procedures (SOPs), adjudications guidance, and other necessa... 阅读全帖 |
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p*******o
发帖数: 2726 | 26 The Secretary of State and the Secretary of Homeland Security, as
appropriate, shall-
1. within 30 days of the date of this order, conform to Congressional
intent the manner in which the Department of State and the Deparment of
Homeland Security determine when an immigrant visa is "immediately available
"; and
2. propose for notice and comment a regulation that would reform the manner
in which aliens file for AOS in order to reduce inefficiencies in the way
immigrant visas are allocated;
看来下个月移民... 阅读全帖 |
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c****y
发帖数: 2544 | 27 发信人: porterleo (power), 信区: EB23
标 题: EO关于排期和AOS的部分
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jan 26 11:08:47 2017, 美东)
The Secretary of State and the Secretary of Homeland Security, as
appropriate, shall-
1. within 30 days of the date of this order, conform to Congressional
intent the manner in which the Department of State and the Deparment of
Homeland Security determine when an immigrant visa is "immediately available
"; and
2. propose for notice and comment a regulation that would reform the manner
in which alie... 阅读全帖 |
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r******g
发帖数: 59 | 28 今天收到agent发来的电子版租房合同，里面有些条款觉得有点过分，但是我是第一次
在这边租房，不知道是不是都是这样的~
Tenant agrees to professional clean the carpets at least once a year and
upon vacating the premises. Upon vacating the premises tenant agrees to
professionally clean carpets by a company that is either approved by the
Owner or Owner’s agent. If carpets are not professionally cleaned to Owner
’s satisfaction upon vacating the premises, then expense of the Owner
having to professionally clean or reclean the carpets will be the financial
r... 阅读全帖 |
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r******g
发帖数: 59 | 29 今天收到agent发来的电子版租房合同，里面有些条款觉得有点过分，但是我是第一次
在这边租房，不知道是不是都是这样的~
Tenant agrees to professional clean the carpets at least once a year and
upon vacating the premises. Upon vacating the premises tenant agrees to
professionally clean carpets by a company that is either approved by the
Owner or Owner’s agent. If carpets are not professionally cleaned to Owner
’s satisfaction upon vacating the premises, then expense of the Owner
having to professionally clean or reclean the carpets will be the financial
r... 阅读全帖 |
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f*****y
发帖数: 42 | 31 Who We Need: Right now, we’re looking for a Help Desk Associate. This role
is responsible for managing the day-to-day queue of helpdesk tickets that
are requested by all employees. The Help Desk Associate must be able to
prioritize, as necessary, the tickets in the queue. Where necessary, the
Help Desk Associate needs to identify the most important tasks to resolve
each day. A primary function is to support off-site employees, especially
the sales team, in resolving issues in a timely manne... 阅读全帖 |
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G****a
发帖数: 10208 | 32 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: umutata (土著人), 信区: Military
标 题: 80-20规律：给琐男科普下自由婚恋市场的那些事
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Feb 12 15:58:42 2015, 美东)
文章比较长，我给个尽量简短易懂的摘要。我只陈述客观现象，不作道德评判。
如果有1000个男的，1000的女的，放到一个孤岛上。理论上，他们很快会结成1000对伴
侣，但实际上比这复杂多了。
这1000个女的当中，有800个会去围着男的当中200个条件最好的转。这200个男的平均
每人有四个女的，于是就变得花心，在多个女的中间周旋，保持好几个炮友。而其他
800个男的就很难操上逼，心理容易出问题，有的会攻击那些Top 20%的男的，成为杀人
犯；有的会攻击那些80%的女的，成为强奸犯。
而女的当中，那80%的女的会逐渐厌倦跟众多其他女人的竞争，离开top 20%的男的，去
找80%的男的接盘。甚至还有女的跟top 20%男的生了孩子之后找人接盘，接盘男还要养
别人的孩子。
最后加上我的评论：
第一，所谓的“自由”婚恋市场，... 阅读全帖 |
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s********r
发帖数: 2067 | 33 【 以下文字转载自 Automobile 讨论区 】
发信人: superpower (执著的创业者), 信区: Automobile
标 题: Is this 汽车代购买手合同 ok to sign?
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri May 4 12:10:16 2012, 美东)
Independent Contractor Agreement
This Agreement is made on [
] between XYZ Inc, and (
).
Subject to the terms and conditions as set forth herein, XYZ Inc, Inc
retains [ ... 阅读全帖 |
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m****s
发帖数: 7397 | 34 Is Romney Gutsy Enough to Pick Chris Christie?
By Jeffrey Goldberg - Jul 9, 2012 (BLOOMBERG)
Here is a fact causing Republicans to wonder why Mitt Romney isn’t the
runaway favorite in his campaign to unseat Barack Obama: No U.S. president
since Franklin Roosevelt has won re-election when the unemployment rate was
more than 7.4 percent.
So why isn’t Romney the clear favorite? Because Obama remains more popular
personally than one would otherwise expect. Because the Obama campaign has
been more e... 阅读全帖 |
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g******7
发帖数: 1532 | 35 【 以下文字转载自 Quant 讨论区 】
发信人: gene2007 (休假式治疗), 信区: Quant
标 题: A job opening (quant Analyst)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Aug 18 18:50:59 2015, 美东)
From career site of Federal Reserve Bank of NY
这个工作需要做统计相关的，会Stata或SAS, data analysis,会一些modeling.
请注意这个工作需要美国公民或者绿卡。感兴趣的请直接去FRB-NY的career site 申请
，也可以把简历给我由我转交。
Quantitative Analyst, Collateral Valuation & Analysis – Markets Group-
242290
Federal Reserve Bank of New York
Primary Location NY-New York City
Full-time / Part-time Full-time
Employee Status Regular
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a*o
发帖数: 25262 | 36 Manner, it's the way of acting, it's more about one's mood or temper. You
have good personality, but you can have bad manner while you are in a bad
mood.
Personality: a person as an embodiment of a collection of qualities. Or the
quality of being a person; existence as a self-conscious human being;
personal identity.(from Dictionary) The most important word in explaining
personality is quality. People need to be educated (trained) to have good
quality. Obviously, domestic violence is not part of... 阅读全帖 |
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m****s
发帖数: 7397 | 37 Did Michael Lewis libel Wing Chau?
http://blogs.reuters.com/felix-salmon/2011/02/28/did-michael-le
Felix Salmon
A slice of lime in the soda
Feb 28, 2011 22:45 EST
Is this a case of reality copying satire? A couple of weeks ago, Michael
Lewis caricatured the dissenters from the FCIC report:
Financial Crisis Cause No. 3: The Chinese
And then today, in his defamation lawsuit against Lewis, Wing Chau seems to
imply that’s what Lewis actually thinks:
Wing Chau and his immediate family are Chinese imm... 阅读全帖 |
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N*******O
发帖数: 2 | 38 【 以下文字转载自 JobMarket 讨论区 】
发信人: NissanCEO (NissanCEO), 信区: JobMarket
标 题: 【NYC Job Openning】Data Analytics Manager
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jan 27 14:47:05 2012, 美东)
广告公司，需要至少2年数据分析经验，网络数据方面的最好，some SQL is a must。
得是NYC附近的，这个position没有relocation。简历送到f*****[email protected]。问题站
内问就可以了。
OVERALL SUMMARY - POSITION DESCRIPTION
The Manager, Data Analytics works closely with the Director and VP, Director
of Data Analytics to assist in overseeing the data analytics team. This
includes: working with the planning g... 阅读全帖 |
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s********r
发帖数: 2067 | 39 【 以下文字转载自 Automobile 讨论区 】
发信人: superpower (执著的创业者), 信区: Automobile
标 题: Is this 汽车代购买手合同 ok to sign?
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri May 4 12:10:16 2012, 美东)
Independent Contractor Agreement
This Agreement is made on [
] between XYZ Inc, and (
).
Subject to the terms and conditions as set forth herein, XYZ Inc, Inc
retains [ ... 阅读全帖 |
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m****s
发帖数: 7397 | 40 Is Romney Gutsy Enough to Pick Chris Christie?
By Jeffrey Goldberg - Jul 9, 2012 (BLOOMBERG)
Here is a fact causing Republicans to wonder why Mitt Romney isn’t the
runaway favorite in his campaign to unseat Barack Obama: No U.S. president
since Franklin Roosevelt has won re-election when the unemployment rate was
more than 7.4 percent.
So why isn’t Romney the clear favorite? Because Obama remains more popular
personally than one would otherwise expect. Because the Obama campaign has
been more ef... 阅读全帖 |
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g*******a
发帖数: 31586 | 41 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: umutata (土著人), 信区: Military
标 题: 80-20规律：给琐男科普下自由婚恋市场的那些事
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Feb 12 15:58:42 2015, 美东)
文章比较长，我给个尽量简短易懂的摘要。我只陈述客观现象，不作道德评判。
如果有1000个男的，1000的女的，放到一个孤岛上。理论上，他们很快会结成1000对伴
侣，但实际上比这复杂多了。
这1000个女的当中，有800个会去围着男的当中200个条件最好的转。这200个男的平均
每人有四个女的，于是就变得花心，在多个女的中间周旋，保持好几个炮友。而其他
800个男的就很难操上逼，心理容易出问题，有的会攻击那些Top 20%的男的，成为杀人
犯；有的会攻击那些80%的女的，成为强奸犯。
而女的当中，那80%的女的会逐渐厌倦跟众多其他女人的竞争，离开top 20%的男的，去
找80%的男的接盘。甚至还有女的跟top 20%男的生了孩子之后找人接盘，接盘男还要养
别人的孩子。
最后加上我的评论：
第一，所谓的“自由”婚恋市场，... 阅读全帖 |
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g******7
发帖数: 1532 | 42 【 以下文字转载自 Quant 讨论区 】
发信人: gene2007 (休假式治疗), 信区: Quant
标 题: A job opening (quant Analyst)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Aug 18 18:50:59 2015, 美东)
From career site of Federal Reserve Bank of NY
这个工作需要做统计相关的，会Stata或SAS, data analysis,会一些modeling.
请注意这个工作需要美国公民或者绿卡。感兴趣的请直接去FRB-NY的career site 申请
，也可以把简历给我由我转交。
Quantitative Analyst, Collateral Valuation & Analysis – Markets Group-
242290
Federal Reserve Bank of New York
Primary Location NY-New York City
Full-time / Part-time Full-time
Employee Status Regular
... 阅读全帖 |
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g*********d
发帖数: 17 | 43 版上经常看到JM们在打听幼儿园的事，想想3年前我也是整天在网上翻得底朝天的找幼
儿园信息，所以决定把我们家娃上过的和我知道的其他幼儿园的情况总结一下，供大家
参考.
首先是地点啊，我们家住在Carmel Valley，上班地点mira mesa, 双职工，所以我们
当时找的都是在Carmel Valley到Sorrento Valley一带的fulltime幼儿园。
我参观过的幼儿园有：
1. Kindercare Del Mar Highland
2. Carmel Valley Montessori ( carmel Valley 初中旁边那个)
3. Beth Montessori ( carmel Valley campus)
4. Bright Horizons
5. A brighter Future preschool
6. Childtime learning center (UTC)
7. Kinderhouse Montessori (Mira Mesa campus)
8. Sorrento Valley children center
9. Del Mar... 阅读全帖 |
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g*********d
发帖数: 17 | 44 版上经常看到JM们在打听幼儿园的事，想想3年前我也是整天在网上翻得底朝天的找幼
儿园信息，所以决定把我们家娃上过的和我知道的其他幼儿园的情况总结一下，供大家
参考.
首先是地点啊，我们家住在Carmel Valley，上班地点mira mesa, 双职工，所以我们
当时找的都是在Carmel Valley到Sorrento Valley一带的fulltime幼儿园。
我参观过的幼儿园有：
1. Kindercare Del Mar Highland
2. Carmel Valley Montessori ( carmel Valley 初中旁边那个)
3. Beth Montessori ( carmel Valley campus)
4. Bright Horizons
5. A brighter Future preschool
6. Childtime learning center (UTC)
7. Kinderhouse Montessori (Mira Mesa campus)
8. Sorrento Valley children center
9. Del Mar... 阅读全帖 |
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l******e
发帖数: 427 | 45 推荐一个美国人的familycare，我家妞现在的那个，因为大孩子要上elementary
school了，要走不少，所以有不少
opening。
推荐给，对于新来san diego，急于找地放娃，好的daycare又排不上的。
或者，一直是在中文环境，想在上daycare前适应一下英语环境的。
或者，就是喜欢familycare的氛围的。
优点：
（我自己比较关心的）
1。 很奇怪的是，我家妞从第一天就没有drop off cry，这是让我最放心的地方。因为
开始我特别担心，她在前一个中国
人的familycare整整哭了2个多月，虽说后来她也玩的挺高兴，但是每天的drop off
cry对于我来说真是太suffer了。本
来想她第一次去美国的familycare会很抵触，结果却出奇的好。不过，这个是个例。
2。对于manner的training很好。一般自己的娃，不管怎么放养，到了2岁都开始有些坏
习惯，比如怕人，不喜欢给别
人玩自己的玩具什么的。这个familycare让我最满意的地方就是对于manner的training
很系统很自然。比如说，什么都
要加上please，说he... 阅读全帖 |
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n******n
发帖数: 602 | 46 你挣钱要有manner,那是你能干啊。犯不着指责社会底层的人没有尊严，没有manner。
你是要凸显你比别人更有尊严还是认为他们拖累了你在美国的光辉形象？
遇到这种事情，你有心就给几十块几百的，没心就一笑了之。就比如有人当乞丐，多有
难呈之苦，不必赶尽杀绝。 |
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O***n
发帖数: 13127 | 47 calm down
you made wrong accusation. 我没有指责社会底层的人没有尊严，没有manner。是有些人。大部分穷人是有尊严有manner得过着生活。当然可以recycle挣钱，应该鼓励.
“你是要凸显你比别人更有尊严还是认为他们拖累了你在美国的光辉形象？” 什么logic? 莫名其妙
但不是等在边上看人家喝饮料然后伸着手要瓶子。那让别人uncomfortable. 所以有人在网上write comment on apartment reviews.
为什么要“遇到这种事情，你有心就给几十块几百的”？ 莫名其妙。 |
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a***s
发帖数: 5417 | 48 why not?
我喜欢有教养的(good manner)女婿/儿媳，一来我的孩子跟有教养的人在一起生活比较
开心，令一方面我们长辈也容易跟之交流。On average, 中产家庭长大的老外有good
manner. |
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D**********R
发帖数: 25234 | 49 manner不是吃饭端起碗，吃一口用餐巾擦下嘴，小口抿这抿那的，喝茶还得盖者脸那种
么？大户人家的习惯。
听大家的意思，好像坐一圈，轮流往盘子里吐口水才叫manner不好，那这个。。。。我
也受不了啊，哈哈哈和 |
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S*******9
发帖数: 368 | 50 You can forward your resume if interested.
Job Title:
MANAGER, FINANCE PLANNING & ANALYSIS
Job Status: EXEMPT
(Exempt or Non-Exempt)
Reports To: AVP, ACCOUNTING & FINANCE Dept. Name:
ACCOUNTING & FINANCE
JOB OBJECTIVE (brief statement of the core job responsibilities to be
accomplished):
Under the general guidance of the Assistant Vice President, Accounting &
Finance, the incumbent oversees
the financial planning and analysis functions of the credit union. The
incumbent develops and
coordinates ... 阅读全帖 |
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