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M****u
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来自主题: WaterWorld版 - 原来教主的笔名叫做肖活宝
http://blog.sina.com.cn/s/blog_47406879010008a8.html
(转)坐过美国大牢的肖传国败了多少美国官司:老婆,监狱长,雇主,路人(2007-02
-11 21:58:01)转载▼ 分类: 学术打假
看了肖传国在国外官司屡败的真相,国内国外还有谁支持肖传国这种人,就难以理解了
。   肖以前在美国打的官司: Court: New York Civil Supreme Index Number:
0721431992 Case Name: YUAN, WEI vs. XIAO, CHUANGUO Case Type: Contested
Matrimonial Court: Bronx Civil Supreme Index Number: 0013741993 Case Name:
XIAO,CHUANGUO vs. WARDEN Case Type: Other Torts Court: Kings Civil Supreme
Index Number: 0224221997 Case Name: CALI ,LUCY AVELENDA ... 阅读全帖
g********d
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NOM'S TOUR MASTERMIND,FACEBOOK FOUNDER,AND ONLINE STRATEGIST,LOUIS MARINELLI
, NOW SUPPORTS OUR CIVIL MARRIAGE EQUALITY! THE MUCH-BALLYHOOED SUMMER
MARRIAGE TOUR 2010 OPENED HIS EYES!
(*Interview conducted via email)
(1) G-A-Y's JEREMY HOOPER: On record, I'd ask you to go through the list of
comments you have written/ Tweeted/ blogged/ Facebooked and repudiate any/
all that you now see were objectionable.
LOUIS MARINELLI: I quoted from the research of Paul Cameron when I said that
homosexuals ha... 阅读全帖
l****z
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来自主题: USANews版 - Divorce Law's New Cut
Changes Meant to Protect the Poor Are Mandating Bigger Alimony Payouts
By SOPHIA HOLLANDER
When New York adopted no-fault divorce in 2010 after decades of failed
attempts, lawyers and families praised legislators for eliminating the need
for one of the bitterest elements of a divorce: assigning blame.
More than a year later, critics say more troubling aspects of the reform
package have emerged.
A New York divorce law passed in 2010 set a strict formula for judges
awarding temporary alimony. Sond... 阅读全帖
h***y
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来自主题: Military版 - 谁说印度对穆斯林很强硬来着
孟买将建立第一个伊斯兰教法民事及婚姻法庭
Mumbai gets its first Shariah court to settle civil, marital disputes
MUMBAI: The city is set to get its first Darul Qaza or Shariah court to
settle civil and marital disputes in the Muslim community. The court, set up
by the All India Muslim Personal Law Board, will be inaugurated on Monday
at Anjuman-i-Islam, near CST, and will serve to fill a long-felt need of the
community.
Shariah courts already function at many places in the country, such as
Hyderabad, Patna and Malega... 阅读全帖
w*******e
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来自主题: Military版 - 西方人婚礼仪式太TM虚假了
法官询问:
Wilt the have this Woman to be thy wedded wife, to live together after
God's ordinance in the holy estate of Matrimony? Wilt the love her, comfort
her, honor, and keep her, in sickness and in health; and forsaking all other
, keep thee only unto her, so long as ye both shall live?
新郎回答 Yes, I Do.
Wilt the have this man to be thy wedded husband, to live together after
God's ordinance in the holy estate of Matrimony? Wilt the obey him, and
serve him, love, honour, and keep him in... 阅读全帖
g********d
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http://washingtonexaminer.com/opinion/columnists/2011/02/states
States should be allowed to disagree on gay marriage

By: Steve Chapman 02/27/11 9:05 PM
President Obama has been denounced by Republicans for asserting federal
power at the expense of state sovereignty. But last week, he was denounced
by Republicans for ... not asserting federal power at the expense of state
sovereignty.
It happened after the Justice Department announced it would not litigate to
uphold the Defense of Marriage Ac... 阅读全帖
n**********1
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来自主题: Family版 - 离婚的法律问题
这个版好像有很多询问离婚法律问题的帖子。版头置顶的帖子有很大问题。我发这个帖
子只是希望告诉一些在婚姻中不幸的姐妹,你的很多权利在美国是有法律保护的。
离婚时如果有任何关于财产,孩子的问题,一定要找专业人士,也就是matrimonial
lawyer解决。像看医生一样,骨头断了要找外科医生。找律师也要对症, 离婚找移民
律师是解决不好问题的。
离婚是很复杂的问题,涉及Child Custody, Alimony, Property Distribution,
Child Support, 有401(K),Enhanced Earning Capacity。
女性,特别是StayHomeMom, 如果对美国法律不了解,就不能保护自己应该得到的权力
和财产。离婚就算没有财产,没有孩子,还可能存在伴侣继承的遗产,401K帐户, 银
行账户,投资帐户, 婚前财产,研究生学位等各种财产的划分。孩子的Custody还存在
Visit,Supervised Visit, 是否能带回国外,或者外州等问题 。如果存在这些问题
一定要询问Matrimonial Lawyer。
具体到个人,每个人情况不同,... 阅读全帖
o**********e
发帖数: 18403
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【 以下文字转载自 SanFrancisco 讨论区 】
发信人: onetiemyshoe (onetiemyshoe), 信区: SanFrancisco
标 题: 简.爱,毕业生:诚信契约精神(求职必读)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Feb 7 10:51:39 2015, 美东)
参见简。爱:
简。爱,跟罗切实特先生结婚。
婚礼时候:牧师喊:“Should anyone here present know of any reason that this
couple should not be joined in holy matrimony, speak now or forever hold
your peace“ 然后就狗血的暴露了罗切实特的前妻尚生。 婚礼报销。
再参见毕业生:
女主与男配婚礼,正在2-PHASE COMMIT的宣誓过程中,男主从天而堕。
婚礼报销。
------------- 我的评论 -----------
英美结婚的风俗,就是结婚前先:
Proposal->acceptance
Engagement->notification o... 阅读全帖
o**********e
发帖数: 18403
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【 以下文字转载自 SanFrancisco 讨论区 】
发信人: onetiemyshoe (onetiemyshoe), 信区: SanFrancisco
标 题: 简.爱,毕业生:诚信契约精神(求职必读)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Feb 7 10:51:39 2015, 美东)
参见简。爱:
简。爱,跟罗切实特先生结婚。
婚礼时候:牧师喊:“Should anyone here present know of any reason that this
couple should not be joined in holy matrimony, speak now or forever hold
your peace“ 然后就狗血的暴露了罗切实特的前妻尚生。 婚礼报销。
再参见毕业生:
女主与男配婚礼,正在2-PHASE COMMIT的宣誓过程中,男主从天而堕。
婚礼报销。
------------- 我的评论 -----------
英美结婚的风俗,就是结婚前先:
Proposal->acceptance
Engagement->notification o... 阅读全帖
G*********2
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来自主题: EB23版 - 说说美国领的结婚证
Right.
The form (形式) may be different from state to state (in some states, even
different from county to county), but the principle is generally the same:
Marriage License – 允许结婚, 但并不表明结了婚.
Marriage Certificate – 结了婚的证明书; but you first have to get / have the
Marriage License to be able to marry.
That’s why, usually, there is a waiting period between getting a Marriage
License and getting married / getting the Marriage Certificate (it seems to
be from 3 to 30 days, from the above posts for differ... 阅读全帖
o**********e
发帖数: 18403
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参见简。爱:
简。爱,跟罗切实特先生结婚。
婚礼时候:牧师喊:“Should anyone here present know of any reason that this
couple should not be joined in holy matrimony, speak now or forever hold
your peace“ 然后就有人狗血地暴露了罗切实特的黄脸婆还活着。 婚礼报销。
再参见毕业生:
女主与男配婚礼,正在2-PHASE COMMIT的宣誓过程中,男主从天而堕。
婚礼报销。
------------- 我的评论 -----------
英美结婚的风俗,就是结婚前先:
Proposal->acceptance
Engagement->notification on newspaper, at church
Wedding: asking "Should anyone here present know of any reason that this
couple should not be joined in holy matrimony, speak ... 阅读全帖
o**********e
发帖数: 18403
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参见简。爱:
简。爱,跟罗切实特先生结婚。
婚礼时候:牧师喊:“Should anyone here present know of any reason that this
couple should not be joined in holy matrimony, speak now or forever hold
your peace“ 然后就有人狗血地暴露了罗切实特的黄脸婆还活着。 婚礼报销。
再参见毕业生:
女主与男配婚礼,正在2-PHASE COMMIT的宣誓过程中,男主从天而堕。
婚礼报销。
------------- 我的评论 -----------
英美结婚的风俗,就是结婚前先:
Proposal->acceptance
Engagement->notification on newspaper, at church
Wedding: asking "Should anyone here present know of any reason that this
couple should not be joined in holy matrimony, speak ... 阅读全帖
o**********e
发帖数: 18403
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【 以下文字转载自 SanFrancisco 讨论区 】
发信人: onetiemyshoe (onetiemyshoe), 信区: SanFrancisco
标 题: 简.爱,毕业生:诚信契约精神(求职必读)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Feb 7 10:51:39 2015, 美东)
参见简。爱:
简。爱,跟罗切实特先生结婚。
婚礼时候:牧师喊:“Should anyone here present know of any reason that this
couple should not be joined in holy matrimony, speak now or forever hold
your peace“ 然后就狗血的暴露了罗切实特的前妻尚生。 婚礼报销。
再参见毕业生:
女主与男配婚礼,正在2-PHASE COMMIT的宣誓过程中,男主从天而堕。
婚礼报销。
------------- 我的评论 -----------
英美结婚的风俗,就是结婚前先:
Proposal->acceptance
Engagement->notification o... 阅读全帖
m******h
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来自主题: Prose版 - 风尘故逝(10)
这一夜,小白躺在床上真是百感交集,点滴回忆在脑海里激起万朵涟漪,五内中各种滋
味。她只觉面红耳热,没有一丝睡意,就这样挨到了天明,略施粉黛,换一身崭新淡蓝
色连衣裙,脚穿全新米色高跟鞋,外罩一件黑色羊毛风衣。王谢穿一套崭新的黑色礼服
。小白父母也是精心打扮,看上去年轻了十岁不止。一家四口人围坐在圆桌前吃了她母
亲煮好的汤圆,便赶来市政厅门口与冯琛和笑绯会合。
小白仔细研究过网上的信息,对流程自然是了然于胸,一行人跟在她后面径直走入。登
记结婚的办公室不大,简洁朴素,只有中间一张黑色的办公桌和一个黑袍法官。大家问
了好,法官看了结婚许可证,又装模作样问了愿不愿“执子之手,与子偕老”之类耳熟
能详的问题。小白,王谢便交换戒指,就领了结婚证,总共不过10分钟。冯琛负责摄像
,笑绯负责递戒指,四人配合的天衣无缝,虽然冯束两人都私下抱怨小白为这事还专门
召集他们排练了一遍。小白的母亲意犹未尽,还在抱怨结婚哪能如此简单,人生最重要
的仪式还没高潮就结束了,又坚持寒假回家一定要补办得风风火火。小白解劝道:“美
国人婚礼就是这么简朴。两人真心相爱才是主要的。”她母亲训道:“怎么什么都跟美
国人学?美国... 阅读全帖
T*****n
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来自主题: TrustInJesus版 - 基督教先哲反对生育控制
Contraception
Historically, Christians always have condemned contraceptive sex. The two
forms mentioned in the Bible, and sterilization, are
condemned without exception (Gen. 38:9-10, Deut. 23:1). The Fathers of the
Church recognized that in natural law the purpose of sexual intercourse is
procreation; contraceptive sex, which deliberately blocks that natural
purpose, is therefore a violation of natural law.
Every church in Christendom condemned contraception until 1930, whe... 阅读全帖
C*****y
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http://www.xys.org/xys/ebooks/others/science/dajia8/xiaochuanguo327.txt
坐过美国大牢的肖传国败了多少美国官司:老婆,监狱长,雇主,路人
作者:肖活宝
正常人有几个愿意老打官司?网上名骗肖传国就是华人官司大王。在美国,
他打了不止5个官司,从1992年打到2007年,十五年如一日,含辛茹苦。
肖和什么人打过官司呢?老婆,监狱长,雇主,路人。没什么人不打,屡战
屡败。
1992年,肖传国的老婆Yuan Wei和肖打到纽约最高民事法庭,打离婚,不是
和平离婚,是有争执的离婚(contested matrimonial)。
1993年,肖传国到纽约Bronx区民事法庭打监狱长(Warden)的官司,可见肖
坐过美国的大牢。(肖做为犯人申请人身保护令(habeas corpus))
1997年,美国夫妇LUCY AVELENDA CALI 和 ROSS CALI打肖传国的汽车官司,
美国夫妇和肖不过是路人,也打起官司来了。
2001年,肖传国被雇主纽约长岛学院医院撤职,2002年肖传国向纽约南区法
院起诉雇主歧视,败诉。
2
p*******e
发帖数: 1749
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原配不该自己不打拼,或者在国内混出个摸样,或者拼到美国来自立,把所有希望天真
的寄托到无良丈夫身上…
发文者也挺虚伪啊,男人打拼为“家庭”,养个小三可以理解,要是换成女人出轨,估
计又要换上一副道德嘴脸了
引用Family Guy的Quagmire大叔名言:
Once entered into marriage is a sacred bond and alliance blessed by God and
hallowed by the community. That's why I'll never opt for the matrimonial
condition it wouldn't be fair to the historical framework of the institution
but to those who DO And then turn their back on the Long Standing Tradition
x*******i
发帖数: 1590
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来自主题: Military版 - 老肖在美国的官司
贴于2007/02/11 13:04 (华中科技大学校友论坛)
正常人有几个愿意老打官司?网上名骗肖传国就是华人官司大王。在美国,
他打了不止5个官司,从1992年打到2007年,十五年如一日,含辛茹苦。
肖和什么人打过官司呢?老婆,监狱长,雇主,路人。没什么人不打,屡战
屡败。
1992年,肖传国的老婆Yuan Wei和肖打到纽约最高民事法庭,打离婚,不是
和平离婚,是有争执的离婚(contested matrimonial)。
1993年,肖传国到纽约Bronx区民事法庭打监狱长(Warden)的官司,可见肖
坐过美国的大牢。
1997年,美国夫妇LUCY AVELENDA CALI 和 ROSS CALI打肖传国的汽车官司,
美国夫妇和肖不过是路人,也打起官司来了。
2001年,肖传国被雇主纽约长岛学院医院撤职,2002年肖传国向纽约南区法
院起诉雇主歧视,败诉。
2002年,肖传国上诉联邦巡回法院,2003年再败诉。
肖传国屡战屡败说明了什么?
第一,肖在网上吹自己牛,说美国多么重视他,完全是捏造。他工作了十年
的医院,一个默默无名小医院(长岛学院医院),都开除了他,把他的实验
l*****n
发帖数: 1648
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WASHINGTON, D.C. — Harris Wofford, 90, a former Democratic senator from
Pennsylvania, announced Sunday he intends to marry a 40-year-old man.
In an article for the New York Times, Wofford said he will marry Matthew
Charlton on April 30. The union comes about 20 years after the death of
Wofford's wife, Clare, in 1996. The couple were married for 48 years.
In the Times article, Wofford said he met Charlton about 15 years ago and
their friendship gradually grew more intimate.
"To some, our bond is ... 阅读全帖
r******e
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Discrimination based on skin color was most visible in British India, where
skin color served as a signal of high status for the foreign British who
actively promoted the idea.[citation needed]
The caste system in India too involves complications of skin color. British
historians observed that since the upper castes were not involved in tedious
labor and weren't as exposed to the sun as the lower castes, they used to
stay indoors and thus possessed lighter brown skin.[citation needed] The
lower ... 阅读全帖
s*x
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光是柏拉图就留传下这么多作品,估计洋洋洒洒得有百万字了吧。不知道都是写在什么
上的,考古证据有哪些,懂的人给科普一下。
书目:
(第1卷)
申辩篇 Apology 伦理
克里托篇 Crito 论责任、伦理
斐多篇 Phaedo 论灵魂、伦理
卡尔米德篇 Charmides 论自制、试验
拉凯斯篇 Laches 论勇敢、助产术
吕西斯篇 Lysis 论友爱、助产术
欧绪弗洛篇 Euthyphro 论虔敬、试验
美涅克塞努篇 Menexenus 葬礼演说、伦理
小希庇亚篇 论虚假、反驳
伊安篇 Ion 试验
高尔吉亚篇 Gorgias 论修辞、反驳
普罗泰戈拉篇 Protagoras 论智者、批判
美诺篇 Meno 论美德、试验
(第2卷)
欧绪德谟篇 Euthydemus 论诡辩、反驳
克拉底鲁篇 Cratylus 论正名、逻辑
斐德罗篇 Phaedrus 论爱、伦理
会饮篇 Symposium 论善、伦理
国家篇 The Republic 论正义、政治
第一卷 Book 1 - (Of Wealth, Justice, Moderation, an... 阅读全帖
g******t
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是不是超出你的想象了,原来还可以这样呀?我第一次听说也是觉得难以置信,惊掉下巴
Slave women were forced to comply with sexual advances by their masters on a
very regular basis. Consequences of resistance often came in the form of
physical beatings; thus, an enormous number of slaves became concubines for
these men. Most often the masters were already bound in matrimony, which
caused tension and hatred between the slave and the mistress of the house.
Many "mulatto" or racially mixed children also resulted from these relations
. Becaus... 阅读全帖
m******1
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纽约日报:开放式的同性关系正在改写传统的婚姻模式
旧金山州立大学最近关于同性伴侣的调查引起了纽约日报的兴趣,纽约日报找到一些被
调查的同性伴侣,做了深度研究,看开放式的关系为什么能存在。
NYT: Open Relationships Key to Gay Marriage?
By Advocate.com Editors
GAY THREESOME, RPOMO SHOT FROM FILM KING SIZE X390
Promo shot from the threesome comedy King Size.
Citing a recent study by San Francisco State University on the frequency of
open relationships among gay couples, a new article in The New York Times
says same-sex couples are rewriting the traditional rules of matrimony.
From The New Yor
c*****e
发帖数: 2073
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I see what you mean. But the point giving a new name to gay marriage is all
about religion. Christian claims marriage as holy matrimony; it's sacred to
the Church. Marriage is a religious tradition, everything from sharing a
cake to wearing white is part of a religious ceremony. those people wish gay
people go through their lives never saying grace, praying or even being
christened yet they get married in a church and say wedding vowels. This is
the same religion that forces homosexuals undergro
S***e
发帖数: 4426
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我认为,在中国“婚姻”的概念跟西方很不同。
中国人的传统婚姻观念是“娶妻生子”,婚姻跟“传宗接代”是非常紧密的联系在一起
的。
西方人的传统婚姻观念是“holy matrimony”,婚姻是上帝的祝福。
所以,中国人对同性婚姻的态度一般是“不理解”:同性恋何必结婚?
而西方人最主要的反同势力就是基督徒,认为同性恋是“罪”的基督徒。
我觉得,否定基督教基本是不可能的。但是基督教的教义其实非常灵活,可以变通。
所以要靠进步的基督徒去带动顽固的基督徒,最终的效果是:博爱的上帝也祝福同性婚
姻。
但在中国,讨论同性婚姻其实非常缺乏基础,根本成不了气候。
当然了,如果大部分西方国家都承认同性婚姻了,中国可能不用讨论就也承认了。
事实上,中国自古实行一夫多妻,还不是一下就学了别人的一夫一妻么。
S***e
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我认为,在中国“婚姻”的概念跟西方很不同。
中国人的传统婚姻观念是“娶妻生子”,婚姻跟“传宗接代”是非常紧密的联系在一起
的。
西方人的传统婚姻观念是“holy matrimony”,婚姻是上帝的祝福。
所以,中国人对同性婚姻的态度一般是“不理解”:同性恋何必结婚?
而西方人最主要的反同势力就是基督徒,认为同性恋是“罪”的基督徒。
我觉得,否定基督教基本是不可能的。但是基督教的教义其实非常灵活,可以变通。
所以要靠进步的基督徒去带动顽固的基督徒,最终的效果是:博爱的上帝也祝福同性婚
姻。
但在中国,讨论同性婚姻其实非常缺乏基础,根本成不了气候。
当然了,如果大部分西方国家都承认同性婚姻了,中国可能不用讨论就也承认了。
事实上,中国自古实行一夫多妻,还不是一下就学了别人的一夫一妻么。
s******8
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http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/federal-appeals-court-rules-
The march toward gay marriage across the U.S. hit a roadblock Thursday when
a federal appeals court upheld laws against the practice in four states,
creating a split in the legal system that increases the chances the Supreme
Court will step in to decide the issue once and for all.
The cases decided were from Ohio, Michigan, Kentucky and Tennessee.
Breaking ranks with other federal courts around the country, the 6th U.S.
Circuit Cour... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: USANews版 - Does Facebook Wreck Marriages?
By Quentin Fottrell
Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg changed his status to “married” Saturday and
received over one million “likes” from his followers. But the site he
founded isn’t always so marriage-friendly. In fact, lawyers say the social
network contributes to an increasing number of marriage breakups.
More than a third of divorce filings last year contained the word Facebook,
according to a U.K. survey by Divorce Online, a legal services firm. And
over 80% of U.S. divorce attorneys say they’... 阅读全帖
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WASHINGTON — The Supreme Court put a stop to same-sex marriages in
conservative Utah on Monday pending the state's appeal of a federal district
court's order that had legalized the unions.
The high court, acting on a petition sent to Justice Sonia Sotomayor, ruled
that gay marriages cannot continue during the appeals process. The case is
pending before the 10th Circuit Court of Appeals.
U.S. District Judge Robert Shelby ruled Dec. 20 that the state's ban on same
-sex marriage violates gay and le... 阅读全帖
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左臂们已经都失心疯鸟,尼玛
Mrs. Claus is now a mister in a new gay-themed Christmas storybook for
children that has CNN and the rest of the Mainstream Media all aflutter.
“Santa’s Husband” tells the story of a black Kris Kringle and his white
husband living in holy matrimony at the North Pole.
http://www.foxnews.com/opinion/2017/12/20/ho-ho-what-mainstream-media-heralds-book-depicting-santa-claus-as-gay-black-man.html
P**********l
发帖数: 310
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来自主题: Faculty版 - 周末挖坑:合适的伴侣
应个景:
Advice for a Young Investigator
Santiago Ramon y Cajal.
Although many would disagree, we believe that the man of science should be
married and should face the pressures and responsibilities of family life
courageously.
He will not emulate the selashness of Epicurus, who did not marry in an
attempt to avoid cares and woes, nor the exaggerated reanement of Napoleon,
whose only use for a woman was a nurse in old age.3 For the man of science,
the aid of a wife is just as necessary in youth as i... 阅读全帖
n**********1
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32
我这里准备写一些女性关心的离婚法律话题, 我慢慢加, 你要有什么问题可以在下面
跟, 我看见题目合适就加上。
我这个帖子主要是给低收入,对美国法律不了解的女性, 强调女性一方的收入比较低
,或者没有收入。
离婚是很复杂的问题,涉及Child Custody, Alimony, Property Distribution,
Child Support, 有401(K),Enhanced Earning Capacity。 女性,特别是
StayHomeMom, 如果对美国法律不了解,就不能保护自己应该得到的权力和财产。离婚
就算没有财产,没有孩子,还可能存在伴侣继承的遗产,401K帐户, 银行账户,投资
帐户, 婚前财产,研究生学位等各种财产的划分。孩子的Custody还存在Visitation,
Supervised Visitation, 是否能带回国外,或者外州等问题 。如果存在这些问题一
定要询问Matrimonial Lawyer。
请特别注意的是,每个人情况不同,家庭法是州法控制,每个州法律不同,你的具体问
题一定要咨询合格的家庭法律师。
1. 离婚后的绿卡问题
如果你是与公... 阅读全帖
T*******7
发帖数: 636
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☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
newyearid001 (newyearid001) 于 (Thu Jun 7 20:59:56 2012, 美东) 提到:
我这里准备写一些女性关心的离婚法律话题, 我慢慢加, 你要有什么问题可以在下面
跟, 我看见题目合适就加上。
我这个帖子主要是给低收入,对美国法律不了解的女性, 强调女性一方的收入比较低
,或者没有收入。
离婚是很复杂的问题,涉及Child Custody, Alimony, Property Distribution,
Child Support, 有401(K),Enhanced Earning Capacity。 女性,特别是
StayHomeMom, 如果对美国法律不了解,就不能保护自己应该得到的权力和财产。离婚
就算没有财产,没有孩子,还可能存在伴侣继承的遗产,401K帐户, 银行账户,投资
帐户, 婚前财产,研究生学位等各种财产的划分。孩子的Custody还存在Visitation,
Supervised Visitation, 是否能带回国外,或者外州等问... 阅读全帖
c********e
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34
婚后财产是夫妻共同财产,除非有婚前协议。他把他的钱 - 其实是你们的共同财产 -
未经你同意就赠与他人(就是他父母),你知道你有权利上法院申请强制令,强制分割
财产 - 就是他给人5000,你就要求留5000给自己,将来离婚还是立遗嘱,他对这5000
想都别想。一旦法院判了,你要立刻把那笔钱存进一个自己独立的帐户,开户时要注明
缘由,这样这个钱就traceable了。
你现在买了房,不是一个很好的选择,你等于把你的15万白送了他一半。matrimonial
home 无论谁出钱,在谁名下,配偶都多少有些权利的。
楼上一个人说的对,下次再发疯,全程录像。只要有证据,只要法院认定是家暴,不用
熬一年时间分局,法院立刻判离,而且有多少孩子都会判给你的。搞不好他连探视孩子
的权利都会首限制。
Z***e
发帖数: 2983
35
你们一帮大妈不要这里帮别人算钱了,看lz一家也不想有什么灰色收入,在美国都电子
记录清清楚楚的。一帮人又在瞎操心
离婚,刚开始都谈钱,
毕竟钱越少越心痛,都是幸苦钱
但毕竟钱又很少,多分又能多分多少呢?
但想想换来的各自追求各自幸福的自由是无价的,才是真正的述求。我要是lz男人,净
身出门,大家刚来美国除了富二官二不都这样吗?而且给小孩子的抚养费是权利要争取
,不是负担。还就怕不要,以后污蔑是父亲出走抛骑弃子了
大妈一定要多劝劝楼主,放这个垃圾股一马。对小孩子的成长环境也好。只要安排得好
,夫妻做不了了,孩子他爸还是孩子他爸,孩子他妈还是孩子他妈,这个是基因定了的。
一般孩子跟女的,不是跟女的有多好,而是女一般的离不娃。让她去带。自己干好事业
是王道,从不讨好的事务中解放出来,对自己对小孩子都好。

-
5000
matrimonial
x****n
发帖数: 1454
36
来自主题: Family版 - 请教孕妇如何办理离婚
在网上查查google 一下matrimonial home, 看看你们州是怎么说的。有的州是如果是
家庭在离婚时住的房子, 即使房子是婚前买的, 你也有一半产权。 房子如果要卖,
抵押贷款都需要你同意。 卖掉后你也有一半钱拿。
o**********e
发帖数: 18403
37
来自主题: JobHunting版 - 老中最危险10大心态
老中求职的需要 pledge to be honest
and give 内推的朋友 advance notice.
and negotiate in good faith.
撒谎,毁约,小偷小摸,DOUBLE-DEALING,
INSIDER TRADING这些都是西方社会
惩罚很厉害的行为。
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/JobHunting/32795111.html

拍拍。你的努力很棒。我冒昧提点
建议吧。
1. 最好推荐校友会,有INDEPENDENT
REFERENCE的人。
2. 注意搞清楚对方的品行如何,
比能力更重要。 搞清楚他有没有诚意。
如果做些丢脸的事情,告诉他,你没有
义务帮他保密,COVER。
3. 自己说话要谨慎,不要露骨,永远
不要贬低任何人,不要撒谎。
英美结婚的风俗,就是结婚前先:
Proposal->acceptance
Engagement->notification on newspaper, at church
Wedding: asking "Should anyone here pres... 阅读全帖
o**********e
发帖数: 18403
38
来自主题: JobHunting版 - 老中最危险10大心态
老中求职的需要 pledge to be honest
and give 内推的朋友 advance notice.
and negotiate in good faith.
撒谎,毁约,小偷小摸,DOUBLE-DEALING,
INSIDER TRADING这些都是西方社会
惩罚很厉害的行为。
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/JobHunting/32795111.html

拍拍。你的努力很棒。我冒昧提点
建议吧。
1. 最好推荐校友会,有INDEPENDENT
REFERENCE的人。
2. 注意搞清楚对方的品行如何,
比能力更重要。 搞清楚他有没有诚意。
如果做些丢脸的事情,告诉他,你没有
义务帮他保密,COVER。
3. 自己说话要谨慎,不要露骨,永远
不要贬低任何人,不要撒谎。
英美结婚的风俗,就是结婚前先:
Proposal->acceptance
Engagement->notification on newspaper, at church
Wedding: asking "Should anyone here pres... 阅读全帖
o**********e
发帖数: 18403
39
来自主题: JobHunting版 - 老中需要诚信契约精神 (转载)
老中求职的需要 pledge to be honest
and give 内推的朋友 advance notice.
and negotiate in good faith.
撒谎,毁约,小偷小摸,DOUBLE-DEALING,
INSIDER TRADING这些都是西方社会
惩罚很厉害的行为。
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/JobHunting/32795111.html

拍拍。你的努力很棒。我冒昧提点
建议吧。
1. 最好推荐校友会,有INDEPENDENT
REFERENCE的人。
2. 注意搞清楚对方的品行如何,
比能力更重要。 搞清楚他有没有诚意。
如果做些丢脸的事情,告诉他,你没有
义务帮他保密,COVER。
3. 自己说话要谨慎,不要露骨,永远
不要贬低任何人,不要撒谎。
英美结婚的风俗,就是结婚前先:
Proposal->acceptance
Engagement->notification on newspaper, at church
Wedding: asking "Should anyone here pres... 阅读全帖
s*****c
发帖数: 5202
40
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发帖数: 10208
42
【 以下文字转载自 Family 讨论区 】
发信人: newyearid001 (newyearid001), 信区: Family
标 题: 女性在美国离婚的问题 - 更新了家暴
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jun 7 20:59:56 2012, 美东)
我这里准备写一些女性关心的离婚法律话题, 我慢慢加, 你要有什么问题可以在下面
跟, 我看见题目合适就加上。
我这个帖子主要是给低收入,对美国法律不了解的女性, 强调女性一方的收入比较低
,或者没有收入。
离婚是很复杂的问题,涉及Child Custody, Alimony, Property Distribution,
Child Support, 有401(K),Enhanced Earning Capacity。 女性,特别是
StayHomeMom, 如果对美国法律不了解,就不能保护自己应该得到的权力和财产。离婚
就算没有财产,没有孩子,还可能存在伴侣继承的遗产,401K帐户, 银行账户,投资
帐户, 婚前财产,研究生学位等各种财产的划分。孩子的Custody还存在Visitation,
Supervis... 阅读全帖
k******9
发帖数: 878
43
来自主题: NewYork版 - 请推荐个离婚律师
有无争议的离婚?无争议的话,随便找个中国人律师都可以的
有争议的话,多大的争议,多久的婚姻,抚养费,赡养费,财产分割.....
matrimony的律师通常精通家事法,都有retainer fee,一般每个小时250-400,(这是
一般财产的收费,有些财产庞大的,费用会更高)
在纽约州如果有财产争议的离婚,几乎是要扒掉一层皮的,很大一部分钱都给双方的律
师赚去了,主要因为纽约州判离婚的法官,除了小孩的抚养权抚养费这个问题,其他问
题几乎是倾向于让你们双方自己达成和解,不然就是拖你们自己的时间和律师费,通常
有争议的离婚要解决在6个月到2年之间
Z****e
发帖数: 2999
44
来自主题: SanFrancisco版 - wifi tether + ipad wifi
this is unholy matrimony ah!
lol
o**********e
发帖数: 18403
45
来自主题: SanFrancisco版 - EBAY裁员需要老中警惕 (转载)

拍拍。你的努力很棒。我冒昧提点
建议吧。
1. 最好推荐校友会,有INDEPENDENT
REFERENCE的人。
2. 注意搞清楚对方的品行如何,
比能力更重要。 搞清楚他有没有诚意。
如果做些丢脸的事情,告诉他,你没有
义务帮他保密,COVER。
3. 自己说话要谨慎,不要露骨,永远
不要贬低任何人,不要撒谎。
英美结婚的风俗,就是结婚前先:
Proposal->acceptance
Engagement->notification on newspaper, at church
Wedding: asking "Should anyone here present know of any reason that this
couple should not be joined in holy matrimony, speak now or forever hold
your peace", 然后再2 phase commit。
这种诚信契约的精神,是英国称霸全世界
的基础。
找工作和帮人找工作虽然不像婚姻那样
长期,但是华裔几十年的事业团队也需要
互相建立诚信,才可能... 阅读全帖
f********m
发帖数: 8405
46
http://alittlenudge.wordpress.com/2010/04/29/dont-work-be-hated
Don’t Work. Be Hated. Love Someone
*I didn’t write any of this…took it from my friend’s blog. It’s
amazingly sharp. Please read till the end!
Written by Adrian Tan, author of The Teenage Textbook (1988), was the guest-
of-honour at a recent NTU convocation ceremony. This was his speech to the
graduating class of 2008.
—–
I must say thank you to the faculty and staff of the Wee Kim Wee School of
Communication and Information for invi... 阅读全帖
c*h
发帖数: 33018
47
【 以下文字转载自 Family 讨论区 】
发信人: newyearid001 (newyearid001), 信区: Family
标 题: 女性在美国离婚的问题 - 更新了家暴
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Jun 7 20:59:56 2012, 美东)
我这里准备写一些女性关心的离婚法律话题, 我慢慢加, 你要有什么问题可以在下面
跟, 我看见题目合适就加上。
我这个帖子主要是给低收入,对美国法律不了解的女性, 强调女性一方的收入比较低
,或者没有收入。
离婚是很复杂的问题,涉及Child Custody, Alimony, Property Distribution,
Child Support, 有401(K),Enhanced Earning Capacity。 女性,特别是
StayHomeMom, 如果对美国法律不了解,就不能保护自己应该得到的权力和财产。离婚
就算没有财产,没有孩子,还可能存在伴侣继承的遗产,401K帐户, 银行账户,投资
帐户, 婚前财产,研究生学位等各种财产的划分。孩子的Custody还存在Visitation,
Supervis... 阅读全帖
j**n
发帖数: 13789
48
处女:
Almost the only kind of wife for the Virgo husband is the Virgo wife. These
men are not interested in love in the passionate, personal, possessive sense
of the term. They are usually conventional, traditionally-minded men, who
accept domesticity because it is part of the social scheme. They are willing
to conduct private life on a partnership basis, as if it were a commercial
enterprise. In many cases they would prefer to be bachelors, and this sign
does produce the bachelor by natural incli... 阅读全帖
b*s
发帖数: 82482
49
来自主题: LeisureTime版 - 本年度最让我期待的好莱坞电影
amour:
( / m (r)/ , Fr. /a mur/ )
Forms: Also ME amoure, 15–16 amor.
Etymology: < Old French amur, amour < Latin amōr-em love, < amā-re... (
Show More)
Thesaurus
1. gen. Love, affection, friendship. Obs.
c1300 K. Alis. 4573 Alisaunder..wolde him, with gret honour, Have y-
fonge in his amour.
c1330 Florice & Bl. 521 Tho spak Clarice to Blauncheflour Wordes ful of
fin amour.
c1386 Chaucer Knight's Tale 297 For par amour I loved hire first or thou.
1660 R. Burney Κ ρδι... 阅读全帖
b*s
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50
来自主题: LeisureTime版 - 徐志摩和陆小曼 背后的故事
婚姻的定义里面原本就没有感情啥事啊:
Marriage (also called matrimony or wedlock) is a socially or ritually
recognized union or legal contract between spouses that establishes rights
and obligations between them, between them and their children, and between
them and their in-laws.

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