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c**********0
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - gripe water & reflux
My twins have reflux -- they used to spit up from nose/mouth often in the
last two months. Now, they dont spit up often but they are having silent
reflux (they will cry when they are on bed and we have to pick them up to
burp). They also fart a lot.
The doctor suggested that we try gripe water. I bought one yesterday,
but I am not sure how to use it. I have several questions.
1. Should I directly put it to their mouth?
2. Should I give them the water before or after feeding?
3. How many t... 阅读全帖
k*********u
发帖数: 327
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 牙齿做过deep cleaning的mm说说
不知道deep cleaning和单纯的mouth cleaning有什么区别。
我以前在国内洗过3次牙,洗好除了医生说3小时内只能喝水以外嘴部没有感到不舒服。
上周又在clinic做了mouth cleaning,也很好。
不过见过有人洗牙打麻药的,不知道为什么,我洗了几次牙一点都不觉得疼,可能是我
的牙软。
纯属个人经验。
l*****1
发帖数: 512
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 神马时候加辅食呢,纠结。。
最近看了这篇文章里也提到不要过早加辅食
8 Reasons Why Breast (or Breast and Bottle) Is Still Best
By Jacqueline Burt Wang
You probably know that breastfeeding is best for the first six months of
your baby’s life: Studies show that babies who are nursed exclusively are
less likely to suffer from respiratory disease, ear infections, and
pneumonia. The benefits continue after 6 months - and after you start your
little one on solid food - even if you supplement breast milk with formula.
Here are 8 reasons not to rush t... 阅读全帖
j*****x
发帖数: 617
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full mouth 是一年cover一次,但老公说的不是这种full mouth的。他说就很简单的照
一下,我也不知道具体是哪种。
f*******e
发帖数: 128
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 急求:我儿子这是怎么了
looks like virus infection to me.
mouth hand and foot disease? just a guess, be sure to check for ulcers in
his mouth in the next few days.
m****l
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昨天在医院读了一篇文章,是关于婴儿受传染而得蛀牙的。From baby & toddler
magazine.
ECC (early childhood caries, or tooth decay,) is an infectious disease that
begins with cavity-causing bacteria, typically spread from caregiver to baby
."Sometimes mom or dad will try a bottle before giving it to a child, or
they'll share utensils during feedings." explains Nowak, who also notes that
many parents will "clean" a pacifier with their own mouth prior to giving
it to their child. "Any of that back-and-forth passes the bacteria.... 阅读全帖
g********1
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宝宝多大了?
千万不要惯性的force feeding. 如果喂食气氛太凝重最好马上停下来.
- put him in the high chair, perhaps propped up with a couple of pillows
- Have him sit up straight and face you; that way he'll swallow better and
be less likely to choke.
- Sit directly in front of him.
- Use a small, shallow-bowled, long-handled baby spoon.
- Hold the spoonful of food so he can see it - about 12 inches away from his
mouth
- Wait for him to pay attention before you try to feed it to him.
- At first, put some on his lips
- Offer an... 阅读全帖
z********n
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Same here. My boy put everything into his mouth. I was trying to read to him
but he grabs the book pages and tear them apart. Everything ends up in his
mouth.
f*****8
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1. After breastfeeding, hold the baby veritical and make sure one of your
hand hold baby's neck and head. The position will not be all the time, most
of time baby needs to be horizinal held.
2. You will find something else as functional as finger for baby's mouth,
plus, when baby grows she or he will have a lot more things distract her or
him from what she or he has in their mouth. If you find out baby is
addictive to finger or its subtitutes, then find something else let them
play with.....
(M... 阅读全帖
c*******u
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Seventy6 (走着瞧,瞧着走) 于 (Tue Sep 27 13:47:31 2011, 美东) 提到:
第一个:横着抱还是竖着抱。
[支持方] ----不少人发现新生儿很喜欢被竖着抱,甚至被竖抱一次就抵触横着抱,有
的时候哭闹不止,只要竖着一抱就不闹了。
[反对方] ----三个月内的婴儿如果过早竖着抱,容易造成颈部损伤,或者脊椎发育不
良,因为新生儿这些部位不够强壮,如果过早长久承担体重会造成破坏。
第二个:小孩子吃手指该不该制止。
[支持方] ---- 这是个坏习惯,应该制止,否则损伤手,将来搞坏牙,也不卫生。
[反对方] ---- 这是一个相当比例婴儿都有的正常举动,甚至是婴儿智力发展重要阶段
,小孩子吃手指,先整体吃再细细吃,那是在用嘴巴探索,将来自然会不吃。非常严重
可以适当制止,引导,但是如果粗暴制止,反而会引起小孩子将来的心理疾病。
两个问题都答复者给 10 个包子,发完 100个包子 为止。
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x*****a
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 12 Kids' Symptoms You Should Never Ignore
The wait-and-see approach is fine for some kids' health problems. But not
these.
By Kristyn Kusek Lewis
When you become a parent, you earn a medical merit badge of sorts. Whether
you're sopping up a goopy nose or extracting a dangling-by-a-thread baby
tooth, eventually few things faze you. But sometimes it's tough to tell what
warrants a call to your doctor's office: Which temperature actually
classifies as a "high fever"? What kind of tummy ache means your child has
more than your average stoma... 阅读全帖
DQ
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 急问一个治2岁半娃口腔溃疡的药!
你去walgreen看看,好像有一种漱口水可以给小孩用的,我用的大人的,三次就可以吃
东西了。这个漱口水有杀菌的作用,可能第一次用会有点小疼。
是Orajel的牌子,叫mouth sore rinse。walgreen有很多治这个的,你找canker或
mouth sore就行了
http://www.dentist.net/kanker-sore.asp
这个网址里有很多,你可以看看
H**********l
发帖数: 44
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 到底怎么泵奶才能提高产量,求指点

This sounds like a latching issue. Your lactation consultant should be able
to help you with this. The key is to make sure your baby opens his/her
mouth really really wide before latching. His/her mouth should cover not
only the nipple, but also the area (areola) surrounding it. Especially the
baby's bottom lip. Otherwise it would be painful for you.
The small hard patch needs to be resolved. Otherwise it can develop into
mastitis. Have you heard of "lecithin"?
Emptying the breasts help ... 阅读全帖
H**********l
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 到底怎么泵奶才能提高产量,求指点

This sounds like a latching issue. Your lactation consultant should be able
to help you with this. The key is to make sure your baby opens his/her
mouth really really wide before latching. His/her mouth should cover not
only the nipple, but also the area (areola) surrounding it. Especially the
baby's bottom lip. Otherwise it would be painful for you.
The small hard patch needs to be resolved. Otherwise it can develop into
mastitis. Have you heard of "lecithin"?
Emptying the breasts help ... 阅读全帖
H**********l
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 到底怎么泵奶才能提高产量,求指点

This sounds like a latching issue. Your lactation consultant should be able
to help you with this. The key is to make sure your baby opens his/her
mouth really really wide before latching. His/her mouth should cover not
only the nipple, but also the area (areola) surrounding it. Especially the
baby's bottom lip. Otherwise it would be painful for you.
The small hard patch needs to be resolved. Otherwise it can develop into
mastitis. Have you heard of "lecithin"?
Emptying the breasts help ... 阅读全帖
H**********l
发帖数: 44
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 到底怎么泵奶才能提高产量,求指点
Regarding RT being too big:
This sounds like a latching issue. Your lactation consultant should be able
to help you with this. The key is to make sure your baby opens his/her
mouth really really wide before latching. His/her mouth should cover not
only the nipple, but also the area (areola) surrounding it. Especially the
baby's bottom lip. Otherwise it would be painful for you.
Regarding the small, hard patch:
It needs to be resolved. Otherwise it can develop into mastitis. What
others sa... 阅读全帖
H**********l
发帖数: 44
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 到底怎么泵奶才能提高产量,求指点
Regarding RT being too big:
This sounds like a latching issue. Your lactation consultant should be able
to help you with this. The key is to make sure your baby opens his/her
mouth really really wide before latching. His/her mouth should cover not
only the nipple, but also the area (areola) surrounding it. Especially the
baby's bottom lip. Otherwise it would be painful for you.
Regarding the small, hard spot on your breast:
It needs to be resolved. Otherwise it can develop into mastitis. ... 阅读全帖
c*******u
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - [合集] 共餐吃饭会传播乙肝病毒
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debonair (江南小生) 于 (Sat Aug 18 16:58:17 2012, 美东) 提到:
众所周知,中国虽然是乙肝大国,关于乙肝病毒的研究最发达的国家却是美国。
所以,中国医生嘴里的吃饭不传播乙肝病毒当然是转述自西方流行病研究的成果。但真
要探究吃饭是否传播乙肝病毒,还得考虑以下因素。
1. 目前现代医学的看法是,乙肝病毒携带者唾液里面的浓度远低于血液,所以唾液传
播并不是乙肝传播的主要途径。但注意不是主要途径不代表不是途径。
2. 中国人共餐,几乎每天和家人交换唾液。
3. 最要命的是中国人(包括第一代移民)口腔疾病多,牙齿牙龈有伤口出血是常事,
受感染的几率大增。
所以最有效的途径还是通过打乙肝疫苗,实行分餐。
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miaomi8 (miaomi8) 于 (Sat Aug 18 17:03:40 2012, 美东) 提到:
挺有道理
当然疫苗是王道
吃饭做不到分餐的话,用公筷公勺

★ 发自i... 阅读全帖
c*******u
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qingr67 (怀念玉兰花香) 于 (Wed Aug 29 17:07:11 2012, 美东) 提到:
心里好难过。。。19个多月的小毛蛋儿,一直很健康。昨天中午玩儿回来就莫名其妙的
高烧了,100.8度,脸上嘴巴周围有点红疹,午饭全部吐了,晚饭只吃了点米饭。医生
让观察,可以给药,我这个笨妈蠢妈,觉得刚刚烧不急给药,吃了晚饭再吃药。可是,
唉,后悔死了。。。
爸爸下班回来,估计孩子兴奋的,突然抽搐,打了911,然后昏迷。救援人员来了给吸
了氧气,清醒过来,然后去了ER。折腾到12点,回家观察。试图抽血,可是孩子太累了
,一直挣扎,扎了两针都没扎到静脉。
今天还在烧,最高到了102.2,医生让在家观察,给药,随时联系。
目前怀疑是7天前打得疫苗MMR(还有DTap,水痘),可是当时打针后的那个晚上就烧过
了,转天也好了。或者是细菌感染,但是没法抽血,不能确认。
不知道为什么一定要抽静脉血。像孩子现在这么不舒服,见了针管、病房就害怕的,该
怎么帮助他抽血呢?孩子力气特别大,昨天3个大人帮忙按着他... 阅读全帖
q****y
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 有点流鼻涕,还可以胸喂么
yes. My Ped said viruses will not go through breast milk. So it is ok to
keep feeding even if you get cold. But be careful on the mouth to mouth
virus transfer.
w*********h
发帖数: 334
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 牙科讲座:9 麻醉
我们国人一听到麻醉这个字眼, 都有点恐惧, 特别是对小孩子做麻醉, 当家长签一
堆术前协议时, 常常会被一些字眼吓到。家长们觉得麻醉会影响孩子未来的智力发育
和记忆力而且有很高的风险性。而我们做儿童牙科的, 麻醉却是我们一种常用的手段。
在诊所里, 经常有家长会说“医生,给我的孩子动手术可以不上麻醉药吗?我的孩子
很配合,手术的时候你们按住他不让他乱动行吗?”家长的心情我可以理解, 但在多
数情况下, 麻醉还是要用。
其实儿童牙科的麻醉分很多种, 不仅仅是大家想像的送到OR的那种。
先来讲一下麻醉的作用。小儿麻醉最基本的可以说是:睡眠+止痛=麻醉。睡眠对小儿手
术非常重要,因为小儿对于手术会有高度的恐惧感,特别是牙科会用到很多工具, 如
果孩子的蛀牙很多, 要拔,做根管, 作冠, 会时间比较长。如果孩子一直在清醒的
状态, 会对他的心理造成极大的恐惧和伤害, 可能以后都会惧怕看牙, 这是我们不
愿意看到的。同时小孩很难耐受疼痛以及术中因固定姿势而造成的不舒服感觉, 如果
不停挣扎的话, 手术操作中万一造成误差, 我想也没有家长愿意这种事情发生。特别
是如果孩子有很多问题, 年龄幼小的话... 阅读全帖
o*****p
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Hand, foot and mouth disease (HFMD) is a human syndrome caused by intestinal
viruses of the picornaviridae family. The most common strains causing HFMD
are coxsackie A virus and enterovirus 71 (EV-71).
There is no specific treatment for hand, foot and mouth disease.
Majority of the cases will cure by themself, but some will induce very
severe disease.
currently, there is no specific antivirus medicine for HFMD.
C****e
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 【求助】怀孕初期感冒
Drink water and use salty water/non alcoho mouth wash to rinse mouth every
few hours
l*******d
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 手足口病求建议
My son caught the hand foot mouth diease twice. It is very paineful to have
mouth sores. You baby may be too little to tell u. You should keep ur baby
hydrated as much as u can. If u are sure it is this disease u dont need to
see a doctor. This disease lasts a week as other virus infection. u should
give pain med if ur baby is too cranky.
My best wishes. I know how u feel.
l*****r
发帖数: 7130
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来自主题: Parenting版 -
小人的脑袋瓜里装的东西有时候不得不让你惊叹。就拿这个亲亲来说,肚皮发明创造出
了一整套亲吻系统,令肚皮娘叹为观止。
首先,肚皮不知道从哪里得知,这个mouth on mouth的kiss是不能光天化日下进行的,
于是老妈想亲他的企图屡屡落空。只有在晚上,陪睡工作进行到一定阶段,肚皮才会双
手捧住肚皮娘的脸,小嘴“吧嗒”一下。就凭这个,老妈彻底投降当了陪睡派。
其次,面对美貌阿姨,肚皮在自创法式咸湿飞吻的基础上,进行二次创造。但见他一面
紧盯着美女,一面拿过妈妈的手伸到嘴里,“呣啊”的一声,一个飞吻就顺着妈妈的手
飞到了阿姨面前。只可惜这一整套动作太先进了,老妈不得不一次次的跟肚皮心仪的对
象解释,“这个,肚皮不是在咬我的手,他是通过我给你一个飞吻。”笨小子,讨女生
欢心还要老妈帮忙。
来而不往非君子,肚皮亲了这么多下妈妈(哼,借花献佛也算),自然不能吃亏。于是
肚皮时不时的把自己的小手伸出来,让妈妈在手心上亲一下。这个跟英国女王伸出手来
说“Charmed”一个性质,乃是给臣子一个表忠心的机会。这个时候,不管他是不是刚
把手从嘴里拿出来还沾满了口水,臣子是不能说不的。肚皮娘很多时候只能
l********r
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 怎样让孩子加快吃饭做事的速度
I think you miss the point.
It's not that the child needs more time to chew. It's just they are
playing while eating. sometimes they don't put food in mouth after
swallowing; sometimes the food stays in his/her mouth for a long time
without being chewed.
If they keep eating, but simply needs more time to finish, that's fine.
But if they just playing around and not concentrate on eating, that's the
problem.
w********9
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http://www.kidsgrowth.com/resources/articledetail.cfm?id=244
Biting Must Never Be Permitted
We teach children not to hurt others. Youngsters must therefore learn that
hitting, slapping, pinching, scratching, biting, shoving, knocking down and
hair pulling are totally unacceptable. Of all these childhood behaviors,
however, biting seems to cause parents the most problems. Horrified teachers
and day care providers occasionally overreact and harshly punish the biter,
the parents of the biter are em... 阅读全帖
w********9
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这句话排除了教育可以把×××××××有咬人问题的小孩×××××××××(其实
是少部分小孩)的问题提前
去掉吗?
其它的句子是干嘛的?我引这个不是专对outgrowth说法的。
The child who bites needs to be closely watched by the parents or day
care provider so the biting can be quickly interrupted. A parent’s
response to biting should leave no question that they mean business.
First, look the child straight in the eye and in a loud, sharp voice say
"No biting. We never bite people" It is okay to startle the child who
bites. This is not a time for child psychology and long discu... 阅读全帖
w********9
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http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2851374/
Paediatr Child Health. 1998 Sep–Oct; 3(5): 354.
PMCID: PMC2851374
Copyright © 1998 Canadian Paediatric Society. All rights reserved
When children at day care bite: What are the risks?
Even with every precaution, injuries still happen in day care centres. By
nature, children are very active, and some may be aggressive or anxious.
They may push, shove or even bite another child in the playroom. If your
child is bitten by a playmate, you may... 阅读全帖
w********9
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http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2532918/
Paediatr Child Health. 2008 July; 13(6): 520–521.
PMCID: PMC2532918
Copyright © 2008, Canadian Paediatric Society. All rights reserved
Biting in child care: What are the risks?
No parent wants to hear that their child has been bitten (or has bitten
another child) while in child care, but it does happen. Young children are
very active, and bites can happen by accident when they are playing. Some
children may become aggressive or anxious, a... 阅读全帖
s******n
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Primary care of gay men
Author
Harvey J Makadon, MD Section Editor
Robert H Fletcher, MD, MSc Deputy Editor
Pracha Eamranond, MD, MPH
ISSUES TO TARGET — There are few population based studies of
health issues in gay men on which to base recommendations. Based on clinical
experience and epidemiology, we feel that there are a number of areas in
which clinicians providing primary care to gay men should provide additional
emphasis beyond what they might focus on in heterosexual men. We agree with
a ... 阅读全帖
i*********k
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 偶闺女不幸被LD洗脑了。
闺女五岁,
LD开始让她知道,
男女有别,
例如,
穿裙子不能走光,
天再热,
也不能像Daddy一样,
光着膀子,
晃来晃去。
某日,
看一部电视剧,
男女主角亲嘴,
LD教导说,
For boys,
no one can kiss you
on your mouth,
unless he marries you.
For girls,
Only mom can kiss you
on your mouth.
过几日,
闺女突然对我说,
Daddy, I wish I could marry you.
z**********i
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来自主题: Parenting版 - what should I tell my son
谢谢大家的建议,我跟他说了,下次遇到这种情况,使劲说stop,把对方推开,踢开,
但是别咬。我儿子说他没有咬他,是这个男孩把手指头放在我儿子嘴巴里,我儿子闭嘴
之前他还没有拿出手来。听得我一愣一愣的。原文是这样的:he put his figure into
my mouth and didn't get it back before I close my mouth.
晕倒。
p*******f
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Sounds like you child has oral moter sensory issue. You should get an
evaluation from State Early Intervention to see if there is overall global
delay. Oral moter issue tend not to be the only problem. The theory behind
this is that you child feels differently in his mouth/jaw/lips. That's why
the child like to stuff his mouth and "pocket" food. Chewing is an instinct
that comes naturally, not something every child needs to be trained on.
If I were you, I watch for language delay. Look for ... 阅读全帖
t*g
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来自主题: Parenting版 - Boy, 9, uses CPR to save 2-year-old sister
http://www.cnn.com/2011/US/04/19/arizona.boy.saves.sister/index
(CNN) -- Tristin Saghin might only be 9 years old, but he knew just what to
do after his 2-year-old sister was found floating in her grandmother's
swimming pool unconscious Sunday.
"I went running outside ... and I did CPR on her," the boy told affiliate
KNXV in Mesa, Arizona.
While his mother and grandmother frantically called for help, Tristin coolly
performed chest compressions and mouth-to-mouth resuscitation.
His sister started... 阅读全帖
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【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: OverCloud (天马行空), 信区: Military
标 题: 小孩子的风度教育,对大人也适用
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue May 10 22:58:50 2011, 美东)
尤其是不要高声评论路上走在前边的女人的大屁股。
25 Manners Every Kid Should Know By Age 9
Helping your child master these simple rules of etiquette will get him
noticed -- for all the right reasons.
By David Lowry, Ph.D.
Your child's rude 'tude isn't always intentional. Sometimes kids just don't
realize it's impolite to interrupt, pick their nose, or loudly observe that
the lady walking in fr... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: Parenting版 - The Chinese Way or the American Way?
The Right Instrument For Your Child: A Practical Guide for Parents and
Teachers
Authors: Atarah Ben-Tovim and Douglas Boyd
Clarinet
前面是介绍,和recorder 比较。提到许多男孩被吸引,因为it can make such a "big
sound" and also because the notes first learned correspond to the slightly
lower register of a boy's voice.
孩子发现easy to produce a sound on the clarinet, find the fingering logical
and are reassured by being able to see their hands whilst playing.
父母会发现孩子学得很快,几周内就可以play tunes,几个月内就能加入学校乐队。
下面是抄书:
Physical Suitabi... 阅读全帖
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【 以下文字转载自 NextGeneration 讨论区 】
发信人: xuxihua (xixi), 信区: NextGeneration
标 题: 12 Kids' Symptoms You Should Never Ignore
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jan 6 15:29:38 2012, 美东)
The wait-and-see approach is fine for some kids' health problems. But not
these.
By Kristyn Kusek Lewis
When you become a parent, you earn a medical merit badge of sorts. Whether
you're sopping up a goopy nose or extracting a dangling-by-a-thread baby
tooth, eventually few things faze you. But sometimes it's tough to tell what
warran... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 亚洲人不 push 体育是有原因的
Do not lie.
you move from a powerful culture to a much flawed culture, ask yourself
whether you are crazy. I do not need show how much I know about western
culture. Actually how much I know about it has little effect on kids. They
can get enough from schools, all I need to do is to stop pouring
controversal issues on what they learn.
Yes, culture center moves from one place to another, but you do not live
that long to follow culture movement, you just need to take the powerful
culture throughou... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 亚洲人不 push 体育是有原因的

I mentioned spatial shifting of "the centers of powers and cultures", but I
DID NOT introduce the concept of "powerful culture" which you may have in
mind. (Using "influential" to describe a culture is more appropriate.) I did
question about how LITTLE you know about YOUR western culture, when you are
consistently unwilling to scratch even the surface of it. I don't think
there is such a thing as a well defined western culture. I already mentioned
that Reconnaissance was much about learning fro... 阅读全帖
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4 to 6 months
At this age, your baby will become a lot more physical, learning how to roll
over and even sit up. She can now hold, handle, and mouth objects, and she'
ll spend a good part of her busy days doing so (meaning extra vigilance is
needed on your part).
Games can get more physical now. Your baby might enjoy knee rides or tickle
games. She's also more responsive to you, making noises and meeting your
eyes.
Smell the Spice Rack
You're in the kitchen, trying to throw some kind of dinner t... 阅读全帖
l*******a
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 我吃醋了
你楼上是问你mouth to mouth还是mouse to mouse啦
w******h
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 我吃醋了
厄,不好意思啦,mouth to mouth。竟然没发现,汗一个
J*******p
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 让孩子愿意听的25条建议
从 Dr Sear 那儿看来的。我觉得让孩子能专心地听父母说话真的挺难的。正在学习中
,愿意和各位分享。
25 Ways to Talk So Children Will Listen
A major part of discipline is learning how to talk with children. The way
you talk to your child teaches him how to talk to others. Here are some
talking tips we have learned with our children:
1. Connect Before You Direct
Before giving your child directions, squat to your child's eye level and
engage your child in eye-to-eye contact to get his attention. Teach him how
to focus: "Mary, I need your eyes."... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 牙科讲座:9 麻醉
我们国人一听到麻醉这个字眼, 都有点恐惧, 特别是对小孩子做麻醉, 当家长签一
堆术前协议时, 常常会被一些字眼吓到。家长们觉得麻醉会影响孩子未来的智力发育
和记忆力而且有很高的风险性。而我们做儿童牙科的, 麻醉却是我们一种常用的手段。
在诊所里, 经常有家长会说“医生,给我的孩子动手术可以不上麻醉药吗?我的孩子
很配合,手术的时候你们按住他不让他乱动行吗?”家长的心情我可以理解, 但在多
数情况下, 麻醉还是要用。
其实儿童牙科的麻醉分很多种, 不仅仅是大家想像的送到OR的那种。
先来讲一下麻醉的作用。小儿麻醉最基本的可以说是:睡眠+止痛=麻醉。睡眠对小儿手
术非常重要,因为小儿对于手术会有高度的恐惧感,特别是牙科会用到很多工具, 如
果孩子的蛀牙很多, 要拔,做根管, 作冠, 会时间比较长。如果孩子一直在清醒的
状态, 会对他的心理造成极大的恐惧和伤害, 可能以后都会惧怕看牙, 这是我们不
愿意看到的。同时小孩很难耐受疼痛以及术中因固定姿势而造成的不舒服感觉, 如果
不停挣扎的话, 手术操作中万一造成误差, 我想也没有家长愿意这种事情发生。特别
是如果孩子有很多问题, 年龄幼小的话... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 牙科讲座:9 麻醉
我们国人一听到麻醉这个字眼, 都有点恐惧, 特别是对小孩子做麻醉, 当家长签一
堆术前协议时, 常常会被一些字眼吓到。家长们觉得麻醉会影响孩子未来的智力发育
和记忆力而且有很高的风险性。而我们做儿童牙科的, 麻醉却是我们一种常用的手段。
在诊所里, 经常有家长会说“医生,给我的孩子动手术可以不上麻醉药吗?我的孩子
很配合,手术的时候你们按住他不让他乱动行吗?”家长的心情我可以理解, 但在多
数情况下, 麻醉还是要用。
其实儿童牙科的麻醉分很多种, 不仅仅是大家想像的送到OR的那种。
先来讲一下麻醉的作用。小儿麻醉最基本的可以说是:睡眠+止痛=麻醉。睡眠对小儿手
术非常重要,因为小儿对于手术会有高度的恐惧感,特别是牙科会用到很多工具, 如
果孩子的蛀牙很多, 要拔,做根管, 作冠, 会时间比较长。如果孩子一直在清醒的
状态, 会对他的心理造成极大的恐惧和伤害, 可能以后都会惧怕看牙, 这是我们不
愿意看到的。同时小孩很难耐受疼痛以及术中因固定姿势而造成的不舒服感觉, 如果
不停挣扎的话, 手术操作中万一造成误差, 我想也没有家长愿意这种事情发生。特别
是如果孩子有很多问题, 年龄幼小的话... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 有没有孩子time out没用的?
您这个回帖引起了俺深深的思考。。。不过俺发现问题在哪里了,
俺现在这么描述:
俺的疑惑,是你娃前面的描述,一定要看某个电视、一定要去某个
lane check out、一定开车回去,完全是 strong-willed。
但是当被 time out 的时候,却毫不在乎,这个从俺的角度理解
是非常自相矛盾的,这时候为啥 will power 突然消失了。。。
但是如果回过头来看俺上面那段话,之所以产生 paradoxical,
是因为我假设 strong-willed 应该是 consistent 的 --
consistently control & planning 娃自己的 schedule/life
。。。所以错在这个假定。。。不是所有的will power 都是这样
consistent 的。
现在回到实战,在 strong-willed 和 logical/analytical
之间,在俺的回忆里,貌似老师们对 strong-willed 总是
半信半疑的神情。
我在想,可能是俺错了,还错了 N 年。俺的俩娃,可能就是
logical/analytical kids,根本不是 ... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: Parenting版 - The Wolf and the Crane
The Story
Passage 1 A Wolf had been gorging on an animal he had killed, when
suddenly a small bone in the meat stuck in his throat and he could not
swallow it. He soon felt terrible pain in his throat, and ran up and down
groaning and groaning and seeking for something to relieve the pain. He
tried to induce every one he met to remove the bone. “I would give anything
,” said he, “if you would take it out.” At last the Crane agreed to try,
and told the Wolf to lie on his side and open his jaws... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: Parenting版 - BSO: 孩子的第一本小说完稿了
一不小心竟上首页了,那lz就再贴一点,肯请大家提供意见,同时感谢那些提出建议的
朋友。
As Jonnie stepped into the classroom, he noticed something immediately. The
tables are putted four to a group. All other teacher he had in his life
putted the table into rows instead of groups.
In the farthest corner of the room, away from the front and the teacher’s
desk, sat three familiar heads. Two boys and one girl, all have hair darker
than the night sky.
Jonnie walked over to the group. “Hey guys!” Jonnie said as he sat in the
last desk.
“You ar... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 转:美国弟子规
有帖子问如何让孩子适应美国的school culture,这个挺好的。
希望孩子从小懂得礼节,是全世界各个国家都致力的一件事,请大家见识一下美国孩子
9岁之前需要掌握的25种基本礼节,体味一下美国版的弟子规。
1.When asking for something, say "Please."
向别人询问事情,说“请”。
2.When receiving something, say "thank you."
当接受东西时,说“谢谢”。
3.Don't interrrupt grown-ups who are speaking with each other unless there
is an emergency.They will notice you and respond when they are finished
talking.
除非有意外,否则切勿打断大人们的交谈,大人谈完话后会注意到你并回答你。
4.If you do need to get somebody's attention right away, the phrase"excuse
me" is the m... 阅读全帖
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