a********l
发帖数: 39524 | 1 online stalking. can't help, obssessed with you! |
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g*********t
发帖数: 154 | 2 I used to like her songs but she steps on my nerve now. I even cann't stand
her voice. I still think her first album"little earthquake" is the best. Now
she became so weird that kind of on the boarderline of overly self-obssessed
and schzophrenia and unhealthily overly sensitive. It became unpleasant. |
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g*********t
发帖数: 154 | 3 Her"Under the Pink" album is okey too.
stand
self-obssessed |
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i***e
发帖数: 357 | 4 lg说这里在讨论tori,就来凑热闹
比较完整地听过tori的所有专辑,
little earthquake自然是最好的
其他的最喜欢from the choirgirl hotel和scarlet walk
boys for pele,to venus and back等等都一般
strange little girl里面只有几首不错
其实tori的很多好歌都是B-side的
象前面说的smell like teen spirit,killing me softly,etc
你说得很好
tori的魅力就在self-obssessed,overly sensitive & schizophrenia
这个little earthquake里面就很明显啦
不过我倒觉得tori最新的专辑挺沉静的 |
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t********t
发帖数: 1264 | 5 还有其他人翻唱过吗？ 不过meat puppet那三首个人觉得听他们的原唱比cobain的更有味
道
stand
best.
self-obssessed
unpleasant. |
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t********t
发帖数: 1264 | 6 of course. Calexico is pretty good. Their "service and repair" is very
impressive for me!
stand
best. Now
self-obssessed
unpleasant. |
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m**h
发帖数: 618 | 7 Hehe... Buena Vista Social Club is one cd/movie
I was obssessed with. Comunist Cuba have so much
similarity with China... Went to see Ibrahim Ferre
the lead singer last year when he had a new CD and
toured the country. In the documentry, he was saying he had
already gave up singing and got a regular job shining
shoes in Habana, hehe..... |
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c**e
发帖数: 3760 | 9 主要不光旋律，编排也挺象的。口琴几乎是一个吹法。
撞车的可能性就比较小了。八成是拿来主义了。 |
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r*****g
发帖数: 9999 | 12 中国人对海鲜有obssession而已，平时过日子又不是没了龙虾活不下去。 |
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b*********a
发帖数: 110 | 13 crazy about
obssessed
crazily/blindly in love with
"all over" is not very close.
~~~ |
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l****t
发帖数: 36289 | 14 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: fighter644 (武士), 信区: Military
标 题: 加拿大小留刺教师是因为被报警有了警察记录
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Sep 13 21:48:38 2014, 美东)
看到加拿大这些中文媒体一窝蜂地发报道，纷纷下结论说是小留周晓悦刺伤多大讲师是
因为老师太帅，她为情所困。好像是中文媒体媒体已经把小留给私审了。这样做对她很
不公平，完全超出了媒体客观报道事实的责任。
真正导致她持刀伤人的不是为情所困，而是老师报警，她想让导师撤销报警，被拒绝，
觉得自己完了。
她的精神问题其实是青春期少男少女很容易发生的对某异性的obssession.很常见的。
一个帅男，又是教师，这样的小女生非常被吸引，然后想要seeking attention，用的
方式就是我们说的撒娇，国内娇惯出来的独生子女更加不知道天高地厚，往往本能地在
喜欢的男人面前撒娇，要这个要那个，就是要。从她的帖子看出来，她并没有直接追求
老师，只是说有问题想要约教授见面，又得在自己想要的时间见面。不遂就恼火了，发
匿名电邮批评教授。导致教... 阅读全帖 |
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e****u
发帖数: 121 | 15 Hi, Girl,
If you really like his guy, try to talk to him more and understand him. It
is not easy to find someone you really like. However, You need to know
each other better, so try to be brave and do not be shy.
Tell him that you have some feeling on him, so you can have more
interaction with him if he is also interested, and know each other better.
Do not get obssessed with him without telling him.
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 16 My dear. You are right in that precarious time (no, I am not talking about
ovulation). Look before you jump. Do not let hormones mess up your brain--or
judgment.
(1) Online dating l Love at First Byte; Online-dating sites have made it
easier for people to click with one another. But they still leave something
to be desired. Economist, Dec 29, 2010.
http://www.economist.com/node
/17797424?story_id=17797424&fsrc=rss
Quote:
"FOR the lovelorn, the new year can be an unhappy time, as they cast envi... 阅读全帖 |
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S*********f
发帖数: 1938 | 17 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
areyoufly (花开了) 于 (Sun Jan 16 00:13:27 2011, 美东) 提到:
今天和BF逛街回来, 不知为何很想和他谈谈.最近从去年9月开始, 到圣诞节都很好很好
. 我很爱他, 他也说我是lovely person...
年纪都大了, 我试探得告他, 中国人的春节很重要, 2月是情人节, 是最好的MARRY
TIME...
今天他说, 2月太早了... 我听了,有点不快, 知道他很好, 但是欧洲人, 单身很多年..
.他有他的STYLE, 也很了解尊重中国文化.最近我的工作项目也不稳定, 在寻找CLIENT
中... 有可能RELOCATE, 他也知道.
是否他太实际了?
不知道, 该这么办
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verithas (这货不是猫) 于 (Sun Jan 16 01:56:35 2011, 美东) 提到:
抢亲！
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w*********y
发帖数: 57 | 18 你这是爱她还是obssessed with her? 如果你们俩已经分手很长时间，你还是无法走出
来，或许你需要学一学如何控制自己的情绪。 |
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A*********R
发帖数: 11847 | 19 Stalker means someone who's obssessed with someone else and follows him or
her everywhere |
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z*****e
发帖数: 14786 | 21 如何好我告诉你哈，就是感光元件大啊，这一大，啥都好啊！
别太obssessed with ISO only了哈～ |
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w********y
发帖数: 359 | 22 【 以下文字转载自 Family 讨论区,原文如下 】
发信人: TheSimpsons (Dohh!), 信区: Family
标 题: DSM-V DiagnosisRe: 想离婚了
发信站: Unknown Space - 未名空间 (Tue Sep 14 16:11:45 2004) WWW-POST
First, find if he has been going too far, another words, a lot of people
commit infidelity through internet usage. If this is the case, you should
seriously consider divorce.
But, to my knowledge, your husband suffers Obssessive Compulsive Disorder, as
evidance by repetitive uncontrolable internet addiction. Both of yall need
conselling. It |
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A*********r
发帖数: 564 | 23 It is good that you realized it.
Did you ever seek professional help from school?
love
I' |
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A*********r
发帖数: 564 | 24 Well, you are right. There is no enough information about this topic here.
It is good that you have already taken action to help yourself and good luck
.
purchased |
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s**a
发帖数: 8648 | 25 我知道有女人有这个习惯，if that makes it easier for you，因为这个习惯可能比你
想象的普遍，只是大家不愿意说。但我也不知道这个怎么处理，你以前是怎么走出来的
？上次呢？ |
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t*******n
发帖数: 4445 | 26 It could be a relationship problem rather than an obsession problem.
You thought you were in a good relationship, and then it suddenly ended.
Understandbly, you are traumatized and confused. It takes a while for
people to adjust to such losses.
Short of going to professional help, you might want to reflect on the
relationship a bit more -- it's painful, so do it at a comfortable pace:
First, what do you hope to accomplish by the searching and phone calls?
Then try to objectively evaluate t |
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s**a
发帖数: 8648 | 27 有一部日本电影叫浮云，我一直想看，如果你能找到，也许可以看看。是讲一个女孩子
迷恋一个不忠的男人一辈子。不知道为什么，很多生活里面的事情，我经历的时候不清
楚，都是在看电影的时候想明白的。 |
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b**********r
发帖数: 59 | 29 Thanks a lot for your encouragement!
I bought a book "Obsessive Love: When it Hurts too much to Let Go" by Susan
Forward. It's a very good book talking about obsession and compulsive
behavior in relationships. After reading the book I thought that my issue
isn't bad compared to the cases that she mentioned. I didn't do intensive
pursuing, other annoying or destructive things to the guy. So I just need to
realize that the relationship is over and he won't come back no matter how
much I think abou |
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c**r
发帖数: 10001 | 30 找个心理医生倾诉一下吧。
need help. I have no one to turn in to talk about it. Makes me very very
upset. I have been with this guy for more than 4 years. And now he suddenly
signaled me he didn't want |
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A****e
发帖数: 3180 | 31 试着做点儿别的事情转移注意力，出去走走，旅游。每次尝试不想他10分钟，然后20分
钟，然后不断延长，努力把注意力集中放在其他的某件事情上。
Susan
to
how
horrifying |
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h*********g
发帖数: 44 | 32 每天早上洗漱完毕照镜子的时候，都对自己大喝一声，妈的，谁离了谁活不了啊！ |
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b**********r
发帖数: 59 | 34 没有看过这部电影。。希望自己不要象那样浪费青春，已经在费劲地抓住青春的尾巴了
。不过真的很怀疑自己是否还有能力再爱上别人。 |
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p*****g
发帖数: 10 | 35 【 以下文字转载自 Dreamer 讨论区 】
发信人: Dreamer (不要问我从哪里来), 信区: Dreamer
标 题: 请大家帮帮我，要不要做手术，我快疯了。
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jul 1 15:54:46 2011, 美东)
请大家帮帮我，要不要做手术，我快疯了。还有帮我转发到心理版。多谢了。
我从小长虽然不算帅可是还算中等。不过从大学开始我脸上的某个地方（不便说具体）
开始长的有点奇怪。一般也没有很明显，只是有些角度会比较明显，所以我平时照镜子
时就会多看两眼，看到这些角度的照片被tag就会remove。虽然有些在意可是没有很
obssessed，做整型这种事就压根没想过。
可是半年前偶尔在一个网站上看到一个关于整型的链接，不知怎么中邪了就点进去看，
看了后发现我脸上这个问题可以做一个整型手术，恢复期只要２周。当时觉得这么容易
，于是我就瞒着所有人去做了这个手术。到现在想起来都觉得不可思意，居然没考虑很
多就去做了，简直恨死我自己了，怎么这么蠢。
可能是和医生没有沟通好或什么的，做出来overdone了，我只是想要correct到normal
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k**e
发帖数: 2728 | 36 they are not obssessed in correcting you with the grammar. |
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d******y
发帖数: 3668 | 37 knowing is the most important thing.
whining is not necessary.
失望 is natural, but being obssessed in 失望情绪 is unnecessary.
that's what i am talking about. |
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p*******y
发帖数: 782 | 38 a real buddhist does not see any faults in any being
a real buddist only sees the fault of his/her own
a real buddhist see all as equal
a real buddhist only arouses his/her compassion when he/she someone so
obssessed with the illusions of money, fame... ...
let us be real buddhists! |
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a**u
发帖数: 8107 | 39 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
runsun03 (runsun) 于 (Thu Apr 8 19:14:50 2010, 北京) 提到:
在佛陀制定的沙弥十戒里，第十戒是：不捉持金银宝物，也叫金银戒。此戒乃因佛陀认
为金银货币易使人增长贪心，易与人争利，最后成为财富的奴隶，终为钱财所束缚。所
以，为了破除贪心佛陀对出家人而制定了这条戒。
在《北传杂阿含经第九一一篇》里记载，佛陀告诉一位长者说：「主张沙门比丘可
以接受并储蓄金银宝物是清净的说法并不正确，我从未这么说过，这也不符合法义，当
然会受到谴责。这是什么缘故呢？因为沙门比丘若是接受并储蓄金银宝物就是不清净！
不是出家沙门应该有的行为，更不是出家佛弟子应有的行为。」
最后佛陀还告诫诸比丘：「比丘们，从今日起，如果你们需要的是木头，就应该向
在家人表明需要的是木头；如果需要的是草，就应该表示需要的是草；如果需要的是车
乘，就要表明需要的是车乘；若是需要人力服务，就应该表示需要的是人力服务。千万
不可擅自接受金银宝物的供养！」手不捉金银戒是佛陀亲自设立的僧... 阅读全帖 |
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m*****e
发帖数: 4193 | 40 考，你们说得不会是储大胖子吧？Deling我要严重鄙视你了。你现在不胖了，不要再有
这个obssession了。 |
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m***t
发帖数: 4509 | 41 恩，我现在每天都在看家具，把周围的家具店都逛了个遍了。晚上躺在床上就会不停地
想，窗帘应该什么颜色啊，沙发上面要搞什么颜色的cushion啊，到哪里去淘墙上的装
饰画啊，想得我都睡不着觉。obssess了。 |
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g*****g
发帖数: 34805 | 42 It's very inefficient to change content in a compressed file.
Every time you extract it, change it and recompress it.
jar file was supposed for read-only. If you do have an XML or
configuration which you'll change frequently, just leave it
out of package.
Every time you are obssessed to do things like this, ask yourself,
is it worth the trouble? |
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c****e
发帖数: 749 | 43 I could see that it is very important for her to get this first author.
is it very important and critical for you to be first author? if not, why do
you so obssessed with this?
you helped her once, then your life will be easier later. you lose nothing. |
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