C*****e 发帖数: 1413 | 1 初来美国一年,不懂美国文化,犯下一些错误,请各位同胞给我指导和支持!
事情经过:
我在Harvard Extension School的Institute for English Language Programs 上上课
。每周两次,周二和周四各一次。
此课程开始于上上周(9月13日),本周是第二周,我于昨天(周四)已经上了四次课
。每次课后,老师都叫三个同学留下,单独(一个学生和老师谈话,另外两个学生在教
室外面等着。)征询意见。昨天轮到我提意见。我真心诚意的准备了几个建议。
1, Would you please make our class more efficiently?
He asked,"What do you mean?"
I said, "For example, you call the roll(点名) in the beginning of our
class. It takes our ten minutes for 12 students. If we can finish it earlier
, that should be more efficien... 阅读全帖 |
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k**********4 发帖数: 16092 | 2 I was pretty sure it was paranoia, because according to DSV V4.0:
A pervasive pattern of instability of interpersonal relationships, self-
image, and affects, and marked impulsivity beginning by early adulthood and
present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the
following:
1. frantic efforts to avoid real or imagined abandonment. Note: Do not
include suicidal or self-mutilating behavior covered in Criterion 5.
2. a pattern of unstable and intense interpersonal relati... 阅读全帖 |
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b*****d 发帖数: 61690 | 3 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: brihand (brihand), 信区: Military
标 题: 价值观输出了,美帝参议员开展自我批评了
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Oct 4 19:45:44 2013, 美东)
Reid acknowledged he was not exempt from breaching Senate decorum and
offered “self-criticism” for blasting Sen. Ted Cruz (R-Texas) when Cruz
was not on the floor on Thursday. Reid called the freshman conservative the
“joint speaker” of the House, a reference to Cruz’s continued influence
over House Republicans. That Thursday outburst prompted Minority Whip John
C... 阅读全帖 |
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b*****d 发帖数: 61690 | 4 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: brihand (brihand), 信区: USANews
标 题: San Jose民主党市长要trump负责
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jun 3 12:00:18 2016, 美东)
San Jose Mayor Sam Liccardo, a Democrat supporting Hillary Clinton for
president, criticized Trump for the outbursts.
At some point Donald Trump needs to take responsibility for the
irresponsible behavior of his campaign," Liccardo told the AP.
Clinton and Democratic rival Bernie Sanders are campaigning in the state,
too, ahead of California's primary on Tuesday. |
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b*****d 发帖数: 61690 | 5 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: brihand (brihand), 信区: Military
标 题: 天朝媒体嘲笑trump twitter治国
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Dec 5 17:51:24 2016, 美东)
Donald Trump's Twitter outburst Sunday over the U.S. relationship with China
, was met with a careful response from Chinese government officials, but the
media in the country took aim at the president-elect.
On Sunday, Trump tweeted, "Did China ask us if it was OK to devalue their
currency [and] build a massive military complex in the middle of the South
China S... 阅读全帖 |
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g****d 发帖数: 3461 | 6 This is so sad.
如怨如慕,如泣如诉的小提琴。
平淡,谦和的钢琴。大有他自恨来他自恶,我自一口真气足的感觉。
又像马勒,"Life is a bitch, then I die."
可是,汹涌的情绪总会过去,从容淡定啦。
Your feeling had nothing to do with that person.
It was just an outburst of emotions within you.
True the outside is changes.
That is more like the consequence than the cause. |
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t*******n 发帖数: 4445 | 7 first, decide if you want to stay in this relationship.
if yes, then you need to develop the skill to analyze their behavior/speech,
and confront their outbursts in an assertive but calm way. it's pretty
taxing to do it all the time, so consider limiting the time you deal with
this person. if you find yourself cracking, take a break and re-consider N0.
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n*********0 发帖数: 925 | 8 http://www.glorypress.com/devotional/FaithAndLifeOneYearBook.asp?bid=3
为我们之故
经文: 「只是为选民,那日子必减少了。」(马太福音廿四︰22)
上帝为了祂的选民,未施行许多的审判,并减少那患难的日子。在大灾难当中
,天火要吞灭世人,但为了选民的缘故,上帝稍微浇熄火的威势,所以,上帝为了耶稣
之故拯救祂的选民,同时,也为了祂的选民,存留余种。
圣徒的身份是何等尊贵!他们又是何等地殷勤,靠着主发挥他们的影响力,上
帝要听他们为罪人的代求,也要因着他们所付出的代价,拯救他们所代祷的对象。祂要
施恩给信徒,因为他们实在是未信之人的祝福。有许多罪人还活着,实在是因为他的亲
戚朋友中,有上帝所敬重的信徒为他付上流泪的代祷。
我们可曾好好使用上帝给我们的祷告权柄?我们是否尽上本份,好好地为国家
、为这块土地、为这个世代祷告﹖在灾荒战祸,哀鸿遍野的时刻,我们可曾挺身出来,
作个代祷勇士?恳求主将这日子缩短。我们是否为着现今政治的乱象,色情的泛滥,人
心的贪婪,在上帝面前忧心恳切地祷... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****a 发帖数: 38403 | 9 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: wswj (867-5309), 信区: Military
标 题: Top 10 Most Wicked Popes (十大邪恶教皇)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Sep 16 00:15:24 2011, 美东)
http://listverse.com/2007/08/17/top-10-most-wicked-popes/
Out of the 266 Popes to have ruled the Catholic Church, ten in particular
stand out for their wickedness. This is a list of the ten with a description
of their errors and faults.
1. Liberius, reigned 352-66 [Catholic Encyclopaedia]
Pope Liberius is the first Pope not to be canonised a saint. He ... 阅读全帖 |
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l**********t 发帖数: 5754 | 10 Chapter 3.1 Our Death With Christ A Historic Fact
Romans 6:1-11 is the passage before us now. In these verses it is made clear
that the death of the Lord Jesus is representative and inclusive. In His
death we all died. None of us can progress spiritually without seeing this.
Just as we cannot have justification if we have not seen Him bearing our
sins on the Cross, so we cannot have sanctification if we have not seen Him
bearing us on the Cross. Not only have our sins been laid on Him but we
our... 阅读全帖 |
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l**********t 发帖数: 5754 | 11 Chapter 3.1 Our Death With Christ A Historic Fact
Romans 6:1-11 is the passage before us now. In these verses it is made clear
that the death of the Lord Jesus is representative and inclusive. In His
death we all died. None of us can progress spiritually without seeing this.
Just as we cannot have justification if we have not seen Him bearing our
sins on the Cross, so we cannot have sanctification if we have not seen Him
bearing us on the Cross. Not only have our sins been laid on Him but we
our... 阅读全帖 |
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y****n 发帖数: 1397 | 12 Category 2: The cleansing of the temple. This incident refers to Jesus‘
emotional outburst when he comes into Jerusalem and enters the main Jewish
temple and overthrew the tables of the money-changers and the ―seats of
them that sold doves, and tossed them all out of the
temple. (Matt. 21:12-13.) The story is repeated in John 2: 14-16. In John‘s
version Jesus carried and apparently used a whip as mentioned in Category 4
below. This certainly does not seem like the behavior of an entirely
rationa... 阅读全帖 |
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s*******w 发帖数: 2257 | 13 回应正在生气的孩子的正确方法(中英双语)
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When children get upset, the cannot be reached by reasoning. When angry,
they respond only to emotional balm.
当孩子烦躁不安时,讲道理是没有用的。他们生气时,只有情感上的安慰,他们才听得
进去。
Dr. Haim G. Ginott
文/海姆·G·吉诺特
Two young siblings, were playing in the basement. Suddenly a noise of
destruction, followed by shouting and accusations, was heard. Red with anger
, Billy, age ... 阅读全帖 |
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b******v 发帖数: 1493 | 14 By RICH KARLGAARD
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB1000087239639044481270457761185
Last week Apple made headlines twice. On Monday it broke the world record
for shareholder value. Apple's $623.5 billion market cap beat Microsoft's
record from tech's notorious bubble era. (Microsoft needed a price-to-
earnings ratio of 72 in 1999 to set the record. Apple's ratio is a modest 16
.) Then on Friday, Apple won a $1.05 billion patent-infringement judgment
against Samsung, the Korean electronics giant an... 阅读全帖 |
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j**********i 发帖数: 3758 | 15 有一场像 stem cell一样的大讨论,不过要去联合国吵。
Using an artificial intelligence technique inspired by theories about how
the brain recognizes patterns, technology companies are reporting startling
gains in fields as diverse as computer vision, speech recognition and the
identification of promising new molecules for designing drugs.
Connect With Us on Social Media
@nytimesscience on Twitter.
Science Reporters and Editors on Twitter
Like the science desk on Facebook.
Keith Penner
A student team led by the compute... 阅读全帖 |
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s*****t 发帖数: 1994 | 16 V838 Mon: Mystery Star
Credit: Lisa Crause (Univ. Cape Town), Warrick Lawson (Australian Defence Force
Academy)
Explanation: A leading candidate for the most mysterious star found in recent times is
variable star V838 Monocerotis. At a distance of about 8,000 light-years, V838 Mon was
discovered to be in outburst in January of this year. Initially thought to be a familiar type of
classical nova, astronomers quickly realized that instead, V838 Mon may be a totally n |
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s*****t 发帖数: 1994 | 17 The X-Ray Jets of XTE J1550
Image Credit: CXC, NASA; Illustration Credit: M. Weiss (CXC)
Explanation: The motion of ultra-fast jets shooting out from a candidate black hole star
system have now been documented by observations from the orbiting Chandra X-ray
Observatory. In 1998, X-ray source XTE J1550-564 underwent a tremendous outburst. Jets
of material sent streaming into space at near light-speed impacted existing gas heating it so
much it glowed in X-ray light. The panels on the left |
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t*******l 发帖数: 421 | 18 This year on Nov. 19th, Earth will pass through two of Comet
Tempel-Tuttle's debris streams. The first encounter should
cause a flurry of meteors over Europe and Africa around 0430 UT.
The second encounter favors North Americans who are likely to see an
outburst around 5:30 a.m. EST or 10:30 UT.
(Note: UT is Universal Time, also known as Greenwich Mean Time.)
根据far提供的网址。如有失误请恰far是问。 |
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s*****t 发帖数: 1994 | 19 Light Echoes from V838 Mon
Credit: H. Bond (STScI), A. Henden (USNO Flagstaff), Z. Levay (STScI), et al., ESA,
NASA
Explanation: Nominated for most mysterious star in the Milky Way, V838 Monocerotis
briefly became one of the brightest stars in our galaxy. Its outburst discovered in January
2002, observations have indicated that V838 Mon somehow transformed itself over a period
of months from a small under-luminous star a little hotter than the Sun, to a
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s*****t 发帖数: 1994 | 20 V838 Light Echo: The Movie
Credit: H. Bond (STScI), A. Henden (USNO Flagstaff), Z. Levay (STScI), et al., ESA,
NASA
Explanation: What caused this outburst of V838 Mon? For reasons unknown, star V838
Mon's outer surface suddenly greatly expanded with the result that it became the brightest star
in the entire Milky Way Galaxy. Then, just as suddenly, it faded. A stellar flash like this has
never been seen before -- supernovas and novas expel matter out into space. A |
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C*****e 发帖数: 1413 | 22 初来美国一年,不懂美国文化,犯下一些错误,请各位同胞给我指导和支持!
事情经过:
我在Harvard Extension School的Institute for English Language Programs 上上课
。每周两次,周二和周四各一次。
此课程开始于上上周(9月13日),本周是第二周,我于昨天(周四)已经上了四次课
。每次课后,老师都叫三个同学留下,单独(一个学生和老师谈话,另外两个学生在教
室外面等着。)征询意见。昨天轮到我提意见。我真心诚意的准备了几个建议。
1, Would you please make our class more efficiently?
He asked,"What do you mean?"
I said, "For example, you call the roll(点名) in the beginning of our
class. It takes our ten minutes for 12 students. If we can finish it earlier
, that should be more efficien... 阅读全帖 |
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c**d 发帖数: 3888 | 23 如果去的法学院不是 Top-14,甚至不是 Top 50,没有很强的 patent 背景,希望你们
能避免弯路。下面的故事读起来像小说,但是我可以告诉你们,非常现实。
http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1905801&forum_id=2#20761498
In a couple short weeks, a new wave of hapless lemmings will crack open the
shrinkwrap on those heinously overpriced casebooks, boot up their laptops
for some heated note-taking, and commence their voyage down the road of
America’s most overrated, miserable, and saturated industry: the practice
of law. A pompous, overpaid professor will sau... 阅读全帖 |
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s***e 发帖数: 5242 | 24 by Freeman Dyson
12/2010
In 1946 Subrahmanyan Chandrasekhar gave a talk at the University of Chicago
entitled “The Scientist.” 1 He was then 35 years old, less than halfway
through his life and less than a third of the way through his career as a
scientist, but already he wa reflecting deeply on the meaning and purpose of
his work. His talk was one of a series of public lectures organized by
Robert Hutchins, then the chancellor of the university. The list of speakers
is impressive, and included ... 阅读全帖 |
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D******n 发帖数: 2836 | 25 Ya, save it so that RP can outburst when it is needed. |
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L***s 发帖数: 920 | 26 他也拉了小提琴 Violin Concerto~~ 他演奏的那一曲叫 The Love,一开场就觉得非常
别出心裁,不是梁祝式的那种悠扬,而是很嬉皮的感觉,果然是潮人
看到一篇The Love的review:
Mr. Tan’s new Violin Concerto, subtitled “The Love...” [is] in three
continuous sections meant to evoke young love, romantic love and
philosophical love...
The opening section, “Hip Hop,” was lean and angular, with free-time
violin soliloquies and violent outbursts. But a steady funk-rock drum beat
and brash whoops from the brass section made the music unusually playful and
accessible.
The mi... 阅读全帖 |
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A*G 发帖数: 256 | 27 ZT
Jeremy Lin: Humble In Rise to Stardom
February 13, 11:24 AM EST
Jonah Ballow
KnicksNow.com
Twitter
“If you want to test a man’s character, give him power” -- Abraham
Lincoln.
There is one thing I can tell you about Jeremy Lin watching him walk on the
Knicks team plane after a mano-y-mano battle with Kobe Bryant on a night
where he dropped a career-high 38 points on the Lakers.
It’s the same guy.
The same second-year point guard that waltzed on that plane prior to a
Charlotte trip on January 2... 阅读全帖 |
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M***D 发帖数: 249 | 28 Residency training can be demanding, stressful or even "crazy", I hope
following suggestions can be helpful for current psychiatry residents.
1. PRITE: Psychiatry residents must take national PRITE tests yearly.
Usually the program coordinator will have the previous PRITE test questions
copied on a CD,then give each resident a "PRITE CD". Please do study the
previous PRITE questions, because there are key psychiatry questions will be
tested on PRITE every year. I am quite lucky because my PhD ma... 阅读全帖 |
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s*******s 发帖数: 9926 | 29 【 以下文字转载自 SanFrancisco 讨论区 】
发信人: OrangeClub (TheOrangeClub), 信区: SanFrancisco
标 题: The Orang Club关于Fox News辱华事件的声明 (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Jul 13 14:12:21 2014, 美东)
发信人: OrangeClub (TheOrangeClub), 信区: LosAngeles
标 题: The Orang Club关于Fox News辱华事件的声明
关键字: The Orange Club,TOC,Bob Beckel,Fox News
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Jul 13 14:11:56 2014, 美东)
FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
July 13, 2014
THE ORANGE CLUB CONDEMNS BOB BECKEL’S RACIST COMMENTS, CALLING FOR HIS
IMMEDIATE DISMISSAL FROM FOX NEWS
Irvine, Califo... 阅读全帖 |
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c*****e 发帖数: 436 | 30 Verbal abuse
From Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Verbal abuse (also known as reviling) is when someone uses word(s) and/or
mind games to instill self-doubt in the victim and to build the abuser's
sense of dominance and control. Verbal abuse is a pattern of behavior that
can seriously interfere with a person's healthy emotional development. It
leads to significant detriment of a person's self-esteem, emotional well-
being, and physical state.
People who are verbally assaulted know the insults a... 阅读全帖 |
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w**t 发帖数: 1068 | 31 Work Updates
上个礼拜从广州排舞回来发现短短几天脸好像又瘦了一些 应该是每天都出汗消耗的关
系所以体重也有所减轻好的是之后刚好要拍一些宣传照片所以还是比较满意这一组照片
中的脸型(昨晚和两个好兄弟约见 弟妹非要说我整型了我说也没有这么不成功的吧..><
) 不过不用担心会太瘦因为这两天在家里疯狂吃喝并且是宵夜为主绝对又把之前损失的
体重补回来了昨天和前天晚上的歌友会比较顺利谢谢前去捧场的朋友们也谢谢你们的礼
物 明天飞回去参与<谢谢你陪我一起过>混音部分的工作晚些还有约见乐队商讨关于舞
会曲目的问题 工作是比较繁忙但心情基本上正常.. 很多时候没有办法让周围的事情都
如人所愿喜欢做的东西做好了是件很享受的事 未必喜欢的东西做好了也是种负责和专
业 对任何别的什么人什么东西负责都好在限定的条件下只能尽量保持专业而争取以后
更多为自己负责的机会和自由.. 可怜我是双鱼座 少不了些起伏和压抑 多亏我是双鱼
座敏感的进行着体验和积累.. 明星尚未成型 艺人仍需努力..
此处省略三张。。。
2 videos to share^^
Dance Training Tour
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w**t 发帖数: 1068 | 33 其实我觉得小苏太瘦了,男人应该高大结实一些(因为他也不小了)
现在这个小身体和小脑袋,像个小男孩
P.S.,发型不错! |
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l********e 发帖数: 4863 | 34 wa,怎么这么瘦了??我还是希望他再胖些
我火星了,他什么时候办歌又会了? p.s.英文那段是为啥? |
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w**t 发帖数: 1068 | 37 3/21新闻
苏醒为个唱将闭关一月 远赴美国苦练舞蹈(图)
近日,苏醒正在北京闭关筹备4月25日的Allen’s Dance 苏醒·2008舞动北京音乐会,
由于这次是生平第一次开个人演唱会,所以公司及苏醒本人对本场演唱会非常的重视,
所以此次苏醒推掉大部分工作,专心准备演唱会。并且据称苏醒将要远赴美国进行专业
的演唱会和舞蹈训练。
记者采访到天娱公司本次演唱会负责人李涛,他表示:由于苏醒的演唱会含大量的舞蹈
内容,是7场演唱会舞蹈最多的,基本上80%的歌曲都要配合舞蹈内容,并且很多歌曲也
是第一次尝试边唱边跳。所以无论是对于苏醒的舞技,还是对于苏醒的体力都是一个巨
大的挑战。对于苏醒远赴美国的事情,现在公司还在做最后的安排,这几天就会有结果
。这次我们公司对于7个人都进行了不同的安排和准备工作。所以请大家尽请期待。 |
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w**t 发帖数: 1068 | 38 3/26新闻
苏醒首次个唱倒计时 展开地狱式舞蹈训练(图)
随着4月25日“Allen’s Dance Party苏醒·2008舞动北京音乐会”的时间一天天逼进
,为了带给众多醒目们一场声色宴会,让所有歌迷满意而归,苏醒近日特意向天娱公司
请假,远赴广州“拜师学艺”,秘密展开了地狱式的舞蹈排练。
作为出道以来的首次个人演唱会,天娱公司和苏醒本人都十分看重。对待工作一向亲历
亲为、精益求精的苏醒再次扮演导演的角色,将自己的首次个唱主题定位于舞蹈为主。
这对于从歌唱比赛中出道,一直以唱功见长的苏醒来说,可谓一次巨大考验!苏醒的舞
蹈功底曾经在快男比赛的舞台上及今年1月其西安个人歌友会上有过一些展现,一直都
让众多歌迷恋恋不忘。
这次苏醒抵达广州后,基本没有休息,就马上投入艰苦的排练。舞蹈难度之大,排练之
辛苦,对于苏醒都是前所未有的挑战。几天魔鬼式的排练让优秀的舞蹈老师十分看好苏
醒将在4月25日个唱现场的表现,他表示,精心排演的开场舞一定要让大家叫爽,整场
高难度、多花样的舞蹈一定会令全场HIGH翻天,所有现场观众都将度过难忘的一夜。
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a********n 发帖数: 1200 | 39 omg,照片里面除了小苏我都看不顺眼,一群太妹+不良少年
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k*l 发帖数: 2574 | 40 啊?小A居然接受不了?我觉得很正常啊。广州那边学日韩的很多。
国内小孩染发的多了,特别是前几年。不知道这两年褪流行没。 |
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a********n 发帖数: 1200 | 42 嗬嗬,也许我一路上认识的人,尤其是关系好的,书呆子比较多,物以类聚~~
不过现在的小孩确实如此,不但广州了,连我们内陆省份都猛学日韩,染成金毛
我怎么看都看不惯啊。。。:) |
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w**t 发帖数: 1068 | 43 我也不喜欢,觉得不是一类的
反正我已经out了 |
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w*******y 发帖数: 60932 | 44 Not sure if anyone is interested in this, but i will post anyways. Lowest
price according to price tracker. 2 bucks for hardcover book, not bad.
Description (From Amazon):
The Wild Things -- based loosely on the storybook by Maurice Sendak and the
screenplay cowritten with Spike Jonze -- is about the confusions of a boy,
Max, making his way in a world he can't control. His father is gone, his
mother is spending time with a younger boyfriend, his sister is becoming a
teenager and no longer has in... 阅读全帖 |
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