y*e
发帖数: 9799 | 1 her legs are proportionally long, it's all about the proportion~~ |
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f**********r
发帖数: 18251 | 2 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: onetotwo (回国肉), 信区: Military
标 题: 怎么会 有AAJC这种内奸？
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu May 21 14:28:21 2015, 美东)
BuzzFeed News: Asian-American Groups Clash Over Harvard Affirmative Action
Complaint
May 19, 2015
Share: Twitter logoFacebook logoLinkedIn logoForward logoGoogle+ logo
The latest high-profile challenge to affirmative action in college
admissions has exposed fault lines in the Asian-American community,
underscoring differences of opinion between foreign-born immigrants and... 阅读全帖 |
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M**********f
发帖数: 67 | 3 Many Chinese Americans have protested against Jimmy Kimmel’s hateful speech
aired by ABC on Oct 16. Some people dismiss these Chinese Americans as just
“crying babies, over-sensitive, blowing things out of proportion, and
having no sense of humor”. To these accusations, I offer the following
response.
If you can always sit in front of the bus, you might think all the African
Americans were just “blowing things out of proportion” when they started
the Montgomery Bus Boycott.
If you were never put... 阅读全帖 |
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k****w
发帖数: 72 | 4 An American guy who is very concerned about the radiation sent me below link
. Some American scientists started a petition to the United Nations. Please
take a look and support if you are concerned too. Please feel free to pass
along if you like.
http://act.credoaction.com/sign/fukushima_disaster/?akid=9483.2
Below is the email, in case you want to read.
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
From: "Jordan Krueger, CREDO Action"
Sent: Wednesday, November 20, 2013 6:36:00 AM
Subject: More radiation than 14,000 Hiro... 阅读全帖 |
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p*********y
发帖数: 2741 | 5 BILL ANALYSIS
Ó
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|SENATE RULES COMMITTEE | SCA 5|
|Office of Senate Floor Analyses | ... 阅读全帖 |
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h****n
发帖数: 2250 | 6 Senator Carol Liu
https://www.facebook.com/SenatorLiu
Thanks for your comments. SCA 5 passed the Senate 27-9 on January 30, 2014.
I voted “aye.” There has been a significant drop in the percentage of
enrolled minority students at both University of California and California
State University campuses. The proportion of underrepresented students
eligible for U.C. and C.S.U. has not kept pace with the proportion of the
high school graduating class that they now represent. SCA 5, if approved by
vote... 阅读全帖 |
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a**********t
发帖数: 631 | 7 The comment from Carol Liu is totally bullshit.
"The proportion of underrepresented students eligible for U.C. and C.S.U.
has not kept pace with the proportion of the high school graduating class
that they now represent".
There is reason why students from some ethnic groups are underrepresented in
the college. The reason is simple, they haven't been made ready for the
higher education. You can blame that the California basic education system
failed the mission. However the solution isn't to s... 阅读全帖 |
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r**********n
发帖数: 136 | 8 真是可笑。 真是看不懂她的思维。什么逻辑。
"The proportion of underrepresented students
eligible for U.C. and C.S.U. has not kept pace with the proportion of the
high school graduating class that they now represent."
Of course it won't be same. Otherwise, there is no need of entrance exam,
anybody graduated from public high school can directly go to public
university. Then it will keep exact same pace.
Funny! That's why there is entrance exam and admission committee! Let people
who work hard win!
I am sure she will ... 阅读全帖 |
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s******u
发帖数: 88 | 9 议员回复和加州的人口比例都是我在 MITBBS上看来的，先谢谢两位提供资料的楼主们。
议员Carol Liu在脸书上有关SCA5的回答是这样的：
Thanks for your comments. SCA 5 passed the Senate 27-9 on January 30, 2014.
I voted “aye.” There has been a significant drop in the percentage of
enrolled minority students at both University of California and California
State University campuses. The proportion of underrepresented students
eligible for U.C. and C.S.U. has not kept pace with the proportion of the
high school graduating class that they now represent. SCA 5, ... 阅读全帖 |
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a**********t
发帖数: 631 | 10 The comment from Carol Liu is totally bullshit.
"The proportion of underrepresented students eligible for U.C. and C.S.U.
has not kept pace with the proportion of the high school graduating class
that they now represent".
There is reason why students from some ethnic groups are underrepresented
in
the college. The reason is simple, they haven't been made ready for the
higher education. You can blame that the California basic education system
failed the mission. However the solution isn't to s... 阅读全帖 |
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l**t
发帖数: 10440 | 11 看看左派怎么想的 :-)
http://www.mercurynews.com/education/ci_25617295/californias-af
California's 16-year-old affirmative action ban is lodged more firmly than
ever in state law after the U.S. Supreme Court on Tuesday shut off further
court challenges in states that have enacted such bans.
By upholding a Michigan law nearly identical to California's, the ruling
left only a legislative -- or ballot initiative -- route for allowing racial
and gender preferences in public college admissions, contracts and ... 阅读全帖 |
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h**d
发帖数: 5161 | 12 CAMBRIDGE, Mass. — NEARLY a century ago, Harvard had a big problem: Too
many Jews. By 1922, Jews accounted for 21.5 percent of freshmen, up from 7
percent in 1900 and vastly more than at Yale or Princeton. In the Ivy League
, only Columbia and the University of Pennsylvania had a greater proportion
of Jews.
Harvard’s president, A. Lawrence Lowell, warned that the “Jewish invasion
” would “ruin the college.” He wanted a cap: 15 percent. When faculty
members balked, he stacked the admissions proce... 阅读全帖 |
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m*h
发帖数: 2750 | 13 各位今天投票
有人看到新闻说delegate代表40个人支持cruz,别误会了白着急哈。
研究了一下:
The delegates were chosen over the weekend at the state Republican
convention, but they won't know who they're representing until the primary
results. Of the 41 elected delegates, 40 were Cruz supporters. However,
under party rules, each delegate is bound to the primary results for the
first round of voting at the national convention.
41个delegates 中，40个事ted支持者。但是，他们支持谁是不算数的。要看今天vote
的结果。说白了就是，虽然他们个人支持cruz，他们七月去cleveland 投谁不是他们说
了算，要今天的结果说了算.
li... 阅读全帖 |
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c**s
发帖数: 3796 | 14 【 以下文字转载自 CivilSociety 讨论区 】
发信人: oskarlre (oskar), 信区: CivilSociety
标 题: O编辑总结：关于此次SCA5中华裔参议员投票伤害华人利益的一些思考
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Feb 25 14:23:00 2014, 美东)
这段时间里所有关于SCA5讨论里最让北美华人愤怒的，也许就是三个华裔参议员对这个
明显能够伤害亚裔，尤其是重视教育的华裔议案投赞成票这件事。 正如“80-20”组织
领导人吴仙标博士所说“80-20非常警惕, 某些亚裔政客，违反了最基本的民主原则 —
为自已的选民服务 。民选上台的官员们应该代表的是他们选区的民意。这三位参议员
却以为新移民们不懂美国政治的原则，可能为了自已政治的前途，而背离了自己选民的
利益。”而这件事也让大家指出长久以来美国华裔参政的一个大问题，为什么不少所谓
“华裔希望”华裔政客上去以后，不能代表华裔利益主动提出对华裔有利提案不说，还
主动充当猪队友来坑华裔呢？ 这篇文章小O就来小分析一下成因。不过在分析之前，让
我们先来看一下这三位华人参议员以及小说他们在S... 阅读全帖 |
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c*******o
发帖数: 5387 | 15 【 以下文字转载自 Parenting 讨论区 】
发信人: LoanSeeker (Need Better Loan), 信区: Parenting
标 题: 爬藤的家长注意喽
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Jan 21 16:04:05 2013, 美东)
下面的文章要读一读。
文章摘要如下：鸡头>凤尾原则是被广泛观察到的现象所支持的。同一入学新生，相比
于去与自己水平相当的大学，选择去比自己水平高很多的藤校是很不明智的。所以AA造
成对黑青年“毁人>诲人”。
如斯成立，则亚裔家长推自个的娃也须小心。如家长推了10年娃也没学会自推，那靠补
习班、凑活动经验上了藤校也是去给牛娃当分母做尾巴去了，也许不如去一州校帮助大
。学费省下来还可以投资给娃当个天使基金啥的。
发信人: yariguy (yari guy), 信区: Parenting
标 题: Re: Support Asian American students!!!
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Mon Jan 21 10:52:51 2013, 美东)
The Say Irony of Affirmativ... 阅读全帖 |
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k********k
发帖数: 5617 | 16 http://www.radio-canada.ca/nouvelles/societe/2007/12/04/003-rec
Le français en déclin
Mise à jour le mardi 4 décembre 2007 à 15 h 43 HNE
Selon Statistique Canada, le français perd du terrain au Canada et le
chinois est restée en 2006 la langue maternelle du plus grand nombre de
nouveaux arrivants.
En 2006, la langue maternelle de 70,2 % des immigrants n'était ni le fran&
ccedil;ais ni l'anglais.
De ces immigrants, 18,6 % avaient l'un ou l'autre des dialectes chinois
comme langue ma... 阅读全帖 |
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k********k
发帖数: 5617 | 17 http://www.radio-canada.ca/nouvelles/societe/2007/12/04/003-rec
Le français en déclin
Mise à jour le mardi 4 décembre 2007 à 15 h 43 HNE
Selon Statistique Canada, le français perd du terrain au Canada et le
chinois est restée en 2006 la langue maternelle du plus grand nombre de
nouveaux arrivants.
En 2006, la langue maternelle de 70,2 % des immigrants n'était ni le fran&
ccedil;ais ni l'anglais.
De ces immigrants, 18,6 % avaient l'un ou l'autre des dialectes chinois
comme langue ma... 阅读全帖 |
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h******2
发帖数: 1498 | 18 more about the physics -- it's the power output of the body that counts.
power equals force times velocity, P=F*V. at constant high speed, force is
mostly a function of wind resistance, which in turn is proportional to V^2.
i.e., F=a*V^2+b*V.
so, to maintain a certain speed, your body's power output is approximately
proportional to (a*V^3+b*V^2). that's why it's a lot harder to increase
your speed from 20mph to 23mph than from 17mph to 20mph, because at higher
speed your power output is going |
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t*******f
发帖数: 2634 | 19 Yeah. Active people are usually attractive
physically.
I used to think badminton girls are more beautiful.
And it is true because badminton needs very good
body proportion, shape, coordination, fitness, peak
power, and endurance. Body proportion, shape,
coordination are very important aspects in judging
the appearance of a person, and they are mostly
determined by genes.
Good runner also have these attractive features. |
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e***t
发帖数: 14386 | 20 wiki自己都不一致
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/UEFA_coefficient
“The UEFA ranking determines the number of teams competing in the season
after
the next, not in the first season after the publication of the ranking. Thus
, th
e 2010 ranking determines the proportion in 2011–12, not 2010–11.”
但是底下又列出2010 ranking的table，还说“
The ranking determine the proportion in 2010-2011 competitions. ”
等phpenghao贴他找的官网链接吧，我是没找到 |
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t***y
发帖数: 182 | 21 source:
http://astrologyzone.com/forecasts/monthly/capricorn_full.php
Capricorn Horoscope for February 2012
By Susan Miller
You were thinking a lot about finances last month, and it was a good time to
organize things, and even ask for a raise. If you didn't use the new moon
in Aquarius last month on January 23 to your advantage, you still have a
little time, but you will have to act fast. The light of that new moon is
fading fast, so steel your courage and go into your bosses' office and make
yo... 阅读全帖 |
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o*******g
发帖数: 1300 | 22 copper/silver are much lighter than gold.
If large copper/silver proportion is used, the weight will be light.
If smaller copper/silver proportion, the conductivity won't be good.
(I don't know how conductivity change with respect to alloy content though)
One way to detect silver is to blow it. This is the traditional way for
people to test silver dollar in the past. Due to the excellence resilience
of silver, you will hear a long lasting hum. I tried a big Ike dollar (In
nickel, and same size a |
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P**********e
发帖数: 543 | 23 老爷哥，我不敢说金子一定什么时候跌， 可是老婆的数量肯定inversely
proportional to 你金子数量。老婆的漂亮程度inversely proportional to 你金子数
量。
妻子多了金子少了
儿子多了金子少了
车子多了金子少了
房子多了金子少了
银子多了金子少了
票子多了金子少了 。。。
哈哈 |
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M**q
发帖数: 24 | 24 The Coin Analyst: 2014 Baseball Commemorative Coins Market Q & A
By Louis Golino on April 7, 2014 11:49 AM
1. How much are the 2014 Baseball Commemorative Coins graded at the
Baltimore Whitman Expo last week selling for? Will these coins hold their
premiums?
In the first few days after the Baltimore Whitman expo, coins with special
show labels (“Opening Day Releases” for NGC and “First Pitch Baltimore”
for PCGS) began to appear for sale on e-Bay. Prices for the gold MS and PF-
70 coins quickly r... 阅读全帖 |
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c*****g
发帖数: 41 | 25 第一颗：钻石上有GIA编号的laser标刻，rapapot估价为$3920, 现在价格为 $ 4043
ROUND BRILLIANT
Measurements: 5.93 - 5.99 x 3.69 mm
Carat Weight: 0.80 carat
Color Grade: F
Clarity Grade: VS2
Cut Grade: Excellent
PROPORTIONS:
Depth: 61.9%
Table: 57%
Crown Angle: 34.0°
Crown Height: 14.5%
Pavilion Angle: 41.0°
Pavilion Depth: 43.5%
Star length: 50%
Lower Half: 80%
Girdle: Medium to Slightly Thick, Faceted
Culet: None
FINISH:
Polish: Excellent
Symmetry: Excellent
Fluorescence... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 3983 | 26 第一个：
ROUND BRILLIANT
Measurements: 5.93 - 5.99 x 3.69 mm
Carat Weight: 0.80 carat
Color Grade: F
Clarity Grade: VS2
Cut Grade: Excellent
PROPORTIONS:
Depth: 61.9%
Table: 57%
Crown Angle: 34.0°
Crown Height: 14.5%
Pavilion Angle: 41.0°
Pavilion Depth: 43.5%
Star length: 50%
Lower Half: 80%
Girdle: Medium to Slightly Thick, Faceted
Culet: None
FINISH:
Polish: Excellent
Symmetry: Excellent
Fluorescence: Faint
CLARITY CHARACTERISTICS:
Twinning Wi... 阅读全帖 |
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E*********n
发帖数: 542 | 27 不懂
第一个cut 只是premium 是不是因为proportion 不好？反正对于圆钻来说，
proportion 对于light performance 的影响比symmetry 要大很多，方钻不清楚。。。 |
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S*********i
发帖数: 942 | 28 I agree curve and proportions are more important than height and boob size.
but if you are not fortunate enuf to have best curve and proportions,
height can compensate a lot --- most of the time height is positively
correlated with long legs ... |
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l******u
发帖数: 31 | 29 一个关于“穷开心"的片断。
"the proportion of Nigerians who rate themselves happy is as high as the
proportion of Japanese", "The percentage of Bangladeshis who report
themselves satisfied is twice as high as the percentage of Russians, though
Russians are more than four times as rich.",....
Graham entertains several possible explanations... One is founded on
genetics. Research on twins suggests that some people are hard-wired to be
glad and others to be dejected. Perhaps the poor, she proposes, have happy |
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m**i
发帖数: 9848 | 30 The index is just saying that the proportion of Asian audience is higher
than their proportion of population. The majority of CNN audience should
still be Caucasian. |
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a***r
发帖数: 594 | 31 theoretically speaking.
a pixel measures local light intensity by counting photons falling onto it.
for simple counting error assume photons hit the pixel in a poisson process,
the number of photon, N, collected by a pixel is proportional to its area A
. the statistical fluctuation of a poisson process is sqrt(N).
therefore the S/N ratio is sqrt(N) which is proportional to the linear size
of the pixel, i.e. sqrt(A).
there are other sources of noises. let thermal electronic noise at high ISO
due |
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l****g
发帖数: 5080 | 32 Copied from wikipedia, search "aperture"
Aperture area
The amount of light captured by a lens is proportional to the area of the
aperture, equal to:
\mathrm{Area} = \pi \left({f \over 2N}\right)^2
Where f is focal length and N is the f-number.
The focal length value is not required when comparing two lenses of the same
focal length; a value of 1 can be used instead, and the other factors can
be dropped as well, leaving area proportion to the reciprocal square of the
f-number N.
If two camera... 阅读全帖 |
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l****g
发帖数: 5080 | 33
S/N of a pixel is still proportional to total light on that pixel, thus the
product illuminance and size of that pixel(total light) is proportional to S
/N of the pixel.
For image S/N, total picture light should be considered, the total image S/R
is not related to pixel at least for ideal sensor(no gap between pixels).
The more pixel, each pixel get less S/N, but you have more pixels, and S on
each pixel are correlated to each other in some way but noise is not, total
S/N is the same. So genera... 阅读全帖 |
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m***h
发帖数: 23691 | 34 AKC Sharpei standard:
Size, Proportion, Substance
The height is 18 to 20 inches at the withers. The weight is 45 to 60
pounds. The dog is usually larger and more square bodied than the bitch
but both appear well proportioned. The height of the Shar-Pei from the
ground to the withers is approximately equal to the length from the point
of breastbone to the point of rump. |
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g****g
发帖数: 1828 | 35 In probability theory, the normal (or Gaussian) distribution, is a
continuous probability distribution that is often used as a first
approximation to describe real-valued random variables that tend to cluster
around a single mean value. The graph of the associated probability density
function is “bell”-shaped, and is known as the Gaussian function or bell
curve:[nb 1]
f(x) = \tfrac{1}{\sqrt{2\pi\sigma^2}}\; e^{ -\frac{(x-\mu)^2}{2\sigma^2}
},
where parameter μ is the mean (location of the pe... 阅读全帖 |
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G****e
发帖数: 11198 | 36 地址：
http://qsnetwork.qualtrics.com/WRQualtricsSurveyEngine/?
Q_SS=88GpSigQfRKUz08_24XCNdPLk9iMBKs&_=1
这是我收到的信件：
QS World University Rankings® 2011 - Your Opinion Counts. Have Your Say.
Dear Academic,
The opinion of academics forms the very core of the QS World University
Rankings® - the most
widely circulated of the world rankings.
With over 15,000 respondents drawn on for our 2010 rankings, we are set to
significantly increase
response in 2011, and your role as a leading educationalis... 阅读全帖 |
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N******4
发帖数: 26 | 37 I love A罩杯! I think its great proportionally for Asian mm's typically
more slim overall figure.
Anything more than a B would be proportionally un-pleasing to the eyes.
Silicone just look too unnatural, don't bother unless you have a really
really 下垂 issue.
fakeand |
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m**c
发帖数: 7299 | 38 Homosexual Serial Killers
Statistical analysis of the proportion of homosexuality among serial killers
,with a listing of prominent GLBT/homosexual serial killers
Although the proportion of serial killers who are known to have had
homosexual experience is high (over 43%), the total number of serial killers
is too small to make statistically relevant statements about whether
homosexuals are over- or under-represented among serial killers. [Click here
for source, related studies and statistics.]
原... 阅读全帖 |
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G****e
发帖数: 11198 | 39 这个写的不错。
redderst • 7 hours ago −
Many
Chinese Americans have protested against Jimmy Kimmel’s hateful speech
aired by ABC on Oct 16. Some people dismiss these protesters as just
“crying babies, over-sensitive, blowing things out of proportion, and
having no sense of humor”. To these accusations, I offer the following
response.
If you can always sit in front of the bus, you might think all the African
Americans were just “blowing things out of proportion” when they started
the Montgom... 阅读全帖 |
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f***e
发帖数: 5443 | 40 有回答了
Senator Carol Liu
https://www.facebook.com/SenatorLiu
Thanks for your comments. SCA 5 passed the Senate 27-9 on January 30, 2014.
I voted “aye.” There has been a significant drop in the percentage of
enrolled minority students at both University of California and California
State University campuses. The proportion of underrepresented students
eligible for U.C. and C.S.U. has not kept pace with the proportion of the
high school graduating class that they now represent. SCA 5, if approved by... 阅读全帖 |
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v**e
发帖数: 8422 | 41 发信人: haiwen (伞兵熊,), 信区: SanFrancisco
标 题: 议员Carol Liu在脸书上有关SCA5的回答。大家看到了吗？
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Feb 21 16:09:39 2014, 美东)
Senator Carol Liu
https://www.facebook.com/SenatorLiu
Thanks for your comments. SCA 5 passed the Senate 27-9 on January 30, 2014.
I voted “aye.” There has been a significant drop in the percentage of
enrolled minority students at both University of California and California
State University campuses. The proportion of underrepresented students
eligible for U.C. and C.S.U. has... 阅读全帖 |
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G****t
发帖数: 1799 | 42 美国的数据低似乎是调查时忽略了亚裔人口，下面的一二年的一个调查加入了亚裔的七
种语言结果就不一样了。
还有你引用的那个报告指明了美国佛教徒有一个明显不同其他信仰的特点，那就是四分
之三是自己的选择而不是由家庭出身的结果。佛法在西方走得是学术界的路子，一是毕
竟人数少力量有限，二是科学，尤其是物理学和心理学可以找到共鸣。不过话说回来，
佛法难学难修，吸引力很低。
Pew survey tallies larger Buddhist population than previously thought
BY SHAMBHALA SUN | JULY 20, 2012
A new study by the Pew Forum on Religious and Public Life estimates that
between 1 and 1.3 percent of the United States population—between 3 and 4
million people—identifies as Buddhist, a dramatic increase from a 20... 阅读全帖 |
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f**********r
发帖数: 18251 | 43 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: onetotwo (回国肉), 信区: Military
标 题: 怎么会 有AAJC这种内奸？
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu May 21 14:28:21 2015, 美东)
BuzzFeed News: Asian-American Groups Clash Over Harvard Affirmative Action
Complaint
May 19, 2015
Share: Twitter logoFacebook logoLinkedIn logoForward logoGoogle+ logo
The latest high-profile challenge to affirmative action in college
admissions has exposed fault lines in the Asian-American community,
underscoring differences of opinion between foreign-born immigrants and... 阅读全帖 |
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a******o
发帖数: 16625 | 44 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: LindaLiao (梅影清吟), 信区: Military
标 题: 世界历史上最有成就的五十名物理学家。
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun Apr 8 17:18:35 2012, 美东)
1. Isaac Newton - English. Quantified and Qualified laws of motion and
gravity. Invented the reflecting telescope. Explained the concept of light
dispersion and co-invented the Calculus.
2. Albert Einstein - German/Swiss/American - Developed Theories of Special
and General Relativity. Described Brownian Motion. Nobel Prize winner for
his work on the photoelectric ef... 阅读全帖 |
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E*****m
发帖数: 25615 | 45
一分鐘語言與邏輯(九）怎樣回應胡說八道
A: 我剛吃了一整頭牛，六百多斤重。
B: 你有證據嗎？
A: 沒有。
B: 你胡扯都沒個邊的？
A: 你調查了沒有？
B: 沒有。 我哪有時間去調查這個？
A: 那你怎麼可以說我胡扯？ 如果你指責人撒謊的話，說明你已經知道了真相，並且有
確據證實。但是你並沒有， 你沒去親自調查，那為什麼說我是撒謊呢？
你大概也覺得A 胡扯， 但是我們可不可以説A 胡扯呢？ 可以的！在這裡我要介紹兩
個有用的原則 --
第一個是希金斯的『滾一邊去』原則（註一）：
對沒有證據支持的胡說八道， 不需要證據就可以判斷是胡說八道。
第二個原則是賽根的『證據比例』原則（註二）
非常宣稱需要非常證據
要注意的是這不是一個邏輯或語言的問題，也就是說這不是一個有客觀事實，而是一個
對話規範的選擇，一個匪夷所思而且沒證據的宣稱，不是沒有可能到最後證實是真的，
但是這個機率有多大？ 誰能證明A 沒有吃了整頭牛？ 如果A 沒有提供證據，我們可
以直接説他撒謊，不必花時間去否證，這就是希金斯原則；如果A拿出一張他正在吃牛
肉的照片，我們還是不會相信的，畢竟一張照片要當吃了整頭... 阅读全帖 |
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woshixiaogou (woshixiaogou) 于 (Wed Nov 10 09:30:54 2010, 美东) 提到:
有家庭后，就不再是为自己一个人活了，不可能再沉溺于自己喜欢做的事情中了。——
自私的、喜欢享受生活的人要先为自己活，腻了，准备settle down了，才应该结婚，
不然会觉得很亏，心理一旦不平衡，对自己对他人都不好。
主要难关有三点：
1. 父母的压力：我是这样处理的，多和他们沟通，告诉他们，婚姻并非会给每个人都
带来幸福。举一些身边真实的亲戚朋友的反面例子：最后如果离婚，还不如单身会经历
那么多伤害。多向他们展示自己现在快乐的生活！
2. 孤单：想通过婚姻来逃避孤单本身就是错误的！研究显示男人在结婚后更孤单（具
体数据我懒得找了），如果你是个loner，结婚后一样还是个loner。真正解决孤单的方
法是多交朋友，培养健康的心态。我忘了哪本心理学教材有专门一章讲孤单的。
3. 性：这个可以通过找男女朋友解决——但是一开始就要告诉对方，自己不想settle
down，这... 阅读全帖 |
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