g****p
发帖数: 94 | 1 最近跟女朋友吵架到分手，发现两个人思维方式差别非常大，进而发觉他们家里跟我们
家里的人的思维方式差别也很大。要不是这次吵架，我一直都没法理解她。
人和人的差异可真是大啊，我觉得我需要看一些关于relationship的书，多了解各种人
的想法，以及他们为什么会这么想。
各位能不能给我推荐一些relationship的书？包括家庭关系，男女关系，朋友关系，同
事关系，上下级关系等。
多谢！ |
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j****e
发帖数: 245 | 2 This one should be pretty good and fitting for your need.
You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation
http://www.amazon.com/Just-Dont-Understand-Deborah-Tannen/dp/0345372050
All about communication and language in communication.
Another book I can recommend for relationships with the potential for
marriage is: The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical
Guide from the Country's Foremost Relationship Expert, by John Gottman, the
"guru" on marriage research and practice |
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w****r
发帖数: 17566 | 3 Checking out the trust level
Since long-distance relationships are so difficult to sustain, honestly
evaluating the chances of success may help you stay realistic.For the most
part, this means trying to assess the level of trust between you and your
partner. Clearly, if you met during the second week of August and the two of
your are going to be apart after the first week in September, you are going
to have an entirely different perspective on the changes of the
relationship lasing than if you d |
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w****r
发帖数: 17566 | 4 When things aren't working
Even if you follow these suggestions, there's no guarantee that your long
distance relationship will succeed. Remind yourself that you would be more
hurt by trying to stay with someone who doesn't feel as strongly about you
as your do abut him or her. Realize that you are better off facing reality
now than hanging on to an unworkable relationship.In addition to reassuring
yourself with these thoughts, give yourself time to heal.Keeping busy with
school and getting invo |
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e****7
发帖数: 4387 | 5 好久没来了，
you can have a bridge(fact, a factless fact) table with SK for the said dims
if it's the
relationship that you are interested in. otherwise your other fact tables
should already have the relationship baked in.
问题比较模糊，如果能举实例，或许有比较确切的方案。 |
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a****b
发帖数: 489 | 6 For example, I have two dimensions, Dim_Emp and Dim_Emp_Account. Assuming,
there is only a one-to-many relationship between Dim_Emp and Dim_Emp_Account
, meaning one account belongs to one emplyee; and one employee could has
several account. We COULD PUT Dim_Emp_Key in Dim_Emp_Acc. But for the design
, because
Dim_Emp is a conformed dimension, we CANNOT merge Dim_Emp into Dim_Emp_Acct(
denormalization). Dim_Emp is an SCD because of address, Dim_Emp_Account is
an SCD too because of Banker or some... 阅读全帖 |
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k****s
发帖数: 2 | 7 "The U.S.-China Relationship: The Truth Behind the Rhetoric"
Remarks by Thomas J. Donohue
President & CEO, U.S. Chamber of Commerce
Before the Asia Society
CEO Series Luncheon Forum
February 26, 2004
New York City
U.S.-Asian-Pacific Relationship
Ambassador Platt, thank you for your kind words and for the important work
that the Asia Society does to promote understanding and cooperation between
America and Asia. Following last night's dinner, I'm pleased to have this
opportunity to continue a di |
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n**f
发帖数: 121 | 8 What is the relationship between CAPEX and revenue (or operating income) of
a firm?
I am new to the area of corporate finance and was asked to do some
statistical / econometrical analysis on it.
conceptually I thought there must be some relationship: CAPEX is what you
spend to maintain the company in a reasonable shape, and eventually generate
enough revenue / OI. But when I did a little googling I could not find much
discussion from econometrical standpoint.
Any book, research name, or paper is... 阅读全帖 |
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C***U
发帖数: 6529 | 9 love-hate relationship， 真应时 |
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t********z
发帖数: 89 | 11 【 以下文字转载自 Dreamer 讨论区 】
发信人: Dreamer (不要问我从哪里来), 信区: Dreamer
标 题: Re: 和鸡保持长期relationship是什么感觉
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Apr 1 12:30:56 2015, 美东)
你问问接盘乔鑫的那个绿帽男就知道了 不过乔鑫这样的鸡一般都很在意怎么给自己立
牌坊 |
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发帖数: 1 | 12 但对relationship里的女伴
哥从不搞硬上弓
咱们是文化人
要懂得自尊和尊重女伴 |
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s***v
发帖数: 4924 | 13
：但对relationship里的女伴
：哥从不搞硬上弓
嫖完给的假钞？ |
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发帖数: 1 | 14 你妈告你的?
Lol
: ：但对relationship里的女伴
: ：哥从不搞硬上弓
: 嫖完给的假钞？
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v*****1
发帖数: 2200 | 15
：但对relationship里的女伴
：哥从不搞硬上弓
，只对男伴用强？ |
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L*****d
发帖数: 5093 | 16 Credit Suisse CS, +0.94% was fined $47 million by the Department of Justice
and another $30 million by the Securities and Exchange Commission for
corruptly winning banking business by awarding employment to friends and
family of Chinese officials at its Hong Kong office. "These 'relationship
hires' often lacked necessary technical skills, and offered fewer
qualifications and significantly less relevant banking experience than other
candidates for the jobs," said Acting Assistant Attorney General... 阅读全帖 |
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g******e
发帖数: 403 | 17 A friend of mine is a gay and he is doing research on gays. He once told me
his experience made him believe it's really hard to find a serious relationship. |
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g******e
发帖数: 403 | 18 My friend is doing serious research on gays and has many papers published. I
guess his conclusion that gays are more difficult to have committed
relationships is believable. One thing I do not understand about being gay
is that even as a gay couple, one generally behaves as a female and the
other acts as a man, the exact way a 异性恋 is . In this way, is it OK for
some people to think 同性恋 is struggling to be 异性恋, or deep in their hearts, they want to be 异性恋? Please do not feel
offended. I am just c |
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m******1
发帖数: 19713 | 19 我自己和我身边认识的同性恋伴侣们，还是prefer一对一的关系的多，我也知道同性恋
者们比异性恋者们更喜欢open relationship，就是多伴侣的关系。我认为这可能是因
为同性恋者们的思想里被传统观念束缚的成分更少一些，也就是在对生活方式的选择上
更开放和宽容一些。我还是认为这只是不同的生活方式而已，只要不涉及欺骗与伤害，
就没有什么不好。
你说的摹仿一男一女的关系，我姑且叫做一阴柔一阳刚的关系吧。这种关系只在同性恋
中占一部分，根据我的观察，大概连一半都到不了。还是有很多人，包括我自己，更
prefer不分角色划分的。
我认为对于一阴柔一阳刚的搭配，也是要分开看的，有些确实体现了异性恋模式对一些
人的影响，越是在比较保守的、异性恋霸权占主导地位的地区或国家，这种影响就越强
烈，体现在：中国和台湾的同性恋者中这种一阴柔一阳刚的模式，从比例上要远远多于
西方的同性恋者中这种模式；同样都是中国人的话，在海外居住一段时间以后，这种一
阴柔一阳刚的模式就少于中国大陆的同性恋中的这种模式。
还有一些一阴柔一阳刚的搭配，虽然表面上看是摹仿一男一女的关系，实则只不过是双
方对性格互补者的一种 |
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m******8
发帖数: 2153 | 20 Members of the European Parliament have called for action to ensure gay
couples in marriages and civil partnerships are recognised across the
continent.
While EU member states are required to simplify entry and residence for
couples in recognised relationships and the directive does not mention
gender, it does not require states to explicitly demand that countries must
recognise gay couples in marriages or civil partnerships.
According to MEPs who took part in this Tuesday's debate, this can lea |
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p********i
发帖数: 1963 | 21 【 以下文字转载自 Rainbow 讨论区 】
发信人: pipipipipi (pipipipipipipipipipipipipipipipipipipip), 信区: Rainbow
标 题: open relationship的一般到最后是不是就吹拉？
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Sep 16 15:19:15 2011, 美东)
请问一般情况。。 |
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p***o
发帖数: 714 | 22 http://thecaucus.blogs.nytimes.com/2008/03/14/obama-elaborates-on-rezko-relationship/
Senator Barack Obama disclosed today that Antoin Rezko was a more
substantial fund-raiser for his previous campaigns than originally
established.
In an interview with The Chicago Tribune today, Mr. Obama said that Mr.
Rezko raised up to $250,000 for his past three political bids, about $100,
000 more than initially believed.
Mr. Rezko, currently undergoing trial for fraud, is a longtime Illinois
Democratic oper |
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s*******u
发帖数: 2249 | 23 Documents released Tuesday by the University of Illinois at Chicago shed
some light on Barack Obama’s relationship with William Ayers, a founding
member of the 1960s and 1970s radical group the Weather Underground.
Obama’s association with Ayers, who now teaches at the university, has
become an issue in the Illinois senator’s presidential campaign. The
Weather Underground took credit for several nonfatal bombings on targets
that included the Pentagon and the U.S. Capitol, and critics accuse Obam |
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c****t
发帖数: 5452 | 24 Washington Times terminates relationship with columnist Drew Johnson, after
Johnson "confirmed" 2 Cruz mistresses https://t.co/z8NfQqxGsS |
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c**********e
发帖数: 2007 | 26 【 以下文字转载自 Stock 讨论区 】
发信人: careerchange (Stupid), 信区: Stock
标 题: Anybody knows the share relationship of PTR
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jan 25 22:56:22 2013, 美东)
一股PTR（PetroChina Co. Ltd. A (SHA)）相当于多少股A股CN:601857？
按目前价格，一美股值143美元，也就是898元。而一A股值9员。所以，一美股大约是
100 A股？ |
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t**c
发帖数: 7480 | 27 What's the relationship of newegg.com with newegg? |
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a**o
发帖数: 115 | 28 学生和导师的关系是life-long relationship. 长远看，双方的名利是正相关的。你做
的好，你导师也更有名。你导师有名，你也会有更多的机会。
为了一点点蝇头小利，伤害这个关系是非常不值得的。
年轻时，每天多工作一两个小时是好事。很多人读书的时候，为了考好的大学，GRE高
分，每天学习十几个小时，没有任何薪水，也没有怨言。
现在进了Ph.D program, 得到了自己辛辛苦苦争取到的机会，却开始想如何少花力气和
时间在这个Ph.D program上。当初为什么要读博士呢？就为了个degree? 还是Ph.D 的
学习和训练？多花时间和精力在Ph.D 的学习和训练上不是最应该的吗？
想不通的，请quit ph.d program. 等想通了再回来。
美国的教授都很忙，但是招了博士，就要认真的带。一周要meet一次。如果几周都不能
meet一次，email也不回，就应该考虑停止写新grant proposal和招新学生了。多花些
时间和学生交流，使学生少走弯路，会加快project的进度和提高完成质量的。拿了多
少米的grant不重要，重要是产生了多少有用的成果。
而成果是... 阅读全帖 |
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W*******n
发帖数: 4140 | 29 楼主说得有些道理。但是, 作为"导师"的人, 也要清楚"导师"和"博士生"的关系到底是
什么? 那种不听话又干不成事的学生是会让导师烦的, 而那种"导师"自以为是, 根本只
认为"博士生"只是体力劳动者, 出来点成果全都认为是"导师"个人财产而无"博士生"权
益, 并还拿"life-long relationship"来敲诈勒索, 这是奴隶制度的真实体现。这种奴
隶制度在美国盛行, 请不要在特色共铲裆制度下更盛行。 |
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z***a
发帖数: 152 | 30 临近毕业的时候，老板说“这个”你做出来才能毕业。我说这个东西太复杂了不是想象
中那么简单，别说几个月，给我一年也难。老板不听，坚持他的看法而且以毕业来威胁
我。后来我到了工业界，“这个”是几百个工程师一年的工作量。
现在看来，当时他难为我也没什么大不了的，腿长在我自己身上，各种难听的挖苦我的
话也多半是气话，各种小鞋和难堪也算是他个人的性格。不过情谊已经伤了就再难修补。
老板在我最困难的时候雪上加霜，我个人的困顿不及他个人利益半分。师生情谊没了，
只有利益，那么人出了学校也就谈不上什么life-long relationship。 |
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b******o
发帖数: 10 | 31 although around da ma age..... like late 20s/early 30s.
but stil not ready for marriage/ serious relationship..
don't want responsibility
freedom and uncertainty are beautiful still AH AH |
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h**********2
发帖数: 25 | 32 A guy is dating with a girl for 1 year. Both of them are more than 40 years
old and are shy. They are highly educated and knowledgeable. Both of them
are looking for a serious long-term relationship. When they date, they just
chat and have something common to chat. They never hold hand with each
other and no physical contacts, as they are shy and respectful. Anyone have
similar experiences that lead to a successful marriage? |
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