a**********8
发帖数: 1393 | 1 If what you told is true. I think it’s the husband’s problem.
First of all, it’s very hard to take care of a 2 year old and a 1 year old
alone, even for a full-time mom. His wife has to work and do a lot of house
work. And she takes care of the two younger ones. Why can’t the husband
take care of the oldest one himself? The oldest one is already 14 year old.
The husband can’t expect his wife to take all responsibilities for the kids
even if all three kids are hers. They are also his kids. He nee... 阅读全帖 |
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a**********8
发帖数: 1393 | 2 I feel bad for you.
Are you a girl? If I have a stepdaughter/son like you, I will definitely
love her/him.
Now you grow up, maybe you can think it in a different way. If your dad didn
't remarry, what will your life look like? As you said, you father traveled
frequently, at least you can stay with your stepmother when he is out of
town, right? |
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a**********8
发帖数: 1393 | 3 not every single father is so unreasonable. His expectation is too high.
As long as his wife doesn't abuse his son, he has nothing to complain. I
know some remarried couple, if the father has to be out of town, he will
either send his child to the mom's place or bring the child with him. He
doesn't expect his current wife to take care of his child with his ex.
Our Chinese always have high expectations and standards for other people.
But what has the father done? He doesn't give enough love to hi... 阅读全帖 |
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m********n
发帖数: 4570 | 4 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
waiting140 (等待140) 于 (Mon Dec 28 16:56:15 2009, 美东) 提到:
夫妻双方都有工作，年龄奔三，男方收入略高于女方，结婚时间3年多，没有小孩。都
是刚从学校毕业不久，男方工作了大半年，女方几个月，家里没有多少积蓄，更别提房
产了。这种情况在美国一般男方付给女方多少抚养费？
另外，假如要按收入的差额给抚养费，通常有无时间限制，比如要付若干年，还是终身，还是付到女方再婚？抚养费的数额是否随着将来双方收入的变化而变化？
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GoooG (pumpkin) 于 (Mon Dec 28 16:57:43 2009, 美东) 提到:
half to half,
or you can transfer the money to somewhere unknown before you divorce.
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t*******y
发帖数: 2424 | 5 how to remarry if not divoced? |
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I********e
发帖数: 6130 | 6
..... of course....many people remarry. |
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n***n
发帖数: 139 | 7 I deleted my post yeterday just because I think you are kids's daddy.
However, you always twisted words and show that you are good man.
As you said in bbs always, you wanted to divorce, why not you never to
propose any divorce idea and plan? Why every time it is I to propose it and
consult with you for divorce plan? If I didn't ask you, you will never
response to any plan/idea.
I proposed the 50% custody at the first is just because I saw somebody else
is doing so, however, after I consulted wit... 阅读全帖 |
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b**********f
发帖数: 136 | 9 Java 小白，实在不知道怎么做。求大侠解答！下周就要去面试了，不是Java
developer的职位，但是会考到一点编程。
public class Person {
Person father;
Person mother;
Gender gender;
Integer age;
List children;
int level = 0;
public enum Gender {
Male,
Female;
}
}
For the above class, you basically have to implement 2 methods.
public List getOldestSisters()
(person can have multiple parents since remarrying )
public List getGreatestAncestors()
Find the oldest sisters of the given... 阅读全帖 |
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c********a
发帖数: 2829 | 10 divorce and remarry in US. Simple and easy.
You can do both in one hour at one place. |
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z****l
发帖数: 5282 | 11 spouse can get half of your Social Security benefit
if having been married for 10 years and not remarried. |
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j***e
发帖数: 708 | 12 it's likely a lesbian family adopted the kid, or her dad remarried twice:) |
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s****1
发帖数: 1519 | 13 这里的政府是办理remarry业务的。所以，可以去另一个这里的结婚证。 |
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b*******e
发帖数: 24532 | 14 http://news.backchina.com/viewnews-133602-gb2312.html
After divorcing in June 1974, the couple reconciled and secretly remarried
16 months later in Chobe National Park in Botswana. Their second marriage,
however, was short-lived, and the couple divorced for a second time less
than a year after the ceremony. Although no longer man and wife, the two
would remain steadfast friends until Burton's death in 1984. Today, years
after his death, Taylor wants the world to know the place Burton continues
t... 阅读全帖 |
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i***i
发帖数: 800 | 15 这个说得很好，很中肯，希望lilykang可以看到。
http://www.mlss.gov.jm/pub/index.php?artid=82
不过，社保每月能有多少钱呢？。。。
另外，她还不能再嫁.
The pension will cease if the beneficiary remarries or enters into a new
common-law union.
为什么都劝她找工作呢， 她如果房贷快付清了， 就没有必要工作，
我跟大众相反， 我觉得lilykang在照顾好孩子的同时， 要把时间
留给照顾好自己， 而不是赚钱。
社保发给她个人的钱（不算孩子的）要发到她55岁， 那时候最小的孩子16岁
就停发了。 孩子的部分可以持续发到18周岁， 孩子离家读大学，
就可以接受政府的学费免除计划， 或者贷款计划了。她的孩子们如果
上加州大学分校的话（名牌够多了， berkeley, ucla, ucsb, ucsd...),
总校和分校各个level都有need based奖学金提供， 不仅免学费，
目前还给$3000左右一个quarter的生活费。
从56岁再过四年到... 阅读全帖 |
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S*********g
发帖数: 24893 | 16 【 以下文字转载自 StephenKing 俱乐部 】
发信人: StephenKing (金博士), 信区: StephenKing
标 题: 不系安全带，John Nash今天车祸死了
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun May 24 11:17:59 2015, 美东)
John Forbes Nash, Jr.
Born June 13, 1928
Bluefield, West Virginia, U.S.
Died May 23, 2015 (aged 86) [1]
Residence United States
Nationality American
Fields
Mathematics
Economics
Institutions
Massachusetts Institute of Technology
Princeton University
Alma mater
Princeton University
Carnegie Institute of Te... 阅读全帖 |
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B***6
发帖数: 787 | 17 在加洲４年了，是resident alien，一直用540 2EZ (single)报税。去年LD(nonresident alien)来到美国跟我团聚，正好用married joint return来报税。不过按照条例，似乎我只能用540 NR报税。
You cannot use Form 540 2EZ if:
• You file a joint tax return and either spouse/RDP was a nonresident
in 2010. Use Long or Short Form 540NR, California Nonresident or Part-Year
Resident Income Tax Return. These forms are available online at ftb.ca.gov
or file online using e-file.
但接下来又有一条，似乎我也符合要求。
Married/RDP Filing Jointly
You may file married/RDP filing jointly ... 阅读全帖 |
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V*******g
发帖数: 678 | 18 多谢。觉得couple还是有点不一样，可以claim entire year as resident。而且不受
dual status规定的credit限制，Pub519 page 9 about choose resident status
If you make this choice, the following rules
apply.
• You and your spouse are treated as U.S.
residents for the entire year for income tax
purposes.
• You and your spouse are taxed on world-
wide income.
• You and your spouse must file a joint re-
turn for the year of the choice.
• Neither you nor your spouse can make
this choice for any later tax year... 阅读全帖 |
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 19 "Q Kickboxer Jean-Claude Van Damme remarried bodybuilder Gladys Portugues a
while back. How are the two doing?—Rob Polseno, Richmond, Ind.
"A Fine—this time. “She’s like an angel who never yells at me,” says
Jean-Claude of his third and fifth wife. Adds Gladys: “When he left me [for
wife No. 4, Darcy LaPier], I just waited, knowing he’d come back.” Van
Damme hopes for a comeback himself with JCVD, a film that spoofs his action-
hero persona.
Walter Scott, Personality. Parade (magazine), Nov. 23, |
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G****e
发帖数: 11198 | 20 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: GoBlue (Wolverines), 信区: Military
标 题: 琐男看看这些内容，吓死你--伊斯兰20条和圣战三步曲
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Nov 18 15:41:12 2015, 美东)
“Islam's 20-point plan for conquering the United States by 2020”
By Anis Shorrosh, author of ''Islam Revealed'' and ''The True Furqan,'' is a
Christian Arab-American who emigrated from Arab-controlled Jerusalem in
January 1967.
1. Terminate America’s freedom of speech by replacing it with hate crime
bills state-wide and nation-wide.
2. Wage a war of words... 阅读全帖 |
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b***b
发帖数: 13249 | 21 John Nash MIT 数学教授，住在Boston
Personal life
In 1951, Nash went to the Massachusetts Institute of Technology as a C. L. E
. Moore Instructor in the mathematics faculty. There, he met Alicia Lopez-
Harrison de Lardé (born January 1, 1933), a naturalized U.S. citizen from
El Salvador. De Lardé graduated from M.I.T., having majored in physics.[4]
They married in February 1957 at a Catholic ceremony, although Nash was an
atheist.[11][12] Nash experienced the first symptoms of mental illness in
early 1... 阅读全帖 |
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n********0
发帖数: 815 | 22 pretty doesn't mean shit when it comes to marriage... just look at all those
chicks in hollywood, waaaaay hotter than u, but a lot of them still cant
get married, or divorced but cant get remarried
but look at the bright side, at least u can easily get laid if u want to...
and if u r really hot, that means if u ever get lost, people will actually
give a shit and try to find u |
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n********0
发帖数: 815 | 23 .....A Washington woman got quite a surprise when Facebook's "People You May
Know" feature reportedly recommended a potential contact. The two women
certainly had something in common: a husband.
The woman's identity has remained anonymous, so we will call her Wife 1. She
was perusing the popular social networking site when she says she saw the
other woman, who we will call Wife 2, suggested by Facebook as a person she
may know. She clicked on the woman's profile and saw photos of the woman
stand... 阅读全帖 |
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m****a
发帖数: 1257 | 24 Seems you are wrong - just checked IRS site:
http://www.irs.gov/publications/p17/ch02.html#en_US_publink1000170738
1. Divorced persons. If you are divorced under a final decree by the last
day of the year, you are considered unmarried for the whole year.
2. Divorce and remarriage. If you obtain a divorce in one year for the
sole purpose of filing tax returns as unmarried individuals, and at the time
of divorce you intended to and did remarry each other in the next tax year,
you and your spou |
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t***s
发帖数: 4666 | 25
last
time
year,
this doesn't matter. you can remarry in a later year, say when you are
retired. |
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z*****g
发帖数: 592 | 26 warning: difficult life ahead.
a divorced guy with kid, not only has to pay alimony, when he has money he
really wants to spend on his kid not on the woman he remarried.
How much patience your friend has with someone else kid? Can your friend
handle a kid when he(she) is not obedient? You can be strict or spoil your
kid anyway you like. But not someone else kid. Hard to be a step mother.
Love can be strong, reality can be rough. |
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B******1
发帖数: 9094 | 28 来自主题: WashingtonDC版 - 微薄上说 My LD's side: three cousins (all male) all divorced. Two of them remarried.
One is still looking. Her brother is close to divorce . . . We are going
to be the only (original) couple left standing within a year or two.
Knock on wood. |
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H****w
发帖数: 1632 | 30 Billy Walter and the computer group:
The Arrests
He was in the bed sleeping when the two men walked into his bedroom.
Billy
Walters sleeps in a big clean bed in Las Vegas, in a small but elaborate
home renovated to his liking, with palm trees and white flowerpots and
two
satellite dishes in the yard, and four large televisions in the den, and
a
security guard who sits just out of sight behind the shrubs across the
street. This environment was disrupted early last Jan. 5, when the two
strangers i... 阅读全帖 |
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s*****o
发帖数: 22187 | 31 http://espn.go.com/mens-college-basketball/story/_/id/12299896/
At the age of 8, he was flying home with his family from their lake house in
Michigan, his father piloting the plane as he always did. On approach into
Fort Wayne, Indiana, something went terribly wrong and the plane crashed,
exploding in flames on the side of a small country road in Uniondale.
Austin's mother, Julie; his older sister, Lindsay; and his little brother,
Ian -- all seated in the back -- were killed. Austin, seated in t... 阅读全帖 |
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P****D
发帖数: 11146 | 32 I don't have to see RESULTS right now. The problem is I don't see him trying
.
And I don't have the patience because I don't want to take the risk. What if
after 10 or 15 years he becomes 500 lbs? If I deem him hopeless after a few
years (which is more than enough for a lot of people to lose weight and
build a healthy lifestyle) of the marriage, I must take care of myself and
remarry while I am still relatively young.
I live to enjoy my OWN life, not to save someone else, especially someone
who ... 阅读全帖 |
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x*****u
发帖数: 3419 | 33 来自主题: LeisureTime版 - 推荐个书吧 Here is one, not mine, before Poe's stories
NOTES
What is a literary classic and why are these classic works important to the
world?
A literary classic is a work of the highest excellence that has something
important to say about life and/or the human condition and says it with
great artistry. A classic, through its enduring presence, has withstood the
test of time and is not bound by time, place, or customs. It speaks to us
today as forcefully as it spoke to people one hundred or more years ag... 阅读全帖 |
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T*C
发帖数: 3040 | 34 你不喜欢的来了，嘿嘿!
我上网搜到杨宪益和Hawkes的《红楼梦》翻译比较，大家看看谁的好。我个人似乎更喜
欢杨的翻译，更忠实原作，而且简洁精练。我有点私心，觉得红楼梦原作已经够完美，
翻译的时候何必还要有所发挥呢。呵呵！
〔枉凝眉〕一个是阆苑仙葩，一个是美玉无瑕。若说没奇缘，今生偏又遇着他；若说有
奇缘，如何心事终虚化﹖一个枉自嗟呀，一个空劳牵挂。一个是水中月，一个是镜中花
。想眼中能有多少泪珠儿，怎经得秋流到冬尽，春流到夏！
杨宪益: VAIN LONGING:
One is an immortal flower of fairyland,
The other jade,
And were it not predestined,
Why should they meet again in this existence?
Yet, if predestined,
Why does their love come to nothing?
One sighs to no purpose,
The other yearns in vain;
One is the moon ref... 阅读全帖 |
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x*****7
发帖数: 4749 | 35 加点小trivia:
片子拍了１２年，每一年导演会重看去年拍的，看每个演员的变化，再写今年的剧本。
而每个演员在故事方面也贡献了很多，比如说
Hawke's character is based on his and Linklater's fathers—both Texan
insurance agents who divorced and remarried—and Arquette's character is
based on her mother, who resumed her education later in life and became a
psychiatrist. |
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p***e
发帖数: 29053 | 36 what if the woman remarried to another man? |
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a********l
发帖数: 39524 | 37 yep, got divorced and remarried twice since you last saw me. |
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u****n
发帖数: 7521 | 38 remarry after the death of one's wife |
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m****s
发帖数: 7397 | 39 Keep in Mind, When Crossing Borders:
Requirements for documents can change over time. So do check the entrance
policies for the particular country you're visiting. The U.S. State Dept.'s
Bureau of Consular Affairs lists entry requirements for many countries. If
you're still uncertain, contact the Embassy or Consulate of the country you'
re visiting and ask what documentation you'll need.
Additionally, the level of caution in an airport may increase even without a
formal change in policy. For exa... 阅读全帖 |
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c**********r
发帖数: 88 | 40 you are talking about alimony, which ends if the recipient gets a job or
remarries. |
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S*********g
发帖数: 24893 | 41 【 以下文字转载自 StephenKing 俱乐部 】
发信人: StephenKing (金博士), 信区: StephenKing
标 题: 不系安全带，John Nash今天车祸死了
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sun May 24 11:17:59 2015, 美东)
John Forbes Nash, Jr.
Born June 13, 1928
Bluefield, West Virginia, U.S.
Died May 23, 2015 (aged 86) [1]
Residence United States
Nationality American
Fields
Mathematics
Economics
Institutions
Massachusetts Institute of Technology
Princeton University
Alma mater
Princeton University
Carnegie Institute of Te... 阅读全帖 |
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