c****x 发帖数: 6601 | 1 musk曾经也是令大妈花痴的对象
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lumia 发于 2018-07-18 09:12, 论坛: Chats&&华人闲话标 题: 马斯克为叫泰国
洞穴救援潜水员是恋童癖的行为道歉(图)
近日来,特斯拉CEO马斯克因在Twitter上发帖抨击在泰国洞穴救援行动中起到重要作用
的英国潜水员Vernon Unsworth并称其为恋童癖(pedo guy)而受到广泛批评,其中包括
了特斯拉的股东。或许出于巨大的舆论压力,周二深夜马斯克发文表达了对Unsworth的
歉意。
这位CEO表示,之前因Unsworth先生说了几句不实言论导致他气昏头于是才说出那样的
话,为此他向Unsworth先生道歉。
据了解,Unsworth曾在上周日称马斯克的参与只是一种公关噱头,并表示其潜艇根本就
进入不了50米深的洞穴。这样的否定使得马斯克后来发文对其进行炮轰,其中一条推文
写道--“我们将拍摄一段迷你潜艇一直游到5号洞穴的视频。对不起,恋童癖,这是你
自找的。”
对此,Unsworth于次日告诉媒体他打算采取法律手段来对付马斯克的这一行为。
周二,风投公司Loup Ventures执行... 阅读全帖 |
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y*****g 发帖数: 1822 | 2 http://www.gay.net/news/2011/08/23/breaking-news-bisexual-men-e
BREAKING NEWS: BISEXUAL MEN EXIST!
BY: JOE THOMPSON
8.23.2011
Bisexuals. It's a label that can cause great controversy among gay and
straight folk alike. Some people believe they're like unicorns—mythic
creatures living in a magical land of rainbows as long as it suits their
sexual needs; or, to put it more bluntly, they think these people are gay,
but they don't want to admit it to themselves. Others suspect it varies
between the s... 阅读全帖 |
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B**W 发帖数: 2273 | 3 By ROBERT PEAR
WASHINGTON — In a major surprise on the politically charged new health care
law, the Obama administration said Friday that it would not define a single
uniform set of “essential health benefits” that must be provided by
insurers for tens of millions of Americans. Instead, it will allow each
state to specify the benefits within broad categories.
The move would allow significant variations in benefits from state to state,
much like the current differences in state Medicaid programs ... 阅读全帖 |
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u****n 发帖数: 7521 | 4 How America Can Rise Again
Is America going to hell? After a year of economic calamity that many fear has sent us into irreversible decline, the author finds reassurance in the peculiarly American cycle of crisis and renewal, and in the continuing strength of the forces that have made the country great: our university system, our receptiveness to immigration, our culture of innovation. In most significant ways, the U.S. remains the envy of the world. But here’s the alarming problem: our governin... 阅读全帖 |
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f******t 发帖数: 7283 | 5 不参加争吵,这里提供一些关于MDX的信息:
1. 很多人给MDX和TL(SH-AWD版)做过dyno,四个轮的轮上马力大概在280多左右,网
上可以查到很多dyno实测结果,最好的甚至轮上就已经超过300马力。种种迹象表明
Acura低标了马力。从我实际试开TL和MDX的感觉来讲,还有各媒体实测MDX的加速成绩
,我不太相信它们的实际输出只有厂家标称的那个数值。
2. 一些关于那个3.7L V6的信息,抄自官方新闻稿:
ENGINE ARCHITECTURE
The MDX's 3.7-liter V-6 engine employs an inherently smooth-running 60-
degree V-angle. The cylinder block is constructed of aluminum and has high-
silicon aluminum cylinder liners for added weight savings and excellent
cooling. The cylinder heads are cast of lightwei... 阅读全帖 |
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f******t 发帖数: 7283 | 6 现在开始说一下我发现的几个大问题。
问题1:跟普通的车子相比,Corvette的框架太软了。
有人可能会惊讶:这是跑赛道很厉害的车子,怎么会框架软?实际上这两者本身没有必
然联系,没有说跑赛道成绩好的车子框架就一定要硬。赛道都是专门铺的状态很好的路
,总不可能有路上坑坑洼洼到处都是pothole的赛道吧?
在平坦的路上,Corvette跑得很好;但问题是日常我们跑的路路况都不好,尤其是加州
的缺乏修理的高速,路上很多小坑洼或者pothole。Corvette在上面跑的时候body flex
比较严重。这就是我之前一直强调的“抗扭刚度”问题(这个还分为torsional
rigidity和bending rigidity两种)。
Corvette这个抗扭刚度带来的第一个麻烦是车子开在路上,一有颠簸车里就有很多地方
发出磨擦杂音。比如说在停车场过bump的时候,有时能听到因为车架小幅度bending造
成窗玻璃跟顶棚的密封橡胶磨擦的声音;高速上遇到坑洼路段,车里各种内饰件相互磨
擦的声音也就出来了。
刚扭刚度低的另一个麻烦就是在普通公路行驶对车子操控性的影响。对于结构强和坚固
的车子,虽然... 阅读全帖 |
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f******t 发帖数: 7283 | 7 现在开始说一下我发现的几个大问题。
问题1:跟普通的车子相比,Corvette的框架太软了。
有人可能会惊讶:这是跑赛道很厉害的车子,怎么会框架软?实际上这两者本身没有必
然联系,没有说跑赛道成绩好的车子框架就一定要硬。赛道都是专门铺的状态很好的路
,总不可能有路上坑坑洼洼到处都是pothole的赛道吧?
在平坦的路上,Corvette跑得很好;但问题是日常我们跑的路路况都不好,尤其是加州
的缺乏修理的高速,路上很多小坑洼或者pothole。Corvette在上面跑的时候body flex
比较严重。这就是我之前一直强调的“抗扭刚度”问题(这个还分为torsional
rigidity和bending rigidity两种)。
Corvette这个抗扭刚度带来的第一个麻烦是车子开在路上,一有颠簸车里就有很多地方
发出磨擦杂音。比如说在停车场过bump的时候,有时能听到因为车架小幅度bending造
成窗玻璃跟顶棚的密封橡胶磨擦的声音;高速上遇到坑洼路段,车里各种内饰件相互磨
擦的声音也就出来了。
刚扭刚度低的另一个麻烦就是在普通公路行驶对车子操控性的影响。对于结构强和坚固
的车子,虽然... 阅读全帖 |
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g********d 发帖数: 19244 | 8 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
lilyamao (lilyamao) 于 (Sat Feb 9 22:51:07 2013, 美东) 提到:
前段时间版上嘀咕沃而沃这车没人买什么的,当时就想上来吭一声,这volvo在我们东
北疙瘩还是横行天下的,路上很多见。
这车我开了两年多了,买的时候,仔细根mdx比较了一下,两个车价格差不多,但是同
样价格,mdx配置要好一些,尤其是mdx的内部装修,看上去volvo要好,能方东西的地
方多,这volvo的设计吧,小处上真是没人性, 到现在我都不知道纸巾盒子可以放哪里
,真是的,在车里丢来丢去,最后这盒子总是惨不忍睹。
当时驾驶的时候,操作感也是mdx轻松,动力感觉也是mdx好
至于为什么最后选择了volvo呢, 也没有什么理由,就是年少时候喜欢欧洲车,就这么
着,最后还是奔着年少时候的一个梦想而去了。
开了两年多了,总体感觉还好,没有什么毛病,就是换轮胎的时候小心痛了一下, 两
万多迈就要换了, 一换还得1200美元左右,我以前的mazda,5,6万迈才换一次轮胎,
换一回,好像才40... 阅读全帖 |
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h**********r 发帖数: 2284 | 9 This kind of test has an assumption that the car to be tested will strike
something with unlimitedly rigid body and unlimited weighted - a static
metal pole or a wall. The result is that the car under test will put its own
weight and structural pressure to itself. The small overlap top picked car
mostly have the 'strategy' of losing the impacted wheel to save its cabin.
Just watch the video and you'll see.
As for BMW 3 series, I think its body is really built well and very rigid.
In real world s... 阅读全帖 |
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h**********r 发帖数: 2284 | 10 That's just wrong info. I know for a fact that the rigid levels of most
Japanese cars and German cars are quite different. If you do some car wash
by yourself, you can feel the difference between the rigid levels of them
when you pressing the hoods down. For most Japanese cars you can feel and
see that the hood can be pressed in a little bit, while some Germany cars
just have very hard hood surface and you just cannot press in at all. |
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h**********r 发帖数: 2284 | 11 You probably mistaken me with someone else, say, MaSaiKe. I didn't buy the
model you said.
Anyway, the new F30 platform is more of the luxury and comfortable side than
the rigid road feel (i.e., sportiness) of the E90. That is true. But F30 is
already a market winner and that is totally enough. Most importantly, even
with the sports-aspect leveled down just a bit, F30 is still the sportiest
among all its competitors.
I read a lots of reviews comparing the platform between E90 and F30. And I
had ... 阅读全帖 |
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f******t 发帖数: 7283 | 12 上张照片看看大梁什么地方是“small pieces of metal soldered together”?
假如整个大梁都是通过把小铁片焊接在一起形成的,这个人工和成本都太贵了,丰田不
可能这样做的,连劳斯莱斯将来的SUV都不会这样干呢。
假如你说这个不rigid,这又跟“the ride is more rough”这个矛盾了。不rigid能够
更好地吸收悬挂的震动。
这车这个版上不少人都有,比如说fjcruiser这位网友对这车研究得很深,你不妨向他
们多请教一下这车各种细节。另外连本版最著名的德粉“小六”,之前声称此生绝对不
碰丰田车,结果后来买了辆sequoia,都忍不住赞不绝口。所以你这里说的现象背后不
简单,太明显的话有可能有问题需要检查一下的。比如说你的胎压有没有严格按照说明
书上写的压力值去充气呢?
Tahoe.
as |
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X***9 发帖数: 7385 | 13
清脆的风格和空气动力学效率,第九代雅阁轿车和雅阁双门轿跑车车身设计和工程特色
是最先进的雅阁铭牌的历史。身体的每一个方面是度身订造,以提高雅阁的拥有体验每
一个环节,从更精确的行驶和操控到一个安静的车内环境,以及增强的可视性和提高燃
油效率。
雅阁的单元体采用高强度钢材,这给雅阁结构强度高为提高乘坐质量和更精确的转弯很
大比例。轿车的车身设计大胆而果断,圆滑和流畅,而双门轿跑车的车身设计是俏皮,
绷紧和运动。在这两种车身造型,大量运用了空气动力学的细节,其中包括扩大使用下
盖,提高了雅阁的空气动力学效率,这直接有利于燃油效率。
2016年,在第九代雅阁轿车车身的开发工作主要集中在尾部增加了车身刚性,以显著同
时提高乘坐质量和处理。特别注意了增加的扭转刚度在弯曲和逐步改进横向刚度为好。
新的刚性增强机体功能,2016年包括:
更多刚性后舱壁
更多刚性前减震塔酒吧
新的前上部构件加强筋(除LX级)
新中心的隧道支具(除LX级)
新的前后减震器壳体加强筋(除LX级)
的2016雅阁三厢车型还可以得到一个新的全铝制发动机罩,比2015年的模型,则钢罩1... 阅读全帖 |
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C*****z 发帖数: 2050 | 14 每种说法各找了两个例子:
"The 500X is one of the more athletic competitors in this rapidly expanding
class, with a solid chassis, well-controlled body motions, and surprisingly
accurate electric power steering."
http://www.caranddriver.com/fiat/500x
"In a 2012 First Test review, we said that the car had good handling thanks
to its all-wheel-drive system and solid chassis, which enable it to take
corners at higher speeds and feel composed. "
http://www.motortrend.com/cars/subaru/impreza/2015/
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f**e 发帖数: 1269 | 15 我先写几个学校的面试流水帐吧,然后大概总结一下我的经验教训。再次警告:我--
很--罗--嗦!
Interview 1: 学校T
这个学校有phd program,所以我把它当作是research school。当时面试机会来得很快
,让我措手不及。走之前一天才做好slides,准备也不够充分,更要命的是,这是我这
一辈子第一个面试,所以彻底的惶恐紧张……
面试那天的安排真是让我觉得--情何以堪,情何以堪啊!回到hotel的时候是绝绝对对的
身心俱损,因为这一天我从早上7:15开始到晚饭为止,马不停蹄地见了17个老师,本科
生和研究生代表,外加dean,每个meeting20分钟,中间还穿插着跟系主任的N次重复面
谈。我面试前一天一晚上基本上没怎么睡着,心想我以前也熬过通宵,一个晚上不睡应
该没啥大问题,结果事实打了我一个响亮的耳光……
上午的面试我感觉很不错,我惴惴不安地坐在会议室里等老师进来,结果进来的几个老
师都非常友好,让我大为意外。他们基本上一直在跟我说funding,funding,fuding,告
诉我一些funding sources。我上午做了一个简短的teachin... 阅读全帖 |
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a******o 发帖数: 261 | 16 I am male, but i agree w/ most female's point of views here.
first of all, you and your wife both seem decent. And obviously you care
about your daughter; and so does your wife.
but it takes more than good intention to keep up a marriage (or raise a kid
right for that matter). as a guy i completely understand everything you
said, however at the same time what i see from you is a total lack of EQ, a
very rigid and self-righteous way of thinking, and deep down you are a very
selfish character.
i... 阅读全帖 |
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V*****n 发帖数: 893 | 17 clamped the center speaker yesterday. very happy with it. it's gonna be
super strong and rigid. it's perfectly straight. all that hard work paid off
. it has 7 internal structural reinforcement, all joints are recessed to
increase rigidity. you have to pay a lot of money on a commercial speaker to
have this level of construction. the towers are all ready for gluing as
well. they have 10 internal reinforcement each. really complicated to make
the way I did it. I doubt I will build a speaker this |
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s*****o 发帖数: 1540 | 18 我对音响一窍不通,希望大侠推荐300元之下的功放:
http://www.martinlogan.com/pdf/manuals/manual_mlt2.pdf
MLT-2 SPEAKER (front and rear)
System Frequency Response
110–20,000 Hz ± 2db
Sensitivity
88 [email protected] volts/meter
Impedance
8 Ohms compatible
Crossover Frequency
2000Hz
Tweeter Type
1” (2.54 cm) soft dome
Woofer Type
4.5” (11.5 cm) high rigidity poly cone
with extended throw drive assembly
Enclosure Type
Non-resonance asymmetrical
chamber format, sealed
Suitable Amplifier Range
15–100 watts
Power Handling
50 watts
Wei... 阅读全帖 |
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n******e 发帖数: 1046 | 19 Chemical Engr (MS/PhD): Mechanical Integrity (stretch circuits, DCA,
embeddeds)
Chemical Engr (MS/PhD): Thermal Characterization, Simulation/Modeling/
Process/QTA Coordination
Mechanical Engr (MS): Design - Rigid/Rigid Flex , Prototype and QTA
Integration (Local & CN)
Mechanical Engr (MS): Design - Flex, Prototype and QTA Integration (
Local & CN)
我知道的一些要求
Materials/Mechanical Testing:
Ion Chromatography TMA, DMTA, DSC linked w/ FTIR
X-Sectioning Rheometer... 阅读全帖 |
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t********t 发帖数: 22 | 20 The Soft Materials Research Laboratory directed by Professor Qibing Pei in
the Department of Materials Science and Engineering at University of
California, Los Angeles is an interdisciplinary research group developing
synthetic polymers and nanocomposites for advanced electronics,
electromechanical, and photonic devices. Current research activities include
but not limited to dielectric elastomers for muscle-like actuation,
bistable electroactive polymers for large-strain rigid-to-rigid actuation... 阅读全帖 |
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A*****e 发帖数: 138 | 21 Home Depot 网上订了LG WM2050CW($539.10) + LG DLG2051W($669) + Semi Rigid Dryer Duct ($19.99) + Gas Dryer Installation Kit($19.99) + Webber Q 320 Grill($359), 用了个$250 off $1500的coupon.
结果Webber Q 320 Grill没货被退单了.
LG WM2050CW的价格自动变成$599,但是$250 off $1500的coupon还有效. 相当于$190的coupon.
前天送货,免费安装. 目前感觉还不错. 如果Dryer 买DLE2050W(电的)能再少$70
202016686 7.1 Cu. Ft. Large Capacity Gas $669.00
Semi Rigid Dryer Duct $19.99
Gas |
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M********I 发帖数: 848 | 22 What is PEX?
PEX is cross-linked polyethylene. Through one of several processes, links
between polyethylene molecules are formed to create bridges (thus the term "
cross-linked). This resulting material is more durable under temperature
extremes, chemical attack, and better resists creep deformation, making PEX
an excellent material for hot water and other applications.
How long has PEX been used?
PEX was developed in the 1960s. PEX tubing has been in use in many European
countries for plumbing,... 阅读全帖 |
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s**********d 发帖数: 36899 | 23 烘干机的不是semi-rigid。
semi-rigid热不是问题,但仍然会积油。
electric
conditioning
combustible
and |
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s*i 发帖数: 5025 | 24 看了几个大牛的图,都是semi-rigid或干脆flexible的,行不行啊?semi-rigid干脆就
不知道哪里买。flexible的倒是不少。
但是加州等,code里只能用smooth, air tight的。意思是排除了这两种。
请指教!有包子。。 |
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d**********0 发帖数: 13081 | 25 就俺那个 10寸miter saw 来说, 应该是Dewalt 比 Rigid 好。 Rigid 不好调节。 不
过不好意思再去换。
没有用过 bosch. |
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L**P 发帖数: 3792 | 26 Pppang bought it with 100, with a different name rigid and life time
warranty.
Now I pay more than double for a crapman name with only one year warranty.
According to online discussion, rigid crapman made by the same manufactory |
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b***n 发帖数: 110 | 27 趁冬天来之前,准备换furnace和ductwork. Quote了比较靠谱的三家。
A 建议用rigid sheet metal ductwork (理由空气阻力小)
B 建议用flexible ductwork (理由不容易进灰,不容易断裂)
C 建议用semi-rigid alumium (好像就是dryer用的那种)
怎么办?听谁的?都是Yelp上不错的公司 |
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s*****6 发帖数: 499 | 29 第一次买房,不懂啊。列出主要问题,大家帮忙看看吧
ROOF SYSTEM
Action Needed- Flashing is improperly installed at left side of chimney.
Step flashing is not under siding as required. Have aqualified roofing
contractor repair.
GARAGE / CARPORT
GARAGE DOOR HARDWARE:
Action Needed- Installing of a safety cable through the safety springs is
recommended. Safety cables are recommended to be installed through (in the
center of) the safety springs to prevent the spring from "flying" in the
event of breakage.
DOOR OPENERS(S):
Act... 阅读全帖 |
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k******a 发帖数: 31 | 30 多谢!
Rigid insulation foam 是一般装在墙上那种么?
装在concrete地上是需要用胶粘上么?(因为concrete 不能钉钉子,所以我们
contractor说不能加plywood).
然后,这种rigid foam, 是足够硬度,所以贴完vinyl plank, 踩上去不会变形是么? |
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m*****t 发帖数: 1956 | 31 文科生实在是看不懂installation manual. 想让Lowe's给装,可是网上不显示应该买
什么parts. Home Depot 倒是显示了一堆necessary parts,可以照猫画虎的在Lowe's
网站却找不到。
下面是home depot显示的。第一个”Semi Rigid Dryer Duct“找不到。下面两个
installation (kit)不知道是啥。懂的给说说吧!谢谢!
Required Parts & Services
Semi Rigid Dryer Duct
$24.99
1
Remove
$24.99
Gas Dryer Installation
$19.99
1
Remove
$19.99
Gas Dryer Installation Kit
$24.99
1
Remove
$24.99 |
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h******3 发帖数: 18 | 32 Per spec., Semi-Rigid Aluminum Duct Features: Various applications include
dryer venting, air conditioning, fresh air intakes, heating, and exhausting
This Class 0, non-combustible duct is constructed of a special aluminum
alloy that prevents corrosion and metal fatigue The machine fabrication
produces a continuous lock seam that permits the duct to be pulled open,
compressed, bent, and re-bent without developing leakage Can be used for
concealed venting and eliminates the need for elbows 8" x 8... 阅读全帖 |
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c**********2 发帖数: 62 | 33 花了一个星期,终于是凑合着弄上了。买的是版上推荐的Broan E64000什么SS的外加
332H的Blower. 说点安装的心酸过程,但愿能给准备上三代神器的一点参考。
最大的问题是管道尺寸:10inch。我家的cabinet应该是标准的吧。本以为炉子靠着外
墙好装神器,谁知道10寸的Elbow管道不可能在里面转弯。我估计8寸都够呛。一开始在
网上找了两个老美帮装。洞打好了,就是不能把Elbow接好,弄了3个下午,坏了两个10
寸的Elbow还是不行。要是洞没打,还可以让Blower离得远点,有多点空间让管道转弯
。但是洞都打了,就是在stove上面同一个cabinet里。只能用这个洞啊。后来我就让他
们走人自己接手想办法凑合,因为美国的Code太多,他们不敢乱搞。自己接手后买了两
个10-to-6的转化接头,6寸的semi-rigid duct(顺便说句,10寸的semi-rigid一是未
必能在同一个cabinet里转过弯来,二是非常难买,花了一整天跑了所有lowes-menards
-homdeport以及一些装修公司,都没有卖的。必须网上order或者店里special or... 阅读全帖 |
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c**********2 发帖数: 62 | 34 刚刚看到你开的那个帖子,你家炉子也靠外墙是吧。如果也用推荐的硬管(10" Elbow
),就得小心转弯问题。基本不可能在同一个cabinet里转过弯来。8寸硬管我都试过,
都不行。8寸的semi-rigid有可能,但我属于补救那种情形。洞挖好了,Blower和Hood
太近,所以只好用了6寸的semi-rigid(不是软的那种)。你要是像图片上那样把
cabinet去掉,我觉得用10寸的硬管肯定没问题,大不了把那个不锈钢的柜子往家里伸
出一些空间。
我觉得900够用了。关键高度要调整到合适的位置。当然1200或者1500可能更好。 |
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H*****i 发帖数: 36 | 35 神器二代油烟机,从灶台上面的橱柜拐一个九十度的弯,向左经过三个橱柜以后出外墙
,已经买了wall cap和clamp. 向上的管子和向左的管子需要rigid么?哪儿有卖?发现
好多都是semi rigid.
在overstock 买的,coupon后509,网站给5%cash back, ebates 3%, 这样最后的价钱$
469,算是给有需要的筒子们报个信儿。 |
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s**********x 发帖数: 4593 | 37 因为要用8寸管,把之前的老管子换了
contractor给我安的是semi rigid的
之前老的6寸管的smooth wall galvanized的
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j**f 发帖数: 7403 | 38 i had carpal tunnel before, and I felt rigid of my joints in the morning.
the better I slept the night before, the rigider joints were.
my carpal tunnel was induced by pregnancy and delivery. it got healed when
baby was about 8-9 months by itself, no treatment at all, but I did pay
attention not to use my wrist too much.
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l*****o 发帖数: 26631 | 39 没事
这个是我找到的:
according to an article of the Journal of Obstetric, Gynecologic & Neonatal
Nursing (JOGNN) the anti-infective properties of breast milk are affected by
the type of container used for storage. Glass, polyethylene bags, and rigid
polyethylene containers are commonly used to store breast milk. Early
research in breast milk banking reported decreased leukocyte counts in milk
stored in glass containers (Paxson & Cress, 1979). Later studies reported
cell count to be affected more by stora... 阅读全帖 |
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c*******t 发帖数: 953 | 40
怎么匪夷所思了,只说明你孤陋寡闻:
wiki说的,“The classic triad of diagnostic signs consists of nuchal
rigidity, sudden high fever, and altered mental status”
nuchal rigidity就是我说的这个标准。 |
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s*********d 发帖数: 912 | 41 新闻对枪手母亲的评价是“rigid", 应该是机械教条, 不是严格吧。 该严的时候严格
没问题, 但是rigid很容易有问题。只怕这孩子是我们开玩笑说的教师子女综合症。 |
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c******r 发帖数: 3778 | 42 OVERNIGHT CORNEAL RESHAPING (OCR) — Overnight corneal reshaping (OCR) is
the process of wearing a specially designed, rigid gas-permeable (RGP)
contact lens while asleep to temporarily effect a change in the corneal
curvature resulting in clear vision during waking hours without correction.
This technique is also referred to as:
●Corneal refractive therapy (CRT)
●Overnight corneal reshaping (OCR)
●Vision shaping treatment (VST)
●Orthokeratology (Ortho-K)
The process — After wearing OCR lenses, t... 阅读全帖 |
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Y********d 发帖数: 1478 | 43 happiness是这个问题的关键之二。
潮水说过,他的基本原则是better safe than sorry.
按我的理解,大意是指既不要盲目追藤而搞到鸡飞狗跳,也不要一味放纵而失去基本保
障。
说实话,在这一点上他是个好爸爸。
可是,除非是极端情况,显然极端情况也确实已经发生了,我又觉得他有些多虑了。
绝大部分人,都是平和的处于盲目追藤和一味放纵之间的。
部分是因为大脑neuroplasticity会自动调节;部分是因为社会现实会强制我们调节。
所以当我们去问绝大部分人“are you happy”的时候,得到的答案都是not bad,比较
happy。high到象吃了海洛因,抑郁到要吃抗抑郁药的,都是极其少数的。
于是,想起那本the whole brain child 里面对于mental health的定义,就是我们划
着一条小船沿着平静的河流顺流而下。河的一边是钢筋水泥的河岸--rigidity;另一边
是杂草丛生的荒地--chaos。如果娃接近河岸的任何一边,表现都会异常。
做个类比,做父母的,不要把娃推到太靠近河岸,比如藤爸藤妈要小心rigidity;墨墨
黑黑要小心c... 阅读全帖 |
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f*******e 发帖数: 3433 | 44 有EARLY INTERVETION快一点。我家的开始没给SPEECH therapy, 说语言只delay了一年
,不够资格。后来我们在PRESCHOOL发现他完全玩自己的,只和大人说话,不和任何小
孩说话,就要求在preschool re-evaluate. 结果social skills的evaluation很低
。然后开始speech therapy. 一年后语言已经超过平均,他现在也主动和别的小孩子聊
天。今年是1周5天在学校therapy, 明年感觉他的speech therapy时间会减少。一年多下
来他的OT也从1-2年DELAY变得超过平均,成了进步最快的OT学生,明年估计会
失去OT。
Asperger症状不如低功能自闭明显,因为很多人只有轻微自闭症状,同时还有很强的地
方,比如高智商,很好的visual memory, 能注意很多细小的地方。明显的症状是理解
能力差,语言DELAY,社交DELAY or AKWARD, 不懂别人说话的CONTEXT,
有些rigidity症状, 对某些东西过于专注。做诊断的developmental pediatrician说
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f*******e 发帖数: 3433 | 45 是这样的。上小学前的诊断基本根据自闭的几条标准来诊断:rigidity, anxiety,
sensory integration disorder, impulsive, 重复action, language delay,
development delay. 有时有误诊。那些误诊的小孩到7,8岁时rigidity,
anxiety什么就没了。没有误诊的7,8岁的时候通常还有明显症状,所以
通常每年都要去developmental 儿医那re-evaluate。一旦发现没有症状
了就更新诊断结果。
上小学后诊断成自闭和ADHD的很多是为了小孩能拿到aide才诊断的(这样
的小孩多数是扰乱课堂纪律或者不听话的,真正自闭但没
诊断的一些小孩很安静,反而不会被老师要求去evaluate)。这样诊断的好处
是这些小孩能上学。坏处是容易被家长滥用,孩子一有行为问题,就说是自闭,
ADHD导致的。其实即使是真正自闭的小孩,很多行为也不是因为自闭导致的。
家长要分清什么是自闭特有的行为什么不是才能正确handle小孩。
现在的自闭太广了,所以前几年从自闭中划出一个social communica... 阅读全帖 |
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x*********s 发帖数: 5554 | 46 我订阅了psi-k的找工作广告,今天看到一个调侃比较有意思~
An announcement has been added in the "PSI-K" site at PSI-K http://cselnx9.dl.ac.uk:8080/portal
Subject: postdoc position
Category: Job
From: juttar ogal
Date: 09-Sep-2011 17:52
Message:
I am desperately searching for eager victims - postdocs or PhD students -
mine or other supervisors' - to make my workhorses and to plunder ideas from
. I am a dirty Hun who seethes from jealousy out of every pore. I cannot do
research myself because I'm narrow-minded, rigid-brai... 阅读全帖 |
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t********t 发帖数: 22 | 47 The Soft Materials Research Laboratory directed by Professor Qibing Pei in
the Department of Materials Science and Engineering at University of
California, Los Angeles is an interdisciplinary research group developing
synthetic polymers and nanocomposites for advanced electronics,
electromechanical, and photonic devices. Current research activities include
but not limited to dielectric elastomers for muscle-like actuation,
bistable electroactive polymers for large-strain rigid-to-rigid actuation... 阅读全帖 |
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t****u 发帖数: 10218 | 49 1. A low-end suspension fork is much worse than a steel rigid fork;
2. In general aluminum frame is harsh and steel is more compliant. Good and
poorly designed/made aluminum frames have huge difference in riding
characteristics as well as life span. Without test ride you might end up
with a big unpleasant surprise when you receive the bike. Steel frames on
the other hand, are simpler. The main difference between a high-end and a
low-end steel frame is the weight.
The other components on both bik... 阅读全帖 |
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h*****a 发帖数: 1992 | 50 型号太多了,说起来没完.... rigid就是没有前面的减震器,新的mountain bike没有
前减震的比较少了。或者说新车没有前减震的不叫mountain bike了,for marketing
reasons...
其实其他都先别说,买个便宜的车先骑起来,只要不是walmart牌子的都可以。
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