a*****g
发帖数: 19398 | 1 教师签名——抗议被Time杂志称做rotten apples
Over 90,000 people have signed our (AFT) petition demanding that Time
magazine apologize for calling teachers the "rotten apples" in our schools.
At 3 p.m. Eastern time on Thursday, Oct. 30, I'll be joining UFT President
Michael Mulgrew along with educators, parents and allies to deliver the
petitions to Time magazine's headquarters in Manhattan.
We're organizing a virtual rally so that supporters across the country can
join the delivery. SIGN UP TO JOIN THE VIRTUA... 阅读全帖 |
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a*****g
发帖数: 19398 | 2 教师签名——抗议被Time杂志称做rotten apples
Over 90,000 people have signed our (AFT) petition demanding that Time
magazine apologize for calling teachers the "rotten apples" in our schools.
At 3 p.m. Eastern time on Thursday, Oct. 30, I'll be joining UFT President
Michael Mulgrew along with educators, parents and allies to deliver the
petitions to Time magazine's headquarters in Manhattan.
We're organizing a virtual rally so that supporters across the country can
join the delivery. SIGN UP TO JOIN THE VIRTUA... 阅读全帖 |
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a*****g
发帖数: 19398 | 3 教师签名——抗议被Time杂志称做rotten apples
Over 90,000 people have signed our (AFT) petition demanding that Time
magazine apologize for calling teachers the "rotten apples" in our schools.
At 3 p.m. Eastern time on Thursday, Oct. 30, I'll be joining UFT President
Michael Mulgrew along with educators, parents and allies to deliver the
petitions to Time magazine's headquarters in Manhattan.
We're organizing a virtual rally so that supporters across the country can
join the delivery. SIGN UP TO JOIN THE VIRTUA... 阅读全帖 |
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a*****g
发帖数: 19398 | 4 教师签名——抗议被Time杂志称做rotten apples
Over 90,000 people have signed our (AFT) petition demanding that Time
magazine apologize for calling teachers the "rotten apples" in our schools.
At 3 p.m. Eastern time on Thursday, Oct. 30, I'll be joining UFT President
Michael Mulgrew along with educators, parents and allies to deliver the
petitions to Time magazine's headquarters in Manhattan.
We're organizing a virtual rally so that supporters across the country can
join the delivery. SIGN UP TO JOIN THE VIRTUA... 阅读全帖 |
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a*****g
发帖数: 19398 | 5 教师签名——抗议被Time杂志称做rotten apples
Over 90,000 people have signed our (AFT) petition demanding that Time
magazine apologize for calling teachers the "rotten apples" in our schools.
At 3 p.m. Eastern time on Thursday, Oct. 30, I'll be joining UFT President
Michael Mulgrew along with educators, parents and allies to deliver the
petitions to Time magazine's headquarters in Manhattan.
We're organizing a virtual rally so that supporters across the country can
join the delivery. SIGN UP TO JOIN THE VIRTUA... 阅读全帖 |
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z*****d
发帖数: 672 | 6 MSRP is 37475 you are getting everything on the road for 38988. The
comparison you are making isnt fair, as you are comparing an apple to a
rotten tomatoe. We dont base our price on anything other than current market
demand and true value. The 4runner will lose on price to may vehicles, but
it does not lose when it comes to quality, reliability, and resale value.
Multiple third party compaines will support those claims. Please let me know
if i can assist you with anything further, and best of lu... 阅读全帖 |
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h***e
发帖数: 20195 | 7 【 以下文字转载自 WaterWorld 讨论区 】
发信人: honde (宏德之坚韧不拔), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: Re: 哈哈,我鳖被批政治不正确,骂骆家辉 "rotten banana" (转载)
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Feb 28 23:59:18 2014, 美东)
发信人: Diaowai (Waiting for suckers rally), 信区: Military
标 题: Re: 哈哈,我鳖被批政治不正确,骂骆家辉 "rotten banana"
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Feb 28 14:22:36 2014, 美东)
标题：别了，骆氏家辉！
骆家辉是一个在美国出生的第三代华裔，他的“黄皮白心”的香蕉人属性成了奥巴
马外交的优势。美国亚太新战略的显露，选择在他的任期内。因为，一个人要想拆你的
台，总要留给人“我是为你着想”的印象。当美国在亚太不断搅起漩涡、制造矛盾的时
候，却有一个表面上久居海外的游子、黑头发黄皮肤的皮囊来为美国叫好。真是演得一
出好双簧。
然而香蕉放久了“黄皮”总归是要烂掉的，不但“白心... 阅读全帖 |
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p*******h
发帖数: 184 | 8 Being Real (3) --- Rotten or Good Heart?
After I learned more about John – the addiction to alcohol and women, I said
to him in face, “You are a bad man. You’re rotten.”
“Am I?” John smiled and asked back. “Well, I know I’m bad sometimes. But
you’ll find I am a good person. People remember me because I am a good person
. ” Then he continues.
What a self-ego! Yet, he’s probably right. He seems to keep his promise well.
He seems never devise any scheme toward me nor any other person. If you ask
hi |
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b********n
发帖数: 38600 | 9 Chinese media outlet uses racial slur at US envoy
BEIJING (AP) — A major Chinese government news service used a racist slur
to describe the departing American ambassador in a mean-spirited editorial
on Friday that drew widespread public condemnation in China.
The article — which called Gary Locke a "rotten banana," a guide dog for
the blind, and a plague — reflected Chinese nationalists' acute loathing
toward the first Chinese-American to have been Washington's top envoy to
Beijing. But whether ... 阅读全帖 |
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b********n
发帖数: 38600 | 10 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: beijingren (to thine own self be true), 信区: USANews
标 题: 荣炮：美国选举制度是个腐烂系统 "It's A Rotten System"
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Apr 16 17:41:19 2016, 美东)
Ron Paul: US Elections Are Rigged, Voting Simply Used to Pacify the Public
http://theantimedia.org/ron-paul-elections-rigged-voting-pacify |
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n********h
发帖数: 13135 | 11 说心理话，在教师工会把持下，这种说法也是有道理。现在美国的教师工会就是个奖懒
罚勤的地方，很多老师不可避免地变成rotten apple.两年就有tenure,没有教学评估，
家长连填个survey的机会都没有.
好老师当然有,但是被烂工会代表了。真想为自己正名，就拿点硬通货出来，每年学生
成绩增长多少，还有脱离工会 |
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C*****d
发帖数: 2253 | 12 我们旁边一个学区高中老师罢工从10/2号开始到现在还没结束，
不是rotten apples是啥？ |
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B*********e
发帖数: 363 | 13 Should I return them and got a refund? The avocado is not fresh at all,
tastes like rotten. |
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w***w
发帖数: 6301 | 14 Who cares you.
In this world nobody knows you and everybody knows YAO.
A rotten MTT id who cares. |
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h***e
发帖数: 20195 | 15 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: Diaowai (Waiting for suckers rally), 信区: Military
标 题: Re: 哈哈,我鳖被批政治不正确,骂骆家辉 "rotten banana"
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Feb 28 14:22:36 2014, 美东)
标题：别了，骆氏家辉！
骆家辉是一个在美国出生的第三代华裔，他的“黄皮白心”的香蕉人属性成了奥巴
马外交的优势。美国亚太新战略的显露，选择在他的任期内。因为，一个人要想拆你的
台，总要留给人“我是为你着想”的印象。当美国在亚太不断搅起漩涡、制造矛盾的时
候，却有一个表面上久居海外的游子、黑头发黄皮肤的皮囊来为美国叫好。真是演得一
出好双簧。
然而香蕉放久了“黄皮”总归是要烂掉的，不但“白心”会露出来，也会变成反胃
的“黑心”。也许骆氏觉得单靠黄皮肤出场是不够的。经历过美国政治竞选秀的骆氏懂
得利用媒体。于是乎，各种“轻车简行、背包自助游、坐经济舱”的戏码轮番登场。一
开始，确实赚到了朴素善良的中国人的眼球。但后来仔细想想，放着公务舱、珍馐美味
，偏要“... 阅读全帖 |
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w******o
发帖数: 726 | 16 Unfortunately, they are rotten apples. Most of them know nothing and waste
kids' life. |
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w******o
发帖数: 726 | 17 Unfortunately, they are rotten apples. Most of them know nothing and waste
kids' life. |
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u***n
发帖数: 10554 | 18 AFT is the union? Too many rotten apples there! |
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l*****y
发帖数: 337 | 19 告诉它，吃下去的是rotten food，拉出来的是多余的脂肪
减肥的偏方，说虽然一般的rotten都会造成食物中毒
但是某种特定的rotten food或者经过特殊处理的就不会，
然后引用一下中国食文化中的类似rotten food
的东西，比如皮蛋啥的，然后反问它中国人为啥胖的不多？
因为天天早上一块腐乳，腐乳是啥？ 对了，就是rotten food
然后blahblah一大堆旁证，比如说偶的七大故八大姨
都是这样变瘦的（最好有photoshop前后的对比照片），当然有自身的例子
也可以，说每天早上和着麦片呼噜下去，一天都精神爽.......
美国人从来不把rotten food考虑进去，所以从来没有发觉这个减肥的秘方
中国文化悠久，在屡次饥荒后，发现了rotten food的这个妙用
看他buy不buy你的理论
哈哈，要数据有数据，要图片有图片，要现成产品也有现成产品 |
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B****a
发帖数: 1526 | 20 目前四部加起来美国票房少于1.1 billion。假设美国有15 million 9-18岁小姑娘，每
人拖着一个小男友去看，10块钱一张票，到目前一共四部电影：
15M * 2 * 10 * 4 = 1.2 billion. 所以1.1 billion总票房一点都不稀奇。
评价, rotten tomatoes:
Twilight 49%, rotten
New Moon 28%, rotten
Eclipse 49%, rotten
Breaking Dawn I 26%, rotten
一致好评？LoL |
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n***s
发帖数: 10056 | 21 wood filler fixes wood not yet rotten. Rotten wood repair is to harden
rotten wood. Fro front door, remove rotten part (if not too big) and fill
with wood filler. |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 22 Mitt Romney now joins the long list of the kinds of presidential candidates
favored by the Republican establishment: nice, moderate losers — people
with no coherently articulated vision, despite how many ad hoc talking
points they may have.
The list of Republican presidential candidates like this goes back at least
as far as 1948, when Thomas E. Dewey ran against President Harry Truman.
Dewey spoke in lofty generalities while Truman spoke in hard-hitting
specifics. Since then, there have been ma... 阅读全帖 |
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l****z
发帖数: 29846 | 23 via Breitbart Feed
Pat Smith, the mother of Sean Smith, one of the victims of the 2012
terrorist attacks against the US consulate in Benghazi, Libya reacted to
reports from security officers who were on the ground on the night of the
attacks that they were told to wait to provide aide to the besieged
consulate by saying that Hillary Clinton and President Obama “killed my kid
.” When asked “how do you feel about America and the government, and what
would you say to President Obama and Hillary Cli... 阅读全帖 |
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l*h
发帖数: 4124 | 24 http://www.wsj.com/articles/if-not-trump-who-will-cure-the-rot-1474668631
If Not Trump, Who Will Cure the Rot?
A Chicago murder wave and New York graft scandal are manifestations of
political decay.
Police investigate the scene where Nykea Aldridge was shot dead in Chicago,
Aug. 26. ENLARGE
Police investigate the scene where Nykea Aldridge was shot dead in Chicago,
Aug. 26. PHOTO: ZUMA PRESS
By HOLMAN W. JENKINS, JR.
Sept. 23, 2016 6:10 p.m. ET
803 COMMENTS
One of the brothers charged in the Aug... 阅读全帖 |
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k**0
发帖数: 19737 | 25 打Rotten快吐了。
跟着别人走发现了捷径直达地底（这一个关和以前的巨人墓很像，但没那么暗） 然后
就开始受苦受难了，跟着别人好几次，3次里只有一次到达最后的boss，还没打过去。
然后发现自己变回人了，就召唤伙伴，前两次都死了，第二次我和it单挑，只剩最后的
一格血了，结果自己犯错被波动拳秒杀了。
想想睡前再试一次，这次找到两个强力助手，我在边上打酱油的时候Rotten就被他们收
拾了，虽然这样过关了，但是意尤未尽，总觉得靠自己打过去比较好玩。
总结出来打Rotten的方法在下面，不想看跳过：
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用盾牌，贴身向左绕着走，看到it想抓你，向左跳。
这招没有盾大概不行。 |
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b*s
发帖数: 82482 | 26 看来你不是去看戏的。
General 评价都很高，Rotten Tomato还100%？
The first season was met with positive reviews from critics, who highlighted
the show's novel approach to the source material, the writing quality, and
the performances and chemistry found between its two leads and supporting
cast. Season one holds an 83% approval rating on aggregate review site
Rotten Tomatoes, based on 43 collected reviews, with an average score of 7.3
out of 10. The site's consensus reads: "It may not appeal to purists, but
Element... 阅读全帖 |
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c****t
发帖数: 19049 | 27 LETTERS FROM ZEDELGHEM
CHATEAU ZEDELGHEM,
NEERBEKE,
WEST VLAANDEREN
29TH-VI-1993
Sixsmith,
Dreamt I stood in a china shop so crowded from floor to far-off ceiling with
shelves of
porcelain antiquities etc. that moving a muscle would cause several to fall
and smash to bits.
Exactly what happened, but instead of a crashing noise, an august chord rang
out, half-cello,
half-celeste, D major (?), held for four beats. My wrist knocked a Ming vase
affair off its
pedestal—E-flat, whole string section, g... 阅读全帖 |
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l*****y
发帖数: 9433 | 28 The author of the Gospel of Luke wrote that Jesus said that 'a tree is
known by its fruit' (Luke 6:43-44): "Good trees do not produce rotten
fruit, and rotten trees do not produce good fruit".
The Old Testament God, who says that he "creates evil" (Amos. 3:6, Isaiah
45:7), cannot therefore be a 'good tree', but must be a rotten one.
"I form the light and create darkness, I bring prosperity and create
disaster; I, the LORD do all these things." (Isaiah 45:7)
Isaiah 45:7 affirms that God creates d |
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w*******7
发帖数: 412 | 29 来自主题: Medicalpractice版 - 郁闷四年 rotten economy, rotten people, rotten country.
where's our future... |
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w**f
发帖数: 292 | 30 今天很多人加班啊。。这个评论很好的解释了板上的老小将之争
Aron Lee
Shanghai,China
December 10th, 2010
11:27 am
China does need democracy, but we absolutely do not need the Western one. In
your democracy, what's most important to win an election are money, a glib
tongue and an extremely brazen face. Ordinary people have no choice but to
pick a less rotten apple among rotten apples. Before election you can get
everything promised by the candidate, after it nothing will be realized.
With 1.3-billion population and 56 ethnic mi... 阅读全帖 |
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t******4
发帖数: 2300 | 31 CAIRO — Egypt’s economy, whose inequities and lack of opportunities helped
topple a government, has now ground to a virtual halt, further wounded by
the revolution itself.
The 18-day revolt stopped new foreign investment and decimated the pivotal
tourist industry. The annual growth slowed to less than 2 percent from a
projected 5 percent, and Egypt’s hard currency reserves plunged 25 percent.
In a region where economic woes enraged an entire generation, whether and
how Egypt can fix its broken e... 阅读全帖 |
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g**1
发帖数: 10330 | 32 http://qz.com/127809/if-china-is-using-rotten-fruit-to-make-jui
If China is using rotten fruit to make juice, there’s a chance you’re
drinking it
This is, of course, scary for anyone who lives in China, particularly
parents who assume that juice is a “healthy” treat for their children. It
’s also potentially scary for hundreds of millions of other people. China
is the planet’s leading producer of apple juice. It also exports around 90%
of the world’s fruit juice concentrates, says 21CBH (link in... 阅读全帖 |
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a***k
发帖数: 1038 | 33 【 以下文字转载自 paladin 讨论区 】
发信人: atack (小军号), 信区: paladin
标 题: 红死病 by 杰克.伦敦
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Oct 11 07:40:15 2014, 美东)
I
The way led along upon what had once been the embankment of a railroad. But
no train had run upon it for many years. The forest on either side swelled
up the slopes of the embankment and crested across it in a green wave of
trees and bushes. The trail was as narrow as a man's body, and was no more
than a wild-animal runway.
Occasionally, a piece of rusty iron, showing through ... 阅读全帖 |
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W*****B
发帖数: 4796 | 34 影评家们高潮连连。票房会不会破纪录？将军们会去看吗？我对黑人没兴趣，所以不太
可能去看。
The Revolutionary Power of Black Panther
TIME Staff
The RevolutionaryPower of Black Panther
Marvel’s new movie marks a major milestoneBy JAMIL SMITH
The first movie I remember seeing in a theater had a black hero. Lando
Calrissian, played by Billy Dee Williams, didn’t have any superpowers, but
he ran his own city. That movie, the 1980 Star Wars sequel The Empire
Strikes Back, introduced Calrissian as a complicated human being who still
did the right t... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 1 | 35 Stone Cold Word
Longboat Key, Florida4m ago
AG Barr investigating a missing Twinkie is a joke.
So I am reading all these comments laughing and calling out "conspiracy
theories". It's easy to "throw shade"..... getting "shade to stick" is
another story.
I know this. A high profile prisoner, who supposedly tried to kill
himself just two weeks ago, this guy could not get near a 6 inch piece of
thread. Now that's not a "conspiracy theory".
The "shade slingers" want us to believe that this ego ... 阅读全帖 |
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l*******g
发帖数: 28502 | 36 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
tuantuan007 (团团三少爷的剑) 于 (Thu Mar 24 17:29:14 2011, 美东) 提到:
昨天晚上约好了我们几个朋友一起吃饭，因为一个朋友的老婆从国内申请出来到美国，
那个朋友中午去接老婆，到了晚上那个朋友自己一个人回来，团圆宴变成了安慰宴，他
老婆到了机场后被旧情人接走了，可怜的搬运工左等右等盼了3年，结果换来的是一场
空欢喜。
事情是这样的，那个朋友在美国工作很勤奋，很少休息，也就没有时间去谈恋爱，有朋
友在这里帮他介绍，可是他却看不上，自己看上的人家又看不上你，就这样东不成西不
就，就这样拖到了40多岁，后来回去中国，有朋友介绍了一个比他小9岁的四川妹妹，
那个女孩张得挺漂亮的，所以就一见钟情，他们开始谈恋爱。回来后就书信来往视频等
。半年后回去就和她结婚了，一出来就开始申请移民。一年后的第一次问话被拒，怀疑
他们的婚姻不真实，第二次又申请找了很多人帮忙证明，包括参议员在内。他每个月挣
了钱都会按时寄回去给她生活费，一有空他们就打电话视频 ，在大家眼里他们的感情
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L*********n
发帖数: 13 | 38 2G4WB52K6T1506937
最后一天了不知道能不能赶上。非常感谢！
j***********[email protected]【
在 rotten (rotten) 的大作中提到: 】 |
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b******m
发帖数: 1451 | 39 HI, i ordered an R1900 printer from you this week, have sent an email before
this but no reply. I plugged it in, only to find that smoked bellowed out
from the printer, STINKING my whole lounge room out of rotten cabbage, and
it would not work? My house still smells of rotten cabbage and the printer
will still not turn on? What should I do from here? |
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G******i
发帖数: 5226 | 40 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
owlliu (小草莓) 于 (Wed Apr 20 12:04:19 2011, 美东) 提到:
两个给的待遇都不错。大公司在加州，500强，小公司在中西部。小公司感觉气氛很好，大家好像一
家人，对我非常热情，一去马上给10k的bonus，做的东西也很先进，科研的成分大，每年发好些
papers。大公司感觉hierarchy很严重，人比较tough，气氛比较紧张。应聘部门做的东西比较
routine,工程的成分大。本人比较喜欢科研，但是没有找到好的学校的faculty职位。希望以后还
能回学校。从这个角度，比较倾向小公司，但是又觉得大公司空间大，设备好，以后也许还可以跳到
更好的部门。大家给点意见。
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calvingao (跳反的内奸) 于 (Wed Apr 20 12:11:48 2011, 美东) 提到:
如果没工作经验，去大公司摸摸流程之类的
如果有了几年工作经验，还是小公司好
小公司自由，灵活，决定权... 阅读全帖 |
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C*******d
发帖数: 15836 | 41 Try to see if there are tunnels and holes for terminate passage. If not, it
is very likely to be rotten wood. One very important cause for the rotten
wood is the access of water to the area. If this is the case, this should be
caused by the poor maintenance of the frame. |
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a********r
发帖数: 193 | 42
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Continuous failure of air conditioning coils, or HVAC units beyond anything
normal. Copper AC coils have turned black, or a grayish black.
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Oven, or stove elements, or refrigerator coils may have failed a number of
times.
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Failure of electrical appliances, computer, TV sets, radios, DVD players,
smoke detectors, microwave information display panels may have failed.
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Corroded, or black electrical wiring.
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High end silver jewelry, or silver plated utensils may be tarnished.
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Light bulbs in... 阅读全帖 |
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h**********r
发帖数: 2284 | 43 A few hundred sf, not as big a 1000 sf, which still cost a lot of time and
energy. Fortunately, although my deck didn't look good and had cracks here
and there, there's no need to replace any board.
In fact, if the board is not completely rotten, you can just follow these
steps of power washing, sanding and staining, and the surface will look
great again. Even if some boards (or some portion of a board) are rotten,
you just replace those specific pieces. There are videos that direct you how
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hulaquan (hula) 于 (Wed Nov 3 15:11:18 2010, 美东) 提到:
《好妈妈胜过好老师》
前天晚上开始看的，看的我欲罢不能啊。写的非常好，把育儿经写得像小说一样引人入
胜通俗易懂，既有名家大家的指导思想，又有各种具体问题的具体应对办法。
这本书从一个母亲一个教师和一个儿童心理辅导工作者的角度，阐述了孩子从婴儿到儿
童到少年到成人这个过程中会遇到的各种典型问题，以及很多家长在这个过程中会犯的
典型错误，还有学校，老师和社会在这个过程中所起的作用（包括反作用）。
看了之后，获益良多。教育孩子成为一个好的快乐的幸福的人，首先要自我成长，家长
要更理性，更有耐心，遇到问题更多的从教育方法上寻找解决办法。总之要相信一切都
是可以用教育来解决的，而且越早解决越容易，要相信孩子是天生向善天生上进的。
感想很多，先写这么多吧。我觉得这本书值得大家读，不管是妈妈还是爸爸，都值得去
看一看。
顺便还想问问大家，有什么好的英文育儿书针对美国教育的？
感觉既然孩子可能会在美国读书，知... 阅读全帖 |
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aprilxu (妞妞是个乖宝宝) 于 (Fri Mar 30 00:33:44 2012, 美东) 提到:
我已经很久很久不发帖了，自从我女儿确诊以后，我就再没有心思在网上发帖和回帖了
。这几天看了一些关于残疾孩子和流产的帖子，我忍不住想说几句我自己的经历，也算
是一种倾诉吧。
我女儿快三岁了，又漂亮又聪明，可是，她不会走路，而且永远也不会。她患有SMA (
Spinal Muscular Atrophy) 。这是一种genetic disorder，由于基因缺失身体无
法制造一种蛋白，严重影响她的运动神经元和所控制的肌肉，导致肌张力低下。SMA是
一种罕见病，发病率仅为万分之一，由于我和我老公都是携带者（我们都不知道，也没
有家族史），我们的孩子有四分之一的几率患病，我的女儿很不幸。
但是幸运的是，我的女儿不是最严重的情况。Type 1，也就是最严重的情况，孩子一般
不会活过两岁。我女儿属于type 2，医生没说能活多久，只是告诉我们，最终依靠仪器
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NONONO123 (no) 于 (Wed Mar 28 18:35:04 2012, 美东) 提到:
这些天板上好多讨论生一个还是生两个的问题
看到很多妈妈说，生两个是为了给孩子一个伴，很是sweet
我是非独生子女，很庆幸有妹妹这个伴
不过我想讲讲自己从小到大的经历，不代表任何人，纯讲故事
我爸妈都是普通市民，我们家就是普通小市民家庭
我们那个generation，很多人都是独生子女
但是爷爷想要孙子，所以爸妈生了第二胎，不过是个妹妹
所以我们家就2孩子，
记得那个时候，同一单位的住在一起，家家收入差不多，
房子也差不多，所以从小我就跟妹妹share房间，share床
穿差不多的衣服，爸妈也尽力给我们提供必需的条件
然后也积极为我们的将来省钱，我想我爸妈应该是我周围的父母中比较辛苦的
吃的穿的也基本上比别人家会差一点，这个还是看的出来的
我从小羡慕其他的朋友有自己的房间，觉得有自己的天地，
可惜我只有自己的一个抽屉
还经常被妹妹撬开偷看我的日子，从此以后我就不写日记了
我跟妹妹小时候关系其实并... 阅读全帖 |
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ilovecats (lucy) 于 (Tue Sep 25 00:18:36 2012, 美东) 提到:
谢谢大家的关心。手术在星期二早上10：30做完了。医生说，该切的，都切了，要等1-
2个星期看看化验的结果如果如何。在医院里住了一个晚上。星期三下午出院。由于切
除了左淋巴腺，所以有2 个引流管挂在左面，每天要清理引流管的液体2次，这就是一
天最痛的时候，有的时候液体通过引流管被拽出来，那专心的痛，只有哇哇大哭。虽然
我没有经历过生产的痛苦（我是剖腹的），但我觉得这次手术比上次剖腹要来得痛苦。
有的人说，化疗比手术痛苦，但以我个人的经历，我觉得，手术比化疗痛苦。我没有很
大的化疗反映。该吃吃，该喝喝，没有怎么呕吐。接下来，就是10 月份的放疗（5周）
，最后是乳房重建。抗乳癌是一场长时间的战争。需要家人，朋友的支持，和自己的坚
强的信心。路是一步一步走下去的。奔个和小宝宝上周末在中央公园的动物园中拍的。
照片在32页636楼。
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ags123 (小妮子) 于 (Sun Jun 2 21:48:19 2013, 美东) 提到:
我发在这里，是因为大家都在国外，比较好理解。不是不想生，但是一切都没有成熟。
头几年拼读书，这个漂洋过来可能就会耽误那么一两年，然后找工作，还算顺利，做了
几年，跳了公司。怎么也要做出点基础来再休假生孩子吧？而且现在老公也是事业刚起
步，我们连房子都没有。估计第一胎怎么也的35了。
这个会不会太晚了？可是真的没有办法，总不能一切都没准备好，就只是看年龄合适就
生吧？我知道可能会被版上的妈妈骂，因为我没有小孩，所以还不能理解。但是，想听
听过来妈妈的经验，35岁晚不晚？怎么兼顾家庭和事业的？
谢谢啦~~~~
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masara (亲爱的Mio啊你在里面还好么？) 于 (Sun Jun 2 21:56:51 2013, 美东) 提到:
博士四年级意外怀孕的人很羡慕可以好好规划自己人生的人，我这辈子不用为这个事情
烦恼了... 阅读全帖 |
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roseknight (roseknight) 于 (Thu Mar 21 23:01:41 2013, 美东) 提到:
我在一家小公司做个TEAM LEAD. 最近公司景气不好，老板今天跟我说他要考虑裁掉我
组里的A. Ａ是一个很和善的人，中国朋友很多，我们私下的关系挺好的。
A也是中国人，技术很不错，就是不善于和老板交流。因为他在公司很多年了，现在是
公司里工资最高的，所以老板要裁掉他多半是因为他的工资太高而不是技术不好。
老板今天叮嘱我不能提前告诉A 要裁掉他的消息，可是站在朋友的立场，我在犹豫要不
要告诉他。
如果告诉他，我担心他生气找老板对质，这样我就麻烦了，另外也担心他误解我没有尽
力帮他向老板解释，没有向老板如实汇报他的工作成果。 事实是他的职位只是程序员
，而工资太高，老板不爽。
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wennuan (锐锐) 于 (Sat Jul 20 23:50:23 2013, 美东) 提到:
晚上老公出去踢球了,我跟儿子去Framingham那边看家具,因为下午儿子睡了一大觉又吃
了些零食,天气又热,我们都不饿,所以看完家具都快9点了,心想就在附近吃点东西吧,
儿子说不想吃川菜, 想起来张豪就在附近, 几年没去过了,就去换换口味吧.
去到的时候已经快9点了,人不多,有三四桌正在吃,全是老外, 我们坐下等了一会,没有
人来,后来老板娘过来说,你要自己写菜,然后给我一张白纸, 当时并不忙,服务员和老板
娘在一堆前台聊天. 好吧,我就自己写了单子,点了酱鸭,生煎包,菜肉混沌,鲜肉月饼和
锅贴, 因为儿子喜欢吃面食. 写完招呼服务员,老板娘拉着长脸带搭不理的说, 搁那里
吧,我一会儿拿. 过了一阵拿走了,自始至终没有看我一眼,没有招呼,比当年大学里的大
师傅还横.
算了,等着上菜呗.
菜的质量实在没法恭维. 酱鸭不进味,肉也太紧,不够烂.混沌没什么味道,无论锅贴还是
包子,按照儿子的话说,怎么都... 阅读全帖 |
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