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49% of US Presidents suffered mental illness in Duke study
The Chronicle ^ | February, 2006 | Haley Hoffman
Posted on Thursday, April 20, 2006 10:05:20 PM by Torie
23/02/2006 - Duke: Duke study posits presidents had mental illness
U-Wire via NewsEdge Corporation :
By Haley Hoffman, The Chronicle (Duke)
DURHAM, N.C. -- No one would ever expect the general who led the Union army
to victory in the Civil War to have a debilitatin... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: ChinaNews版 - 半数的美国总统有精神病(link)
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49% of US Presidents suffered mental illness in Duke study
The Chronicle ^ | February, 2006 | Haley Hoffman
Posted on Thursday, April 20, 2006 10:05:20 PM by Torie
23/02/2006 - Duke: Duke study posits presidents had mental illness
U-Wire via NewsEdge Corporation :
By Haley Hoffman, The Chronicle (Duke)
DURHAM, N.C. -- No one would ever expect the general who led the Union army
to victory in the Civil War to have a debilitatin... 阅读全帖
B******1
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来自主题: WashingtonDC版 - dc周围的小学gifted program
1) For each weekday, arrange a tutor for one subject or a piano/violin/
drawing/singing lesson. Each tutoring/lesson lasts about 1 hour.
2) Before attending the gifted program, full day at public school plus
afterschool tutoring/lessons.
3) Shyness is more a personality issue than a shortcoming. Maybe the kid
wants to play with older kids since they may have more things in common (in
terms of knowldge and subjects). Another way to change is appearance of
shyness is to learn singing/acting/debati... 阅读全帖
m***h
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来自主题: pets版 - 两只狗狗如何和谐相处
网上找到一些信息:
Since it is a guarding breed, the Australian Shepherd tends to be shy
around strangers. Proper socialization as a youngster will help prevent
extreme examples of shyness. Aussies from working lines may try to herd
family members and other household pets.
Faults—Any display of shyness, fear or aggression is to be severely
penalized.
Special Alerts
Avoid breed lines of Australian shepherds that show shyness or sharpness.
h******r
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http://www.dallasnews.com/news/community-news/plano/headlines/2
By MATTHEW WATKINS
MATTHEW WATKINS The Dallas Morning News Staff Writer
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Published: 31 December 2012 11:19 PM
On the night after Christmas, dozens of kids gathered to play pingpong in
dimly lit gyms behind two separate Plano strip centers.
Most of them were smiling and laughing as they sweated and swung their
paddles, sending little orange balls all over the hardwood floors. But these
weren’t basement warriors... 阅读全帖
a*****e
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来自主题: PsychoAnalysis版 - self-confidence
It is a GREAT class! My classmates all admit that I have overcome my shyness
in these three months, while they took much more time in their real life --
To compare with mine, one special and funny young lad from Australia and
working in Cisco now said it took him a whole year to overcome his shyness
after he started to work years ago.
The cost is $1750 for 12 sessions. Most employers will reimburse it as
training expense. Google "Dale Carneige Training"(DCT) and you will get the
whole list of tr
l****7
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That's how I know:
Through high school, he was teased for his shyness and unusual speech
patterns. Some classmates even offered their lunch money to Cho just to hear him talk. According to Chris Davids, a high school classmate in Cho's English class at Westfield High School, Cho looked down and refused to speak when called upon. Davids added that, after one teacher threatened to give Cho a failing grade for not participating in class, he began reading in a strange, deep voice that sounded "like
Z*C
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多年以前在IMDB上面看到的一段儿,心想这英文表述得比中文牛逼。
The thing about Maggie Cheung is that she has an X-factor called femininity
that does not exist in girls and women anymore. American girls are all into
getting breasts implants so they look hotter or sexier and European models
try to lose all the weight so they become sexy like Kate Moss. What Maggie
Cheung has is the X-factor that cannot be defined. The Yin energy, the
divine part of God that is female. She oozes that X-factor and sensuality.
She doesn't have to... 阅读全帖
b**********5
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our fantasy life is about to get much richer, thanks to the wonders of
virtual reality.
The Oculus Rift virtual reality equipment began shipping Monday for those
who preordered or contributed to the original Kickstarter campaign. Oculus,
which is owned by Facebook, has called today “a historic moment” in a
release, adding, “soon, people all over the world will be experiencing
fully immersive VR in their own homes.”
By which they mean porn, of course.
Sure, there are plenty of VR experiences that... 阅读全帖
P*******1
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 我是不是很丢人。。。。
shyness is a disease. 还是需要克服。outgoing还有嘴巴甜才吃香。我不想我女儿
跟我一样。应该学她老爸的厚脸皮。
x*****i
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I'd be offended in that situation. the teacher shouldn't criticize parents
in front of other parents, even if that's unintentional
in the meantime, you can encourage your kid to say good morning in English,
maybe start at home, say it to everyone and even plush toys, repeat as much
as you can. also engage the teacher if possible, tell her your kid is trying
to overcome shyness, and what progress he has made
W******e
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1. Introduction
My interest in studying creativity was inspired by the frustrations that I
felt as a student, then as a professor. I wanted to know how I could
encourage creativity in myself, my students, and my colleagues.
Politicians, industrial managers, academic administrators, and other leaders
often say that innovation is critical to the future of civilization, our
country, their company, etc. But in practice, these same people often act as
if innovation is an evil that must be suppressed,... 阅读全帖
m********n
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 宝宝被怀疑自闭 (转载)
唉,最近也被这个自闭弄的烦死了。我娃也是喜欢和大人玩,特别黏我,不怎么和同龄
小朋友玩,有时答非所问(不是总是,20%,特别是早上刚睡醒和晚上困了),另外比较
安静。倒是听老师的话,让做什么做什么,circle time也跟着参加. 老师也说quiet,
看不出自闭现象。但是网上看大家说老师说的不一定,和家人玩也不算。
看了儿医问是不是性格shy,儿医建议看专家,说shyness也是一种自闭的表现,我要疯
了。简直要骂粗口,怎么不说不爱交际的全都自闭全看医生吃药算了。骂归骂,还是得
看医生,毕竟冒不起这个险
u*****a
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“I AM VERY LUCKY to be alive,” says Jack Park. He is tall, slim and well-
dressed, with dark eyes, a gentle demeanor and a soft speaking voice. A
junior at Penn, Park announced in February, through social media, that he
had attempted suicide in his dorm room — twice. Park has attained a kind of
celebrity in recent months, a fact about which he seems humble, even
bemused. “I am very pleased that you are interested in my story,” he says.
Alerting the world to his battle with mental illness was bra... 阅读全帖
b**********0
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awwww, still so shy. I love ur shyness, it makes u soooo cuuute!
b**********0
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来自主题: NewYork版 - 这样算不算保住了贞操的底线?
u were soooooooo shy last nite, u did the same thing! but i love ur shyness,
sooooooo cuuuuuuute!
t*******y
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来自主题: NewYork版 - 这样算不算保住了贞操的底线?

shyness,
妈的, 你为什么总是纠缠我?
n****o
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来自主题: loseweight版 - 刚才上网看说。。。。
这段很乐……
Group Sex
Introducing yourself 3 calories
Overcoming shyness 8 calories
Swapping partners, willingly 4 calories
Swapping partners, unwillingly 62 calories
Jealousy
(Partner having more fun than you are) 16 calories
Mixed doubles 26 calories
Being nice to everyone 100 calories
Anger
(You suddenly realize that you're wanted for you body and not your mind.
Difficult to cope with, especially if you have a Ph.D.) 10 calories
Finding your clothes 5 calories
w***r
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来自主题: LeisureTime版 - 漩涡
剩前(一)--- Blossom of Shyness
s*******i
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30年过去了,现在上哪找这么痴情的男子啊!?要是我是朱迪我肯定从他了!
Dear Jodie:
There is definitely a possibility that I will be killed in my attempt to
get Reagan. It is for this very reason that I am writing you this letter
now.
As you well know by now I love you very much. Over the past seven months
I've left you dozens of poems, letters and love messages in the faint
hope that you could develop an interest in me. Although we talked on the
phone a couple of times I never had the nerve to simply approach you and
introduce my... 阅读全帖
s****7
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c*******d
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这种脑残类型的white girl, 不date也罢阿
c******g
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r*****a
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来自主题: pets版 - 帮忙看看那只比较靠谱
不是不是,不是胆小,不是timid和shy,我感觉胆小是后天决定的,只有很小一部分是
基因
我说的是有些puppy天生比较cautious,或者不太care外界的干扰,对自己的世界更感
兴趣,我感觉那个白色多一些的puppy是这种,不是shy puppy
shyness更多是小的时候没有social好,比如怕生人,怕打雷,怕大的噪音,怕孤独,
怕柱拐的,怕戴帽子的。天生谨慎的不一定比天生大胆的难适应,比方说,大胆的
puppy遇事有可能毫不犹豫就冲上去了,结果不好的事情发生,有了negative
experience,有可能以后就怕类似的事情
视频里那个puppy也许就是你说的那种呢,先防备,然后会适应,有情况又会退回去,
然后再适应。只是猜测啦,不知道LZ能不能去现场测试一下回来汇报呢
r*****a
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Aggression你可以纠正,狗能接受你给的信息,shyness太严重了你只能让它自己慢慢
来,你是没办法给它任何信息的。也看到底有多shy了,有一点shy的可能你有耐心、心
态好的话,也是可以的。SA很厉害的也很难
h********n
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来自主题: Piebridge版 - I Think I Love You
"I Think I Love You" is a 1970 single by The Partridge Family, sung by David
Cassidy. The lyrics heavily reference love-shyness. In 1991 Voice of the
Beehive covered the song, Kaci (singer) did a pop cover in 2002, Less Than
Jake did a rock/ska cover in 2002 for the Scream soundtrack. Paul Westerberg
covered it in 2004, and in 2005, so did Constantine Maroulis and Katie
Cassidy. David Cassidy himself did a soul remake of the song in 2003, for
the album "Touch of Blue."
a***d
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来自主题: Literature版 - 死亡夜行-
泰戈尔(嘿嘿,虽然有人要皱眉头)和艾米莉也写了很多关于死亡的诗。
泰戈尔写得很宗教和神秘:
当我是同你做游戏的时候,我从来没有问过你是谁。我不懂得羞怯和惧怕,我的生
活是热闹的。
清晨你就来把我唤醒,像我自己的伙伴一样,带着我跑过林野。
那些日子,我从来不想去了解你对我唱的歌曲的意义。我只随声附和,我的心应节
跳舞。
现在,游戏的时光已过,这突然来到我眼前的情景是什么呢?世界低下眼来看着你
的双脚,和它的肃静的众星一同敬畏地站着。
When my play was with thee I never questioned who thou wert. I knew nor
shyness nor fear, my life was boisterous.
In the early morning thou wouldst call me from my sleep like my own comrade
and lead me running from glade to glade.
On those days I never cared to know
w***4
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tsiaojian 说得很好。
而且,我觉得你和家人首先要对抑郁症以及家人的作用有个清楚的认识。
我记得以前在我心情不好的时候曾经看过一本很不错的书, The Shy Child: Helping
Children Triumph over Shyness (Paperback) by Ward K. Swallow
http://www.amazon.com/Shy-Child-Helping-Children-Triumph/dp/0446674990
虽然面对的问题不太相同,可是本质上有相近之处。可能对你会有帮助。
还有对于不爱和外人接触的人,不要强迫他和外界接触,可以从体育锻炼开始。比如你
可以和他一起去游泳。我的经验是,游泳对于舒缓心情十分有利。
万事开头难,一旦他能开始对什么感兴趣了,并且花时间去做了,就可以不断地增强自
信,以及和外界交流的意愿。何况,并不是所有人都需要性格开朗,有很多朋友的。内
向也不是什么错,最主要的是他能够达到心情舒畅。我以前也觉得自己应该再开朗一些
,再交游广泛一些,于是给自己许多不必要的压力。直到我认识到,人无论内向与外向
其实都无所谓,只要自己
J*******g
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http://news.yahoo.com/blogs/newsmakers/joel-osteen-most-people-
Most People Desire to Have a Relationship with God
Joel Osteen describes himself as “naturally shy” and “reserved.” Not the
first words you’d expect to hear from a minister who preaches weekly to a
43,000-strong congregation and reaches tens of millions more on TV and
online.
“I walk into a room and I’m not the center of attention,” said Osteen in
an interview with ABC News correspondent Byron Pitts. “If I go into a room,
I’m going ... 阅读全帖
m**i
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sorry, cannot help further... have improved a lot and reduced it to a
minimal level... well, some might have noticed me using ":">" instead now
and then.
however if someone were physically sitting next to me at those moments, he
or she would have seen me ACTUALLY blushing~~`` =___+b~~`
this "shyness" had puzzled me for a really long, long time until recently,
when a book mentioned it's one of the most common features for the "highly
sensitive person" (HSP) tribe, a term defined in 1997.
2 out o... 阅读全帖
s**********t
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【 以下文字转载自 SanFrancisco 讨论区 】
发信人: starryynight (phoenix), 信区: SanFrancisco
标 题: 锻炼演讲? --- 周四晚中英双语演讲会(Sillicon Valley Mandar
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Dec 5 16:46:49 2013, 美东)
Have you heard about Toastmasters? Do you want to improve your public
speaking skills? Do you want to overcome your shyness and to become a brave
speaker at work, in life, or when you go to a protest activity, to speak out
your mind eloquently?
Please come to the Sillicon Valley Mandarin English Toastmasters Club then!
Every T... 阅读全帖
s*********t
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来自主题: Biology版 - 88楼
http://www.sciencemag.org/content/335/6070/781.full
http://www.sciencedate.cn/
Young Scientists in Love
Lonely Chinese researchers isolated by shyness and long lab hours now have
an online dating service designed just for them.
Building 88 http://www.sciencedate.cn/ aims to become a “soul harbor” for young Chinese scientists, its Web site explains. Spearheaded by Science Times Media Group, which also runs the popular Chinese-language news portal Sciencenet. cn, the service takes its name from ... 阅读全帖
l***o
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(1)
Rumors swept through the mathematics community that a great advance had been
made by a researcher no one seemed to know — someone whose talents had
been so overlooked after he earned his doctorate in 1992 that he had found
it difficult to get an academic job, working for several years as an
accountant and even in a Subway sandwich shop.
“Basically, no one knows him,” said Andrew Granville, a number theorist at
the Université de Montréal. “Now, suddenly, he has proved one of the
great results... 阅读全帖
A*G
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来自主题: MedicalCareer版 - Found a useful child development milestones chart
Child Development Milestone Chart
Age Physical Development Social and Emotional Development Intellectual
Development Language Development
At Birth Lies in fetal position with knees tucked up. Unable to raise head.
Head falls backwards if pulled to sit. Reacts to sudden sound. Closes eye
to bright light. Opens eye when held in an upright position. Bonds with
mother. Smiles at mother. Beginning to develop concepts e.g. becomes aware
of physical sensations such as hunger. Explores using his... 阅读全帖
w***4
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来自主题: Psychology版 - 从不敢和外人吵架怎末办?
可以看看这本书。 有一些公共图书馆有这本书。
The Shy Child: Helping Children Triumph over Shyness (Paperback) by Ward K.
Swallow
http://www.amazon.com/Shy-Child-Helping-Children-Triumph/dp/0446674990
另外,做人最重要是在尽量不伤害别人的情况下让自己得到最大的快乐。要尽量坦诚地
给别人帮助,也开心坦然地接受别人的善意与帮助。至于交友,不必交让自己不开心的
朋友。交友贵在相知与相互尊重,不必勉强自己喜欢不喜欢的人。
r****r
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Head case
http://www.newyorker.com/arts/critics/atlarge/2010/03/01/100301crat_atlarge_menand
心理学能成为真正的科学么?
There is suspicion that the pharmaceutical industry is cooking the studies
that prove that antidepressant drugs are safe and effective, and that the
industry’s direct-to-consumer advertising is encouraging people to demand
pills to cure conditions that are not diseases (like shyness) or to get
through ordinary life problems (like being laid off).
抑郁症是伪病症么?抗抑郁药是否是药厂为赚钱搞出来的?
Two new books, Ga
o**********e
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【 以下文字转载自 SanFrancisco 讨论区 】
发信人: starryynight (phoenix), 信区: SanFrancisco
标 题: 锻炼演讲? --- 周四晚中英双语演讲会(Sillicon Valley Mandarin
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Dec 5 16:46:49 2013, 美东)
Have you heard about Toastmasters? Do you want to improve your public
speaking skills? Do you want to overcome your shyness and to become a brave
speaker at work, in life, or when you go to a protest activity, to speak out
your mind eloquently?
Please come to the Sillicon Valley Mandarin English Toastmasters Club then!
Every... 阅读全帖
R*******e
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ROlCPlnCIfo
It’s just a bad movie, where there’s no crying
handing the key to me in this Red Lion,
where the lock that you locked in the suite says there’s no prying.
When the breath that you breathed in the street screams there’s no science.
When you look how you looked then to me, then I cease lying and fall into
silence.
It’s just a life story, so there’s no climax.
No more new territory, so pull away the imax.
In the slot that you sliced through the scene there... 阅读全帖
q********y
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来自主题: _K12版 - 要上K了
大家都上完K了,我们还在头疼上什么K
以前问过,现在还是犹豫不决
报名后天截止,大家出出主意?
第一个,g&t,据说academics不错。
学校本身没有afterschool,在学校附近有不错的afterschool管接送。
g&t班大多白人亚裔,但是整个学校有70%的黑裔西裔。
第二个,progressive,据说不非常重视academics,k没有作业。
比较注重literature, creativity, 课程不是很structured,etc.
家长的involvement非常多(我自己不太喜欢家长太多的involvement)
学校比较diversified, 白人和其他裔各占一半,亚裔比第一个要更多一些
我们儿子有点小聪明,所以觉得g&t比较适合,有人说在第二个容易bored.
但是儿子很shy.很多人说第二个更nurturing, given his shyness.
t********r
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来自主题: _K12版 - [合集] 要上K了
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qinqinbaby (青山绿水) 于 (Wed Jun 16 21:44:54 2010, 美东) 提到:
大家都上完K了,我们还在头疼上什么K
以前问过,现在还是犹豫不决
报名后天截止,大家出出主意?
第一个,g&t,据说academics不错。
学校本身没有afterschool,在学校附近有不错的afterschool管接送。
g&t班大多白人亚裔,但是整个学校有70%的黑裔西裔。
第二个,progressive,据说不非常重视academics,k没有作业。
比较注重literature, creativity, 课程不是很structured,etc.
家长的involvement非常多(我自己不太喜欢家长太多的involvement)
学校比较diversified, 白人和其他裔各占一半,亚裔比第一个要更多一些
我们儿子有点小聪明,所以觉得g&t比较适合,有人说在第二个容易bored.
但是儿子很shy.很多人说第二个更nurturing, given his shyness.
☆... 阅读全帖
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