l*****e 发帖数: 2447 | 1 不存在利不利的问题。stem track里的孩子stem天赋也一样未必牛逼,都是人类,早教
了或者有兴趣而已。孩子在最后的职业之前,各方面都搞搞,对综合质素是个促进。
最后一段关于六年级和softball的评论几乎不可能是对的。
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t******l 发帖数: 10908 | 2 请问最后一段关于 6 年级 track & team sprinters 和 8 年级 after-school club
softball 错在哪里,我回去跟娃再核实一下。
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t******l 发帖数: 10908 | 3 I remembered how when I was a kid and played softball on a church league, no
parent, including my own, attended practice and very few attended games.
What changed?
The reasons are countless and aren't just about sports, but about parenting,
too. As we helicopter and hover as parents, we are more involved than ever.
Involvement is OK, experts say, but when our kids' sports life becomes more
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t******l 发帖数: 10908 | 4 http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sports-related_traumatic_brain_injury
The injury rates per 100 player-seasons were:
3.66 for football
1.58 for wrestling
1.14 for girls' soccer
1.04 for girls' basketball
0.92 for boys' soccer
0.75 for boys' basketball
0.46 for softball
0.46 for field hockey
0.23 for baseball
0.14 for volleyball. |
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t******l 发帖数: 10908 | 5 前面这些是数据。。。但人生不是由数据构成的。。。我娃带回来的信息是,
track & field team 里很多娃到 8 年级时会加一项球类运动。很多人
去参加 girls softball。。。虽然娃说还早还在考虑中。。。但是考虑到娃的
mental health,如果将来娃决定了,父母简单否决是不现实的。人生也得 take
calculated risk 不是?
而我的钻研的结果是,降低 TBI 的最好的折中是,先玩 after-school club
team / school B team (如果有的话),start from recreational style,
no pressure,have fun。。。除非到了 “孤独求败” 的水准,否则就不要考虑
school varsity team 以及高端俱乐部 travel team。
但是有时让我感到背脊有点发凉的是。。。在钻研过程中,我同时也看到了 pushy
mama 们无比热心于 “竞争” / “顽强” / “董存瑞舍身炸碉堡(是不是离开碉堡
十八丈远?pushy mama 回电报:这难道有距离一说?给我狠狠的打!... 阅读全帖 |
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t******l 发帖数: 10908 | 6 http://www.cnn.com/2016/01/21/health/kids-youth-sports-parents/
Highlight: "Involvement is OK, experts say, but when our kids' sports
life becomes more about us (parents) and our needs, then we've crossed
the line." -- 我觉得 “crossed the line” 这三个词震耳发聩。。。
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I remembered how when I was a kid and played softball on a church league, no
parent, including my own, attended practice and very few attended games.
What changed?
The reasons are countless and aren't just about sports, but about par... 阅读全帖 |
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a*****a 发帖数: 1385 | 7 说说我儿子的情况吧,现在17个月多一点,还不到18个月,之前发育的各个milestone
都按期达成:
1岁一个月左右的时候开始站立起来学走路,15-16个月开始走路就很稳了。不过到现在
为止还是喜欢走路小跑而不是慢走,虽然他慢走也可以走得稳。
小跑起来的时候,双手有时会左右张开向两翼一样,嘴里“wowo”,“哦哦”的叫着跑
。时常走着或者跑着的时候,头歪起来,两手两侧平举,好像翅膀一样,有时候会这样
转圈,不过从不会痴迷,转1-3圈就差不多不转了,会抬头望天,双手的食指朝上指,
嘴里说“te”。我注意到他只有看高处的东西,比如灯柱,天空,天花板或者天上的鸟
,才会发出“te”这个音,我怀疑他的意思是“高处的东西”,但是我不知道这算不算
用手指。 除了这个以外,他基本不用手指东西。今天我太太说上午在家里用一串钥匙
逗他,他想要拿着玩,太太把钥匙给挂在高一点的地方,他在下面看一看,感觉拿不到
,就走掉了,也没叫大人帮忙拿,也没有指,就这么走掉了。感觉什么都不是很有所谓
。。。
他在7个多月的时候被我太太带回娘家养着,我太太陪着他住在娘家,我每天都和他们
视频,但是基本上他不会看视频里的我... 阅读全帖 |
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w**d 发帖数: 2334 | 8 体育总是会有风险的。我同事就不让他儿子打hockey和football。其实小的时候还好,
速度没那么快。估计上初中了就要稍微注意下。
这个是网上搜到的: - 很不巧我儿子打ice hockey 和 lacrosse
Concussion Rates per Sport
The below numbers indicate the amount of sports concussions taking place per
100,000 athletic exposures. An athletic exposure is defined as one athlete
participating in one organized high school athletic practice or competition,
regardless of the amount of time played.
Football: 64 -76.8
Boys' ice hockey: 54
Girl's soccer: 33
Boys' lacrosse: 40 - 46.6
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w**d 发帖数: 2334 | 9 足球得脑震荡的 可能性要小些。网上搜来的:
Football: 64 -76.8
Boys' ice hockey: 54
Girl's soccer: 33
Boys' lacrosse: 40 - 46.6
Girls' lacrosse: 31 - 35
Boys' soccer: 19 - 19.2
Boys' wrestling: 22 - 23.9
Girls' basketball: 18.6 - 21
Girls' softball: 16 - 16.3
Boys' basketball: 16 - 21.2
Girls' field hockey: 22 - 24.9
Cheerleading: 11.5 to 14
Girls' volleyball: 6 - 8.6
Boys' baseball: Between 4.6 - 5
Girls' gymnastics: 7 |
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w**a 发帖数: 487 | 10 谢谢回复。 怎么play softball啊?不好意思,没经验啊。
这个人今年刚到这个学校,一来就把前面那个immigration center director的规则全
部打乱。感觉这个人非常aggressive,不是很好说话的人啊。
愁。。。 |
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b********n 发帖数: 4256 | 11
是新城教会吗?成绩如何?
新城教会有softball team? 我真是孤陋寡闻了。
你打什么位置的?我打过三垒手+外场,呵呵。 |
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T*****n 发帖数: 18811 | 13 softball是垒球,soft baseball是软式棒球
不一样的。你混淆了。 |
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b********n 发帖数: 4256 | 14
哦,这样。其实我是有些搞混了,因为这里一说softball,就是垒球,呵呵。
少棒是 soft baseball。。。 |
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b********n 发帖数: 4256 | 15
我查了一下。。。
MLB 用棒球(baseball)是周长9英寸,重5盎司,缝108针。
软式棒球(soft compression baseball)同MLB用的棒球大小是一样的,都是周长9英
寸,表面也是一样的,差别在于由于材料的不同,软式棒球轻一些。
而softball 就是垒球,大一些沉一些,周长11-12英寸,重6-7盎司。 |
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w**z 发帖数: 54 | 17 Ding,count me in, we can start from softball... |
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z**********3 发帖数: 11979 | 18 不神秘
打softball
美国真是片神奇的大陆 什么人都能上去打 |
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h****t 发帖数: 1876 | 19 coco 想要老板娘帮你 还不跟老板娘打球
不厚道阿 老板娘 我决定不打softball了 我来陪你网球 |
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c********r 发帖数: 1422 | 20 每周打softball,然后每次订上买买提十大那批大叔大妈? |
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b******7 发帖数: 8200 | 21 周五公司打球(softball),人算不如天算。 |
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wh 发帖数: 141625 | 23 另外new haven public library周六下午有个paws and read program,有一群south
conn的女子手球队员(是叫手球吗?softball)带一条大狗来给小孩讲故事做手工,小
孩可以和狗玩,狗雪白,巨大,好像是swedish mountain dog还是什么,我以前问过现
在忘了。还挺好玩的。时间是每周六下午1:00-2:30pm. 从这周到11月20日为止。 |
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t*a 发帖数: 18880 | 24 no, I guess you cant do it regularly, maybe once or twice as a guest...
but soccer should be fine...
I guess you do not play baseball/softball, right ?:P |
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m**********e 发帖数: 397 | 25 有的话,还需要player嘛?或者谁有兴趣一起来玩? |
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m**********e 发帖数: 397 | 27 刚开始不一定要那么正规啦,beginner玩玩就行,练练投球击球什么的先。 |
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B****r 发帖数: 647 | 30 餐桌 10$
椅子 3$
写字台 15$
加湿器 10%
台灯 5$
cabinet(挂在toilet上方的) 5$
cooler(送coal)10$
拐杖 10$
电视 250$
竹枕竹席 10$
篮球羽毛球softball..5$
吉他 200$
私信or发信:edatpurdue[at]yahoo[dot]com
链接里有图有价格:
http://www.flickr.com/photos/48380288@N03/ |
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r****l 发帖数: 2 | 31 本人有一套两层小楼出租. 3室2卫. 总面积1650 square feet. 冰箱, 微波炉, 洗衣机
, 烘干机基本全新. 宽敞的带抽油烟机的欧式厨房会让你心旷神怡. 如有需求可向本人
所要照片. 有意者请致电 r********[email protected]. 非诚勿扰.
This attractive home has 3 bedrooms, 2 bathrooms, very large living area
with beautiful new floors, sleek European design kitchen with top-of-the-
line stainless steel appliances. Large beautiful yard with lots of shade and
a basketball court.
Located in the established and desirable Barbarry Heights Neighborhood with
many Purdue faculty living there. It is a... 阅读全帖 |
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m***o 发帖数: 10232 | 32 Loose Park
Location: Wornall Road and 51st Street, Kansas City
Features: rose garden, rain garden, picnic areas, playground, walking trail,
and the famous Loose Park Pond
Website: http://www.kcmo.org/CKCMO/Depts/ParksandRecreation/LoosePark/
Swope Park
Location: East Meyer Boulevard and Swope Parkway, Kansas City
Features: shelter houses, baseball diamonds, swimming pool, frisbee golf
course, soccer fields (*hosts the Kansas City Zoo, Starlight Theatre, and
the Sporting Kansas City training grou... 阅读全帖 |
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t*******s 发帖数: 75 | 38 有空去练练投球也行啊,我也在解放区,站内留个电话吧。 |
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i****a 发帖数: 36252 | 39 I want to play but I am a little too far away.
there are batting cages if you just want to hit some balls |
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H******7 发帖数: 34403 | 40 Below is a list of the eight restaurants in Los Angeles County with the
highest numbers of retail food code violations observed during routine and
owner-initiated inspections between July 1, 2013 and March 31, 2015. The
data was generated by restaurant inspections conducted by environmental
health specialists working for the county Department of Public Health and
excludes the cities of Long Beach, Pasadena and Vernon.
Location: 7808 Garvey Ave., Rosemead, CA 91770
Violations: 77
Inspections: 7
A... 阅读全帖 |
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g***w 发帖数: 742 | 41 我收藏的:
150 Things to Do in Minneapolis
From Nordeast pub crawls to the Fringe, what we do for kicks is a big part
of what makes us unique: We ski in the streets and we drive on the ice. We
float milk-carton boats. We read in sculpture gardens, next to giant spoons
and cherries.
In honor of Minneapolis's 150th birthday, we gathered 150 of our favorite
things to do. No matter the season, this list will keep you busy:
Summer
1. Walk around Lake Harriet at sunset so you end up at the band shell for a... 阅读全帖 |
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a******g 发帖数: 13519 | 42 另外,还有
SUMMER
1. Walk around Lake Harriet at sunset so you end up at the band shell for a
little summer music. Then head up the hill to Sebastian Joe's for ice cream
(two scoops, of course).
2. Spend the first two weeks of August racing from show to show for the
Minnesota Fringe Festival. Bonus: The first weekend in August, you can catch
a Fringe performance in Uptown and then spend the rest of the afternoon
strolling through the Uptown Art Fair. End the day with a cool drink and
good food at Chi... 阅读全帖 |
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e********o 发帖数: 597 | 43
周末傍晚在UMN 西岸law school旁边的softball的场地。欢迎参加。 |
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m*r 发帖数: 37612 | 44 你又不懂baseball,你是softball高手 |
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m*******e 发帖数: 1280 | 45 so you do play softball?
which position?
关键是,一个是我们玩的(base),一个是你们玩的 |
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c**********n 发帖数: 13712 | 46 http://cssa.grad.wustl.edu/groups
Soccer Club
Consisting of many WashU Chinese students, postdocs, faculty and alumni from
outside of campus, the CSSA Soccer Club usually play on Saturday afternoons
, started from 4pm in summer and 2pm in spring/fall. The Francis Field and
the Softball Field next to Athlete Complex, as well as the Mudd Field
surrounded by the Business School, Law School and Olin Library, are all nice
options on Danforth campus during most of the year, and we can also have
indoo... 阅读全帖 |
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i**n 发帖数: 979 | 47 打了三种需要用胳膊用腰的球类:
golf, tennis and softball.
同学们在driving range里高球打得很高很远,
同学们在tennis court上充分显示了捡球能力,
之后的垒球运动中, 显然体力已经不支, 很多同学
即使打出二垒安打也只肯跑到一垒就歇了.
活动圆满结束, 就是minado现在实在太贵了...
tony同学也特地从纽约坐火车赶来
总之, 以后这种锻炼活动要多搞要搞好 |
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b****r 发帖数: 46 | 48 先来个近的凑凑数
Thompson Park
Location: Forsgate Drive, Jamesburg/Monroe Township
Acreage: 675 Acres
Facilities: 4 Tennis Courts (lights)
4 Basketball Courts
2 Handball Courts
3 Baseball Fields
1 Softball Field
1 Soccer Field
4 Reservable Picnic Groves
2 Open Picnic Groves
3 Playgrounds
Hiking Trails
Lake/Fishing
Animal Haven
这个公园有个养鹿场,里面有大概30多只鹿,还有其他一些小动物,可以带小孩去喂鹿
。比较爱吃的东西有面包苹果胡萝卜等等。 |
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m****s 发帖数: 8992 | 50 a GC right next to a softball field is different. |
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