j****o 发帖数: 442 | 1 其实与任何一段婚姻一样,跨国婚姻,仅靠相爱之初的热情是不够的,更需要沟通和理解,在磨合中逐渐减小差异。
由于文化差异、婚姻观念等不同,跨国婚姻中的男男女女们演绎了一幕幕悲喜剧。
Suce和她的洋老公携手走过20年后颇有感叹:其实与任何一段婚姻一样,跨国婚姻,仅靠相爱之初的热情是不够的,更需要沟通和理解,在磨合中逐渐减小差异。
酒文化的冲突
有一次,洋老公又喝高了,我一气之下,飞回中国
Suce 原本在广州当导游,由于工作关系,经常接触西方人。25年前一次偶然的邂逅,结识了现在的老公―――一位可爱的澳大利亚人。20年来,虽有因中西文化差异的不同,产生过一些矛盾冲突,但在相互的沟通、理解和谦让下,Suce与洋老公的感情至今还一如往昔,十分恩爱。
“我们以前争吵得最多的是关于他喝酒。澳大利亚盛产葡萄酒,因此酒是澳大利亚人生活中不可缺少的一部分,很多当地人经常到酒吧去,我的老公爱喝葡萄酒,也就不足为奇了”。但是让Suce生气的是,“老公太能喝了,如果哪一天没有生意的话,他能从下午一直喝到晚上,3瓶葡萄酒一点都不在话下”。
老公酒喝多了,说话就不太灵光。“看到他说话舌头都发硬,我又失望又生气,和 |
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s*******a 发帖数: 8827 | 2 洋人就是嘴甜吧
实际上一个个都是无情无义
通和理解,在磨合中逐渐减小差异。
姻,仅靠相爱之初的热情是不够的,更需要沟通和理解,在磨合中逐渐减小差异。
邂逅,结识了现在的老公―――一位可爱的澳大利亚人。20年来,虽有因中西文化差异
的不同,产生过一些矛盾冲突,但在相互的沟通、理解和谦让下,Suce与洋老公的感情
至今还一如往昔,十分恩爱。
亚人生活中不可缺少的一部分,很多当地人经常到酒吧去,我的老公爱喝葡萄酒,也就
不足为奇了”。但是让Suce生气的是,“老公太能喝了,如果哪一天没有生意的话,他
能从下午一直喝到晚上,3瓶葡萄酒一点都不在话下”。
和他吵。刚开始他生硬地回答:‘You can not control me. Shut up!(你不要控制我
,闭嘴!)’”有一次Suce一气之下,买了回中国的飞机票。
我改变了策略,我说你可以喝,但是不要喝得太多,一天2-3杯是可以的。”Suce笑道
,“反正我的杀手锏是‘I will fly back China。(我将回国)’。现在他喝酒少了,
也不再说‘闭嘴’之类的话。” |
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l*****7 发帖数: 8463 | 3 http://redalertpolitics.com/2012/11/10/southern-states-issue-wh
Americans in 15 states issue White House petitions asking permission to
secede
1663 If at first you don’t succeed, just secede!
More than 8,000 Louisiana residents have signed an online petition to the
Obama administration to allow the state of Louisana to, “withdraw
peacefully from the United States of America and create its own new
government.”
The petition, posted to the online White House petitions page, cites the
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发帖数: 1 | 4 China doesn't want to succeed with it's military it wants to suceed with it'
s indutrial power and trade. The US has been threatening China for decades
with the nonsense containment strategy. The China can't have greater GDP
than America which would mean a Chinese citizen would never be allowed to
make more than 1/4 of what American can. It has been threats, threats,
threats from the US. Under those conditions it would be irresponsible for
the Chinese govt not to tool up
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d*****n 发帖数: 2132 | 5 if they choose no to grow because of this reason, then they can't suceed
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b****h 发帖数: 52 | 6 F2 suceed in Beijing (18th) detail inside.
Saturday, 22-Jan-2000 03:13:49
202.109.40.108 writes:
Manybe it's a bit late to post the message now. But I hope it can provide some help to all the suffering F2.
personal data:
First try in Beijing.
F1 left for a top American university in the summer, 1999. Got married a bit earlier than that. 8all-7b= more than $ 6000. Zhejiang passport. Have temporary residence certificate for Dec, 1999-Dec. 2000, informal employment certificate of a Beijing company. |
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k********8 发帖数: 7948 | 7 lips work never worked.
i only believe my naked eyes.
the more they wanna hold the level, the smaller chance they gonna suceed.
well, actually single-government intervention never worked unless its done
by cooperation of multi-governments |
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a******e 发帖数: 36306 | 8 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
flyincloud (flyincloud) 于 (Mon Jul 19 18:51:35 2010, 美东) 提到:
大家有没有什么英文工作中的金句?
就是那种不要太多,但是在工作中一说,就立即能够收服人心的那种。
一是对老板:
1。对老板拍马屁。
2。老板不同意我的某个想法的时候用来对他做说服工作。
3。增加老板对我的信任,让他多教教我东西。
二是对同事:
(我老板暂时只有我一个手下,这里的同事主要是指老板叫我搭建的系统中,需要合作
的IT和数据分析师等)。
1。在开会等时候恭胃对方,给足面子。
2。在开会时剧理力争,维护老板和我的最大利益。
3。私下里收服人心,让他们给我多干活。把我们的项目放在第一位。
还请大家来指点小弟我一下,非常感谢。
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Tanshuiwen (贪睡文) 于 (Mon Jul 19 21:20:12 2010, 美东) 提到:
老板篇
(注:拍马屁可能有反效果)
对老板拍马屁:
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l********w 发帖数: 67 | 9 Boston USCIS, not suceed. 本来门口的保安帅哥让进了,不过他也问了不是今天
scheduled 为啥来,我说了着急要EAD续工作,他也就让进了,不过在一个登记的表上
把early给higlight了,态度还不错。可是等填完了表等着的时候,有个manager样的大
叔出来叫了几个号过去,有我的,心想估计就是被揪出来了,果不其然,理由人家不
care,说要不然那天来要不然reschedule,估计一般的理由都不work。 感觉Boston这
个ASC人好多啊,人家这样管理也很正常。大家就不要去浪费时间啦,反正也不差这几
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l********w 发帖数: 67 | 10 Boston USCIS, not suceed. 本来门口的保安帅哥让进了,不过他也问了不是今天
scheduled 为啥来,我说了着急要EAD续工作,他也就让进了,不过在一个登记的表上
把early给higlight了,态度还不错。可是等填完了表等着的时候,有个manager样的大
叔出来叫了几个号过去,有我的,心想估计就是被揪出来了,果不其然,理由人家不
care,说要不然那天来要不然reschedule,估计一般的理由都不work。 感觉Boston这
个ASC人好多啊,人家这样管理也很正常。大家就不要去浪费时间啦,反正也不差这几
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q***z 发帖数: 934 | 11 yes I have cxterm
Once I tried F*(forget what)
so that I can have pinyin input
but not suceed
who is yuguo?id?【 在 particular (对不起,我是绅士,呵呵) 的大作中提到: 】 |
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e*e 发帖数: 38 | 12 agree, the first SQ much better. he actually drop half
change with SA instead.
because when he put down SA at the beging, then the only
hope is both C "Shuang Fei succeed, that is, first Fei J",
then K, both have to succeed.
On the other hand, If SQ lost at the beging, he still have
same hope that C "Shuang Fei" both suceed. If SQ succeed,
even lost one when C "Shuang Fei", still make. |
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j***y 发帖数: 2074 | 14 yes, today i suceed with the labor of one hour and a half.
firstly use DOS6.2(6.22) to fdisk the hard drive, in this
process your c: drive is FAT(that is FAT16). then install
the cdrom driver and copy a file named "mscdex.exe" to c:
drive. after that, restart your computer from harddisk and
type winnt /b. everything will be ok. |
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m*****n 发帖数: 3575 | 15 Did you?
My mom and my other 3 relatives are western doctor/nurses.
But they haven't suceed in a single cold in my childhood.
Each time I recover in 2 weeks or it worsened to further infections. |
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c***p 发帖数: 2554 | 16 Good point, man. I just wonder when you have such idea?
Tell you something I know, in 2000, a local Black-white medical ultrasound
company in China was bought by a Medical Giant, and they start to develop laptop
ultrasound machine, like you said, this kind of machine can be used like
laptop without any AC power supply for couple of hours. They suceed in 2003-
2003, and that was their first generation of color laptop ultrasound machine
, then after that, they developed the second generation. The |
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P****0 发帖数: 366 | 17 Agreed.
Some better questions would be?
If being hired, what are some of the immediate needs or challengs that I
need to address in the first a couple of months?
What advices you would provide to someone being hired to be able to suceed
in your company?
Do you have any concerns and questions about my qualifications and
background for this posiiton? ( if the person mentioned his/her concerns, it
is a great opportunity for you to address his/her concerns) You can emphsis
that you are fast learner |
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S*****4 发帖数: 153 | 18 With such strong determination, You will suceed! Good luck with this year's
match!
IT |
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k**e 发帖数: 2728 | 19 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
Mcdoudou (laowu) 于 (Fri Sep 10 01:50:41 2010, 美东) 提到:
看这个版也有几年了,一直觉得这个版挺和谐,有很多有用的帖子。我一般不大记得住
ID, 能记住的有老刀,acne, teabao, Eric, 还有一个前版主(个人偶像:此人在IT
浪潮时下海做了码工,考板热时成功考板match, 不记得ID了,只记得他的头像是他女
儿,极cute)。不过最近有点乱,有英语语法癖 (个人很反感,尽量跳过,跳不过就
只好当吃苍蝇了),有26岁问自己是不是太老的(use you common sense, please),
这不又有99er考经是不是炫耀贴。平心而论,有些是有一些炫耀的意味在里面。不过呢
,一是有可能不经意的,二是不影响交流。现在可好,有人抱怨一下,有人砸,乱了套
了。现在我带头发一下我的非99er考经和不成功的match经历。
个人情况:male, 老CMG, (15+), Ph.D无绿卡。
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