W*******g
发帖数: 458 | 1 This reminds me about my dad. He is that type of person who loses his temper
a lot for very small things. My mom put up with him through all these years
, and now they seem to be happy together at this age, although my dad hasn't
change a bit but my mom seems to have gotten used to him after so many
years. Of course family and kids are the first priority in for her
generation. For my dad's case, you just never know when you pushed his
button and he would be all of sudden very angry.
To give my d... 阅读全帖 |
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i*********e
发帖数: 161 | 2 你这席话让我想起了我外公外婆。我外公是个脾气很急的人，但是很爱家人，对朋友也
很好。唯一的缺点就是一有气就会发到我外婆身上，对子女外甥孙子都从来没有打骂过
。我外婆是个很隐忍的传统女性，从来都会忍着，不会对着吵。后来我外婆去世了，我
外公消沉了整整三年才慢慢接受这个事实。他们那个年代的女性都是这样吧，隐忍，是
女性的美德。
如果我老公没有改变的话，我不会忍下去。我希望有个温暖的家庭，有老公疼，当然我
也会尽力去照顾她。不周到的地方，我也会改进，前提是互相尊重和关爱。
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s****x
发帖数: 683 | 3 这样的男的，随便去个好一点的学校，都能抓一把。
真正的优质男人根本就不花心，女人不把他逼到绝路上去，根本不需要花太多心思去想
怎么把他套住。
To define a good man， characters below远比你说的那些更令人信服。
Kind ,honest and empathy
Confident and hardworking, a man sets a goal and go for it with full
forces, he is not afraid of failures at all.
Faithful, reliable and responsible
Humble, generous and a peacemaker
Able to control his temper and willing to forgive
Never stops learning, stay positive
Have self-control |
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B**W
发帖数: 2273 | 4 You live on your own belief. What you think is good may or may not be
meaningful to others.
Plus, it is not about the quality of the food; it is about the feeling that
you have to/you must cook for the family. It is like you lose your freedom.
What if you must decorate all rooms in your family EVERYDAY? I bet you will
lose your temper at some point.
food
salad and sandwiches, go for these, you save time and have a healthy life |
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c**********d
发帖数: 389 | 5 As a working mom of two, my only suggestion is to let your lg take your kids
more. Maybe you don't think it was as good as your way of parenting - too
much TV, candy etc., but it is the only way to give you more time for
yourself, and for them to build a bond. Bonding between dad and kids needs
to be built, not like mom-kids. When he could feel the affection from kids
and then you, he would be more involved and things will look up. Be patient
.
Do not make him look like a bad tempered irresp... 阅读全帖 |
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r*********n
发帖数: 1166 | 6 冷战当然也是不对的。
冲对方发脾气，一方面是因为爱不到位，另一方面是因为没有意识到问题的严重性。
脾气有先天的因素，也有成长环境的因素，it is extremely hard to tame yourself.
己所不欲，勿施于人，first you need to realize how disastrous a bad temper
can be, then little by little, you can change yourself and attain
a peaceful mind.
什么 |
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c**********d
发帖数: 389 | 7 As a working mom of two, my only suggestion is to let your lg take your kids
more. Maybe you don't think it was as good as your way of parenting - too
much TV, candy etc., but it is the only way to give you more time for
yourself, and for them to build a bond. Bonding between dad and kids needs
to be built, not like mom-kids. When he could feel the affection from kids
and then you, he would be more involved and things will look up. Be patient
.
Do not make him look like a bad tempered irresp... 阅读全帖 |
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r*********n
发帖数: 1166 | 8 冷战当然也是不对的。
冲对方发脾气，一方面是因为爱不到位，另一方面是因为没有意识到问题的严重性。
脾气有先天的因素，也有成长环境的因素，it is extremely hard to tame yourself.
己所不欲，勿施于人，first you need to realize how disastrous a bad temper
can be, then little by little, you can change yourself and attain
a peaceful mind.
什么 |
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r*********n
发帖数: 1166 | 9 Some simple advices
Buy gifts for wife and speak nicely to her heart and tell her that the first
boy might be too sensitive, so she may need to treat him with extra caution.
Talk to the first boy and let him know that everyone has a temper, what she
did is not against him directly, blah blah
Think it over, ask around, ideas will come out, ... |
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L*******e
发帖数: 334 | 10 You wanted the second kid, which stresses him for the rest of his life,
which causes he lost his temper occasionally. Seems he got a worse deal than
you. |
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w*******r
发帖数: 1699 | 11 Q兄, 显然你女朋友没有安全感同时需要temper control training. 你和她好好谈谈,
温柔诚恳点, 别每天跟她说人生发展什么的, 家庭第一的准则对男人应该也是这样啊. |
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m***r
发帖数: 294 | 12 Violence is the bottom line. no matter what, in-law should not use violence.
everyone has a temper, fighting with word is bearable, but fighting with
violence is not allowable.
If the in-law cross the bottom line, you should fight back. I feel you still
love your wife and care about your family. That is reason you didn't call
policy. 'cause u know the in-law will be in jail for 3 days and you can
never make up with your wife. You did the right thing from your side. You
are a great man. The key t... 阅读全帖 |
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m*****t
发帖数: 4923 | 13 my hubby told my mom-in-law before I first met her: my wife has a short
temper; she is definitely not a push-over..
LOL....
Because of my hubby's words, my mom-in-law never wanted to fight or mess
with me.My hubby's concept is very correct and clear: he loves his parents,
but this is our own family. They can give advise, but we are the ones making
decision. Don't get me wrong I do treat my parents-in-law very nice. And my
hubby is a XIAO ZI indeed. these do NOT conflict.
If everybody gets hi... 阅读全帖 |
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r*******4
发帖数: 41 | 14 neither side is good, husband has temper issue, wife, a phd, never be
flexible, and raise the child based on book |
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r*******4
发帖数: 41 | 15 neither side is good, husband has temper issue, wife, a phd, never be
flexible, and raise the child based on book |
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C***1
发帖数: 2264 | 16 这个以前也帖过，LZ看看应该会有帮助。
TheBiggest Mistake People Make in Relationships : Not Truly Knowing And
Accepting Your Partner
Do you know your partner? I mean really know him/her? Can you be honest with
yourself about his limitations, or the ways in which he doesn't live up to
your idealized vision of what the perfect partner should be? Do you accept
him for who he is? the good and the bad stuff, or do you only want the parts
of him that you enjoy and benefit from?To be successful in love, especially
in lo... 阅读全帖 |
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h******9
发帖数: 61 | 17 I am busy and I consider I have good temper. Ho ho. I have full time job,
and I cook for myself all the time. Both of them are not good |
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m*****z
发帖数: 357 | 18 你这情商，这脾气，我昏倒了。。。
md我要是你lp我也跟你离
第一，男人要大度，你在你岳父岳母面前，天天对着你lp指手画脚的，人能高兴么？一
会儿这样一会儿那样，你倒是好心，我一个外人都觉得你嫌弃你lp。看你岳父岳母的话
，就知道你是个自己本事不大对家里人要求挺高的人，主意太多。人博后的lp比你lp幸
福。
第二，吵架的时候，学会退一步。每次都活上浇油的干活，白活那么大岁数了。人说你
怎么不打了你就打了？还911？没见过像你那么nb的啊。只要动过手，就够资格离。一
个男人这点temper control 都没有，loser。
第三，你给支票，不是我说，你敢说你开多少的支票么？裂缝本来就造成了不是支票能
弥补的，你都打了人家了还指望人家对你有希望？醒醒吧。再说，你要真心送他们出去
玩给人买东西什么的，不会送不出去的，你就嘴上提有个p用，你送的人家不稀罕看不
出来么？平时对人家不怎样，要走了送点钱，你这是打发穷亲戚呢？还支票，你开的支
票抵人一个月工资不？
综上，bs你这种我已经做这么好了lp还要跟我离婚的苦b男，你lp没外遇，看样子是很
优柔寡断心软的主，不是日子过不下去了不会这样的，一... 阅读全帖 |
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m*****z
发帖数: 357 | 19 你这情商，这脾气，我昏倒了。。。
md我要是你lp我也跟你离
第一，男人要大度，你在你岳父岳母面前，天天对着你lp指手画脚的，人能高兴么？一
会儿这样一会儿那样，你倒是好心，我一个外人都觉得你嫌弃你lp。看你岳父岳母的话
，就知道你是个自己本事不大对家里人要求挺高的人，主意太多。人博后的lp比你lp幸
福。
第二，吵架的时候，学会退一步。每次都活上浇油的干活，白活那么大岁数了。人说你
怎么不打了你就打了？还911？没见过像你那么nb的啊。只要动过手，就够资格离。一
个男人这点temper control 都没有，loser。
第三，你给支票，不是我说，你敢说你开多少的支票么？裂缝本来就造成了不是支票能
弥补的，你都打了人家了还指望人家对你有希望？醒醒吧。再说，你要真心送他们出去
玩给人买东西什么的，不会送不出去的，你就嘴上提有个p用，你送的人家不稀罕看不
出来么？平时对人家不怎样，要走了送点钱，你这是打发穷亲戚呢？还支票，你开的支
票抵人一个月工资不？
综上，bs你这种我已经做这么好了lp还要跟我离婚的苦b男，你lp没外遇，看样子是很
优柔寡断心软的主，不是日子过不下去了不会这样的，一... 阅读全帖 |
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k**o
发帖数: 15334 | 20 买tempered glass怎么不安全，跟挡风玻璃一样的，碎成圆球。
塑料的我不知道耐不耐高温，会不会变形哦。 |
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c*******y
发帖数: 89 | 21 看了这么久终于看完了……呼。
LZ mm真不容易，不是说你自己没有任何问题光受委屈了，而是这种寻求解决的态度，
真的很好。赞一个~
不像有些ID那么有经验，能说出很具体的建议来，比如foxtrot 和 lilyamao 的帖子都
让我觉得很受教育。不过看起来现在问题集中在几点上面：
1. 姐姐买票。
虽然公婆有需要理应帮忙，我也同意上面有ID说的八成是知道姐姐在那边有能力去买票
才要求这么高，但是还是觉得，他们以及老公是因为觉得有那个3万欠款的存在，才会
好意思请你姐姐这么麻烦去排队的。你家里爸爸不愿麻烦你们，那是他的体贴。但是请
相信的确，有的老人是不愿委屈自己的。尤其旅途长的时候——他们从北京到哪里？而
且我们现在说的是从美国回去北京，经过了一个20小时左右的trip之后，对老人来说很
疲惫，如果有可能，无论如何不想爬上铺了吧。
姐姐生日排队一天，的确有点郁闷。可是公婆也不知道这一点吧？
所以还是这样：如果你实在不愿意这样麻烦姐姐，就把钱还了，或者用你的私房钱给姐
姐。以后就在网上买票，然后说现在姐姐实在没法请假去排好多个小时买票了。请老公
的同学朋友帮忙。
2. 过分节省
我爸妈... 阅读全帖 |
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c*******y
发帖数: 89 | 22 看了这么久终于看完了……呼。
LZ mm真不容易，不是说你自己没有任何问题光受委屈了，而是这种寻求解决的态度，
真的很好。赞一个~
不像有些ID那么有经验，能说出很具体的建议来，比如foxtrot 和 lilyamao 的帖子都
让我觉得很受教育。不过看起来现在问题集中在几点上面：
1. 姐姐买票。
虽然公婆有需要理应帮忙，我也同意上面有ID说的八成是知道姐姐在那边有能力去买票
才要求这么高，但是还是觉得，他们以及老公是因为觉得有那个3万欠款的存在，才会
好意思请你姐姐这么麻烦去排队的。你家里爸爸不愿麻烦你们，那是他的体贴。但是请
相信的确，有的老人是不愿委屈自己的。尤其旅途长的时候——他们从北京到哪里？而
且我们现在说的是从美国回去北京，经过了一个20小时左右的trip之后，对老人来说很
疲惫，如果有可能，无论如何不想爬上铺了吧。
姐姐生日排队一天，的确有点郁闷。可是公婆也不知道这一点吧？
所以还是这样：如果你实在不愿意这样麻烦姐姐，就把钱还了，或者用你的私房钱给姐
姐。以后就在网上买票，然后说现在姐姐实在没法请假去排好多个小时买票了。请老公
的同学朋友帮忙。
2. 过分节省
我爸妈... 阅读全帖 |
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w********t
发帖数: 5586 | 23 LZ 老婆 behaved a little over. But still within the range.
But LZ think 老婆 smashed ipad 触及了他的 底线.. then LZ's 底线 seems too
tight.
Several times when i see kids overtied to ipads/tablet. I really want to
smash it.. even though after smashed the tablet i feel a little sorry for
this.
Overal, just calm down , have a nice talk and move on with it.
both side need to control temper. This is really not that big a deal. |
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h*******a
发帖数: 1372 | 24 第六天
Love Dare - Day 6
Choose to react to tough circumstances in your marriage in loving ways
instead of with irritation.
请选择用友爱的方式，而不是用怒火来应对婚姻中的礁石。
** 相关圣经启示
Pro 16:32 Better a patient man than a warrior, a man who controls his temper
than one who takes a city.
箴言16:32 不轻易发怒的、胜过勇士。治服己心的、强如取城。 |
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b******e
发帖数: 1074 | 25 mostly from heredity, my dad is like that， bad temper , hurtful words,
never improves. it's sad, very hard to change。 |
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m*****e
发帖数: 92 | 26 such trivial things, I just need a yes or no, some words, explanation, a
talk from her.
It drives me mad with no repsponse at all.
I did not yell in the beginning, why should I?
Her not talking must be inherited from last conflict/unhappiness.
However I had to speak out to express my opinion if something is wrong.
Gradually she was so annoyed when I opened my mouth
After long silence, sometimes she would say: I don't want to hear from you
any more.
I was already mad when it took so long to get s... 阅读全帖 |
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G***G
发帖数: 16778 | 27 but I think
the wife's softness is independant varible,
and the husband's ability is dependant varible.
A husband's ability depends on how gentle his wife's temper is.
A gentle wife in a house will help to increase a husband's ability. |
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I********e
发帖数: 6130 | 28 Some people are just hot-tempered, as simple as that. There's no deeper
reason than that. |
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E****A
发帖数: 376 | 29 is it？ I didn't mean it tho.
good news for lp if the man didn't develop a big temper |
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l*********7
发帖数: 84 | 31 各位XDJMs:
现在有以下家具出售：
1. 记忆床垫+床垫基座+床垫保护套+4年保修
Sealy mattress, queen size,light ivory/white color,full memory foam like
a chunk of cheese, size 8.0*59.5*79.5 Other items include queen foundation,
mattress protector, 4-year complete care by Art Van.Price: $400.00
2. 三人座，可拆卸，白色全绵布料沙发
Ikea fabric EKTORP sofa, white color. Seats 3 (Two colorful pillows for
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Ikea fabric EKTORP armchair, white color. (One white color pillow for
free)Price: $160.00
4. 6人座，白色磨沙玻璃餐桌
Ik... 阅读全帖 |
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e**r
发帖数: 111 | 33 第一次准备做ebiz，进了一批优质的智能返回键手机钢化膜，质量非常好。结果到货后
发现进货价格都竞争不过恶霸上的中国卖家卖价，有需求的朋友帮帮忙吧，多谢啦。
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 36 (1) Florence Fabricant, An Elegant Alternative to Peanut Butter (Hold the
Jam). New York Times, Mar 16, 2011.
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/03/16/dining
/16marcona.html?_r=1&scp=1&sq=almond%20butter&st=cse
Note:
(a) almond
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Almond
(native to the Middle East and South Asia; The Marcona variety of almond,
which is shorter, rounder, sweeter, and more delicate in texture than other
varieties, originated in Spain)
(b) canapé
(i) (n): "an appetizer consisting of a piece of br... 阅读全帖 |
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 39 (1) Try as I may, no English-language web pages ever say that S Japonicum
has sweet nectar. In fact, no Chinese-language web pages says so, either (
some say certain food prepared from the flower is sweet; some others are
rhapsodic in their proses).
Indeed it is not in
list of honey plants
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_honey_plants
, at least from Westerners' point of view. The genus Ziziphus (see next) does
appear in this list.
(2)
(a) 枣 in China means
jujube
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki... 阅读全帖 |
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c**i
发帖数: 6973 | 40 (1) Tran Cong Khanh, Styphnolobium japonicum (L.) Schott. PROSEA (Plant
Resources of South-East Asia) Foundation, Bogor, Indonesia.
http://proseanet.org/prosea/e-prosea_detail.php?frt=&id=459
Quote:
"Origin and geographic distribution Styphnolobium japonicum is native to
central and northern China and Korea, but now widely cultivated in temperate
and subtropical regions of the world, in South-East Asia at least in
Vietnam and Thailand.
"Source of This Article:
Tran Cong Khanh, 1999. Styphnolobiu... 阅读全帖 |
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s**n
发帖数: 6126 | 41 汤勾芡一下，稠一点，火开得小一点
目的就是不要让蛋液进水的时候马上煮熟结成大块
还有一个办法就是temper
打好的鸡蛋里面一点一点加热水，加一点打几下
让蛋液变稀
入水了之后就不会结成大块勒 |
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m**********2
发帖数: 6568 | 42 yes.
see "soup nazi".
for example, i cook well, but have a bad temper. |
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s**n
发帖数: 6126 | 43 光勾芡不够的，要temper鸡蛋
就是在打好的鸡蛋里面加少许滚水
然后接着打蛋
然后再加热水，再打蛋
目的就是让鸡蛋的温度慢慢升高，从而避免结块
等水加得差不多，蛋液够稀之后再倒入锅里，蛋就不会结块了 |
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s**n
发帖数: 6126 | 44 鸡蛋要temper
就是打好的鸡蛋里面，一勺勺慢慢加入煮开了的汤
每次加入汤后都搅匀，加个几大勺之后再倒入锅内，边倒边搅
出来的就是蛋花汤
这样鸡蛋是慢慢升温的，避免一下受热结成大块
还有汤先勾芡一下变成稠稠的也有帮助 |
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b*******t
发帖数: 33714 | 45 btw，原作后来也发现了不是sous vide本身的问题，是recipe时间
http://www.beyondsalmon.com/2011/06/sous-vide-experiment-temper
Helen said...
The issue is not with sous-vide technique in general, as with somewhat
misleading advice that you can't overcook things using this method. Here is
my follow up post explaining the issue.
A few minutes don't really matter, but a few hours do. Your meat will still
look medium-rare and will get progressively softer, but less juicy as it
sits in the water bath.
Searing the meat first ... 阅读全帖 |
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l**a
发帖数: 12455 | 46 用玻璃锅盖，从来没裂过，都是这边买的，tempered glass锅盖，很结实 |
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V*****n
发帖数: 893 | 47 you might want to temper with listening angle (on or off axis) and room
treatment. carpets and curtains will absorb the high a bit. overall, I do
think the Uni-Q is a bit bright for my taste.
个后 |
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S**C
发帖数: 2964 | 48 http://www.slate.com/id/2245328/pagenum/all/
Basically, It's Over
A parable about how one nation came to financial ruin.
By Charles Munger
Posted Friday, Feb. 19, 2010, at 1:51 PM ET
In the early 1700s, Europeans discovered in the Pacific Ocean a large,
unpopulated island with a temperate climate, rich in all nature's bounty
except coal, oil, and natural gas. Reflecting its lack of civilization, they
named this island "Basicland."
The Europeans rapidly repopulated Basicland, creating a new natio |
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S**C
发帖数: 2964 | 49 I do not know so I paid these folks good money to figure it out.
EM bond IMHO is to get a tempered way to gain EM exposure, I do not treat it
as bond but equity.
Tim, since you own PFUIX I have a question for you. I know all PIMCO funds holdings are very convoluted and they used a lot of derivatives in order to generate extra returns, I could be wrong but they hold 50% US mortgage and corporate bonds according to Morningstar, but its prospectus says it will hold at least 80% that are economicall... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 690 | 50 Maybe you can make an appointment with local USCIS office to talk about it.
Go to uscis.gov to make an info pass appointment.
Probably they can give you a temperate ead card. |
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