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g********b
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这个的根本原因我觉得是fuel pump对杂质的tolerance。有的pump比较精密,对杂质敏
感,就需要网眼小的filter,这样filter容易堵,就要定期换;有的pump对杂质
tolerance比较好,就可以用网眼大点的filter,这样就不容易堵。
W***n
发帖数: 11530
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By Neward Thelman
on Feb/23/17
This is a review of the 2016 Toyota Camry SE, but since the 2017 models are
carried over unchanged, all comments should apply to 2017 models.
As of this writing, Toyota's been running ads which say that Toyota has
built the Camry with close attention to detail. "Tested, trusted, Toyota",
the ad says. As an owner of a 2016 Camry I can attest that the detail to
which they've devoted their corporate and engineering attention is toward
producing a car as cheaply as pos... 阅读全帖
p****x
发帖数: 980
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来自主题: Faculty版 - Analyzing 9/11 and Conflicts and Wars
I was just curious of faculty's opinions and responses to 9/11 ...
Yesterday was the 10th anniversary of 9/11 . This video clip analyzed the
9/11 event and the conflicts and wars worldwide...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CsGvtxwwJS0&feature=share
Religious reconciliation is critical to world peace. The key to that is
interpretation of God's plan and tolerance of differences.Misinterpretation
of the true meaning of religion causes conflicts with not only people of
different religions but also... 阅读全帖
R*******t
发帖数: 574
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来自主题: Faculty版 - 女教师
这样的话,对那个女faculty也太不公平了,占个位子别人都认为其实是不qualified,
那平时有多少support呢?就拿人当diversity的分子了。等到时候凭tenure,一下子把
人踹走,辛苦若干年,一场空。
前面有人给的链接后面有个评论不错。
他自己的经验就是,人们对男的平庸的tolerance高,所以最终男的比例很高。而女的
除非是特别优秀的,让人实在没话说,稍微平庸一点的就被淘汰掉了。
http://www.nytimes.com/2013/10/06/magazine/why-are-there-still-
denverandy
denver, co
NYT Pick
Some thoughts here -
I'm an MIT graduate, late 1980s, male. EECS (Electrical Engineering and
Computer Science) was close to 90% male. I remember a female student (
attractive, friendly) who to... 阅读全帖
L***s
发帖数: 9258
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来自主题: Faculty版 - 一篇文章出事了
我跟我的学生说:I may tolerate a bad paper, but I cannot tolerate a faked
one.
作假立马走人。
S***n
发帖数: 102
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来自主题: Faculty版 - [BSSD] 对改课一事的一些感想
I am sorry that your holidays were ruined by this incident (HR would call it
if you were to file a complaint). I would first ask if the class schedules
for next fall were first announced by your university and checked by faculty
members before finalization (by your department head- DH). If yes and you
missed the chance to choose your time slot, then you would have to bear some
responsibilities when you have to reschedule your class. If not, then your
DH should consult with faculty members. In fa... 阅读全帖
m********g
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来自主题: Family版 - 被公公打了,婆婆火上浇油
I see many family violence victims are in really bad situations and agree
the zero-tolerance policy is applicable to those serious situations. However
, should family violence be treated differently according to the extents of
the violence? Too many examples that women abused or were instigated to
abuse the zero-tolerance policy which leaded to adverse consequences for
both parties.
p********a
发帖数: 6437
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来自主题: Investment版 - 手上有十几万美元要闲置半年
also
EURUSD to 1.6 again? will Europe tolerate that? or can it tolerate that?
and USDJPY drop to where? Japs are enjoying nuclear now, and therefore JPY
will rise to historical higher high?
so China, Jap, Euro, all 3 major parts of Non-US world seem cannot go on
with it, or can they?
especially China is the major drive for the world economy (so called).
w****n
发帖数: 1737
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来自主题: Investment版 - 手上有十几万美元要闲置半年
我晕,居然被说不懂Fixed Income.白混这么多年啦。 回答你问题之前先讲一个故事。
一修女搭上神父的车,神父禁不住伸手摸修女雪白大腿,修女问:神父,你记得圣经
129条写着什么吗?神父脸红急忙收手,回到教堂后迫不及待翻开圣经第129条,见上面
写到:深入一点,你将得到无尽的荣耀,神父大呼:上帝呀,业务不熟将失去多少机会
呀. 我这里也要大呼, 你们对fixed income了解不透彻略懂皮毛会失去都少投资机会
啊。。
首先经济金融里,没有稳赚不赔的。high risk high return是金杯玉律。如果这个还
不明白,应该去恶补基本常识。 即使是CD也不是稳赚不赔的, 因为你只
算你拿到那么1%利率,你的成本呢?你的real return after inflation 难道不是
negative?你这实际上是稳赔不赚的。如果你要找一个投资方式,能像CD/cash那么保
险,又能比较高的return,那对不起,理论上不存在。 实际中也许有,但是这种
arbitrage的机会稍纵即逝,很快就被taken and cover up.
投资既然没有稳赚不赔,那只能找到风险和收益... 阅读全帖
b**e
发帖数: 88
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来自主题: Investment版 - 求推荐几个fidelity长期的投资产品
Moderate Risk Portfolio
40% S&P 500, iShare IVV or Fidelity FUSEX/FSGDX ($10k+)
30% SmallCap, iShare IJR (preferred because it uses S&P 600 index, which
performs better than other SmallCap index historically) or Fidelity FSSPX/
FSSVX.
30% International Large Cap, ishare IXUS, or Fidelity FSGUX/FSGDX ($10k+)
High Risk Portfolio that I can tolerate
25% S&P 500
25% S&P SmallCap 600
25% Developed Market Large Cap, iShare IEFA or Fidelity FSIIX/FSIVX
25% Emerging Market,iShare IEMG
If you can tolerat... 阅读全帖
b**e
发帖数: 88
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来自主题: Investment版 - 求推荐几个fidelity长期的投资产品
Moderate Risk Portfolio
40% S&P 500, iShare IVV or Fidelity FUSEX/FSGDX ($10k+)
30% SmallCap, iShare IJR (preferred because it uses S&P 600 index, which
performs better than other SmallCap index historically) or Fidelity FSSPX/
FSSVX.
30% International Large Cap, ishare IXUS, or Fidelity FSGUX/FSGDX ($10k+)
High Risk Portfolio that I can tolerate
25% S&P 500
25% S&P SmallCap 600
25% Developed Market Large Cap, iShare IEFA or Fidelity FSIIX/FSIVX
25% Emerging Market,iShare IEMG
If you can tolerat... 阅读全帖
D*****t
发帖数: 558
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来自主题: Investment版 - 401K 选择分配 请教
most people have two components in their retirement plans: stocks (or sstock
funds/ets) and bonds (or bond funds/etf). so the key question is: how much
do i put into stocks and how much bonds? Two ways to answer this question.
first one is a simple but kinda mechanical one: say you are 30 then you
allocate 30% to bonds. rest is stocks.
2nd one is based on your risk tolerance. Twice during the past 15 yrs or so,
stock market lost ~60% of its value at some point. if history is bound to
repeat itse... 阅读全帖
M********r
发帖数: 278
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来自主题: Investment版 - 熊市要抛mutual fund买bond吗?
target 2045 is designed to meet the needs of those who will retire in 30 yrs
. its risk profile as determined by equity/fixed income ratio matches the
risk tolerance of people with a very long time horizon. and as you are
closer to your target retirement age, it will adjust its holdings to reflect
lower risk tolerance. as such target retiremnt funds are the ultimate buy
and hold vehicle. assuming you made the correct decision in the first place
to make 2045 as your sole retirement investment, th... 阅读全帖
l*******d
发帖数: 572
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来自主题: JobHunting版 - mechanical engineering position
To whom it may concern,
Our company has several openings for mechanical engineers at different
levels. The requirement is listed here. If you are qualified at least three
of them, please send me a message in mitbbs with a breif introduction of the
skills you have and work experience.
We are in TX.
Thanks,
lightwind
5 -7 years experience in mechanical/electro-mechanical design using
SolidWorks mechanical design software tools.
Experience with geometric dimensioning and tolerancing of componen... 阅读全帖
t****t
发帖数: 6806
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来自主题: JobHunting版 - 新鲜出炉的Broadcom电话面试题
Q1:
wait for n-th bit to become 1 (by hardware or other thread).
problem: should make p point to volatile, otherwise may go deadloop.
multiple evaluation of (1< if atomic is supported, better use atomic. polling efficiency is low, but
this depends on situation, for example in firmware, or in spinlock, this is
quite ok. if it is used to for multithreads, you may want to use thread
communication functions instead.
Q2: test whether a is 2^n. if tha... 阅读全帖
t****t
发帖数: 6806
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来自主题: JobHunting版 - 新鲜出炉的Broadcom电话面试题
Q1:
wait for n-th bit to become 1 (by hardware or other thread).
problem: should make p point to volatile, otherwise may go deadloop.
multiple evaluation of (1< if atomic is supported, better use atomic. polling efficiency is low, but
this depends on situation, for example in firmware, or in spinlock, this is
quite ok. if it is used to for multithreads, you may want to use thread
communication functions instead.
Q2: test whether a is 2^n. if tha... 阅读全帖
r*****l
发帖数: 457
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来自主题: JobHunting版 - Job opportunity_plant breeding
Job Description
Discovery Corn Pathology Breeder - Galena, MD-006G3
Description
Monsanto is seeking highly a motivated individual to become an integral
member of a multidisciplinary breeding team. The Discovery Breeder is
responsible for the development of improved inbred lines with a focus on
improved disease tolerance. Additional responsibilities include: planning
and visiting winter nurseries as well as the recruitment, training,
development and retention of personnel, budget management, ca... 阅读全帖
x*****0
发帖数: 452
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根据Loki的建议,重写了代码。现在将能够容忍的重复次数作为参数。如下:
int getNextElement(int *data, int len, int start, int curElem)
{
for(; (start < len) && (data[start]==curElem); start++)
{
}

return start;
}
int removeDuplicatesUtil(int *data, int len, int tolerance)
{
int count = 0;
int nextBeg = 0;
for (int curBeg = 0; curBeg < len; curBeg=nextBeg)
{
nextBeg = getNextElement(data, len, curBeg+1, data[curBeg]);
int curEnd = min(curBeg+tolerance, nextBeg);

... 阅读全帖
p*****3
发帖数: 488
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a + p用dynamoDB做例子比较好的感觉。
另外2pc不就是保证strong consistency而设计的吗,虽然会有commite失败的情况。感
觉paxos就是2pc的一个基于quorum的松散的实现,所以是partition tolerant.
DynamocDB为了保证任何时候可写,没有采用像paxos这样的大多数投票决策是否写的机
制,所以是high available和partition tolerant,但是不consistent
c***z
发帖数: 6348
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【 以下文字转载自 DataSciences 讨论区 】
发信人: chaoz (面朝大海,吃碗凉皮), 信区: DataSciences
标 题: OCR job from recruiter - it is interesting but I can't do it, yet
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jun 20 12:25:07 2014, 美东)
If you would be interested please let me know at h******[email protected] as
early as possible.
Job Title: position for Data Scientist for Machine Learning and Natural
Language Processing Experience
Company: BITS
Task 1: Extend NIST Scientific Text Extraction System
Description of Tasks
I. Implement distributed... 阅读全帖

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Title:Lead Software Engineer--Big data server
Work type: full time
Location: San Mateo, CA
Base salary: 150K+stock option (近两年将可能上市)
Job Description
Build smart, scalable systems, high throughput, low latency systems like
Adservers. Work with top notch engineers and contribute to design,
implementation and code reviews. Write APIs for Campaign Management and
Reporting in Java. Write SQL queries and optimization. Follow REST standards
for building new APIs using open source frameworks like Spring... 阅读全帖

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来自主题: JobHunting版 - Hiring Lead Big Data Engineer, Graph Team
Title: Lead Big Data Server Engineer, Graph Team
Work type: FULL-TIME
Location: San Mateo, CA
Salary: 160k+ Stock option+ bonus
Build smart, scalable systems, high throughput, low latency systems like
Adservers. Work with top notch engineers and contribute to design,
implementation and code reviews. Write APIs for Campaign Management and
Reporting in Java. Write SQL queries and optimization. Follow REST standards
for building new APIs using open source frameworks like Spring and
Hibernate. Have ... 阅读全帖
r*****s
发帖数: 1815
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来自主题: JobHunting版 - fb设计题
#1 QPS:
Probably 10k~100k concurrent access (my guess)
Meaning we need to heavily cache the data. We may need some write through
cache in place. Well sharded.
resource wise, I'm not worried at all. for cache https://redis.io/topics/
benchmarks) redis can be super fast. for persistency with nosql we can
achieve almost infinite scalability.
our system should provide the following APIs:
- Like(user, post)
- Unlike(user, post)
- Liked(user, post)
- CountLikes(post)
Extra:
- RecentLikes(user)
- Frie... 阅读全帖
l*******d
发帖数: 572
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来自主题: JobMarket版 - mechanical engineer position
To whom it may concern,
Our company has several openings for mechanical engineers at different
levels. The requirement is listed here. If you are qualified at least three
of them, please send me a message in mitbbs with a breif introduction of the
skills you have and work experience.
We are in TX.
Thanks,
lightwind
5 -7 years experience in mechanical/electro-mechanical design using
SolidWorks mechanical design software tools.
Experience with geometric dimensioning and tolerancing of componen... 阅读全帖
k*******y
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****申请者必须有8年以上medical device experience in ISO 13485 environment****
请直接发送简历至e********[email protected]
Principal Mechanical Engineer
Globalink Manufacturing Solutions (GMS) is a contract manufacturer that
assists clients in North American and Western European Countries with
development and manufacture of custom products and components providing
complete manufacturing solutions. A recent emphasis is being placed on
assisting more Medical Device organizations with their manufacturing needs.
Job ... 阅读全帖
l**t
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We’re searching some talents for follow positions from MNC R&D Center based
in Beijing China. Please contact l**[email protected] or changlijie-
1**[email protected] (MSN) for details if you are interested in any one of them.
Job Summary:
Job I: Math Review Engineer (Orientation: Math + Programming)
Job II: Senior L3 Support Engineer
Job III: Architect
Job IV: Product Technical Architect I
Job V: Product Technical Architect II
Job VI: Engineering Manager/Senior Manager
JOB VII: Service Engineeri... 阅读全帖
m***y
发帖数: 14763
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Nah, it's still statistically accurate, in other words, correct within
tolerance of error. Of course, you guys got no tolerance of error when it
comes to your own house.
B***o
发帖数: 70
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来自主题: Living版 - 应该什么时候开始办贷款?
我也是刚知道这个
new GFE是不是长这个样子?
http://www.hud.gov/content/releases/goodfaithestimate.pdf
最后一页说明,列举了哪些可以有0 tolerance,10% tolerance
我的问题是,我的律师对于需要他确认的数字,比如 title insurance,推卸责任,说
什么不确定的p话。
有什么办法可以自己查一些相关数字么?
m***y
发帖数: 14763
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Statistically right, you know, within tolerance of error. It's not their
fault that you have low or no tolerance.
g*o
发帖数: 145
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If you care to tolerate a little criticism, which I think it will ultimately
help you to get some respect down the road, read my feed back:
Not bad an agent; you are pretty bad and asked for too much! He/she just
does not want to tolerate people like you.
Who said TV and refrigerator are part of the deal? If you feel their
property does not worth the asking price, counter offer!
As you said, the old people are nice. So you want the nice people to give
you a free TV and refrigerator? You trea... 阅读全帖
l*e
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抄一段给你参考一下
Using the fireplace as a benchmark, the inspector used a digital water level
to determine if the slab is level to within tolerances by taking
measurements at each exterior wall of most rooms. In relation to the area
near the baseline, the following heights were found:
a. Breakfast room at rear elevation is 7/10” lower
b. Left elevation is 6/10” lower
c. Front left elevation, diningroom, is 5/10” lower
d. Front right elevation, office, is 5/10” lower
e. Rear elevation, master bedroom is... 阅读全帖
c***t
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12月份又作了一次inspection 这次屋内地面海拔高度差别达到了2.1 inches。7个月内
增加了0.7 inches,是不是有点快啊?
inspector说不用修,只要正确浇水
——————————————————————————————————————
dallas,1997年的2-story house
2012年5月做的foundation evaluation,简单说就是有一些minimal distress,屋内地
面海拔高度在55 feet距离内有1.4 inches的差别。
Exterior distress was observed as follows:
1. Minimal exterior distress, caulk separation on front right second floor
window.
Interior distress was observed as follows:
1. Tile cracks in the entry hall.
2. Up right bath door rubs frame.
Elevation ... 阅读全帖
f*1
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来自主题: Living版 - 决定种草,现在可以开始吗?
I was hoping to get some information from you to provide a more specific
answer. Anyhow, here is what you need to consider.
There is general consensus about the best time to lay sod: when the grass is
actively growing. For warm season grasses, it is generally late spring/
early summer, and for cold season grasses, it is generally fall or spring.
Note this is the ‘best’ time, not the ‘only’ time to lay sod.
There is no consensus about laying sod in the winter. Some (1) say you can
lay sod whe... 阅读全帖
c**s
发帖数: 771
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Then you worried too much.
I assume that your glucose measurements are on empty stomach, preferablly
fasted for overnight.Otherwise, they are meaningless since blood glucose level
changes a lot and so fast in human body.Yours are in normal range.
However,if you worried so much about your glucose, a much sensitive way is
to do a 2h glucose tolerance test. Naturally, people will get high glucose
after eating, the glucose could be several times higher than normal. However, the high glucose level sh... 阅读全帖
l*h
发帖数: 4124
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No, this cannot be diagnosed as impaired glucose tolerance (prediabetes).
the role of insulin levels in diabetes care is up to debate. there is no
clear answer to what it means at this time.
your dad's doctors are making up things.
for diagnosing diabetes, in additions to fasting glucose and oral glucose
tolerance, Hb A1c should be tested. this is according to the current
guidelines (2010 edition).
d*w
发帖数: 384
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where was the pathology read? i don't trust pathology reports from China,
even the biggest hospitals, much. someone wanted me to have a look of his
case, and the path report said predominantly solid, but the only picture on
the report was predominantly micropapillary to me. i asked the blocks to be
sent to a pathologist i work with, and it was confirmed as predominantly
micropapillary. it was from one of the biggest hospitals.
your mom's case is a little difficult to give a consensus recommendat... 阅读全帖
D*******y
发帖数: 189
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Thanks again for your helpful reply.
1. does she have access to low dose CTI will say no. if yes, then it makes
observation 
more comfortable.
I am going to say yes though I don't know what dose is regarded as low dose
for CT. She does have access to a hospital with lousy doctors but with 5
different CT machines, all brand new. The oncologist here the US recommended
ct every 6 to 8 weeks but everybody in China thinks it is excessive and
wanted to do it every 6 months.
2. her age, we already... 阅读全帖
c**2
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I think DW is his typo.
Basically, HIGC and Vanilla are the product of this same company Incomm,
from the receipt which included purchase of multiple HIGC cards, company
found one or more HIGCs on that receipt were used to reload MyVanilla, so
they closed his MyVanilla. I don't know what Greendot has anything to do
with Incomm, but Greendot closes Go Bank account easily and frequently, and
independently, no need of any tips from Incomm. Only amex bluebird
tolerates this so far. Just like Amazo... 阅读全帖
R*****n
发帖数: 8658
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同学, 请仔细阅读
这个140得数值是在做glucous tolerence test时候得标准, 就是先喝乐一大杯(75)
糖水以后得标准
这个和我们平常吃饭是不一样得。。。
平常一般人用得是180得标准, 就是说餐后正常饮食后测得
这个问题我专门问乐营养师, 他说生乐孩子以后得6到12个星期以内可以random得测一
下, 餐后两个小时低于150就没问题
然后一般在6周到12周之间去做tolerence test

mmol/
m*******9
发帖数: 566
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lz,我想这个测试没错!这个叫one hour Glucose Tolerance test.如果这个没过,你
就要做一个3小时的glucose tolerance test了!那个3小时的是要空腹的,而且要在
lab里呆3小时,每个小时好像都要抽血的。 你可以问问ob ,你的这个一小时的数值是
多少?别担心,网上很多jms 这个一小时的没过,但3小时的都过了。还是仔细询问一
下医生比较好!平时就少吃点米饭,每顿饭都加块全麦的面包之类的。
d*******m
发帖数: 96
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 正流泪,大家劝劝我!
什么是小问题? 什么是原则问题?老公在老婆怀孕的时候打了她一下是小问题还是原
则问题? 大家都怀过小孩子,如果自己老公做了同等事情自己会怎么想? 这个是原则
问题。吵架归吵架,但决不能够动手。 zero tolerance!!! 如果有了一次就会有第二
次。 所以楼主要和老公表明立场,这个是zero tolerance。 我不是想劝楼主为此离婚
。 但这个原则问题一定要说清楚。 家也是要说道理的地方, 不是说我爱你,我也知
道你爱我,所以可以容忍大打出手, 可以容忍暴力。 在原则问题上一定要讲道理。
至于给不给妈妈1200一个月, 给有什么问题呢? 给多了吗? 在美国请一个月嫂要多
少钱? 更何况楼主的妈妈这么精心照顾她和宝宝。。。这个钱多了吗? 一点都不多。
说什么以后爸爸妈妈有事情可以照顾。。。大家心里想想人在美国父母在国内, 怎么
做到孝顺? 恐怕还是给钱比较实际吧。
i**********l
发帖数: 510
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - [bssd]婆婆说我花的每一分钱都是她的
it的 ID 还有 “不接受就离开”,真实反映出这个人的两元性思维。
瞧瞧it 的逻辑:
楼主又能工作挣钱,又比老公年龄小很多,婆婆本应该宠她,但在这种情况下婆婆还骂
她生来不干净,肯定是婆婆说的对了,原因可能是以前干过不干净的事。
我见过混蛋的人,很少见过这么混蛋的逻辑,混蛋的人。
不管it 是男的是女的,我肯定it和别人相处得很糟糕。ID是TOLERANCE,不知道跟别人
吵了多少架,心里怨恨多少人,才会选这样的ID
看这个TOLERANCE痛苦挣扎的样子,我觉得老天如果真有眼,应该早点把it收了去。
t***h
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IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA
SECOND APPELATE DISTRICT
DIVISION TWO
Wan (aka Winnie) Tin ) Case #: B222712
)
Plaintiff and Respondent, ) (Sup. Ct. No. CK71139)
v. )
Los Angeles County Superior Court )
)
In re Joshua Tin )
)
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tshch (大丈夫) 于 (Mon Nov 19 03:35:51 2012, 美东) 提到:
IN THE COURT OF APPEAL OF THE STATE OF CALIFORNIA
SECOND APPELATE DISTRICT
DIVISION TWO
Wan (aka Winnie) Tin ) Case #: B222712
)
Plaintiff and Respondent, ) (Sup. Ct. No. CK71139)
v. )
Los Angeles County Superior Court )
)
In re Joshua Tin )
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 三小时耐糖测试没过,求助!
孕28周GLUCOSE TOLERANCE 50 GM 1 HR 135
Component Your Value Standard Range
GLUCOSE 159 mg/dL <135 mg/dL
孕33周GLUCOSE TOLERANCE 100 GM 3 HR
Component Your Value Standard Range
GLUCOSE FASTING GTT 76 mg/dL 65-94 mg/dL
GLUCOSE 1 HOUR GTT 123 mg/dL <180 mg/dL
GLUCOSE 2 HOUR GTT 167 mg/dL <155 mg/dL
GLUCOSE 3 HOUR GTT 145 mg/dL <140 mg/dL
因为孕30周的时候医院漏测我的血样到孕33周补测才得知自己是糖妈妈,很担心控制饮
食是否已经来不及啦?要等34W+1D了才能参加营养师的课程。请教有经验的宝妈们看看
1. 现在需要做些什么?已经在网站上看了姐妹们分享的食谱,好像每个人的还稍不同?
2... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 写给northbeach
很无聊回一下
我从来没有混过什么黑道,我小时候生活的环境周围很乱,要很多street smart才能生
存。
我一直是都好学生,而且是校长会大会上谈我成功经验的(其实不是我的,就是安上我
的名字了,我
也坐在下面一边听“我事迹”一边学习“我经验”)的那种。
我觉得我不过是因为从小我父母比较放手,我自己很多事情都要自己解决。
比如,我就可以很看淡竞赛拿到奖,但是集训名额被别人顶替了的事情。我就自己去找
领队,本着成
就成,不成也争最大利益的心态。
我觉得现实社会就是很现实的,不能说,我没见过,我不喜欢,就否定存在不好现象,
为了自己不去
面对,就让别人和自己一样,什么0 tolerance。我们那么多正事要做,什么都0
tolerance,就
是自己给自己降低效率。
我昨天反的就是有人说pacmom的孩子是bully,她是bully帮凶。
我没有说她肯定不是,只是说没有证据表明,我帖子里面反复说,而且把bully定义找
出来。
我强调说,是正常的孩子之间争执升级造成动武的不能叫bully。要看看原因。
我不知道我说的哪里好像我黑道或者是“黑道”过来的。我不过是打过两次架。但是我
从来没有... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: Parenting版 - Bullying without end? ZZ
http://blogs.greatschools.org/greatschoolsblog/2010/10/bullying-that-ends-in-suicide.html
October 14, 2010
Jon Carmichael, age 13
Hope Witsell, age 13
Justin Aaberg, age 15
Asher Brown, age 13
Seth Walsh, age 13
Phoebe Prince, age 15
Billy Lucas, age 15
All of these children — from places like Houston; Tehachapi, Calif.; and
Rushkin, Fla. — killed themselves this year. Each was a victim of bullying,
or what is now called “bullicide.” Many of these teens were also victims
of anti-gay hate crimes.... 阅读全帖
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i think tv time is fine...it all depends on what the tv programming is. Don'
t throw the baby out with the bathwater.
Btw, tolerance (not toleration) would be what you meant.

quite
and
but
V*********o
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 三岁男孩被蒙校劝退,请指教
有的学校和老师对不守纪律的tolerance很低,但是对小孩的铁腕手段又不多。你的学校
就是。
你该给小孩换一个或者tolerance高的学校,或者老师比较铁腕的学校,小孩很快就听
老师指令了。还有,听指令这个和懂不懂英文没关系。

重要。小儿在学校challenged并不是由于语言,而是由于在家规矩教得不够。能否给推
荐点书呢?
e*****f
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来自主题: Parenting版 - 3岁半,裸体抗议权威。
cute.
Books say for behavior you can't tolerate, forbid it.
for behaviors you don't like but can tolerate, ignore him.
for behaviors you like, praise him
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