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m*******e
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在hk.yahoo.com上看到这个帖子还不错。(author: jellyfish)
Occupiers' unspoken real reason for their action:
1. We don't like mainlanders, and we don't want to be Chinese! well, it does
not sound good and may run the risk of being considered racists and the
westerners don't like this. So we don't say it.
2. We don't like being part of China; we want to be part of the UK like in
the good old days! If Ireland does not want to be part of the glory UK, we
do! Well, it seems a bit embarrassing to admit this, given ... 阅读全帖
o********t
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来自主题: Military版 - 这个对李博肉的评价太贴切了
The 12 Unspoken Rules For Being A Liberal
http://youngcons.com/the-12-unspoken-rules-for-being-a-liberal/
1) You justify your beliefs about yourself by your status as a liberal, not
your deeds. The most sexist liberal can think of himself as a feminist while
the greediest liberal can think of himself as generous. This is because
liberals define themselves as being compassionate, open minded, kind, pro-
science and intelligent not based on their actions or achievements, but
based on their ideolog... 阅读全帖
w***s
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源自风流寡妇,俺可以担当男声
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晚上非常没有出息的拿着OLIVE GARDEN的哭胖撑的五谜三道回来才发现斑
竹要俺先奔,想想有道理,就奔吧。可是实在吃的太饱,根本收不了腹,只好全程用手
推着唱下来。。。。男女声部俺都嚎了,不过女声部不熟又忘词,而且男女声部转换太
快,俺忙不过来。。。。悲摧的是伴奏是个加长版,后面俺是彻底乱了套,这就是个初
奔,要是有MM接招,俺一定好好准备。。。。
Die lustige Witwe · Merry Widow · lippen schweigen · Lips Stay Silent
Lyrics from waltz
风流寡妇(Die lustige Witwe)是弗朗兹·莱哈尔(Franz Lehár)一部三幕的轻歌剧。
于1905年12月30日在维也纳的维也纳剧院首演。歌剧长约80分钟。
此剧作品的经历 跌宕起伏 峰回路转, 颇令人唏嘘
剧情为:在某半岛一个虚构的小国庞特维特拉,一位年轻的伯爵丹尼洛欲娶美丽的少女
汉娜为妻,但遭到家庭的反对。他伤心地离家出走,以... 阅读全帖
w***s
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Die lustige Witwe · Merry Widow · lippen schweigen · Lips Stay Silent
Lyrics from waltz
风流寡妇(Die lustige Witwe)是弗朗兹·莱哈尔(Franz Lehár)一部三幕的轻歌剧。
于1905年12月30日在维也纳的维也纳剧院首演。歌剧长约80分钟。
此剧作品的经历 跌宕起伏 峰回路转, 颇令人唏嘘
剧情为:在某半岛一个虚构的小国庞特维特拉,一位年轻的伯爵丹尼洛欲娶美丽的少女
汉娜为妻,但遭到家庭的反对。他伤心地离家出走,以驻法大使馆参赞的身分来到巴黎
。汉娜怨恨丹尼洛的优柔寡断,为失去爱情而深感痛苦。不久,汉娜为家庭所迫,与年
迈的银行家成婚。新婚数日,银行家去世。汉娜继承大批遗产后来到巴黎,以财产和美
貌征服巴黎的上流社会,成为许多花花公子竞相角逐的对象。为避免使汉娜拥有的巨大
资产流入外国,庞特维特拉政府密令驻巴黎大使馆物色一侨居法国的本国青年求娶汉娜
。大使派丹尼洛充当此任。汉娜愿与丹尼洛重续旧好,而丹尼洛对汉娜与富翁成亲之事
耿耿于怀, 整日郁郁不乐,借酒浇愁。 但他终于抑制... 阅读全帖
w***s
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源自风流寡妇,俺可以担当男声
-----------------------------------------
晚上非常没有出息的拿着OLIVE GARDEN的哭胖撑的五谜三道回来才发现斑
竹要俺先奔,想想有道理,就奔吧。可是实在吃的太饱,根本收不了腹,只好全程用手
推着唱下来。。。。男女声部俺都嚎了,不过女声部不熟又忘词,而且男女声部转换太
快,俺忙不过来。。。。悲摧的是伴奏是个加长版,后面俺是彻底乱了套,这就是个初
奔,要是有MM接招,俺一定好好准备。。。。
Die lustige Witwe · Merry Widow · lippen schweigen · Lips Stay Silent
Lyrics from waltz
风流寡妇(Die lustige Witwe)是弗朗兹·莱哈尔(Franz Lehár)一部三幕的轻歌剧。
于1905年12月30日在维也纳的维也纳剧院首演。歌剧长约80分钟。
此剧作品的经历 跌宕起伏 峰回路转, 颇令人唏嘘
剧情为:在某半岛一个虚构的小国庞特维特拉,一位年轻的伯爵丹尼洛欲娶美丽的少女
汉娜为妻,但遭到家庭的反对。他伤心地离家出走,以... 阅读全帖
w***s
发帖数: 2658
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Die lustige Witwe · Merry Widow · lippen schweigen · Lips Stay Silent
Lyrics from waltz
风流寡妇(Die lustige Witwe)是弗朗兹·莱哈尔(Franz Lehár)一部三幕的轻歌剧。
于1905年12月30日在维也纳的维也纳剧院首演。歌剧长约80分钟。
此剧作品的经历 跌宕起伏 峰回路转, 颇令人唏嘘
剧情为:在某半岛一个虚构的小国庞特维特拉,一位年轻的伯爵丹尼洛欲娶美丽的少女
汉娜为妻,但遭到家庭的反对。他伤心地离家出走,以驻法大使馆参赞的身分来到巴黎
。汉娜怨恨丹尼洛的优柔寡断,为失去爱情而深感痛苦。不久,汉娜为家庭所迫,与年
迈的银行家成婚。新婚数日,银行家去世。汉娜继承大批遗产后来到巴黎,以财产和美
貌征服巴黎的上流社会,成为许多花花公子竞相角逐的对象。为避免使汉娜拥有的巨大
资产流入外国,庞特维特拉政府密令驻巴黎大使馆物色一侨居法国的本国青年求娶汉娜
。大使派丹尼洛充当此任。汉娜愿与丹尼洛重续旧好,而丹尼洛对汉娜与富翁成亲之事
耿耿于怀, 整日郁郁不乐,借酒浇愁。 但他终于抑制... 阅读全帖
p****y
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来自主题: ChinaNews版 - To Save Our Economy, Ditch Taiwan
http://www.nytimes.com/2011/11/11/opinion/to-save-our-economy-d
tml?_r=1&hp
WITH a single bold act, President Obama could correct the country’s course,
help assure his re-election, and preserve our children’s future.
He needs to redefine America’s mindset about national security away from th
e old defense mentality that American power derives predominantly from our m
ilitary might, rather than from the strength, agility and competitiveness of
our economy. He should make it clear that today Ameri... 阅读全帖
c***s
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麻萨诸塞州的卫斯利高中(Wellesley High School)是一所公立中学,是麻省最好的公立高中之一,2014年在该州排名第四。著名的卫斯理女子学院就在附近,校友包括宋美龄、冰心和希拉里?克林顿等。
演讲者David McCullough Jr是普利策奖得主及知名历史学家David McCullough之子,也是卫斯里高中资深英语教师。演讲12分钟,Youtube上被称网友赞为“最伟大的高中演讲”。
双语演讲全文
Dr. Wong, Dr. Keough, Mrs. Novogroski, Ms. Curran, members of the board of education, family and friends of the graduates, ladies and gentlemen of the Wellesley High School class of 2012, for the privilege of speaking to you this afternoon, I am honored and grateful. Thank you。
王博士、Keou... 阅读全帖
l******l
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来自主题: History版 - 我读长征 --- 综述类 I
要想瞧不起人,得有瞧不起人的本钱.
父母下放在干校时结识了不少当事人。余耳濡目染多年。交流的unspoken rule就是:
不会大嘴巴,尤其在这种事情上。
即使到今天,党史研究仞然很多禁区,雷区,敏感区。(你先弄懂这三者的差别?)
一方面,中共挡案管理的一灌风格是不让你知道,1)是否有这件事/人存在,2)这件事
结果起因。80年代的时候几大报刊都在抱怨不管什么都是秘密。
另外一方面,有关负面形象的,hehe
不是体制内的人,如果连接触到核心档案的机会都没有,也没有体制内的人物领路,这
种研究估计也就玩玩无关痛痒的考据。
能把军事博物馆馆长当成神,你大概连体制的边都没摸到。
感觉好是你自己的事。
搞到象温相那种出来给叶帅背书私生活清白,被捧脚的人家不愿领情,知道的看笑话,
那才是真正的丢人。
现在当事人也凋零的差不多了。档案管理还是老路。看你也象用了不少心思。算给你一
个忠告:有些事情不知道更好。你没戏。
c****g
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来自主题: Military版 - cctv的这个主持人挺漂亮的
being unspoken ruled?
w*********s
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Is Japan's Elite Hiding A Weapons
Program Inside Nuclear Plants?
By Yoichi Shimatsu
4-6-11
Confused and often conflicting reports out of Fukushima 1 nuclear plant
cannot be solely the result of tsunami-caused breakdowns, bungling or
miscommunication. Inexplicable delays and half-baked explanations from Tokyo
Electric Power Company (TEPCO) and the Ministry of Economy, Trade and
Industry (METI) seem to be driven by some unspoken factor.
The smoke and mirrors at Fukushima 1 seem to obscure a steady... 阅读全帖
c**i
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来自主题: Military版 - US, Japan Stands Still on Bases
American forces in Japan | Another Lost Year; Some unspoken truths about
Japan’s security relationship with America. Economist, May 26, 2011
http://www.economist.com/node/18745323
t******t
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【 以下文字转载自 Biology 讨论区 】
发信人: ttd (oldcat), 信区: Biology
标 题: 信不信由你: we can not rely on most of published data
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Sep 6 14:46:08 2011, 美东)
An unspoken rule among early-stage venture capital firms that “at least 50%
of published studies, even those in top-tier academic journals, can't be
repeated with the same conclusions by an industrial lab” has been recently
reported (see Further information) and discussed.
From:
Nature Reviews Drug Discovery
Believe it or not: how much can we... 阅读全帖
g**1
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http://www.nytimes.com/2011/11/11/opinion/to-save-our-economy-d
To Save Our Economy, Ditch Taiwan
By PAUL V. KANE
Published: November 10, 2011
WITH a single bold act, President Obama could correct the country’s course,
help assure his re-election, and preserve our children’s future.
He needs to redefine America’s mindset about national security away from
the old defense mentality that American power derives predominantly from our
military might, rather than from the strength, agility and competi... 阅读全帖
o**n
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看了一个美国人的说法,不知真假
The more I learn about Indian society, the more it seems like there is an
explicit and ongoing system of discrimination going on between castes, even
outside India - in Silicon Valley, I have seen Indians try to only hire
other Indians in the same caste, or forbid marriages between two otherwise
very progressive young people from different castes. It seems to pervade
many aspects of their lives. Yet, when you talk to them about India or
Indian culture, they rarely volunteer inf... 阅读全帖
w******g
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【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: willhung (黄威廉), 信区: USANews
标 题: 4chan and Reddit bombarded debate polls
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Sep 27 17:21:03 2016, 美东)
4chan and Reddit bombarded debate polls to declare Trump the winner
www.dailydot.com/layer8/trump-clinton-debate-online-polls-4chan-the-donald/
There’s an unspoken rule of the internet: Never trust online polls. They’
re too easily corruptible.
4chan, the notorious message board, has a long history of botting online
competitions. In 2009, users floo... 阅读全帖
z****g
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来自主题: Military版 - 英语好的进来讨论一下 奇文
看到一篇文章,说的虽然和土鳖国毫无关系,而是说的我帝的公司,但是如果知道土鳖
国情况的,对比一下,妈的太吓人了。这人有才。小黄人就没有人能写这样的文章,就
算是王沪宁你拿枪指着他,他也写不出来。哀叹买提为什么没有highlight功能。这里
面至少一半的句子值得highlight后再细细品味。
Fascism
The dual opposite of a republic would be a society where the governed must
compete, merely to survive. Meanwhile, the powerful are immune to challenge
from below. There is only one political party and it will always be that way
. Those with power have no responsibilities to those below them, because
power is subject to no appeal but itself.
T... 阅读全帖
b*********3
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Of course it is and trade wars have inertia. As for the Chinese they have
already replaced most dependency on US products so they can afford to be
magnanimous. They know they have Trump pinned down.
The unspoken part of the trade deal has already been set.
Trump had no choice. US businesses were going to cut his balls off. Trump
polls are dropping for his mishandling of the economy as reported by CNBC.
Markets are moving because for the most part, China and the US have agreed
on IP safeguards. T... 阅读全帖
b*********3
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来自主题: Military版 - 抄底A股成功,哈哈
Of course it is and trade wars have inertia. As for the Chinese they have
already replaced most dependency on US products so they can afford to be
magnanimous. They know they have Trump pinned down.
The unspoken part of the trade deal has already been set.
Trump had no choice. US businesses were going to cut his balls off. Trump
polls are dropping for his mishandling of the economy as reported by CNBC.
Markets are moving because for the most part, China and the US have agreed
on IP safeguards. T... 阅读全帖
b*********3
发帖数: 1709
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Of course it is and trade wars have inertia. As for the Chinese they have
already replaced most dependency on US products so they can afford to be
magnanimous. They know they have Trump pinned down.
The unspoken part of the trade deal has already been set.
Trump had no choice. US businesses were going to cut his balls off. Trump
polls are dropping for his mishandling of the economy as reported by CNBC.
Markets are moving because for the most part, China and the US have agreed
on IP safeguards. T... 阅读全帖
v**e
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简氏防务周刊:中国SD-10A空空捣蛋采用主/被动双模式制导,威力比原来预想的更加
强大(英文)
作者:huitong 发表日期:2010-11-29
Jane's Defence Weekly
China's SD-10 claimed to be a dual-mode AAM.
Robert Hewson Jane's Air-Launched Weapons Editor - Zhuhai, China
China's SD-10 medium-range air-to-air missile (AAM), as exhibited at Airshow
China earlier in November, may be a considerably more capable weapon than
was hitherto believed, Jane's understands.
Officials from the SD-10's manufacturer, the Luoyang Electro-Optical
Technology Development Center... 阅读全帖
P***y
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来自主题: Military2版 - 【转】如何才能不去顾忌J-20
http://lt.cjdby.net/thread-1039755-1-3.html
如何才能不去顾忌J-20 原创翻译完工 Bill Sweetman 新博文和相关评论 更有深度
昨天翻译了一篇有关J-20的Bill Sweetman的博客和相关评论《成都的迷雾消散中》,
反应不错。
年底正好不忙,今天再翻译一篇他新的博文和评论,早上看过一遍,觉得更有深度。
首先是Bill Sweetman空间上的本人介绍,当然是业内专家。
他的看法可能比我们的一般专家贵宾要更有价值。
Bill Sweetman
Washington DC
About Me: Bill Sweetman is Editor in Chief of Defense Technology
International.
My Company/Organization: Aviation Week Group
My Job Function: Editor in Chief
My Areas of Expertise: Defense Media
My Areas of Interest: Advanced techno... 阅读全帖
l****z
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Our nation is being strangled with inconceivable, unconscionable, and
massive amounts of debt. Unrestrained political correctness runs amok among
us. Our Congressmen and women are buying and bribing reelection through out
of control “earmark” spending only to satisfy the pleasure and greed of
their local supporters. At the same time they are crafting for themselves
retirement plans that make them instant lifetime millionaires and exempting
themselves from a health care plan they are force feedin... 阅读全帖
l****z
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来自主题: USANews版 - The Left's Heart of Darkness
By Bruce Walker
On January 2, Alan Colmes on Fox News mocked presidential hopeful Rick
Santorum and Santorum's wife for bringing their critically ill newborn son,
Gabriel, into the world and then bringing him home. Gabriel died 16 years
ago, and Karen Santorum wrote a heartrending book, Letters to Gabriel, which
describes how the couple dealt with the grief of his death. Mother Teresa
wrote the foreword for the book.
Although Colmes has quickly retreated from his remarks, his crudeness shows
h... 阅读全帖
T**********e
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这篇时代记者在hair force one的跟踪采访全面揭示了床铺的选举技巧,和给对手起外
号的深刻思考。辩论他老没在台上meltdown,今天全是他的报道,任务完成。
Trump:“The key word is covering.”
When he flips to Fox News, Trump notices a caption that sums up everything:
“News outlets around the world are covering Trump.” Turning to me on the
sofa, he gestures at the screen and remarks with satisfaction, “The key
word is covering.”
So much exposure comes at a price. As he watches, Trump maintains a quiet
but constant critique of “dishonest” and “inaccurate” statements. H... 阅读全帖
b*****d
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来自主题: USANews版 - 专家急了:No, Not Trump, Not Ever
No, Not Trump, Not Ever
David Brooks
David Brooks MARCH 18, 2016
The voters have spoken.
In convincing fashion, Republican voters seem to be selecting Donald Trump
as their nominee. And in a democracy, victory has legitimacy to it. Voters
are rarely wise but are usually sensible. They understand their own problems
. And so deference is generally paid to the candidate who wins.
And deference is being paid. Gov. Rick Scott of Florida is urging
Republicans to coalesce around Trump. Pundits are comi... 阅读全帖
g****e
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来自主题: USANews版 - John Miller
I guess this is why Romney so blatantly calling trump a phony... they must'
ve known too many unspoken truth, even dirty secrets, of him from his past
practice.
look at the main stream media, they've been waiting for too long and now its
all coming at him. somebody said that MSM had been too nice to trump and it
was actually correct.
this is hilarious... John Miller is likely just the beginning. let's see how
this will end up with.
p********r
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The one great service of Donald Trump's extended peregrinations on
immigration policy is to have demonstrated how, in the end, there's only one
place to go.
You can rail for a year about the squishy soft, weak-kneed and stupid
politicians who have opened our borders to the wretched refuse of Mexico.
You can promise to round them up -- the refuse, that is, not the politicians
(they're next) -- and deport them. And that may win you a plurality of
Republican primary votes.
But eventually you have t... 阅读全帖
w******g
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来自主题: USANews版 - 4chan and Reddit bombarded debate polls
4chan and Reddit bombarded debate polls to declare Trump the winner
www.dailydot.com/layer8/trump-clinton-debate-online-polls-4chan-the-donald/
There’s an unspoken rule of the internet: Never trust online polls. They’
re too easily corruptible.
4chan, the notorious message board, has a long history of botting online
competitions. In 2009, users flooded the Time 100 poll to ensure that the
site’s founder, Christopher “moot” Poole, made the cut. In 2012, the
pranksters employed JavaScript to vote ... 阅读全帖

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http://foreignpolicy.com/2017/06/29/the-next-internment-would-chinese-in-the-u-s-be-rounded-up-during-a-war/
The next internment: Would Chinese in the U.S. be rounded up during a war?
Present U.S. leadership seems both to make war more likely through its
bellicose rhetoric and to heighten the risk that the conflict would lead to
violence against the American-Chinese population.
BY THOMAS E. RICKS | JUNE 29, 2017, 10:15 AM
Map_of_World_War_II_Japanese_American_internment_camps
By Giacomo Bagarell... 阅读全帖

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这篇文章对可行性研究进行了分析。
The next internment: Would Chinese in the U.S. be rounded up during a war?
http://foreignpolicy.com/2017/06/29/the-next-internment-would-chinese-in-the-u-s-be-rounded-up-during-a-war/
By Giacomo Bagarella
Best Defense office of future operations
Present U.S. leadership seems both to make war more likely through its
bellicose rhetoric and to heighten the risk that the conflict would lead to
violence against the American-Chinese population.
As the title of one recent book on the s... 阅读全帖

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来自主题: USANews版 - 纽约法官判cfpb是一个违宪机构
The CFPB had two two primary, albeit unspoken, functions. First, it was
structured as a holding center for fines and assessments against any
financial organizations opposed by progressives. Second, it was a
distribution hub for the received funds to be transferred to political
allies and groups supportive of progressive causes.
别管标题多大爱,实质上就是打击异己,损人肥己的机构。
w*********s
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Is Japan's Elite Hiding A Weapons
Program Inside Nuclear Plants?
By Yoichi Shimatsu
4-6-11
Confused and often conflicting reports out of Fukushima 1 nuclear plant
cannot be solely the result of tsunami-caused breakdowns, bungling or
miscommunication. Inexplicable delays and half-baked explanations from Tokyo
Electric Power Company (TEPCO) and the Ministry of Economy, Trade and
Industry (METI) seem to be driven by some unspoken factor.
The smoke and mirrors at Fukushima 1 seem to obscure a steady... 阅读全帖
A******y
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I'm talking about chemistry. Just go count how many graduate student in a
lab...the market can't never take that many graduates each year. Yes, if
you have K99 then you are set, but most big labs want you to have a F32 or
NSF fellow. There is also an unspoken rule on age in chemistry because
there are some awards that you can only win before age of 35. Therefore, if
you are looking for AP position near age of 35...good luck on that, too.
M*P
发帖数: 6456
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there unspoken rule about what will happen if you are out of money in 3
years.

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l********u
发帖数: 823
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来自主题: Faculty版 - 提交中期审查了,心里发毛
知道的cases都没啥。一般是系里有几条unspoken标准,比如需要拿到某种grant,教学
评估要多少分以上,文章发多少篇,过了标准就大家都happy happy,等着长点工资。
当然没过标准也没啥,就是工资还那样儿。还听说过有的系只要没大错就没事儿,产出
没啥要求。
可以跟系里头呆久的faculty问问就清楚了。
g******t
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【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: dellp (dellp), 信区: Military
标 题: The U.S. Is Purging Chinese Cancer Researchers From Top Institutions
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Sat Jun 15 20:27:51 2019, 美东)
The NIH and the FBI are targeting ethnic Chinese scientists, including U.S.
citizens, searching for a cancer cure. Here’s the first account of what
happened to Xifeng Wu.
https://www.bloomberg.com/news/features/2019-06-13/the-u-s-is-purging-
chinese-americans-from-top-cancer-research
The dossier on cancer researcher Xif... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: Family版 - 剩女? I'm Lovin' It
American singer Justin Timberlake in 2003 released the single "I'm Lovin' It
" as theme song for McDonald's same-titled advertising campaign.
(1) The decline of Asian marriage | Asia's Lonely Hearts; Women are
rejecting marriage in Asia. The social implications are serious. Economist,
Aug 20, 2011.
http://www.economist.com/node/21526350
Quote:
"People there [in Asia] now marry even later than they do in the West. The
mean age of marriage in the richest places—Japan, Taiwan, South Korea and
Hon... 阅读全帖
m****a
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - freaked out 中奖了
right, but a lot of them still go to secular schools and have to deal with
discrimination. kids don't care if your parents are rich, if you're
different, they'll laugh at you anyhow. also you said your friend's parents
are well educated, so they're comparable to the average jew no? often times
the offspring's attitude towards his roots reflects the parents' (often
unconscious and unspoken) attitude. but i still think it's pretty amazing
that all my AB korean/jap/indian friends can speak their mo... 阅读全帖
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来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 一个自闭孩子妈妈的亲身经历和感受
一个自闭孩子妈妈的亲身经历和感受(上)our journey
我孩子不到三岁,15个月因为发育滞后开始接受EI治疗,18个月时EI机构严重怀疑自闭
,排队几个月后21个月在美国top5的权威儿童医院拿到经典自闭的诊断之后一直接受强
度很大的各种训练。。我不常来逛这个坛子,因为我家孩子让我担心的地方,和这里家
长们通常讨论的东西,根本搭不上边。。大家在讨论怎么推娃,上什么兴趣班的时候,
我担忧的是怎么以后能够让娃生活自理,自立而不拖累这个社会,怎么学会和人交流(
说话都是其次的),奢侈点的想法是,怎么主流化,怎么能够自己有一个somewhat
meaningful的生活,父母离开人世的时候,也能让孩子可以有尊严的活着。我们这样家
庭的种种challenge,不是常人能够理解的,我也从没有奢望过普通父母能体会我们的
痛苦。。。但是看到了最近的热贴,有些id对我们这些可怜的家庭们的各种不太善意的
猜测,非常震惊。当然,也同时看到很多general ed, gifted ed的家长们的同情和爱
心,和让人温暖感动的话,在这里也想替我们这些家庭,谢谢你们的支持。
我的一个一直以来的想法,是增加A... 阅读全帖
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hopenicole (Nicole) 于 (Fri Nov 16 12:33:39 2012, 美东) 提到:
最近在parenting版面有很多关于special education的话题,有不少人讨论special
education funding是不是被abused了,是不是应该被cut一些,还有人甚至建议大家给
政府写信要求缩减这部分开支。之间也牵扯到ASD overdiagnosis的话题。我写了下面
这篇文章放在parenting版面。因为有很多科普内容,有网友建议我也贴到宝宝版。不
好意思,文章很长,在parenting版我是分成三贴,然后分段发的,在这里就group在一
起了。如果大家想要看的舒服些,原帖在这里。
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Parenting/32013295.html
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Parenting/32013315.html
http://www.mitbbs.com/... 阅读全帖
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This is from a (western?) mom on an email list. I post it here assuming it
is in public domain. A reply from a Chinese mom is also attached below.
"
First I'm going to say that this is an excellent read, a very engrossing and
extremely well-written book that pulls you in. In that way, the book is
great.
But...
all the backpedaling Amy Chua has been doing publicly since the WSJ piece
ran ---- all her public and private statements about how the WSJ
misrepresented her and her book and how the b... 阅读全帖
w*********s
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Is Japan Hiding A Weapons Program Inside Nuclear Plants?
By Yoichi Shimatsu
4-6-11
Confused and often conflicting reports out of Fukushima 1 nuclear plant
cannot be solely the result of tsunami-caused breakdowns, bungling or
miscommunication. Inexplicable delays and half-baked explanations from Tokyo
Electric Power Company (TEPCO) and the Ministry of Economy, Trade and
Industry (METI) seem to be driven by some unspoken factor.
The smoke and mirrors at Fukushima 1 seem to obscure a steady purpose... 阅读全帖
h********e
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44
对大家常说起的PDD,ASD的入门小介绍给贴一段,以及treatment的介绍。主要摘自下
面这个网站。
http://www.autismconsortium.com/families/understanding-autism-a
What are PDDs and ASDs?
The term PDD or Pervasive Developmental Disorder is used to describe
problems in a child’s development. PDDs are called “spectrum” disorders
because each child has symptoms that differ in intensity, ranging from mild
to quite severe. All children with PDD, however, have symptoms in these tree
areas:
• Social skills: Such as sharing emotions, unders... 阅读全帖
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hopenicole (Nicole) 于 (Fri Nov 16 04:07:45 2012, 美东) 提到:
在这个帖子里面,我给大家提供一些关于ASD的resource。欢迎其他家长也跟贴进入讨
论。我们几个妈妈商量好了,会不断慢慢加进一些实用的东西。如果要讨论争议话题,
请在(上)篇跟贴。争论太多情绪失控的话,我们随时可能停止回那个贴。但是这个贴
,我们希望能够成为一个常驻贴,有空我们会来多放些有用信息。谢谢大家!
(上)篇和(中)篇的链接在这里:
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Parenting/32013295.html
http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t/Parenting/32013315.html
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hopenicole (Nicole) 于 (Fri Nov 16 04:08:43 2012, 美东) 提到:
权威的America... 阅读全帖
u*****a
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来自主题: Parenting版 - RIP: 耶鲁华裔学生Luchang Wang
Quote:
With the Yale community and Luchang's family and friends, I mourn this
terrible loss. But as an outsider to the Yale community, I have to observe
that this kind of eulogizing highlights the problem. I understand the need
to emphasize Luchang's achievements and her positive qualities, but unspoken
are the conditions and pressures that might have led to her problem. I can
imagine depressed students and others reading this - how might it make them
feel? Like their problems will be as invisib... 阅读全帖
p******t
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来自主题: StartUp版 - 说说最近好玩的吧
夏天学校有暑期课,本来自己也闷着想发财可又不知道干啥好,就去随便注了两门
上课滴这个professor是非常精明一犹太女,曾做过Good Morning America和
Entertainment Tonight的producer, 后来从LA跑来纽约开了几家公司。
她开始就讲自己写的一本书,about unspoken rules for business
第一条就是,老板喜欢的员工是who think like a boss, not an employee。并且例举
员工身上种种恶行,比如比老板迟到,比老板早退;上班时候溜达无关网页;和男友
cellphone聊天;中午take 1 hour lunch break; 和医生的appointment定在上班时间
;对老板撒谎,装病在家不去上班。。。神啊,好像n多额都有范过。。。正面教材就
是她自己一雇员,总是在老板没想到之前就已经帮着做到了。
第二条是,员工要和老板保持距离,给老板写email不能有语法、拼写错误,不能随便
叫老板hey, buddy之类。老板就是老板,不是朋友
第三条,不要以为自己名校一毕业就entitled
B*D
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来自主题: StartUp版 - 说说最近好玩的吧
这个...
老板当然喜欢能够被压榨剩余价值多的雇员
说说unspoken rule
k********8
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Guest Post: Plaza Accord 2.0: Is it Coming? Is it Here?
October 15th, 2010 by Michael Krieger
If we desire respect for the law, we must first make the law respectable.
The greatest dangers to liberty lurk in insidious encroachment by men of
zeal, well-meaning but without understanding.
Experience teaches us to be most on our guard to protect liberty when the
government’s purposes are beneficent.
Fear of serious injury alone cannot justify oppression of free speech and
assembly. Men feared witch... 阅读全帖
w*********s
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50
Is Japan's Elite Hiding A Weapons
Program Inside Nuclear Plants?
By Yoichi Shimatsu
4-6-11
Confused and often conflicting reports out of Fukushima 1 nuclear plant
cannot be solely the result of tsunami-caused breakdowns, bungling or
miscommunication. Inexplicable delays and half-baked explanations from Tokyo
Electric Power Company (TEPCO) and the Ministry of Economy, Trade and
Industry (METI) seem to be driven by some unspoken factor.
The smoke and mirrors at Fukushima 1 seem to obscure a steady... 阅读全帖
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