b**********e
发帖数: 293 | 1 "don't blame one part, don't look outside, but inside...."
Well comments.
Sometimes, some wives blame themselves so much and try to adjut or
sarcrifice themselves again and again to the relationship with their
husbands. But it still not works out because not all the men know to
appreciate their wives contribution. Some of men have been spoiled:D
BTW, try to change a man is very hard and stupid thing because not all of
men are teachable. A woman should find a suitable man for her before the
marr... 阅读全帖 |
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m*****1
发帖数: 5 | 2 He calculate my income each month to evaluate how much money i was supposed
to save if i do not use those or give my parents. I understood he want to
buy a house and stay with family together and I knew I should save enough
money to reduce his financial pressure. But I do scare to talk with him. We
have not weding, marriage celebration. In the limit time i stay together
some are happy, some are not.
Before married to him, he said he need me to understand his financial
conditions and family situa... 阅读全帖 |
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I********e
发帖数: 6130 | 3 为什么你们看到我的帖子都这么想呢? I am not advocating for women to only
look at money and not do anything else. Heck, I am not a house wife myself
and will never want to be one. I am saying for people who are house wives,
if they are doing a good job at home, they certainly should have a say in
how to spend the money their husbands make. Bad house wives shouldn't
because they are not contributing to the family. Is there anything wrong
with that? |
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I********r
发帖数: 89 | 4 Apparently she is not sexually satisfied, she is complaining her sex life.
To all Chinese men, you gotta free yourselves from household errands, which
are not solutions to make your wives happy, working harder in bed will solve
the issues and the wives will be even happy to do all the household errands
. |
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m***x
发帖数: 788 | 5 Myths and Facts about Domestic Violence
http://www.clarkprosecutor.org/html/domviol/myths.htm
MYTH #1: DOMESTIC VIOLENCE AFFECTS ONLY A SMALL PERCENTAGE OF THE POPULATION
AND IS RARE.
FACT: National studies estimate that 3 to 4 million women are beaten each
year in our country. A study conducted in 1995 found that 31% of women
surveyed admitted to having been physically assaulted by a husband or
boyfriend. Domestic violence is the leading cause of injury to women between
the ages of 15 and 44 in... 阅读全帖 |
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B**y
发帖数: 824 | 6 百度上查的。
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几年前，美国有人研究受虐待的太太(Abused Wives)，结果发现，挨打的太太们的共同
特征是她们每次在吵架时都是吵赢先生的。而先生们既然无法在言词上得到优越感或成
就感，只好用拳头来争取了。可见吵赢了架不仅没有实质上的好处，而且可能会招来毒
打。
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1.夫妻之间，吵架是很难避免的，应该视为正常现象，不必惊慌。
夫妻两人，不仅性别不同，性格、观念、习惯等亦互有差异。恋爱时，彼此还有机会掩
饰；结了婚，朝夕相处，互动频繁，大大小小的冲突是无法避免的。面对这些冲突时，
若是大惊小怪，以为有了争执就表示两个人不适合在一起，这是一种错误。
反之，若以为美满的婚姻就是两个人永远不争吵，所以在冲突时，只好极度的容忍，百
般的委曲求全，以维持一个表面的和平状态，这也是不正常的现象。
事实上，夫妻应该以积极的角度来看吵架。“会”吵架的夫妻(即知道吵架的原则的人)
，两人之间的感情会愈来愈好，而且吵架的次数也会愈来愈少。
2.吵架是“角度”问题，而不是“是非”问题。
夫妻吵架... 阅读全帖 |
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s*******t
发帖数: 148 | 7 You probably don't know that you are really a piece of shit. So you now hold
all wives as primary responsible party of the happiness of the family?
Under your theory, all men will be released and relieved to seek 'irregular
happiness outside of family" because they know there will be people like you
who will be on their side and blame the wives. do you actually gave a brain
or a heart? |
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l**h
发帖数: 7994 | 8 追捕进行时，现在LA附近草木皆兵。
愚蠢可耻的LAPD.
From: Christopher Jordan Dorner /7648
To: America
Subj: Last resort
Regarding CF# 07-004281
I know most of you who personally know me are in disbelief to hear from
media reports that I am suspected of committing such horrendous murders and
have taken drastic and shocking actions in the last couple of days. You are
saying to yourself that this is completely out of character of the man you
knew who always wore a smile wherever he was seen. I know I will be vilified
by ... 阅读全帖 |
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d*******y
发帖数: 137 | 9 Just my two cents.
Many women go through situations more or less similar to what you are going
through right now. I think it is important that you understand the
priorities of your life and act accordingly.
As a woman, I do believe we need to have stable financial income so that we
can stay independent when life hits us with something unexpected. This is
especially true when a woman is married to a man, who can’t always put his
wife’s needs before his and who does not really understand the i... 阅读全帖 |
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a********k
发帖数: 11445 | 10 来自主题: NextGeneration版 - 等我有了钱 I know a boy, his family is very rich. He is a good boy, but his uncle has
three wives. One is officially married, and the other two are not. But all
of his wives have kids with him, and the youngest wife has 2. |
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a*****3
发帖数: 84 | 11 Husbands who do housework may have less sex, study says
Kim Painter, Special for USA TODAY4:34p.m. EST January 31, 2013
Traditional chores are linked with more sex for married couples.
Men who do some household chores may not get rewarded with more sex,
according to a new study. (Photo: Pixland)
Story Highlights
Couples who stick to traditional chores have more sex
Study was conducted in 1992-1994, so some things may have changed
Other studies show wives more satisfied in more equal marriages
Hu... 阅读全帖 |
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l*********e
发帖数: 5385 | 12 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
ivyWW (DreamWillComeTrue) 于 (Sat Feb 2 21:18:21 2013, 美东) 提到:
双职工家庭，小孩才2-3岁。我是女方。
家里老人只有一方愿意出来帮忙（从坐月子开始，一直都是我父母出来帮忙）。他的父
母“据说”年老了不能出来，但是却在国内帮忙快40岁的大女儿做了一切家务。
我父母在的时候，我老公一点点家务都不需要做，除了周末开车带老人去买菜，因为我
要在家看着孩子。
我俩目前收入差不多，当然我只是个没前途的小职员，他是有前途的postdoc。
我父母呆半年就要回国半年。本来我觉得他应该分担一点家务。
但是上周末摊牌说，男人不应该做婆婆妈妈的琐碎的家务，但是可以做抬水换灯泡，修
电脑等我不能干的活。
请钟点工，送小孩回国半年，或者离婚这些都有讨论过了，请大家不需要再讨论了。
我就是想请教一下在美国中国人的家庭的家务模式都是大概怎么分配的。
当然我父母上一辈都是双职工，但是女方做了绝大多数的家务的，所以我父母和他父母
都觉得我也应该这样做，现在我老公也觉得我... 阅读全帖 |
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B********n
发帖数: 384 | 13 【 以下文字转载自 WaterWorld 讨论区 】
发信人: LoneSail (Lone Star), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: MitBBS Tumbled in Early Trading
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jun 24 17:02:02 2011, 美东)
By Xiaozuan Feng
June 24th, NEW YORK(Reuters) MitBBS( Ticker MB QUOTE: 38.438↓) Tumbled as
much as 85% from 250 W$ to 38.428 W$ in the early trading Friday.
Last night, Steven Keng, a highly controversial and widely followed
columnist of MitBBS, announced resignation from his post as Chief Digging
Officer of MitBBS. In his brief letter to the pu... 阅读全帖 |
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r*******u
发帖数: 8732 | 14 Why do men want 3 wives ? Can you afford to have 3 wives? |
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R**********n
发帖数: 523 | 15 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: RichardBiton (Richard), 信区: USANews
标 题: Millions of Broken American Dreams zzz
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Nov 13 16:11:58 2013, 美东)
http://www.weidb.com/voice/index.php?title=Millions_of_Broken_A
Millions of Broken American Dreams -- An Open Letter to the World
November 12, 2013
Dear Fair and Righteous Citizens of the World,
We don't know who you are, but we know you are out there. We are
asking for your urgent help. We have been rendered voiceless, powerles... 阅读全帖 |
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S*********g
发帖数: 24893 | 16 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: StephenKing (金博士), 信区: Military
标 题: 真正的美国新闻：让美国蒙羞的新闻
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Feb 7 23:47:31 2013, 美东)
From: Christopher Jordan Dorner /7648
To: America
Subj: Last resort
Regarding CF# 07-004281
I know most of you who personally know me are in disbelief to hear from
media reports that I am suspected of committing such horrendous murders and
have taken drastic and shocking actions in the last couple of days. You are
saying to yourself that this is completely out of cha... 阅读全帖 |
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d******8
发帖数: 3017 | 17 MANIFESTO - scrubbed by mainstream media outlets
From: Christopher Jordan Dorner /7648
To: America
Subj: Last resort
Regarding CF# 07-004281
I know most of you who personally know me are in disbelief to hear from
media reports that I am suspected of committing such horrendous murders and
have taken drastic and shocking actions in the last couple of days. You are
saying to yourself that this is completely out of character of the man you
knew who always wore a smile wherever he was seen. I know I ... 阅读全帖 |
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R**********n
发帖数: 523 | 18 http://www.weidb.com/voice/index.php?title=Millions_of_Broken_A
Millions of Broken American Dreams -- An Open Letter to the World
November 12, 2013
Dear Fair and Righteous Citizens of the World,
We don't know who you are, but we know you are out there. We are
asking for your urgent help. We have been rendered voiceless, powerless, and
hopeless by the American mass media and many Americans. The American mass
media have lost journalistic ethics and objectivity and have been blatantly... 阅读全帖 |
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z****n
发帖数: 5870 | 19 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: RichardBiton (Richard), 信区: USANews
标 题: Millions of Broken American Dreams zzz
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Nov 13 16:11:58 2013, 美东)
http://www.weidb.com/voice/index.php?title=Millions_of_Broken_A
Millions of Broken American Dreams -- An Open Letter to the World
November 12, 2013
Dear Fair and Righteous Citizens of the World,
We don't know who you are, but we know you are out there. We are
asking for your urgent help. We have been rendered voiceless, powerles... 阅读全帖 |
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p**********u
发帖数: 15479 | 20 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: Tashkent (SiempreAqui), 信区: Military
标 题: LA屁地估计是要当场击毙这个前警察
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Feb 7 21:48:39 2013, 美东)
此人在FB上揭了警察局这些乱七八糟的黑幕，又是个黑人。留他活口肯定是重要不安定
因素。此人被和谐几率超高。
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/07/christopher-dorner-wri
他说的也还挺实在的：拉丁警察对拉丁移民也粗暴。亚裔警察就在旁边看着，这群废物
果然不出所料。
From: Christopher Jordan Dorner /7648
To: America
Subj: Last resort
Regarding CF# 07-004281
I know most of you who personally know me are in disbelief to hear from
media reports that I am suspected ... 阅读全帖 |
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T********e
发帖数: 8631 | 21 Girls be aware!
Guys normally treat their wives the same way they treat cars. JoyRide, Rent
, Lease, Own, DFBB, in that order.
Wives tend to respond the same way cars respond to the way they are being
maintained. |
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f******g
发帖数: 1697 | 22 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
talkdirty (做爱不成仁义在) 于 (Fri Oct 1 13:38:35 2010, 美东) 提到:
德州说纽约好, 纽约说德州好
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mrsdonkey (yaya) 于 (Fri Oct 1 13:40:26 2010, 美东) 提到:
据说德州的老百姓很穷诶。。。
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talkdirty (做爱不成仁义在) 于 (Fri Oct 1 13:51:05 2010, 美东) 提到:
德州独立, 长岛独立
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yve (今晚夜色真美啊) 于 (Fri Oct 1 13:52:31 2010, 美东) 提到:
西藏独立
内蒙独立
☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
ThisNoN... 阅读全帖 |
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c********e
发帖数: 6158 | 23 i said it depends on what your spouse, friends, and colleagues think, or
whether you care about what do they think....
i am not talking about what proportion of Chinese men in US are wearing
rings or if they like to wear or not. i am talking about what other people
are thinking about that. I can not represent everybody. from my personal
view, wearing ring is a kind of commitment.
you said "Maybe it's not because they like to wear, but their wives don't
like it if they don't wear." i think it is ... 阅读全帖 |
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p*****y
发帖数: 436 | 24 哎，这个问题我思考很久了，实在很难两全，我也知道这个WIVES不能等同于家属，但
是现在的俱乐部的局面已经是以女性为主导了。曾经来过男H4，大家都觉得来个男的别
扭，聊天也放不开，男的也觉得来错了地方。不想误导大家，就是WIVES。男同胞有需
要自己开一个吧。 |
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p*****y
发帖数: 436 | 25 你是不是没老婆啊，你站着说话不腰疼啊。你是男人吧？你有必要跟别人的老婆过不去
吗。你厉害，你有工作有老婆，并且老婆也有工作？如果那样，你也没必要歧视还在奋
斗中的家庭吧。再说了，俱乐部的名字是wives，难道wives这个单词就表示没工作，没
过托福，在一起相互蹉跎了？
俱乐部不是为找工作搭这个networking，就是给大家交流的平台，能玩到一起的就一起
玩，能学到一起的就一起学，也有能给孩子找个玩伴的。总之，我们干什么，不需要你
操心。 |
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m******g
发帖数: 516 | 26 I believe the percentage of Chinese husbands who are willing to do it is
much higher than the Chinese wives in the same situation. It is also true
that almost 0 possibility any Chinese wives or husbands will have the
requests like that great Indian wife.
The background reason lz is asking this question must be that she is
thinking the commitment is much more important than other stuff in life. |
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c**l
发帖数: 324 | 27 再贴一段关于 coincidences。
President Kennedy vs. President Lincoln
This stretches the bounds of what might be called "humor" per se, but it
is certainly entertaining, in a chilling sort of way, so I thought I
would share it...
The incidence of coincidence is so prevalent, that it can not be
considered coincidence.
Abraham Lincoln was elected to Congress in 1846.
John F. Kennedy was elected to Congress in 1946.
Abraham Lincoln was elected President in 1860.
John F. Kennedy was elected President in 1960... 阅读全帖 |
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p***e
发帖数: 1318 | 28 what would Gingrich do differently le?
he helped create the housing bubble, strongly supported government
subsidies, still makes money by touting fannie mae/freddie mac.
he is big fan of no child left behind and an even larger department
of education
he is a supporter of individual mandate.
Practically in every debates, there is nothing he can talk about
in each individual policy.
He is basically a right wing version of Obama. What separates him from
Obama is that he had 3 wives. He cheated all ... 阅读全帖 |
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t**********g
发帖数: 3388 | 29 【 以下文字转载自 Military 讨论区 】
发信人: Tashkent (SiempreAqui), 信区: Military
标 题: LA屁地估计是要当场击毙这个前警察
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Thu Feb 7 21:48:39 2013, 美东)
此人在FB上揭了警察局这些乱七八糟的黑幕，又是个黑人。留他活口肯定是重要不安定
因素。此人被和谐几率超高。
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/02/07/christopher-dorner-wri
他说的也还挺实在的：拉丁警察对拉丁移民也粗暴。亚裔警察就在旁边看着，这群废物
果然不出所料。
From: Christopher Jordan Dorner /7648
To: America
Subj: Last resort
Regarding CF# 07-004281
I know most of you who personally know me are in disbelief to hear from
media reports that I am suspected ... 阅读全帖 |
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R**********n
发帖数: 523 | 30 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: RichardBiton (Richard), 信区: USANews
标 题: Millions of Broken American Dreams zzz
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Nov 13 16:11:58 2013, 美东)
http://www.weidb.com/voice/index.php?title=Millions_of_Broken_A
Millions of Broken American Dreams -- An Open Letter to the World
November 12, 2013
Dear Fair and Righteous Citizens of the World,
We don't know who you are, but we know you are out there. We are
asking for your urgent help. We have been rendered voiceless, powerles... 阅读全帖 |
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z****n
发帖数: 5870 | 31 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: RichardBiton (Richard), 信区: USANews
标 题: Millions of Broken American Dreams zzz
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Nov 13 16:11:58 2013, 美东)
http://www.weidb.com/voice/index.php?title=Millions_of_Broken_A
Millions of Broken American Dreams -- An Open Letter to the World
November 12, 2013
Dear Fair and Righteous Citizens of the World,
We don't know who you are, but we know you are out there. We are
asking for your urgent help. We have been rendered voiceless, powerles... 阅读全帖 |
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c******n
发帖数: 5697 | 32 http://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/dead-crash-southern-california-freeway-40184027
A fiery minivan wreck in northern Los Angeles County killed two mothers and
their four children early Tuesday, while the two hysterical fathers of the
families were held back from the fast-moving flames.
The minivan had come to rest partially in the right-hand lane after it was
involved in a minor wreck on Interstate 5 near the community of Gorman,
about 65 miles north of downtown Los Angeles. A semi-truck going a... 阅读全帖 |
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a********e
发帖数: 5779 | 33 【 以下文字转载自 WaterWorld 讨论区 】
发信人: LoneSail (Lone Star), 信区: WaterWorld
标 题: MitBBS Tumbled in Early Trading
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Jun 24 17:02:02 2011, 美东)
By Xiaozuan Feng
June 24th, NEW YORK(Reuters) MitBBS( Ticker MB QUOTE: 38.438↓) Tumbled as
much as 85% from 250 W$ to 38.428 W$ in the early trading Friday.
Last night, Steven Keng, a highly controversial and widely followed
columnist of MitBBS, announced resignation from his post as Chief Digging
Officer of MitBBS. In his brief letter to the pu... 阅读全帖 |
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z****n
发帖数: 5870 | 34 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: RichardBiton (Richard), 信区: USANews
标 题: Millions of Broken American Dreams zzz
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Nov 13 16:11:58 2013, 美东)
http://www.weidb.com/voice/index.php?title=Millions_of_Broken_A
Millions of Broken American Dreams -- An Open Letter to the World
November 12, 2013
Dear Fair and Righteous Citizens of the World,
We don't know who you are, but we know you are out there. We are
asking for your urgent help. We have been rendered voiceless, powerles... 阅读全帖 |
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G***G
发帖数: 16778 | 35 I don't agree with you.
When related to money, anything is skill.
Losing money, sometimes, doesn't mean they don't earn technology.
If you don't lose money, you'll never earn it.
Most of fishermen cannot catch fish during the first year after they
invest a lot of money.
But they never give up even though their wives come to mitbbs to complain.
They comfort their wives, "one time I lose three jigs and bring back one
fish;
next time I will bring back three fish with only losing one jig." |
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G***G
发帖数: 16778 | 36 One question always keep puzzling me, that is,
why most men like to think that their neighbors' wives are
always more beautiful than their own wives. |
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z*****a
发帖数: 3809 | 37 几天前螃蟹树OTA受伤,大半赛季报废. 这次大半个教练组又差点被一棵大树干掉了。
Two hurt as oak tree crashes down on 49ers coaching outing
A sprawling, 150-year-old oak tree came crashing down during a lawn
bowling outing for 49ers coaches and their wives Saturday evening, injuring
two people.
Neither of those hurt suffered life-threatening injuries and neither is
affiliated with the 49ers. The tree was so wide that it spread from a
parking lot outside the San Jose Lawn Bowls Club in the Willow Glen
neighborhood of San Jose to over t... 阅读全帖 |
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z*i
发帖数: 58873 | 38 "I've got confidence in those guys," Brady said, via The Boston Herald. "I
love both Dan and Wendy. I love those guys. They work so hard. The center-
quarterback relationship is a pretty special one. I've got my hands on their
butts probably more than their wives, so it's a pretty unique trust and
relationship you have."
i bet both Brady and the wives say "Be Gentle". |
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n**d
发帖数: 164 | 39 Good read!
http://online.wsj.com/article/SB1000142405274870343950457611608
By KEVIN HELLIKER
As the wife of an endurance athlete, Caren Waxman wakes up alone every
morning, including holidays.
"Mother's Day really upset me," says the Rockleigh, N.J., mother of three,
age 47, whose husband leaves before dawn each morning for hours of exercise.
In May, he will wish her a happy Mother's Day from Utah, where he will
compete in a triathlon.
More
"It's selfish," concedes her husband, Jordan Waxman, 46... 阅读全帖 |
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j**n
发帖数: 13789 | 40 那你要珍惜哦
他们不容易爱上别人，但爱火一旦点燃会燃烧很久很久
我转个英文的处女座描述（一个超准的网站)
Actually, Virgos are deeply involved with love from earliest childhood, but
not the Romeo-Juliet kind of love. His chief way of expressing the word is
concerned with unselfish devotion to family, friends and those weaker or
more disorganized than himself. He was born with an instinctive love of work
, love of duty and discipline and devotion to the helpless. Even the
unevolved Virgo, ,who doesn't quite reach such heights, feels slightly
guilty... 阅读全帖 |
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j**n
发帖数: 13789 | 41 Now that you know what you're in for, if you're still in love with that
Virgo man, you can look forward to a pretty contented future. You'll have a
husband who's alert and well-informed, who won't expect you to wait on him
hand and foot or expect you to run around looking sexy all the time with a
dab of perfume behind each ear and a rose in your teeth. (Although he may
expect you to go around with a cake of soap in each hand.)
Hell be reliable and pleasant, if you're tactful about his faults. He... 阅读全帖 |
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S*****i
发帖数: 2031 | 42 【 以下文字转载自 Saggi_MitBBS 俱乐部 】
发信人: SpikeLi (Spiky), 信区: Saggi_MitBBS
标 题: 世界与中国射手名人录
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Dec 6 22:18:05 2011, 美东)
射手座名人录
弗里德里希•恩格斯(Friedrich Engels)玛丽亚•卡拉斯（Maria
Callas),白辽士 Hector Berlioz,鲁宾•斯坦Lubinsitan, 路德维希•凡&#
8226;贝多芬(Ludwig van Beethoven), 马克•吐温(Mark Twain——原名萨缪尔&
#8226;兰亨•克莱门斯 (Samuel Langhorne Clemens)), 史蒂芬•斯皮尔伯
格（Steven Allan Spielberg 又译：史蒂芬•阿伦•斯皮尔伯格）, 布兰
妮•简•斯皮尔斯(Britney Jean Spears), 李小龙(Bruce Lee), ... 阅读全帖 |
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A****d
发帖数: 269 | 43 your hubby must love you very much...
There are too many posts on family board complaining husbands are stingy to
working wives, not to mention stay-home wives...
I normally shop online,,,, no time to go to a real store,,,
嘛 |
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a***8
发帖数: 4735 | 44 It is not 100% correct, i knew some handsome men are very loyal to his so so
looking wives. And some so so looking men cheated to their decent wives.
So it is just about the men's personality, not based on the look. |
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G***a
发帖数: 27294 | 45 娱乐圈最惨的两种女人：hip hop wives and rocker wives |
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I********e
发帖数: 6130 | 46 Your posts are so ironic they are funny.
On one hand you make such a big and general statement about all stay home
wives and just how much better their lives are than working wives' - "这里还
明确告诉你，所有全职太太，不管她老公挣多挣少，我们的日子绝对比你滋润和精致",
"我们这样的全职太太比你这早出晚归，朝九晚五的沧桑小日子，滋润，丰富，精致一
百倍。"
On the other hand you claim "我没有贬低任何人", "你选择你的生活方式没人说你
，可你站出来没头没尾打击一片就招人烦了", "对我有意见可以针对我，说什么＂没有
工作的女人都一个样子，木讷呆板庸俗乏味，家庭妇女是最无能的，＂担心这样的话会
惹怒一片"
Do you see the irony here? :) |
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wh
发帖数: 141625 | 47 赞。结尾想起bennett的小说the old wives' tale. 不过这篇不算old wives' tale，
还是很年轻的。 |
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b*s
发帖数: 82482 | 48 来自主题: LeisureTime版 - 落日以前 Traditional Japan embraced sexual delights (it is not a Shinto taboo) and
men were not constrained to be faithful to their wives. The ideal wife was a
modest mother and manager of the home; by Confucian custom love had
secondary importance. For sexual enjoyment and romantic attachment, men did
not go to their wives, but to courtesans. Walled-in pleasure quarters known
as yūkaku (遊廓、遊郭?) were built in the 16th century,[7] and in 1617 the
shogunate designated "pleasure quarters", outside of which ... 阅读全帖 |
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T*C
发帖数: 3040 | 49 你不喜欢的来了，嘿嘿!
我上网搜到杨宪益和Hawkes的《红楼梦》翻译比较，大家看看谁的好。我个人似乎更喜
欢杨的翻译，更忠实原作，而且简洁精练。我有点私心，觉得红楼梦原作已经够完美，
翻译的时候何必还要有所发挥呢。呵呵！
〔枉凝眉〕一个是阆苑仙葩，一个是美玉无瑕。若说没奇缘，今生偏又遇着他；若说有
奇缘，如何心事终虚化﹖一个枉自嗟呀，一个空劳牵挂。一个是水中月，一个是镜中花
。想眼中能有多少泪珠儿，怎经得秋流到冬尽，春流到夏！
杨宪益: VAIN LONGING:
One is an immortal flower of fairyland,
The other jade,
And were it not predestined,
Why should they meet again in this existence?
Yet, if predestined,
Why does their love come to nothing?
One sighs to no purpose,
The other yearns in vain;
One is the moon ref... 阅读全帖 |
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b*s
发帖数: 82482 | 50 As I was going to St Ives
I met a man with seven wives
Every wife had seven sacks
Every sack had seven cats
Every cat had seven kits
Kits, cats, sacks, wives.
How many were going to St Ives?
这么淘气，非弄一个念都念不出来的id |
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