c*********0
发帖数: 226 | 1 I agree with every thing you are saying. I found a therapist 3 weeks ago,
but she is so booked up, so my first session isn't until next week. I am
ready to move on. I am trying my best to forget the past. My issue is I
don't know ho w to deal with them in the future. To be honest with you, I'm
still afraid of my parents, especially my mom. I don't want to go to China
to see them, because i know while I am there, they will continue to abuse
me. And if I don't obey them (including eat the f... 阅读全帖 |
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c*******r
发帖数: 334 | 2 “My issue is I don't know how to deal with them in the future. To be
honest with you, I'm still afraid of my parents, especially my mom. I don't
want to go to China to see them, because i know while I am there, they will
continue to abuse me. And if I don't obey them (including eat the food
they require me to eat, visit the relatives they demand me to visit, call
their friends who I have no desire to associate with), they will be
emotionally beating me to death. I know exactly what they wou... 阅读全帖 |
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a******o
发帖数: 261 | 3 I am male, but i agree w/ most female's point of views here.
first of all, you and your wife both seem decent. And obviously you care
about your daughter; and so does your wife.
but it takes more than good intention to keep up a marriage (or raise a kid
right for that matter). as a guy i completely understand everything you
said, however at the same time what i see from you is a total lack of EQ, a
very rigid and self-righteous way of thinking, and deep down you are a very
selfish character.
i... 阅读全帖 |
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g********a
发帖数: 13 | 4 这个夏天和孩子一起在森林海滩扎起帐篷燃起篝火～
和大家分享一下我喜欢的几个适合带娃Camp的国家公园，我选了很多精美图片，可惜这
里图片无法直接paste，感兴趣的爸妈可以上我们的微信平台看插图版（ID:
growupinla)，在平台上输入“20”即可阅读此文。
每年暑假总是令人期待哈，因为暑假这两个字的意思基本就是“可以出去玩喽”，不过
“今年咱们去哪里玩？”对于当了爸妈的我们是个伤脑筋的问题。有些地方我们很向往
，不过一想到孩子在途中可能出现的种种状况就只能忍了；有些地方小朋友很喜欢，可
是对我们来说实在享受不了！之前我们发表了“我爱慵懒惬意的家庭度假 ｜ 探南加最
美的亲子度假村”，喜欢轻松休闲一点儿的可以看看。今天我们要说的是另一种旅游，
就是很多美国爸妈以及全世界热爱户外运动的爸妈们的最爱—野营。从海滩湖泊森林到
沙漠高山，加州独特的地理环境和四季如春的气候让这里成为了野营爱好者的天堂。对
孩子来说，野营既是最好的亲子活动（爸妈终于扔掉手机和电脑，扔掉工作和家务！）
，野营带给孩子的体验也是其他活动无法比拟的～大家一起先听听那些常常带孩子去野
营的爸妈们说说野营带给孩子们的... 阅读全帖 |
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m**t
发帖数: 374 | 5 求cd发彪yell录音~~
好奇阿，cd同学发彪是啥样
yelled
the |
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j***k
发帖数: 2719 | 6 I have been using a pair of Shure in-ear earbug, bought it for around $200
but it is broken now after 3 years.
I would like to replace it with something different.
Here is my requirement:
1. Around $100 or lower
2. Easy to drive, as the main source is an Ipod Touch.
3. Do not travel, so it doesn't have to be small.
4. To be used only in my office, but I work in an office with open floor
plan, no cubicles, and co-workers to my left and right are less than 2-3 ft
away. I would not like them to hea... 阅读全帖 |
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m****s
发帖数: 529 | 7 气死了。跟USCIS的客服在电话里吵起来（也不是吵，就是yell了两句，因为觉得他们
态度很差，说话一副大爷的样子。还质问我，为什么yell他。。。）。
现在会不会遭报应，会记录下来我，回头故意不给批？那岂不是很惨
还是我小农了？反正很生气，很upset。请各位指教。 |
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c********w
发帖数: 308 | 8 your are killing me!! I really have NO time for
this. I really NOT enjoying wasting time on this at Friday evening!
- Well you are gonna have to make time for this! Otherwise you can just
agree with me.. And by the way, its only afternoon..
NO! STOP! Please STOP! Stop thinking!
- please stop yelling. am only trying to get some advice..
By the way, why are you not fighting back, assuming he is not your manager.
This is U.S. NOT Asia. If i want to get yelled at at work i would be going
back to Chi... 阅读全帖 |
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c********w
发帖数: 308 | 9 your are killing me!! I really have NO time for
this. I really NOT enjoying wasting time on this at Friday evening!
- Well you are gonna have to make time for this! Otherwise you can just
agree with me.. And by the way, its only afternoon..
NO! STOP! Please STOP! Stop thinking!
- please stop yelling. am only trying to get some advice..
By the way, why are you not fighting back, assuming he is not your manager.
This is U.S. NOT Asia. If i want to get yelled at at work i would be going
back to Chi... 阅读全帖 |
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l******e
发帖数: 1875 | 10 简单地说就是该老板没做完项目自己扬长而去，现在又假惺惺说其实想做完我们的项目
，我们能
不付剩下的一半费用对其不管不理么？
事情经过是这样的：
在angle list上找的一个painting 公司，看到大部分人说价钱便宜质量还行，因为时
间较紧，对方说可以马上开始就用他们了。但是看angle list上有好几个用户说该公司
老板（20来岁一白人）在发生质量问题或者服务环节出问题时，会反咬客户（比如发现
自己没道理了，就说客户yell at him 然后发疯，说不继续做了，甚至留下没做完的
painting就扬长而去）。
我们刚一接触感觉还可以，后来发现其员工粉刷质量参差不齐，有的房间粉刷后简直可
以用丑陋来形容。加上进度一直拖。给在场的员工提了下有哪些问题。也给这位老板发
了短信提醒。
估计有他的员工给老板抱怨我指导他们工作之类的，然后这位老板冲进屋子，警告我不
要告诉他们员工什么需要做，他们的每间屋子完成得很好，没有问题。完全不听我解释
。稍微一解释，对方就大吼“why you yell at me”（这个镇和网上用户抱怨的一模一
样） 问他项目一直拖，到底什么时候完工，居然说“w... 阅读全帖 |
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S*******7
发帖数: 114 | 12 "I was stressed out and took out my frustration in ways that impacted Emily.
I yelled. I would get frustrated about little things, that now I know don
’t matter. I witnessed the impact of my yelling. And I still feel
uncomfortable thinking about it."
天天搞deal, 心胸也小了不少， 哪有女人愿意跟一个时时刻刻，方方面面都计较的男
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w********2
发帖数: 254 | 13 今天带2岁的儿子去playgroud玩，（当时已经有好多小孩子在那里了）。我儿子看到很
多小朋友坐在一个长凳上（那里吵吵闹闹的有4，5个孩子，都是2，3岁左右的），正好
剩个座位，就跑到长登上去坐。旁边的孩子估计3岁左右的样子，看到我儿子坐在旁边
，就摸我儿子的头，我跟他说：don't touch him。结果那小子不理会，继续摸。我就
对我儿子说，let's go。结果那小子听到了，一把推我儿子的胸，说you go。气四我了
。我又跟他说,don't touch him。他居然不理会，还想继续推。我就把儿子抱走了，结
果没有走几步，居然听到他在后面骂骂咧咧的，表情特别夸张。我居然就怒了。我问他
：where your mom?很有气势的问了他几遍，结果他妈妈从旁边跑出来，（在一边和另
外2个白妈妈吹牛），说我是他妈妈。我说，he touched my son, I alreay told him
twice。那个白妈妈说，o, he just 2, he does not understand。我就说，my son is
2,but he never touch others. 然后... 阅读全帖 |
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l*********e
发帖数: 5385 | 14 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
cannachen (cc) 于 (Thu Apr 4 16:38:36 2013, 美东) 提到:
原帖在这里http://www.mitbbs.com/article_t0/NextGeneration/36061959.html。
先感谢大家的留言。我要照看女儿，没时间一一回复，请大家谅解
邻居屋的屋主是老太太，垃圾男是她的儿子。白垃圾没工作，没结婚也没孩子，据她
妈说有女友。他的车天天停在屋外，基本上都是呆在家里。我不是不想跟他对骂，女儿
太小（不到2岁），每次听见大点的响声就吓的抱我大腿，哭着要抱。我也不是怕白垃
圾，但是还是女儿的安全要紧。 今天上午又打了911，来了3个警察，我明确说了那个
垃圾男拍我女儿，不知道什么企图，吓唬我女儿。但是还是老一套，警察们也说他们做
不了什么，不过也建议我装摄像头，说拍下那个垃圾总来我家和骚扰我们的举动，他们
才有证据。我也准备去买个那种手表摄像机，省的用相机拍目标太大。家里面向外的窗
户全装摄像头。后院门也装个无线的（那里是个死角）总之全... 阅读全帖 |
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S**P
发帖数: 1290 | 15 It's all because of small things: he was complaining things were not clean
or not sorted well, I didn't make the home very "attractive", etc.
He didn't yell, just said those words like a normal talk. But I was very
upset when he complained. Because we are long distance and I am pregnant. I
also need to work for a long time. It's a lot of stress. I feel I need to
get good food and have good rest first, and also I need to relax, make
myself feel happy instead of depressed. The priority of ke... 阅读全帖 |
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w*s
发帖数: 372 | 16 怀孕5个月了，在一个R&D公司工作。项目leader 是个变态老头，经常没有缘由的大骂
yell at people。我每天都很压抑，感觉见到他就心跳加速，孕初期被他突然yell，心
脏病都犯了。也去公司HR那抱怨过，HR的人也找他谈了，但他还是一如既往。最近他又
大吼大叫，这次我没有退让，让他STOP， 把他的无理取闹一一驳斥，最后他又低头认
错，不停的说是他的错。我都被这个变态折磨死了。因为他是项目leader.我的REVIEW
肯定很差很差，我今后的日子也不会好过。
我自己有两个选择：一个是裸辞，短期爽了，可是还是自己吃亏。
一个是take short term disability leave，这个是公司给员工买的保险,保持26周的
全额工资和医疗保险。 我的OB同意file documents， 理由是怀孕加腰腿疼。还不知道
保险公司会不会接受这种CASE。 有经验的姐妹帮忙看看。
我家就我一个人上班，老公只够自己养自己。存款能够一家一年的花销。我有13年底买
了14商业医疗保险，就是担心14年在公司会熬不下去。
我对环境的适应稍差。上一份工作超开心，老板非常NICE。是为了... 阅读全帖 |
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n****y
发帖数: 6260 | 17 if u r worried about your baby being bullied at playground, then move to a
neighborhood that is predominantly middle class.
If u r worried that your baby getting yelled at on the train, then get a car
and start to drive your baby around.
It is not like you yelling at some KIDS is going to change anything. |
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r****n
发帖数: 144 | 18 儿子快6岁了，平时性格很温和，因此在与小朋友交往中显得非常弱势。不知道应该怎
么去引导。
和一个比他小半岁的孩子一起玩，两个人有争执的时候，哪怕是我儿子占理的时候，那
个孩子会很大声呵斥，比如:"no touch" "stop it". 但是我家的孩子只会默默的坚持
，心里很生气但是表现得很胆怯。
昨天和一个8岁的小朋友一起玩，我去喊他回家的时候，我儿子一开始不想回家。那个8
岁的小朋友就呵斥＂go home, do whatever your mom let you do" "if not, I won't
be your friend",最后几乎是大声yell了＂go your home".虽然那个孩子是希望我儿
子听我的话，但是这么个口气我听了非常不舒服。而儿子一直没有支声。
还有好几次看到别的小朋友过来摸儿子的头，而他一点反应都没有。
我非常希望儿子能一个大声的回击，或者阻止人家yell，哪怕说句"no, stop"。但是从
来没有过，这些还是在我的眼皮底下发生的。总觉得儿子太窝囊了，但是怎么能让他强
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G*********r
发帖数: 538 | 19 Two Choices
At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves children with learning
disabilities, the father of one of the students delivered a speech that
would never be forgotten by all who attended. After extolling the school
and its dedicated staff, he offered a question:
'When not interfered with by outside influences, everything nature does,
is done with perfection.
Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other children do.He cannot
understand things as other children do.
Where is the nat... 阅读全帖 |
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x******l
发帖数: 37 | 20 My 3 yr old boy has the exceterly same problems as LZ's boy.
I am already out of my mind about him, when he get unsatisfied requests, he
will start rolling around floor and yelling, crying, screming.....
Now my husband dealing with him every night, but it looks not any improvment
at all, he almost cried and screming every night before sleep. ask for food
after brush his teeth, ask go outside after he already agreed to go to bed
or he already been bed.
THE BIG PROBLEM is HE NEVER LISTEN TO US, HE... 阅读全帖 |
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L*********i
发帖数: 649 | 21 你的签名当还是很有意思的 ！
most of future things always go out of the person's original control !
an funny example as below:
when my twins are ONLY 6 months old, baby A bite mom's breast when baby A
was sucking milk.
Then my wife "yelled-NOT as hard as you might think" at baby A instantly
because the bite hurts so much.
Then baby A NEVER directly suck mom's milk after that day ! Can you believe
that ?
I never expect baby A has such a strong "stubborn " reaction to mom's
reaction when he was ONLY 6 months ol... 阅读全帖 |
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s********y
发帖数: 200 | 22 Hi RedLeaves,
If I were you,I would say these things to my child EVERYDAY:
"Honey, you are the most important thing to me. Nothing or nobody else
matters more than you."
"Honey, the most wonderful and memorable moment in my whole life was when
you were born."
When my child leaves for school in the morning, I would say "Honey, have a
great day! I cannot wait to see you when I get off work in the afternoon."
If I had to send my child back to China or stay with someone else, I would
say to him: "Ho... 阅读全帖 |
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r***l
发帖数: 9084 | 23 我家大娃5岁，虽然很皮，但最近2年进步多了，经常也会很sweet了。
有次晚上睡觉前，问我爸爸100岁时候什么样子，我说爸爸会很老很老，然后他说"you
are old but i can still hold your hand."
昨天又突然说，爸爸100岁以后会变回1岁，做他的baby, 我问他，你会带爸爸去玩吗？
会去带爸爸打baseball吗？都点点头。我最后问他，会yell爸爸吗？ 他说" i don't
know...I will speak very nicely, say please.." 唉，我承认娃虽然和我很亲，
但从小的确是被yell大的，以后我得改改了，但有时真是控制不住啊 |
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a******o
发帖数: 261 | 24 i could be wrong - but from the way you described how everything went down i
somehow have a feeling that you weren't necessarily in the calmest state
when you spoke to that little girl and later her father. yelling tends to
beget more yelling for kids.
how you deal with the situation is not only important for you but for your
kids as well - they absorb everything like a sponge and will be affected in
more ways than you can imagine.
there are many tactful ways to deal w/ this type of situations,... 阅读全帖 |
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s**********h
发帖数: 436 | 25 My daughter learned it exactly the same way too. When I saw her throwing the
coat to the floor for the first time, I was going to yell at her.
Fortunately my reaction time was long, so before I could yell, she already
put the coat on.
"我这个幼儿园出来的孩子穿外衣都是一个方式，外衣表面贴地面，领子对着自己，双
手伸进去，衣服提起来，从头顶而过，穿好。这是不是全国统一的幼儿园穿衣大法啊？
？" |
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f*********s
发帖数: 792 | 26 老大8岁男孩他的生活我只能用一句话形容：书里才是他真实的世界，我们的真实生活
对他来说是虚幻。
一放学回家就扎在书里，吃饭叫几次听不见，我只好yell，然后才来饭桌前，手里拿着
书。边吃边看，说了多少次，点点头，可是马上就又看。。。吃完饭抱着书看，让他练
琴也听不见，也只有我yell的时候。。。每天都这样。。。
什么书都看（他的reading level是4／5年级的水平），fiction, non fiction，看得
很杂。书里的东西知道很多，很多时候问我问题我都听不懂。虽然我读书也不少。。。
去各种课外活动都要拿一本书，只要有几分钟就看。车上从来都看着书。最让人无可奈
何的是，比如说：昨天去打篮球，爸爸送到了，让他下车，他问：我们来这儿做什么？
晚上睡觉以前一定是在看书。
他各种知识很丰富，词汇量也很大，天文地理历史自然神话车辆动物很多很多都懂。。
。。。可是，他对周围事物一点观察力都没有，对生活中各种细节什么都观察不到，他
对真实的生活一点都没兴趣。。。我担心太担心了，感觉他以后都不会自己生活。。。
我也想培养他：做饭等等，可是他一点兴趣都没有，一点点都没有。。。别的课外活动
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d****g
发帖数: 7460 | 27 举个例子哈，好比小孩子弹琴老是在一个地方错音，让他单弹这一句，轻松弹对，一连
起来又错了。反反复复十次，还是错在这个小地方。
好比数数老是数过15就胡乱数，老是跳过16或17。教了无数遍，教会了。再数一遍，又
错了。。
好比从前教一个字，星星的星，教了无数遍，让写，写出来一个“是”。
好比尽管竖式加法，很简单一个进位，就是不知道加。
the point is, 我是推爹，但我不是天下最推的爹，一般不太教功课，从不做workbook
, 但时不时因适立导，觉得时机成熟会推娃一两个概念。太难娃不懂我就算了，不着急
吗。但有时是一个很简单很简单的事儿，我完全认为娃能够并且应该掌握的事，娃会一
遍一遍的卡壳。然后，我就会”吼”,会发脾气，会put down 孩子，会yell:
“whats wrong with you, you did more difficult things, why dont you get this
!!! focus!! focus!!!" 然后我会drill娃二十三十遍untill he gets it. 然后最终，
娃的确会掌握，尽管有时就很晚了。抱抱娃，安慰安... 阅读全帖 |
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c*****t
发帖数: 330 | 28 Email from teacher yesterday:
Today at lunch he was sitting at a different table and was yelling my
name to get my attention. He kept asking what is a "not me ghost". We have
discussed this several times and the child know this means. A friend at his
table attempted to tell him and he growled at them. Naturally he scared the
children sitting at his table. He proceeded to yell my name and ask what
is "not me ghost". A child at my table was going to tell him and xxx lept
from his chair and lung... 阅读全帖 |
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b*********n
发帖数: 73 | 29 家附近 play ground 上一个大肥白人妈妈 。 超级歧视非白人的孩子。宝宝无意摸了
她家宝宝的buggy, 我正要把宝宝拉过来，她就开始 yell. I said, I am trying to
take her away and then she yelled again, " just take her away". 非常没有礼貌
。 可是她对于其他白人的小孩子经常摸玩那个buggy都不会怎么样. 我觉得她种族歧
视 ，本来想和她理论，后来觉得本是我们宝宝不对在先， 所以就忍了 。大家有类似
的经历么 ？ 都怎么教训这些 mean white trash parent ? |
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a***h
发帖数: 493 | 30 你对那娃妈说：yelling to child is not funny
yelling is not strong |
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m******0
发帖数: 213 | 31 好好说话是一种能力。有的人说孩子3岁以上就做不到。我不同意。我家孩子一个4岁，
一个6岁，也是说什么，人家不一定听，听了也不一定做。我一开始也会吼。不过，因
为我家说好，大家不yell，所以，yell完了我反省，道歉。然后改变方法。
早饭来不及吃，要么带到学校，要么就饿肚子。规矩讲好，不是妈妈不给你时间吃，是
这些时间你不用来吃早饭，那么后果自负。到出门时间了，告诉他们一声。他们自己就
知道要把东西带好，外套带好，袜子穿好。我也不用跟在他们后面一直催。用合理的
consequence“教育”他们。 |
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A***a
发帖数: 2211 | 32 I yelled... and i felt sorry for myself for the situation when I yelled.
yet, if I do not, what is going to happen next?
I hope someone know how to work with kids to show us a way. |
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t*******r
发帖数: 22634 | 33 俺一路顺藤摸瓜过去听了 n 多。。。我不觉得你说的 natural belting 跟
belting 有啥本质差别，我觉得本质上都是 belting。。。基本符合 belting
vs classic singing 的差别。最大的差别就是：使用面部肌肉 vs 放松面部肌肉
使用直接的声带气息支持，另外就是高喉头位置和正常低喉头位置的区别。
所谓 “natural”，我觉得就是符合大多数人 yelling 的时候的习惯。。。classic
singing 是反习惯的，在用力和高音的时候，靠加强声带和气息支持，使得喉头和
声带仍然保持自然说话时的位置，不进入 yelling 的状态。同时靠 vibrato
把人声切过伴奏。。。从这个角度数，belting 都是 natural 的。
不过我也不是很建议一般扑通蛙学 classic singing，我觉得除非是像 Hayley
Westenra 那种 talented，classic singing 需要拼很多小时数我觉得。
睡觉去了，听了半天。。。 |
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S******0
发帖数: 1183 | 34 ------------------------------------
A Day in the life of milk and cereal
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I was sitting in the fridge when someone all of a sudden poured me out on
the bowl. “Ahh!,” I yelled.
Then he pull out something else on top of me.
It turned out to be my old friend Mr. Crunch!
“Hi Mr. Crunch,”I said, “How are you doing?”
“Good,” replied Mr. Crunch, “How ‘bout you?”
“Not yet expired!,”I squeaked.
“When will we go on the roller coaster?,” asked Mr. Crunch.
“In a while.,... 阅读全帖 |
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u*****a
发帖数: 6276 | 35 McKinney police officer Eric Casebolt, a corporal with the department’s
patrol division, has been placed on administrative leave after a video
surfaced showing the officer manhandling a 14-year-old girl outside a pool
party Friday night.
McKinney police Chief Greg Conley said Sunday afternoon that a formal
investigation was launched into the officer’s actions after officials saw
the video Saturday evening.
Conley declined to say what specific behavior in the video led to the
investigation. He al... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 13 | 36 和大家分享一下我喜欢的几个适合带娃Camp的国家公园，我选了很多精美图片，可惜这
里图片无法直接paste，感兴趣的爸妈可以上我们的微信平台看插图版（ID:
growupinla)，在平台上输入“20”即可阅读此文。
<这个夏天和孩子一起在森林海滩扎起帐篷燃起篝火～>
每年暑假总是令人期待哈，因为暑假这两个字的意思基本就是“可以出去玩喽”，不过
“今年咱们去哪里玩？”对于当了爸妈的我们是个伤脑筋的问题。有些地方我们很向往
，不过一想到孩子在途中可能出现的种种状况就只能忍了；有些地方小朋友很喜欢，可
是对我们来说实在享受不了！之前我们发表了“我爱慵懒惬意的家庭度假 ｜ 探南加最
美的亲子度假村”，喜欢轻松休闲一点儿的可以看看。今天我们要说的是另一种旅游，
就是很多美国爸妈以及全世界热爱户外运动的爸妈们的最爱—野营。从海滩湖泊森林到
沙漠高山，加州独特的地理环境和四季如春的气候让这里成为了野营爱好者的天堂。对
孩子来说，野营既是最好的亲子活动（爸妈终于扔掉手机和电脑，扔掉工作和家务！）
，野营带给孩子的体验也是其他活动无法比拟的～大家一起先听听那些常常带孩子去野
营的爸妈们说说野营带给孩子... 阅读全帖 |
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发帖数: 399 | 37 今天早上儿子告诉我昨天下午在学校的aftercare (YMCA提供的用的学校的餐厅）
上厕所洗手时，因为他边洗手边讲话被在旁边洗手池洗手的三年级男孩打了两耳光，听
了心里很难过，儿子当时哭了并告诉了aftercare的老师，但是老师也没说什么，儿子
还说三年级男孩告诉老师说是我儿子yelling in his face， 儿子说绝对没有的，我特
别了解儿子，性格很开朗活泼，爱讲话但性格很温和，绝对做不出来没事去yelling别
人的，从小到大从未在学校跟任何孩子有过肢体冲突，这是第一次。
我想跟aftercare的director写封信说说，大家请支招我该这样做吗？这封信该怎
么写？要不要让学校也知道这件事情？ |
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c*******9
发帖数: 6411 | 38 it will drop when rim stopping yelling.
now rim still yell, it will continue building the top |
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g**********2
发帖数: 2408 | 39 台湾人的性格里受日本人影响很大。
到台湾去会发现他们的确非常非常的客气，但是感觉很假。这一点和日本人很相近。
但是台湾的国会和日本的国会恐怕是唯一上演打斗闹剧的地方。没有Dignity.
WASHINGTON -- In an extraordinary breach of congressional decorum, a
Republican lawmaker shouted "You lie" at President Barack Obama during his
speech to Congress Wednesday.
The incident came directly after Obama said, "There are also those who claim
that our reform effort will insure illegal immigrants. This, too, is false.
The reforms I'm proposing would not apply to those who are here illegally."
"Yo... 阅读全帖 |
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N******s
发帖数: 10555 | 40 ☆─────────────────────────────────────☆
chemmaster (chemmaster) 于 提到:
EXEL:
The company has the best line up of MAPK pathway inhibitors
Its pipeline is very complementary to ROCHE's, is a speculated target for
ROCHE.
Its MEK inhibitor cobimetinib is the best in class, and has shown good
results in combination with ROCHE's RAF inhibitor and PI3K inhibitor
Its market cap is only 700 million, a bargain for a biotech with a drug
already approved to market
etc etc.
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A******7
发帖数: 1920 | 41 my boss always steps into our office and yells "are you guys are all
sleeping?". "no!! we are all working" we all yell back.... |
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p********6
发帖数: 65 | 42 有点长,希望大家看完之后给我些意见和指导.
我在一个小公司上班,大概共30-40人. 我们组有一个美国长大的墨西哥裔女人,40岁左
右,有关节炎,需要长期服药, 该药物有depression的副作用,所以她必须同时吃anti-
depression的药. 此外她的personality很差, 极度自私和追求控制欲.在我加入公司之
前,她就跟3个员工吵过. 她以前在公司的最好的朋友,现在都不跟她说话.
我们组一共四个人,包括老板. 因为我们周末有小实验要做, 所以这周开组会时我们一
致同意周末轮流加班, 并且决定在每周5商量谁本周加班.
我们今天中午组里一起去吃饭.在车里,老板问起周末大家都有什么活. 因为我这周末的
活最多,所以我就说了我可以这周末来加班.
下午快下班之前,我问墨西哥女人要不要我周末帮她干活,结果她就莫名其妙开始找茬.
质疑这,质疑那的,抱怨老板,还给我发号施令, 我回了她几句,她就更上瘾, 跟我玩文字
游戏,胡搅蛮缠.
我觉得很无聊,她愿意自己干自己的活最好, 所以我就起身离开了, 到了我自己的bench.
结果她后面跟了上来,站在我身旁,继续喋喋不休地争论,
我当时... 阅读全帖 |
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w*s
发帖数: 372 | 43 怀孕5个月了，在一个R&D公司工作。项目leader 是个变态老头，经常没有缘由的大骂
yell at people。我每天都很压抑，感觉见到他就心跳加速，孕初期被他突然yell，心
脏病都犯了。也去公司HR那抱怨过，HR的人也找他谈了，但他还是一如既往。最近他又
大吼大叫，这次我没有退让，让他STOP， 把他的无理取闹一一驳斥，最后他又低头认
错，不停的说是他的错。我都被这个变态折磨死了。因为他是项目leader.我的REVIEW
肯定很差很差，我今后的日子也不会好过。
我自己有两个选择：一个是裸辞，短期爽了，可是还是自己吃亏。
一个是take short term disability leave，这个是公司给员工买的保险,保持26周的
全额工资和医疗保险。 我的OB同意file documents， 理由是怀孕加腰腿疼。还不知道
保险公司会不会接受这种CASE。 有经验的姐妹帮忙看看。
我家就我一个人上班，老公只够自己养自己。存款能够一家一年的花销。我有13年底买
了14商业医疗保险，就是担心14年在公司会熬不下去。
我对环境的适应稍差。上一份工作超开心，老板非常NICE。是为了... 阅读全帖 |
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m****s
发帖数: 529 | 44 气死了。跟USCIS的客服在电话里吵起来（也不是吵，就是yell了两句，因为觉得他们
态度很差，说话一副大爷的样子。还质问我，为什么yell他。。。）。
现在会不会遭报应，会记录下来我，回头故意不给批？那岂不是很惨
还是我小农了？反正很生气，很upset。请各位指教。 |
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m********7
发帖数: 1791 | 45 the point is
we need for sure 0707 will be in this year or next year
You can get your answer by your toes
If you were Mr. O, you will push the VB as slowly as you can
because you may lose your job or get yelling from your boss if you use more
number,
but yelling only from I/C if wastes numbers.
will you be care I/C? |
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C*****e
发帖数: 1413 | 46 【 以下文字转载自 Law 讨论区 】
发信人: Concise (forever13), 信区: Law
标 题: The conflict with my ESL instructor at Harvard Extension School
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Fri Sep 23 23:42:01 2011, 美东)
初来美国一年，不懂美国文化，犯下一些错误，请各位同胞给我指导和支持！
事情经过：
我在Harvard Extension School的Institute for English Language Programs 上上课
。每周两次，周二和周四各一次。
此课程开始于上上周（9月13日），本周是第二周，我于昨天（周四）已经上了四次课
。每次课后，老师都叫三个同学留下，单独(一个学生和老师谈话，另外两个学生在教
室外面等着。）征询意见。昨天轮到我提意见。我真心诚意的准备了几个建议。
1， Would you please make our class more efficiently?
He asked,"What do you mean?"
I sai... 阅读全帖 |
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t******g
发帖数: 53 | 47 At first there was only 1 police trying to persuade her to leave. She would
not listen. Police put her against the glass wall outside of Apple store,
and threatened to arrest her and she still would not listen. Police took out
the cuff but could not put on her because she was yelling and moving. She
yelled in English to the police and took out her iPhone to record the police
. They stood together for 10 minutes with police trying to cuff her but she
resisted repeatedly. Police called for reinfor... 阅读全帖 |
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t******g
发帖数: 53 | 48 What you said below is not true, police did not get both of her hands until
after tasering. I was much closer to the woman than the guy who shot the
video. I just walked in Apple store when the police and the woman were
together against the glass wall in Apple store, less than 10 feet away.
At first there was only 1 police trying to persuade her to leave. She would
not listen. Police put her against the glass wall outside of Apple store,
and threatened to arrest her and she still would not liste... 阅读全帖 |
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R**********n
发帖数: 523 | 49 【 以下文字转载自 USANews 讨论区 】
发信人: RichardBiton (Richard), 信区: USANews
标 题: Millions of Broken American Dreams zzz
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Wed Nov 13 16:11:58 2013, 美东)
http://www.weidb.com/voice/index.php?title=Millions_of_Broken_A
Millions of Broken American Dreams -- An Open Letter to the World
November 12, 2013
Dear Fair and Righteous Citizens of the World,
We don't know who you are, but we know you are out there. We are
asking for your urgent help. We have been rendered voiceless, powerles... 阅读全帖 |
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l******o
发帖数: 8344 | 50 我就打了shaw的电话，shaw很严肃地跟我说， If any appointment is late, just
wait there, there could be some emergency on the road, it is normal, It is
not okay to yell at our office lady
i said :well, listen, i am not yelling, your company's service sucks.
Shaw大怒，说，then we don't service you, 挂了电话， |
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