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发信人: CedarFish (木鱼), 信区: BibleStudy
标 题: 关于婚外恋（一个资深基督徒的EMAIL）
发信站: BBS 未名空间站 (Tue Oct 12 13:38:33 2010, 美东)
大家不知道记得前一阵子网上有一连出了几个妻子爆料丈夫有AFFAIR的，而另外一个女
的，都是彼此都认识的，还是朋友之类的。而这些夫妻大都结婚很多年，小孩都快10来
岁了。我当时告诉一个资深美国女基督徒，舆论有两个观点，1）如果自己的婚姻破裂
了，AFFAIR又是真爱，那么可以MOVE ON。2）无论如何都不能。 以下是她说的，贴在
这里和大家分享：
Love is not an easy thing, I, myself went through the same pain years ago
like Lily in this case, God has been so good to me, I be able to stand up on
my two feet and move on.
Let me say this--
Home is a place for "love",
Courtroom is to judge who is right or wrong,
Do not mix this two together.
Love is un-conditional,
Love will never end.
God never stop loving us, no matter how bad we behavior.
How can you say love die?
Whoever say "their love die" they do not know what love is, nor they do not
qualify to say they know love.
Affair is an adulatory, is not acceptable in God's eyes, not only you can
not commit, you can't even think about it, (my opinion- once you think of
it, you may fall into the temptation).
Doesn't matter the public is on who's side,
when a marriage is beyond repair,
switch focus to the children,
Damage to the children is far greater than anyone can see at the time of
divorce.
Let the children enjoy their childhood.
Sooner come to realization, sooner moving on, sooner the healing will start.
(I give myself a set period of time to cry and feel sorry for myself, then I
go back to normal routine). |
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