s*****a
发帖数: 2006 | 1 一部十年前的日剧
值得学习一下
男生应该努力负起身为男子汉的责任 |
s*******8
发帖数: 12734 | 2 it depends
看过老友记么，rachal说的好，我marry的是我爱的人，不是一个只是因为sex或者有
baby才和我结婚的人。
老友记最后的大团圆结局不是ross和rachal最后结婚这么简单，是通过一系列活动证明
了2人真爱，才在一起。
看样子，这个因为爱在一起的道理，不但中国是这样，美国也是，而且也反映美国人也
有骨子里的传统，比如有了孩子就该结婚。
经典台词：joey:she will marry anybody.Ross: I just don't want be anybody.
哈哈。 |
m**********g
发帖数: 3284 | 3 楼主这在说小蘑菇吗？说晚了，
【在 s*****a 的大作中提到】
: 一部十年前的日剧
: 值得学习一下
: 男生应该努力负起身为男子汉的责任
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g******4
发帖数: 6339 | 4
baby才和我结婚的人。
明了2人真爱，才在一起。看样子，这个因为爱在一起的道理，不但中国是这样，美国
也是，而且也反映美国人也有骨子里的传统，比如有了孩子就该结婚。
Love between "ross和rachal" is ....
Marriage is NOT based on love, it is based on commitment.
"奉子成婚" is acceptable for those who believe "Marriage is based on
commitment".
【在 s*******8 的大作中提到】
: it depends
: 看过老友记么，rachal说的好，我marry的是我爱的人，不是一个只是因为sex或者有
: baby才和我结婚的人。
: 老友记最后的大团圆结局不是ross和rachal最后结婚这么简单，是通过一系列活动证明
: 了2人真爱，才在一起。
: 看样子，这个因为爱在一起的道理，不但中国是这样，美国也是，而且也反映美国人也
: 有骨子里的传统，比如有了孩子就该结婚。
: 经典台词：joey:she will marry anybody.Ross: I just don't want be anybody.
: 哈哈。
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J*********y
发帖数: 486 | 5 每个年龄对于感情婚姻的理解都不一样，这东西没有对错，只有适合不适合，适合自己
的才是最好的。不要尝试做大总结，因为每个人经历不同，随便都能举反例。
还有，爱情只是结婚的基础，亲情才是维持婚姻的基础。靠爱情维持婚姻的人，就像姚
晨和她老公。。。 |
O*******m
发帖数: 663 | 6 楼主在给你们推荐日本爱情片，看了么。
【在 m**********g 的大作中提到】
: 楼主这在说小蘑菇吗？说晚了，
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O*******m
发帖数: 663 | 7 他们两个爱情为什么没能转化成亲情呢？
是否因为姚晨的卵细胞还未遭遇凌潇肃的精子？
【在 J*********y 的大作中提到】
: 每个年龄对于感情婚姻的理解都不一样，这东西没有对错，只有适合不适合，适合自己
: 的才是最好的。不要尝试做大总结，因为每个人经历不同，随便都能举反例。
: 还有，爱情只是结婚的基础，亲情才是维持婚姻的基础。靠爱情维持婚姻的人，就像姚
: 晨和她老公。。。
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g******4
发帖数: 6339 | 8
姚晨和她老公。。。
"姚晨和她老公" ?? Some chemical disappeared in their brains, a few years
after they were fall in love.
【在 J*********y 的大作中提到】
: 每个年龄对于感情婚姻的理解都不一样，这东西没有对错，只有适合不适合，适合自己
: 的才是最好的。不要尝试做大总结，因为每个人经历不同，随便都能举反例。
: 还有，爱情只是结婚的基础，亲情才是维持婚姻的基础。靠爱情维持婚姻的人，就像姚
: 晨和她老公。。。
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g******4
发帖数: 6339 | 9 I found it, found it ....
*** Chemical basis for love ***
Helen Fisher, a leading expert in the topic of love, divides the experience
of love into three partly overlapping stages:
(1) lust, (2) attraction, and (3)attachment.
*Lust* exposes people to others; romantic *attraction* encourages people to
focus their energy on mating; and *attachment* involves tolerating the
spouse (or indeed the child) long enough to rear a child into infancy.
(1) Lust is the initial passionate sexual desire that promotes mating, and
involves the increased release of chemicals such as testosterone and
estrogen. These effects rarely last more than a few weeks or months.
(2) Attraction is the more individualized and romantic desire for a specific
candidate for mating, which develops out of lust as commitment to an
individual mate forms. Recent studies in neuroscience have indicated that as
people fall in love, the brain consistently releases a certain set of
chemicals, including pheromones, dopamine, norepinephrine, and serotonin,
which act in a manner similar to amphetamines, stimulating the brain's
pleasure center and leading to side effects such as increased heart rate,
loss of appetite and sleep, and an intense feeling of excitement. Research
has indicated that this stage generally lasts from one and a half to three
years.
Since the lust and attraction stages are both considered temporary, a third
stage is needed to account for long-term relationships.
(3) Attachment is the bonding that promotes relationships lasting for many
years and even decades. Attachment is generally based on commitments such as
marriage and children, or on mutual friendship based on things like shared
interests. It has been linked to higher levels of the chemicals oxytocin and
vasopressin to a greater degree than short-term relationships have. Enzo
Emanuele and coworkers reported the protein molecule known as the nerve
growth factor (NGF) has high levels when people first fall in love, but
these return to previous levels after one year.
【在 g******4 的大作中提到】
:
: 姚晨和她老公。。。
: "姚晨和她老公" ?? Some chemical disappeared in their brains, a few years
: after they were fall in love.
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g******4
发帖数: 6339 | 10
experience
to
(3) Attachment is the bonding that promotes relationships lasting for many
years and even decades. Attachment is generally based on commitments such as
marriage and children, or on mutual friendship based on things like shared
interests.
【在 g******4 的大作中提到】
: I found it, found it ....
: *** Chemical basis for love ***
: Helen Fisher, a leading expert in the topic of love, divides the experience
: of love into three partly overlapping stages:
: (1) lust, (2) attraction, and (3)attachment.
: *Lust* exposes people to others; romantic *attraction* encourages people to
: focus their energy on mating; and *attachment* involves tolerating the
: spouse (or indeed the child) long enough to rear a child into infancy.
: (1) Lust is the initial passionate sexual desire that promotes mating, and
: involves the increased release of chemicals such as testosterone and
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g******4
发帖数: 6339 | 11 姚晨和她老公 were not mature when they got married, I think.
experience
to
【在 g******4 的大作中提到】
: I found it, found it ....
: *** Chemical basis for love ***
: Helen Fisher, a leading expert in the topic of love, divides the experience
: of love into three partly overlapping stages:
: (1) lust, (2) attraction, and (3)attachment.
: *Lust* exposes people to others; romantic *attraction* encourages people to
: focus their energy on mating; and *attachment* involves tolerating the
: spouse (or indeed the child) long enough to rear a child into infancy.
: (1) Lust is the initial passionate sexual desire that promotes mating, and
: involves the increased release of chemicals such as testosterone and
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g******4
发帖数: 6339 | 12 Just checked the dictionary and know the meaning od those words: |
