x*********n 发帖数: 28013 | | m**k 发帖数: 18660 | 2 But I love you?
【在 x*********n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 对着她说:我不喜欢你。 : 大家同意吗?
| x*********n 发帖数: 28013 | 3 没有这么深奥啦。哈哈哈。
【在 m**k 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : But I love you?
| a***x 发帖数: 26368 | 4 最高境界难道不是在网上吐槽么?
【在 x*********n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 对着她说:我不喜欢你。 : 大家同意吗?
| h**r 发帖数: 8078 | 5 最高境界是一辈子单相思吧
【在 x*********n 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 对着她说:我不喜欢你。 : 大家同意吗?
| s*******t 发帖数: 4035 | 6 这般苦苦等候了五日,已到三月初七,他已两日两夜未曾交睫入睡,到了这日,更是不
离断肠崖半步,自晨至午,更自午至夕,每当风动树梢,花落林中,心中便是一跳,跃
起来四下里搜寻观望,却那里有小龙女的影踪?
自从听了黄药师那几句话后,他早知“大智岛南海神尼”云云,乃是黄蓉捏造出来
的鬼话,但崖上字迹确是小龙女所刻,却半点不假,只盼她言而有信,终来相会。眼见
太阳缓缓落山,杨过的心也是跟着太阳不断的向下低沉。当太阳的一半被山头遮没时,
他大叫一声,急奔上峰。身在高处,只见太阳的圆脸重又完整,心中略略一宽,只要太
阳不落山,三月初七这一日就算没过完。
可是虽然登上了最高的山峰,太阳最终还是落入了地下。悄立山巅,四顾苍茫,但
觉寒气侵体,暮色逼人而来,站了一个多时辰,竟是一动也不动。再过多时,半轮月亮
慢慢移到中天,不但这一天已经过去,连这一夜也快过去了。
小龙女始终没有来。
他便如一具石像般在山顶呆立了一夜,直到红日东升,四下里小鸟啾鸣,花香浮动
,春意正浓,他心中却如一片寒冰,似有一个声音在耳际不住响动:“傻子!她早死了
,在十六年之前早就死了。她自知中毒难愈,你决计不肯独活,因此图了自尽,却骗你
等她十六年。傻子,她待你如此情义深重,你怎么到今日还不明白她的心意?”
他犹如行尸走肉般踉跄下山,一日一夜不饮不食,但觉唇燥舌焦,于是走到小溪之
旁,掬水而饮,一低头,猛见水中倒影,两鬓竟然白了一片。他此时三十六岁,年方壮
盛,不该头发便白,更因内功精纯。虽然一处艰苦颠沛,但向来头上一根银丝也无,突
见两鬓如霜,满脸尘土,几乎不识得自己面貌,伸手在额角鬓际拔下三根头发来,只见
三根中倒有两根是白的。
霎时之间,心中想起几句词来:“十年生死两茫茫,不思量,自难忘。千里孤坟,
无处话凄凉。纵使相逢应不识,尘满面,鬓如霜。”这是苏东坡悼亡之词。杨过一生潜
心武学,读书不多,数处前在江南一家小酒店壁上偶尔见到题着这首词,但觉情深意真
,随口念了几遍,这时忆及,已不记得是谁所作。心想:“他是十年生死两茫茫,我和
龙儿已相隔一十六年了。他尚有个孤坟,知道爱妻埋骨之所,而我却连妻子葬身何处也
自不知。”接着又想到这词的下半阕,那是作者一晚梦到亡妻的情境:“夜来幽梦忽还
乡,小轩窗,正梳妆;相对无言,惟有泪千行!料想年年肠断处,明月夜,短松岗。”
不由得心中大恸:“而我,而我,三日三夜不能合眼,竟连梦也做不到一个!”
猛地里一跃而起,奔到断肠崖前,瞧着小龙女所刻下的那几行字,大声叫道:“‘
十六年后,在此相会,夫妻情深,勿失信约!’小龙女啊小龙女!是你亲手刻下的字,
怎地你不守信约?”他一啸之威,震狮倒虎,这几句话发自肺腑,只震得山谷皆鸣,但
听得群山响应,东南西北,四周山峰都传来:“怎地你不守信约?怎地你不守信约?不
守信约……不守信约……”
他自来生性激烈,此时万念俱灰,心想:“龙儿既已在十六年前便即逝世,我多活
这十六年实在无谓之至。”望着断肠崖前那个深谷,只见谷口烟雾缭绕,他每次来此,
从没见到过云雾下的谷底,此时仍是如此。仰起头来,纵声长啸,只吹得断肠崖上数百
朵憔悴了的龙女花飞舞乱转,轻轻说道:“当年你突然失踪,不知去向,我寻遍山前山
后,找不到你,那时定是跃入了这万丈深谷之中,这十六年中,难道你不怕寂寞吗?”
泪眼模糊,眼前似乎幻出了小龙女白衣飘飘的影子,又隐隐似乎听到小龙女在谷底
叫道:“杨郎,杨郎,你别伤心,别伤心!”杨过双足一登,身子飞起,跃入了深谷之
中…… | F*I 发帖数: 2896 | | g******4 发帖数: 6339 | 8
【在 h**r 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : 最高境界是一辈子单相思吧
| g******4 发帖数: 6339 | 9
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love has three partly overlapping stages: lust, attraction, and attachment.
Lust is the initial passionate sexual desire that promotes mating, and
involves the increased release of chemicals such as testosterone and
estrogen. These effects rarely last more than a few weeks or months.
Attraction is the more individualized and romantic desire for a specific
candidate for mating, which develops out of lust as commitment to an
individual mate forms. Recent studies in neuroscience have indicated that as
people fall in love, the brain consistently releases a certain set of
chemicals, including the neurotransmitter hormones, dopamine, norepinephrine
, and serotonin, the same compounds released by amphetamine, stimulating the
brain's pleasure center and leading to side effects such as increased heart
rate, loss of appetite and sleep, and an intense feeling of excitement.
Research has indicated that this stage generally lasts from one and a half
to three years.
Since the lust and attraction stages are both considered temporary, a third
stage is needed to account for long-term relationships. Attachment is the
bonding that promotes relationships lasting for many years and even decades.
Attachment is generally based on commitments such as marriage and children,
or on mutual friendship based on things like shared interests. It has been
linked to higher levels of the chemicals oxytocin and vasopressin to a
greater degree than short-term relationships have. Enzo Emanuele and
coworkers reported the protein molecule known as the nerve growth factor (
NGF) has high levels when people first fall in love, but these return to
previous levels after one year.
【在 m**k 的大作中提到】![](/moin_static193/solenoid/img/up.png) : But I love you?
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