s*******g
发帖数: 3 | 1 We have been together for more than 6 years. I also know her family is not so
rich. They paid her sister a lot of money in order to get her into
a university, which is through the loan. My LP's sent some money back last
year. However her mom asked for more. As for me, the amount is not so big
because I get a job and the salary is quite good. But I still feel bad because
I feel guilty to my parents, moreover I think her sister is kind of spoiled.
Actually, my parents saved money out of the mouth |
j**q
发帖数: 8 | 2 家务事, 无底洞,
得过且过是上上策,
so
because
wife
【在 s*******g 的大作中提到】
: We have been together for more than 6 years. I also know her family is not so
: rich. They paid her sister a lot of money in order to get her into
: a university, which is through the loan. My LP's sent some money back last
: year. However her mom asked for more. As for me, the amount is not so big
: because I get a job and the salary is quite good. But I still feel bad because
: I feel guilty to my parents, moreover I think her sister is kind of spoiled.
: Actually, my parents saved money out of the mouth
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f*******a
发帖数: 2662 | 3 我对待这种事情的态度是一，救急不救穷。二，帮她父母是应该的，但
没有必要帮她姐妹。
就你自己的情况泥，我太太说了，首先钱是你自己的还是你父母的？
如果你父母的钱，你不该给；如果你挣的钱，要给，两家都给，不给就拉倒.
如果你太太有工作挣了钱，她爱给就给。
【在 s*******g 的大作中提到】
: We have been together for more than 6 years. I also know her family is not so
: rich. They paid her sister a lot of money in order to get her into
: a university, which is through the loan. My LP's sent some money back last
: year. However her mom asked for more. As for me, the amount is not so big
: because I get a job and the salary is quite good. But I still feel bad because
: I feel guilty to my parents, moreover I think her sister is kind of spoiled.
: Actually, my parents saved money out of the mouth
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q*c
发帖数: 9453 | 4
为什么老公的钱就必须两家都给， 但是老婆的钱 “爱给谁就给谁” 呢 ;)
【在 f*******a 的大作中提到】
: 我对待这种事情的态度是一，救急不救穷。二，帮她父母是应该的，但
: 没有必要帮她姐妹。
: 就你自己的情况泥，我太太说了，首先钱是你自己的还是你父母的？
: 如果你父母的钱，你不该给；如果你挣的钱，要给，两家都给，不给就拉倒.
: 如果你太太有工作挣了钱，她爱给就给。
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u*****t
发帖数: 86 | 5
因为是他太太的话啊，他自己未必这么看。:-)
【在 q*c 的大作中提到】
:
: 为什么老公的钱就必须两家都给， 但是老婆的钱 “爱给谁就给谁” 呢 ;)
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f*******a
发帖数: 2662 | 6 I have to say, agree with her.
【在 u*****t 的大作中提到】
:
: 因为是他太太的话啊，他自己未必这么看。:-)
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i*******e
发帖数: 18 | 7 什么是“关键”时刻？ 就是你要牺牲一点（些）个人利益（金钱，时间，力气等）去给
别人好处和帮助，而不一定有回报的时候。这种时刻是试金石，你的作为证明你的为人。
谁真谁假，观者心知肚明。无需解释与掩盖。望你多斟酌。
【在 f*******a 的大作中提到】
: I have to say, agree with her.
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