s*****h
发帖数: 170 | 1 saw an article today, saying that the grow-up process generally consists of
two processes. One is to change from the values centering rebellion and
difference to the mainstream values characterized by "normal". Because most
of the time, the long-tested mainstream values do help survival.
The second process is to accept that there's nothing too special about
oneself. |
g*******d
发帖数: 12 | 2 Interesting.
Could you please post the full article here, or simply give us a link?
thanks
of
most
【在 s*****h 的大作中提到】
: saw an article today, saying that the grow-up process generally consists of
: two processes. One is to change from the values centering rebellion and
: difference to the mainstream values characterized by "normal". Because most
: of the time, the long-tested mainstream values do help survival.
: The second process is to accept that there's nothing too special about
: oneself.
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s*****h
发帖数: 170 | 3 i probably incorporated some of my own understanding.
猛人时代
庄雅婷 @ 2010-2-6 13:25 阅读(1791) 评论(1) 推荐值(20) 引用通告 分类: 未归类
我最近在看李银河先生写的《后村的女人们》，有关农村女性生活方式的样本调查。在
看书的过程中，我几次情不自禁的翻到版权页和序言上去看出品年代——这实在是太不
像现在的调查结果了，仿佛是几十年前的事儿，那些观念远远的落后于城市，自由恋爱
都貌似是种奢望，更别提那些婚前性、婚后和谐，那简直是神话啊。
大城市里现在当然已经够开放的了。婚前同居已经不再是伤风败俗，而变成高成本生活
下一种节约成本的方式，两个人住在一起，可以省出一份房租来，或者干脆就合伙买房
子，就那么住着，直到某日避孕失败再顺理成章的奉子成婚，这种情况下大家都报以祝
福的心态看他们从此步入人生正规。至于恋爱、失恋、再恋爱，也不算什么大事；还有
异地恋、网恋、419、办公室恋情……老实讲，都属于个人爱好，在这种时代也翻不出
什么浪花儿来，因为男女关系身败名裂的事越来越少见了，连那些被“人肉搜索”过的
，
【在 g*******d 的大作中提到】
: Interesting.
: Could you please post the full article here, or simply give us a link?
: thanks
:
: of
: most
|
g*******d
发帖数: 12 | 4 The obervation cited in the last paragraph, that most Chinese are
conservative in sexual attitudes while open in sexual activities, is very
true ...
【在 s*****h 的大作中提到】
: i probably incorporated some of my own understanding.
: 猛人时代
: 庄雅婷 @ 2010-2-6 13:25 阅读(1791) 评论(1) 推荐值(20) 引用通告 分类: 未归类
: 我最近在看李银河先生写的《后村的女人们》，有关农村女性生活方式的样本调查。在
: 看书的过程中，我几次情不自禁的翻到版权页和序言上去看出品年代——这实在是太不
: 像现在的调查结果了，仿佛是几十年前的事儿，那些观念远远的落后于城市，自由恋爱
: 都貌似是种奢望，更别提那些婚前性、婚后和谐，那简直是神话啊。
: 大城市里现在当然已经够开放的了。婚前同居已经不再是伤风败俗，而变成高成本生活
: 下一种节约成本的方式，两个人住在一起，可以省出一份房租来，或者干脆就合伙买房
: 子，就那么住着，直到某日避孕失败再顺理成章的奉子成婚，这种情况下大家都报以祝
|
s*****h
发帖数: 170 | 5 u have experience?
【在 g*******d 的大作中提到】
: The obervation cited in the last paragraph, that most Chinese are
: conservative in sexual attitudes while open in sexual activities, is very
: true ...
|
