j****e
发帖数: 264 | 1 我结婚了，究竟是告诉还是不告诉系主任，系主任问我有小孩和结婚没有，我说结婚了
，有小孩，对结果有影响吗？ |
p**m
发帖数: 11571 | 2 be honest
【在 j****e 的大作中提到】
: 我结婚了，究竟是告诉还是不告诉系主任，系主任问我有小孩和结婚没有，我说结婚了
: ，有小孩，对结果有影响吗？
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h*****n
发帖数: 924 | 3 seems honesty is the solution, though the chair asked a very inappropriate q
uestion.
if the asked question is on record and you do not get the offer, you can sue
the univ.
【在 j****e 的大作中提到】
: 我结婚了，究竟是告诉还是不告诉系主任，系主任问我有小孩和结婚没有，我说结婚了
: ，有小孩，对结果有影响吗？
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w****y
发帖数: 2501 | 4 对，Chair不应该问的。
inappropriate q
sue
【在 h*****n 的大作中提到】
: seems honesty is the solution, though the chair asked a very inappropriate q
: uestion.
: if the asked question is on record and you do not get the offer, you can sue
: the univ.
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d***a
发帖数: 13752 | 5 是不应该问，可能有legal的问题。
【在 w****y 的大作中提到】
: 对，Chair不应该问的。
:
: inappropriate q
: sue
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j****e
发帖数: 264 | |
a**********e
发帖数: 67 | 7 Well, sue them if they don't give you offer in the end. They may have to
offer you a position then :).
【在 j****e 的大作中提到】
: 上来直接就问了
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F******p
发帖数: 2099 | 8 he was not professional, but there is nothing you can get by suing them for
an inappropriate question. |
r****y
发帖数: 1437 | 9 I wonder who dare to ask such questions directly? This is called
privacy. If you sue him or complain to the president, then he gets screwed
up.
【在 j****e 的大作中提到】
: 我结婚了，究竟是告诉还是不告诉系主任，系主任问我有小孩和结婚没有，我说结婚了
: ，有小孩，对结果有影响吗？
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D**n
发帖数: 132 | 10 好事
【在 j****e 的大作中提到】
: 我结婚了，究竟是告诉还是不告诉系主任，系主任问我有小孩和结婚没有，我说结婚了
: ，有小孩，对结果有影响吗？
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e*****y
发帖数: 1192 | 11 问道了就要如实回答，其实你到学校去面试，看到你有没有戒指，大家就知道了，不需
问得。
结婚有孩子他们就会考虑two-body的问题，如果你是女的，他们会考虑你老公是不是会
愿意和你过去，如果学校在一个经
济发达地方，可能没什么顾虑，如果学校在的地方基本上除了和大学相关的没有什么工
作机会，那就是个问题。
【在 j****e 的大作中提到】
: 我结婚了，究竟是告诉还是不告诉系主任，系主任问我有小孩和结婚没有，我说结婚了
: ，有小孩，对结果有影响吗？
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d*******n
发帖数: 1339 | 12 directly ask him how this is related with the position? And depending on the
answer, decide if you want to reveal the truth or just keep it yourself
【在 j****e 的大作中提到】
: 我结婚了，究竟是告诉还是不告诉系主任，系主任问我有小孩和结婚没有，我说结婚了
: ，有小孩，对结果有影响吗？
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e*a
发帖数: 749 | 13 系主任问你这个私人问题是违法的吧
q
sue
【在 h*****n 的大作中提到】
: seems honesty is the solution, though the chair asked a very inappropriate q
: uestion.
: if the asked question is on record and you do not get the offer, you can sue
: the univ.
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F****t
发帖数: 19 | 14 In my experience, it is not a big deal to ask for marriage status. The
department will figure out anyway.Our department ranks candidates on quality
first, then we talk about availability to decide how to give offers.
Honesty is the best strategy. Of course, you can construct a positive case
for yourself. If you are married, you can tell the chair that your partner
is willing to relocate.Good luck. |
F****t
发帖数: 19 | 15 In my experience, it is not a big deal to ask for marriage status. The
department will figure out anyway.Our department ranks candidates on quality
first, then we talk about availability to decide how to give offers.
Honesty is the best strategy. Of course, you can construct a positive case
for yourself. If you are married, you can tell the chair that your partner
is willing to relocate.Good luck. |
D*********t
发帖数: 370 | 16 Don't be too sensitive. We ask about candidates' marriage status all the
time. If you are serious about the position, you should be prepared for
this question. The intention (on the hiring side) is to show care for you (
and your family). If you have family, we would try to work on your two-body
problem. If you hesitate on this question, we would interpret that you are
not serious about the position.
Many applicants put it on their CV – married (with n children). Even a gay
candidate honest
【在 j****e 的大作中提到】
: 我结婚了，究竟是告诉还是不告诉系主任，系主任问我有小孩和结婚没有，我说结婚了
: ，有小孩，对结果有影响吗？
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z******3
发帖数: 860 | |
c*******n
发帖数: 718 | 18 要帮配偶安排工作 是麻烦的事儿吧
【在 z******3 的大作中提到】
: 有小孩和结婚了是成熟稳定的标志，加分项目啊
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